April 25, 2024
It's Not That Complicated Or is it!! (Recorded Live On 4-24-24)

Doing what we do best, Finding ways to complicate THEN uncomplicate your life. It's all about Real Fun, Real Life and of course Real Talk. Always remember that AT SOME POINT.... This Might Hurt!
Doing what we do best, Finding ways to complicate THEN uncomplicate your life. It's all about Real Fun, Real Life and of course Real Talk. Always remember that AT SOME POINT.... This Might Hurt!
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Hm, yo, what's up this
big cold young What is this might heard
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podcast? Coming to you live?
Another episode? Bringing in my co host
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is got him. Yeah, it's
TG Love and his Lady G. What's
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good everybody? Hey, guys,
I saw it. I saw a snack
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and I was like, hold on
real quick, how's there? How's everybody
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doing? Good? Okay? Yeah, that's it? Just okay and good?
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Yeah? Really at this point,
yeah, I don't know what else
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to say. No, right,
all right, all right, that's cool.
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It's eleven o'clock at night. You
know, I got all kinds of
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energy. Oh that's that's cool.
That's good to have energy. That's the
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time of night. You know what
I'm saying. But you know, it's
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been a while and hopefully, you
know, we have a good show tonight.
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So you know, I got I
got a got a couple of things.
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You know, we could discussed some
things that I actually had to write
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it down because you know, my
old age, I forget shit. You
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know what I'm saying. So I
believe Oh yeah, I believe it.
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So yeah, yeah, I know, yeah, yeah, we believe it.
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Okay, enough of that, so
let's start with Lady G. Lady
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G how's how's everything going with you? Like, what's up? Everything's good?
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Nothing new, Just working doing my
mom thing. All right, it's
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always a good thing doing a mom
thing and TG love. What's going on
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with you? I mean, same
shit, different day. Okay, uh
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yeah, just working and trying to
live and apparently my body hates me and
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I have a skin and affection going
on. I have no idea. How
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what are you sure it's not like
an allergic reaction as No, I went
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to the doctor. H Did you
do what I told you? No?
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I called I meane an appointment,
but I got there earlier and they actually
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saw me, like within two minutes, So all right, all right.
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She looked at it, you know, with the magnifying magnifire thing, and
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she was like, yeah, it's
just a skin and affection. So I
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have to start taking on a bio
it next three times a day. I
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was three times a day, damn, not even two. Three times ship
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for like a week. So all
right, yeah, because usually if I
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got to go to the doctor,
my doctor, I called my doctor's office
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up. They're like, listen,
we ain't got an appointment for you till
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next week. I'm like, look, I'm sick. Now, all right,
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no problem, I'll take I'll take
this. Yeah, yeah, I
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get I take the appointment, write
the appointment down. But then you know
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what I do. I make sure
I'm there when to open up the next
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morning and say I had an appointment
I called. I don't know. I
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don't know what's going on, you
guys, I don't know. Okay,
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I work on the other side.
You show up. I work on the
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other side, and I'm like,
listen, we have appointments for a reason.
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Okay, corleone, we have no
no, no, because if I
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if I'm ill, you're going to
see me. I'll I don't care.
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I walk in and be like I
had an appointment. I used zac doc
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or I call somebody. They took
my they took my name down and said
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come in at this time, and
I'm here. So doctor's offices have specific
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slots to see patients same day for
specific reasons, and if not, then
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you wore to urge and care.
But it costs more money. Obviously you
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don't want to do that. When
I rolled up in my doctor's office,
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I kick in the door like,
yo, I'm here. Yeah, okay,
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let's get it. That's my doctor. My doctor knows. They know
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me already. They know I think
it's a big sea again. That probably
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what they do when he throws.
He throws the tantrum, and then they're
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just like, oh word, they're
like, all right, this guy is
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here already. We're just gonna have
to take them. Hey, if I'm
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sick, that it is what it
is. You know, I'm saying like
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I had, I had an upper
respiratory infection not so long ago, and
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I walked in there and I was
like, listen, I'm ill, and
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they were like, what's wrong.
I said, I think it's it's sinus,
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but it was an upper respirator everything. So you know, they saw
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me on the spot. Like I
said, I usually get there before everybody
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else does, like when they open
right away. So as soon as I
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get in there and they're like,
all right that this guy's gonna be he's
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gonna be quick. So they don't
don't you know, they don't give me
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no ship. But it is,
you know. But now all right,
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So I got I got some some
stuff here, I got written down,
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and I want to I want I
want to just to discuss that we could
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talk about. Hold on, let
me pull my book up yes, please
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do. All right, So now
this is this is up for debate,
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This is up for discussion. So
now this is how I feel. All
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right. Now take it for what
it is, and you tell me what
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you think. You know, we
we'll go around the room. But in
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my opinion, my opinion, Remember
I'm entitled to that ship. You know
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what I'm saying. To me,
most men, most men, they want
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relationships. Okay, most men want
relationships, and most men they you know,
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they want to get married. Most
men do some right, there are
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some out there that are that are
against that ship. But to me,
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in my opinion, most men want
relationships and they want marriage. All right,
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Now, seventy tonty of marriages and
relationships end up falling apart. Now,
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this is, this is statistically proven
that seventy to ninety percent of the
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relationships that don't work out is because
the woman walks out of the relationship or
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the marriage. Now, and a
percentage of that is because of why do
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you think, because they listen to
what other women have to say about their
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relationship, other than you know,
actually walking out of the relationship for whatever
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reason they have on their own.
So you're saying they're influenced the Yeah,
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they're influenced by others to walk out
and end the relationship or the marriage.
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So my thing is, if that's
the case, why are women so easily
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influenced by others in your opinion?
Well, first of all, I don't
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know if it's influenced or if it's
just other people see what you can't.
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Right, So when other people can
see the things you can't because you're blinded
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by love, you start to realize
that you are accepting behaviors from your partner
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that you really shouldn't be accepting.
Or all the things that we spend as
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women, you know, because we're
the nurturers, all the things that we
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spend excusing and turning a blind eye
to other people are seeing and saying,
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hold on, you're worth more than
that. You don't, you know,
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why are you putting up with these
you know, these different things because I
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find especially having been a marriage therapist
for so long, you know, you
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were you were one of those two
yeah, almost twenty years. I was
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a man. I was a marriaging
family therapist almost twenty years. You know.
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You see, you see how women
kind of I don't want to say
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downplay themselves, but they excuse a
lot of things, a lot of things
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that bother them, a lot of
things that they see wrong. But because
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men tend to not all men,
you know, but some men tend to
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be more on the dominant side or
more on the you know, I don't
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want to see reason, I don't
want to talk about feelings. I don't
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want to communicate effectively. You know, women end up eating a lot of
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stuff and they don't communicate in a
way that they both can have what they
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need. So unfortunately, and again
it's not all the relationships. Unfortunately,
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when other people start seeing things that
we keep ignoring, it gets to a
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point where, you know, our
friends are like, you know what,
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I'm going to stop if you're not
going to take my advice and stop complaining,
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you know, like we talk about
what makes us unhappy and all this
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stuff. And so people see it
as other people influencing them, but I
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think sometimes it's not even the other
person's influencing them. They just give them
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power, They give them the motivation
to actually do what they've been trying to
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do this whole time, and just
realizing that they're worth a lot more than
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people give them credit for. Okay, that's it's a good way to look
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at it, TG, what do
you think? Yeah, I was going
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to add on to the cool thing
of like other people typically hear the bad
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stuff because that's what you're venting to
your friends about. Nobody's calling their friends
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and be like, oh my god, he did the sweetest thing. So
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I mean they do, but obviously, like the conversations that others are hearing
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are they're not so good things,
and so it's hard to hear that your
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friend's having a hard time, that
your friend is hurting, or that someone
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is treating them with disrespect or whatever
it is. But it's also showing that
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that person isn't communicating in their relationship
because they should be having a big part
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of that conversation with their partner.
But it depends on the situation. So
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I would say that probably that percentage
that listen to others, it wasn't so
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much to listen to others, but
it took others' voices for them to see
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what was truly happening, because love
does through a blind eye. Help lost
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TG. No, oh, oh
man, she's on a roll too,
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right, Yeah, that's terrible.
Old. Let's see if she paused back
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in because let me see show show
text. If there's a problem, probably
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probably probably on the wrong side of
her room with the wife. What happened?
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I'm probably it's probably gonna happen again, because it's like you should hardwire
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instead of using your WiFi. It's
like, come on, bro, why
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do I pay for Wi Fi?
What is the point? Yeah? Yeah,
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you on a roll? You were
you flowing there? What's up?
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Yeah? Computer just killed me.
I don't even know where I was at
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because I just got like just yes, people listening to others, Like it
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took me having a therapist and and
hearing it from others sometimes to look at
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my failed relationships, you know,
to give it to the last one,
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to give it the quits too go
lot. So it's like we'll say the
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things out loud and then not realize
what we're saying, Like how bad that
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thing is that we're saying, the
behavior we're allowing, its respect that we
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allow, the the miscommunication that happens
and not fixing it or whatever. So
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it's just I think that percentage is
probably like they woke the fuck up and
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said this isn't working. I don't
know what the relation of men wanting to
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get married has to do with that
though, because like I think, people
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don't want to be lonely at the
end of the day. Like it's human
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nature. We want someone else.
It's better to be with someone else.
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It's fucking lonely out here if you
don't have somebody. So I think that's
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just nature, you know. And
some people, I think marriage itself,
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the word, the legality of it, the paperwork, the government taxes.
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I mean, for some people that's
an issue. I know people who refuse
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to get married because for tax reasons, Like there are some people who are
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adamant about those things. So it's
not like I don't want to spend the
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rest of my life with you.
I just don't want to go through the
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way the government is telling me I
have to do it. So yeah,
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you're absolutely right, I mean,
you know, and some people are okay
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with that, But I think,
but I think really quick, I think
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what sucks about being with someone and
then not getting married, But being with
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someone for so long and not getting
married kind of sucks in the end because
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GOFAB is something happens to one or
the other. They have no legal right,
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you know what I'm saying to to
anything, especially you know, when
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it comes to the family. You
know what I'm saying. I mean it
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kind of it kind of in a
way, it kind of like you know,
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because if you've built something, you
know, for for however long,
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and then something happens to your partner
and you're not married, so you're not
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legally entitled to any Yes, but
there are ways around that too, lawfully,
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like there are states that do common
law common law marriage. There are
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things, yes, you can,
there are things you just need to get
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paperwork for. But if people are
serious and they want to be together but
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they don't want to be married,
you can put someone on your life insurance,
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you can add them to your insurances. You can that that that's that
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I get that. I understand you
wouldn't like if someone is ill and you
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know they're going to die, you're
going to figure out a way that you're
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taking care of or that your partner's
taking care of her whatever. That's the
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hope. I know, things happen
like from one day to the next two
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and you never know. But if
you're serious and you're in a relationship and
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you live with someone, these are
things that should be talked about, like
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your partner should know, like what
happens, is something were to happen to
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you, what do you want?
You know? And making sure that's in
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writing, like I hate it,
like it's morbid. But like even at
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our age, like we should have
some type of living will or will written
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out because flash drives, everybody gets
a flash drives. That makes sense,
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doesn't not where these flash drives are. I really thought like he would each
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give them a laptop with everything actually
like this crazy uh colored, each one
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gets their own color. It's it's
true. I video video did a video
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will. I did one specifically for
the family, like for the kids and
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stuff, and then I did some
for individuals. You know. The one
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for the family that I did for
the for the kids and stuff actually is
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password protected. Okay, two people
have the password, and then everything else
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is just the regular flash tribes with
individual videos on each one, and then
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I got them all in in the
lock box safe. Yeah. I'm not
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prepared. I have nothing. My
husband's on my life insurance for work and
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like he's my beneficiary and I I
don't even have like backup water in case
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of emergency. So I'm totally not
ready for anything, no apocalypse or death.
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So I pray that nothing happens.
Listen. As long as the zombies
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don't run, we're good. I
can't run either, so we're fucking.
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I just really, maybe I need
a scooter or something, just even though
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scooters fucking zombie. I'll run a
fucking scooter. Those scooters the slowest ship.
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What are you talking about? Just
go a mile and a half an
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hour? About the one that you
do yourself? Like? Oh not not
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not the old lady scooter. I'll
never I would die minutes ship, what
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do you mean? So for for
the fans listening and watching where you're listening
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and watching from, we have a
chat room so you guys can chime in,
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say what you want to say,
talk whatever ship you want to talk,
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and you know, get involved.
Just letting you guys know that.
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So all right, So that's that's
that's all right. That's And show me
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where these guys who want to get
married and have real relationship were at because
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they're all in Jersey. What do
you mean? No, I've been single
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five years, ain't meant one yet. Yeah. I think it's funny.
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I think dating right now is like
all these men putting long term relationships on
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their profiles, but they don't they
dout they want the wam band, thank
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you, ma'am exactly, or even
like, they don't want to do any
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work, they don't want any situation, they don't want situationships at all.
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So well, look, look,
I'm not saying everyone. I'm not saying
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everyone, but there are a lot
of people out there that are bullshitters and
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they'll just saying whatever. All right, So all right, let's let's let's
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let's not bring it here, let's
bring it a little on here a little
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bit. Let me tell you,
let me tell you, all right,
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Look, it's not it's it's to
some to some men, all right,
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and I'm speaking as a dude.
All right, it's you have to you
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have to find someone who's willing to
communicate and understand. It's about communication and
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understanding. To me, if you
can communicated, well the problem, the
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problem is that's what it is.
You have to You have to definitely find
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someone who's going to communicate and understand. You know what I'm saying, because
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if you if you if you don't, if you don't have the communication or
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understanding, what's what's what's the use? You know, you got to be
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able to open to the possibility Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I
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mean, yeah, it's it's about
it's it's about you know, to me
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personally, communication and understanding. I
know that there are dudes out there,
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like you said, it's all about
the one night stand. It's all about
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getting what you can get and moving
on. You know what I'm saying,
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is that watermelon? It's a red
dees ice O. Great? All right,
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hold on, I got some way
too much money. So yeah,
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I'm talking about specific profiles. Oh
god, I'm just gonna I'm just gonna
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have to bring him in here.
I said, who doves is here?
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No, we don't need him.
We were having such a wonderful all right,
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hold on, I'm gonna tell I'm
gonna tell him to chill. Hold
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on. Yeah, he came in. He just came in. Even come
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in first off, you know what
I'm saying, Like, Yo, you
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know what Yo? You know?
So what we're talking about, relationship,
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man bag everybody, that's it.
Now. We're trying, we're trying.
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We're trying to have We're trying to
we're trying to be a little bit you
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know all that cheat back everybody,
seriously, I mean opinion like like yo,
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like like, yo, you know
what, here's what you do,
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right, you shave your testicles right
and let it grow like to like to
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like if you're when you listen back
to listen, drag different face. You
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know what I'm saying in your face? Listen to me? Yeah, I
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know, so listen. I have
to agree with the ladies. A lot
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of these man are are all talked
just for you, just to get your
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attention, all right, well of
course, bro of course listen like like
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like yo, you know what,
like like hold on real quick, all
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these you know, all these dudes
are going to do is you know what
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I'm saying, It's like, what's
the sweet nothing's until those legs right,
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and that's it. Yeah, I
mean what it is. You know what
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I'm saying as as it is,
But hold up, it is found.
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It is found. Not not every
dude, Not every dude is like that,
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you know. But there are a
lot of guys out there that want
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to have the one nice stand.
They want to go ahead and say what
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they want to say to get what
they want to get and keep it moving.
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But the thing is is that not
every fucking dude is like that.
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You know what I'm saying, Not
every dude. Not Nah, you know
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what I'm saying. I mean,
but the thing is too, if you
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you gotta be real about it,
it takes time. But hold up,
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hold up, bro, It takes
time to to to figure out somebody's real
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agenda. You know what I'm saying. It takes time to actually try and
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figure out what it is somebody,
you know what I'm saying, wants in
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in in said relationship. You don't. You don't go ahead and you know,
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have a three or four minute conversation
and you know, start sending dick
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picks or start sending titt picks or
start sending whatever. It's. It's it's
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more than that. You shouldn't even
be that to start. But I'm just
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saying it's it's it's a lot.
It's a lot more than just you know
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like that. I mean, well
on this day and age, that's all
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it is. I mean, honestly, I'm not against dick picks. My
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issue is like our conversation should be
leaning in the direction where it would be
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okay for you to do that or
ask you for it, not like,
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oh, you're beautiful, you want
to fucking dick pick. It's like,
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whoa calm the fuck down. Like, I don't even know if I like
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your face. But here's a question
for the two of the guys. Got
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a question. I hate you for
that one. I don't even know.
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I don't never mind a dick pic
calmed down. I don't even know if
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I like your face. Bro,
you know what I'm saying. Come on,
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bro, it was that was great? You just don't like that?
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No, no, no, no, no, no, I like that.
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Actually I like that. Actually you
know what? You know what,
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keep your roll with me on?
Make you a start question to marriage I'm
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talking about on the other end.
So let's just say that there's women who
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also just like to have sex and
enjoy themselves and maybe don't want a relationship,
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and there are some guys out there
who are very turned off by that
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or get very with the double standard
of I you know that's girls, you're
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you know, you're being a slut
whore or something like that, because I
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can't think of other words. But
basically, like, it's what is your
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view on a woman who is open
sexually and more? Yes, you know
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what, I'm just playing, like
like view on like women, you know,
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like being promiscuous and whatever. I
mean, it's still frowned upon the
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society. You know what I'm saying, because because because like in an honesty,
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you know what I'm saying, there's
my point of view, like like
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you know what, in the household, women are the backbone, you know
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what I'm saying. So like if
you with someone outside in the streets,
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they represent you and even though their
passion have nothing to do with anything,
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right, it would be kind of
odd to like, you know what I'm
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saying, to like to be someplace, you know what I'm saying, in
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a public place and here, yo, hey, what's up? You look
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different with your clothes on, you
know what I'm saying. Or how's your
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knees? You know, like ship
like that, you know what I'm saying.
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I say this joking around, but
like but like you know what though
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like but but you know what,
though like dudes have passed too, like
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like yo, you know what,
like threesomes and you know, you know
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what I'm saying, like training the
girl, like like you know what we
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like, like you know what,
we just have passes just that society built
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it in in in a way where
like we're like you know what, you
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you know what I'm saying. You
as a woman could fuck a hundred dudes
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and you considered the whore. Could
I could fuck a hundred girls and I'm
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considered the player. You know what
I'm saying, We'll Chamberlain with Wilt Chamberlain
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status. You know, Like it's
like a right of passes for a man,
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but for a woman, that's wrong
upon right. For a woman,
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it's she doesn't respect herself, and
that's what bothers me. But then when
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you get how when you go the
other way, but when you go the
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other way and the woman doesn't want
to do anything, she's a bitch because
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she's prude, you know, like
she So it's like we're darned if we
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do. We're darned if we don't, you know, because it's like if
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you don't give it up, it's
like, well you ain't nothing, but
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yeah, give it up too much? Yeah, us easy girls are making
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it harder for you know, you
girls out there try to get something real.
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I'm sorry we left it up,
but it's really like the issue too,
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though, is this is this lack
of communication. That's what it really
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comes down to. Like, yeah, I'm not okay when I meet any
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guy who thinks that he can like
judge me for my promiscuous ways or whatever
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and just assume that I don't have
self respect or I don't respect myself because
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I like Dick, That makes no
sense to me. I like something,
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I'm gonna use it and abuse it
until I'm done. That's just the way
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I am. And don't say uh
huh. So I just think it's weird
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to like that men are okay if
their boys lept with everyone else, but
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this someone that has a past or
has something where they were this way,
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and it's like, eh, like
uh, like what like you probably did
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some really dirty shit we ain't talking
about right now, So like why are
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you acting like you're in a sent
when we all know you're not in a
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sense, and even in the relationship
aspect, you know, like like what
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Cordon was talking about, like when
you're in a relationship and you break up
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because other people and kind of like
what Doves was saying, a man can
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go out there and cheat on you
one hundred times, and as a woman
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caring for this man, you're gonna
put up with it, put up with
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it, put up with it.
Heaven forbid. Let the girl do once
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with somebody. And it's like his
whole world is wrecked. But no,
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never mind about how many times I've
had to you know, not me personally,
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but as a woman, I've had
to turn my face on all the
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people that you're messing with. But
you know, I do something one time
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and all of the sudden and your
whole world is out. And then you're
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gonna get mad at me because somebody
showed me or or talked some sense into
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me. Because you're the one losing, you know, right, And unfortunately
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too that that's part of a Hispanic
culture and a lot of cultures where men
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cheat and it's like that's the norm, okay, or you you find out
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a bit about it, but you
stay for the marriage because you married that
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person. And I think like that, and listen real quick, it's not
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cheating unless you get caught. Well, that's you're still cheating. You're still
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doing something you're not supposed to be
doing. Bring this stuff either, you
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bring me something home, and you're
gonna get hurt, right, keeps on
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giving. No, it's not nice. No, all right, all right,
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So it's it was it was If
that's something, it's it's true.
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I mean you can't. I mean, as far as women are concerned.
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I don't. I don't have.
I don't call any women a whole slut,
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skang, whatever the fuck, you
know, because of what they've done.
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You know what I'm saying, I
don't. I have. I have
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daughters. I have, I have
all my mom passed, but I have,
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I have daughters. And you know, I wouldn't appreciate ship like that,
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you know what I'm saying. But
you know, you don't speak to
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women and say things to women that
are the rogatory like that. It's not
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cool. Despite whatever the fucking is
they do. First of all, it's
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none of your fucking business. You
know what I'm saying. I mean,
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you gotta look at it like that, like fuck. I mean, she's
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out there doing what she's doing.
She's doing it for a reason, you
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know what I'm saying. She she
likes what she she she enjoys it.
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And you know, and it is, it is what it is. I
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have another I actually posed this question
to a group that I'm in. It's
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I gotta hold on, I gotta
find it. It was. It was,
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it was, it was. It
was a pretty decent question. I
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was. I was actually surprised at
myself asking a fucking question. Of this
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magnitude to be honest with you,
I was like, I was like,
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I was like, holy on,
that's a good fucking question, bro,
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Like where did you come up with
this ship? Old? So let me
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let's me all right, here we
go. All right, I got it
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right, yere? Now, is
real love truly unconditional? And do relationships
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that say it's unconditional love, but
have conditions to attain and keep that love
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more like contractual love? Oh God, you're gonna have to repeat that.
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There is so much going on,
all right, cool? All right,
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right quick, let check it is
true. Is real love truly unconditional?
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And do relationships that say it's unconditional
love, but have conditions to attain and
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keep that love more like contractual love. First of all, love is it's
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relative, all right, So what
we're talking about, Yes, real love
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that's unconditional and things and things are
always conditional. There's only conditional love you
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can have for your kids and God
to you, okay, because real love
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unconditions, but I mean it's not
additional to a certain point. Yeah,
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So there's always going to be a
condition, Like the condition would be that
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you respect me, or the condition
would be you know, that we remain
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faithful to each other. Like there's
always some type of a condition. As
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long as I'm alive, that's a
condition. Okay, how conditional love?
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How much is your life assurance?
Oh my goodness, so so at some
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point, at some point, like
if you are right, so condition I'm
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trying to. I'm trying to,
all right, So all right, so
405
00:34:47.920 --> 00:34:51.800
let me see if I even if
I can even answer my own question.
406
00:34:55.119 --> 00:35:01.639
Love love real? To me,
love is love and without condition. That's
407
00:35:01.719 --> 00:35:08.079
one thing. And that's a possibility
for certain people and certain relationships and and
408
00:35:08.840 --> 00:35:17.960
certain you know, just certain types
of people. It's it's the highest form
409
00:35:19.039 --> 00:35:24.039
of of love. Right. But
I think if somebody beat on you every
410
00:35:24.079 --> 00:35:30.199
single day of your relationships, you're
going to continue to love them. But
411
00:35:30.239 --> 00:35:34.920
that's not that's not real love.
That's that's not yeah, that's that's not
412
00:35:35.000 --> 00:35:40.480
unconditional because you don't beat the ship
of somebody you should love, should like
413
00:35:40.519 --> 00:35:43.800
yo, you know what, you
know what you got to keep them in
414
00:35:43.880 --> 00:35:45.559
line, you know what I'm saying. What I'm saying, like if their
415
00:35:45.599 --> 00:35:49.480
habitual line stuff is, you know, you gotta like you know, keep
416
00:35:49.519 --> 00:35:55.360
them back, times them up.
A couple of times like look just playing
417
00:35:59.440 --> 00:36:05.960
him, you know what, you
let her know when it assumes me,
418
00:36:06.119 --> 00:36:13.880
why you must get me this way? I think I think it's it's a
419
00:36:13.960 --> 00:36:15.760
lot of a lot of the love. The word, the word that you
420
00:36:15.840 --> 00:36:20.119
know a lot of people are using
these days, are more contractual than unconditional.
421
00:36:20.800 --> 00:36:27.760
And when I say contractual, I
mean I mean like monetary. I
422
00:36:27.880 --> 00:36:31.280
mean you you can, you can
say you love somebody, but you know
423
00:36:32.159 --> 00:36:37.320
you're it's more of a it's more
of a contract so to speak. I
424
00:36:37.400 --> 00:36:42.840
mean, like you know what,
you love somebody out of you love something,
425
00:36:42.880 --> 00:36:45.639
you love it. It's it's not
unconditioned love. A lot of love
426
00:36:45.719 --> 00:36:50.000
these days, you know a lot
of it. I'm not saying, oh,
427
00:36:50.519 --> 00:36:54.119
a lot of it is contractual because
you have to you have to understand
428
00:36:54.239 --> 00:37:00.920
that not everyone is in a position
to love that way. Not everyone is
429
00:37:01.000 --> 00:37:07.519
in a position to accept that type
of love, you know. So what
430
00:37:07.719 --> 00:37:13.559
happens is they put conditions on it, and that's what makes it contractual as
431
00:37:13.599 --> 00:37:20.000
opposed to unconditional. And that's how
I see it. That's you see but
432
00:37:20.079 --> 00:37:22.519
yo, you know what though,
but like like you know what they you
433
00:37:22.599 --> 00:37:25.599
know what I mean, Like I
get like that term unconditional love, because
434
00:37:25.639 --> 00:37:30.159
like if let's just say, you
know, someone gets cheated on in the
435
00:37:30.239 --> 00:37:34.639
relationship, it's like you got to
walk away from them. You still love
436
00:37:34.679 --> 00:37:37.199
them, but from a distance,
you see what I mean. That's when
437
00:37:37.239 --> 00:37:40.000
that you know, that's that's when
it becomes like somewhat somewhat you know what
438
00:37:40.000 --> 00:37:45.360
I'm saying, like a probably like
a unconditional you know what I'm saying,
439
00:37:45.400 --> 00:37:49.679
because like you still love them from
a distance, and that's it or her,
440
00:37:50.119 --> 00:37:52.159
you know what I'm saying, Like
I don't know, I'm just talking
441
00:37:52.239 --> 00:37:55.320
shit. I mean, there are
different types of love, you know.
442
00:37:57.760 --> 00:38:04.000
To me, real love, unconditional
love is loving someone no matter what they
443
00:38:04.159 --> 00:38:10.280
do. So and that doesn't mean
that you should take something you shouldn't take.
444
00:38:10.639 --> 00:38:16.400
That's not what I'm saying. And
deb said something out. Love is
445
00:38:16.480 --> 00:38:20.639
what you do, not what you
say. But that's a that's a certain
446
00:38:20.760 --> 00:38:30.119
type of love. That's showing love. So nonen yes, not being judgmental.
447
00:38:30.280 --> 00:38:32.320
I think it's possible to do that
with a partner. That if you
448
00:38:32.519 --> 00:38:37.159
find your partner that you have true
and real love with, you can love
449
00:38:37.239 --> 00:38:44.119
them unconditionally. Because your children are
in a way contractual love. You have
450
00:38:44.280 --> 00:38:45.840
to love your children. They're yours. They came out of you, they
451
00:38:45.960 --> 00:38:50.760
are you, they are a part
of you, and they do disrespect you,
452
00:38:51.280 --> 00:38:53.079
and they do things that are not
very nice to you, and you
453
00:38:53.239 --> 00:39:01.159
love not the way. But this
is my point. You love them regardless.
454
00:39:01.440 --> 00:39:06.119
Even if they are a douchebag.
Your child turns out to be a
455
00:39:06.239 --> 00:39:09.199
fucking murderer, you probably still love
them. You'd be really upset about it,
456
00:39:09.639 --> 00:39:14.480
but that was that's your child,
Okay, That's that's the obligation.
457
00:39:15.039 --> 00:39:21.079
It's it's contractual more than you think. But in terms of I love someone
458
00:39:21.199 --> 00:39:25.800
wholeheartedly no matter what, it's possible
to have that kind of love and have
459
00:39:27.000 --> 00:39:31.760
that commitity. People have to be
on the same page. Though you one
460
00:39:31.840 --> 00:39:37.719
person can't be the only honest one
in a relationship. You both have to
461
00:39:37.800 --> 00:39:40.960
be honest with each other. And
I'm frae to talk about the uncomfortable ship
462
00:39:42.039 --> 00:39:47.880
that you don't like to talk about, because that's transparency to learn your partners
463
00:39:49.960 --> 00:39:54.440
like the way that they need to
process shit. There are people react,
464
00:39:55.159 --> 00:39:59.519
okay. I hate when people react, okay, because to me that shows
465
00:39:59.599 --> 00:40:04.360
that you're not grown. You don't
have it together because you can't figure out
466
00:40:04.400 --> 00:40:07.119
that you're in a position right now
where you wait, you know what,
467
00:40:08.320 --> 00:40:15.840
lash out? Don't lash out at
a person because you're angry, because you're
468
00:40:16.000 --> 00:40:21.119
hurt. So now you want to
hurt someone. That's ask your question.
469
00:40:21.760 --> 00:40:24.320
Yes, all right. You know
what when you say reactive, right,
470
00:40:24.480 --> 00:40:28.599
the way I look at it is
like it's like you're telling me, like
471
00:40:29.079 --> 00:40:32.039
you know what I'm saying. You're
telling me something real fucked up that you
472
00:40:32.119 --> 00:40:36.119
know you did on your time and
it's affected me. You know what I'm
473
00:40:36.119 --> 00:40:39.079
saying in a negative way. So
yeah, I'm going to react first because
474
00:40:39.079 --> 00:40:44.679
I'm like example, give me an
example, all right, you know what
475
00:40:44.679 --> 00:40:47.760
I'm saying, Like, like,
let's just say, let's say my girl
476
00:40:47.800 --> 00:40:52.039
and I have a joint bank account, right mm hm, and you know
477
00:40:52.039 --> 00:40:54.639
I left with a card or whatever. I told her spend X amount,
478
00:40:55.280 --> 00:41:00.480
but she went like, you know, like a thousand dollars oh, because
479
00:41:00.679 --> 00:41:02.239
what she felt like she you know
what I'm saying, we need you know
480
00:41:02.280 --> 00:41:05.880
what I'm saying, like, you
know, she went a little crazy.
481
00:41:05.960 --> 00:41:10.280
Let's just say that right now.
My reaction, my reaction towards that is
482
00:41:10.320 --> 00:41:13.440
going to be Yo, what the
you know what I'm saying, Like,
483
00:41:13.559 --> 00:41:15.679
what the You know what I'm saying, what did you get? You know
484
00:41:15.679 --> 00:41:19.360
what I'm saying, like you know
what your react? Like? Yeah,
485
00:41:19.840 --> 00:41:22.119
yo, you know what? I
listen. You know what, If we
486
00:41:22.199 --> 00:41:25.039
need something for the house and I
give you my card, that's one thing.
487
00:41:25.639 --> 00:41:28.559
But if you're coming back with you
know what I'm saying, what a
488
00:41:28.639 --> 00:41:31.800
fuck pet line? Like we need
that ship, I'm gonna react. You
489
00:41:31.840 --> 00:41:38.280
know what I'm saying, Like,
I'm not saying that a reaction. Everyone
490
00:41:38.400 --> 00:41:43.800
has a reaction to something, but
people process things. There are people who
491
00:41:43.800 --> 00:41:45.960
are like, wait, let me
not say something right now, because whatever
492
00:41:46.079 --> 00:41:50.079
is going to come out of my
mouth is going to be nasty. If
493
00:41:50.119 --> 00:41:53.519
you know yourself, if you have
self awareness, then you can tell yourself
494
00:41:53.760 --> 00:41:58.880
like and get trust me. There
are moments where we break, like some
495
00:41:59.039 --> 00:42:01.280
ship goes down, and in that
moment you react. I'm saying, no,
496
00:42:01.360 --> 00:42:07.800
one's never allowed to react. I'm
talking about when there's miscommunication, when
497
00:42:07.840 --> 00:42:12.639
there's an issue in the relationship.
How are you reacting. If your first
498
00:42:12.719 --> 00:42:16.719
responponse is to be pissed and break
the person, make them feel small or
499
00:42:16.840 --> 00:42:23.400
whatever, that is not a way
to handle a situation or or be with
500
00:42:23.559 --> 00:42:28.239
a person you're in a relationship with. That's what I'm trying to say,
501
00:42:28.480 --> 00:42:31.159
Like, if you're always like that, that's a fucking issue. Get therapy,
502
00:42:31.960 --> 00:42:36.840
because that's an issue. You're angry
about something and you're constantly taking out
503
00:42:36.840 --> 00:42:40.199
on your partner, projecting, projecting
exactly, it's a part of it,
504
00:42:40.400 --> 00:42:44.639
exact, you see, like you
see, like you know what, me
505
00:42:44.679 --> 00:42:45.880
and my girl weigh on good terms
right now. You know what I'm saying
506
00:42:45.920 --> 00:42:49.639
because because you know what, she
burnt the pot roast too many times,
507
00:42:49.679 --> 00:42:51.280
so I told her, I say, yo, do that shit again,
508
00:42:51.760 --> 00:42:53.639
and I'm gonna getting medieval on your
ass. So you know what she did.
509
00:42:54.800 --> 00:42:58.199
She took the frying pansts smacked me
over the head with it. You
510
00:42:58.239 --> 00:43:00.000
know what I'm saying. I was
out like probably like twenty minutes or whatever.
511
00:43:00.480 --> 00:43:10.920
I think I have Now I think
I have CTE Antonio Brown. What
512
00:43:12.079 --> 00:43:15.760
a tragedy not but like gone but
but like like let me give you an
513
00:43:15.760 --> 00:43:19.960
example right between my girl and I. Right, you know what I'm saying,
514
00:43:20.039 --> 00:43:23.760
Like before you know, you know
what I'm saying, because I got
515
00:43:23.800 --> 00:43:28.199
other things on my mind and like
things start piling up like before, like
516
00:43:28.320 --> 00:43:30.679
you know, like I try my
best to like not projected onto it,
517
00:43:31.880 --> 00:43:36.159
you know, like because because like
you know what, I have issues with
518
00:43:36.280 --> 00:43:37.960
my back, you know what I'm
saying, And like there's just days when
519
00:43:38.039 --> 00:43:40.280
I'm like, you know, trying
to like hold the pain in and she
520
00:43:40.280 --> 00:43:44.559
would just ask me for something small
and I'll be like, come on,
521
00:43:44.719 --> 00:43:45.880
man, you know what I'm saying
with an attitude because I'm in pain,
522
00:43:46.280 --> 00:43:49.599
you know what I'm saying. And
then and then I realized, you what
523
00:43:49.599 --> 00:43:54.000
I'm saying, Like I'm wrong for
that because I am you know, like
524
00:43:54.320 --> 00:43:58.639
I haven't feeling bad or whatever,
and I'm like, yo, I'm sorry.
525
00:43:59.119 --> 00:44:00.679
You know what I'm saying, Like
like you know what, like like
526
00:44:00.760 --> 00:44:05.519
you know, like swallowing my pride
about that ship, you know, but
527
00:44:05.719 --> 00:44:14.880
pride like that's literally I fou I
should apologize period. Like that beats you
528
00:44:14.960 --> 00:44:17.280
a bigger person actually to recogn you
know what you fucked up, you know
529
00:44:17.360 --> 00:44:20.880
what? See see, you know
what. We're all from the same generation.
530
00:44:21.199 --> 00:44:23.119
So let's talk about it real quick, right we can. Yea,
531
00:44:23.480 --> 00:44:30.920
we're from a generation. Yeah,
the generation that we need to break that
532
00:44:30.119 --> 00:44:36.400
cycle that we grew because it wasn't
a good one. The first off,
533
00:44:37.159 --> 00:44:39.039
First off, you know what I'm
saying. We grew up in a generation
534
00:44:39.119 --> 00:44:44.400
where we watched cartoons and thought attempted
murder was funny. Tom trying to kill
535
00:44:44.519 --> 00:44:47.400
Jerry, g I, Joe.
You know it don't matter, it's still
536
00:44:47.400 --> 00:44:50.559
a tempted murder. We thought that
sh it was funny. You know what
537
00:44:50.559 --> 00:44:53.840
I'm saying. No harassment. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. We
538
00:44:53.880 --> 00:44:58.320
thought that was funny, but we
weren't. Our brain was not old enough
539
00:44:58.400 --> 00:45:01.239
to process that that was happening.
And we knew that cartoons were make believe
540
00:45:01.840 --> 00:45:09.719
unless you thought something different. Yeah, yeah, for real, you know
541
00:45:09.719 --> 00:45:12.880
what I'm saying. Another one,
you know what I'm saying. And then
542
00:45:13.039 --> 00:45:15.280
yeah, first off, when aftermist
Prime died, I cried, all right,
543
00:45:16.079 --> 00:45:20.400
so ever, yo, don't ever, don't ever, don't ever talk
544
00:45:20.440 --> 00:45:23.760
about that moment transport. I cried, yo, yo, yo, you
545
00:45:23.840 --> 00:45:25.719
know what. My brother took me
to the movie, We want to go
546
00:45:25.800 --> 00:45:30.239
see the movie and then like mega
Trump like like killed the Optimist Prime.
547
00:45:30.440 --> 00:45:35.320
I was like no, you know, like, like, yo, you
548
00:45:35.400 --> 00:45:39.199
know what that was traumatizing. You
know what I'm saying. It still hurts
549
00:45:39.239 --> 00:45:43.440
it still affects me to this day. There's a lot of traumatizing things that
550
00:45:43.559 --> 00:45:47.119
I watched growing out that we should
have not been watching Exorcist, Like,
551
00:45:47.280 --> 00:45:54.760
yo, you know, definitely ex
but I still remember parts of that movie.
552
00:45:55.039 --> 00:45:59.760
Okay, but but but but but
you know what though, like when
553
00:45:59.800 --> 00:46:04.519
you know what though like like you
know what, like as you knows as
554
00:46:04.639 --> 00:46:06.760
kids growing up, you know what
I'm saying, in that generation, in
555
00:46:06.800 --> 00:46:09.480
our generation that we came up in, you know, like, yeah,
556
00:46:09.559 --> 00:46:13.199
you know what, like it was
always together in this but at the same
557
00:46:13.280 --> 00:46:15.199
time, they always said, you
don't cry. You know what I'm saying,
558
00:46:15.239 --> 00:46:17.599
you fall, eat it up,
don't cry, and this, that
559
00:46:17.639 --> 00:46:21.280
and the third. But like,
yo, you know what, following that
560
00:46:21.480 --> 00:46:24.559
rule, you know what I'm saying, following that mantluin, it fucked us
561
00:46:24.639 --> 00:46:29.480
up emotionally, you know what.
I have to admit that, you know
562
00:46:29.519 --> 00:46:31.840
what I'm saying, because like because
like you know what, like we're still
563
00:46:31.920 --> 00:46:37.039
used to keeping that ship in like
there's really no outlet, but you know,
564
00:46:37.400 --> 00:46:40.920
your emotional abuse and we don't.
A lot of people don't even no
565
00:46:42.239 --> 00:46:47.239
damage, yes literally you know,
so you know, so it's like but
566
00:46:47.559 --> 00:46:51.079
but see, you know what One
thing about our generation is that, you
567
00:46:51.159 --> 00:46:53.679
know, we were the generation that
you know, you fuck around, you're
568
00:46:53.719 --> 00:46:59.440
gonna find out we hurt feelings and
faces, you know, like none of
569
00:46:59.519 --> 00:47:00.920
this online ship. You know what
I'm saying. If it's up, it's
570
00:47:00.960 --> 00:47:04.519
up and on and on. That's
it, you know, like, yes,
571
00:47:04.679 --> 00:47:07.559
that's how he grew up. But
then we also are the generation that
572
00:47:07.800 --> 00:47:14.199
is not repeating that same trauma.
Many of us. They can't speak for
573
00:47:14.239 --> 00:47:17.559
all of us. You know what
I taught. I taught my son.
574
00:47:19.000 --> 00:47:22.960
I taught my son right what I'm
saying. If he's gonna cry, I'm
575
00:47:22.960 --> 00:47:24.800
like, Yo, if you're gonna
cry, don't cry. Don't don't cry
576
00:47:24.880 --> 00:47:30.239
out here among strangers. Go home
and cry. We'll understand. You know,
577
00:47:30.519 --> 00:47:34.000
it's all right. The crowd,
how what you know what I'm saying,
578
00:47:35.239 --> 00:47:37.639
just throwing you know what I'm saying. Yeah, you know what I'm
579
00:47:37.639 --> 00:47:39.039
saying. It's a time or place. You know what I'm saying, Like
580
00:47:39.679 --> 00:47:43.079
you want to come to me and
cry, go ahead, you know,
581
00:47:43.119 --> 00:47:46.320
I mean I can understand. I'm
going to I'm gonna hug you. You
582
00:47:46.360 --> 00:47:50.239
know I told my son, I'm
gonna hug you, and then I'm going
583
00:47:50.320 --> 00:47:52.960
to roast you after that, like
you pussy. You know what I'm saying,
584
00:47:52.079 --> 00:47:55.960
Like like you know what, Like
but at the end of the day,
585
00:47:57.039 --> 00:47:59.679
like like I was telling you know, I was telling cod On this,
586
00:47:59.760 --> 00:48:01.400
I'm like, Yo, we came
up in everywhere, you know,
587
00:48:01.519 --> 00:48:06.920
like we suppressed out you know what
I'm saying, our pain, you know,
588
00:48:07.119 --> 00:48:09.079
and believe me, you know what
I'm saying, like running you know
589
00:48:09.079 --> 00:48:12.280
what I'm saying, run a wild
out here. You know, we experienced
590
00:48:12.320 --> 00:48:16.960
a lot of it. So that
pain suppression, you know, probably most
591
00:48:17.079 --> 00:48:22.199
likely paid played the part in like
I meant to, you know, stability
592
00:48:22.280 --> 00:48:27.320
or lack their realp it definitely did, you know, Like like like for
593
00:48:27.440 --> 00:48:30.400
instance, you know what, like
when I was working when I was working
594
00:48:30.440 --> 00:48:35.320
for a path and I used to
see people get killed. I used to
595
00:48:35.400 --> 00:48:37.960
have grim jokes with it, you
know, Like I'm like, you know,
596
00:48:38.039 --> 00:48:40.360
like I used to record it.
I used to record it and like
597
00:48:42.159 --> 00:48:44.000
like like show called on, I'm
like, yo, you want to see
598
00:48:44.039 --> 00:48:46.559
someone catch a train? Then Boney
gets hit by a train. I'm like,
599
00:48:47.119 --> 00:48:50.639
you try to catch a train?
And I was there, you know,
600
00:48:50.840 --> 00:48:52.719
like like you know, like it's
it's just that, you know,
601
00:48:52.840 --> 00:48:57.039
like I started. You know,
the cope with that. I always see
602
00:48:57.119 --> 00:49:00.159
to say like grim jokes, you
know what I mean, a defense mechanism
603
00:49:00.280 --> 00:49:02.400
that you have. Yeah, you
know what I'm saying, Like like like
604
00:49:02.599 --> 00:49:05.320
like you know what comes to think
of it? You know, like like
605
00:49:05.440 --> 00:49:08.800
half the jokes that we have,
It's like they're all defense mechanisms from like
606
00:49:08.920 --> 00:49:14.599
past trump, past traumatic ship and
and you know what, and this is
607
00:49:14.639 --> 00:49:19.599
coming from my mouth. Look who
you're talking to. Look at the name
608
00:49:20.599 --> 00:49:23.599
Simon Phoenix aka Diddy Epstein. You
know what I'm saying. Look at the
609
00:49:23.719 --> 00:49:29.679
name. You know, Like this
is coming out from my mouth, you
610
00:49:29.760 --> 00:49:34.440
know. So so yeah, like
that's what it is. You know.
611
00:49:34.559 --> 00:49:38.679
Like but like our generation, you
know, like like we would talk to
612
00:49:38.800 --> 00:49:45.440
like hold things in right, but
we will talk to like but but but
613
00:49:45.559 --> 00:49:46.519
you know what though like we will
talk. You know, we were also
614
00:49:46.639 --> 00:49:52.840
taught to be fierce and every which
way because like we were taught that,
615
00:49:52.920 --> 00:49:54.519
you know what I mean, like
the world will eat you. What so
616
00:49:55.719 --> 00:50:02.320
either predator or get a prey and
hunt he was on, So I get
617
00:50:02.440 --> 00:50:10.440
up? Are you trying to get
drunk? To my that is the worst.
618
00:50:15.000 --> 00:50:20.320
Nine ninety nine Cherries was the first
hard hard looker I drank it,
619
00:50:20.599 --> 00:50:25.480
I don't, And I remember being
and I remember just like it, and
620
00:50:25.559 --> 00:50:30.599
I remember I was hanging out like
my university people, and we're in the
621
00:50:30.639 --> 00:50:32.480
projects, the thirty ninth Street.
We're drinking ninety nine cherries, like right
622
00:50:32.519 --> 00:50:36.239
there in front of like I remember, in front of thirty nine O one
623
00:50:37.440 --> 00:50:42.679
right, I want to get up. I'm like, what fifteen sixteen years
624
00:50:42.719 --> 00:50:45.039
old trying to get up, and
like I'm telling my boys that, yeah,
625
00:50:46.599 --> 00:50:50.719
that's all I remember saying. They're
like, what, like damn stuff.
626
00:50:50.760 --> 00:50:53.719
I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna
have to sleep over. So we
627
00:50:53.840 --> 00:50:58.599
walked down the hill, you know, like you like you guys, you
628
00:50:58.679 --> 00:51:00.280
guys familiar with thirty nine Street.
How they got the steep hill right next
629
00:51:00.320 --> 00:51:05.559
to the to the cemetery of the
projects, running to the cemetery. So
630
00:51:05.679 --> 00:51:08.840
we walked down the hill to his
house and like, you know, I
631
00:51:08.920 --> 00:51:13.880
slept over, but like I was
throwing the funk up. I was like,
632
00:51:15.280 --> 00:51:22.719
try even sound like I was drowning. Hell yeah, sounded like Louis
633
00:51:22.800 --> 00:51:37.880
Armstrong scimmy. You know you know
what you know what you know what's bad
634
00:51:37.920 --> 00:51:39.519
when when you hear someone throwing up
and all of a sudden they sounded like
635
00:51:39.519 --> 00:51:45.119
Louis Armstrong, like you know,
like at the jazz club, stimy,
636
00:51:46.199 --> 00:51:57.039
you know, like you know it's
bad. Let's be honest. What was
637
00:51:57.079 --> 00:52:04.159
your drinking choice? So the first
drink I ever had that was like,
638
00:52:04.760 --> 00:52:08.000
well, the first thing I ever
really drank drink was a forty when it
639
00:52:08.119 --> 00:52:13.039
was time to come out out,
but I had wine. What course,
640
00:52:14.679 --> 00:52:16.840
when you say forty, you know
what I'm saying, you better be specifical
641
00:52:17.039 --> 00:52:22.519
what forty what? Because you know
what? I don't know, because you
642
00:52:22.599 --> 00:52:31.280
know what that or would have been
an onlie. I don't remember. Man,
643
00:52:31.480 --> 00:52:37.599
that was so fucking long ago.
But and I did like Amaroto sours.
644
00:52:38.199 --> 00:52:43.199
I like that for a while.
I like sweet stuff at first,
645
00:52:45.159 --> 00:52:52.400
and then eventually I went to Captain
Morgan, Captain Marketing Coke, and then
646
00:52:52.480 --> 00:52:59.320
Captain Morgan and Ginerou. Now I
just like walk a tequila mhm drinks so
647
00:52:59.559 --> 00:53:02.079
that I see, like, you
know what, you know what besides twenty
648
00:53:02.159 --> 00:53:07.360
twenty and Cisco, there was only
four forty There was only four forty forty
649
00:53:07.400 --> 00:53:13.719
ounce come you know labels that we
drank from. Okay, crazy saying I's
650
00:53:14.119 --> 00:53:17.239
still reserves Old English and code forty
five sometimes crazy Horse when we found it.
651
00:53:17.400 --> 00:53:23.039
But yeah, it was either cold
forty five or Old English. I
652
00:53:23.559 --> 00:53:27.920
don't think it was yo and yo. And the thing is, you know
653
00:53:27.920 --> 00:53:30.719
what I'm saying, like like like
you know what, we like we would
654
00:53:30.719 --> 00:53:32.480
get the bottle and we were like
because that ship could just go back to
655
00:53:32.519 --> 00:53:35.800
the liquor store and get more.
Like Yo, you know what, the
656
00:53:35.880 --> 00:53:40.199
ship was a dollar once upon a
time. That's that's why. That's why
657
00:53:40.239 --> 00:53:43.599
you have to like you know what
I'm saying, knocking back, Yeah,
658
00:53:43.920 --> 00:53:45.559
and you'll think about it. The
ship was a dollar, you know what
659
00:53:45.599 --> 00:53:49.639
I'm saying. Yeah, and you
know what and you know what and I
660
00:53:50.000 --> 00:53:57.079
don't and I don't know. You
guys remember where ice Cube cypercell, like
661
00:53:57.159 --> 00:53:59.719
you know, like when they made
you know what I'm saying, commercials wrapping
662
00:53:59.719 --> 00:54:04.559
about Saint Os. So they made
it more pillans, like they made it
663
00:54:04.599 --> 00:54:07.920
more pillans to us, like like
Tupac made on me, like Tupaca Biggie,
664
00:54:07.960 --> 00:54:10.280
they both, you know, like
they may actually make commercials for Saint
665
00:54:10.320 --> 00:54:15.639
Os. I don't. I don't
know if we gotta remember that. I
666
00:54:15.280 --> 00:54:19.559
think there used to be like we
were growing up. I think there were
667
00:54:19.559 --> 00:54:24.599
commercials for cigarettes and alcohol, right, and then they wanted up getting away
668
00:54:24.719 --> 00:54:30.360
with that. Yeah, my favorite, my favorite drink. My favorite drinks
669
00:54:30.400 --> 00:54:40.960
were and twenty. This motherfucker better
watch it. Let me tell you you're
670
00:54:42.000 --> 00:54:45.960
about to get cut the funk off
right now, Like what the fuck?
671
00:54:45.880 --> 00:54:49.559
Bro, I have a drinking like
almost four years man, I know,
672
00:54:50.079 --> 00:54:59.639
but that that wasn't cool. But
anyway, yeah cool, Nah, he
673
00:54:59.760 --> 00:55:07.840
wasn't cool. B mad Dog twenty
twenty. Banana red was my favorite flake.
674
00:55:08.599 --> 00:55:15.239
Cisco was Strawberry other than Dog.
Yeah, I know, I know
675
00:55:15.519 --> 00:55:22.320
inside yes it's the name of the
company, but midsun And then that's funny
676
00:55:22.400 --> 00:55:25.840
though that we all really thought that
was what it was and it was called
677
00:55:28.000 --> 00:55:30.159
right and then and then my the
fortieth choice was crazy. It was for
678
00:55:30.280 --> 00:55:38.679
me. Damn damn. Those were
those are those are the days. And
679
00:55:38.800 --> 00:55:43.400
then when when we needed the bum
wine, we we we got the Rumbleman's
680
00:55:43.519 --> 00:55:51.039
or the the what was the other
one goal slager? Yes, that's what
681
00:55:51.199 --> 00:55:55.639
it was, slager, and I
was thrown up the gold flakes, remember
682
00:55:55.719 --> 00:56:05.320
that that had to burn. Bro
tried the moonshine, the original like real
683
00:56:05.440 --> 00:56:13.800
moonshine, No way, I don't
know, but die Yeah, ridiculous you
684
00:56:13.800 --> 00:56:16.239
would there have to pier one night
when when me and Jay had that bottle
685
00:56:16.280 --> 00:56:22.320
ever clear, right, I've been
there many times, ever clear gross.
686
00:56:22.840 --> 00:56:30.239
I remember when bullets fell on his
face. I remember that one he was
687
00:56:30.360 --> 00:56:34.679
he took three steps and fell face
first right into the floor concrete. I
688
00:56:34.840 --> 00:56:37.719
was like, oh, he's done. We had to carry him home and
689
00:56:37.800 --> 00:56:45.960
leave him at his doorstep and ran, oh yaeger er, no, thank
690
00:56:45.000 --> 00:56:51.239
you, no. But but you
know what though, you know what though,
691
00:56:51.320 --> 00:56:57.039
like it's weird because like Jagerst tasted
like straight ship. Hold on TG.
692
00:56:57.880 --> 00:57:00.599
You can see the chat room,
Yeah, I can't see nothing.
693
00:57:01.000 --> 00:57:05.320
If you go there, right there, it's his private chat or comments.
694
00:57:06.519 --> 00:57:09.159
I just clicked over to comments.
Oh I didn't know y'all could see the
695
00:57:09.280 --> 00:57:14.599
chat. Yeah, that's why I
keep putting the messages on the screen because
696
00:57:14.599 --> 00:57:15.880
I didn't know you to see.
I didn't know you were doing that.
697
00:57:16.039 --> 00:57:20.480
I thought that was naturally happening.
Now I was like, since when did
698
00:57:20.519 --> 00:57:23.639
that happen? Oh? I didn't
know y'all can see that. Good because
699
00:57:23.639 --> 00:57:27.239
I don't, I don't have to
stress out the buttons. All right,
700
00:57:28.360 --> 00:57:30.280
No, I didn't know you were
doing that anyway. Well, you know
701
00:57:30.360 --> 00:57:32.920
what, I'm on the phone,
so I mean you can't see it.
702
00:57:34.400 --> 00:57:37.079
You can't see No, actually I
can, but then but but then I
703
00:57:37.159 --> 00:57:40.119
can't see you know. Hey,
listen, man, you know what watched
704
00:57:40.119 --> 00:57:44.280
her tone? It behooves me that
you want to talk to me this way
705
00:57:44.840 --> 00:57:51.760
boo. So all right, so
so what are we? What are we
706
00:57:51.880 --> 00:57:55.239
watching these days? Lets so,
I'm star all right, we're gonna go
707
00:57:55.440 --> 00:58:00.159
and we're gonna go. We're gonna
go this way. Lady G? You
708
00:58:00.239 --> 00:58:04.840
watching these days? My business?
What do you? What are you?
709
00:58:05.000 --> 00:58:15.840
What are you recommending? Hello?
She fell asleep? Did you say TG
710
00:58:15.039 --> 00:58:21.480
or Lady G? I said,
Lady G, I need my my my
711
00:58:21.559 --> 00:58:24.960
knee changed to Tagachi because it's a
lady G and TG, and I can
712
00:58:25.079 --> 00:58:29.239
understand how they could get confusing,
I said, Lady G. What are
713
00:58:29.280 --> 00:58:34.800
you watching? What do you recommend? Fire Country? I watched boring shows,
714
00:58:34.880 --> 00:58:38.679
but I like them all of the
law and Orders? Yeah nine one?
715
00:58:39.800 --> 00:58:44.159
Yeah, Well fu me up about
Law and Order? Right? Is
716
00:58:44.239 --> 00:58:45.920
that every time they get a confession, always playing that you know what I'm
717
00:58:45.920 --> 00:58:52.119
saying? That dramatic music and the
guys like willingly confessing Nah, like you
718
00:58:52.159 --> 00:58:53.280
know what I'm saying. Nah?
Bro, First off, you know what.
719
00:58:54.039 --> 00:58:57.719
First off, I watched too much
first forty to be confessing that way.
720
00:58:57.760 --> 00:59:01.239
I'm like that lawyer. You know
what I'm saying. Lawyer, you
721
00:59:01.280 --> 00:59:04.400
know what I'm saying. And besides
that, you ain't catching me. I'll
722
00:59:04.440 --> 00:59:07.480
tell you why. You know what
I'm saying, because first off, you
723
00:59:07.519 --> 00:59:09.599
know what I'm saying. If I'm
gonna do something, I'm gonna plant carefully.
724
00:59:10.280 --> 00:59:15.679
I'm gonna shave my head, no
hair stocking, no hair, no
725
00:59:15.880 --> 00:59:20.280
hair, you know, like like
yo, you know what I finger I'll
726
00:59:20.320 --> 00:59:22.480
finger print my I'll fingerprint ras.
You know I'll raise it, blame my
727
00:59:22.559 --> 00:59:28.480
fingerprints, right, you know,
like get You're damn right. You know
728
00:59:28.519 --> 00:59:30.440
what I'm saying. I'll chop my
hand off. You know what I'm saying.
729
00:59:30.480 --> 00:59:32.960
I put in the mink riding.
You ain't getting nothing. You know
730
00:59:37.119 --> 00:59:43.559
you ain't. You ain't getting nothing? TG, What do you mean to
731
00:59:43.719 --> 00:59:45.639
got you? What are you watching? And what do you recommend? I
732
00:59:45.800 --> 00:59:51.800
just want to hear you say it? My god? What Asian I mean
733
00:59:52.599 --> 01:00:02.599
watching? I watched the mass singer
Voice Low in Order, Abbot Elementary UHESNL.
734
01:00:05.119 --> 01:00:09.280
Oh, there's a show called Animal
Control that I watched. It's pretty
735
01:00:09.320 --> 01:00:17.079
funny and dead not dead yet.
That one's pretty good too. I watched
736
01:00:17.159 --> 01:00:22.800
way many shows on Netflix, so
if you ever want to know about a
737
01:00:22.880 --> 01:00:29.159
show, I've probably watched it.
I yes, I love The Witcher yo,
738
01:00:29.280 --> 01:00:30.519
you know what. I just finished
watching The Witches that you know like,
739
01:00:30.639 --> 01:00:37.480
And the thing is, I'm not
into that coming back though, so
740
01:00:37.599 --> 01:00:40.519
that makes me not want to watch
like the next season, like I know,
741
01:00:42.920 --> 01:00:49.000
you know what man like and then
and then and then you know what,
742
01:00:49.119 --> 01:00:52.760
I've seen Game of Thrones and Dragons
love Game of Throws all the House
743
01:00:52.840 --> 01:00:55.039
of Dragons. I love that too. I don't have Max. No,
744
01:00:55.280 --> 01:00:59.440
you know what I want to see. I want to see a will go
745
01:00:59.519 --> 01:01:01.000
at it with his nephew. That's
what I want to see. That that's
746
01:01:01.039 --> 01:01:06.800
going to be a formidal match,
you know, like and they're like me
747
01:01:07.239 --> 01:01:10.519
watching old school stuff like The Sopranos, The Wire, you know, Sex
748
01:01:10.599 --> 01:01:14.239
and the City is on Netflix,
so I've been watching that to go to
749
01:01:14.320 --> 01:01:16.000
sleep. I don't want I don't
want to see no geriatric women, you
750
01:01:16.079 --> 01:01:20.000
know what I'm saying, trying to
their love life, don't you dare You
751
01:01:20.000 --> 01:01:22.800
know what I'm saying, Hey,
women in their thirties are not cheriatric.
752
01:01:22.920 --> 01:01:25.199
Okay, that's like saying that I'm
like a gramdma. No no, no,
753
01:01:25.360 --> 01:01:29.960
no, no, no no no. Hold on, these bitches are
754
01:01:29.960 --> 01:01:32.719
supposed to be thirty. They look
damn they're like sixty in the beginning,
755
01:01:32.800 --> 01:01:37.440
they're in there thirties. Yeah,
they're walking. They're walking cadavers. I
756
01:01:37.480 --> 01:01:39.400
don't want to see that ship.
You could see it actually from the beginning
757
01:01:39.519 --> 01:01:44.119
how much younger they are. So
whatever, whatever to you? You know
758
01:01:44.159 --> 01:01:45.639
what I'm saying, Like dubs,
like what do you watching? And what
759
01:01:45.719 --> 01:01:51.159
do you recommend be? Yeah?
You know what, First off, I
760
01:01:51.320 --> 01:01:53.519
wasn't yelling, you know what.
I was one of them people that when
761
01:01:53.519 --> 01:01:55.880
I saw on Facebook everyone was like, you know, saying, talk about
762
01:01:55.880 --> 01:01:58.719
Game of Thrones. I was like, I ain't watching the ship, you
763
01:01:58.800 --> 01:02:00.440
know what I'm saying, Like,
I'm a I'm gonna I'm going to watch
764
01:02:00.480 --> 01:02:06.119
it on my own time, right
like years later, so like I forget
765
01:02:06.280 --> 01:02:09.440
like half the ship they wrote,
right, let me tell you something,
766
01:02:12.360 --> 01:02:15.440
the narrows, you know what I'm
saying? Everyone like yo, everyone rides
767
01:02:15.480 --> 01:02:17.920
her coat tails like, oh,
she was the one to stand the third
768
01:02:19.400 --> 01:02:23.559
nah, man, Aria was that? Aria was that and she's a female,
769
01:02:24.199 --> 01:02:29.920
a fifteen year old assassin. Listen, they that last season. So
770
01:02:30.199 --> 01:02:34.000
I don't even want to talk about
you know what though, like the last
771
01:02:34.000 --> 01:02:36.480
season, man, like, yeah, hold on, let's talk about that
772
01:02:36.559 --> 01:02:38.559
real quick, right, you know
what I'm saying, because because because you
773
01:02:38.599 --> 01:02:43.360
know what, I was able to
binge watch it, right mm hmm,
774
01:02:43.880 --> 01:02:49.000
it's like the new storyline they should
have took, you know what I'm saying,
775
01:02:49.000 --> 01:02:52.039
They should have They should have died
more into her mind, you know
776
01:02:52.039 --> 01:02:57.400
what I'm saying. They she blacked
out like that. They literally just a
777
01:02:57.440 --> 01:03:00.119
lot of ship. They went like
too fast. Got the book? Was
778
01:03:00.519 --> 01:03:04.880
the books? My friend has the
books, and my girl got the books
779
01:03:05.239 --> 01:03:07.599
because they're hard to read. I'm
sorry, you know what. My girl
780
01:03:07.639 --> 01:03:10.639
got the books and believe me,
you know what I'm saying. She was
781
01:03:10.719 --> 01:03:14.559
like now season eight and she said
it was such a frown face. Right,
782
01:03:15.159 --> 01:03:17.800
She's like I hated this, you
know what I'm saying. This then
783
01:03:17.880 --> 01:03:21.800
the third blah blah blah, and
but she explained that I was like,
784
01:03:22.480 --> 01:03:23.039
Okay, you know what I'm saying, I'll say, yeah, I'll be
785
01:03:23.079 --> 01:03:24.960
the judge of it. You know
what I'm saying, Like from someone that
786
01:03:25.119 --> 01:03:28.880
never read the book, you know
what I'm saying, Like that ship was
787
01:03:29.039 --> 01:03:31.880
that ship was completely rushed like for
like a cash grab or something, you
788
01:03:31.920 --> 01:03:37.199
know, because that was in the
book. There were characters that were more
789
01:03:37.239 --> 01:03:42.800
important in the book that they didn't
make in the show and then they kind
790
01:03:42.800 --> 01:03:46.440
of did a rush also, so
I also heard that there were certain characters
791
01:03:46.519 --> 01:03:54.519
that in the show that for instance, there was like this there was like
792
01:03:54.599 --> 01:03:59.480
this dude that was like a like
an uncle that that he got caught right
793
01:03:59.639 --> 01:04:02.480
that he was supposed to be someone
more important, but like they had him
794
01:04:02.480 --> 01:04:08.360
be like a bumbling idiot. I
forgot his name. But many of them,
795
01:04:08.559 --> 01:04:12.039
there's too many characters. But yeah, you know what though, yo,
796
01:04:12.199 --> 01:04:15.920
Yo, you know what as far
as my favorite characters on the show,
797
01:04:15.440 --> 01:04:21.639
the Mountain, the Hound, Arian, my girl, my yo.
798
01:04:21.760 --> 01:04:27.880
And I'm gonna tell you why Arian, right because like no one asking,
799
01:04:29.199 --> 01:04:31.559
no, I don't care, I'm
still telling anyway. Literally, like he's
800
01:04:31.599 --> 01:04:35.960
like, what's the show? And
you're like going into game of throws as
801
01:04:36.239 --> 01:04:41.679
you to yo, you know what
your favorite characters. Yo, you know
802
01:04:41.760 --> 01:04:45.880
what, Arian, that's my bitch. Why do we want to hear what
803
01:04:45.000 --> 01:04:47.920
you have to say? The mother
of dragons? You ship on her?
804
01:04:48.039 --> 01:04:50.800
How dare you? Sir? You
know what? You know what? My
805
01:04:50.880 --> 01:04:54.400
girl says the same thing too,
but like but like you know what though,
806
01:04:54.840 --> 01:04:56.719
like, yeah, you know what, you know what? She would
807
01:04:56.800 --> 01:05:00.400
she willed a tremendous power. Yo, I'll give her that, But yeah,
808
01:05:00.480 --> 01:05:03.039
how else? How else do you
kill thirty people without living a sword?
809
01:05:04.000 --> 01:05:08.880
Aria? Did that? Think about
that? That girl? She came
810
01:05:09.239 --> 01:05:13.599
She came up for sure. And
your part was different in the books too,
811
01:05:13.840 --> 01:05:17.920
So it's like, that's the thing
that last season got killed because the
812
01:05:17.960 --> 01:05:24.519
writer wasn't a part of it,
and George part of that and they and
813
01:05:24.679 --> 01:05:28.559
so they just went with it and
they sucked horribly, Like it was bad.
814
01:05:28.719 --> 01:05:31.960
Dialogue was different, everything was different, and they ended it horribly.
815
01:05:32.280 --> 01:05:35.440
So that's why I don't want to
talk about it anymore. They heard me
816
01:05:35.800 --> 01:05:43.440
the the Wire especially, that's old. What about something new? You watch
817
01:05:43.639 --> 01:05:47.840
anything new? Well, I'm wing
for stranger things. There's so many good
818
01:05:47.880 --> 01:05:54.639
shows I love, like the British
shows those are so good, like especially
819
01:05:54.800 --> 01:06:00.119
the thriller ones the Mystery Detectives.
They're good, they write some good ship
820
01:06:00.519 --> 01:06:04.320
but I have to you know what. They're like, Yeah, you know
821
01:06:04.400 --> 01:06:06.880
what though, like like with me
as far as shows go, like I'm
822
01:06:06.880 --> 01:06:12.480
not really into shows and more too
like movies mm hmm, you know,
823
01:06:12.599 --> 01:06:15.960
and like like yo, you know
what, sometimes you know to get that
824
01:06:15.119 --> 01:06:17.320
feel like for instance, like I've
seen the Predator, Like I seen the
825
01:06:17.360 --> 01:06:21.440
original Predator like a couple of days
ago, right, and then I was
826
01:06:21.480 --> 01:06:24.719
like, you know what, I'm
gonna watch Predator too, And I was
827
01:06:24.760 --> 01:06:27.280
like, dam this is a good
movie. And then I started going down
828
01:06:27.320 --> 01:06:29.079
the Predator series. I was like, Yo, this ship trash, This
829
01:06:29.119 --> 01:06:34.119
ship trash all the way down to
Pray. Now if you you know what,
830
01:06:34.239 --> 01:06:39.760
if you see if you haven't seen
Prey watching you know because like not
831
01:06:39.920 --> 01:06:45.519
only not only is a is a
female that you know, it's the main
832
01:06:45.599 --> 01:06:51.800
protagonists talking about not only the female
that's the main protagonist, but as far
833
01:06:51.840 --> 01:06:57.480
as like Native American culture, they
got it down, you know, right
834
01:06:57.559 --> 01:07:00.880
down to a team. And I
was like, yo, this is interesting,
835
01:07:00.920 --> 01:07:02.400
this is amazing. Are you talking
about the one that came out this
836
01:07:02.559 --> 01:07:08.440
year? Last year I think or
two years ago? Twenty two, twenty
837
01:07:08.519 --> 01:07:13.599
twenty two. Okay, yeah,
oh I have food Prey. Yeah it's
838
01:07:13.679 --> 01:07:18.760
Prey. But like yeah, just
as far as like TV shows concerned,
839
01:07:18.760 --> 01:07:23.960
I'm not, you know, like
whatever, like like right now, you
840
01:07:24.039 --> 01:07:29.199
know, like my girl has to
watch a Fallout show. Yeah that's on
841
01:07:29.400 --> 01:07:33.440
Prime right because yeah, because because
you know what the thing is like like
842
01:07:33.719 --> 01:07:38.079
like like for instance, right like
we've seen the Last of Us because she
843
01:07:38.239 --> 01:07:41.639
has the game. I was like, oh shit, you know what I'm
844
01:07:41.639 --> 01:07:45.039
saying, Like I haven't seen that
either, the Last of It, you
845
01:07:45.119 --> 01:07:47.800
know, like like you know what, like most of them, like most
846
01:07:47.880 --> 01:07:51.679
like the first is the Witcher,
she has the game Last of Us she
847
01:07:51.840 --> 01:07:58.480
has the game Fallout. She has
and plays the game. So I was
848
01:07:58.559 --> 01:08:00.280
like, oh, you know what, like you know, the fact that
849
01:08:00.400 --> 01:08:03.440
you know, they adapted a video
game to live action, I was like,
850
01:08:03.480 --> 01:08:06.280
oh shit, you know what I'm
saying, they're getting it right mm
851
01:08:06.360 --> 01:08:11.199
hmmm. So so like right now
we watch right now, you know,
852
01:08:11.320 --> 01:08:14.239
like we're watching Fallout and I'm like, yo, you know what, this
853
01:08:14.280 --> 01:08:15.960
ship is pretty good. And then
I have to yell at her. I'm
854
01:08:16.000 --> 01:08:20.199
like, you need to stop getting
me an your shows, bro, you
855
01:08:20.279 --> 01:08:23.920
know like I don't appreciate the ship
because then I start liking the show,
856
01:08:23.920 --> 01:08:27.239
and then when like when the show
is over, I'm mad, I'm here
857
01:08:27.279 --> 01:08:30.520
do it an my thumbs? I
know, I love binge watching, Like
858
01:08:30.600 --> 01:08:33.560
I would rather wait for the seasons
to come out and then just watch the
859
01:08:33.600 --> 01:08:38.199
whole damn thing. Like Stranger Things, I want to see that one.
860
01:08:38.640 --> 01:08:41.640
I want to see a Brother Academy. I hope they don't suck a Brother
861
01:08:41.720 --> 01:08:45.840
Academy. Yeah, and that's about
it because like, you know, what,
862
01:08:47.720 --> 01:08:54.399
when did that come out? I
have no idea. I had no
863
01:08:54.560 --> 01:08:57.520
idea. But you know what though, like like for instance, right,
864
01:08:57.840 --> 01:09:01.479
like Stranger Things, I love Stranger
Things because it's such it's so nostalgic,
865
01:09:03.119 --> 01:09:08.199
you know, because you know,
we grew up in that generation, you
866
01:09:08.279 --> 01:09:12.800
know, Like I think what was
the season two they had a Sam Goodie
867
01:09:12.800 --> 01:09:14.399
in the mall and I was like, yo, I used to work for
868
01:09:14.479 --> 01:09:26.119
them, Sam Goodie. Do you
remember? Do you remember Fat Beats in
869
01:09:26.239 --> 01:09:32.600
New York? Oh? How about
this one? Crazy Eddy? How crazy
870
01:09:32.720 --> 01:09:42.479
Eddie? Remember? Remember crazy with
that guy? Yeah? M Eddie antone?
871
01:09:43.319 --> 01:09:49.560
Uh yeah? What else? I
was gonna say Radio City, but
872
01:09:49.720 --> 01:10:02.159
that's not it Woolworth. Remember m
Burger line Bam Burgers all right, yo,
873
01:10:02.359 --> 01:10:06.039
you know what man? So that's
a throwback, all right, So
874
01:10:06.159 --> 01:10:17.279
as far as as far as Bradley's, Oh my god, as far as
875
01:10:18.359 --> 01:10:28.640
wow, yeah, Bradley's was crazy
h Martin Yo, for real, Yeah,
876
01:10:29.159 --> 01:10:34.000
McCrory's McCrory's all right, so real
quick hold on, wait wait wait,
877
01:10:34.279 --> 01:10:39.199
thom m can remember that? Yeah, I think they still that.
878
01:10:39.439 --> 01:10:44.960
They still make shoes, Thoma can
mm hmm Tooma. Cann is out of
879
01:10:45.000 --> 01:10:49.600
business a long time ago, all
right. So remember when Roy Rogers was
880
01:10:50.000 --> 01:10:53.159
Yeah, my bad, bro.
You know what I'm saying, like a
881
01:10:53.239 --> 01:10:57.239
real quick m more time? You
know, Rod Rochester to serve that chicken
882
01:10:57.720 --> 01:11:01.680
I used to be, Yeah,
I'll take the chicken to study my back,
883
01:11:01.720 --> 01:11:05.199
Go ahead, bro, all right. So one more thing I want
884
01:11:05.239 --> 01:11:09.920
I want to do before before we
jet. So I want to give the
885
01:11:10.039 --> 01:11:15.960
fans a little peek into what it
is we listen to, because one of
886
01:11:16.039 --> 01:11:20.079
them a while back and I completely
forgot about it, and she brought it
887
01:11:20.199 --> 01:11:23.239
up again. She was like,
yeah, what kind of media do you
888
01:11:23.319 --> 01:11:26.000
guys listen to? So what I
want to do is I want to go
889
01:11:26.079 --> 01:11:30.960
around and I want you guys to
give a track, one track to give
890
01:11:31.000 --> 01:11:35.600
a fans to listen to. So
pick one of the pick a genre.
891
01:11:35.920 --> 01:11:39.880
Doesn't matter what genre it is,
whatever you like, It doesn't matter what
892
01:11:40.000 --> 01:11:45.119
it is. It could be fucking
reggae, fucking country. I don't give
893
01:11:45.119 --> 01:11:49.479
a fuck what it is. One
track that you really like that you want
894
01:11:49.920 --> 01:11:54.840
a fan, that you think a
fan should listen to. I'm gonna start
895
01:11:54.840 --> 01:12:09.119
with Lady G of Course, Goodness
of God by c N See that again,
896
01:12:09.279 --> 01:12:14.680
Lady G, the Goodness Goodness of
God by cc win, Goodness of
897
01:12:14.800 --> 01:12:21.359
God by Okay, got mm hmmm. I have no idea. I love
898
01:12:21.479 --> 01:12:32.640
so many songs you're going through your
playlist. I really am, I really
899
01:12:32.680 --> 01:12:39.680
am. I mean I love her
h E E R you know capital letters
900
01:12:39.840 --> 01:12:48.439
H E R her. She has
a lot of great songs. Recently heard
901
01:12:48.600 --> 01:12:54.960
Casey Musgraves on s n L.
She has a song called Deeper. Well,
902
01:12:55.439 --> 01:12:58.840
that's a really good song. I
think people can relate to it,
903
01:13:00.760 --> 01:13:06.560
Okay, dubs Well, I mean
there's so you know, there's so many
904
01:13:08.199 --> 01:13:11.520
like right, like you like like
you know what you know, my mind
905
01:13:11.600 --> 01:13:15.319
is a library, you know,
because like because like you know, what
906
01:13:15.439 --> 01:13:18.119
like people think that I just listen
to hip hop. One that is true,
907
01:13:18.159 --> 01:13:23.640
but not like you know, like
that mainstream stuff like like you know
908
01:13:23.680 --> 01:13:26.880
what, I can't listen to Drake
because like he makes music for like the
909
01:13:26.960 --> 01:13:32.279
sound his music sounds like the soundtrack
of to Twilight and you know, and
910
01:13:32.439 --> 01:13:38.279
you know Twilight. You know it
takes that, you know, and and
911
01:13:38.359 --> 01:13:41.800
you know how Twilight is. You
know what I'm saying, It takes that
912
01:13:42.359 --> 01:13:46.520
movie itself takes took the end out
of thangs. Now do now add those
913
01:13:46.600 --> 01:13:55.279
letters together? The minds to end
anyways, right, like like summertime is
914
01:13:55.319 --> 01:13:59.039
coming and I'm like that's when I
started like listening to like a lot of
915
01:13:59.079 --> 01:14:00.800
house music, but the old schoolhouse, like you know what I'm saying.
916
01:14:00.880 --> 01:14:03.880
So like I think that you know, my pick will be I'll beat that
917
01:14:03.960 --> 01:14:11.800
bitch to the back. Oh my
god, how good to tell them?
918
01:14:13.239 --> 01:14:18.800
I think armand band something looking up, you know, like I guess that
919
01:14:19.319 --> 01:14:28.479
that it's percolated, you know,
the witch stoctor like but see but see,
920
01:14:28.479 --> 01:14:30.479
you know what the thing is though, Like those songs right there reminds
921
01:14:30.520 --> 01:14:33.960
me of like being down the seats, like just the Jersey Show in general.
922
01:14:34.439 --> 01:14:38.720
You know what I mean, because
like because like because like you know
923
01:14:38.800 --> 01:14:41.920
what, like back then, like
if you walk on the boardwalk, that's
924
01:14:42.000 --> 01:14:45.239
all you heard. If it wasn't
from you know what I'm saying that people
925
01:14:45.319 --> 01:14:47.359
carrying the radio. You know what
I'm saying, blasted it and blast the
926
01:14:47.439 --> 01:14:50.319
rap. You heard it. And
when you want to go like you know,
927
01:14:50.399 --> 01:14:54.800
play the games and stuff. You
know, like like yo, you
928
01:14:54.840 --> 01:14:57.840
know what. Now Seaside now it's
like it's like you know what, It's
929
01:14:57.880 --> 01:15:01.520
like a tornado right picked up all
the trailer trash in the Midwest and dumping
930
01:15:01.640 --> 01:15:05.760
right there. Man, you know, like like like like you know,
931
01:15:05.920 --> 01:15:14.159
like this, you know what,
you know what? You know what I
932
01:15:14.239 --> 01:15:16.319
mean? Seaside. Seaside is next
to barn Again and Barnagat used to have
933
01:15:16.439 --> 01:15:23.479
like a KKK area, I mean
area down there is the very conservative,
934
01:15:23.920 --> 01:15:31.720
very Trump loving very so so is
Lakewood. That's what I'm saying about Lakewood,
935
01:15:31.800 --> 01:15:36.640
Lakewood Lakes, Little Jerusalem, now, bro, there is a big
936
01:15:36.760 --> 01:15:41.439
part of it. Yes, no, it's down there the whole time,
937
01:15:42.840 --> 01:15:45.079
because I lived there and it wasn't
the whole damn town. Okay, it's
938
01:15:45.199 --> 01:15:48.840
one part and there are more parts
that they all try to take over.
939
01:15:49.119 --> 01:15:58.159
Yes, all right, all right, so my track now, I got
940
01:15:58.199 --> 01:16:01.479
a whole story behind this motherfucker want
to get into it, but can throw
941
01:16:01.520 --> 01:16:08.000
out one more track real quick?
Yeah yeah yeah, Audio Slave Shadow of
942
01:16:08.039 --> 01:16:13.199
the Sun. I love that song, bro, Audio Shadow of the Sun
943
01:16:14.600 --> 01:16:18.279
right now? Yes, bro,
you know what, I could play that
944
01:16:18.399 --> 01:16:21.920
song over and over and over and
over and and you know, you know
945
01:16:21.960 --> 01:16:24.600
what, I used to like the
song, you know what I'm saying,
946
01:16:24.640 --> 01:16:29.279
but like my like like my deeper
life for the song because I was in
947
01:16:29.439 --> 01:16:30.560
I was in the movie theater back
then, and I and you know,
948
01:16:30.720 --> 01:16:33.560
like I was on a date watching
Collateral and they played the song. But
949
01:16:33.640 --> 01:16:36.640
like the way the song like you
know, cute in with the coyote in
950
01:16:36.720 --> 01:16:39.760
the street, and I was like, Yo, that shit is tough,
951
01:16:40.319 --> 01:16:42.439
you know what I'm saying. I
was like, yeah, yo, bro,
952
01:16:43.159 --> 01:16:45.800
that song is to me. Oh
audio, If I found it,
953
01:16:46.479 --> 01:16:49.479
then there's no bona something in the
way. I love that song too.
954
01:16:50.079 --> 01:16:55.640
Okay, now you're just now you're
just trying to bad bad Sorry. Yeah
955
01:16:55.920 --> 01:17:04.479
all right, so all right My
track is is It's called My Spirit Is
956
01:17:04.520 --> 01:17:13.640
by an Italian band called Coil.
You they're good. Yeah, yeah,
957
01:17:13.640 --> 01:17:15.600
they're pretty damn you put me onto
them, you put me onto the bit,
958
01:17:16.119 --> 01:17:20.600
you know what, Like they're good, you know, like, yeah,
959
01:17:20.640 --> 01:17:24.279
I can't believe that girl sounds American. You know what I'm saying.
960
01:17:25.359 --> 01:17:28.359
She's like like, yo, you
know what. That messed me up because
961
01:17:28.399 --> 01:17:31.880
like she's there, she's talking with
the deepest italent accent, but she's singing
962
01:17:31.960 --> 01:17:40.239
like you know, like Taylor Swift
like so clear. Yeah, so it's
963
01:17:40.239 --> 01:17:47.720
pretty dope. Well to GATCHI my
bad? What you paying attention out?
964
01:17:47.880 --> 01:17:57.239
No, I heard you here.
I was listening. But then that's where
965
01:17:57.239 --> 01:18:04.279
I got the name from. I
don't know, that's funny, that's funny.
966
01:18:04.840 --> 01:18:10.760
I was actually thinking of the toy, but it's the Tama Gotchi the
967
01:18:10.800 --> 01:18:16.479
toy. Yeah. Ship. But
you know what though, like like you
968
01:18:16.520 --> 01:18:18.880
know, like like like my girls, like she listens to like, you
969
01:18:18.960 --> 01:18:23.880
know, variety of ship, right, like some of the ship. I'm
970
01:18:23.920 --> 01:18:26.840
like, I'm like, yo,
you know what, Oh, I want
971
01:18:26.840 --> 01:18:30.279
to play this in your car?
I'm like right, So then after that,
972
01:18:30.399 --> 01:18:32.279
you know, like I have to
go with like you know, like
973
01:18:32.359 --> 01:18:34.199
for instance, like you know that
you're playing Nicki min I was in my
974
01:18:34.279 --> 01:18:36.720
car and I don't even like that, but I think I think she's trash,
975
01:18:38.319 --> 01:18:42.920
right, So like right after that, right after that, I have
976
01:18:43.039 --> 01:18:45.560
to blast mop to get that you
know, moistenings out of my speakers and
977
01:18:45.600 --> 01:18:53.000
stuff. It's it's like audio douc
Do I look at it? You know?
978
01:18:56.600 --> 01:19:03.279
Yeah? All right, So with
that being said, we're good.
979
01:19:04.039 --> 01:19:08.359
This was a really good episode.
We checked, we checked off, we
980
01:19:08.520 --> 01:19:15.760
checked up all the boxes. We're
good. We're good. Yeah. So
981
01:19:15.960 --> 01:19:21.439
with that, with all that being
said, this is big hold on.
982
01:19:21.760 --> 01:19:30.319
That's Lady g to got you six
now just for today, for today,
983
01:19:30.399 --> 01:19:34.800
this is double Don Simon Phoenix a
k a. Did He Epstein. You
984
01:19:34.880 --> 01:19:41.079
can find him on Twitter acting the
fool and getting crazy Epstein on Yo,
985
01:19:41.239 --> 01:19:45.079
you know what I'm on Twitter.
It's certain Epstein. I don't care,
986
01:19:45.199 --> 01:19:46.720
like like you know what. Twitter
is assessed pool and I'm part of it
987
01:19:46.760 --> 01:19:53.279
and I like it. It's x
now, yeah, it's x now,
988
01:19:53.359 --> 01:19:57.600
yeah whatever it is. So yeah, so you know, we're good.
989
01:19:57.760 --> 01:20:00.800
I'm glad. You know everybody who
stopped by it a hi, and you
990
01:20:00.880 --> 01:20:03.560
know, talk with us and chill
with us and listen to us. Thank
991
01:20:03.600 --> 01:20:05.800
you very much. We appreciate the
fans of the show. We love you
992
01:20:05.920 --> 01:20:13.199
all once again, big hold you
on, Lady g g G and dubbed
993
01:20:13.279 --> 01:20:16.600
a down This is this has been
an episode of This My Herd podcast and
994
01:20:16.760 --> 01:20:20.359
at some point, but it is
it. Yeah, it's gonna hurt my
995
01:20:23.479 --> 01:20:30.680
many people. Get everybody. Peace
out, yo, I'm
1
00:00:00.200 --> 00:00:46.359
Hm, yo, what's up this
big cold young What is this might heard
2
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podcast? Coming to you live?
Another episode? Bringing in my co host
3
00:00:53.159 --> 00:01:04.799
is got him. Yeah, it's
TG Love and his Lady G. What's
4
00:01:04.840 --> 00:01:15.879
good everybody? Hey, guys,
I saw it. I saw a snack
5
00:01:15.000 --> 00:01:22.079
and I was like, hold on
real quick, how's there? How's everybody
6
00:01:22.120 --> 00:01:27.159
doing? Good? Okay? Yeah, that's it? Just okay and good?
7
00:01:27.640 --> 00:01:33.840
Yeah? Really at this point,
yeah, I don't know what else
8
00:01:33.879 --> 00:01:36.640
to say. No, right,
all right, all right, that's cool.
9
00:01:37.239 --> 00:01:40.159
It's eleven o'clock at night. You
know, I got all kinds of
10
00:01:40.280 --> 00:01:44.560
energy. Oh that's that's cool.
That's good to have energy. That's the
11
00:01:44.680 --> 00:01:49.040
time of night. You know what
I'm saying. But you know, it's
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been a while and hopefully, you
know, we have a good show tonight.
13
00:01:57.200 --> 00:02:00.200
So you know, I got I
got a got a couple of things.
14
00:02:00.239 --> 00:02:06.359
You know, we could discussed some
things that I actually had to write
15
00:02:06.400 --> 00:02:09.759
it down because you know, my
old age, I forget shit. You
16
00:02:09.800 --> 00:02:15.560
know what I'm saying. So I
believe Oh yeah, I believe it.
17
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So yeah, yeah, I know, yeah, yeah, we believe it.
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Okay, enough of that, so
let's start with Lady G. Lady
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G how's how's everything going with you? Like, what's up? Everything's good?
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Nothing new, Just working doing my
mom thing. All right, it's
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always a good thing doing a mom
thing and TG love. What's going on
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with you? I mean, same
shit, different day. Okay, uh
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yeah, just working and trying to
live and apparently my body hates me and
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I have a skin and affection going
on. I have no idea. How
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what are you sure it's not like
an allergic reaction as No, I went
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to the doctor. H Did you
do what I told you? No?
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I called I meane an appointment,
but I got there earlier and they actually
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saw me, like within two minutes, So all right, all right.
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She looked at it, you know, with the magnifying magnifire thing, and
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she was like, yeah, it's
just a skin and affection. So I
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have to start taking on a bio
it next three times a day. I
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was three times a day, damn, not even two. Three times ship
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for like a week. So all
right, yeah, because usually if I
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got to go to the doctor,
my doctor, I called my doctor's office
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up. They're like, listen,
we ain't got an appointment for you till
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next week. I'm like, look, I'm sick. Now, all right,
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no problem, I'll take I'll take
this. Yeah, yeah, I
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get I take the appointment, write
the appointment down. But then you know
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what I do. I make sure
I'm there when to open up the next
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morning and say I had an appointment
I called. I don't know. I
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don't know what's going on, you
guys, I don't know. Okay,
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I work on the other side.
You show up. I work on the
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other side, and I'm like,
listen, we have appointments for a reason.
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Okay, corleone, we have no
no, no, because if I
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if I'm ill, you're going to
see me. I'll I don't care.
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I walk in and be like I
had an appointment. I used zac doc
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or I call somebody. They took
my they took my name down and said
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come in at this time, and
I'm here. So doctor's offices have specific
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slots to see patients same day for
specific reasons, and if not, then
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you wore to urge and care.
But it costs more money. Obviously you
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don't want to do that. When
I rolled up in my doctor's office,
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I kick in the door like,
yo, I'm here. Yeah, okay,
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let's get it. That's my doctor. My doctor knows. They know
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me already. They know I think
it's a big sea again. That probably
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what they do when he throws.
He throws the tantrum, and then they're
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just like, oh word, they're
like, all right, this guy is
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here already. We're just gonna have
to take them. Hey, if I'm
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sick, that it is what it
is. You know, I'm saying like
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I had, I had an upper
respiratory infection not so long ago, and
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I walked in there and I was
like, listen, I'm ill, and
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they were like, what's wrong.
I said, I think it's it's sinus,
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but it was an upper respirator everything. So you know, they saw
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me on the spot. Like I
said, I usually get there before everybody
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else does, like when they open
right away. So as soon as I
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get in there and they're like,
all right that this guy's gonna be he's
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gonna be quick. So they don't
don't you know, they don't give me
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no ship. But it is,
you know. But now all right,
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So I got I got some some
stuff here, I got written down,
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and I want to I want I
want to just to discuss that we could
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talk about. Hold on, let
me pull my book up yes, please
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do. All right, So now
this is this is up for debate,
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This is up for discussion. So
now this is how I feel. All
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right. Now take it for what
it is, and you tell me what
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you think. You know, we
we'll go around the room. But in
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my opinion, my opinion, Remember
I'm entitled to that ship. You know
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what I'm saying. To me,
most men, most men, they want
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relationships. Okay, most men want
relationships, and most men they you know,
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they want to get married. Most
men do some right, there are
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some out there that are that are
against that ship. But to me,
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in my opinion, most men want
relationships and they want marriage. All right,
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Now, seventy tonty of marriages and
relationships end up falling apart. Now,
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this is, this is statistically proven
that seventy to ninety percent of the
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relationships that don't work out is because
the woman walks out of the relationship or
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the marriage. Now, and a
percentage of that is because of why do
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you think, because they listen to
what other women have to say about their
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relationship, other than you know,
actually walking out of the relationship for whatever
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reason they have on their own.
So you're saying they're influenced the Yeah,
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they're influenced by others to walk out
and end the relationship or the marriage.
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So my thing is, if that's
the case, why are women so easily
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influenced by others in your opinion?
Well, first of all, I don't
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know if it's influenced or if it's
just other people see what you can't.
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Right, So when other people can
see the things you can't because you're blinded
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by love, you start to realize
that you are accepting behaviors from your partner
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that you really shouldn't be accepting.
Or all the things that we spend as
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women, you know, because we're
the nurturers, all the things that we
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spend excusing and turning a blind eye
to other people are seeing and saying,
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hold on, you're worth more than
that. You don't, you know,
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why are you putting up with these
you know, these different things because I
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find especially having been a marriage therapist
for so long, you know, you
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were you were one of those two
yeah, almost twenty years. I was
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a man. I was a marriaging
family therapist almost twenty years. You know.
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You see, you see how women
kind of I don't want to say
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downplay themselves, but they excuse a
lot of things, a lot of things
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that bother them, a lot of
things that they see wrong. But because
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men tend to not all men,
you know, but some men tend to
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be more on the dominant side or
more on the you know, I don't
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want to see reason, I don't
want to talk about feelings. I don't
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want to communicate effectively. You know, women end up eating a lot of
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stuff and they don't communicate in a
way that they both can have what they
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need. So unfortunately, and again
it's not all the relationships. Unfortunately,
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when other people start seeing things that
we keep ignoring, it gets to a
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point where, you know, our
friends are like, you know what,
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I'm going to stop if you're not
going to take my advice and stop complaining,
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you know, like we talk about
what makes us unhappy and all this
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stuff. And so people see it
as other people influencing them, but I
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think sometimes it's not even the other
person's influencing them. They just give them
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power, They give them the motivation
to actually do what they've been trying to
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do this whole time, and just
realizing that they're worth a lot more than
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people give them credit for. Okay, that's it's a good way to look
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at it, TG, what do
you think? Yeah, I was going
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to add on to the cool thing
of like other people typically hear the bad
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stuff because that's what you're venting to
your friends about. Nobody's calling their friends
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and be like, oh my god, he did the sweetest thing. So
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I mean they do, but obviously, like the conversations that others are hearing
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are they're not so good things,
and so it's hard to hear that your
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friend's having a hard time, that
your friend is hurting, or that someone
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is treating them with disrespect or whatever
it is. But it's also showing that
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that person isn't communicating in their relationship
because they should be having a big part
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of that conversation with their partner.
But it depends on the situation. So
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I would say that probably that percentage
that listen to others, it wasn't so
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much to listen to others, but
it took others' voices for them to see
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what was truly happening, because love
does through a blind eye. Help lost
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TG. No, oh, oh
man, she's on a roll too,
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right, Yeah, that's terrible.
Old. Let's see if she paused back
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in because let me see show show
text. If there's a problem, probably
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probably probably on the wrong side of
her room with the wife. What happened?
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I'm probably it's probably gonna happen again, because it's like you should hardwire
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instead of using your WiFi. It's
like, come on, bro, why
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do I pay for Wi Fi?
What is the point? Yeah? Yeah,
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you on a roll? You were
you flowing there? What's up?
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Yeah? Computer just killed me.
I don't even know where I was at
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because I just got like just yes, people listening to others, Like it
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took me having a therapist and and
hearing it from others sometimes to look at
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my failed relationships, you know,
to give it to the last one,
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to give it the quits too go
lot. So it's like we'll say the
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things out loud and then not realize
what we're saying, Like how bad that
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thing is that we're saying, the
behavior we're allowing, its respect that we
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allow, the the miscommunication that happens
and not fixing it or whatever. So
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it's just I think that percentage is
probably like they woke the fuck up and
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said this isn't working. I don't
know what the relation of men wanting to
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get married has to do with that
though, because like I think, people
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don't want to be lonely at the
end of the day. Like it's human
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nature. We want someone else.
It's better to be with someone else.
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It's fucking lonely out here if you
don't have somebody. So I think that's
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just nature, you know. And
some people, I think marriage itself,
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the word, the legality of it, the paperwork, the government taxes.
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I mean, for some people that's
an issue. I know people who refuse
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to get married because for tax reasons, Like there are some people who are
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adamant about those things. So it's
not like I don't want to spend the
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rest of my life with you.
I just don't want to go through the
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way the government is telling me I
have to do it. So yeah,
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you're absolutely right, I mean,
you know, and some people are okay
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with that, But I think,
but I think really quick, I think
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what sucks about being with someone and
then not getting married, But being with
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someone for so long and not getting
married kind of sucks in the end because
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GOFAB is something happens to one or
the other. They have no legal right,
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you know what I'm saying to to
anything, especially you know, when
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it comes to the family. You
know what I'm saying. I mean it
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kind of it kind of in a
way, it kind of like you know,
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because if you've built something, you
know, for for however long,
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and then something happens to your partner
and you're not married, so you're not
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legally entitled to any Yes, but
there are ways around that too, lawfully,
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like there are states that do common
law common law marriage. There are
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things, yes, you can,
there are things you just need to get
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paperwork for. But if people are
serious and they want to be together but
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they don't want to be married,
you can put someone on your life insurance,
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you can add them to your insurances. You can that that that's that
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I get that. I understand you
wouldn't like if someone is ill and you
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know they're going to die, you're
going to figure out a way that you're
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taking care of or that your partner's
taking care of her whatever. That's the
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hope. I know, things happen
like from one day to the next two
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and you never know. But if
you're serious and you're in a relationship and
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you live with someone, these are
things that should be talked about, like
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your partner should know, like what
happens, is something were to happen to
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you, what do you want?
You know? And making sure that's in
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writing, like I hate it,
like it's morbid. But like even at
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our age, like we should have
some type of living will or will written
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out because flash drives, everybody gets
a flash drives. That makes sense,
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doesn't not where these flash drives are. I really thought like he would each
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give them a laptop with everything actually
like this crazy uh colored, each one
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gets their own color. It's it's
true. I video video did a video
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will. I did one specifically for
the family, like for the kids and
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stuff, and then I did some
for individuals. You know. The one
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for the family that I did for
the for the kids and stuff actually is
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password protected. Okay, two people
have the password, and then everything else
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is just the regular flash tribes with
individual videos on each one, and then
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I got them all in in the
lock box safe. Yeah. I'm not
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prepared. I have nothing. My
husband's on my life insurance for work and
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like he's my beneficiary and I I
don't even have like backup water in case
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of emergency. So I'm totally not
ready for anything, no apocalypse or death.
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So I pray that nothing happens.
Listen. As long as the zombies
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don't run, we're good. I
can't run either, so we're fucking.
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I just really, maybe I need
a scooter or something, just even though
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scooters fucking zombie. I'll run a
fucking scooter. Those scooters the slowest ship.
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What are you talking about? Just
go a mile and a half an
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hour? About the one that you
do yourself? Like? Oh not not
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not the old lady scooter. I'll
never I would die minutes ship, what
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do you mean? So for for
the fans listening and watching where you're listening
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and watching from, we have a
chat room so you guys can chime in,
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say what you want to say,
talk whatever ship you want to talk,
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and you know, get involved.
Just letting you guys know that.
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So all right, So that's that's
that's all right. That's And show me
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where these guys who want to get
married and have real relationship were at because
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they're all in Jersey. What do
you mean? No, I've been single
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five years, ain't meant one yet. Yeah. I think it's funny.
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I think dating right now is like
all these men putting long term relationships on
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their profiles, but they don't they
dout they want the wam band, thank
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you, ma'am exactly, or even
like, they don't want to do any
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work, they don't want any situation, they don't want situationships at all.
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I'm not saying everyone. I'm not saying
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everyone, but there are a lot
of people out there that are bullshitters and
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they'll just saying whatever. All right, So all right, let's let's let's
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let's not bring it here, let's
bring it a little on here a little
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bit. Let me tell you,
let me tell you, all right,
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Look, it's not it's it's to
some to some men, all right,
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and I'm speaking as a dude.
All right, it's you have to you
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have to find someone who's willing to
communicate and understand. It's about communication and
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understanding. To me, if you
can communicated, well the problem, the
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problem is that's what it is.
You have to You have to definitely find
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someone who's going to communicate and understand. You know what I'm saying, because
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if you if you if you don't, if you don't have the communication or
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understanding, what's what's what's the use? You know, you got to be
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able to open to the possibility Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I
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mean, yeah, it's it's about
it's it's about you know, to me
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personally, communication and understanding. I
know that there are dudes out there,
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like you said, it's all about
the one night stand. It's all about
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getting what you can get and moving
on. You know what I'm saying,
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is that watermelon? It's a red
dees ice O. Great? All right,
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hold on, I got some way
too much money. So yeah,
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I'm talking about specific profiles. Oh
god, I'm just gonna I'm just gonna
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have to bring him in here.
I said, who doves is here?
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No, we don't need him.
We were having such a wonderful all right,
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hold on, I'm gonna tell I'm
gonna tell him to chill. Hold
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on. Yeah, he came in. He just came in. Even come
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in first off, you know what
I'm saying, Like, Yo, you
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know what Yo? You know?
So what we're talking about, relationship,
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man bag everybody, that's it.
Now. We're trying, we're trying.
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We're trying to have We're trying to
we're trying to be a little bit you
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know all that cheat back everybody,
seriously, I mean opinion like like yo,
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like like, yo, you know
what, here's what you do,
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right, you shave your testicles right
and let it grow like to like to
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like if you're when you listen back
to listen, drag different face. You
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know what I'm saying in your face? Listen to me? Yeah, I
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know, so listen. I have
to agree with the ladies. A lot
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of these man are are all talked
just for you, just to get your
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attention, all right, well of
course, bro of course listen like like
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like yo, you know what,
like like hold on real quick, all
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these you know, all these dudes
are going to do is you know what
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I'm saying, It's like, what's
the sweet nothing's until those legs right,
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and that's it. Yeah, I
mean what it is. You know what
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I'm saying as as it is,
But hold up, it is found.
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It is found. Not not every
dude, Not every dude is like that,
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you know. But there are a
lot of guys out there that want
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to have the one nice stand.
They want to go ahead and say what
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they want to say to get what
they want to get and keep it moving.
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But the thing is is that not
every fucking dude is like that.
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You know what I'm saying, Not
every dude. Not Nah, you know
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what I'm saying. I mean,
but the thing is too, if you
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you gotta be real about it,
it takes time. But hold up,
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hold up, bro, It takes
time to to to figure out somebody's real
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agenda. You know what I'm saying. It takes time to actually try and
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figure out what it is somebody,
you know what I'm saying, wants in
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in in said relationship. You don't. You don't go ahead and you know,
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have a three or four minute conversation
and you know, start sending dick
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picks or start sending titt picks or
start sending whatever. It's. It's it's
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more than that. You shouldn't even
be that to start. But I'm just
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saying it's it's it's a lot.
It's a lot more than just you know
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like that. I mean, well
on this day and age, that's all
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it is. I mean, honestly, I'm not against dick picks. My
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issue is like our conversation should be
leaning in the direction where it would be
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okay for you to do that or
ask you for it, not like,
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oh, you're beautiful, you want
to fucking dick pick. It's like,
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whoa calm the fuck down. Like, I don't even know if I like
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your face. But here's a question
for the two of the guys. Got
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a question. I hate you for
that one. I don't even know.
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I don't never mind a dick pic
calmed down. I don't even know if
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I like your face. Bro,
you know what I'm saying. Come on,
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bro, it was that was great? You just don't like that?
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No, no, no, no, no, no, I like that.
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Actually I like that. Actually you
know what? You know what,
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keep your roll with me on?
Make you a start question to marriage I'm
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talking about on the other end.
So let's just say that there's women who
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also just like to have sex and
enjoy themselves and maybe don't want a relationship,
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and there are some guys out there
who are very turned off by that
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or get very with the double standard
of I you know that's girls, you're
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you know, you're being a slut
whore or something like that, because I
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can't think of other words. But
basically, like, it's what is your
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view on a woman who is open
sexually and more? Yes, you know
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what, I'm just playing, like
like view on like women, you know,
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like being promiscuous and whatever. I
mean, it's still frowned upon the
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society. You know what I'm saying, because because because like in an honesty,
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you know what I'm saying, there's
my point of view, like like
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you know what, in the household, women are the backbone, you know
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what I'm saying. So like if
you with someone outside in the streets,
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they represent you and even though their
passion have nothing to do with anything,
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right, it would be kind of
odd to like, you know what I'm
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saying, to like to be someplace, you know what I'm saying, in
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a public place and here, yo, hey, what's up? You look
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different with your clothes on, you
know what I'm saying. Or how's your
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knees? You know, like ship
like that, you know what I'm saying.
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I say this joking around, but
like but like you know what though
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like but but you know what,
though like dudes have passed too, like
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like yo, you know what,
like threesomes and you know, you know
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what I'm saying, like training the
girl, like like you know what we
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like, like you know what,
we just have passes just that society built
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it in in in a way where
like we're like you know what, you
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you know what I'm saying. You
as a woman could fuck a hundred dudes
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and you considered the whore. Could
I could fuck a hundred girls and I'm
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considered the player. You know what
I'm saying, We'll Chamberlain with Wilt Chamberlain
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status. You know, Like it's
like a right of passes for a man,
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but for a woman, that's wrong
upon right. For a woman,
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it's she doesn't respect herself, and
that's what bothers me. But then when
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you get how when you go the
other way, but when you go the
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other way and the woman doesn't want
to do anything, she's a bitch because
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she's prude, you know, like
she So it's like we're darned if we
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do. We're darned if we don't, you know, because it's like if
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you don't give it up, it's
like, well you ain't nothing, but
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yeah, give it up too much? Yeah, us easy girls are making
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it harder for you know, you
girls out there try to get something real.
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I'm sorry we left it up,
but it's really like the issue too,
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though, is this is this lack
of communication. That's what it really
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comes down to. Like, yeah, I'm not okay when I meet any
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guy who thinks that he can like
judge me for my promiscuous ways or whatever
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and just assume that I don't have
self respect or I don't respect myself because
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I like Dick, That makes no
sense to me. I like something,
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I'm gonna use it and abuse it
until I'm done. That's just the way
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I am. And don't say uh
huh. So I just think it's weird
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to like that men are okay if
their boys lept with everyone else, but
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this someone that has a past or
has something where they were this way,
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and it's like, eh, like
uh, like what like you probably did
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some really dirty shit we ain't talking
about right now, So like why are
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you acting like you're in a sent
when we all know you're not in a
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sense, and even in the relationship
aspect, you know, like like what
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Cordon was talking about, like when
you're in a relationship and you break up
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because other people and kind of like
what Doves was saying, a man can
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go out there and cheat on you
one hundred times, and as a woman
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caring for this man, you're gonna
put up with it, put up with
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it, put up with it.
Heaven forbid. Let the girl do once
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with somebody. And it's like his
whole world is wrecked. But no,
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never mind about how many times I've
had to you know, not me personally,
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but as a woman, I've had
to turn my face on all the
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people that you're messing with. But
you know, I do something one time
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and all of the sudden and your
whole world is out. And then you're
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gonna get mad at me because somebody
showed me or or talked some sense into
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me. Because you're the one losing, you know, right, And unfortunately
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too that that's part of a Hispanic
culture and a lot of cultures where men
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cheat and it's like that's the norm, okay, or you you find out
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a bit about it, but you
stay for the marriage because you married that
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person. And I think like that, and listen real quick, it's not
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cheating unless you get caught. Well, that's you're still cheating. You're still
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doing something you're not supposed to be
doing. Bring this stuff either, you
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bring me something home, and you're
gonna get hurt, right, keeps on
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giving. No, it's not nice. No, all right, all right,
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So it's it was it was If
that's something, it's it's true.
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I mean you can't. I mean, as far as women are concerned.
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I don't. I don't have.
I don't call any women a whole slut,
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skang, whatever the fuck, you
know, because of what they've done.
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You know what I'm saying, I
don't. I have. I have
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daughters. I have, I have
all my mom passed, but I have,
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I have daughters. And you know, I wouldn't appreciate ship like that,
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you know what I'm saying. But
you know, you don't speak to
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women and say things to women that
are the rogatory like that. It's not
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cool. Despite whatever the fucking is
they do. First of all, it's
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none of your fucking business. You
know what I'm saying. I mean,
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you gotta look at it like that, like fuck. I mean, she's
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out there doing what she's doing.
She's doing it for a reason, you
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know what I'm saying. She she
likes what she she she enjoys it.
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And you know, and it is, it is what it is. I
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have another I actually posed this question
to a group that I'm in. It's
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I gotta hold on, I gotta
find it. It was. It was,
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it was, it was. It
was a pretty decent question. I
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was. I was actually surprised at
myself asking a fucking question. Of this
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magnitude to be honest with you,
I was like, I was like,
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I was like, holy on,
that's a good fucking question, bro,
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Like where did you come up with
this ship? Old? So let me
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let's me all right, here we
go. All right, I got it
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right, yere? Now, is
real love truly unconditional? And do relationships
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that say it's unconditional love, but
have conditions to attain and keep that love
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more like contractual love? Oh God, you're gonna have to repeat that.
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There is so much going on,
all right, cool? All right,
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right quick, let check it is
true. Is real love truly unconditional?
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And do relationships that say it's unconditional
love, but have conditions to attain and
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keep that love more like contractual love. First of all, love is it's
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relative, all right, So what
we're talking about, Yes, real love
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that's unconditional and things and things are
always conditional. There's only conditional love you
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can have for your kids and God
to you, okay, because real love
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unconditions, but I mean it's not
additional to a certain point. Yeah,
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So there's always going to be a
condition, Like the condition would be that
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you respect me, or the condition
would be you know, that we remain
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faithful to each other. Like there's
always some type of a condition. As
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long as I'm alive, that's a
condition. Okay, how conditional love?
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How much is your life assurance?
Oh my goodness, so so at some
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point, at some point, like
if you are right, so condition I'm
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trying to. I'm trying to,
all right, So all right, so
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let me see if I even if
I can even answer my own question.
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Love love real? To me,
love is love and without condition. That's
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one thing. And that's a possibility
for certain people and certain relationships and and
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certain you know, just certain types
of people. It's it's the highest form
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of of love. Right. But
I think if somebody beat on you every
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single day of your relationships, you're
going to continue to love them. But
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that's not that's not real love.
That's that's not yeah, that's that's not
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unconditional because you don't beat the ship
of somebody you should love, should like
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yo, you know what, you
know what you got to keep them in
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line, you know what I'm saying. What I'm saying, like if their
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habitual line stuff is, you know, you gotta like you know, keep
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them back, times them up.
A couple of times like look just playing
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him, you know what, you
let her know when it assumes me,
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why you must get me this way? I think I think it's it's a
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lot of a lot of the love. The word, the word that you
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know a lot of people are using
these days, are more contractual than unconditional.
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And when I say contractual, I
mean I mean like monetary. I
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mean you you can, you can
say you love somebody, but you know
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you're it's more of a it's more
of a contract so to speak. I
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mean, like you know what,
you love somebody out of you love something,
425
00:36:42.880 --> 00:36:45.639
you love it. It's it's not
unconditioned love. A lot of love
426
00:36:45.719 --> 00:36:50.000
these days, you know a lot
of it. I'm not saying, oh,
427
00:36:50.519 --> 00:36:54.119
a lot of it is contractual because
you have to you have to understand
428
00:36:54.239 --> 00:37:00.920
that not everyone is in a position
to love that way. Not everyone is
429
00:37:01.000 --> 00:37:07.519
in a position to accept that type
of love, you know. So what
430
00:37:07.719 --> 00:37:13.559
happens is they put conditions on it, and that's what makes it contractual as
431
00:37:13.599 --> 00:37:20.000
opposed to unconditional. And that's how
I see it. That's you see but
432
00:37:20.079 --> 00:37:22.519
yo, you know what though,
but like like you know what they you
433
00:37:22.599 --> 00:37:25.599
know what I mean, Like I
get like that term unconditional love, because
434
00:37:25.639 --> 00:37:30.159
like if let's just say, you
know, someone gets cheated on in the
435
00:37:30.239 --> 00:37:34.639
relationship, it's like you got to
walk away from them. You still love
436
00:37:34.679 --> 00:37:37.199
them, but from a distance,
you see what I mean. That's when
437
00:37:37.239 --> 00:37:40.000
that you know, that's that's when
it becomes like somewhat somewhat you know what
438
00:37:40.000 --> 00:37:45.360
I'm saying, like a probably like
a unconditional you know what I'm saying,
439
00:37:45.400 --> 00:37:49.679
because like you still love them from
a distance, and that's it or her,
440
00:37:50.119 --> 00:37:52.159
you know what I'm saying, Like
I don't know, I'm just talking
441
00:37:52.239 --> 00:37:55.320
shit. I mean, there are
different types of love, you know.
442
00:37:57.760 --> 00:38:04.000
To me, real love, unconditional
love is loving someone no matter what they
443
00:38:04.159 --> 00:38:10.280
do. So and that doesn't mean
that you should take something you shouldn't take.
444
00:38:10.639 --> 00:38:16.400
That's not what I'm saying. And
deb said something out. Love is
445
00:38:16.480 --> 00:38:20.639
what you do, not what you
say. But that's a that's a certain
446
00:38:20.760 --> 00:38:30.119
type of love. That's showing love. So nonen yes, not being judgmental.
447
00:38:30.280 --> 00:38:32.320
I think it's possible to do that
with a partner. That if you
448
00:38:32.519 --> 00:38:37.159
find your partner that you have true
and real love with, you can love
449
00:38:37.239 --> 00:38:44.119
them unconditionally. Because your children are
in a way contractual love. You have
450
00:38:44.280 --> 00:38:45.840
to love your children. They're yours. They came out of you, they
451
00:38:45.960 --> 00:38:50.760
are you, they are a part
of you, and they do disrespect you,
452
00:38:51.280 --> 00:38:53.079
and they do things that are not
very nice to you, and you
453
00:38:53.239 --> 00:39:01.159
love not the way. But this
is my point. You love them regardless.
454
00:39:01.440 --> 00:39:06.119
Even if they are a douchebag.
Your child turns out to be a
455
00:39:06.239 --> 00:39:09.199
fucking murderer, you probably still love
them. You'd be really upset about it,
456
00:39:09.639 --> 00:39:14.480
but that was that's your child,
Okay, That's that's the obligation.
457
00:39:15.039 --> 00:39:21.079
It's it's contractual more than you think. But in terms of I love someone
458
00:39:21.199 --> 00:39:25.800
wholeheartedly no matter what, it's possible
to have that kind of love and have
459
00:39:27.000 --> 00:39:31.760
that commitity. People have to be
on the same page. Though you one
460
00:39:31.840 --> 00:39:37.719
person can't be the only honest one
in a relationship. You both have to
461
00:39:37.800 --> 00:39:40.960
be honest with each other. And
I'm frae to talk about the uncomfortable ship
462
00:39:42.039 --> 00:39:47.880
that you don't like to talk about, because that's transparency to learn your partners
463
00:39:49.960 --> 00:39:54.440
like the way that they need to
process shit. There are people react,
464
00:39:55.159 --> 00:39:59.519
okay. I hate when people react, okay, because to me that shows
465
00:39:59.599 --> 00:40:04.360
that you're not grown. You don't
have it together because you can't figure out
466
00:40:04.400 --> 00:40:07.119
that you're in a position right now
where you wait, you know what,
467
00:40:08.320 --> 00:40:15.840
lash out? Don't lash out at
a person because you're angry, because you're
468
00:40:16.000 --> 00:40:21.119
hurt. So now you want to
hurt someone. That's ask your question.
469
00:40:21.760 --> 00:40:24.320
Yes, all right. You know
what when you say reactive, right,
470
00:40:24.480 --> 00:40:28.599
the way I look at it is
like it's like you're telling me, like
471
00:40:29.079 --> 00:40:32.039
you know what I'm saying. You're
telling me something real fucked up that you
472
00:40:32.119 --> 00:40:36.119
know you did on your time and
it's affected me. You know what I'm
473
00:40:36.119 --> 00:40:39.079
saying in a negative way. So
yeah, I'm going to react first because
474
00:40:39.079 --> 00:40:44.679
I'm like example, give me an
example, all right, you know what
475
00:40:44.679 --> 00:40:47.760
I'm saying, Like, like,
let's just say, let's say my girl
476
00:40:47.800 --> 00:40:52.039
and I have a joint bank account, right mm hm, and you know
477
00:40:52.039 --> 00:40:54.639
I left with a card or whatever. I told her spend X amount,
478
00:40:55.280 --> 00:41:00.480
but she went like, you know, like a thousand dollars oh, because
479
00:41:00.679 --> 00:41:02.239
what she felt like she you know
what I'm saying, we need you know
480
00:41:02.280 --> 00:41:05.880
what I'm saying, like, you
know, she went a little crazy.
481
00:41:05.960 --> 00:41:10.280
Let's just say that right now.
My reaction, my reaction towards that is
482
00:41:10.320 --> 00:41:13.440
going to be Yo, what the
you know what I'm saying, Like,
483
00:41:13.559 --> 00:41:15.679
what the You know what I'm saying, what did you get? You know
484
00:41:15.679 --> 00:41:19.360
what I'm saying, like you know
what your react? Like? Yeah,
485
00:41:19.840 --> 00:41:22.119
yo, you know what? I
listen. You know what, If we
486
00:41:22.199 --> 00:41:25.039
need something for the house and I
give you my card, that's one thing.
487
00:41:25.639 --> 00:41:28.559
But if you're coming back with you
know what I'm saying, what a
488
00:41:28.639 --> 00:41:31.800
fuck pet line? Like we need
that ship, I'm gonna react. You
489
00:41:31.840 --> 00:41:38.280
know what I'm saying, Like,
I'm not saying that a reaction. Everyone
490
00:41:38.400 --> 00:41:43.800
has a reaction to something, but
people process things. There are people who
491
00:41:43.800 --> 00:41:45.960
are like, wait, let me
not say something right now, because whatever
492
00:41:46.079 --> 00:41:50.079
is going to come out of my
mouth is going to be nasty. If
493
00:41:50.119 --> 00:41:53.519
you know yourself, if you have
self awareness, then you can tell yourself
494
00:41:53.760 --> 00:41:58.880
like and get trust me. There
are moments where we break, like some
495
00:41:59.039 --> 00:42:01.280
ship goes down, and in that
moment you react. I'm saying, no,
496
00:42:01.360 --> 00:42:07.800
one's never allowed to react. I'm
talking about when there's miscommunication, when
497
00:42:07.840 --> 00:42:12.639
there's an issue in the relationship.
How are you reacting. If your first
498
00:42:12.719 --> 00:42:16.719
responponse is to be pissed and break
the person, make them feel small or
499
00:42:16.840 --> 00:42:23.400
whatever, that is not a way
to handle a situation or or be with
500
00:42:23.559 --> 00:42:28.239
a person you're in a relationship with. That's what I'm trying to say,
501
00:42:28.480 --> 00:42:31.159
Like, if you're always like that, that's a fucking issue. Get therapy,
502
00:42:31.960 --> 00:42:36.840
because that's an issue. You're angry
about something and you're constantly taking out
503
00:42:36.840 --> 00:42:40.199
on your partner, projecting, projecting
exactly, it's a part of it,
504
00:42:40.400 --> 00:42:44.639
exact, you see, like you
see, like you know what, me
505
00:42:44.679 --> 00:42:45.880
and my girl weigh on good terms
right now. You know what I'm saying
506
00:42:45.920 --> 00:42:49.639
because because you know what, she
burnt the pot roast too many times,
507
00:42:49.679 --> 00:42:51.280
so I told her, I say, yo, do that shit again,
508
00:42:51.760 --> 00:42:53.639
and I'm gonna getting medieval on your
ass. So you know what she did.
509
00:42:54.800 --> 00:42:58.199
She took the frying pansts smacked me
over the head with it. You
510
00:42:58.239 --> 00:43:00.000
know what I'm saying. I was
out like probably like twenty minutes or whatever.
511
00:43:00.480 --> 00:43:10.920
I think I have Now I think
I have CTE Antonio Brown. What
512
00:43:12.079 --> 00:43:15.760
a tragedy not but like gone but
but like like let me give you an
513
00:43:15.760 --> 00:43:19.960
example right between my girl and I. Right, you know what I'm saying,
514
00:43:20.039 --> 00:43:23.760
Like before you know, you know
what I'm saying, because I got
515
00:43:23.800 --> 00:43:28.199
other things on my mind and like
things start piling up like before, like
516
00:43:28.320 --> 00:43:30.679
you know, like I try my
best to like not projected onto it,
517
00:43:31.880 --> 00:43:36.159
you know, like because because like
you know what, I have issues with
518
00:43:36.280 --> 00:43:37.960
my back, you know what I'm
saying, And like there's just days when
519
00:43:38.039 --> 00:43:40.280
I'm like, you know, trying
to like hold the pain in and she
520
00:43:40.280 --> 00:43:44.559
would just ask me for something small
and I'll be like, come on,
521
00:43:44.719 --> 00:43:45.880
man, you know what I'm saying
with an attitude because I'm in pain,
522
00:43:46.280 --> 00:43:49.599
you know what I'm saying. And
then and then I realized, you what
523
00:43:49.599 --> 00:43:54.000
I'm saying, Like I'm wrong for
that because I am you know, like
524
00:43:54.320 --> 00:43:58.639
I haven't feeling bad or whatever,
and I'm like, yo, I'm sorry.
525
00:43:59.119 --> 00:44:00.679
You know what I'm saying, Like
like you know what, like like
526
00:44:00.760 --> 00:44:05.519
you know, like swallowing my pride
about that ship, you know, but
527
00:44:05.719 --> 00:44:14.880
pride like that's literally I fou I
should apologize period. Like that beats you
528
00:44:14.960 --> 00:44:17.280
a bigger person actually to recogn you
know what you fucked up, you know
529
00:44:17.360 --> 00:44:20.880
what? See see, you know
what. We're all from the same generation.
530
00:44:21.199 --> 00:44:23.119
So let's talk about it real quick, right we can. Yea,
531
00:44:23.480 --> 00:44:30.920
we're from a generation. Yeah,
the generation that we need to break that
532
00:44:30.119 --> 00:44:36.400
cycle that we grew because it wasn't
a good one. The first off,
533
00:44:37.159 --> 00:44:39.039
First off, you know what I'm
saying. We grew up in a generation
534
00:44:39.119 --> 00:44:44.400
where we watched cartoons and thought attempted
murder was funny. Tom trying to kill
535
00:44:44.519 --> 00:44:47.400
Jerry, g I, Joe.
You know it don't matter, it's still
536
00:44:47.400 --> 00:44:50.559
a tempted murder. We thought that
sh it was funny. You know what
537
00:44:50.559 --> 00:44:53.840
I'm saying. No harassment. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. We
538
00:44:53.880 --> 00:44:58.320
thought that was funny, but we
weren't. Our brain was not old enough
539
00:44:58.400 --> 00:45:01.239
to process that that was happening.
And we knew that cartoons were make believe
540
00:45:01.840 --> 00:45:09.719
unless you thought something different. Yeah, yeah, for real, you know
541
00:45:09.719 --> 00:45:12.880
what I'm saying. Another one,
you know what I'm saying. And then
542
00:45:13.039 --> 00:45:15.280
yeah, first off, when aftermist
Prime died, I cried, all right,
543
00:45:16.079 --> 00:45:20.400
so ever, yo, don't ever, don't ever, don't ever talk
544
00:45:20.440 --> 00:45:23.760
about that moment transport. I cried, yo, yo, yo, you
545
00:45:23.840 --> 00:45:25.719
know what. My brother took me
to the movie, We want to go
546
00:45:25.800 --> 00:45:30.239
see the movie and then like mega
Trump like like killed the Optimist Prime.
547
00:45:30.440 --> 00:45:35.320
I was like no, you know, like, like, yo, you
548
00:45:35.400 --> 00:45:39.199
know what that was traumatizing. You
know what I'm saying. It still hurts
549
00:45:39.239 --> 00:45:43.440
it still affects me to this day. There's a lot of traumatizing things that
550
00:45:43.559 --> 00:45:47.119
I watched growing out that we should
have not been watching Exorcist, Like,
551
00:45:47.280 --> 00:45:54.760
yo, you know, definitely ex
but I still remember parts of that movie.
552
00:45:55.039 --> 00:45:59.760
Okay, but but but but but
you know what though, like when
553
00:45:59.800 --> 00:46:04.519
you know what though like like you
know what, like as you knows as
554
00:46:04.639 --> 00:46:06.760
kids growing up, you know what
I'm saying, in that generation, in
555
00:46:06.800 --> 00:46:09.480
our generation that we came up in, you know, like, yeah,
556
00:46:09.559 --> 00:46:13.199
you know what, like it was
always together in this but at the same
557
00:46:13.280 --> 00:46:15.199
time, they always said, you
don't cry. You know what I'm saying,
558
00:46:15.239 --> 00:46:17.599
you fall, eat it up,
don't cry, and this, that
559
00:46:17.639 --> 00:46:21.280
and the third. But like,
yo, you know what, following that
560
00:46:21.480 --> 00:46:24.559
rule, you know what I'm saying, following that mantluin, it fucked us
561
00:46:24.639 --> 00:46:29.480
up emotionally, you know what.
I have to admit that, you know
562
00:46:29.519 --> 00:46:31.840
what I'm saying, because like because
like you know what, like we're still
563
00:46:31.920 --> 00:46:37.039
used to keeping that ship in like
there's really no outlet, but you know,
564
00:46:37.400 --> 00:46:40.920
your emotional abuse and we don't.
A lot of people don't even no
565
00:46:42.239 --> 00:46:47.239
damage, yes literally you know,
so you know, so it's like but
566
00:46:47.559 --> 00:46:51.079
but see, you know what One
thing about our generation is that, you
567
00:46:51.159 --> 00:46:53.679
know, we were the generation that
you know, you fuck around, you're
568
00:46:53.719 --> 00:46:59.440
gonna find out we hurt feelings and
faces, you know, like none of
569
00:46:59.519 --> 00:47:00.920
this online ship. You know what
I'm saying. If it's up, it's
570
00:47:00.960 --> 00:47:04.519
up and on and on. That's
it, you know, like, yes,
571
00:47:04.679 --> 00:47:07.559
that's how he grew up. But
then we also are the generation that
572
00:47:07.800 --> 00:47:14.199
is not repeating that same trauma.
Many of us. They can't speak for
573
00:47:14.239 --> 00:47:17.559
all of us. You know what
I taught. I taught my son.
574
00:47:19.000 --> 00:47:22.960
I taught my son right what I'm
saying. If he's gonna cry, I'm
575
00:47:22.960 --> 00:47:24.800
like, Yo, if you're gonna
cry, don't cry. Don't don't cry
576
00:47:24.880 --> 00:47:30.239
out here among strangers. Go home
and cry. We'll understand. You know,
577
00:47:30.519 --> 00:47:34.000
it's all right. The crowd,
how what you know what I'm saying,
578
00:47:35.239 --> 00:47:37.639
just throwing you know what I'm saying. Yeah, you know what I'm
579
00:47:37.639 --> 00:47:39.039
saying. It's a time or place. You know what I'm saying, Like
580
00:47:39.679 --> 00:47:43.079
you want to come to me and
cry, go ahead, you know,
581
00:47:43.119 --> 00:47:46.320
I mean I can understand. I'm
going to I'm gonna hug you. You
582
00:47:46.360 --> 00:47:50.239
know I told my son, I'm
gonna hug you, and then I'm going
583
00:47:50.320 --> 00:47:52.960
to roast you after that, like
you pussy. You know what I'm saying,
584
00:47:52.079 --> 00:47:55.960
Like like you know what, Like
but at the end of the day,
585
00:47:57.039 --> 00:47:59.679
like like I was telling you know, I was telling cod On this,
586
00:47:59.760 --> 00:48:01.400
I'm like, Yo, we came
up in everywhere, you know,
587
00:48:01.519 --> 00:48:06.920
like we suppressed out you know what
I'm saying, our pain, you know,
588
00:48:07.119 --> 00:48:09.079
and believe me, you know what
I'm saying, like running you know
589
00:48:09.079 --> 00:48:12.280
what I'm saying, run a wild
out here. You know, we experienced
590
00:48:12.320 --> 00:48:16.960
a lot of it. So that
pain suppression, you know, probably most
591
00:48:17.079 --> 00:48:22.199
likely paid played the part in like
I meant to, you know, stability
592
00:48:22.280 --> 00:48:27.320
or lack their realp it definitely did, you know, Like like like for
593
00:48:27.440 --> 00:48:30.400
instance, you know what, like
when I was working when I was working
594
00:48:30.440 --> 00:48:35.320
for a path and I used to
see people get killed. I used to
595
00:48:35.400 --> 00:48:37.960
have grim jokes with it, you
know, Like I'm like, you know,
596
00:48:38.039 --> 00:48:40.360
like I used to record it.
I used to record it and like
597
00:48:42.159 --> 00:48:44.000
like like show called on, I'm
like, yo, you want to see
598
00:48:44.039 --> 00:48:46.559
someone catch a train? Then Boney
gets hit by a train. I'm like,
599
00:48:47.119 --> 00:48:50.639
you try to catch a train?
And I was there, you know,
600
00:48:50.840 --> 00:48:52.719
like like you know, like it's
it's just that, you know,
601
00:48:52.840 --> 00:48:57.039
like I started. You know,
the cope with that. I always see
602
00:48:57.119 --> 00:49:00.159
to say like grim jokes, you
know what I mean, a defense mechanism
603
00:49:00.280 --> 00:49:02.400
that you have. Yeah, you
know what I'm saying, Like like like
604
00:49:02.599 --> 00:49:05.320
like you know what comes to think
of it? You know, like like
605
00:49:05.440 --> 00:49:08.800
half the jokes that we have,
It's like they're all defense mechanisms from like
606
00:49:08.920 --> 00:49:14.599
past trump, past traumatic ship and
and you know what, and this is
607
00:49:14.639 --> 00:49:19.599
coming from my mouth. Look who
you're talking to. Look at the name
608
00:49:20.599 --> 00:49:23.599
Simon Phoenix aka Diddy Epstein. You
know what I'm saying. Look at the
609
00:49:23.719 --> 00:49:29.679
name. You know, Like this
is coming out from my mouth, you
610
00:49:29.760 --> 00:49:34.440
know. So so yeah, like
that's what it is. You know.
611
00:49:34.559 --> 00:49:38.679
Like but like our generation, you
know, like like we would talk to
612
00:49:38.800 --> 00:49:45.440
like hold things in right, but
we will talk to like but but but
613
00:49:45.559 --> 00:49:46.519
you know what though like we will
talk. You know, we were also
614
00:49:46.639 --> 00:49:52.840
taught to be fierce and every which
way because like we were taught that,
615
00:49:52.920 --> 00:49:54.519
you know what I mean, like
the world will eat you. What so
616
00:49:55.719 --> 00:50:02.320
either predator or get a prey and
hunt he was on, So I get
617
00:50:02.440 --> 00:50:10.440
up? Are you trying to get
drunk? To my that is the worst.
618
00:50:15.000 --> 00:50:20.320
Nine ninety nine Cherries was the first
hard hard looker I drank it,
619
00:50:20.599 --> 00:50:25.480
I don't, And I remember being
and I remember just like it, and
620
00:50:25.559 --> 00:50:30.599
I remember I was hanging out like
my university people, and we're in the
621
00:50:30.639 --> 00:50:32.480
projects, the thirty ninth Street.
We're drinking ninety nine cherries, like right
622
00:50:32.519 --> 00:50:36.239
there in front of like I remember, in front of thirty nine O one
623
00:50:37.440 --> 00:50:42.679
right, I want to get up. I'm like, what fifteen sixteen years
624
00:50:42.719 --> 00:50:45.039
old trying to get up, and
like I'm telling my boys that, yeah,
625
00:50:46.599 --> 00:50:50.719
that's all I remember saying. They're
like, what, like damn stuff.
626
00:50:50.760 --> 00:50:53.719
I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna
have to sleep over. So we
627
00:50:53.840 --> 00:50:58.599
walked down the hill, you know, like you like you guys, you
628
00:50:58.679 --> 00:51:00.280
guys familiar with thirty nine Street.
How they got the steep hill right next
629
00:51:00.320 --> 00:51:05.559
to the to the cemetery of the
projects, running to the cemetery. So
630
00:51:05.679 --> 00:51:08.840
we walked down the hill to his
house and like, you know, I
631
00:51:08.920 --> 00:51:13.880
slept over, but like I was
throwing the funk up. I was like,
632
00:51:15.280 --> 00:51:22.719
try even sound like I was drowning. Hell yeah, sounded like Louis
633
00:51:22.800 --> 00:51:37.880
Armstrong scimmy. You know you know
what you know what you know what's bad
634
00:51:37.920 --> 00:51:39.519
when when you hear someone throwing up
and all of a sudden they sounded like
635
00:51:39.519 --> 00:51:45.119
Louis Armstrong, like you know,
like at the jazz club, stimy,
636
00:51:46.199 --> 00:51:57.039
you know, like you know it's
bad. Let's be honest. What was
637
00:51:57.079 --> 00:52:04.159
your drinking choice? So the first
drink I ever had that was like,
638
00:52:04.760 --> 00:52:08.000
well, the first thing I ever
really drank drink was a forty when it
639
00:52:08.119 --> 00:52:13.039
was time to come out out,
but I had wine. What course,
640
00:52:14.679 --> 00:52:16.840
when you say forty, you know
what I'm saying, you better be specifical
641
00:52:17.039 --> 00:52:22.519
what forty what? Because you know
what? I don't know, because you
642
00:52:22.599 --> 00:52:31.280
know what that or would have been
an onlie. I don't remember. Man,
643
00:52:31.480 --> 00:52:37.599
that was so fucking long ago.
But and I did like Amaroto sours.
644
00:52:38.199 --> 00:52:43.199
I like that for a while.
I like sweet stuff at first,
645
00:52:45.159 --> 00:52:52.400
and then eventually I went to Captain
Morgan, Captain Marketing Coke, and then
646
00:52:52.480 --> 00:52:59.320
Captain Morgan and Ginerou. Now I
just like walk a tequila mhm drinks so
647
00:52:59.559 --> 00:53:02.079
that I see, like, you
know what, you know what besides twenty
648
00:53:02.159 --> 00:53:07.360
twenty and Cisco, there was only
four forty There was only four forty forty
649
00:53:07.400 --> 00:53:13.719
ounce come you know labels that we
drank from. Okay, crazy saying I's
650
00:53:14.119 --> 00:53:17.239
still reserves Old English and code forty
five sometimes crazy Horse when we found it.
651
00:53:17.400 --> 00:53:23.039
But yeah, it was either cold
forty five or Old English. I
652
00:53:23.559 --> 00:53:27.920
don't think it was yo and yo. And the thing is, you know
653
00:53:27.920 --> 00:53:30.719
what I'm saying, like like like
you know what, we like we would
654
00:53:30.719 --> 00:53:32.480
get the bottle and we were like
because that ship could just go back to
655
00:53:32.519 --> 00:53:35.800
the liquor store and get more.
Like Yo, you know what, the
656
00:53:35.880 --> 00:53:40.199
ship was a dollar once upon a
time. That's that's why. That's why
657
00:53:40.239 --> 00:53:43.599
you have to like you know what
I'm saying, knocking back, Yeah,
658
00:53:43.920 --> 00:53:45.559
and you'll think about it. The
ship was a dollar, you know what
659
00:53:45.599 --> 00:53:49.639
I'm saying. Yeah, and you
know what and you know what and I
660
00:53:50.000 --> 00:53:57.079
don't and I don't know. You
guys remember where ice Cube cypercell, like
661
00:53:57.159 --> 00:53:59.719
you know, like when they made
you know what I'm saying, commercials wrapping
662
00:53:59.719 --> 00:54:04.559
about Saint Os. So they made
it more pillans, like they made it
663
00:54:04.599 --> 00:54:07.920
more pillans to us, like like
Tupac made on me, like Tupaca Biggie,
664
00:54:07.960 --> 00:54:10.280
they both, you know, like
they may actually make commercials for Saint
665
00:54:10.320 --> 00:54:15.639
Os. I don't. I don't
know if we gotta remember that. I
666
00:54:15.280 --> 00:54:19.559
think there used to be like we
were growing up. I think there were
667
00:54:19.559 --> 00:54:24.599
commercials for cigarettes and alcohol, right, and then they wanted up getting away
668
00:54:24.719 --> 00:54:30.360
with that. Yeah, my favorite, my favorite drink. My favorite drinks
669
00:54:30.400 --> 00:54:40.960
were and twenty. This motherfucker better
watch it. Let me tell you you're
670
00:54:42.000 --> 00:54:45.960
about to get cut the funk off
right now, Like what the fuck?
671
00:54:45.880 --> 00:54:49.559
Bro, I have a drinking like
almost four years man, I know,
672
00:54:50.079 --> 00:54:59.639
but that that wasn't cool. But
anyway, yeah cool, Nah, he
673
00:54:59.760 --> 00:55:07.840
wasn't cool. B mad Dog twenty
twenty. Banana red was my favorite flake.
674
00:55:08.599 --> 00:55:15.239
Cisco was Strawberry other than Dog.
Yeah, I know, I know
675
00:55:15.519 --> 00:55:22.320
inside yes it's the name of the
company, but midsun And then that's funny
676
00:55:22.400 --> 00:55:25.840
though that we all really thought that
was what it was and it was called
677
00:55:28.000 --> 00:55:30.159
right and then and then my the
fortieth choice was crazy. It was for
678
00:55:30.280 --> 00:55:38.679
me. Damn damn. Those were
those are those are the days. And
679
00:55:38.800 --> 00:55:43.400
then when when we needed the bum
wine, we we we got the Rumbleman's
680
00:55:43.519 --> 00:55:51.039
or the the what was the other
one goal slager? Yes, that's what
681
00:55:51.199 --> 00:55:55.639
it was, slager, and I
was thrown up the gold flakes, remember
682
00:55:55.719 --> 00:56:05.320
that that had to burn. Bro
tried the moonshine, the original like real
683
00:56:05.440 --> 00:56:13.800
moonshine, No way, I don't
know, but die Yeah, ridiculous you
684
00:56:13.800 --> 00:56:16.239
would there have to pier one night
when when me and Jay had that bottle
685
00:56:16.280 --> 00:56:22.320
ever clear, right, I've been
there many times, ever clear gross.
686
00:56:22.840 --> 00:56:30.239
I remember when bullets fell on his
face. I remember that one he was
687
00:56:30.360 --> 00:56:34.679
he took three steps and fell face
first right into the floor concrete. I
688
00:56:34.840 --> 00:56:37.719
was like, oh, he's done. We had to carry him home and
689
00:56:37.800 --> 00:56:45.960
leave him at his doorstep and ran, oh yaeger er, no, thank
690
00:56:45.000 --> 00:56:51.239
you, no. But but you
know what though, you know what though,
691
00:56:51.320 --> 00:56:57.039
like it's weird because like Jagerst tasted
like straight ship. Hold on TG.
692
00:56:57.880 --> 00:57:00.599
You can see the chat room,
Yeah, I can't see nothing.
693
00:57:01.000 --> 00:57:05.320
If you go there, right there, it's his private chat or comments.
694
00:57:06.519 --> 00:57:09.159
I just clicked over to comments.
Oh I didn't know y'all could see the
695
00:57:09.280 --> 00:57:14.599
chat. Yeah, that's why I
keep putting the messages on the screen because
696
00:57:14.599 --> 00:57:15.880
I didn't know you to see.
I didn't know you were doing that.
697
00:57:16.039 --> 00:57:20.480
I thought that was naturally happening.
Now I was like, since when did
698
00:57:20.519 --> 00:57:23.639
that happen? Oh? I didn't
know y'all can see that. Good because
699
00:57:23.639 --> 00:57:27.239
I don't, I don't have to
stress out the buttons. All right,
700
00:57:28.360 --> 00:57:30.280
No, I didn't know you were
doing that anyway. Well, you know
701
00:57:30.360 --> 00:57:32.920
what, I'm on the phone,
so I mean you can't see it.
702
00:57:34.400 --> 00:57:37.079
You can't see No, actually I
can, but then but but then I
703
00:57:37.159 --> 00:57:40.119
can't see you know. Hey,
listen, man, you know what watched
704
00:57:40.119 --> 00:57:44.280
her tone? It behooves me that
you want to talk to me this way
705
00:57:44.840 --> 00:57:51.760
boo. So all right, so
so what are we? What are we
706
00:57:51.880 --> 00:57:55.239
watching these days? Lets so,
I'm star all right, we're gonna go
707
00:57:55.440 --> 00:58:00.159
and we're gonna go. We're gonna
go this way. Lady G? You
708
00:58:00.239 --> 00:58:04.840
watching these days? My business?
What do you? What are you?
709
00:58:05.000 --> 00:58:15.840
What are you recommending? Hello?
She fell asleep? Did you say TG
710
00:58:15.039 --> 00:58:21.480
or Lady G? I said,
Lady G, I need my my my
711
00:58:21.559 --> 00:58:24.960
knee changed to Tagachi because it's a
lady G and TG, and I can
712
00:58:25.079 --> 00:58:29.239
understand how they could get confusing,
I said, Lady G. What are
713
00:58:29.280 --> 00:58:34.800
you watching? What do you recommend? Fire Country? I watched boring shows,
714
00:58:34.880 --> 00:58:38.679
but I like them all of the
law and Orders? Yeah nine one?
715
00:58:39.800 --> 00:58:44.159
Yeah, Well fu me up about
Law and Order? Right? Is
716
00:58:44.239 --> 00:58:45.920
that every time they get a confession, always playing that you know what I'm
717
00:58:45.920 --> 00:58:52.119
saying? That dramatic music and the
guys like willingly confessing Nah, like you
718
00:58:52.159 --> 00:58:53.280
know what I'm saying. Nah?
Bro, First off, you know what.
719
00:58:54.039 --> 00:58:57.719
First off, I watched too much
first forty to be confessing that way.
720
00:58:57.760 --> 00:59:01.239
I'm like that lawyer. You know
what I'm saying. Lawyer, you
721
00:59:01.280 --> 00:59:04.400
know what I'm saying. And besides
that, you ain't catching me. I'll
722
00:59:04.440 --> 00:59:07.480
tell you why. You know what
I'm saying, because first off, you
723
00:59:07.519 --> 00:59:09.599
know what I'm saying. If I'm
gonna do something, I'm gonna plant carefully.
724
00:59:10.280 --> 00:59:15.679
I'm gonna shave my head, no
hair stocking, no hair, no
725
00:59:15.880 --> 00:59:20.280
hair, you know, like like
yo, you know what I finger I'll
726
00:59:20.320 --> 00:59:22.480
finger print my I'll fingerprint ras.
You know I'll raise it, blame my
727
00:59:22.559 --> 00:59:28.480
fingerprints, right, you know,
like get You're damn right. You know
728
00:59:28.519 --> 00:59:30.440
what I'm saying. I'll chop my
hand off. You know what I'm saying.
729
00:59:30.480 --> 00:59:32.960
I put in the mink riding.
You ain't getting nothing. You know
730
00:59:37.119 --> 00:59:43.559
you ain't. You ain't getting nothing? TG, What do you mean to
731
00:59:43.719 --> 00:59:45.639
got you? What are you watching? And what do you recommend? I
732
00:59:45.800 --> 00:59:51.800
just want to hear you say it? My god? What Asian I mean
733
00:59:52.599 --> 01:00:02.599
watching? I watched the mass singer
Voice Low in Order, Abbot Elementary UHESNL.
734
01:00:05.119 --> 01:00:09.280
Oh, there's a show called Animal
Control that I watched. It's pretty
735
01:00:09.320 --> 01:00:17.079
funny and dead not dead yet.
That one's pretty good too. I watched
736
01:00:17.159 --> 01:00:22.800
way many shows on Netflix, so
if you ever want to know about a
737
01:00:22.880 --> 01:00:29.159
show, I've probably watched it.
I yes, I love The Witcher yo,
738
01:00:29.280 --> 01:00:30.519
you know what. I just finished
watching The Witches that you know like,
739
01:00:30.639 --> 01:00:37.480
And the thing is, I'm not
into that coming back though, so
740
01:00:37.599 --> 01:00:40.519
that makes me not want to watch
like the next season, like I know,
741
01:00:42.920 --> 01:00:49.000
you know what man like and then
and then and then you know what,
742
01:00:49.119 --> 01:00:52.760
I've seen Game of Thrones and Dragons
love Game of Throws all the House
743
01:00:52.840 --> 01:00:55.039
of Dragons. I love that too. I don't have Max. No,
744
01:00:55.280 --> 01:00:59.440
you know what I want to see. I want to see a will go
745
01:00:59.519 --> 01:01:01.000
at it with his nephew. That's
what I want to see. That that's
746
01:01:01.039 --> 01:01:06.800
going to be a formidal match,
you know, like and they're like me
747
01:01:07.239 --> 01:01:10.519
watching old school stuff like The Sopranos, The Wire, you know, Sex
748
01:01:10.599 --> 01:01:14.239
and the City is on Netflix,
so I've been watching that to go to
749
01:01:14.320 --> 01:01:16.000
sleep. I don't want I don't
want to see no geriatric women, you
750
01:01:16.079 --> 01:01:20.000
know what I'm saying, trying to
their love life, don't you dare You
751
01:01:20.000 --> 01:01:22.800
know what I'm saying, Hey,
women in their thirties are not cheriatric.
752
01:01:22.920 --> 01:01:25.199
Okay, that's like saying that I'm
like a gramdma. No no, no,
753
01:01:25.360 --> 01:01:29.960
no, no, no no no. Hold on, these bitches are
754
01:01:29.960 --> 01:01:32.719
supposed to be thirty. They look
damn they're like sixty in the beginning,
755
01:01:32.800 --> 01:01:37.440
they're in there thirties. Yeah,
they're walking. They're walking cadavers. I
756
01:01:37.480 --> 01:01:39.400
don't want to see that ship.
You could see it actually from the beginning
757
01:01:39.519 --> 01:01:44.119
how much younger they are. So
whatever, whatever to you? You know
758
01:01:44.159 --> 01:01:45.639
what I'm saying, Like dubs,
like what do you watching? And what
759
01:01:45.719 --> 01:01:51.159
do you recommend be? Yeah?
You know what, First off, I
760
01:01:51.320 --> 01:01:53.519
wasn't yelling, you know what.
I was one of them people that when
761
01:01:53.519 --> 01:01:55.880
I saw on Facebook everyone was like, you know, saying, talk about
762
01:01:55.880 --> 01:01:58.719
Game of Thrones. I was like, I ain't watching the ship, you
763
01:01:58.800 --> 01:02:00.440
know what I'm saying, Like,
I'm a I'm gonna I'm going to watch
764
01:02:00.480 --> 01:02:06.119
it on my own time, right
like years later, so like I forget
765
01:02:06.280 --> 01:02:09.440
like half the ship they wrote,
right, let me tell you something,
766
01:02:12.360 --> 01:02:15.440
the narrows, you know what I'm
saying? Everyone like yo, everyone rides
767
01:02:15.480 --> 01:02:17.920
her coat tails like, oh,
she was the one to stand the third
768
01:02:19.400 --> 01:02:23.559
nah, man, Aria was that? Aria was that and she's a female,
769
01:02:24.199 --> 01:02:29.920
a fifteen year old assassin. Listen, they that last season. So
770
01:02:30.199 --> 01:02:34.000
I don't even want to talk about
you know what though, like the last
771
01:02:34.000 --> 01:02:36.480
season, man, like, yeah, hold on, let's talk about that
772
01:02:36.559 --> 01:02:38.559
real quick, right, you know
what I'm saying, because because because you
773
01:02:38.599 --> 01:02:43.360
know what, I was able to
binge watch it, right mm hmm,
774
01:02:43.880 --> 01:02:49.000
it's like the new storyline they should
have took, you know what I'm saying,
775
01:02:49.000 --> 01:02:52.039
They should have They should have died
more into her mind, you know
776
01:02:52.039 --> 01:02:57.400
what I'm saying. They she blacked
out like that. They literally just a
777
01:02:57.440 --> 01:03:00.119
lot of ship. They went like
too fast. Got the book? Was
778
01:03:00.519 --> 01:03:04.880
the books? My friend has the
books, and my girl got the books
779
01:03:05.239 --> 01:03:07.599
because they're hard to read. I'm
sorry, you know what. My girl
780
01:03:07.639 --> 01:03:10.639
got the books and believe me,
you know what I'm saying. She was
781
01:03:10.719 --> 01:03:14.559
like now season eight and she said
it was such a frown face. Right,
782
01:03:15.159 --> 01:03:17.800
She's like I hated this, you
know what I'm saying. This then
783
01:03:17.880 --> 01:03:21.800
the third blah blah blah, and
but she explained that I was like,
784
01:03:22.480 --> 01:03:23.039
Okay, you know what I'm saying, I'll say, yeah, I'll be
785
01:03:23.079 --> 01:03:24.960
the judge of it. You know
what I'm saying, Like from someone that
786
01:03:25.119 --> 01:03:28.880
never read the book, you know
what I'm saying, Like that ship was
787
01:03:29.039 --> 01:03:31.880
that ship was completely rushed like for
like a cash grab or something, you
788
01:03:31.920 --> 01:03:37.199
know, because that was in the
book. There were characters that were more
789
01:03:37.239 --> 01:03:42.800
important in the book that they didn't
make in the show and then they kind
790
01:03:42.800 --> 01:03:46.440
of did a rush also, so
I also heard that there were certain characters
791
01:03:46.519 --> 01:03:54.519
that in the show that for instance, there was like this there was like
792
01:03:54.599 --> 01:03:59.480
this dude that was like a like
an uncle that that he got caught right
793
01:03:59.639 --> 01:04:02.480
that he was supposed to be someone
more important, but like they had him
794
01:04:02.480 --> 01:04:08.360
be like a bumbling idiot. I
forgot his name. But many of them,
795
01:04:08.559 --> 01:04:12.039
there's too many characters. But yeah, you know what though, yo,
796
01:04:12.199 --> 01:04:15.920
Yo, you know what as far
as my favorite characters on the show,
797
01:04:15.440 --> 01:04:21.639
the Mountain, the Hound, Arian, my girl, my yo.
798
01:04:21.760 --> 01:04:27.880
And I'm gonna tell you why Arian, right because like no one asking,
799
01:04:29.199 --> 01:04:31.559
no, I don't care, I'm
still telling anyway. Literally, like he's
800
01:04:31.599 --> 01:04:35.960
like, what's the show? And
you're like going into game of throws as
801
01:04:36.239 --> 01:04:41.679
you to yo, you know what
your favorite characters. Yo, you know
802
01:04:41.760 --> 01:04:45.880
what, Arian, that's my bitch. Why do we want to hear what
803
01:04:45.000 --> 01:04:47.920
you have to say? The mother
of dragons? You ship on her?
804
01:04:48.039 --> 01:04:50.800
How dare you? Sir? You
know what? You know what? My
805
01:04:50.880 --> 01:04:54.400
girl says the same thing too,
but like but like you know what though,
806
01:04:54.840 --> 01:04:56.719
like, yeah, you know what, you know what? She would
807
01:04:56.800 --> 01:05:00.400
she willed a tremendous power. Yo, I'll give her that, But yeah,
808
01:05:00.480 --> 01:05:03.039
how else? How else do you
kill thirty people without living a sword?
809
01:05:04.000 --> 01:05:08.880
Aria? Did that? Think about
that? That girl? She came
810
01:05:09.239 --> 01:05:13.599
She came up for sure. And
your part was different in the books too,
811
01:05:13.840 --> 01:05:17.920
So it's like, that's the thing
that last season got killed because the
812
01:05:17.960 --> 01:05:24.519
writer wasn't a part of it,
and George part of that and they and
813
01:05:24.679 --> 01:05:28.559
so they just went with it and
they sucked horribly, Like it was bad.
814
01:05:28.719 --> 01:05:31.960
Dialogue was different, everything was different, and they ended it horribly.
815
01:05:32.280 --> 01:05:35.440
So that's why I don't want to
talk about it anymore. They heard me
816
01:05:35.800 --> 01:05:43.440
the the Wire especially, that's old. What about something new? You watch
817
01:05:43.639 --> 01:05:47.840
anything new? Well, I'm wing
for stranger things. There's so many good
818
01:05:47.880 --> 01:05:54.639
shows I love, like the British
shows those are so good, like especially
819
01:05:54.800 --> 01:06:00.119
the thriller ones the Mystery Detectives.
They're good, they write some good ship
820
01:06:00.519 --> 01:06:04.320
but I have to you know what. They're like, Yeah, you know
821
01:06:04.400 --> 01:06:06.880
what though, like like with me
as far as shows go, like I'm
822
01:06:06.880 --> 01:06:12.480
not really into shows and more too
like movies mm hmm, you know,
823
01:06:12.599 --> 01:06:15.960
and like like yo, you know
what, sometimes you know to get that
824
01:06:15.119 --> 01:06:17.320
feel like for instance, like I've
seen the Predator, Like I seen the
825
01:06:17.360 --> 01:06:21.440
original Predator like a couple of days
ago, right, and then I was
826
01:06:21.480 --> 01:06:24.719
like, you know what, I'm
gonna watch Predator too, And I was
827
01:06:24.760 --> 01:06:27.280
like, dam this is a good
movie. And then I started going down
828
01:06:27.320 --> 01:06:29.079
the Predator series. I was like, Yo, this ship trash, This
829
01:06:29.119 --> 01:06:34.119
ship trash all the way down to
Pray. Now if you you know what,
830
01:06:34.239 --> 01:06:39.760
if you see if you haven't seen
Prey watching you know because like not
831
01:06:39.920 --> 01:06:45.519
only not only is a is a
female that you know, it's the main
832
01:06:45.599 --> 01:06:51.800
protagonists talking about not only the female
that's the main protagonist, but as far
833
01:06:51.840 --> 01:06:57.480
as like Native American culture, they
got it down, you know, right
834
01:06:57.559 --> 01:07:00.880
down to a team. And I
was like, yo, this is interesting,
835
01:07:00.920 --> 01:07:02.400
this is amazing. Are you talking
about the one that came out this
836
01:07:02.559 --> 01:07:08.440
year? Last year I think or
two years ago? Twenty two, twenty
837
01:07:08.519 --> 01:07:13.599
twenty two. Okay, yeah,
oh I have food Prey. Yeah it's
838
01:07:13.679 --> 01:07:18.760
Prey. But like yeah, just
as far as like TV shows concerned,
839
01:07:18.760 --> 01:07:23.960
I'm not, you know, like
whatever, like like right now, you
840
01:07:24.039 --> 01:07:29.199
know, like my girl has to
watch a Fallout show. Yeah that's on
841
01:07:29.400 --> 01:07:33.440
Prime right because yeah, because because
you know what the thing is like like
842
01:07:33.719 --> 01:07:38.079
like like for instance, right like
we've seen the Last of Us because she
843
01:07:38.239 --> 01:07:41.639
has the game. I was like, oh shit, you know what I'm
844
01:07:41.639 --> 01:07:45.039
saying, Like I haven't seen that
either, the Last of It, you
845
01:07:45.119 --> 01:07:47.800
know, like like you know what, like most of them, like most
846
01:07:47.880 --> 01:07:51.679
like the first is the Witcher,
she has the game Last of Us she
847
01:07:51.840 --> 01:07:58.480
has the game Fallout. She has
and plays the game. So I was
848
01:07:58.559 --> 01:08:00.280
like, oh, you know what, like you know, the fact that
849
01:08:00.400 --> 01:08:03.440
you know, they adapted a video
game to live action, I was like,
850
01:08:03.480 --> 01:08:06.280
oh shit, you know what I'm
saying, they're getting it right mm
851
01:08:06.360 --> 01:08:11.199
hmmm. So so like right now
we watch right now, you know,
852
01:08:11.320 --> 01:08:14.239
like we're watching Fallout and I'm like, yo, you know what, this
853
01:08:14.280 --> 01:08:15.960
ship is pretty good. And then
I have to yell at her. I'm
854
01:08:16.000 --> 01:08:20.199
like, you need to stop getting
me an your shows, bro, you
855
01:08:20.279 --> 01:08:23.920
know like I don't appreciate the ship
because then I start liking the show,
856
01:08:23.920 --> 01:08:27.239
and then when like when the show
is over, I'm mad, I'm here
857
01:08:27.279 --> 01:08:30.520
do it an my thumbs? I
know, I love binge watching, Like
858
01:08:30.600 --> 01:08:33.560
I would rather wait for the seasons
to come out and then just watch the
859
01:08:33.600 --> 01:08:38.199
whole damn thing. Like Stranger Things, I want to see that one.
860
01:08:38.640 --> 01:08:41.640
I want to see a Brother Academy. I hope they don't suck a Brother
861
01:08:41.720 --> 01:08:45.840
Academy. Yeah, and that's about
it because like, you know, what,
862
01:08:47.720 --> 01:08:54.399
when did that come out? I
have no idea. I had no
863
01:08:54.560 --> 01:08:57.520
idea. But you know what though, like like for instance, right,
864
01:08:57.840 --> 01:09:01.479
like Stranger Things, I love Stranger
Things because it's such it's so nostalgic,
865
01:09:03.119 --> 01:09:08.199
you know, because you know,
we grew up in that generation, you
866
01:09:08.279 --> 01:09:12.800
know, Like I think what was
the season two they had a Sam Goodie
867
01:09:12.800 --> 01:09:14.399
in the mall and I was like, yo, I used to work for
868
01:09:14.479 --> 01:09:26.119
them, Sam Goodie. Do you
remember? Do you remember Fat Beats in
869
01:09:26.239 --> 01:09:32.600
New York? Oh? How about
this one? Crazy Eddy? How crazy
870
01:09:32.720 --> 01:09:42.479
Eddie? Remember? Remember crazy with
that guy? Yeah? M Eddie antone?
871
01:09:43.319 --> 01:09:49.560
Uh yeah? What else? I
was gonna say Radio City, but
872
01:09:49.720 --> 01:10:02.159
that's not it Woolworth. Remember m
Burger line Bam Burgers all right, yo,
873
01:10:02.359 --> 01:10:06.039
you know what man? So that's
a throwback, all right, So
874
01:10:06.159 --> 01:10:17.279
as far as as far as Bradley's, Oh my god, as far as
875
01:10:18.359 --> 01:10:28.640
wow, yeah, Bradley's was crazy
h Martin Yo, for real, Yeah,
876
01:10:29.159 --> 01:10:34.000
McCrory's McCrory's all right, so real
quick hold on, wait wait wait,
877
01:10:34.279 --> 01:10:39.199
thom m can remember that? Yeah, I think they still that.
878
01:10:39.439 --> 01:10:44.960
They still make shoes, Thoma can
mm hmm Tooma. Cann is out of
879
01:10:45.000 --> 01:10:49.600
business a long time ago, all
right. So remember when Roy Rogers was
880
01:10:50.000 --> 01:10:53.159
Yeah, my bad, bro.
You know what I'm saying, like a
881
01:10:53.239 --> 01:10:57.239
real quick m more time? You
know, Rod Rochester to serve that chicken
882
01:10:57.720 --> 01:11:01.680
I used to be, Yeah,
I'll take the chicken to study my back,
883
01:11:01.720 --> 01:11:05.199
Go ahead, bro, all right. So one more thing I want
884
01:11:05.239 --> 01:11:09.920
I want to do before before we
jet. So I want to give the
885
01:11:10.039 --> 01:11:15.960
fans a little peek into what it
is we listen to, because one of
886
01:11:16.039 --> 01:11:20.079
them a while back and I completely
forgot about it, and she brought it
887
01:11:20.199 --> 01:11:23.239
up again. She was like,
yeah, what kind of media do you
888
01:11:23.319 --> 01:11:26.000
guys listen to? So what I
want to do is I want to go
889
01:11:26.079 --> 01:11:30.960
around and I want you guys to
give a track, one track to give
890
01:11:31.000 --> 01:11:35.600
a fans to listen to. So
pick one of the pick a genre.
891
01:11:35.920 --> 01:11:39.880
Doesn't matter what genre it is,
whatever you like, It doesn't matter what
892
01:11:40.000 --> 01:11:45.119
it is. It could be fucking
reggae, fucking country. I don't give
893
01:11:45.119 --> 01:11:49.479
a fuck what it is. One
track that you really like that you want
894
01:11:49.920 --> 01:11:54.840
a fan, that you think a
fan should listen to. I'm gonna start
895
01:11:54.840 --> 01:12:09.119
with Lady G of Course, Goodness
of God by c N See that again,
896
01:12:09.279 --> 01:12:14.680
Lady G, the Goodness Goodness of
God by cc win, Goodness of
897
01:12:14.800 --> 01:12:21.359
God by Okay, got mm hmmm. I have no idea. I love
898
01:12:21.479 --> 01:12:32.640
so many songs you're going through your
playlist. I really am, I really
899
01:12:32.680 --> 01:12:39.680
am. I mean I love her
h E E R you know capital letters
900
01:12:39.840 --> 01:12:48.439
H E R her. She has
a lot of great songs. Recently heard
901
01:12:48.600 --> 01:12:54.960
Casey Musgraves on s n L.
She has a song called Deeper. Well,
902
01:12:55.439 --> 01:12:58.840
that's a really good song. I
think people can relate to it,
903
01:13:00.760 --> 01:13:06.560
Okay, dubs Well, I mean
there's so you know, there's so many
904
01:13:08.199 --> 01:13:11.520
like right, like you like like
you know what you know, my mind
905
01:13:11.600 --> 01:13:15.319
is a library, you know,
because like because like you know, what
906
01:13:15.439 --> 01:13:18.119
like people think that I just listen
to hip hop. One that is true,
907
01:13:18.159 --> 01:13:23.640
but not like you know, like
that mainstream stuff like like you know
908
01:13:23.680 --> 01:13:26.880
what, I can't listen to Drake
because like he makes music for like the
909
01:13:26.960 --> 01:13:32.279
sound his music sounds like the soundtrack
of to Twilight and you know, and
910
01:13:32.439 --> 01:13:38.279
you know Twilight. You know it
takes that, you know, and and
911
01:13:38.359 --> 01:13:41.800
you know how Twilight is. You
know what I'm saying, It takes that
912
01:13:42.359 --> 01:13:46.520
movie itself takes took the end out
of thangs. Now do now add those
913
01:13:46.600 --> 01:13:55.279
letters together? The minds to end
anyways, right, like like summertime is
914
01:13:55.319 --> 01:13:59.039
coming and I'm like that's when I
started like listening to like a lot of
915
01:13:59.079 --> 01:14:00.800
house music, but the old schoolhouse, like you know what I'm saying.
916
01:14:00.880 --> 01:14:03.880
So like I think that you know, my pick will be I'll beat that
917
01:14:03.960 --> 01:14:11.800
bitch to the back. Oh my
god, how good to tell them?
918
01:14:13.239 --> 01:14:18.800
I think armand band something looking up, you know, like I guess that
919
01:14:19.319 --> 01:14:28.479
that it's percolated, you know,
the witch stoctor like but see but see,
920
01:14:28.479 --> 01:14:30.479
you know what the thing is though, Like those songs right there reminds
921
01:14:30.520 --> 01:14:33.960
me of like being down the seats, like just the Jersey Show in general.
922
01:14:34.439 --> 01:14:38.720
You know what I mean, because
like because like because like you know
923
01:14:38.800 --> 01:14:41.920
what, like back then, like
if you walk on the boardwalk, that's
924
01:14:42.000 --> 01:14:45.239
all you heard. If it wasn't
from you know what I'm saying that people
925
01:14:45.319 --> 01:14:47.359
carrying the radio. You know what
I'm saying, blasted it and blast the
926
01:14:47.439 --> 01:14:50.319
rap. You heard it. And
when you want to go like you know,
927
01:14:50.399 --> 01:14:54.800
play the games and stuff. You
know, like like yo, you
928
01:14:54.840 --> 01:14:57.840
know what. Now Seaside now it's
like it's like you know what, It's
929
01:14:57.880 --> 01:15:01.520
like a tornado right picked up all
the trailer trash in the Midwest and dumping
930
01:15:01.640 --> 01:15:05.760
right there. Man, you know, like like like like you know,
931
01:15:05.920 --> 01:15:14.159
like this, you know what,
you know what? You know what I
932
01:15:14.239 --> 01:15:16.319
mean? Seaside. Seaside is next
to barn Again and Barnagat used to have
933
01:15:16.439 --> 01:15:23.479
like a KKK area, I mean
area down there is the very conservative,
934
01:15:23.920 --> 01:15:31.720
very Trump loving very so so is
Lakewood. That's what I'm saying about Lakewood,
935
01:15:31.800 --> 01:15:36.640
Lakewood Lakes, Little Jerusalem, now, bro, there is a big
936
01:15:36.760 --> 01:15:41.439
part of it. Yes, no, it's down there the whole time,
937
01:15:42.840 --> 01:15:45.079
because I lived there and it wasn't
the whole damn town. Okay, it's
938
01:15:45.199 --> 01:15:48.840
one part and there are more parts
that they all try to take over.
939
01:15:49.119 --> 01:15:58.159
Yes, all right, all right, so my track now, I got
940
01:15:58.199 --> 01:16:01.479
a whole story behind this motherfucker want
to get into it, but can throw
941
01:16:01.520 --> 01:16:08.000
out one more track real quick?
Yeah yeah yeah, Audio Slave Shadow of
942
01:16:08.039 --> 01:16:13.199
the Sun. I love that song, bro, Audio Shadow of the Sun
943
01:16:14.600 --> 01:16:18.279
right now? Yes, bro,
you know what, I could play that
944
01:16:18.399 --> 01:16:21.920
song over and over and over and
over and and you know, you know
945
01:16:21.960 --> 01:16:24.600
what, I used to like the
song, you know what I'm saying,
946
01:16:24.640 --> 01:16:29.279
but like my like like my deeper
life for the song because I was in
947
01:16:29.439 --> 01:16:30.560
I was in the movie theater back
then, and I and you know,
948
01:16:30.720 --> 01:16:33.560
like I was on a date watching
Collateral and they played the song. But
949
01:16:33.640 --> 01:16:36.640
like the way the song like you
know, cute in with the coyote in
950
01:16:36.720 --> 01:16:39.760
the street, and I was like, Yo, that shit is tough,
951
01:16:40.319 --> 01:16:42.439
you know what I'm saying. I
was like, yeah, yo, bro,
952
01:16:43.159 --> 01:16:45.800
that song is to me. Oh
audio, If I found it,
953
01:16:46.479 --> 01:16:49.479
then there's no bona something in the
way. I love that song too.
954
01:16:50.079 --> 01:16:55.640
Okay, now you're just now you're
just trying to bad bad Sorry. Yeah
955
01:16:55.920 --> 01:17:04.479
all right, so all right My
track is is It's called My Spirit Is
956
01:17:04.520 --> 01:17:13.640
by an Italian band called Coil.
You they're good. Yeah, yeah,
957
01:17:13.640 --> 01:17:15.600
they're pretty damn you put me onto
them, you put me onto the bit,
958
01:17:16.119 --> 01:17:20.600
you know what, Like they're good, you know, like, yeah,
959
01:17:20.640 --> 01:17:24.279
I can't believe that girl sounds American. You know what I'm saying.
960
01:17:25.359 --> 01:17:28.359
She's like like, yo, you
know what. That messed me up because
961
01:17:28.399 --> 01:17:31.880
like she's there, she's talking with
the deepest italent accent, but she's singing
962
01:17:31.960 --> 01:17:40.239
like you know, like Taylor Swift
like so clear. Yeah, so it's
963
01:17:40.239 --> 01:17:47.720
pretty dope. Well to GATCHI my
bad? What you paying attention out?
964
01:17:47.880 --> 01:17:57.239
No, I heard you here.
I was listening. But then that's where
965
01:17:57.239 --> 01:18:04.279
I got the name from. I
don't know, that's funny, that's funny.
966
01:18:04.840 --> 01:18:10.760
I was actually thinking of the toy, but it's the Tama Gotchi the
967
01:18:10.800 --> 01:18:16.479
toy. Yeah. Ship. But
you know what though, like like you
968
01:18:16.520 --> 01:18:18.880
know, like like like my girls, like she listens to like, you
969
01:18:18.960 --> 01:18:23.880
know, variety of ship, right, like some of the ship. I'm
970
01:18:23.920 --> 01:18:26.840
like, I'm like, yo,
you know what, Oh, I want
971
01:18:26.840 --> 01:18:30.279
to play this in your car?
I'm like right, So then after that,
972
01:18:30.399 --> 01:18:32.279
you know, like I have to
go with like you know, like
973
01:18:32.359 --> 01:18:34.199
for instance, like you know that
you're playing Nicki min I was in my
974
01:18:34.279 --> 01:18:36.720
car and I don't even like that, but I think I think she's trash,
975
01:18:38.319 --> 01:18:42.920
right, So like right after that, right after that, I have
976
01:18:43.039 --> 01:18:45.560
to blast mop to get that you
know, moistenings out of my speakers and
977
01:18:45.600 --> 01:18:53.000
stuff. It's it's like audio douc
Do I look at it? You know?
978
01:18:56.600 --> 01:19:03.279
Yeah? All right, So with
that being said, we're good.
979
01:19:04.039 --> 01:19:08.359
This was a really good episode.
We checked, we checked off, we
980
01:19:08.520 --> 01:19:15.760
checked up all the boxes. We're
good. We're good. Yeah. So
981
01:19:15.960 --> 01:19:21.439
with that, with all that being
said, this is big hold on.
982
01:19:21.760 --> 01:19:30.319
That's Lady g to got you six
now just for today, for today,
983
01:19:30.399 --> 01:19:34.800
this is double Don Simon Phoenix a
k a. Did He Epstein. You
984
01:19:34.880 --> 01:19:41.079
can find him on Twitter acting the
fool and getting crazy Epstein on Yo,
985
01:19:41.239 --> 01:19:45.079
you know what I'm on Twitter.
It's certain Epstein. I don't care,
986
01:19:45.199 --> 01:19:46.720
like like you know what. Twitter
is assessed pool and I'm part of it
987
01:19:46.760 --> 01:19:53.279
and I like it. It's x
now, yeah, it's x now,
988
01:19:53.359 --> 01:19:57.600
yeah whatever it is. So yeah, so you know, we're good.
989
01:19:57.760 --> 01:20:00.800
I'm glad. You know everybody who
stopped by it a hi, and you
990
01:20:00.880 --> 01:20:03.560
know, talk with us and chill
with us and listen to us. Thank
991
01:20:03.600 --> 01:20:05.800
you very much. We appreciate the
fans of the show. We love you
992
01:20:05.920 --> 01:20:13.199
all once again, big hold you
on, Lady g g G and dubbed
993
01:20:13.279 --> 01:20:16.600
a down This is this has been
an episode of This My Herd podcast and
994
01:20:16.760 --> 01:20:20.359
at some point, but it is
it. Yeah, it's gonna hurt my
995
01:20:23.479 --> 01:20:30.680
many people. Get everybody. Peace
out, yo, I'm


















