Jan. 29, 2026

For The Love Of Movies, Shows & Storytime

For The Love Of Movies, Shows & Storytime

On this episode of the This Might Hurt Podcast, the crew kicks back but still cuts deep. Host Big Corleone is joined by the lovely TG Love, the gracious Lady G, and the diabolical Dubs Tha Don as they break down movies and shows that hit close to home the ones that make you think, flinch, laugh, and sometimes look in the mirror a little too long. From unforgettable scenes to characters that feel way too real, nothing’s off limits. Then it’s time for Storytime, where the hosts pull from real-life experiences, raw moments, and unapologetic truths that don’t always come with a happy ending. It’s entertainment, reflection, and real talk all wrapped into one, no filters, no safe spaces, just honest conversations… because at some point, This Might Hurt!!

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S S S S S S YO except everybody this

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big holy on of this My Herd podcast being joined

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here by the lovely TG Love. How are we doing.

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I'm doing good.

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That's that's awesome. That's great. How was your week? Well

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two weeks really because we haven't been on.

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It's no like crazy. They did a crap job clean

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in our parking lot, and I'm like fighting for my spot.

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So like I'm every day I leave work and I'm

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like praying that I have a spot when I come home.

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It's ridiculous.

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Oh parking spot.

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No, I have the handicap, but there's only two spots.

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My one neighbor uses the other spot. And now there's

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somebody else who comes here sometimes who also has one,

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So if she gets here before me when she comes over,

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then I'm stuck.

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Ah.

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But I'm going to request for a reserve, like a

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reserve spot, so I don't have to deal with this.

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Yeah, that makes sense, That's what I would do.

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Take care of it. Yeah, Oh I heard my door.

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I thought the cats were out, but the cats are

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in here with me. That just means Hubby got home.

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All right, So I got I got some some emails.

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Here mm hmmm, and why finish my dinner?

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All right? Why not? We're live. You know, I did

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have a drink somewhere. I don't know where it went.

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Drink.

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Hopefully it's not anywhere near the desk where I can

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swing and knock it over, because that would be disastrous. No,

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it wouldn't be good at all. All right, So email, Yes,

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I got an email from someone. I'm assuming it's a

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it's a woman. Her name is Polly Pocket. So Polly

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Pocket says, this is the title of an email. I

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told my partner I wanted to be Polly, and now

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we might have to break up. I'm devastated. Yeah, my

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partner and I have been together for three years. We

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had talked about being Polly at the very start of

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our relationship, but monogamy fits our needs better at the time.

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I started to realize as years went by that I

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was happiest when I was poly. I here sexual mono

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and heterosexual monogamy made me frequently feel trapped into a

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role I did not quite fit. I decided to tell

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my partner that I wanted to open the relationship. I

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was scared he would shoot me down, but I was

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expecting it. He surprised me by saying he was on board.

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We immediately yeah. We immediately started talking about the details

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and intricacies of our future relationship, how we wanted to

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handle things, boundaries, etc. So I was excited and so

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grateful to have a partner who was on the same

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page as me. I was really excited for this new

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chapter in our relationship. However, I noticed as we kept

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discussing it, he kept getting more and more disinterested and

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asking me more jealous driven questions. Last night, as we

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were driving home from a party, he finally said it,

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he is not interested in polyamory. He felt like he

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was being backed into a corner, and while initially excited,

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he was very happy in our relationship and didn't want

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anything and didn't want anyone else. I love him so much.

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I want to marry this man, have children with him.

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I love him endlessly, but I do not know if

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I can truly be happy with him while denying this

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part of myself. I'm at a fork in the road

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and I and I don't know which path to take.

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It's so painful that I don't know what to do.

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Any and all advice will be appreciated. Thank you from

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Holly pocket.

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Mm hmm, see that Polly life. It ain't for everybody.

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It's just it isn't. So my first taking it all in, yeah,

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I wrote some things down. They did the right things,

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the right steps, but then that jealousy aspect came in,

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which means he can't He can't really do it. He

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was saying yes to please her. My thing is, yes,

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you would marry this man and have his children. However,

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why would you want to marry someone and have children

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with someone who can't support the kind of relationship that

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you want to have that That's where I go with this, really,

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like that's the first thing that I went to was like,

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he isn't the one. He may be great, there may

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be yeah, and it's gonna be sad. And I, of course,

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we hate when things don't work out with somebody that

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we've invested time, emotion, like love, finance and all that

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shit in a relationship. But you have to be real

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with yourself. What's gonna make you happy? You already said

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what's going to make you happy? Do not deny yourself

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that because the person you thought was gonna have this

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life with you?

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Right? Because they she said they did discuss this way

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before right relationship.

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He can't do it, So I don't think he should

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be forced into it. That is totally respect respectful of

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her to be like, you know, I need to respect

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his choice. He doesn't. It would be too much for him.

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He can't have an open heart that way. So move on.

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I know, easier said than done, but like, let's be real,

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like you're not gonna have the relationship you want to have.

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I don't think it's fair for her to give that

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up either.

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You know what happened. You know what happens if she

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gives that up.

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A lack a lot of that, A lot of that

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for sure. I mean it's heartbreaking. Like, like I said,

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you invested in this person thinking it was gonna be

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something else and it isn't. Unfortunately, Like, don't. I would

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never force somebody like this to me? Is the the cue,

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the the big hello, We're not like, it's not gonna work.

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You want to talk about red flag, there's your red

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flag and it's a huge one for you because he

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can't fulfill something that you need.

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So sorry, So they don't. They don't do this. They

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he's not done with it. What's what's the what's the

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biggest what would what what would be the biggest obstacle

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for him? If he decided, you know what, baby, let's

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let's let's do this. I thought about it. I love you,

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I care about you. I want to I want to

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try and work this out. What's the what's what would

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be his biggest obstacle? Though?

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I don't know that's on him. What is his obstacle

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now that's not allowing him to do it? I don't

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know that he's jealous. That's all I'm getting is that

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there's an element of jealousy, but that is already something

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that's fact. You can't get away from having some jealousy,

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you know what I'm saying. In life with people, it

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just happens. We always want something more or something or

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someone else or what do you know, Like there's always

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something And I just think, I mean, he if he

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he is open to trying something, and if you know,

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if it's too much, because if they're they have the

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boundaries they've discussed that they're constantly communicating and they're not

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breaking boundaries, then it could be a great thing. But

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can he be okay with another guy being around? Can

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he be okay with her kissing someone? Else or in

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break you know, being intimate with another person. And I

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don't know how she wants the open relationship right, because

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there's multiple ways of doing this where you can just

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agree with your partner that you can date other people.

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But at the end of the day, you guys are

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together and you have a home together or things like that,

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right and you talk about it. It is not if

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you talk about it like you find you find peace.

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I don't know how to explain it. Like there was

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a big jealousy component for me in the beginning, but

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then I was just like, wait, like he's mine, I'm

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married to him, He's married to me. Like, at the

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end of the day, it's going to take a lot

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to get rid of that. Like it's not just something

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we can just walk away. I mean he could, but

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and so like, and my my situation is a whole

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completely different situation than you know, my own story. But

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I think people just have this idea like Polly is

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a certain way, but it isn't. It's it could be

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different things. There are people who have like a community

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and they just like I'm not saying that everyone is

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sleeping together. It's more of like there people who want

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a family, and the woman that gets married to the

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man is the queen, and then their sister wives or

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like other women who and these women help they they

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can also have children. There's stuff like that, like people,

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because you know there's the Mormons who love like huge relationships.

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What does that say, I can't carry.

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You'll never be truly happy otherwise it will end badly.

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The more you hide yourself.

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It's true, it's true, Like you'll regret You'll regret it,

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you know, and then you bring kids into the picture,

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Like no, you know what I'm saying, Like you watch

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someone who you can have kids with, who is understanding

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of all this and is down with you.

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Yeah, yeah, definitely, because you damn see, I'm not I

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get it. Don't get it. The the whole idea of it.

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I understand like I have. I mean, it's probably nothing

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like the TV shows and the ship you see on TV,

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because it's more to it than what you see.

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I mean, you can watch the shit on TLC. Like

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there's a lot of stuff out there so that you

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can actually see people's lives, what they're like. Like I

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would watch I would check out off the grid. Those

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are people that they really like. I don't know how

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they do shit. I don't know how they do this.

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They go live out and where there's nothing and they

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make it happen like I don't know, it's crazy. I like,

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And that's one of the people I saw that were Polly.

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I built, he bought land built a house for them,

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like they were shitty outside for a while because they

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didn't have a bathroom like you know.

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But he there was a show a long time ago

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on HBO called Big Love.

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Yes, Big Love was about Mormons and and the church

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and how all that. Yeah, that was a great show.

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Big Love was a great show.

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Three houses something hold the sack and he owned all

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three houses and he went between all three houses. Ye

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wives and ship. I mean that's crazy, Like.

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I I wouldn't want, like to have another person like

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a sister, like I don't. I don't want that. Like

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adding people to the house is like yeah, and then

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it complicates things that is it's different and stuff like that.

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But I don't know.

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There's just so many ways to do this. I mean,

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every everybody, I don't know. I've heard, like there's people

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who are in relationships who allow their partner.

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To but there's a difference there's a difference between me,

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I mean not belik at me, Pollyamory and swinging.

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Like means you love more than one person, you can

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love more than one person.

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And swinging you're just fucking.

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Is when like if me and my husband went to

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a swing club and there were other people fucking and

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we just get involved. It doesn't have to pay, by lord,

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Swinging is like to go. I mean, it's different. People

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have different rules and that's the thing too, Like people

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have boundaries and rules around this and it isn't like

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a free for all like we've seen in some movies

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and shit like that. Like this is no Womb of

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Thrones broth broth all that, like you know, like it's, uh,

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you can just walk around and watch, you can, you know,

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but the whole goal is to meet other people, is

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to see if you you know, connect in that way

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and if there's chemistry and stuff like that and you

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go for it.

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Yeah, that's that's a little too much for me. Yeah,

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I don't. It's it's I mean, to each his own,

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you know what I mean. If everybody what was into

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that stuff, they could be into that stuff.

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They you know, yes, I agree, Like if it's not

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your thing. It's not your thing, and that's okay. That's

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why it's important to like be with someone or how

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someone who I think.

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I think it's it's all communication. It's all communication because

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if you can't communicate your feelings and you can't communicate

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what it is you think about and what it is

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you want to do, and it's definitely not gonna work, right,

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a bou that that's that sounds confusing enough for me.

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That is, it could be very complicated.

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You know, And I think I also think that how

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do you how do you juggle love?

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Because people fulfill different needs that we have. Sometimes one

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person can't fulfill all your needs. H Look, I know

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I know people couples because get a very long time

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and like, for instance, there's things sexually they don't want

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to do and they're okay if their parder goes and

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gets that somewhere else. Like I mean, that's weird to me,

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but like I get it, Like it's almost like it's

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selfless love because you're allowing someone to get a need

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met that you can't meet, that you can't meet. I

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can't speak basically, but I think like we do that

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or already in our relationships around us with friendships, like

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not everything is sexual, but different people will fulfill certain

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needs that we have emotionally intellectually in you know, like

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there's certain people you're going to go to to have

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a certain conversation. Correct, Like there's certain friends you're going

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to reach out to to get their opinion about something

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specific or so in a way, that's that's relationships. These

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are people, They're fulfilling needs that we have. You know,

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our partner sometimes isn't always the person, right, You can't

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be everything for everyone.

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Yeah, it Amy says depends on your personal belief system

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as well.

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Well, yeah, obviously, like not everyone is gonna be down

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for this, but this is coming from a very open,

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progressive mindset. This is not for, uh, someone who's very

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conservative or very religious. You have very different beliefs and

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a different belief system and that's fine. But you also, like,

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just because you believe different doesn't mean it's not a

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good thing or it's not okay, Like, you know, people

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are different, that's what it is. Like we've only recently

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learned way more about autism and being on the autism

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spectrum as a huge thing. A lot of adults are

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learning that they're on the spectrum and they didn't realize

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it because there was never a diagnosis for that shit

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at one point, you know.

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Right, right, I don't know. I mean, like I said, I.

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Mean, there are people who are asexual and and we

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we actually answered one of those questions before, and their

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partner wants sex, but they don't want it. So, you know,

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would you really be like, how do you expect someone

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who has a need you're not fulfilling it. They need

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that need fulfilled. You're not going to give it to them.

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They're gonna get it somewhere else. So when you actually

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take away that secrecy, it changes the way you see

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things and can be open and honest. You know, there's

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a difference between uh, physical sexual connection and emotional connection.

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To me, emotional cheating is worse than someone just sleeping

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with somebody like that's me because when you make an

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emotional connection with someone like that's something real, like you're

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starting to have feelings that to me is way more

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involved than you just fucking somebody one night and that's it.

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You know, Like, whatever the excuse may be, I'm not

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saying it's right I'm just saying, like, to me, the

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emotional cheating is is worse.

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Yeah, because you put your put in a lot of

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yourself you know what I'm saying. You put in a

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lot of your your heart and your energy into this

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other person when you should be home doing that shit

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with with a woman. If if you know what I'm saying,

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I mean that's yeah, Yeah, you're right.

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You got a lot of people saying, well, I can't

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talk to them? Why why why can't you talk to

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the supposed person who is supposed to be the love

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of your life, who is supposed to be a writer

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or die or whatever the case may be in the situation.

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Why couldn't If you can't talk to your partner, that's

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a huge red flag that it's something that you really

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need to like fucking talking to yourself and a therapist about.

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Because nah, like, yeah.

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Yeah, you're absolutely right. I mean, how the hell? How

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the hell can you be with someone share things with

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someone that you actually really can't share shit with.

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Right, you know? I to me, that's it's bullshit because

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why wouldn't you give your partner an opportunity, the opportunity

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to hear your truth or where whatever it is that

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you need to share how you're feeling or whatever. Look,

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I there's instances I get people get easily annoyed after

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a while in relationships, or their patience isn't as much

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To me, that's a problem. I feel like you got

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to take a step back and like be like, what's

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going on? Why can't you know? My book comes home,

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he's bitching about work. It's gonna happen. People bitch about work.

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But when the person just is like, oh, shut up,

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Like I don't want to hear this anymore. You know,

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that's not supportive. That's not me, that's not somebody.

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I mean if you're sitting there and you're trying to

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have a conversation about your feelings and about what you're

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going through and about what's what's going on, you feel

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what's going on in relationship and your party doesn't want

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to be a ship after it's ship, but he doesn't

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want to hear you. Don't hear you. That's a problem.

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That's a big fucking problem.

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Yeah, because it's like damn, like where like relationships will

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start start with a friendship? Where's our friendship? Because I

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should be able to talk to my friend, I should

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be able to bitch about my day to my friend,

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and my friend is supposed to be like, yeah, you're right,

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you know, like or you know, I'm sorry you had

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to deal with that, Yeah, and not just cut somebody off.

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This is a long comment.

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Hold up, okay, read it?

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Okay, But what if the other person you're some kind

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of fucking with doesn't share much after you've had sex

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with them?

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What do you mean share much?

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Maybe there's no communication after the fact or not. Maybe

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I don't know, be more specific. Yeah, but yeah, it's

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it's it's all about it's all about communicating your feelings.

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It's all about, really, you know, finding that that connection

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with your partner that allows you to be who you

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really want to be and who you are, you know.

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I mean, it's it's sad that communication isn't the forefront

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of most of these relationships these days, when it should

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be understanding one another, communicating with other, transparency, you know

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how that saying. I mean, it's it's all it's all important.

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And if you if you find yourself in and this

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is going out to everybody who's listening, if you find

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yourself in a situation where there is no communication or

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there's a lack of understanding and transparency. Open your fucking mouth, bro, like, say, listen,

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but this is what's up. I think you need to

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talk to me. I think you need to express what

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it is that's going on in your head. Don't just

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sit there and look stare at me with that fucking

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dumbfounded look on your face like you don't know what

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the hell is going on. You know what I'm saying,

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because don't don't, don't get me started. You know, you

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need to talk to me. You need to express to

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me what it is you're going through. I can't read

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fucking minds. Bro.

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Yes, but there's also a way to communicate that without

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doing it, without saying all that craziness.

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Oh no, that's just it. Help it right now, you

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know what happens.

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Yeah, I think you if you start your conversation with

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I feel like or I feel that when whatever whatever

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this because it's taking like this is how I'm seeing

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it when you do ship who said what I see?

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No? No, no, no no, no, I'm not because of what

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you said, like you can't say it like that. Yeah,

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she's an exactly MoMA. I agree with you, girl.

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Yeah, I mean I don't know like to me, this

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is very simple, basic, But I've also been just like

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obsessed with relationships and people and all that stuff. So

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like when I watch crazy shows like a Nidi Day

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Fiance and things like that, I'm just paying attention to

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the way people are and seeing the mistakes that people

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are making in the relationship. Half the time I'm yelling

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at the TV like you're an idiot, just fucking say something,

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you know, Like it's it's just boggling to me. But

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I realized too that a lot of the stems from

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what you saw growing up. So like if you didn't

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see a stable, loving, affectionate relationship with your parents, you know,

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chances are you're not going to be expecting that wanting

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that as much in a relationship. We kind of look

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at our parents and set like that's the expectation. This

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is what I'm learning. Like I unfortunately learned that they

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can fuck up, doesn't matter how bad, and we forgive.

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So it was like even if you were disrespected, it

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didn't matter, Like it was almost like your level of

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respect worth and everything didn't matter because that was your

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husband that was the main like, and and it was abusive,

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and it's like, no, you should you were afraid, is

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the truth. You didn't know any better. Yeah, but you

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were also scared to be on your own, and I

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get that, and that takes a lot. However, you always

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put your childure first, like that was my situation with

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my family, and my mom didn't do that. So so

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from that, I have scars and trust issues where I

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tend to do the opposite and trust people too quickly

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or give them the benefit of the doubt because I'm

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so hopeful, you know, because I'm like, oh no, it

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can work out, it will work this time, or this

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was really great. I have stopped that though I no

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longer do that, but that's where I was at at

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most of my life. So so it's it. They say, like,

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don't like hold onto the past, but the truth is

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you need to look back at the past. Yeah, and

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you need to kind of process the past now as

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an adult. Your perspective is going to be so much

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different now.

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Absolutely, And it.

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Was then the things that hurt you, the things that

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made you feel at a way today probably wouldn't because

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you're coming from a different place. You're coming with age,

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you're coming with experience, you're coming with life lessons. Right,

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So they say that you should read your favorite books

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like every once like ten years or something, so that

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you can see if if you like, change the way

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you feel about the book or the perspective of reading.

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Now this story might be different. You may have experienced

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things now that make you understand the book better or whatever.

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Right, so, yeah, you have a different perspective and understanding

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of this shit, you know what I'm saying. I mean,

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that's that's that's all. That's all it is. You just

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gotta reevaluate theircumstances in which you grew up, you know,

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And that's that's that's tough for some people.

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Some people it's hard because a lot of us went

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through really bad ship and a lot of us had trauma,

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and a lot of us had abuse, and a lot

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of us had you know, neglect or whatever. Like there's

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unfortunately that generation, that boomer generation, they were just again

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it was that cycle, that cycle that kept going and

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hopefully were the cycle breakers. That's that's what I try

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to be. That's what I encourage other people to be, Like,

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you have to recognize the cycle and then then you'll

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know how to that You need to break it, and

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then you know how to break it.

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Yeah, So with that being said, Polly pocket.

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Pocket, Oh girl, I know it's gonna hurt. I mean,

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if he's willing to give it a try and see.

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But if it's too much for him, I say, move on. Yeah,

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you deserve to be happy. Everyone deserves to be happy.

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Yeah, and always always keep in mind that, you know,

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if if it doesn't work out and you know you

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have to move.

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On, you can always call it the COO.

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Don't call it, just.

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The fuck out of it?

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Oh man?

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Lord?

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Yeah, all right. So second email the night someone named Debbie.

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All right, Debby, here's the tag on the email. I

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had a threesome with my boyfriend and his twin. I

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think they're in love with each other and I'm freaking out.

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Oh shit, all right, here we go. All right, this

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is weird. I know it's even weirder to post this

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on your site. But I'm very confused right now and

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I feel kind of dumb. Me and my boyfriend have

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been dating for about a year, and I'm usually the

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type of girl that's up for anything. Our sex life

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is amazing and we have a We have good communication

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in general. We go to the same university. We live

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about ten minutes from each other and in other words,

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things are good. His twin brother was always in the picture,

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and I knew they were really close even before we

473
00:34:04.279 --> 00:34:10.920
started dating. But I thought that was just normal. Honestly,

474
00:34:11.599 --> 00:34:16.400
it might be just that I'm overthinking. I honestly don't know.

475
00:34:17.760 --> 00:34:21.800
Yesterday we were in bed and out of nowhere. He

476
00:34:22.000 --> 00:34:27.880
asked me what I think about threesomes and whether I'd

477
00:34:27.920 --> 00:34:32.639
be okay with having one with his brother. After a

478
00:34:32.639 --> 00:34:37.880
lot of convincing, I agreed, and fine, you can judge

479
00:34:37.880 --> 00:34:45.719
me all you want. I just thought i'd try it. Listen, Debbie,

480
00:34:46.000 --> 00:34:47.280
there is no judgment here.

481
00:34:47.480 --> 00:34:49.239
Look at that bucket list.

482
00:34:49.519 --> 00:34:52.679
Just keep look at the name of the show. This

483
00:34:52.760 --> 00:34:57.599
is not a judgment zone. Okay, all right, all right,

484
00:34:57.639 --> 00:35:02.760
so con all right. So after a lot of convincing,

485
00:35:02.800 --> 00:35:05.400
I agreed, and fine, you can judgement you want. Blah

486
00:35:05.400 --> 00:35:08.719
blah blah. I read that, and the way he described

487
00:35:08.760 --> 00:35:12.760
it made it seem less crazy than it sounds as

488
00:35:12.760 --> 00:35:19.440
I'm writing it now. Okay, Okay, anyways, long story short,

489
00:35:20.159 --> 00:35:25.039
The actual threesome was okay. At first. I was uncomfortable,

490
00:35:26.119 --> 00:35:30.199
but my boyfriend initiate. But my boyfriend initiated it and

491
00:35:30.360 --> 00:35:35.559
was fine not to get into much detail. You're fucked

492
00:35:35.639 --> 00:35:39.079
up right there because you really like details. Yeah, so

493
00:35:39.119 --> 00:35:43.039
you really should have got into details. But anyway, but

494
00:35:43.159 --> 00:35:45.719
there was a few red flags that kept coming up

495
00:35:46.440 --> 00:35:59.840
which I can't stop thinking about. For starters. For starters,

496
00:36:00.559 --> 00:36:06.440
they started kissing each other, Okay, okay, a lot amongst

497
00:36:06.559 --> 00:36:10.920
other things that I really can't get into here. But

498
00:36:11.000 --> 00:36:14.679
I was just but it was just off. Now. I

499
00:36:14.760 --> 00:36:17.440
know this sounds. I know how this sounds. I know

500
00:36:18.119 --> 00:36:20.920
I shouldn't have agreed from the start, but I did,

501
00:36:21.679 --> 00:36:24.360
and as a result, I can't look at him the same.

502
00:36:25.440 --> 00:36:28.559
It feels like he was trying to tell me he's

503
00:36:28.599 --> 00:36:33.079
in love with his brother or something. It's just really confusing,

504
00:36:33.119 --> 00:36:35.480
and I have no idea how to open the subject

505
00:36:35.559 --> 00:36:40.800
up like it like it is, like is it even

506
00:36:40.920 --> 00:36:45.960
my place? Sorry in advance for this weird ass freaking email,

507
00:36:46.719 --> 00:36:50.320
but I needed to share it. Thank you. Any advice

508
00:36:50.360 --> 00:36:51.840
would help. Debbie.

509
00:36:53.960 --> 00:36:57.519
Oh, Debbie, first mistake you made was doing something you

510
00:36:57.559 --> 00:37:01.840
weren't one hundred percent on board with. Right, So, like

511
00:37:01.880 --> 00:37:06.239
we talked about before, doing something to please someone else,

512
00:37:07.039 --> 00:37:10.400
don't do it. You have to be on board.

513
00:37:10.400 --> 00:37:10.639
Wah.

514
00:37:10.719 --> 00:37:13.039
Just something told you this is not a good idea.

515
00:37:13.239 --> 00:37:16.559
You should have stuck and listened. But now that you didn't,

516
00:37:17.840 --> 00:37:29.199
now that the blood it commenced, and seriously, I would

517
00:37:29.199 --> 00:37:31.719
not deal with that man anymore.

518
00:37:33.840 --> 00:37:33.960
So.

519
00:37:35.920 --> 00:37:40.320
I know twins are close. I know there are siblings

520
00:37:40.320 --> 00:37:43.639
out there that are really discussing. They'll shower together, they'll

521
00:37:44.679 --> 00:37:50.760
there's no boundaries. I don't think that's okay.

522
00:37:51.519 --> 00:37:52.400
Let's clarify that.

523
00:37:54.039 --> 00:38:03.440
I want to classify that boundaries belong. Yes, especially with family. Okay,

524
00:38:03.719 --> 00:38:10.119
there are things that are borderline in sense ancestual, and

525
00:38:10.159 --> 00:38:21.400
that's what I'm hearing. Because kissing is a lot, very

526
00:38:22.119 --> 00:38:28.119
very intimate. Also means that they did things to each other. Yeah, okay,

527
00:38:28.199 --> 00:38:31.800
we don't even need to say yeah. So that means

528
00:38:31.920 --> 00:38:34.039
this probably happens without.

529
00:38:33.679 --> 00:38:36.599
Her, that's wrong.

530
00:38:37.920 --> 00:38:41.679
Or they use a threesome as an excuse to do this,

531
00:38:43.199 --> 00:38:49.239
which could be the case too. Now, are loving, loving

532
00:38:49.280 --> 00:38:55.639
your siblings, but we ain't fucking siblings. Nah, bro, there's codes,

533
00:38:55.719 --> 00:39:04.000
there's laws for a reason. Oh girl, I'm sorry you

534
00:39:04.000 --> 00:39:07.400
did this to yourself. But at the same time, like

535
00:39:07.559 --> 00:39:09.920
you can write write about it in your book in

536
00:39:10.000 --> 00:39:15.280
of ten years, I mean, but like, that's that's crazy.

537
00:39:15.360 --> 00:39:17.480
I'm sorry, Like that's even too much. You know how

538
00:39:17.519 --> 00:39:19.679
open I am about things, and that is just way

539
00:39:19.719 --> 00:39:25.920
too much. And I've seen like very weird shit. I

540
00:39:25.960 --> 00:39:30.360
watch TC just go on TOC and just watch any

541
00:39:30.400 --> 00:39:33.480
of their goddamn shows, especially once with siblings. It is

542
00:39:33.559 --> 00:39:38.880
disturbing or the mom's super disturbing. Boundaries are important, and

543
00:39:40.280 --> 00:39:43.400
I always find it weird, like when people will put

544
00:39:43.480 --> 00:39:47.000
like their parent about their partner or because it's like

545
00:39:47.039 --> 00:39:51.639
you're supposed to live your life like your parents always

546
00:39:51.719 --> 00:39:54.280
going to be your parent. Your sibling is always going

547
00:39:54.360 --> 00:39:57.960
to be your sibling, you know. But if you're down

548
00:39:58.000 --> 00:40:01.440
to be intimate with your sibling, you have a serious issue.

549
00:40:02.760 --> 00:40:05.760
This is like an episode on a Lore and Order

550
00:40:05.880 --> 00:40:10.360
SBO that I think I've watched, so this might her podcast,

551
00:40:10.440 --> 00:40:13.519
got it is, but this could have been a Loren

552
00:40:13.639 --> 00:40:22.199
Order story right now. It's just it's crazy. Oh that's crazy, that's.

553
00:40:22.559 --> 00:40:25.119
But just but just hold on for a second. Pick

554
00:40:25.280 --> 00:40:28.159
just just look. Listen to the camera, Look at the camera.

555
00:40:30.039 --> 00:40:34.440
You're having sex with your boyfriend. His brother comes in,

556
00:40:35.280 --> 00:40:37.960
they start making out in their twins and you're looking

557
00:40:38.000 --> 00:40:40.960
at them and you're like, what the fuck.

558
00:40:41.760 --> 00:40:43.960
First, I'm like, I don't even know who's who with

559
00:40:44.079 --> 00:40:48.920
the like which one is my boyfriend? I don't even know.

560
00:40:49.159 --> 00:40:50.800
You know what I'm saying, like, you're looking at them.

561
00:40:51.679 --> 00:40:57.199
If they're identical anyway, And and yeah, I kid says

562
00:40:57.199 --> 00:41:01.440
a lot. So so that's why I'm saying, like, that's intimate,

563
00:41:01.519 --> 00:41:07.840
that's that's crazy. No, please get them to a therapist

564
00:41:08.159 --> 00:41:10.639
or something like, oh my god, you might.

565
00:41:10.519 --> 00:41:12.400
Want to fuck the therapist. I mean, I don't know.

566
00:41:12.679 --> 00:41:17.639
I mean, no, no, she's crazy. That's just crazy.

567
00:41:19.039 --> 00:41:20.199
That's now.

568
00:41:20.199 --> 00:41:23.039
You guys are on the line somewhere and they totally

569
00:41:23.039 --> 00:41:29.199
went over the line. Yeah, they fucking they when the line?

570
00:41:29.599 --> 00:41:31.920
Now the question the question This is a good question though,

571
00:41:33.159 --> 00:41:35.800
Who took it? Who who took at the distance? Was

572
00:41:35.920 --> 00:41:39.360
the brothers for asking her or was it her for

573
00:41:39.480 --> 00:41:41.159
actually trying to see what the ship was going to

574
00:41:41.199 --> 00:41:41.559
be about.

575
00:41:43.960 --> 00:41:49.280
I mean, he was gonna ask her regardless, but her

576
00:41:49.400 --> 00:41:52.079
dumbass decided to listen to him instead of what she

577
00:41:52.199 --> 00:41:56.880
really wanted. Right, she shouldn't have done it. I don't know,

578
00:41:57.559 --> 00:41:59.840
I don't know. It's down the line. So maybe it's

579
00:41:59.880 --> 00:42:03.280
a good thing that happened, because what if she got

580
00:42:03.280 --> 00:42:06.880
even more invested in this relationship and down the line

581
00:42:07.239 --> 00:42:10.639
something happens or she gets to see this or finds

582
00:42:10.639 --> 00:42:13.719
out about them or something, you know, that would be worse.

583
00:42:14.800 --> 00:42:18.280
So maybe it's good that you decided to to take

584
00:42:18.320 --> 00:42:21.079
that chance, and then you got to see that that

585
00:42:21.280 --> 00:42:28.000
man and his brother need therapy badly. Wow brothers, Oh

586
00:42:28.039 --> 00:42:33.440
my god? Possibly like oh my god. No, like I'm

587
00:42:33.480 --> 00:42:37.039
telling you, I get it. The sibling thing is like

588
00:42:37.280 --> 00:42:43.280
there's oh my god, but there's still boundaries, like there's

589
00:42:43.360 --> 00:42:44.920
still things you don't.

590
00:42:44.679 --> 00:42:55.840
Do, right, Oh, Lauren, Yeah, that's let's get it over.

591
00:42:56.760 --> 00:43:01.159
What a lucky therapist. If they do go, that's gonna

592
00:43:01.159 --> 00:43:02.079
be in seat.

593
00:43:02.320 --> 00:43:06.480
You're definitely making man. But we know one of them

594
00:43:06.519 --> 00:43:18.960
is going to be like one of them is going

595
00:43:19.039 --> 00:43:20.480
to be crying for sure.

596
00:43:22.000 --> 00:43:31.679
That is insane. Those were very very good emails. Questions, yeahs,

597
00:43:31.760 --> 00:43:34.280
but now I am changed forever. I kind of wish

598
00:43:34.320 --> 00:43:36.679
we didn't hear that story.

599
00:43:40.920 --> 00:43:44.920
Oh Ship, what are we doing here?

600
00:43:45.480 --> 00:43:49.039
I don't understand bring them though, Kate Bringo's crazy This

601
00:43:49.119 --> 00:43:50.119
question alone.

602
00:43:49.840 --> 00:43:54.079
Them, Oh Ship, that's fucking hilarious show.

603
00:43:55.039 --> 00:43:58.280
Oh Debbie, oh lord, yeah.

604
00:43:59.760 --> 00:44:05.000
Day, I think I think so. Do you think it's

605
00:44:05.079 --> 00:44:09.320
it's it's it's worse when you have two brothers. Oppose,

606
00:44:10.000 --> 00:44:13.199
I mean either way, it's bad if you had two sisters.

607
00:44:12.760 --> 00:44:16.480
And then your two sisters too, like, I don't care

608
00:44:16.519 --> 00:44:20.800
if it's women and they're it would probably be because

609
00:44:20.840 --> 00:44:30.159
it's women, but your fucking sisters. Why don't you bring

610
00:44:30.159 --> 00:44:34.280
your mom to What the fuck this is weird?

611
00:44:35.360 --> 00:44:36.159
Oh ship?

612
00:44:36.920 --> 00:44:38.360
Oh my god?

613
00:44:38.599 --> 00:44:38.679
No?

614
00:44:39.880 --> 00:44:49.559
Like in my book, like and cousin, two siblings, parents, nobody, No, No,

615
00:44:49.800 --> 00:44:53.159
family should be fucking. You shouldn't be sucking your stepdaddy

616
00:44:53.440 --> 00:44:56.679
or your step mom. You shouldn't be fucking your uncles

617
00:44:57.159 --> 00:45:01.480
or your aunts. Like, no, no, your cousin. No, don't

618
00:45:01.519 --> 00:45:02.239
do it.

619
00:45:03.519 --> 00:45:06.800
Yes, that's that's yeah, damn.

620
00:45:06.559 --> 00:45:09.719
Bro, don't do it? Please?

621
00:45:13.480 --> 00:45:15.480
And what if she ended up knocked up from the

622
00:45:15.519 --> 00:45:17.480
brother that wasn't her boyfriend.

623
00:45:17.239 --> 00:45:21.840
Which, no, she wouldn't know. She wouldn't know if they're

624
00:45:21.880 --> 00:45:25.360
identical twins, they have the same DNA, she wouldn't know

625
00:45:25.440 --> 00:45:30.559
which one is the father. That's terrible, that's crazy, right right,

626
00:45:31.480 --> 00:45:37.760
Oh lord.

627
00:45:35.320 --> 00:45:38.000
She wouldn't know. She had taken them both to Morey Moore,

628
00:45:38.039 --> 00:45:39.400
we was gonna be like, I don't know, I can't

629
00:45:39.440 --> 00:45:39.960
help you.

630
00:45:40.159 --> 00:45:41.400
They're both the father.

631
00:45:46.360 --> 00:45:48.079
You are are not the father.

632
00:45:50.039 --> 00:45:57.440
You are, but we're not sure the father a lot,

633
00:46:00.639 --> 00:46:02.199
especially after this show tonight.

634
00:46:02.320 --> 00:46:10.079
Holy shit, Oh god, Okay, I know this is off topic,

635
00:46:10.920 --> 00:46:13.800
but have you seen I wrote it down because I

636
00:46:13.960 --> 00:46:16.920
keep forgetting the title one battle after another.

637
00:46:18.400 --> 00:46:22.480
The movie with DiCaprio. Yes, yeah, you did.

638
00:46:22.360 --> 00:46:28.239
See it, man, I watched it last night. I can like,

639
00:46:28.280 --> 00:46:31.960
I'm still thinking about that movie. I'm still thinking about

640
00:46:32.079 --> 00:46:35.000
the ship that they did to people in that movie,

641
00:46:36.000 --> 00:46:40.239
and I still I'm just like, I'm just like, you know,

642
00:46:40.360 --> 00:46:42.440
I know it's a movie. I know it is fiction,

643
00:46:42.599 --> 00:46:44.880
but there's a lot of truth in there. And there's

644
00:46:44.920 --> 00:46:49.039
a lot like there's some ship they touched on where

645
00:46:49.199 --> 00:46:49.840
I am.

646
00:46:49.840 --> 00:46:53.280
Just like, let me tell you not so much.

647
00:46:53.360 --> 00:46:56.360
That's so relevant. Right now we bring up.

648
00:46:57.880 --> 00:47:03.639
Movies, we can talk about what the topic is for

649
00:47:03.679 --> 00:47:11.360
the night. One of the topics is movies, shows, and

650
00:47:11.519 --> 00:47:13.440
story time. So let's start with the movies.

651
00:47:13.800 --> 00:47:15.559
Well, I don't know if we're gonna get to story time,

652
00:47:15.920 --> 00:47:18.440
but let's with movies.

653
00:47:18.480 --> 00:47:19.440
All right, So give me.

654
00:47:20.280 --> 00:47:24.920
I can't do my top movies. It's it's difficult. I

655
00:47:25.000 --> 00:47:29.079
have like very like I like a lot of different

656
00:47:29.119 --> 00:47:29.760
things like.

657
00:47:29.719 --> 00:47:33.519
A lot, right, you just can't pick a couple of

658
00:47:33.519 --> 00:47:34.159
them that that.

659
00:47:34.119 --> 00:47:37.719
You I agree, I did, But then I also wrote

660
00:47:37.760 --> 00:47:41.599
down all the Best Picture Oscar nominees because I wanted

661
00:47:41.599 --> 00:47:44.440
to ask you to see if you've seen any of them.

662
00:47:44.480 --> 00:47:46.960
But I will give you the movies that I really

663
00:47:47.039 --> 00:47:49.960
love that came off the top of my head. But

664
00:47:50.079 --> 00:47:51.000
I know there's more.

665
00:47:51.239 --> 00:47:54.559
Okay, all right, all right, that's good. You give? Can

666
00:47:54.599 --> 00:47:57.119
you give for the fans of the show that that

667
00:47:57.199 --> 00:48:00.639
are watching a brief description of what you say the

668
00:48:00.719 --> 00:48:02.280
film is like you know what you think?

669
00:48:02.440 --> 00:48:05.960
No, that's too much, bro, Mean Girls If you haven't

670
00:48:06.000 --> 00:48:11.679
seen its, okay, just watching me. Girls got back.

671
00:48:12.559 --> 00:48:13.679
So I see Mean Girls.

672
00:48:13.840 --> 00:48:18.519
Mean Girls is a great fucking movie. Okay, all right?

673
00:48:20.199 --> 00:48:25.800
American history acts, Yes, so American history acts, definitely. I

674
00:48:25.840 --> 00:48:30.239
feel these to be watched by everyone. It is about

675
00:48:30.360 --> 00:48:35.760
the KKK and racism going all the way into prison,

676
00:48:36.679 --> 00:48:43.000
and Edward Norton is the main character. And it is

677
00:48:43.119 --> 00:48:47.960
very graphic. There is some really fucked up shit that happens,

678
00:48:48.639 --> 00:48:55.559
but it is a great story with a great like lesson,

679
00:48:56.880 --> 00:49:00.519
lots of lessons in that movie. I like movies that

680
00:49:00.559 --> 00:49:04.639
are like teach you something kind of you know, like

681
00:49:04.760 --> 00:49:08.000
you get something from it, which reminds me of another

682
00:49:08.000 --> 00:49:11.000
fucking movie that was like that, and I can't remember

683
00:49:11.000 --> 00:49:13.760
the name of it with it had cops.

684
00:49:14.320 --> 00:49:14.880
It was.

685
00:49:16.760 --> 00:49:20.000
Oh man, that's gonna bother me. I gotta figure out

686
00:49:20.039 --> 00:49:23.880
what the name of that movie is. Then I also

687
00:49:24.199 --> 00:49:30.920
really love Constantine. Yes, I love Keanu Reeves, so I

688
00:49:30.960 --> 00:49:36.039
love Constantine. I love like Matrix, but just the Matrix.

689
00:49:36.159 --> 00:49:39.000
I don't really care for too much, too much of

690
00:49:39.039 --> 00:49:42.639
the other ones as much as just the main movie.

691
00:49:43.800 --> 00:49:46.840
John Wick love the John Wick movie.

692
00:49:46.880 --> 00:49:48.480
Did you see did you see? Did you see that?

693
00:49:48.480 --> 00:49:51.880
That other one on one Ballerina? I have not seen

694
00:49:52.159 --> 00:49:53.760
I have not seen three.

695
00:49:53.960 --> 00:49:55.599
No, you haven't seen one.

696
00:49:57.360 --> 00:50:10.159
One Wick. No, I have not seen Warthwick. Okay, oh

697
00:50:10.239 --> 00:50:14.159
my god. I'm trying to think if that movie was

698
00:50:14.199 --> 00:50:16.679
like True Colors. No, that's not the name of it.

699
00:50:16.760 --> 00:50:20.360
I don't know. I think maybe it is that.

700
00:50:20.440 --> 00:50:23.000
Then. Yes, Sean Penn is in the movie, so I'm

701
00:50:23.039 --> 00:50:26.039
a big fan of Sean Penn too. He was great,

702
00:50:26.480 --> 00:50:29.000
great in One Battle After the Man. Did he play

703
00:50:29.000 --> 00:50:32.960
a good villain? Oh? I want I wanted him dead

704
00:50:33.039 --> 00:50:36.079
so many times.

705
00:50:36.880 --> 00:50:39.320
But what Robert Penn.

706
00:50:40.239 --> 00:50:43.480
Yes, that's a really also another movie that touches a

707
00:50:43.519 --> 00:50:50.519
lot on racism. What's the Denzel movie that He's the cop?

708
00:50:50.679 --> 00:50:57.760
The Yes, Training Day was a great movie. What else

709
00:50:57.800 --> 00:51:00.559
did I write? I love Tropic Thunder. I don't give

710
00:51:00.599 --> 00:51:03.239
a ship where anyone says I love that movie. I

711
00:51:03.239 --> 00:51:06.920
can watch it over and over. I do love like

712
00:51:07.039 --> 00:51:09.920
Guardians of the Galaxy. I'm a big fan of Marvel.

713
00:51:11.000 --> 00:51:11.199
Oh.

714
00:51:11.239 --> 00:51:17.000
I love the Batman Begins like that series mm hmm.

715
00:51:17.360 --> 00:51:21.519
But I also love like the cheesy Batman's from before

716
00:51:22.360 --> 00:51:26.679
the ones who like Jim Carrey and Ship like that,

717
00:51:27.000 --> 00:51:33.039
like those were good classics. No, no, I don't know.

718
00:51:33.119 --> 00:51:37.199
I feel like my I don't even think I'm hooked

719
00:51:37.280 --> 00:51:42.559
up to my Wi Fi. I don't know my phone's

720
00:51:42.559 --> 00:51:47.400
being weird. Then I have to change the router Anyway,

721
00:51:47.920 --> 00:51:52.000
off topic. But there's a lot of movies.

722
00:51:52.360 --> 00:51:59.719
Uh, but I Marvel, Yes, I like.

723
00:52:00.119 --> 00:52:05.880
Uh, there's another. There's a few like newer ones like

724
00:52:06.079 --> 00:52:09.239
Moonlight was really good. I tend to like to watch

725
00:52:09.320 --> 00:52:13.800
the movies that are nominated for Oscars and awards and stuff,

726
00:52:13.880 --> 00:52:16.719
just to see if I feel like it was worthy.

727
00:52:17.000 --> 00:52:20.800
You know, type shit, did you see Sinners, then no.

728
00:52:21.039 --> 00:52:21.840
That's on my list.

729
00:52:22.119 --> 00:52:24.119
I have to watch sixteen.

730
00:52:25.320 --> 00:52:28.199
That's a lot, So yeah, I have them on my list.

731
00:52:28.679 --> 00:52:32.960
I have not seen Sinners, but I definitely need to that.

732
00:52:33.079 --> 00:52:34.480
I think I might watch that tonight.

733
00:52:35.440 --> 00:52:37.760
Yeah I would. I would definitely watch that. It's a

734
00:52:37.760 --> 00:52:40.400
really good film.

735
00:52:40.679 --> 00:52:43.880
There's a few I have like on that. We'll get

736
00:52:43.880 --> 00:52:47.519
to that after. But what is your did you pick

737
00:52:47.639 --> 00:52:48.960
like a top or something?

738
00:52:49.199 --> 00:52:53.599
No, I got I got five because I'm also I'm

739
00:52:53.599 --> 00:52:57.800
big into films, So I got I got five that

740
00:52:57.880 --> 00:53:01.400
I really really enjoyed. The first one I got on

741
00:53:01.440 --> 00:53:08.440
the list is Good Fellas. Okay, all right, yeah, Radioda

742
00:53:08.679 --> 00:53:13.519
can't argue radio. You know Robert de Niro all in

743
00:53:13.559 --> 00:53:17.639
one film. Argue with that. The Godfather are too.

744
00:53:18.320 --> 00:53:21.519
Okay, okay, all right, I'll be honest. I've never watched

745
00:53:21.559 --> 00:53:23.320
any of the Godfollowers.

746
00:53:26.159 --> 00:53:30.559
Oh man. So, and then I have the Last of

747
00:53:30.599 --> 00:53:38.119
the Mohicans. Yeah, very good film. It was a really

748
00:53:38.119 --> 00:53:44.079
good movie. I have Avengers Infinity War, not Endgame, the

749
00:53:44.159 --> 00:53:47.480
last one, the one before that when while he's collecting

750
00:53:47.480 --> 00:53:52.000
the stones and when he finally snaps the finger and

751
00:53:52.000 --> 00:53:56.239
everybody starts. Yeah, that film. I thought was actually the

752
00:53:56.360 --> 00:54:01.079
better one out of the two the last two. Another

753
00:54:01.119 --> 00:54:04.599
one Tombstone.

754
00:54:03.800 --> 00:54:06.639
I remember, but I don't think I've watched that one.

755
00:54:07.159 --> 00:54:11.239
Yeah, that's with Val Kilmer. Yes, I got the post

756
00:54:11.280 --> 00:54:13.119
on my wall.

757
00:54:13.119 --> 00:54:16.159
What's his face? Keith is Keith for Sutherland in that one?

758
00:54:16.280 --> 00:54:18.320
Or that you're talking about Young Guns?

759
00:54:19.159 --> 00:54:23.199
Ah, okay, but it's the same kind of it's a Western.

760
00:54:23.480 --> 00:54:24.239
It's a Western.

761
00:54:24.519 --> 00:54:24.760
Yeah.

762
00:54:25.719 --> 00:54:28.760
And then I have I have some honorable mentions here.

763
00:54:29.559 --> 00:54:33.559
Oh boy boy, yeah, yeah, yeah. One of them is

764
00:54:34.480 --> 00:54:35.320
Vanilla Sky.

765
00:54:36.360 --> 00:54:40.599
Oh that was a good one. Oh you you just

766
00:54:40.679 --> 00:54:43.840
made me think of Robin Williams movies.

767
00:54:44.800 --> 00:54:47.400
I know he wasn't in that, but well there's one.

768
00:54:48.000 --> 00:54:50.920
There's one that Robin Williams did call What Gamis May Come.

769
00:54:51.440 --> 00:54:53.320
Oh my god, I was just thinking of that. That

770
00:54:53.679 --> 00:54:54.880
is an amazing movie.

771
00:54:55.760 --> 00:55:01.280
Yes, Insomnia he did with al Pacino. Yes, Yes, that's

772
00:55:01.320 --> 00:55:03.840
a good one. There's a ton of a ton of his.

773
00:55:04.119 --> 00:55:07.920
Good Morning Vietnam was really good. There's a lot of those.

774
00:55:07.960 --> 00:55:10.280
And then the first movie I ever saw in the

775
00:55:10.320 --> 00:55:13.960
movie theater that I could remember is the animated Transformers,

776
00:55:14.000 --> 00:55:17.880
the movie in nineteen eighty six. Oh wow, yeah, that one,

777
00:55:18.239 --> 00:55:22.280
and then Scarface, but this is the difference, not the

778
00:55:22.280 --> 00:55:26.679
one with al Pacino, the original from nineteen thirty two. Okay,

779
00:55:27.480 --> 00:55:31.320
that that Scarface is the one that really really got

780
00:55:31.360 --> 00:55:35.360
me because you can see the similarities between both films,

781
00:55:36.000 --> 00:55:37.800
the one with al Pacino and the one from nineteen

782
00:55:37.840 --> 00:55:39.559
thirty two. A lot of people don't know about that one,

783
00:55:39.599 --> 00:55:42.960
but it's definitely a good watch. It's interesting to watch

784
00:55:43.719 --> 00:55:46.760
to see how they got they got from they got

785
00:55:46.760 --> 00:55:50.639
the source material from this film. It's really good. So

786
00:55:52.320 --> 00:55:54.559
and I think I think it really set the groundwork

787
00:55:54.760 --> 00:55:57.400
for a lot of the gangster films we see today,

788
00:55:57.920 --> 00:56:01.159
you know what I'm saying, Because there weren't really a

789
00:56:01.199 --> 00:56:06.000
lot of crime films in the thirties, right, the thirty two.

790
00:56:06.280 --> 00:56:10.800
I mean there's a lot of like love stories, I think, right,

791
00:56:10.840 --> 00:56:12.079
it was more like romance.

792
00:56:12.119 --> 00:56:22.360
Shit. Yeah, so those are those are my movies. So

793
00:56:22.400 --> 00:56:24.079
what do you have for shows?

794
00:56:25.400 --> 00:56:27.719
Oh? God, I didn't even touch that because I have

795
00:56:27.800 --> 00:56:29.599
like eight million shows I love.

796
00:56:30.960 --> 00:56:32.719
Okay, I mean.

797
00:56:33.000 --> 00:56:36.400
Let's see, I love Breaking Bad. I thought that was

798
00:56:36.400 --> 00:56:44.119
an amazing show. The Wires aren't just the New Black.

799
00:56:44.199 --> 00:56:47.760
I didn't finish watching that, but that was definitely something

800
00:56:47.760 --> 00:56:51.119
I thought was good at least the first few seasons.

801
00:56:51.199 --> 00:56:52.320
Yeah, the first few seasons.

802
00:56:54.559 --> 00:56:58.079
There's actually I feel like I like a lot of

803
00:56:58.119 --> 00:57:01.440
the shows on Netflix, Like, I feel like Netflix actually

804
00:57:01.679 --> 00:57:07.400
has a good reputation with their shows, and then they

805
00:57:07.440 --> 00:57:09.719
have a lot of like those short series so it

806
00:57:09.800 --> 00:57:12.440
just feels like a long ass movie just broken up,

807
00:57:13.079 --> 00:57:15.000
and I like those a lot.

808
00:57:16.199 --> 00:57:17.480
Do you watch documentaries?

809
00:57:18.039 --> 00:57:19.400
I love documentaries?

810
00:57:19.679 --> 00:57:22.840
You see did you see the one called the Long Shot?

811
00:57:24.400 --> 00:57:24.639
Yes?

812
00:57:25.280 --> 00:57:29.960
Yes, I did, Yes, yes, that they actually caught on

813
00:57:30.119 --> 00:57:34.400
fucking camera. Yes, that was a crazy story. So love

814
00:57:34.480 --> 00:57:38.119
stories like that, Like I love true stories. I love

815
00:57:38.199 --> 00:57:43.719
true crime. I used to love sitcoms back in the

816
00:57:43.800 --> 00:57:47.639
day because that's what we had, right, So yeah, I

817
00:57:47.760 --> 00:57:51.880
was huge, Love Love, Love, Will and Grace, Parks and Rec.

818
00:57:54.440 --> 00:57:58.719
I'm trying to think I had another show. Uh Like,

819
00:57:58.800 --> 00:58:03.320
I like Seinfeld, but it wasn't like huge, Like I

820
00:58:03.400 --> 00:58:07.280
like Parks and Rec more than Seinfeld. I like The Office,

821
00:58:07.360 --> 00:58:11.960
but I like Parks and Rec more. Like I'm trying

822
00:58:12.000 --> 00:58:14.960
to think what else? Uh? WILLI and Grace is like

823
00:58:15.039 --> 00:58:17.440
one of my favorites. I can watch that shit over

824
00:58:17.519 --> 00:58:20.440
and over. That's the thing too, Like the shows that

825
00:58:20.519 --> 00:58:22.480
you could just watch over and over, even if it

826
00:58:22.559 --> 00:58:25.679
was in the background, Like those are the good shows

827
00:58:25.800 --> 00:58:29.119
because it's just like constantly just there, which I love.

828
00:58:29.880 --> 00:58:37.719
So Friends is another one that I watched. I feel though,

829
00:58:38.199 --> 00:58:42.519
like so my perspective on Friends has changed as I

830
00:58:42.559 --> 00:58:45.800
got older, because I feel like it was just a

831
00:58:45.840 --> 00:58:52.519
bad representation of people who live in the city because

832
00:58:52.639 --> 00:58:58.079
like all they were all white. They were you know,

833
00:58:58.199 --> 00:58:59.960
like there was just a lot of things like it's

834
00:59:00.199 --> 00:59:03.360
coffee place, but there were times they didn't have jobs.

835
00:59:04.719 --> 00:59:07.360
You're probably saying, so white people don't act like this.

836
00:59:08.960 --> 00:59:13.679
And just like the apartment and like all all this

837
00:59:13.800 --> 00:59:18.559
stuff and like like Joey probably didn't pay rent all

838
00:59:18.599 --> 00:59:22.000
the time. So Chandler was the one really like holding

839
00:59:22.000 --> 00:59:23.719
it down. Which I'm sure there are roommates out there

840
00:59:23.760 --> 00:59:26.320
like that, but like it just it was just like

841
00:59:26.360 --> 00:59:30.360
there's a lot about it that I'm just like, nah, whatever, So.

842
00:59:30.320 --> 00:59:33.039
I don't care a duck and a chick.

843
00:59:33.159 --> 00:59:37.320
I mean that I love Phoebe, Like that is the

844
00:59:37.320 --> 00:59:39.639
one thing I will say about that show, Like Phoebe

845
00:59:39.719 --> 00:59:43.199
is probably my favorite character. Like there isn't anything that

846
00:59:43.239 --> 00:59:45.679
she didn't do that like didn't make me laugh because

847
00:59:45.880 --> 00:59:49.760
she was just so silly and like her songs. Her

848
00:59:49.800 --> 00:59:52.519
Smelly Cat Like was one of my favorites.

849
00:59:52.719 --> 00:59:55.039
Said she had her brother's kids.

850
00:59:55.719 --> 01:00:02.840
She had her brother's kids, the triplets, it's right, and

851
01:00:02.920 --> 01:00:05.719
it did emotionally damage her. She was so sad that

852
01:00:05.800 --> 01:00:08.079
she had to give them up. If you remember, she

853
01:00:08.239 --> 01:00:12.559
wanted to keep one. So but she didn't sleep with

854
01:00:12.599 --> 01:00:16.159
her brother, so that's okay, that's different. She was a surrogate.

855
01:00:16.239 --> 01:00:21.639
That's a completely different. But yeah, there was. I was

856
01:00:21.679 --> 01:00:24.599
trying to think what else because there were other shows.

857
01:00:26.239 --> 01:00:28.920
I mean, there were shows back in the days like

858
01:00:29.039 --> 01:00:34.559
Full House and Family Matters and just all that shit.

859
01:00:34.639 --> 01:00:40.840
I remember alf I remember Punky Brewster, the one with

860
01:00:40.880 --> 01:00:41.559
the girl.

861
01:00:41.440 --> 01:00:45.920
That was a robot. Ye hold on, I know, I

862
01:00:45.960 --> 01:00:48.960
know the name of it, Small Wonder.

863
01:00:49.119 --> 01:00:52.320
Small Wonder. And there was another one about time where

864
01:00:52.360 --> 01:00:54.480
the girl would do like this or something and she

865
01:00:54.480 --> 01:00:56.800
would stop tying. Did you remember that one?

866
01:00:57.559 --> 01:00:59.280
You than me then? Because I don't remember that.

867
01:01:00.199 --> 01:01:07.880
I am not. You are older than me. Unbelievable. Oh see,

868
01:01:07.960 --> 01:01:10.320
even the long time then it was like, yo, that

869
01:01:10.440 --> 01:01:15.639
was wrong, like, don't do that.

870
01:01:16.199 --> 01:01:17.480
I don't remember that one.

871
01:01:18.039 --> 01:01:20.639
I just saw what crazy thing is? I just saw

872
01:01:20.679 --> 01:01:23.119
it on Facebook too, like on one of those eighties

873
01:01:23.159 --> 01:01:26.400
pages that shares like the old shows. I gotta look

874
01:01:26.440 --> 01:01:29.079
for it and I'll share it with you because when

875
01:01:29.119 --> 01:01:32.559
I saw it is when I remembered it. I think

876
01:01:32.639 --> 01:01:34.880
if you see it, you might remember it. And then

877
01:01:34.880 --> 01:01:38.880
I because I remembered it was like a special power

878
01:01:38.920 --> 01:01:41.400
that she had. Like I'm wondering if this was a

879
01:01:41.519 --> 01:01:46.119
Nickelodeon show or if it was like on TV like

880
01:01:46.239 --> 01:01:48.719
Punky Brewster and stuff like that, because it was I

881
01:01:48.760 --> 01:01:52.760
feel like around that time, and Nickelodeon started coming out

882
01:01:52.760 --> 01:01:54.239
with the shows later, right.

883
01:01:54.719 --> 01:02:02.360
Yeah, in the nineties, yeah one o one oh. Yeah,

884
01:02:02.400 --> 01:02:04.880
because I didn't say it. I didn't say I just

885
01:02:04.880 --> 01:02:06.199
want to let you know. I didn't say it when

886
01:02:06.280 --> 01:02:09.559
Midnight three one seven and seven, nine two one oh,

887
01:02:09.639 --> 01:02:10.400
Let's get it straight.

888
01:02:11.320 --> 01:02:13.920
Nine two o was a show the one saying that

889
01:02:14.000 --> 01:02:19.000
you were like saying that was a great show. And

890
01:02:19.039 --> 01:02:22.440
then there was Melrose Place, like they couldn't help themselves.

891
01:02:22.840 --> 01:02:26.079
I didn't like nine because it just wasn't relatable. It

892
01:02:26.159 --> 01:02:30.440
was like rich Beverly Hills kids like all wanting to

893
01:02:30.599 --> 01:02:35.320
date each other like whatever, dude, Like I think there

894
01:02:35.400 --> 01:02:39.440
was the other show with Claire Dean's was it on

895
01:02:39.639 --> 01:02:41.519
MTV that one?

896
01:02:42.440 --> 01:02:43.960
Don't I don't know that one.

897
01:02:44.480 --> 01:02:48.159
Oh, yes you do, everyone does. I can't remember.

898
01:02:51.480 --> 01:02:53.639
I'm not going my life is that?

899
01:02:53.800 --> 01:02:54.320
Is that the name?

900
01:02:55.400 --> 01:02:57.119
But I'm not going front. There was a show I

901
01:02:57.199 --> 01:03:01.239
used to watch that that was on the c W,

902
01:03:01.239 --> 01:03:05.119
which is eleven back then it's still It was called Roswell.

903
01:03:06.239 --> 01:03:10.239
Yes, I watched that. That was good, but that they

904
01:03:10.320 --> 01:03:12.639
canceled that show, didn't they after like a couple of

905
01:03:12.639 --> 01:03:16.760
seem Yeah, that was a good show, wasn't it about like,

906
01:03:16.960 --> 01:03:22.599
uh Roswell New Mexico. Yeah, I remember with Aliens and

907
01:03:22.679 --> 01:03:26.400
ship that was that was the cool show. Mm hmm.

908
01:03:26.800 --> 01:03:29.880
But yeah, and they I hated that though, like when

909
01:03:29.920 --> 01:03:32.039
they good, like what we think is a good show

910
01:03:32.440 --> 01:03:34.639
they were watching and they fucking they end that ship.

911
01:03:34.719 --> 01:03:37.400
I'm like why it was so good? But then they

912
01:03:37.440 --> 01:03:42.239
give Hunting Wives another season? This it was my so

913
01:03:42.360 --> 01:03:46.000
called life. But then they give that stupid show Hunting

914
01:03:46.039 --> 01:03:49.280
Wives another season on Netflix and I'm like why because

915
01:03:49.320 --> 01:03:52.480
everybody's fucking is that why? I don't understand.

916
01:03:52.880 --> 01:03:55.400
I don't think everybody of the show.

917
01:03:57.719 --> 01:04:04.480
Hunting Wives softcore porn and for all you guys out there, Yeah,

918
01:04:04.480 --> 01:04:08.639
this is like skinnamax. That's exactly what it is. Oh

919
01:04:08.679 --> 01:04:14.079
my god, it's so crazy. It's the craziest show. And

920
01:04:14.079 --> 01:04:17.320
I watched it and like that. The last episode made

921
01:04:17.360 --> 01:04:19.960
me feel like Game of Thrones last season, where they

922
01:04:20.039 --> 01:04:22.559
just kind of like threw it all as everything they

923
01:04:22.599 --> 01:04:26.519
could into that last horrible I'm like, why would you

924
01:04:26.599 --> 01:04:29.440
do that? This is horrible. You're like rushing into things,

925
01:04:29.480 --> 01:04:31.280
and then all of a sudden, these things are happening.

926
01:04:31.280 --> 01:04:34.000
I'm like, bro, this show is whack. And then they're

927
01:04:34.039 --> 01:04:36.440
like coming with season two. I was like, no, you

928
01:04:36.599 --> 01:04:44.760
damn housewives watching these horrible shows. Why?

929
01:04:45.000 --> 01:04:48.920
Oh man, all right, let me let me give you mine.

930
01:04:49.159 --> 01:04:51.800
I have the Sopranos.

931
01:04:52.360 --> 01:04:52.840
Mm hmmm.

932
01:04:53.760 --> 01:04:55.880
I have Boardwalk Empire.

933
01:04:57.079 --> 01:04:57.719
I didn't watch that.

934
01:04:58.679 --> 01:05:01.920
It's said during the pro it's a very good show. Okay,

935
01:05:02.559 --> 01:05:10.559
the Wire, of course. I like Ozark was good. The

936
01:05:10.599 --> 01:05:13.199
first few seasons of Power I watched a lot.

937
01:05:13.039 --> 01:05:17.000
Of I started to watch Power, but I didn't finish

938
01:05:17.000 --> 01:05:18.400
I have Stars though I probably should.

939
01:05:18.960 --> 01:05:23.199
Yeah, and all the spinoffs are pretty good. Okay the

940
01:05:23.239 --> 01:05:26.840
spin off one of them just finished, but there's another one.

941
01:05:26.960 --> 01:05:29.719
There's two more I think coming out that are gonna

942
01:05:29.719 --> 01:05:34.800
be interesting to watch, and then honorable mentions. Now, look,

943
01:05:35.960 --> 01:05:41.599
I know I'm not from the South. I know, I

944
01:05:41.599 --> 01:05:46.199
don't know. I don't know shit about oil drilling. But

945
01:05:46.360 --> 01:05:51.000
that show land Man, it's really fucking good. Bro.

946
01:05:53.719 --> 01:05:56.039
It's a show like a reality.

947
01:05:56.400 --> 01:06:02.400
Series on It's on Paramount. It's cool man, Paramount.

948
01:06:02.440 --> 01:06:03.119
Sorry not doing it.

949
01:06:03.599 --> 01:06:07.760
In amazing bro crazy. I was like when they told

950
01:06:07.800 --> 01:06:09.519
me about it, I was like, what the fuck am

951
01:06:09.519 --> 01:06:11.840
I gonna do? Watch the show about oil drilling and

952
01:06:13.039 --> 01:06:17.079
country dudes and ship the first episode, I was hooked.

953
01:06:17.480 --> 01:06:22.920
Oh wow, I was hooked. Land Man is is. Yeah,

954
01:06:22.960 --> 01:06:27.159
it's a really, really, really good show. Actually, I changed

955
01:06:27.159 --> 01:06:31.280
the name from a Pregidenta to the Landman. That's my

956
01:06:31.400 --> 01:06:36.400
name now, the lamb Man. Okay, it's a really it's

957
01:06:36.440 --> 01:06:39.800
a really good show. I was. I was. I'm very

958
01:06:39.800 --> 01:06:43.239
happy with it. And I'm still up to episode seven

959
01:06:43.280 --> 01:06:46.360
of season two. It's almost over. It finished already on

960
01:06:46.400 --> 01:06:50.159
Paramount the second season, so I got like three episodes

961
01:06:50.159 --> 01:06:52.480
four episodes left before I'm done with the second season

962
01:06:52.480 --> 01:06:57.440
that I'm all caught up. What else did you ever see?

963
01:06:58.239 --> 01:06:59.840
Dead to me? On Netflix?

964
01:07:00.119 --> 01:07:02.920
Mm? Hmmm, that's a good one. I didn't see the

965
01:07:03.039 --> 01:07:08.159
last season. I want to rewatch it.

966
01:07:08.280 --> 01:07:10.480
Actually, yeah, that one was good.

967
01:07:11.639 --> 01:07:12.920
I like Christian male Gabe.

968
01:07:13.679 --> 01:07:21.800
Yeah what else? Like? I didn't Now, I wasn't a

969
01:07:21.840 --> 01:07:26.400
fan of the final season of Stranger Things, but up until.

970
01:07:26.079 --> 01:07:30.039
Like, oh, I loved all of it. Stranger Things is

971
01:07:30.079 --> 01:07:33.000
on my list too. I love Things. That was a

972
01:07:33.000 --> 01:07:33.559
great joke.

973
01:07:35.320 --> 01:07:38.280
And I posted this ship all right. I posted something

974
01:07:38.280 --> 01:07:43.360
that said, and this was weeks before the finale, and

975
01:07:43.800 --> 01:07:46.400
I got it. It's on It's on the book, it's

976
01:07:46.440 --> 01:07:50.079
on the fan page. I said, look, if this ship

977
01:07:50.360 --> 01:07:58.440
ends okay with the kids finishing a game a fucking

978
01:07:58.639 --> 01:08:01.960
d n D, I'm gonna flip ship. And let me

979
01:08:02.000 --> 01:08:05.719
tell you why I said that. Okay, did you ever

980
01:08:05.880 --> 01:08:11.519
watch Lost? No, so you have no idea how it ended.

981
01:08:11.679 --> 01:08:13.960
But you know that there was like seven seasons of that.

982
01:08:13.960 --> 01:08:19.199
Ship, right, Yes, I know how it ended?

983
01:08:19.800 --> 01:08:23.319
All right. Isn't that some fucked up bitch ship?

984
01:08:23.680 --> 01:08:26.359
Yes, but this is not the same Stranger Things.

985
01:08:26.439 --> 01:08:29.560
I know. But what I'm saying is it ended stupidly?

986
01:08:30.359 --> 01:08:33.399
No, it ended showing that going.

987
01:08:33.960 --> 01:08:38.960
No, I'm talking about Lost, oh Lost? Sorry, it ended

988
01:08:41.520 --> 01:08:43.520
like how the hell do you make us watch all

989
01:08:43.560 --> 01:08:47.199
this ship? And it ended with somebody like waking up

990
01:08:47.239 --> 01:08:49.680
like it was a it was a fucking dream.

991
01:08:49.520 --> 01:08:54.800
Right like, and and.

992
01:08:54.640 --> 01:08:56.399
I was, and I was, and I was watching I

993
01:08:56.439 --> 01:09:00.640
was watching the finale The Stranger Things. I was. I

994
01:09:00.720 --> 01:09:03.520
was watching Mike type his story out, and I started

995
01:09:03.520 --> 01:09:06.439
saying to myself, Yo, what if it's just what if

996
01:09:06.479 --> 01:09:08.800
this is his story? Like what if it? Then then

997
01:09:08.800 --> 01:09:13.439
they showed they showed the survival guy, So what if

998
01:09:13.680 --> 01:09:15.520
what if this was one whole big thing for his

999
01:09:15.600 --> 01:09:16.439
survival guide?

1000
01:09:16.840 --> 01:09:19.840
You know what I'm saying? Like I was, Yeah, I was,

1001
01:09:20.279 --> 01:09:24.479
but they didn't do that. So they just nodded to

1002
01:09:24.560 --> 01:09:27.039
it because that's what brought them together. And then there

1003
01:09:27.079 --> 01:09:30.720
was the next generation of kids do it playing the game.

1004
01:09:31.119 --> 01:09:33.640
So that's that's what that was about.

1005
01:09:34.239 --> 01:09:37.600
It's like the ending of Sopranos, bro like I wish,

1006
01:09:37.600 --> 01:09:40.039
I felt I felt unfulfilled.

1007
01:09:41.680 --> 01:09:45.800
Game of Thrones, there was so much that last season.

1008
01:09:45.880 --> 01:09:52.039
The way they ended things was so disappointing. It was

1009
01:09:52.119 --> 01:09:55.520
just like it's because it is, like you put it.

1010
01:09:55.720 --> 01:10:01.159
You watch all these fucking years of seasons and that

1011
01:10:01.399 --> 01:10:04.079
and most times we waited, you had to wait for

1012
01:10:04.119 --> 01:10:06.199
the episode to come out. It wasn't like we were

1013
01:10:06.239 --> 01:10:10.640
binge watching all of it. Then you're you're fucking watching waiting,

1014
01:10:10.760 --> 01:10:12.680
and then you're waiting to watch it and you watch

1015
01:10:12.720 --> 01:10:16.520
it and you're like, what the fuck just happened? This

1016
01:10:16.560 --> 01:10:17.520
is ridiculous.

1017
01:10:18.079 --> 01:10:20.760
See. And then we got some comments about the ending

1018
01:10:20.800 --> 01:10:24.479
of the Sopranos, right, yeah, but a lot of people,

1019
01:10:24.760 --> 01:10:28.199
a lot of people don't under they don't understand about

1020
01:10:28.199 --> 01:10:32.880
the ending is that they talked about it a couple

1021
01:10:32.960 --> 01:10:36.239
of episodes prior so him and Bobby if y'all, if

1022
01:10:36.319 --> 01:10:39.359
y'all watched the show, it was an episode I think

1023
01:10:39.399 --> 01:10:42.079
called family something. It was in the six season, the

1024
01:10:42.159 --> 01:10:46.159
last season part b like the third episode in him

1025
01:10:46.199 --> 01:10:50.279
and Bobby chilling on the lake and they were talking

1026
01:10:51.680 --> 01:10:53.840
and he says to Bobby, he asked Bobby, he was like, Yo,

1027
01:10:53.880 --> 01:10:57.920
what do you think happens when you die? And Bobby says, Oh,

1028
01:10:58.000 --> 01:11:02.159
I don't know. I'm assuming everything just goes black mm hmm.

1029
01:11:03.560 --> 01:11:06.000
And then he was like, that's that's what the thing happens.

1030
01:11:06.039 --> 01:11:09.199
You don't think you know, the light, the light and nothing.

1031
01:11:09.239 --> 01:11:11.159
He was like, no, I think everything just goes black.

1032
01:11:11.199 --> 01:11:15.239
I mean you're dead. So that's how it ended. He

1033
01:11:15.600 --> 01:11:19.199
sees his wife, he sees his daughter coming in, and boom,

1034
01:11:19.560 --> 01:11:20.800
everything just goes black.

1035
01:11:21.760 --> 01:11:25.399
You have to assume that maybe there's a connection, that

1036
01:11:25.600 --> 01:11:26.119
there is a.

1037
01:11:26.079 --> 01:11:29.680
Death, that there was a death. So that's what I

1038
01:11:29.680 --> 01:11:32.000
got out of it. I wasn't that upset because I

1039
01:11:32.039 --> 01:11:36.640
pay attention. Wow, So that was that?

1040
01:11:37.840 --> 01:11:38.880
Oh that's gross.

1041
01:11:39.960 --> 01:11:42.359
Yeah. I wouldn't choose and I wouldn't have been into that.

1042
01:11:43.319 --> 01:11:44.399
That was a bad Yeah.

1043
01:11:44.600 --> 01:11:50.159
Yeah, oh man, oh man, that's yeah. Now you're gonna

1044
01:11:50.159 --> 01:11:51.680
have to wash it down with something that's gonna taste.

1045
01:11:51.720 --> 01:11:56.479
When I was going and I think I'd like almost

1046
01:11:56.520 --> 01:11:58.560
out here, I got more than I do.

1047
01:11:59.520 --> 01:12:03.840
Yeah, that's terrible. Why did you even do that to yourself?

1048
01:12:05.000 --> 01:12:05.840
I don't know. I'm hungry.

1049
01:12:07.039 --> 01:12:14.399
So yeah, all right. So with that being said, do

1050
01:12:14.439 --> 01:12:17.119
you have any of the shows in mind?

1051
01:12:19.279 --> 01:12:24.119
Well, no movies, because I'm going to get into the

1052
01:12:24.159 --> 01:12:25.279
Sinners like you told me.

1053
01:12:25.840 --> 01:12:28.880
Yes, Sinners is an amazing film.

1054
01:12:30.079 --> 01:12:32.640
Another one on the list is Frankenstein. Have you seen

1055
01:12:32.640 --> 01:12:32.960
that one?

1056
01:12:33.000 --> 01:12:39.199
The one on De Toro? Very good movie.

1057
01:12:39.439 --> 01:12:42.520
Okay, I'm going to check that one out. There's one

1058
01:12:42.520 --> 01:12:44.840
called Marty Supreme, but I don't know what that is.

1059
01:12:45.600 --> 01:12:49.640
I haven't heard that one that's on Peacock. I actually

1060
01:12:49.680 --> 01:12:55.079
want to watch that. Okay, The Sinners one called Sentimental Value,

1061
01:12:55.800 --> 01:12:56.359
I don't know.

1062
01:12:57.399 --> 01:12:58.640
I haven't heard that one either.

1063
01:12:59.279 --> 01:13:06.079
Ham next, no idea. There's one called f one that's

1064
01:13:06.119 --> 01:13:06.680
on Apple.

1065
01:13:07.119 --> 01:13:13.840
Yeah, that's with okay, but do you know it's a

1066
01:13:13.960 --> 01:13:15.560
racing movie.

1067
01:13:15.640 --> 01:13:21.239
Oh okay. Then there's one called The Secret Agents.

1068
01:13:21.920 --> 01:13:23.199
That's a show, right.

1069
01:13:24.279 --> 01:13:26.399
No, I think it's a movie because it's her best picture.

1070
01:13:27.640 --> 01:13:30.560
Oh I haven't. I haven't seen that one either.

1071
01:13:30.880 --> 01:13:33.159
And there's another one that's on Netflix, so I'm gonna

1072
01:13:33.199 --> 01:13:35.199
check it out. It's called Train Dreams.

1073
01:13:36.680 --> 01:13:39.640
I assume dreaming about trains. I mean, I don't know.

1074
01:13:39.840 --> 01:13:40.720
I have no idea.

1075
01:13:40.920 --> 01:13:41.359
I don't know.

1076
01:13:41.479 --> 01:13:45.039
Has anyone out there seen any of these movies? Are

1077
01:13:45.079 --> 01:13:48.680
they worth watching? I have no idea. Obviously, I can't

1078
01:13:48.680 --> 01:13:50.720
watch all of them because they're not all on Like,

1079
01:13:50.920 --> 01:13:54.039
I can't watch something that's on Apple. I don't have that.

1080
01:13:54.199 --> 01:13:56.560
But I am going to check out the ones that

1081
01:13:56.640 --> 01:13:59.520
I can watch on like Max that have Max Peacock

1082
01:13:59.600 --> 01:14:02.479
and that's like so I'm gonna see what I could watch.

1083
01:14:02.560 --> 01:14:07.600
But I don't know. I will say, like I really

1084
01:14:07.720 --> 01:14:12.640
like if if I'm still thinking about a movie like

1085
01:14:12.720 --> 01:14:15.800
a day later and stuff or just things about a movie,

1086
01:14:15.840 --> 01:14:18.840
to me, that means that movie was a good fucking

1087
01:14:18.920 --> 01:14:22.319
movie because it made an impact on me right where

1088
01:14:22.439 --> 01:14:26.640
I'm still thinking about shit that went down in that

1089
01:14:26.760 --> 01:14:31.720
movie and how I really look at the acting and

1090
01:14:31.800 --> 01:14:35.640
I feel like if you're yelling at the TV at

1091
01:14:35.680 --> 01:14:40.279
them or whatever, or like you're like what are you doing?

1092
01:14:41.119 --> 01:14:45.279
Like they're playing their character well, you know, like I

1093
01:14:45.279 --> 01:14:48.760
think Leonardo Dicapito did a great job in his role,

1094
01:14:49.600 --> 01:14:53.479
Like he played someone who was drunk and high all

1095
01:14:53.479 --> 01:14:59.279
the time basically, and and you could tell that he

1096
01:14:59.319 --> 01:15:01.640
didn't really think shit was going to go down the

1097
01:15:01.680 --> 01:15:06.800
way it went down, right, so he wasn't prepared. But

1098
01:15:06.800 --> 01:15:11.239
but it's just crazy like from inception even what's her name,

1099
01:15:11.319 --> 01:15:17.439
Teana Taylor? She yeah, she did a phenomenal job.

1100
01:15:17.880 --> 01:15:18.720
She like.

1101
01:15:20.680 --> 01:15:23.359
She left you kind of just like what the fuck?

1102
01:15:26.279 --> 01:15:29.720
So to me that was like okay. Then, so then

1103
01:15:29.920 --> 01:15:35.159
like the twist that happens later and the the things

1104
01:15:35.199 --> 01:15:38.880
that go on, and just I think, to me, what

1105
01:15:39.119 --> 01:15:45.199
hit hard was just like how easy certain people can

1106
01:15:45.239 --> 01:15:50.399
get away with murder or like how easy someone can

1107
01:15:51.039 --> 01:15:58.600
if in the right position, right, like just go after someone.

1108
01:15:58.680 --> 01:16:01.800
Like that's crazy to me. You don't have a whole

1109
01:16:01.880 --> 01:16:02.479
tribe with you.

1110
01:16:03.279 --> 01:16:06.399
You know what? What movie fucking not fucked my head up,

1111
01:16:06.439 --> 01:16:11.720
but kind of got me Vanilla Sky. Yeah, So I'm

1112
01:16:11.760 --> 01:16:13.760
sitting there watching it and I'm like, all right with

1113
01:16:13.960 --> 01:16:17.439
chilling and everything. And he goes when he says to him,

1114
01:16:17.680 --> 01:16:22.560
they're here because of you. You can control them. You're

1115
01:16:22.600 --> 01:16:25.000
their god. And he was like, yeah, I just wish

1116
01:16:25.039 --> 01:16:27.720
everybody would just shut the fuck up. And when they

1117
01:16:27.800 --> 01:16:30.239
all shut up, he was like and I was now

1118
01:16:30.239 --> 01:16:32.119
was saying, like, what the fuck is going on here? Like,

1119
01:16:32.119 --> 01:16:32.640
what's this shit?

1120
01:16:32.880 --> 01:16:34.800
I need to watch that again because It's been a

1121
01:16:34.840 --> 01:16:37.039
long ass time since I've seen that movie.

1122
01:16:37.560 --> 01:16:39.640
And then when he goes, when he goes, when he's

1123
01:16:39.800 --> 01:16:45.079
when he calls, when he finally calls for tech support,

1124
01:16:45.279 --> 01:16:47.760
I was like, what the fuck is happening. He gets

1125
01:16:47.760 --> 01:16:50.239
in the elevator and he starts to explain to him

1126
01:16:50.439 --> 01:16:53.640
what happened, and then he says to him he goes.

1127
01:16:54.520 --> 01:16:56.600
The part that really got this, the part that really

1128
01:16:56.640 --> 01:17:01.119
got me, is when he says consequences, the choices we

1129
01:17:01.239 --> 01:17:05.920
make always have consequences. Yes, he got into the car

1130
01:17:07.000 --> 01:17:10.920
with with that chick and she killed herself with him

1131
01:17:10.960 --> 01:17:14.199
in the car. That's the and and then that was

1132
01:17:14.399 --> 01:17:18.920
that that was the the ultimate consequence to him. He

1133
01:17:19.000 --> 01:17:25.760
had he had spent the night with what's her face with? Uh?

1134
01:17:26.680 --> 01:17:30.279
I forgot the name of the character in the movie already. Yeah,

1135
01:17:31.119 --> 01:17:35.840
well anyway, whoever Penelope Cruz played Okay, her name.

1136
01:17:35.800 --> 01:17:41.760
Was Penelope Cruise was in this okay, and Tom Cruise.

1137
01:17:41.560 --> 01:17:43.399
Right, yeah, and Cameron Diaz.

1138
01:17:45.279 --> 01:17:47.399
Yeah, I gotta watch it again because because I'm also

1139
01:17:47.760 --> 01:17:50.199
the last movie I'm remembering with him that I liked

1140
01:17:50.279 --> 01:17:55.439
was Minority Report. Yeah, that was a good one.

1141
01:17:55.960 --> 01:17:58.520
Sophia, that's the name of the character that she played.

1142
01:17:58.560 --> 01:18:01.159
Her name was Sophia. So he was he had just

1143
01:18:01.159 --> 01:18:05.760
finished chilling with Sofia overnight. He comes outside. Karen Diaz's

1144
01:18:05.800 --> 01:18:08.239
character pulls up and says, oh, you were hanging out

1145
01:18:08.279 --> 01:18:10.920
what's her face? Let's go for a ride, and he was.

1146
01:18:10.960 --> 01:18:13.479
He looked, he looked, and he was like, I shouldn't,

1147
01:18:13.520 --> 01:18:15.039
but he goes. I fucking He gets in the car

1148
01:18:15.159 --> 01:18:18.560
and she kills himself with him in the car. And

1149
01:18:18.600 --> 01:18:24.520
then at some point that's when he he was deformed,

1150
01:18:24.600 --> 01:18:26.399
and it was just a really good film. A lot

1151
01:18:26.439 --> 01:18:28.359
of people don't like it. I don't like Tom Cruise,

1152
01:18:28.399 --> 01:18:30.960
but I thought it was a underrated film. It was

1153
01:18:30.960 --> 01:18:31.359
a good.

1154
01:18:31.640 --> 01:18:35.560
I'm not a fan of his bore because of scientology

1155
01:18:35.640 --> 01:18:40.359
stuff now in the later but like earlier stuff, I like,

1156
01:18:40.960 --> 01:18:43.600
I don't care for Mission Impossible movies, Like they're not

1157
01:18:44.640 --> 01:18:47.159
like a big deal to me. Maybe in the past

1158
01:18:47.199 --> 01:18:49.479
when they first came out, I was into them, but

1159
01:18:49.680 --> 01:18:54.319
like now I could care less and like, I don't know.

1160
01:18:55.560 --> 01:18:57.319
He had some rules that he did a really good

1161
01:18:57.399 --> 01:18:58.279
job in, like.

1162
01:18:58.560 --> 01:18:59.640
And if you were a vampire.

1163
01:19:00.560 --> 01:19:05.479
Oh yeah, that's right. He was good than that, which

1164
01:19:05.520 --> 01:19:07.000
is the one with to show me the money.

1165
01:19:07.880 --> 01:19:08.960
Oh, Jerry Maguire.

1166
01:19:09.680 --> 01:19:13.199
Jerry Maguire, that was really good. He was great in

1167
01:19:13.279 --> 01:19:19.640
Tropic Thunder was he was really good at that movie.

1168
01:19:20.880 --> 01:19:23.000
But yeah, I mean he shows that he can act,

1169
01:19:23.159 --> 01:19:25.840
like he's a versatile actor, so I you know, he

1170
01:19:26.119 --> 01:19:29.079
he knows what he's doing. The Those Guy was was

1171
01:19:29.079 --> 01:19:30.520
a good one. But I don't have to watch that

1172
01:19:30.560 --> 01:19:33.119
one because I don't remember it as much. And then

1173
01:19:33.159 --> 01:19:36.439
you got me thinking of what dreams may come yeah,

1174
01:19:36.600 --> 01:19:40.720
which I haven't seen in a long time. But what's

1175
01:19:40.760 --> 01:19:43.079
the other one that he I enjoy?

1176
01:19:43.199 --> 01:19:46.560
I enjoy movies based on true stories. For example, Roofman,

1177
01:19:47.119 --> 01:19:50.239
which in my opinion, was a good movie. I don't

1178
01:19:50.239 --> 01:19:54.159
think i've ever that's on. I think it's on on

1179
01:19:54.199 --> 01:20:00.960
Netflix now. It's with Roofman. It's with Shannon Tatum.

1180
01:20:01.640 --> 01:20:10.640
Okay, Oh I did see Max has it? The movie?

1181
01:20:11.159 --> 01:20:15.399
Uh about the the I was gonna say, the w W,

1182
01:20:15.760 --> 01:20:17.760
it's not it's the UFC guy.

1183
01:20:18.439 --> 01:20:19.920
Smash smash something.

1184
01:20:20.439 --> 01:20:24.399
Yeah the Rock? Did you I didn't even know it

1185
01:20:24.399 --> 01:20:24.760
was him?

1186
01:20:25.239 --> 01:20:29.640
Yeah, I saw it was Oh you did see its story?

1187
01:20:29.720 --> 01:20:34.399
Yeah? Okay, because I saw it came up yesterday and

1188
01:20:34.439 --> 01:20:36.560
I was like, my friend told me that it was

1189
01:20:36.600 --> 01:20:41.560
The Rock. I'm like, wait what talk. I'm like around, like, man,

1190
01:20:41.640 --> 01:20:43.920
they did good job off this makeup. Holy ship.

1191
01:20:47.079 --> 01:20:53.880
Yeah all right, Yeah, that's a good Listen, some pretty

1192
01:20:53.880 --> 01:20:54.560
good list here.

1193
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Lots of movies, lots of shows, lots of like crazy

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things out there.

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Yeah, like having threesomes with twin brothers. My lord, when

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you find out that you're the one they're not really into, that's.

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A problem, right when you get kicked off the bed.

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Yeah, motion.

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Basically just that's just nuts.

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My Lord Polly Pocket. If you're watching get out while.

1201
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You can, that's straight. You're you're gonna be all right.

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Yeah, you'll be fine. And maybe I don't even know

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what to tell you.

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Get a therapist because that's like that sucks. I can't,

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I can't even right now.

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The House of Dynamite, the ending pissed me off.

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House of Dynamite. I don't think I know one.

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Yeah, all right, let's see our next all right. So

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with that being said, look at the time, anybody wants

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to see something funny, hang around to the end of

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the countdown. Anybody wants to go to fucking sleep, go

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to fucking sleep. Thanks for joining us tonight. We appreciate you, guys,

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Love you guys. So everybody who commented talk ship with us.

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Thanks for the emails. Yes, we appreciate you. Keep them coming, Yes,

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keep him coming. I'm big, coldly on. That's a lovely

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t G love And this has been another episode of

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this Murray podcast. And always remember that at some point

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this good night, good night,