Aug. 2, 2026

Is Social Media Destroying Modern Relationships

Is Social Media Destroying Modern Relationships
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Season 13

Social media has turned relationships into a damn reality show, every argument becomes a cryptic post, every “like” becomes an investigation, and everybody’s got an opinion from the cheap seats. Are couples really in love anymore, or are they just performing happiness for followers while secretly checking DMs, comparing their relationship to strangers, and keeping backup options one swipe away? In this episode of the This Might Hurt Podcast, we’re getting brutally honest about thirst traps, emotional cheating, public embarrassment, relationship “experts,” and why some people protect their passwords harder than they protect their partner’s feelings. Is social media destroying modern relationships, or is it just exposing how broken they already were? Let's talk about it!!

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Says, says, say.

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Hey, what's up everybody, This big coleone of this might

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her podcast coming to you live from you know, anywhere

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you want us to be live from. I mean, so

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use your imagination, and that's where we're live. Okay, I'm

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bringing my my co host TG Love. How are you.

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How's everything?

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Oh wonderful?

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Oh yeah, wonderful, just wonder just just lovely and wonderful.

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Just fucking lovely and wonderful. I'm looking forward to my

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vacation in September. So all right, that's what I'm gonna

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focus on that day.

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I usually got something to focus on, right, Yeah, absolutely absolutely,

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So we're gonna get into We're gonna get into an

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email that we got sent. And the thing about it is,

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it's a big issue, a big topic around everything. It's

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relationships and social media, the problems that social media causes

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in relationships. So, you know, and to be quite honest

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with you, I think I think that's that's a really big,

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big issue, you know what I mean. Yeah, it's a

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big problem because you know, you you sit there and

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you're with someone and you know they have either either

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they have a social media presence or they're just too

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into what's going on in the world of social media

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other than what's going on in your relationship. You know

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what I mean. So I'm gonna read this email and

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we'll discuss see, okay, search go what's the same? H Well?

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Are you? Are you? I'll let you.

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I don't know what what's that say?

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It's on the screen you think I can.

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See on my phone right now with these old guys.

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Oh, hollyians hollis that's how you pronounce it?

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I haven't.

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I don't know. P O L Y N E S

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I A N S. All right, whatever it is?

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What what about this? I don't want to whip out glasses.

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It's the book.

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Anyway, So thank you for the comment. And yeah, so

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this is an email? What's up? This might her crew?

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Social media didn't just damaged my relationship. It dragged that

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shit into the street and ran it over. Every like

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becomes an interrogation, every new follower becomes a suspect, and

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every time one of us picked up the phone, the

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other is wondering who the hell is getting more attention

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and the person sitting right beside them. We stopped talking

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face to face and started communicating through shady posts, indirect captions, screenshots,

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and silent treatments. We looked happy online, but behind closed

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doors we were insecure, angry, suspicious, and slowly becoming strangers.

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The final nail in the coffin was the DMS. Nothing,

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nothing physical happened. At least that's what I was told.

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At least, that's what I was told. That's track right.

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At least I was told I was told. But there

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were hidden conversations, deleted messages, heart reactions, and enough sneaky

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behavior to make me trust, to make trust impossible. By

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the time we realized we were fighting harder over social

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media than we were fighting over each other, the relationship

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was already dead. We gave complete strangers unlimited access to

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our attention while starving each other for love, respect, and reassurance.

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Social media didn't create everything, didn't create every problem we had,

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but it handed But it handed our problem a microphone,

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a spotlight, a front row seat to watch the destroy,

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to watch it destroy everything and us. How can I

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deal with a relationship in the future knowing that social

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media has such a grip on society these days?

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I mean, well, for one, we have the power to

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not let that be the case. I mean, seriously, Sadly,

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it is that simple, Like I totally understand it. I

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get it, because man, I have become very addicted to Facebook.

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I had to delete it off of my home screen

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because it was like habitual that my finger was touching

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it and looking. And what's crazy is a lot of

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the shit that I see is not even my friend's

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stuff now right, It's a lot of pages. You're following, people,

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you're following ads, like you know, whatever your algorithm is

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at the time.

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Algorithm can be funny though, yes, uh, and.

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It really all depends like what you're liking and what

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you're kind of like doing on there in order for

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that to go like go down. So I think we

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we put way too much on social media. I think

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we And when I say way too much, i'd putting

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way too much. I mean, like putting so much around

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what happens on social media, not what you're putting on

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your post and shit like that. I mean, like there

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is this just weird compos that people have that they

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just want attention a lot of people this is the

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only attention they're getting, which like this is not healthy.

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There has to be balance in every in all of us,

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in all of our lives. I'm not saying like you

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can't use social media, because there's good things that come

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out of social media as well. Okay, like you do

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get updated on things. You do get to stay in

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touch with people from back in the day or whatever

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like throughout your life if you want you you know,

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you do get ideas and you know, creative and stuff

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like that as well. But it can also harm you

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in the sense that you can see what people are

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posting sometimes or what they are showing you. Because I've

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always learned that the couples that are having the good

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relationships are the ones that are not posting on Facebook

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and social media all the time.

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Well, well, when you say that, do you mean about

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their relationship or just about whatever in general?

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Correct, like relationship or like also like we got to

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remember too, it's very easy for us, like when we

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get upset that we want to vent about things. And

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I'm not saying it's not good to vent. Definitely need

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to fucking vent right and to the right people, right,

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so big C knows, like I'll go to him sometimes,

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you know when I'm just like shit's going crazy because

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I overthink and it's like, hey, this is what's going

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on you know, like talk to me, you know, and that.

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But I feel like that's you kind of need that

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sometimes just to be able to process shit, to like

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get it, because once you get it out and you're

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like talking about things and stuff like, I feel like

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it's a lot easier to process because you're also hearing

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yourself saying shit out loud and then and then sometimes

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you're just like, oh, it's interesting how I even just

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said that. You know, like you catch yourself with certain shit,

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and it gives you opportunities to like be like wait

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a minute, you know, like but it's also about how

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much time Like that there was a mention about how

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much time you're you're giving, right, your attention shouldn't be

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going to social media all the time, Like if you're

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home with your partner, should be spending time with that.

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When did that stop? Like when did we? Like and

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I get it because Hobby and I go to the

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restaurant sometimes and we're both on our phones and I'll

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catch us and I'll be like, bro, like talk to me,

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like like well right now, but like talk.

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To me, like, you know, you know what else is

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a problem too with reels and stuff you see on

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social media is that once you're looking at all these

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things that people are doing, people are sharing, and you

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start to look at your relationship, like comparing.

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We do that with everything, right, it's not even relationships

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with ourselves. We're constantly comparing seeing what people are doing, like, oh,

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how come this person is doing this and this? And

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then I'm over here struggling and it's like, well, we

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have very different lives and I have no idea what

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that person is really doing in their life, Like yeah, yeah.

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You have those those reels that are like vacations, gifts,

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talking about their or the way they look and the

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picture of the perfect couple, right, pick pictures of healthy relationships,

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and then you look at that and you're saying to yourself,

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where are we going wrong? But that's not the case though.

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Right, Well, look, it's very easy for misinformation to be given, right,

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It's that's how they do it with reels. Reels are quick, right,

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and it gives you the information that you need in

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those things. There are times where like I'll find myself

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seeing shit and then I'll say, hold on, I need

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to make sure this is real, like cause I'm like

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is this legit? Or you know, you have to be careful.

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But that's the same thing with people, you know and

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stuff like that. You got to you can't assume shit,

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and you can't be like looking at other people's stories

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and stuff and being like assuming like you know what's

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going on. Unless you're talking to me directly, you have

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no idea what's going on. Like I could be posting

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shit just because I liked what it said or like

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made me laugh, because there are some you know, memes

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and shit out there really fucking funny, and you want

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to chair that's cool, right, But but I also don't

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agree with people who like post their whole life stories

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for for the wrong reasons, you know, you know, I

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feel like people social media allows you to create a narrative.

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It allows you to create a story that you want

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to give people, so you can be acting and doing

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all this shit on social media, acting like your life

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is good, but meanwhile it isn't. You're miserable, you're lonely,

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you're fucking insecure, you're constantly And that's the other thing,

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Like it becomes too much. People care too much about

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what strangers say, like comments that are bad. We give

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too much power and attention to things that we're not

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going to be able to control, and they're not worth

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our fucking time, right, Like, why am I arguing online

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with some rando? I Like, this person could seriously not

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even be a person, right Like this person could also

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just be somewhere else, and they're doing this purposely, right,

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so to get a rise out of people, because the

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internet has created Internet warriors, it is created an easy

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way for people to just be assholes because they fucking

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want to be and and there's no consequences, so you

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gotta be careful. And also you can't give too much.

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What are these comments because I can't see anything?

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Oh these that that's that's just people saying what's up?

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And then the one before we go any further I

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want to get I have I have to do this.

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I have to send a shout out really quick. Two

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to my boys out there, uh A boy dominic boy

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Joey and my boy Tony. Shout out to you guys,

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thanks for watching, Thank you appreciated, and and and D

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and D. We gotta give a shout out to D

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two because you know she's holding it all down together,

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so you know what's up. Shout out to you guys now, Yeah,

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Keyboard Warriors Internet gangsters. That's what That's what the comments

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are saying right here, Keyboard warriors and their gang bangers

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stuff like that.

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They're like the hardest ever, most gangster. It's ridiculous. But

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honestly a lot of these people don't know their ass

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from their elbow. So it's like, you really are wasting

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energy for no fucking reason none. And I look, I've

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caught myself getting involved in shit, you know, because part

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of you wants to be a solution. You want, like,

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because I was a teacher, I want people to understand

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the facts are facts. So like, I get very upset

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when people just won't accept truth for what it is.

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You know, when they were like, it's such a weird

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time where you know, people will believe something more on

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TikTok uh than they would on an actual news media outlet.

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And I get it, you know. I mean there are

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studies and things being done, people watching.

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What's wild, too, is that when when you get these couples,

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that's that that that start these public arguments. You're not

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you're not doing anything positive by doing that. It's a detriment.

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It's it's humiliating your partner, you know what I'm saying

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like you're you're you're beefing and you're talking all this

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craft about your relationship and instead of going to that

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person directly, you're humiliating them and yourself.

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You're making the person small and you're embarrassing you're both

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embarrassing yourselves basically, because that's not the fucking place for

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that shit. Ever, if you're making your business a public

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why are you making money off of it? Is somebody

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paying for your conflict? Like if you're making money because

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you want some social media shit and they like, then

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I can understand that, you know, like real people having

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real relationships and then airing shit out or just getting

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like this is the same thing with like being angry

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at your partner and going to talk to your friend

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about it instead of talking to them about it. Right,

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Because what's gonna happen if I keep telling you about

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you know that my husband did this all negative shit?

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Are you gonna like my husband.

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Nah, that's a problem.

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You're you're gonna look at him and be like, Bro,

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this guy's a dick, Like what are you fucking doing?

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Right?

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Like, why are you wasting your time? Because I'm I'm

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giving you a perspective that I have. Okay, I'm giving

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you what what I like, my interpretation of what happened. Right,

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they say there's three, Like, there's uh with the truth

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in line, right, everyone has their their version. You know,

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he has a version, she has a version, and there's

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the truth. Right, So that's what I'm saying, Like, which

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is funny because it reminds me of a recent event

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that I just told you about that it's like different perspectives, right,

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one person saw that, another person was this, and yet

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when you go to the other perspective, it's very different.

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It's always different, and it's also two different perspectives because

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it's it's two different people that are two different ages,

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that are two different lives, that have experienced two different

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Like this is the thing that people forget. Like, we

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all have had experiences in our lives. Some of us

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have had really good lives. Some of us have had

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to deal with a lot of trauma. Some of us

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have just had to negate life on our own a lot.

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Some of us lost our parents younger. Some of us like,

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we're we're out here alone trying to figure shit out,

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and like it's hard, but it's easy to get fucking

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roped in to social media because when you're lone, when

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you're lonely or fucking you're sad or happy or whatever

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that mood is like, Okay, let me go see what's

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going on now? Can change though, right, because you can

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fucking see something and freak the fuck out. What does

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that say?

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But yes, happiness should be in private. You got them

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well wishes, people wanting you to jinx the ship, keep

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relationship issues offline.

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Yeah, I agree that there are people out there that

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don't want to see you succeed, and.

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You want to know who those people are. Most of

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them are your exes.

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Well you know what's crazy? Why is it? It's always

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the people that loved you the most, supposedly hurt you

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the most.

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Right, I mean, it makes social media makes it makes

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everything too accessible to everybody.

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Very very accessible, very easy to find out whatever about

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people like And I'm gonna let people know right now

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because at my job they do it. They look at

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your fucking Facebook. So if you have shit public and

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you're looking for a job, oh that they are looking

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at your social media shit to see who you are

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as a person, and if you're constantly fucking posting stupid

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shit and whatnot, I mean, this is why my shit's private,

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like because I get that. Like, and Facebook for me

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is a place for me to share my opinion, to

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share my story, to share what I want when I want, right,

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So why am I? Why am I just gonna allow anybody?

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Like my Instagram is different because it's for a different purpose.

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But my Facebook for me is for me and the

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people that I've connected with throughout the years.

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What's that saying that social media is a place where

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you can fake it and people will believe it.

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Yeah, that's what I'm saying. People will will make a

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story whatever they want for you to see. That's what

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they're gonna do. You know. They're always showing kissing an

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out and doing all this other stuff. Like we've all

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seen it, right, Like we have those friends and those

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were the friends that wound up getting divorced or the

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relationship ended, it was horrible whatever, you know. But the

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people they are quiet, the ones that I hardly ever

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see their shit's working. Why because they're not involving fucking

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the public into their shit. Yeah, Like why would you? Why?

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What is the need for that?

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Something that also really bothers me to about social media

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is that everyone almost everyone, not everyone, almost everyone is

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looking for validation.

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Oh guess what, everyone's looking for validation.

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But hold on. But the thing is, it turns into addiction.

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Of course, attention, getting attention, getting likes, getting comments. It's

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like ooh ooh, you know, like on Instagram, like if

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someone you follow starts following, you were like, oh god,

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oh my god, Like you know, it's just like we're

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acting like these people are are like celebrities and shit

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like that, right, but like they are also on there

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for business and they're fucking making money, Like don't forget

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that too, Like you know, it's for me, it's important

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to remember, like what who who is this person? What

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is what was the message that they're giving me? Like

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I personally like Instagram more just because I feel like

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I get to see who I want to follow more

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and therefore I'm seeing more positivity, I'm seeing more of

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the things. Of course, I follow like new stuff on

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there as well, because I want to be informed on shit.

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But that's not why I go on there for you know,

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Like for me, it's more about ideas or more about

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like reading something and it makes me feel some kind

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of way, and I share it, you know, because like

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especially lately, like when you're going through shit and then

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you read that one meme that's just like god damn it,

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like why are you talking to be like this right now?

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And you're like, I'm gonna share this shit because that's

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what I'm feeling. But again, you have control of what

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you share, what you don't share. You have control of

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what you put out, what the messages you put out. Right,

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you're like what you're presenting yourself as. And I feel

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people don't do that enough, Like they don't look at

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their shit, like damn, I'm ratchet, you know, Like, let's

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change that.

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It's the third trap. It's it's the thirst trap. That's

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exactly what it is. It destroys all kinds of boundaries.

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The thirst trap. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. It's wild.

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And the thing is yeah. The thing is. The thing

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is too, is that people are doing more performing than connecting,

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you know what I mean. People are out there doing

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stupid ship just just they're not they're not looking to connect.

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They're looking just to perform the stupidity that they they

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they've chosen to perform. Instead of connecting with the right people,

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they're connecting with the wrong people. Then you get the

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thirst traps that that, and then the boundaries start getting

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stomped on and everything, and you're wondering why you're getting

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you know, all these kinds of pictures in your inbox

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and stuff and stop, you know what i mean, Like

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just but some people, it could be men and women.

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They they just don't stop. And Okay, don't get me wrong,

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I'm not intimidated by any of those buff, buff dudes

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that are like, yeah, look at my muscles. You know

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what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. I got

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muscles too, bro, Like look at this, Look at this,

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Look at this. You know what I'm saying. I'm not

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I'm not pressed. Come on, I'm not impressed impressed at all.

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It's the gun show, brother, you know what I'm saying. Yes,

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you know, I'm not.

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I'm not impressed impressed.

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Just whatever. It's it's it's so, it's wild. This is wild.

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What's going on? You know what I mean?

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It is it is and it's addictive. It's very addictive.

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It's very easy to like get trapped. Like how many

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times people want to limit themselves. Let's say, right, They're like, oh,

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I'm just gonna go on for whatever, and then you're

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on there and you're fucking just dead dumb scrolling for

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fucking you look up at the time you're like, what

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the fuck? How long have I been doing this? Yeah?

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Like that's that's what it's supposed to do. So so

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it's working. It's doing what it's supposed to do. And

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I think we need to be the ones to recognize

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that we need to take a step back. We need

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to be the ones to be like, bro, this is

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too much, you know all the like. I don't know

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about other people, but I tend to look at I

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get that weekly report from my phone of like how

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much I used my phone, uh, what I was on

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the most, and how much time. When you start seeing

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how much time you've spent like on Facebook, on Messenger,

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on what like whatever is popping up, You're just like,

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what the fuck. There was a point where I was

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playing my games so much that it was like taking

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up like hours on the graph and I'm just like,

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holy shit, what.

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Games are you playing? I got you spending hours on

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your phone?

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All right, I'd rather not. I'd rather not.

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Uh.

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It's like I keep forgetting the name is it royalty something?

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Or I have been playing this game, these two games

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for years now, well the second one had come out

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Royal Pop No anyway, and I play it, well play

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it all the time, so how do I not know

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the name? But anyway, it's basically just matching shit to

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get whatever it. It does give me anxiety when I lose,

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but uh, it's not bad, right because I'm just like

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playing and I just want to win. But it also

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just helps me like kill time sometimes and not think

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about shit or you know, like just get out of

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your head for a little while or just do something dumb.

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But again, these things, though, can become addictive, and so

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the thing is like recognized. So I when I recognized it,

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I was like, damn, I'm not doing this way too much.

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But now I'm I'm just talking to people way too

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much because apparently that's where all my time's going. I'm

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just like, it's not a bad thing though, so but yeah,

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it's fucking crazy. I just see like fucking paragraphs like

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what the hell.

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I want to go? I want to go back to

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a time when you needed to carry a quarter in

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your in your pocket in case you got beeped.

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Let me tell you something, Okay, let's not lie to ourselves.

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We never had quarters and we would always call collect

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and get your whole phone number. Yeah, if you had

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caller ID. If you didn't have caller ID, you had

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to leave the phone number and be like call me back.

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Phone the phone. Remember the phone at Gregory, Yes.

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So there, Yeah, there was Gregory phone. There there was

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another phone too, I think, like on.

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The phone at Gregory.

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Yeah. So that that was crazy, Like people would just

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call this public phone payphone to see like who's at

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the park, which, thinking back now is kind of creepy,

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like what are we doing exactly? And then just like

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giving people the low down like this day and age,

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that wouldn't rock well. But it was like who's there?

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Oh Jesus, it's like I'm stalking someone. Why won't you

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tell me?

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Yeah? Oh, beepers were amazing. Yep beepers.

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Yup.

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I had I had the one. You had to call

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the eight hundred number. You tell them what to say

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and they texted they type it out for you the sky.

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Yeah, I remember that. Yes, that was more progressive, like

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getting you know, moving from one to the other. It

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was very simple. We had codes, right, yeah.

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Hello remember hello? And nine one one.

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Yeah, numbers. Oh my god, yep.

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Then the phone, yeah, the two way pages. Who out

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there right now? Can tell us or remembers two of

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the codes that you would use on the pager? This

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this one picked it up real quick. Look three oh

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four was who?

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Of course we remember? Oh man, I remember one four

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three was I love you? Right?

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I don't know one four three I don't know which

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one was? Hello?

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Zero course no, zero seven seven three four.

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Zero seven seven three four was hello? Yeah?

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Could you just do it upside down?

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Yeah, that's all it was? Yeah, one four three, Yeah,

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it was was Oh yeah, hello was yeah zero seven

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seven three four yeah, hell seven seven? Oh my god,

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that's hilarious. Now, of course not we knew it was

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an emergency. You gotta make that call. If you don't

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have that court, if you wann't buy one of those payphones,

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you screwed.

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One.

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One is a joke. That's funny, man, I remember chilling

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at well. We had we had the two payphones by

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City Hall in h ob and then we had the

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Gregory Phone. And I used to get phone calls at

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the Gregory Phone and it was my house. They used

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to call it that, y'all put loas on the phone

472
00:35:08.719 --> 00:35:11.320
and calling me up like yo, put thas on the

473
00:35:11.320 --> 00:35:12.159
phone Obi and.

474
00:35:12.119 --> 00:35:14.400
All them, oh my god.

475
00:35:15.159 --> 00:35:21.639
And yeah oh man. All right, so we're talking about

476
00:35:21.800 --> 00:35:30.719
the payphones, right, can you tell me the two Can

477
00:35:30.719 --> 00:35:37.760
you tell me the two phone numbers of yeah, yeah,

478
00:35:37.800 --> 00:35:40.719
the two phone numbers for the pay phones at city Hall?

479
00:35:41.559 --> 00:35:43.960
Can you give me those two numbers. Let's see if

480
00:35:43.960 --> 00:35:44.639
you remember them?

481
00:35:44.679 --> 00:35:48.039
They would still remember this ship. I don't. I still

482
00:35:48.079 --> 00:35:50.480
remember my my house number.

483
00:35:51.960 --> 00:35:54.880
I remember mine, my my old my very first phone number.

484
00:35:54.880 --> 00:35:57.800
I remember that one two oh one seven nine two

485
00:35:57.960 --> 00:35:58.679
seven ninety four.

486
00:36:00.559 --> 00:36:03.119
For me, it was two one eight six five two

487
00:36:03.119 --> 00:36:05.159
two four nine mm hmm.

488
00:36:07.039 --> 00:36:16.360
Yeah. So so what's up? Who knows the phone numbers

489
00:36:16.360 --> 00:36:21.280
for the for the hob City Hall payphones. Nobody don't

490
00:36:21.320 --> 00:36:23.079
know what we got. I know we've got some hob

491
00:36:23.239 --> 00:36:23.920
people in here.

492
00:36:26.199 --> 00:36:32.880
If y'all have that kind of memory, seriously, holy shit. Yeah,

493
00:36:32.960 --> 00:36:36.400
I mean I can't even remember people's numbers now because

494
00:36:36.480 --> 00:36:39.119
everything is just like automatic airphone and shit.

495
00:36:40.119 --> 00:36:41.840
Oh, scroll up, Hold.

496
00:36:41.599 --> 00:36:47.639
On, excuse me, my goodness, scroll up?

497
00:36:52.000 --> 00:36:53.440
How far? I gotta scroll up?

498
00:36:53.480 --> 00:36:53.639
Bro?

499
00:36:53.840 --> 00:36:59.679
Like? What are we doing here? I don't see them?

500
00:37:00.400 --> 00:37:02.480
What I'm gonna go look in the comments toptfully I

501
00:37:02.519 --> 00:37:03.599
don't kick myself out.

502
00:37:07.159 --> 00:37:10.880
Nah, I don't see them. Maybe you thought you did.

503
00:37:13.320 --> 00:37:15.639
Oh yeah, I smoked too much.

504
00:37:19.679 --> 00:37:30.480
I only said it three times. Let's see. No, there's

505
00:37:30.480 --> 00:37:31.480
no phone number here.

506
00:37:32.239 --> 00:37:33.679
No, see, I told you.

507
00:37:35.280 --> 00:37:35.360
What.

508
00:37:38.519 --> 00:37:40.920
Nah. Maybe it's not allowing you to put phone numbers down.

509
00:37:41.000 --> 00:37:41.440
I don't know.

510
00:37:42.559 --> 00:37:51.679
It's interesting AI ooh the AI picks. You didn't even

511
00:37:51.719 --> 00:37:59.559
talk about that. That shit's crazy.

512
00:38:00.760 --> 00:38:03.840
It's not coming up. No, it's it's not it's not

513
00:38:03.880 --> 00:38:05.679
coming up in this chat room.

514
00:38:06.559 --> 00:38:10.360
I'm looking right, I'm like literally going through it again.

515
00:38:10.760 --> 00:38:14.880
Like and no, I think I think this this doesn't

516
00:38:14.920 --> 00:38:16.599
allow people to put phone numbers in.

517
00:38:16.760 --> 00:38:21.519
Phone numbers yet. It's probably they don't want nobody.

518
00:38:22.239 --> 00:38:25.159
Yeah, you hit me up, call me after the show?

519
00:38:25.239 --> 00:38:28.559
Was something bro? Yeah, yeah, they don't nobody, they don't

520
00:38:28.559 --> 00:38:32.440
want nobody giving whatever. Yeah, but whatever whatever it is,

521
00:38:32.760 --> 00:38:37.119
you know. Yeah, so that that's what it was, didn't.

522
00:38:36.880 --> 00:38:43.719
Even exist still yeah, like is the payphone even still there?

523
00:38:44.360 --> 00:38:48.119
No, the payphones are gone mm hmm yeah and the

524
00:38:48.199 --> 00:38:54.840
numbers are dead. No. Yeah, So back to this thing.

525
00:38:55.880 --> 00:38:59.000
Yeah, this this is we were talking about social media

526
00:38:59.039 --> 00:39:01.159
and all this stuff, and someone to bring up like

527
00:39:01.199 --> 00:39:06.400
the AI pictures, Like you know, thirst traps all right.

528
00:39:07.360 --> 00:39:13.320
The thing about social media might not pull the trigger,

529
00:39:14.559 --> 00:39:17.559
but it can load the gun with jealousy, temptation, comparison

530
00:39:17.599 --> 00:39:21.679
and disrespect definitely, you know what I mean.

531
00:39:22.639 --> 00:39:28.440
I mean it feeds into ego, pride and all those things.

532
00:39:28.679 --> 00:39:35.320
And it is unfortunate because like we by nature compare

533
00:39:35.360 --> 00:39:40.280
ourselves to others. But I think, like there comes a

534
00:39:40.360 --> 00:39:43.199
time and place, and maybe it's in your forties, I

535
00:39:43.239 --> 00:39:46.519
don't know that you really stop giving a shit about

536
00:39:46.519 --> 00:39:51.159
what other people think and you really start like worrying

537
00:39:51.199 --> 00:39:55.239
about you and what you think about you and your life,

538
00:39:55.840 --> 00:39:58.000
because that's what really matters at the end of the day.

539
00:39:58.039 --> 00:40:00.519
Who the fuck is paying your bills? That's what you

540
00:40:00.599 --> 00:40:05.320
have to ask yourselves, like is this person paying my bills?

541
00:40:05.360 --> 00:40:08.920
Are they paying for my electricity right now or my WiFi?

542
00:40:09.199 --> 00:40:13.840
To have these conversations? No, so move on.

543
00:40:14.639 --> 00:40:22.239
Keep it vang, very very true. So now that we discussed.

544
00:40:23.159 --> 00:40:29.039
The main topic of the show social media, I want

545
00:40:29.119 --> 00:40:34.519
to discuss have you seen that movie?

546
00:40:34.760 --> 00:40:37.639
Don't? Don't? I didn't see it yet. I'm gonna watch

547
00:40:37.679 --> 00:40:39.159
it obsession.

548
00:40:40.679 --> 00:40:45.000
No, I just want it like it's on Peacock. I

549
00:40:45.079 --> 00:40:47.960
just saw because I went to put the news on

550
00:40:48.360 --> 00:40:52.280
and you know, like when the fucking streaming thing opens,

551
00:40:52.320 --> 00:40:54.800
it has a homepage. So the first thing that popped

552
00:40:54.880 --> 00:40:57.280
up was that, right, So I just let it play

553
00:40:57.400 --> 00:41:00.400
because I knew I had heard about obsession. So it's

554
00:41:00.440 --> 00:41:03.280
about like the wish thing, right, and he makes a wish,

555
00:41:03.920 --> 00:41:08.360
the wishes for him for this woman to love him solely,

556
00:41:09.639 --> 00:41:14.519
and he is regretting that wish because she becomes obsessed.

557
00:41:16.199 --> 00:41:22.840
But like, from what I see, the obsession is fucking crazy.

558
00:41:23.000 --> 00:41:27.039
So it's interesting.

559
00:41:27.840 --> 00:41:29.719
I don't care what people think. I have to like

560
00:41:29.880 --> 00:41:32.440
or love my decisions since I got to.

561
00:41:32.440 --> 00:41:35.360
Live with them exactly. That's the thing. You have to

562
00:41:35.440 --> 00:41:42.400
live with your choices and decisions. Yeah, so obsession looks

563
00:41:42.400 --> 00:41:47.440
like like I don't know, I don't like Carr, but

564
00:41:47.840 --> 00:41:53.079
like it just seems like crazy, Like I honestly just

565
00:41:53.159 --> 00:41:57.280
want to see how this chick does in that role,

566
00:41:57.880 --> 00:42:02.079
because let's be real, that's good acting right there, Like

567
00:42:02.239 --> 00:42:08.440
if she pulls off that, she's fucking crazy, obsessive whatever.

568
00:42:09.480 --> 00:42:12.239
And from one of the scenes that I have seen,

569
00:42:12.519 --> 00:42:16.000
like I think she starts going like no, no, you know,

570
00:42:16.159 --> 00:42:20.719
like that thing or whatever. I'm just like, WHOA, like this,

571
00:42:20.880 --> 00:42:22.599
this is gonna be interesting.

572
00:42:23.599 --> 00:42:26.199
Yeah, I'm gonna. I'm gonna. I'm definitely gonna watch it.

573
00:42:26.280 --> 00:42:31.920
I got it on my list. The thing that bothered

574
00:42:31.960 --> 00:42:34.159
me though, like I watched the first few minutes of

575
00:42:34.199 --> 00:42:35.519
it and it turned me off, right.

576
00:42:36.760 --> 00:42:38.199
I hate what happens.

577
00:42:38.039 --> 00:42:45.440
Because in the beginning, like it starts off really slow,

578
00:42:45.480 --> 00:42:49.559
and I was like, this kid, this dude's like no,

579
00:42:49.760 --> 00:42:51.239
I don't even want to see this. But then I

580
00:42:51.280 --> 00:42:54.719
started people started talking about it, right, and they were like, yo,

581
00:42:54.920 --> 00:42:57.519
this movie and this and that, and I was like, damn,

582
00:42:57.559 --> 00:42:59.159
I just watched the first few minutes and I was

583
00:42:59.159 --> 00:43:01.400
turned I'm gonna have to watch the whole thing now. Yeah.

584
00:43:01.639 --> 00:43:03.920
I mean I think that's probably the point, is to

585
00:43:04.039 --> 00:43:06.800
make you to not really like this guy or feel

586
00:43:06.840 --> 00:43:12.599
like he's whatever, and then you know, so I would

587
00:43:12.639 --> 00:43:16.599
give it at least thirty minutes of your time, try

588
00:43:17.159 --> 00:43:21.360
at least and then make a decision. But I've had

589
00:43:21.400 --> 00:43:24.239
that happen with some movies though, like where I started

590
00:43:24.280 --> 00:43:27.840
watching the movie and I would get so pissed at

591
00:43:27.880 --> 00:43:30.440
like and it's the beginning and I'm just like if

592
00:43:30.480 --> 00:43:33.440
I'm getting pissed at the beginning, can you just imagine?

593
00:43:33.840 --> 00:43:36.599
And then there's some people who have made me watch it,

594
00:43:37.360 --> 00:43:40.119
and then I hate it, but I'm like, I have

595
00:43:40.159 --> 00:43:42.639
to see how it ends. Does that ever happen to you?

596
00:43:42.760 --> 00:43:47.360
Or you're just like, let me let me tell you

597
00:43:47.440 --> 00:43:51.719
some first. First, that movie was crazy and out of

598
00:43:51.760 --> 00:43:52.199
the box.

599
00:43:52.880 --> 00:43:54.039
Okay, good to know.

600
00:43:54.679 --> 00:43:58.679
Yeah, so let me tell you something. I go with

601
00:43:58.719 --> 00:44:03.519
my daughter to go see how the Halloween ends. I'm

602
00:44:03.679 --> 00:44:06.800
supposed to be the last film ever to be made

603
00:44:06.880 --> 00:44:12.639
about halloweenween. Okay, I'm gonna tell you right now. The

604
00:44:12.760 --> 00:44:18.599
worst movie, one of the top three worst movies I

605
00:44:18.639 --> 00:44:24.480
ever seen in my life. But I loved the Halloween franchise, Okay,

606
00:44:24.679 --> 00:44:26.559
especially the first two o G films.

607
00:44:26.920 --> 00:44:27.199
M h.

608
00:44:27.920 --> 00:44:31.599
But let me tell you this movie was so bad

609
00:44:32.519 --> 00:44:34.280
that I said, I said to my door, I said,

610
00:44:34.280 --> 00:44:37.760
I'm leaving, were out, and she's looking at me and

611
00:44:37.760 --> 00:44:40.519
she's like, I know, it's really stupid, but let's just

612
00:44:40.559 --> 00:44:41.440
see how it ends.

613
00:44:43.000 --> 00:44:44.840
She was like, please, let's just see.

614
00:44:45.000 --> 00:44:47.480
Let's just see. We're here now already, Let's just see

615
00:44:47.480 --> 00:44:51.519
how it ends. Oh God, it was, it was bad.

616
00:44:52.119 --> 00:44:56.599
It was bad. Come on, Jamie Lee Curtis fighting this dude.

617
00:44:57.559 --> 00:45:00.239
Come on, like she she took she took some jiu

618
00:45:00.280 --> 00:45:04.760
jitsu classes or something, I don't know. Come on, at

619
00:45:04.800 --> 00:45:07.199
her age, don't she should not be able to to

620
00:45:07.000 --> 00:45:07.639
to snake?

621
00:45:07.760 --> 00:45:12.679
Yes? Actually, that's that's the problem. You see. You assume

622
00:45:12.760 --> 00:45:15.480
that a woman her age was wouldn't be in fit,

623
00:45:16.119 --> 00:45:21.719
be fit and be able to take down somebody bigger

624
00:45:21.760 --> 00:45:25.800
than her. Come on, now, you're just a hat. I'm

625
00:45:25.800 --> 00:45:32.519
not a feminism over here, fists.

626
00:45:32.920 --> 00:45:35.639
Let me tell you something. Michael Mays has been shot,

627
00:45:35.800 --> 00:45:38.920
stab burned, run over and everything, and you're trying to

628
00:45:38.920 --> 00:45:43.159
tell me you have to strength to knock how to

629
00:45:43.239 --> 00:45:46.800
do and knock him on his ass.

630
00:45:49.559 --> 00:45:55.599
Oh my god, her heart tied it together, made it stronger.

631
00:46:01.960 --> 00:46:02.360
There.

632
00:46:02.480 --> 00:46:04.639
But like, I'm trying to think of it like other

633
00:46:04.719 --> 00:46:08.920
movies though, because there have been some movies where either

634
00:46:08.960 --> 00:46:14.159
the ending was horrible or like it was bad and

635
00:46:14.199 --> 00:46:16.599
you're just like fuck it, I'm a see but.

636
00:46:16.800 --> 00:46:22.239
Oh no, just to see how it ends. I mean, yo,

637
00:46:22.360 --> 00:46:27.119
Halloween ends was trash man. I have that movie up

638
00:46:27.159 --> 00:46:32.199
there with like see, I don't even remember the name

639
00:46:32.239 --> 00:46:40.800
of the movie. Something something something Earth with Forest Whittaker

640
00:46:41.039 --> 00:46:44.599
and John Travolta. It was. It was. It was a

641
00:46:44.639 --> 00:46:49.440
sci fi movie that was so. It was so if

642
00:46:49.480 --> 00:46:52.119
anybody knows the name of that movie, tell me it's

643
00:46:52.159 --> 00:46:58.400
It's with with Forest Whitaker and John Travolta. Something Earth.

644
00:46:58.639 --> 00:47:03.400
It was. It was bad. It was so bad that

645
00:47:03.880 --> 00:47:06.800
I only I didn't even want to see how it ended.

646
00:47:07.519 --> 00:47:12.039
That's how bad. That's how bad it was. I was like, yo,

647
00:47:12.119 --> 00:47:15.679
I am not watching this ship anymore. It was terrible.

648
00:47:15.719 --> 00:47:21.719
Why yeah, my Battlefield Earth. Yep, that's what it was.

649
00:47:22.079 --> 00:47:23.400
Battlefield Earth.

650
00:47:23.960 --> 00:47:27.480
Yes, that was bad. And if you think that was good,

651
00:47:27.480 --> 00:47:29.119
we're not talking no more. I don't want you on

652
00:47:29.159 --> 00:47:29.440
the show.

653
00:47:29.480 --> 00:47:32.480
Get the Honestly, I don't even really remember it, So

654
00:47:32.559 --> 00:47:34.800
there you go. So it was. It probably was a

655
00:47:34.840 --> 00:47:35.400
bad movie.

656
00:47:36.199 --> 00:47:41.920
It was bad that one Halloween ends and the other

657
00:47:42.000 --> 00:47:45.360
bad one. Damn, it's so bad. I don't even want

658
00:47:45.400 --> 00:47:48.119
to remember. My brain is like, yo, don't remember, don't remember.

659
00:47:51.039 --> 00:47:53.440
You don't want to remember this movie? Just stop it.

660
00:47:53.599 --> 00:47:58.000
Oh God, now you know what movie was? Was was

661
00:47:58.000 --> 00:48:07.840
pretty good. The movie with every movie Steven Seagal ever made.

662
00:48:15.559 --> 00:48:23.519
The movie had Jamie Lee Curtis was in it. It's everything.

663
00:48:25.800 --> 00:48:28.840
Michelle Michelle wo was in it too, But Michelle whatever

664
00:48:28.880 --> 00:48:33.199
her name is, I got it here too. I got

665
00:48:33.199 --> 00:48:40.519
it because I bought it. It was it was that good.

666
00:48:40.519 --> 00:48:45.440
Watch Watch Dark Valley. Oh we're getting recommendations.

667
00:48:44.639 --> 00:48:46.119
Now, all right, Dark Valley?

668
00:48:49.800 --> 00:48:55.039
Yeah, watch Dark Valley.

669
00:48:53.480 --> 00:48:55.440
On what like? I need to know?

670
00:48:56.800 --> 00:49:00.639
Just look up Dark Value. I'll tell you where streaming.

671
00:49:03.199 --> 00:49:05.559
All right, Well I'll write that down and look and

672
00:49:05.599 --> 00:49:10.480
look it up Dark Valley? All right? Can somebody find

673
00:49:10.480 --> 00:49:14.519
the movie? Also? The kid from the Goonies was in

674
00:49:14.559 --> 00:49:24.559
it too, which one? Then Dark Valley on to B?

675
00:49:25.239 --> 00:49:27.159
Just you just say to B, I know this's just

676
00:49:27.239 --> 00:49:31.559
gonna be crazy stupid? Is it a two B movie?

677
00:49:31.559 --> 00:49:36.119
Like somebody from to Be made it? Thosees are wild.

678
00:49:37.280 --> 00:49:40.519
Those movies are comical. Yo, you're gonna watch a to

679
00:49:40.679 --> 00:49:41.960
B film like Made for to Be?

680
00:49:42.679 --> 00:49:46.480
Oh money, I'm gonna have to now some of.

681
00:49:46.440 --> 00:49:49.119
Them are that bad? Yes, everything all at once?

682
00:49:50.519 --> 00:49:54.559
Oh wait, I know this movie everything all at once?

683
00:49:54.599 --> 00:49:59.920
What was it about? Again? It sounds like the Weird

684
00:50:00.119 --> 00:50:01.039
movie right.

685
00:50:01.039 --> 00:50:03.440
Where it's like a time travel kind of.

686
00:50:03.960 --> 00:50:07.079
Travel and stuff like that. Yeah, I don't see that.

687
00:50:07.079 --> 00:50:08.280
That is a really good film.

688
00:50:09.199 --> 00:50:15.239
I started to watch it, and then I didn't continue, Davy.

689
00:50:15.400 --> 00:50:18.519
Davy said, it's not it's a good a good Western.

690
00:50:19.920 --> 00:50:21.719
It's a good it's a good Western. All right, I'll

691
00:50:21.800 --> 00:50:23.679
check it out. I'll check it out. I'll get back

692
00:50:23.719 --> 00:50:26.599
to you. I like Western. Tombstone Boomstone is one.

693
00:50:26.559 --> 00:50:29.119
Of my favorites Western. That's fine.

694
00:50:29.639 --> 00:50:32.679
Tombstone, Tombstone is one of my favorite films of all time.

695
00:50:33.880 --> 00:50:37.320
What are you kidding me? The good, the bad, the ugly,

696
00:50:37.360 --> 00:50:40.119
what are you crazy?

697
00:50:40.679 --> 00:50:40.960
Whatever?

698
00:50:41.079 --> 00:50:46.400
Makes? What's your favorite? Give me your top three favorite films.

699
00:50:46.840 --> 00:50:51.960
You don't you don't want to hear them.

700
00:50:52.000 --> 00:50:53.920
The Sisterhood of Traveling Pants.

701
00:50:54.280 --> 00:51:00.719
Oh man, that was cute, But no tomatoes, no, no,

702
00:51:01.239 --> 00:51:05.760
Although Steel Magnolia's was a great movie, Sad as Fuck

703
00:51:06.000 --> 00:51:12.719
a great movie. That's a good movie, but that's not

704
00:51:12.800 --> 00:51:18.239
my favorite. I mean, I love Mean Girls. I'll always

705
00:51:18.280 --> 00:51:21.360
love Mean Girls because it's just a classic. And I

706
00:51:21.400 --> 00:51:27.800
love Tina Fey. I don't know, we've talked about this before,

707
00:51:27.880 --> 00:51:31.199
Like I really like American History x. I think that's

708
00:51:31.400 --> 00:51:38.679
one of the big ones. I don't know, there's there's

709
00:51:38.719 --> 00:51:44.039
a I'm really into like thrillers. So I feel like

710
00:51:44.039 --> 00:51:51.840
like twelve Monkeys or shit. I'm trying to think of

711
00:51:51.840 --> 00:51:52.239
the one with.

712
00:51:52.320 --> 00:51:55.679
Edward Norton Yer History X.

713
00:51:55.960 --> 00:52:00.199
No another The Fight Club was really good too, but oh,

714
00:52:00.840 --> 00:52:06.440
this is that he's going to jail fear. No, that's

715
00:52:06.440 --> 00:52:08.840
a different one that's older. But Primal Fear is good

716
00:52:08.880 --> 00:52:11.480
to God, damn Ignorton is and everything good.

717
00:52:12.119 --> 00:52:15.920
So no, yeah, when he's in jail and at the

718
00:52:16.039 --> 00:52:17.760
end there's a twist.

719
00:52:17.440 --> 00:52:23.079
Where he yes, that's Primal Fear. I'm talking about. This

720
00:52:23.320 --> 00:52:27.719
was either it has something to do with seconds or

721
00:52:28.519 --> 00:52:33.559
because there's a movie with Sean Penn as well that

722
00:52:33.679 --> 00:52:37.760
has to do with like The Weight of Heart. That

723
00:52:37.880 --> 00:52:40.039
movie was really good too, but I can't remember now

724
00:52:40.079 --> 00:52:44.079
what the fuck it is. Somebody get Google involved.

725
00:52:44.079 --> 00:52:47.519
Oh yeah, somebody get Google involved. All right, so we

726
00:52:47.599 --> 00:52:52.039
got we got Christina's list list, the three, The Goony's

727
00:52:52.079 --> 00:52:53.519
Scarface and The Bronx Tail.

728
00:52:54.039 --> 00:52:56.760
Oh, I love the Goonies and The Bronx Tail is

729
00:52:56.800 --> 00:52:57.360
a good movie.

730
00:52:58.239 --> 00:53:01.760
Yeah, tell you. Let me tell you something about Scarface, Christina.

731
00:53:02.880 --> 00:53:10.000
Go look up Scarface nineteen thirty two. That's actually the

732
00:53:10.079 --> 00:53:14.320
original Scarface where this Scarface with al Pacino got its

733
00:53:14.360 --> 00:53:17.320
source material from a lot of people don't know that

734
00:53:18.280 --> 00:53:22.800
Boris Korlov is in it. Yeah, it was, it was made.

735
00:53:22.840 --> 00:53:25.639
It was. It was made in nineteen thirty two, and

736
00:53:25.719 --> 00:53:28.519
if you watch that film, you'll be able to see

737
00:53:28.519 --> 00:53:32.679
the similarities between both the al Pacino and the nineteen

738
00:53:32.719 --> 00:53:38.800
thirty two Scarface. Great film, great film. Yeah, history, lesson.

739
00:53:39.559 --> 00:53:48.920
So my top three, My top three are Good Fellas, okay, Tombstone,

740
00:53:49.440 --> 00:53:53.079
which is a western. I'm not going front, he said,

741
00:53:53.119 --> 00:54:04.880
Batman and Throbbing Movies, and Disperminator. Oh you know you

742
00:54:04.920 --> 00:54:10.480
know who that is? Yes, so yeah, Good Fellas, Tombstone

743
00:54:11.199 --> 00:54:16.000
and the original Transformers, the movie from nineteen eighty six,

744
00:54:16.079 --> 00:54:18.719
the cartoon that I went to go see that in

745
00:54:18.760 --> 00:54:24.360
the theater. I remember. That's the first movie I remember

746
00:54:24.360 --> 00:54:26.239
going to see in a theater was that one.

747
00:54:26.679 --> 00:54:28.719
Do you know what? My one of my top movies

748
00:54:28.719 --> 00:54:33.199
would be Home Alone because like, not only do I

749
00:54:33.239 --> 00:54:38.039
always watch it every year during Christmas, but it was

750
00:54:38.079 --> 00:54:40.920
also a movie and my grandparents loved watching over and

751
00:54:41.000 --> 00:54:44.119
over again. It was also the movie I saw in

752
00:54:44.159 --> 00:54:48.800
the movie theater with my dad and family. So and

753
00:54:48.920 --> 00:54:53.199
Home Alone two and I remember laughing so hard and

754
00:54:53.320 --> 00:54:57.440
crying when this motherfucker was getting his face hit and shit,

755
00:54:58.719 --> 00:55:02.760
the one in New York especially. I like when I

756
00:55:02.760 --> 00:55:06.639
feel like when you remember something good with your family

757
00:55:06.800 --> 00:55:12.000
or something like that, memory always is locked in. Those

758
00:55:12.159 --> 00:55:16.119
are the good movies. Like I even remember the Ewoks

759
00:55:16.159 --> 00:55:22.840
movie because my little sister was actually named after the

760
00:55:22.960 --> 00:55:26.639
character Sindle. So so like.

761
00:55:26.840 --> 00:55:29.519
Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute, they

762
00:55:29.599 --> 00:55:30.800
named it after an e Walk.

763
00:55:31.800 --> 00:55:34.159
No, the blonde little girl's name was.

764
00:55:34.480 --> 00:55:36.440
The blonde little girl, all right? I was like, wait,

765
00:55:36.920 --> 00:55:39.199
which one was her? That was the yeah, I thought

766
00:55:39.320 --> 00:55:39.880
was Walk?

767
00:55:40.800 --> 00:55:43.639
No, No, she was not named after e Walk even

768
00:55:43.639 --> 00:55:45.679
though like they were cute as hell, though, come on,

769
00:55:45.800 --> 00:55:47.960
don't hate on the e Walk.

770
00:55:46.920 --> 00:55:51.440
I'm just saying, Christina, Christina saw the goonies that are

771
00:55:51.480 --> 00:55:51.800
drive in?

772
00:55:52.519 --> 00:55:55.320
Oh nice, I want to do that, actually go to

773
00:55:55.400 --> 00:55:56.920
a drive in and that would be cool.

774
00:56:01.400 --> 00:56:06.039
Cool. So also, I have this thing with with with

775
00:56:06.079 --> 00:56:10.119
my daughter. We've been going to see every big budget

776
00:56:10.679 --> 00:56:14.559
film and every comic book film since she was five. Wow,

777
00:56:15.440 --> 00:56:19.440
and we still do it. We're going We're going tomorrow

778
00:56:19.679 --> 00:56:21.639
for the pre opening day to see Spider Man.

779
00:56:22.440 --> 00:56:23.920
Oh nice?

780
00:56:23.840 --> 00:56:24.039
Yeah?

781
00:56:24.519 --> 00:56:28.159
Wait, did you guys do The Odyssey at the special

782
00:56:28.239 --> 00:56:33.760
Imax Theater? Whatever? It is. Apparently that's like a big

783
00:56:33.800 --> 00:56:36.719
one that everyone is like trying to see.

784
00:56:36.960 --> 00:56:40.119
So yeah, I got I gotta check that out too.

785
00:56:42.559 --> 00:56:45.840
But yeah, like, what number of Spider Man is this?

786
00:56:46.039 --> 00:56:50.719
I feel like they have made so many.

787
00:56:49.360 --> 00:56:55.280
So with this kid, Tom Holland is yeah, one, two, three,

788
00:56:55.880 --> 00:57:04.280
this is the fifth? I think, Yeah, I think it's

789
00:57:04.280 --> 00:57:05.840
the fifth one or the fourth one.

790
00:57:05.880 --> 00:57:10.039
No way, That's what I'm saying. There's so many. How

791
00:57:10.079 --> 00:57:10.960
do we keep trying?

792
00:57:11.079 --> 00:57:20.480
Homecoming far from home, no way home? And this one

793
00:57:20.559 --> 00:57:22.639
brand new day four? It's four of them?

794
00:57:23.239 --> 00:57:23.639
Okay?

795
00:57:24.119 --> 00:57:28.440
Yeah? Oh and and and Davy and I've watched that

796
00:57:28.599 --> 00:57:32.360
The Ten Commandments in nineteen fifty six with Charlton Heston too.

797
00:57:32.920 --> 00:57:36.960
I think they that's a holiday. That's a holiday classic too,

798
00:57:37.000 --> 00:57:41.280
Easter stuff like that. You know what else I used

799
00:57:41.280 --> 00:57:44.079
to watch a lot too growing up, A lot of

800
00:57:44.119 --> 00:57:47.280
Godzilla movies, especially around the holidays when they would pay

801
00:57:47.320 --> 00:57:52.440
the marathons. Yep, yeah, I gotta I got a the

802
00:57:52.519 --> 00:57:56.000
nineteen fifty six Godzilla movie post on my wall. I

803
00:57:56.000 --> 00:57:58.559
got a bunch of movie posters framed on my walls,

804
00:57:59.639 --> 00:58:01.400
so yeah, I got that one up there.

805
00:58:01.440 --> 00:58:03.360
To such a bachelor of life.

806
00:58:04.079 --> 00:58:07.679
You know, you know, you know, you know, you know

807
00:58:07.719 --> 00:58:10.280
what's crazy. I love movies. I love movies. I know

808
00:58:10.760 --> 00:58:13.079
I love I love them.

809
00:58:13.280 --> 00:58:16.559
I love all of them, love me movies, I understand.

810
00:58:17.280 --> 00:58:21.599
Not all movies, though, but a majority of them, the

811
00:58:21.679 --> 00:58:22.679
majority of them.

812
00:58:23.000 --> 00:58:25.119
No, you don't love them rom coms.

813
00:58:26.599 --> 00:58:30.480
Alright, you're not going to watch the new j Lo. No, no,

814
00:58:30.840 --> 00:58:34.119
I am, I am not. I am not.

815
00:58:37.400 --> 00:58:41.280
The Kevin Hart movie on Netflix, the seventy two hours

816
00:58:41.400 --> 00:58:41.800
or whatever.

817
00:58:42.679 --> 00:58:44.400
Let me tell you something. The only j Lo film

818
00:58:44.400 --> 00:58:48.800
I saw that I ever watched was with Mark Anthony.

819
00:58:49.480 --> 00:58:52.440
Well that makes sense. Yeah, I even think I've seen it.

820
00:58:53.039 --> 00:58:54.960
I feel my soul.

821
00:58:56.159 --> 00:58:58.880
I loved her in the one that she did with

822
00:58:58.920 --> 00:59:02.599
George Clooney and now I can't remember the name of it.

823
00:59:03.039 --> 00:59:05.159
This was old too. I think this came out in

824
00:59:05.199 --> 00:59:10.480
the nineties. Was it the Armies or the two thousands? Uh,

825
00:59:10.960 --> 00:59:13.639
it's a what is it? Because like I think George

826
00:59:13.719 --> 00:59:20.199
Clooney was the criminal. No, that was cool. So that

827
00:59:20.400 --> 00:59:21.519
was an interesting movie.

828
00:59:21.679 --> 00:59:26.719
Actually, that was a futuristic type feel about the dream. Yeah,

829
00:59:26.760 --> 00:59:28.480
I saw that one too. Then all right, well you

830
00:59:28.519 --> 00:59:28.880
got me.

831
00:59:29.519 --> 00:59:33.599
But there's one with her and George Clooney but George

832
00:59:33.639 --> 00:59:38.960
Clooney plays like the criminal or something, and I think

833
00:59:39.039 --> 00:59:44.719
she's like the for the cop. It's do you know

834
00:59:44.800 --> 00:59:47.519
what I'm talking about?

835
00:59:46.239 --> 00:59:50.760
The no hold on, somebody google that ship, because I know,

836
00:59:51.000 --> 00:59:52.880
I know, I know, I got it.

837
00:59:52.960 --> 01:00:00.440
I know we need a Googler. I'm like, get about

838
01:00:00.480 --> 01:00:02.480
it right now. I'm like, come on, why can't I

839
01:00:02.559 --> 01:00:09.239
remember the names of these goddamn movies? Oh you know what?

840
01:00:10.159 --> 01:00:12.440
I feel like I could see the cover of the

841
01:00:12.519 --> 01:00:17.719
fucking movie and I can't the name of the damn

842
01:00:17.760 --> 01:00:23.400
movie out of sight. Yes, that was actually a good

843
01:00:23.440 --> 01:00:25.960
fucking movie.

844
01:00:26.960 --> 01:00:28.719
I know, my ship mm hmmm.

845
01:00:30.800 --> 01:00:34.639
But yeah, there's actually good ones out there and there's

846
01:00:35.000 --> 01:00:39.480
very bad one. Enough enough was good. She did a

847
01:00:39.519 --> 01:00:40.599
good job on that one too.

848
01:00:40.719 --> 01:00:43.199
Yes, Now you want to know what movie I thought

849
01:00:43.320 --> 01:00:46.599
was really good that don't get that people don't think

850
01:00:46.880 --> 01:00:50.960
was good. The Count of Monte Cristo.

851
01:00:52.800 --> 01:00:55.280
I haven't seen that, but I think there's.

852
01:00:55.119 --> 01:00:57.679
A couple of there's a couple of versions of it, right,

853
01:00:57.760 --> 01:01:00.480
but the one that was made I think early two

854
01:01:00.559 --> 01:01:05.280
thousands with you know who was actually in that movie,

855
01:01:06.039 --> 01:01:09.800
Henry Cavill. Okay, it was going to give one of

856
01:01:09.800 --> 01:01:21.519
his first Roles. What else there was that's a good movie.

857
01:01:24.280 --> 01:01:27.679
I don't know what you guys think, but I think

858
01:01:27.760 --> 01:01:29.880
the second Beetlejuice movie wasn't that great.

859
01:01:31.599 --> 01:01:35.480
Yeah, I don't think it was that great, like because well,

860
01:01:35.599 --> 01:01:40.519
I mean it's hard because like Beetlejuice is a classic, right,

861
01:01:40.599 --> 01:01:44.480
it's a cult classic type movie. So I feel like

862
01:01:44.559 --> 01:01:47.639
whenever you touch one of those movies, it's just not

863
01:01:47.760 --> 01:01:50.719
gonna be. But I don't think it was horrible.

864
01:01:51.440 --> 01:01:54.519
Like I didn't. I didn't like. The only thing that

865
01:01:54.559 --> 01:02:00.280
I thought was was the that was good about it

866
01:02:00.360 --> 01:02:03.760
was that the kid in the treehouse or he had

867
01:02:03.760 --> 01:02:06.679
a treehouse at the treehouse or something with a tree,

868
01:02:07.400 --> 01:02:11.239
and he was actually a ghost or something, right, and

869
01:02:11.280 --> 01:02:16.519
he wanted to to bring her to the other side

870
01:02:16.599 --> 01:02:18.480
or whatever. I don't know what it was, but I

871
01:02:18.519 --> 01:02:20.199
thought the kid was actually a real kid, but he

872
01:02:20.239 --> 01:02:22.960
was actually like a ghost or something. I was like, Oh,

873
01:02:23.000 --> 01:02:24.800
that was a twist. I didn't see that coming. But

874
01:02:24.840 --> 01:02:27.480
I didn't. I really, I really wasn't feeling too much

875
01:02:27.519 --> 01:02:28.199
of it, you know.

876
01:02:28.159 --> 01:02:29.199
What I'm saying.

877
01:02:30.000 --> 01:02:32.800
Yeah, And then, oh my god, did you hear about

878
01:02:32.800 --> 01:02:34.920
the little girl from the Godzilla movies?

879
01:02:36.039 --> 01:02:36.159
Now?

880
01:02:37.199 --> 01:02:41.679
The one that the deaf girl. Have you have you

881
01:02:41.719 --> 01:02:45.519
seen any of the most recent Godzilla films? All right,

882
01:02:45.559 --> 01:02:48.280
So there was this character. She was she was a

883
01:02:48.320 --> 01:02:51.199
young girl and she was she was the only one

884
01:02:51.199 --> 01:02:55.199
that can communicate with Kanan through sign language because she

885
01:02:55.280 --> 01:02:58.880
was deaf. She died in the car actually in eighteen

886
01:02:58.920 --> 01:03:06.239
years old. Ah fuck, terrible, terrible. Yeah that was that

887
01:03:06.320 --> 01:03:12.360
was bad. And then yeah, I watched I watch all

888
01:03:12.400 --> 01:03:15.639
those all those big budget films. I got popcorn buckets.

889
01:03:15.639 --> 01:03:19.280
Beyond popcorn buckets, here I go. I go to those movies.

890
01:03:19.320 --> 01:03:21.840
I buy a popcorn bucket, and I watched the movie.

891
01:03:21.840 --> 01:03:25.599
I'm gonna get one of them all too. So yeah,

892
01:03:25.760 --> 01:03:31.760
that's what it is. So it is. Yeah, so you

893
01:03:31.800 --> 01:03:34.800
got anything on your mind you want to discuss. So

894
01:03:34.880 --> 01:03:38.000
we could any movie, any other movie you want to

895
01:03:38.000 --> 01:03:42.320
re Oh, why don't you recommend the movie? People knew

896
01:03:42.480 --> 01:03:45.440
something to show whatever, recommend something to the viewers.

897
01:03:46.039 --> 01:03:51.760
Hmmm, something I've seen recently. Oh, there's actually some really

898
01:03:52.079 --> 01:03:57.960
really good like True Crime Ship on Netflix. Document there's

899
01:03:57.960 --> 01:04:01.440
some documentaries that they're only like an hour and a

900
01:04:01.519 --> 01:04:07.679
half long or whatever. And I'm blanking, of course, because

901
01:04:07.719 --> 01:04:10.519
some of these stories are crazy. Yes, so there's one

902
01:04:11.000 --> 01:04:14.679
and I can't remember the name. Of course. Where is

903
01:04:14.719 --> 01:04:20.599
the story of a woman who pretended, Oh I just

904
01:04:20.599 --> 01:04:22.519
thought of something else. Another show.

905
01:04:24.480 --> 01:04:31.760
Neighbor Okay, Christina wanted to scare a movie bong bucket,

906
01:04:32.239 --> 01:04:33.440
kind a bog bucket.

907
01:04:34.079 --> 01:04:40.400
Oh wow, Oh interesting, Okay, I'll go back to that.

908
01:04:41.000 --> 01:04:44.079
There is a story about a woman who faked pregnancy

909
01:04:45.559 --> 01:04:51.639
and anyway, she faked being pregnant, and it's worth being watching.

910
01:04:52.079 --> 01:04:58.920
It is a very disturbing documentary. I will say that

911
01:04:59.239 --> 01:05:05.840
ahead of tom It will stay with you for days,

912
01:05:05.920 --> 01:05:13.079
unfortunately because of the nature of the crime. But it

913
01:05:13.119 --> 01:05:17.079
is worth watching. And I've learned that it is not

914
01:05:17.239 --> 01:05:21.239
the only time that women have faith babies and stolen

915
01:05:21.320 --> 01:05:23.360
babies or whatever the case is.

916
01:05:23.360 --> 01:05:25.000
This the one with an interview in the chick in

917
01:05:25.039 --> 01:05:29.840
the hospital. Yes, and they're like, what happened to the baby?

918
01:05:30.119 --> 01:05:32.480
She literally said she had a baby and that had

919
01:05:32.639 --> 01:05:36.480
the doctor checked her as if he wouldn't know that

920
01:05:36.519 --> 01:05:42.559
she didn't give birth to a baby. So it's worth watching.

921
01:05:42.679 --> 01:05:45.320
It's a good story. It is horrific what she does.

922
01:05:47.440 --> 01:05:51.719
Then there is there's another one that I saw recently

923
01:05:51.800 --> 01:05:55.960
too that I can't fucking remember now. But Netflix also

924
01:05:56.079 --> 01:06:01.079
has like worst neighbor Ever, Worst roommate ever, Worst ex ever.

925
01:06:01.840 --> 01:06:07.760
Those are fucking crazy ass stories. The worst neaghver ever

926
01:06:08.039 --> 01:06:14.280
is kind of sad because obviously some stories end with

927
01:06:14.480 --> 01:06:22.000
people dying. But it's just it's crazy. But I feel

928
01:06:22.039 --> 01:06:26.280
like it's smart to kind of know shit, because you know,

929
01:06:26.679 --> 01:06:31.199
you never know when you might be in a situation

930
01:06:31.360 --> 01:06:34.119
with someone you don't know and they act in a

931
01:06:34.159 --> 01:06:37.760
certain kind of way, and like, if you've seen that

932
01:06:37.800 --> 01:06:40.039
behavior before, you could be like, oh wait a minute,

933
01:06:40.159 --> 01:06:43.199
like red flag, you know what I'm saying, Like, and

934
01:06:43.239 --> 01:06:47.559
I think that this shows you that, like, you know,

935
01:06:47.760 --> 01:06:52.320
because people show you who they are, and I think

936
01:06:52.400 --> 01:06:56.360
too a lot of times unfortunately we have to take

937
01:06:56.480 --> 01:07:00.280
matters into our own hands because in a lot of

938
01:07:00.320 --> 01:07:05.320
these cases, like the police didn't do enough. So it's

939
01:07:05.440 --> 01:07:10.559
really fucking crazy because it's almost like something could have

940
01:07:10.679 --> 01:07:13.400
been done, but because of the way the laws work

941
01:07:13.480 --> 01:07:16.559
in our country and in our states and stuff like,

942
01:07:17.920 --> 01:07:21.239
you don't get what you actually need and some and

943
01:07:21.480 --> 01:07:25.039
some people wand up dead like it should never it

944
01:07:25.039 --> 01:07:32.400
should never be that way, you know, or worst x ever.

945
01:07:32.800 --> 01:07:36.840
And then one of them, one of them was even yes.

946
01:07:37.639 --> 01:07:43.239
Yes, oh my god, yes, and that was creepy as hell, like,

947
01:07:44.159 --> 01:07:46.519
especially because I love that show and I think I

948
01:07:46.760 --> 01:07:53.039
remember that dude like and watching, but that guy was

949
01:07:53.079 --> 01:07:58.800
such a gas lighter manipulator. Disgusting. It's insane. Like there's

950
01:07:58.920 --> 01:08:02.000
just stories of people and the and the way they

951
01:08:02.199 --> 01:08:05.599
lie and the thing like, I want people to know

952
01:08:05.719 --> 01:08:10.760
that you will get found out when you lie. That

953
01:08:10.960 --> 01:08:13.559
lie is going to come back. People are going to

954
01:08:13.639 --> 01:08:16.119
find out the truth, whether you like it or not,

955
01:08:16.279 --> 01:08:20.800
whether you hide it, I promise you, people are going

956
01:08:20.880 --> 01:08:24.399
to find out the truth. So stop being a lying

957
01:08:24.439 --> 01:08:26.920
son of a bitch. That's all I'm saying to the

958
01:08:26.960 --> 01:08:28.760
people out there who want to keep lying.

959
01:08:29.239 --> 01:08:34.279
So I want to recommend something. Sure, all right, let

960
01:08:34.279 --> 01:08:39.000
me start by saying this before I do that. I'm never,

961
01:08:39.159 --> 01:08:45.720
in my life, never ever watch Game of Thrones. Wait,

962
01:08:45.840 --> 01:08:51.880
wait before you do that. Okay, okay watch okay, but

963
01:08:52.039 --> 01:08:54.199
it was put up was put up on it right

964
01:08:55.039 --> 01:09:01.520
m hm. I watched the first season and I was like, yo,

965
01:09:04.239 --> 01:09:06.399
I didn't want to watch anymore. After they cut this

966
01:09:06.479 --> 01:09:12.960
dude's head off, I was like, yo, the fuck like

967
01:09:13.079 --> 01:09:18.560
my heart my heart broke right Wait, wait, so so

968
01:09:18.640 --> 01:09:23.640
I'm watching further. I get into the second season. I

969
01:09:23.720 --> 01:09:25.920
think it was the second I'm in the third now,

970
01:09:27.199 --> 01:09:40.159
and the Lanisters completely took out his family, killed his son,

971
01:09:40.319 --> 01:09:44.680
killed his wife at and at that wedding.

972
01:09:45.640 --> 01:09:51.159
The wedding. I watched all that such a good episode.

973
01:09:51.680 --> 01:09:54.760
I was like, what the fuck is going on? They

974
01:09:54.800 --> 01:09:56.119
started killing everybody.

975
01:09:56.800 --> 01:09:59.640
I was like, yo, why the fire the fuck are

976
01:09:59.640 --> 01:10:04.039
they those blurts by the way, because he's just I mean,

977
01:10:04.039 --> 01:10:08.600
you're not the names of who. But yes, things happen.

978
01:10:09.039 --> 01:10:12.359
But that's why Games of Thrones was such a good

979
01:10:12.399 --> 01:10:16.800
show because and it's such a well written book and stuff.

980
01:10:17.159 --> 01:10:21.359
The story is so good because it is literally that

981
01:10:21.560 --> 01:10:25.279
it is the Game of the Thrones and the way people,

982
01:10:26.119 --> 01:10:30.399
uh they they go behind people's facts and the things

983
01:10:30.439 --> 01:10:36.199
that people do, and yeah, like they don't give a fuck.

984
01:10:36.720 --> 01:10:42.279
Like that's that's how fucking cold blooded ship would be

985
01:10:42.560 --> 01:10:47.880
there at that time. So like it gets better. But

986
01:10:48.000 --> 01:10:52.000
I will say that the last season was horrible, and

987
01:10:52.079 --> 01:10:55.319
so there is that since we were talking about like

988
01:10:55.399 --> 01:10:59.680
shit that ends bad. Game of Thrones ended horribly. So

989
01:11:00.000 --> 01:11:05.439
oh just know that that's that's a consensus I feel

990
01:11:05.479 --> 01:11:08.399
with a lot of people uh. And now it's House

991
01:11:08.439 --> 01:11:13.399
of the Dragon, Yeah, which I gotta catch up on.

992
01:11:14.279 --> 01:11:20.880
So I'm gonna.

993
01:11:20.039 --> 01:11:24.079
I'm gonna keep a list for the next time I

994
01:11:24.079 --> 01:11:30.560
think of recommendations, but or just remember one of the

995
01:11:30.600 --> 01:11:36.520
fucking things that I actually watch and can talk about. Man,

996
01:11:36.560 --> 01:11:38.479
there was one that I just watched too that was

997
01:11:38.960 --> 01:11:43.079
fucking insane. The story like you think one person's the

998
01:11:43.119 --> 01:11:47.199
bad guy and then it turns out like it like

999
01:11:47.479 --> 01:11:51.039
all these twists and turns and ship. It was fucking insane.

1000
01:11:51.720 --> 01:11:53.680
And it's just like a brand new ship that just

1001
01:11:53.720 --> 01:11:58.159
came out on Netflix like recently, so check it out.

1002
01:11:58.479 --> 01:11:59.079
It was good.

1003
01:12:00.119 --> 01:12:01.760
I want to I want to. I want to hear

1004
01:12:01.800 --> 01:12:05.960
people's thoughts on certain documentaries and ship, man, because the

1005
01:12:06.079 --> 01:12:08.880
story is out there and some of the ship that

1006
01:12:09.279 --> 01:12:13.239
people have done, especially like just like conning people and

1007
01:12:13.279 --> 01:12:21.039
ship like damn the lies and the webs that are weaved.

1008
01:12:24.079 --> 01:12:29.800
Yeah yeah, all right, Yeah, I'm we'll do a recommendation

1009
01:12:29.920 --> 01:12:33.039
show soon. We'll get everybody to recommend some stuff to

1010
01:12:33.039 --> 01:12:37.319
one another and we'll we'll get up on that. So

1011
01:12:38.880 --> 01:12:45.319
with that being said, okay, yeah, said.

1012
01:12:46.319 --> 01:12:48.359
Just like that rip them bendy.

1013
01:12:50.079 --> 01:12:55.560
Yeah. With that being said, I'll be that's TG love

1014
01:12:57.000 --> 01:12:58.720
and this has been another episode of that. This might

1015
01:12:58.760 --> 01:13:01.279
her podcast. Thank you for thank you for listening, thank

1016
01:13:01.279 --> 01:13:04.119
you for being involved with us time with the chat

1017
01:13:04.199 --> 01:13:07.399
room discuss a whole lot of stuff, got it, you know,

1018
01:13:07.640 --> 01:13:09.840
And it was a night. It was a good show.

1019
01:13:09.880 --> 01:13:13.720
I really appreciate everybody coming through and you know, spending

1020
01:13:13.720 --> 01:13:16.319
it with us. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, And

1021
01:13:17.279 --> 01:13:20.479
have a good night and see y'all a couple of weeks.

1022
01:13:21.079 --> 01:13:23.960
You know, you gotta always remember the thing about what

1023
01:13:24.000 --> 01:13:29.119
we do here is talk real ship, you know what

1024
01:13:29.159 --> 01:13:32.760
I'm saying, And at some point something we say just

1025
01:13:32.840 --> 01:13:37.760
might hurt. So always keep in mind that at some point.

1026
01:13:38.640 --> 01:13:39.680
Have a good night, everybody.

1027
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Good night, am Rid.