Jan. 8, 2024
Post New Year Shenanigans With The Crew! (Recorded LIVE On 1-4-24)

Post New Year Shenanigans With The Crew!
Post New Year Shenanigans With The Crew!
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Bert Bert. They what's up?
Everybody? This is big cordon of that.
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This might hurt podcast coming to you
live. You know how we do?
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We bring in Lady G. She's
the first one to arrive. Always
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on time. Lady G was good
everything under the sun. And yes,
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that is me, always on time. Every waiting on I mean, everybody
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else is gonna be here. We're
just waiting on them. But while while
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we're waiting, you know what I'm
saying, how are you? I'm wonderful
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as always. I got a little
bit about it. Yeah, a little
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bit of the sniffles. Oh the
tg TG just popped in, But I
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don't I don't see her. Can
I just see her name? She was
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more on one second. I mean
no, it's still right. Oh,
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wait till it's fits, Wait till
she pops up. Anyway, So what's
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been good? Like? How's house? How did how did the new year
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start? For you? Everything was
great, you know, just I actually
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went to church so spent some time
with the Lord for the new year.
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Other than that, everything was smooth
sailing. It's the fourth day of the
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new year and still good. Hey, you can't, I mean, you
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know, whatever works? Yeah,
hold on a second, my chair.
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My computer chairs actings too. Yeah, it's not that it's rolling that keeps
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dropping. So if you know,
if you look on the screen and you
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notice that, like my hat is
showing it up my face, that's what's
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up. That's what's going on.
I think TG is having some technical difficulties.
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Let me see. Yeah, see
because it's still spinning. Let me
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see. Yeah, you don't have
to wait till she could figure that out.
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So anyway, yeah, and everything
and everything's cool, everything's good.
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There's a bunch of things we're probably
going to get into the night, one
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of them being, oh, look
who just popped in? Hold on you?
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What's up y'all? Like I'm high
ship right now? Bro? What
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you mean? Shrooms? Nigga shrooms? Bro? Just like you. I
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can hear myself. Can hear myself
too, No know what I'm saying.
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I can hear myself to your speakers. I don't even know what speakers is
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on? Bro? Damn this brand
new car bro? Hold on, yeah,
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I got to send a car on. Oh that's why. Hold on?
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Oh no, it's too too cold
to head be good now let me
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see. Nope, hear myself?
How about now? Hello? I think
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nope, I still hear myself.
Hold on, get it together, thot
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together? How about not let me? I still hear it. I don't
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know what to tell you, baby, I really don't. The only thing
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I know is that it is cold. I don't know what to do.
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Is if I talk, I'm gonna
hear everybody's gonna hear themselves. I don't
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hear nobody like like like, you
know what, I hear you, guys,
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and that's about it. Yeah,
but I hear an echo. I
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don't know why it's not coming from
from me or I got you on speakerphone.
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I mean, you know what,
I can change what it is?
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Yeah, do that change the head
phone? See what happens? Yeah,
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d G's trying to get in.
She said that she's having a problem with
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her WiFi. Mm hmmm yeah yeah, let's let's see. Yeah yo,
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how about no, no, no, I don't hear a thing. Good.
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Well, my headphones don't work on
this ship. But it sounds a
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lot better now. But now,
like you know what I'm saying, like
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like I hear you guys like minimum, but I hear you perfectly. How
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about now, no, I hear
you perfectly? Fine, al right,
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back all right, cool. So
TG is having some technical difficulties with her
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WiFi her man, I mean yeah
her, you know yeah, how is
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tolerance? Say, he's gonna be
a few minutes later, he said,
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he will be here, you know
what I mean. So that's what's up?
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So so dubbs. How is how
is your New Year? Yeah?
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How was how everything go? My? What your new year? Bro?
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Yo? First off, you know
what I'm saying, let's talk about New
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Year's It's just another day that the
ball drops. That's it. You know
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what I'm saying, Like it's the
dead of winter. Yo. You know
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what I'm saying that it's yo.
You know what I mean, Like what
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happened New Years is the same thing
that's going on today. Nothing changed,
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Okay, I mean so so so
so Yo. You know what, whenever
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someone comes out with that new Year, new me bullshit, I'll be like,
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man, shut the fuck up because
in the week, you know what
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I'm saying, in the week's show, you're going to be back to smoking
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math. So shut up. You
know what I mean. Shut up?
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You know nothing's gonna change. Way
to have club faith with people, bro,
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I worked report authority. You lose
all I used to work for port
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authority. I lost all fear for
humanity, right because like people see you
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do see some ship yo? You
know what, Yo, I've seen someone
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ship that. I'm like, I'm
like, yo, how the hell did
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you get hit by the train you
just got off of Explain that? And
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it was I see some interest in
my And it was right then and there
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where I was like, you know
what, Ultron was right, we are
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the virus human. You gotta go. Thanos was right, you know,
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like you know what I've been watching
like you know what I'm saying, Avenger
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Ship and like you know, like
you know, Batman or whatever lately,
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and I'm like, you know what
what happens if the hero is actually the
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villains, because you know what,
they want to keep the order of what
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it is, and the order of
what it is right now is not good.
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You know, you got your elite, you got your upper class,
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and then you got the middle class, and then you got the people scrammed,
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you know, scrambling for crumbs.
And that's so speaking speaking of E
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league, what's up with what's your
your take on that whole Jeffrey Epstein list
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release, Hm, Well, I
mean, you know, kind of new
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you know what, the fact that
Stephen Halkins was like, you don't say
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Stephen Hogan was the funniest one.
He just didn't care, you know,
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like my man was getting him off
on midgets, but yet he had a
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ls it couldn't even jerk off.
What was the whole point of going to
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seasand nothing on you works except for
your mind? Sometimes that's enough. Yeah,
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but you know what I'm saying,
Like, I don't know man was
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on that list? Do you don't
know what? Clinton? Oh not,
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that's not surprising. Trump clon,
that's not surprising either. What's Jackson?
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My Michael Jackson? Oh man?
You know what? All right? Checked
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this out? Right? Yo,
here's how I look at it. Right,
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If you went there one time without
knowing what was going on, and
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you never went back again because you
saw what was going on, Okay,
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right, but you've been there more
than once. No, you know what,
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You're just you're just fouled, absolutely, you know, because like because
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because you know what, like like
just because your name is on there.
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I mean you do have to give
the benefit of the doubt. Yeah,
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of course there's gonna be some names
on there that that you're gonna look at
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and say, you know, but
there's just there's just something like now,
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you know what, Yo, you
know what if you know what I'm saying,
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if a pope from the from the
Vatican was there, I mean,
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that would have surprised me. Oh
man, Yeah, I just I just
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think. I just think that not
everybody on the list, you know what
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I'm saying, is guilty of anything. But hold on, are we gonna
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find your name on that list?
Ship? Well? Because you you you're
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playing awfully hard to uh to defend
people. I ain't gonna find my name
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on ship. The only list you're
gonna find my name on is the list
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gonna get me a burger Friars online. Okay, that's it. That's the
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only list I'm gonna be on,
the the door dash list of people that
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are getting food. That's about it. I'm not on no fucking list.
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He ain't catch me on no list, especially your list like that. Yo,
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come out here, I'm gonna turn
bad boy. That's crazy. But
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I mean no, and all in
all seriousness though, I mean, you
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know you are guilty by association the
time. Who you're associated with is who
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you know what I'm saying? They
connected now now I heard. I heard.
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This is what I heard? It
started against? Uh how about now?
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Oh let me see, Nah,
you're still here. I still hear
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it. Ah, I got shut
this off. Damn new cars for real?
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Bro, Yeah, but I still
hear myself though. Hold on,
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man, can you hear yourself?
Now? Let me see yep, Ah,
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you just had it like what do
you do? Turn the car on
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cold? Oh? You turned the
car? How about now? Let me
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see now, I don't hear now. I came out here with gloves.
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Yeah, and I'm blanket and bro, I'll come out here again. I
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hear it. What I hear it
again? No? I don't what?
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Why is what the problem? What
is going on? Now? I hear
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you clearly, But I hear myself
sometimes not all the time, but a
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lot of the time I hear myself. I don't hear myself right now.
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I don't know what the fuck is
going on? You don't worry about it,
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You'll be honest. The voices in
my head right, you know,
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like, yeah, so how does
everybody's New Year? Didn't you just say
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it was any other day? So
it sounded like you didn't care, no,
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like like like yo, you know
what you know? You have you
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have bluetooth, dumb? Do I
have bluetooth on? Let me see no
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jo? Wait wait wait it's on. Hold on, I think I think
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that's what it is, the bluetooth. Was you good? Oh he was
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frozen? How about now, bro? Noah, I still hear that ship.
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It sounds crazy. Yeah, mm
hmm. You just get you just
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can't plug it into your phone and
and then and do it through your headset.
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Can you hear me? Now?
I hear you clearly. Hold on,
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hold up, wait not Yeah,
he's gonna have to do that ship
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again. This is ridiculous. Mm
hmm. Yeah. Anyway, t TG
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is having a difficult time. Oldo
here he is. Yeah, man,
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hit the wrong button? All right? All right? Back, so we
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get now right? Yeah? I
think I think so? Yeah. Yeah,
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yeah, I don't hear nothing at
all? Good? It is twain
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one degrees outside, is it really? Yeah? Well where I'm at,
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damn, I know that sounds like
a problem. Yeah, yeah, such
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as life? Yeah, so how
was how was how did everything? How
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did everything go with with with Christmas? I guess you know, like how
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that? How did that go?
Just end of the day? Right?
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So fuck it? I'm not I'm
not one for holidays, bro m right,
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you know what I mean, Like
I'm really not like like you know,
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like how like celebrating the holidays for
me is like having a straight faced
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orgasm. And why why why do
you feel that that is there's nothing to
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do about the holidays, like like
you know what it's like, you know
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what I'm saying, Like you're looking
at people, you know what I'm saying.
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From all right, it becomes a
Thanksgiving, right, you know,
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you got your whole family together being
okay, and then you know what I'm
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saying, Black Friday, you know
what I mean, Like you're you're there
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online, you know what I'm saying, spending money, you know what I'm
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saying to get shipped that you know
what I'm saying for people whatever, And
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it's like a pisson contest. I'm
gonna get there standing the third it's gonna
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be you know nah man, Right, I don't. I don't. I
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don't. I don't do holidays like
that. Yeah, but the way the
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way other people people celebrate their holiday
doesn't mean that that's how we have to
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do it. Like I don't participate
in any of the public grand standing and
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all that stuff. I celebrate me
and myself in the house and do what
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I find special because I'm not going
to let other people's actions, behaviors and
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thoughts impact you know what the holiday
is for me? Ooh, you from
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South Jersey? Aren't you actually South
America? But yes, I live in
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South Jersey. Yes, yeah,
because the way that impact you're like impact,
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I'm like, all right, yeah, I just want to let you
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know, right, it's not a
pork ro all right, tailor ham tailor
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ham. Okay, I don't eat
either one. So oh TG, what
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was good? How you feeling difficulties
there? Yeah? My computer won't work
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on one side of my room the
internet, like the Wi Fi for some
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reason. Like I set my desk
up over there in the corner and that's
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where I wanted to be doing things
because I don't want to be in the
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living room because my husband's in better
ready, and yeah, it wouldn't work.
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So I literally moved in front of
my television and the Wi Fi works.
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It's horrible. Mm hmm. It
must be a woman. What we're
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like stupid technical difficulty? Like how
stupid is the Wi Fi? The wall
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isn't made out of anything special,
trust me, I can't right, so
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like holdup though, like also the
press off you from like real civilization.
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I'm in civilization. I don't live
in the rural parts of p A.
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I live near Harrisburg. Harrisburg is
the capital of Pennsylvania, and it is
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I know, I've been there before, like but like some parts of Harrisburg
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the like Philly, and after that
it's like country. You know, there's
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a lot of parts of like Lancaster
County and many other county and then like
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you know, like like like driving
like towards Harrisburg, like you know,
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you pass the Lancaster and you see
like the Homage people mm hmm. You
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know, every time I see them, I think about where A. Yankovic.
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I don't know why weird? Okay, when you did that parody called
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Amage Paradise, you guys got mhmm
what who me? Yes, come on,
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bro, that's annoying me. You're
annoying. I don't starting. I
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won't be none, believe me.
Today's the day in the year, is
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the year, it's the whole new
year, you know, like it's like,
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you know what my mentality this year
is, I'm taking X because I'm
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shitting on everybody on the whole industry
taking egg flex gross like man, some
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colon blow and I'm ship on everybody. You don't move too much with your
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wife. No, it's okay,
No, it's dirty here, it's fine
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right in front of my bed.
Feedback is crazy, son, I'm all
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right, bro, there's nothing I
could do with me like, it's fine.
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We're gonna live. Yeah, we
so so TG. The quick question
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is what do you think about the
list? I haven't even looked at it.
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So names missing? How do you
How do you know whose names missing?
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Because you know what, like they're
like, oh, number thirty four
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redacted. That means like their names
are scratched out. Oh yeah, they're
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not going to show everybody. I'm
sure about Prince Charles got you know,
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a lot to say about that,
you know, like like like, yo,
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you know what on in a nutshell. There's a lot of fuck boys
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who we found out just like the
fuck boys, rich fuck boys. Who
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likes the fuck boys? That's what
it is. Yeah, you got a
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point, bro, there's a lot
of them too. Yeah. I wasn't
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surprised. Hey, hey here's a
shocker. Kevin Spacey's name was on it.
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Wow, what a shocker. Yeah, but but I heard he got
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a job with the Vatican. He's
trying to be a Catholic preict. He'll
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fit in. Well oh wow,
yasin, Yeah yeah he is. He
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was. What did you have to
bue tooth on again or something? Bro?
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Why the do I keep hearing it? Hold on, manue, man,
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you know what, but let you
put my headphones on. I thought
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you had him, Bro, you
know what I'm saying, because like my
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headphones wouldn't work. Pl you're gonna
have to send him head like you gotta
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look about I got I got great
pe So the watch now? Hello?
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Yeah, I'm not gonna go do
this ship Oh talk too? Bom mm
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hmmm. Still hear it? Hold
on, bro, Hey, I don't
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even gonna say he wants to ship
on everybody. We hear you. Sounds
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there we go. Yeah, now
now can you hear me? Now we
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hear you? Hello? Hello,
Hello, we hear you. Hear you.
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Oh, all technical difficulties today,
it'll work out two thousands all over.
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Yeah, all right, we hear
you. You just don't hear us.
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Right, he'll be back. He'll
be back. So many problems.
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Yeah, so anyway, so what's
up? No, I'm just fucking I
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got my eyes are bothering me.
It's but anyway, let's well all right,
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so I have to find I have
to find my book, man,
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I got I got a couple of
some people want some opinions on something.
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I just don't know how my book
is. You guys were talking about what
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the holidays. Yeah, yeah,
we're just we're just you know, just
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going over, just going over.
You know, he's back, yo,
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yo? Yeah what up? Man? All right? Yeah, all right,
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yeah but I heard a little bit. Doesn't sound too bad now stopped
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stop your whining crying. So anyway, you were just talking about the new
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year, and you know what we
did and you know like that. But
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I didn't even know it was midnight
yo, Like yo, like I said,
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man like, like you know,
like the only good thing was like
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you know, I spent time with
my daughter, I saw the ball drop
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of the same family stuff. That's
about it, you know what I'm saying.
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But it was just like a record
day though. Yeah, but it
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was just a regular day man,
like you know what I'm saying. Like
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it was like, like you know
what, I'm not a holiday person,
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man like, especially like you know, like like when it comes like around
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between November and in January. First, you know what I'm saying, Like
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when people start talking about holidays matters, look at you funny, man,
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like I'm like whatever, okay,
yeah, like with your daughter, you
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would think it would be now yo, you know what you know? Yo
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yo, you know what the thing
is? Man like? Like you know
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it's like it's like Christmas is like
I don't know, I don't know what
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it is about Christmas man like,
like you know, like I used to
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love Christmas and like I just grew
up to hate it. Maybe because you
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know what I'm saying, like like
like like you know what, like Thanksgiving,
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everything lost is meaning the family.
I'm sure your family dynamic has changed
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or like people the people being in
the family has changed. Like I get
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that, Like after my mom passed
and then my grandma passed, everything changed
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forget you're all right, you know
what y're here's the truth. Right.
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So like my oldest brother, like
that was the favorite house, Christmas was
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his favorite house, right, so
it was like he's not here no more.
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So it's like I look at Christmas
like a little funny like you know
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what I'm saying, Like I don't
want to tell your more. I get
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that, but this is what I
am going to say about that, because
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I think it's important. I've taken
a new look at life after my younger
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sister passed because I keep telling myself
she is not here to do the things
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that she could have wanted to do. I'm here, so I'm not gonna
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stop my life or go back or
you know, be sad. You're always
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going to be sad on holidays because
you're it's a reminder of the special people
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in your life who aren't there.
It's gonna be. It was nine years
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I lost my mom. Still feels
the same, I know. For Big
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C is the same thing. Like
we lost our mom around the same time.
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Years. It doesn't matter, like
it could be twenty five years that
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someone died now of course though,
like like like you know what, like
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like my brother passed away in twenty
eighteen, right, and like, yo,
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you know what, I'm not gonna
lie like you know, like my
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baby and sometimes like a wish like
like you know, like I tell her,
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I'm like, yo, you know
what, your uncle would have loved
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you. Then I'll just start crying
because like I missed that, you know,
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you know, what man anyway,
Anyways, you know what, I
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don't want to talk about my feelings
at a psychology class. Emotional dammage,
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you know, like you want to
talk about emotional damage. I'm a death
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fan. That's aenough emotional damage.
Definitely. Yeah, every season you do,
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I can't, yo, you know
what, I'm here thinking that this
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is going to be different. I
can't watch the football my daughter because I'm
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damned there spiked on the ground and
pissed off at the jump, like tell,
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you know what frustration like, like, yo, you know what?
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You know, you know what some
real ship, you know what I'm saying,
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like like you know, like after
the Raiders game, that was the
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last time I see, that's the
last time I even watched the Jets game.
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But then like you know, you
know, like my lady, you
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know, saying, got me dumb
Jets tickets for the twenty four So we
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went. Me and Big C went
right. I'm here and enjoying the game,
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and then they started sucking up as
always, and I'm like, I'm
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leaving a game mad as hell.
I'm like, what's the death on?
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I was like, yo, see
this, dudas want to watch these niggas
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Yo, I went, oh bro, I'm like, see there's the reason
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why don't watch these niggas. I'm
like, look at this bullshit. You
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know what I'm saying. Of course
you know what I mean. Game anyway,
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but you know, but yo,
you know what, it don't even
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matter, you know, because like
I just want you know what I'm saying,
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Like I don't know, I'm a
free agent now, I'm not a
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jaf fan no more, you know
what I'm saying, So they stop being
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childish. Show I'm not watching no
more games. That's it, yo,
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being a Jet fans, Like you
know what I'm saying, Like it's like
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being in a in a Stockholm syndrome. Abusive relationship, it is, you
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know because like you see, it
comes around right, like you know you're
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thinking, oh ring right, and
then only for them to like you don't
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smack your around or whatever because you've
burnt the pot roast. You know what
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I'm saying, It's abusive. Yo. I want a divorce, can't you?
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You were allowed, you were allowed
to divorce the Jets, and I
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think many people would understand I can't
do this it no more, you know,
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Like I don't care about that rod
of that ship. You know,
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I'm saying, I just want to
be happy to you know, because honestly,
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stress kills. So yeah, that
believe believe me? Man like like
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like watching the Jets man is like, you know, I'm surprised. I'm
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surprised. It's not a leader on
my arm with Pentonel in it. That's
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that's that's heavy. Are you going
to be a Giants fan? Now?
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I would never be of a Giants
fan? So all right, So so
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Peter has checked this out, so
I know, like Doves, doesn't I
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really feel like New Year's is a
he thinks it's just a regular day.
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But does anybody all right, but
does anybody look at it and say this
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year, I think I should work
on whatever? And you know that's got
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to be my stupid behind that feels
that way because I'm the one that controls
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how my days and years ago.
I don't care what everybody else is doing
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because it's not about them. It's
about me and mine. Man, I'm
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a perfect specimen, you know,
Like you know what I'm saying. When
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God made me, he broke the
mold. Though there's nothing nothing definitely broke
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on you like, yo, you
know what, I'm never wrong. The
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only time I've been wrong is when
I thought I was wrong, and even
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I thought is wrong. Period.
I stand on business and then I peel.
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I'm not into resolutions. I don't
believe in resolutions, but I do
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believe in you know, setting goals
every year, every week, every month,
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whatever it is, attainable things,
nothing crazy, like obviously I want
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to travel more, but you know
money needs to be there for that to
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happen. So it's like it's setting
a goal though, like we're hoping to
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go to Turkey this summer. Mm
hmmirky that gets to happen, so,
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oh my bad. He's talking about
the country I think of food, the
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actual country, yes, so you
know, yes, you know it's like
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what's that one part is like an
Asian other parts like in Africa or something
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like that. No, that's the
whole. That's a whole different region,
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right, yeah, your Turkey like
what like like like like I heard like
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one part like water the Mediterranean Sea
and that. Now you're making me look
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it up because I think, you
know, I don't know, you know
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what I'm saying, yo? You
know what it was one city that's like
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that's like what happened? What happened. The city lies on a different continent,
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and I think it was Istanbul or
Beauty Pest. I don't know,
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not Beauty Pest. There's one city
though, I mean it's close to Europe
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and Asia of them, yeah,
Asia, but the Middle East really like
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they have a lot of like Arab
immigrants now immigrants whatever they're called, and
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migrants, migrants, migrants. It's
changed a lot. Yeah, we we
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can't, we can't. We gotta
be careful with but you know what I'm
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saying, you can't see oriental anymore
either. We we've discussed that, okay,
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yeah, but but but but yo, you know what though, like
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that's funny that you said that,
because like I was looking at oriental flavor
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from rob and soup. How come
they're not saying it, Yes, oriental
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flavor, oriental rug, oriental nails, that's okay, But calling a human
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being oriental is not okay? About
oriental? How about yo? How about
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how about how about how about we
call this guy some dumb suck oriental express
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the oriental express that's right, they
have all the like no organal expresses like
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a train that goes from like to
me. Everybody first, Ah, maybe
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it's what happened. Maybe maybe it
happened to you, only everybody was fine.
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It was just me. Yeah yo
yo, no, don't even say
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that. The technical difficulties are going
all the way around. Yeah now,
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but for real, like those who's
on the Epstein list, they don't pay
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their illuminati monthly bill. That's that's
why their is. Actually it's not those
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that are redacted, you know what
I'm saying. They're like, your name
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is dead, but keep paying your
payment and you're good. They're probably congressmen.
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Yeah, absolutely, oh oh absolutely, like active congressmen. But that
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honestly should be public because you know, their constituents should know what they're doing.
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I agree, I agree. No
man, Look and then you know
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what, it's funny because like these
are the same people that's making up all
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these fucked up laws just to turn
around, you know what I'm saying,
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that break the law. Those crazy
Republicans, like the very to the right
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right people that have started to really
make their way into Congress. They are
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like they have the idea that the
Democrats have this whole pedophilia ring and the
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pizza gate that happened, and they
eat babies and all this other the crazy
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thing is, Yeah, the crazy
thing is is that a lot of these
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Republicans are actual predators. And so
it's like so funny to me, like
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they're talking shit about like other people. And I'm sure they're people that are
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Democrats too, Don't get me wrong. I think it's just people in general.
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It doesn't matter what you have.
It's always a lot as ones that
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you know, how do you babies? They stay looking young, That's what
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they say. Hollywood. Hollywood looks
young because it's not a plastic surgery that
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they pay thousands of dollars for.
No, it's the baby there eating.
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Yeah. But you know what though, like you know what what you're just
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saying is like you know what I'm
saying, like Satanic rituals though, right
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right, because that's like like I
work. But but you know what though,
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like DM yo, you know what, that's something that you know what
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I mean? Like that's either you
know what I'm saying here or they're like
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you know what I'm saying, like
like we got to be prepared to discuss
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that one, you know what I
mean. But like but like all those
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names that you see there, you
know what I'm saying, Like they're like
406
00:37:32.800 --> 00:37:37.360
speaking quote unquote elite you know what
I mean, Like they participate you know
407
00:37:37.360 --> 00:37:40.760
what I'm saying in these rituals.
You know what i mean. M So
408
00:37:40.800 --> 00:37:45.320
it's like so so it was like
what you expect, you know, like
409
00:37:47.760 --> 00:37:52.159
you know what come to think,
you know, into like swinger ship and
410
00:37:52.360 --> 00:37:57.159
like all though there see I don't, I don't. Look. Let me
411
00:37:57.159 --> 00:38:00.559
tell you something. That's that swing
of ship. That ship is not that.
412
00:38:00.559 --> 00:38:05.000
That shit is not definitely not for
a lot of people. Hey.
413
00:38:05.000 --> 00:38:07.480
The only thing, the only thing, the only think I'm swinging, yo,
414
00:38:07.519 --> 00:38:10.559
the only thing I'm swinging is my
back and my nuts. That's it,
415
00:38:10.719 --> 00:38:13.599
you know what I'm saying, Like
I'm not doing that swinging ship.
416
00:38:13.639 --> 00:38:16.320
Bro. Like yo, when you
invite that ship into your life, yo,
417
00:38:17.159 --> 00:38:23.480
a disaster coming man. Yeah.
From personal experience. No, no,
418
00:38:23.480 --> 00:38:29.239
no, I've no, no,
I've I've come across people that that
419
00:38:29.559 --> 00:38:34.000
have told me things like that.
They're like, yo, hey, look
420
00:38:34.039 --> 00:38:36.599
man, like it's true. You
know what I mean, Like like you
421
00:38:36.639 --> 00:38:38.039
know, like what you open?
You know what I'm saying. It's like
422
00:38:38.360 --> 00:38:40.920
it's like you know what you open? You know you're opening the door,
423
00:38:42.599 --> 00:38:45.320
right, you know what I'm saying. And like you think what you think
424
00:38:45.320 --> 00:38:49.639
you're walking into, it's not really
that, you know what I'm saying,
425
00:38:49.639 --> 00:38:53.400
it's other things, you know,
and like it just gets messy quick,
426
00:38:54.280 --> 00:38:58.679
you know. But like but like
the thing is that people that swing or
427
00:38:58.719 --> 00:39:00.000
whatever, like they wouldn't you know
what I'm saying, Like you know what
428
00:39:00.000 --> 00:39:02.559
I'm saying, They feel like they
got control whatever because they're getting the nut
429
00:39:02.639 --> 00:39:07.639
off or whatever with other other people
and whatever. But it comes back,
430
00:39:07.679 --> 00:39:12.480
you know what I'm saying, Like
there's a blowback to it, you know,
431
00:39:12.599 --> 00:39:15.039
Like especially like you know what I'm
saying. If you're like in public
432
00:39:15.079 --> 00:39:20.480
figures and you know, oh yeah, you know what I'm saying, someone's
433
00:39:20.519 --> 00:39:22.000
piping your wife or whatever. You
know what I'm saying. In this society,
434
00:39:22.000 --> 00:39:24.119
you know what I'm saying, Like
we're gonna look at the husband like
435
00:39:24.320 --> 00:39:28.519
you cook. You know what I'm
saying, You weak bitch. You know
436
00:39:28.559 --> 00:39:30.800
what I'm saying. You might as
well just weark gimsuit from pulp fiction or
437
00:39:30.800 --> 00:39:37.760
whatever. Freaking gimp. You know
what I'm saying, Like like like yo,
438
00:39:37.800 --> 00:39:40.320
you know what, Like like yo, you know what, Like imagine
439
00:39:40.360 --> 00:39:43.360
you know what I'm saying. Your
significant others you know what I mean,
440
00:39:43.440 --> 00:39:46.760
Like pipe is someone in front of
you, We're getting piped in front of
441
00:39:46.760 --> 00:39:50.599
you and you just sitting there and
watch. You know what I'm saying,
442
00:39:50.639 --> 00:39:53.679
Like no, man like, no, yeah, that's that's too much.
443
00:39:53.960 --> 00:39:58.679
That's too much. Not nah,
Yo, you know what now you know
444
00:39:58.719 --> 00:40:00.000
what I'm saying. Like if it's
a someone that you know what I'm saying,
445
00:40:00.039 --> 00:40:02.480
like you just met in the club
or whatever, and like you and
446
00:40:02.559 --> 00:40:07.559
your boy gonna you know, cho
cho, then that's one thing, you
447
00:40:07.599 --> 00:40:12.320
know what I'm saying. But like
you know, but not even but like
448
00:40:12.400 --> 00:40:15.519
yo, you know what man like, Like that's the person that you made
449
00:40:15.599 --> 00:40:17.719
vows to yo. Like like certain
things you know what I'm saying, Like
450
00:40:19.239 --> 00:40:23.519
certain things are like off limits period. Yeah. Unfortunately that's not for everybody
451
00:40:23.559 --> 00:40:28.079
though, you know, like some
people, like the people who can't live
452
00:40:28.119 --> 00:40:31.440
without chaos in their life. It's
the same thing. It's like they they've
453
00:40:31.519 --> 00:40:36.559
done so many crazy things that nothing, nothing phases them anymore, so they
454
00:40:36.639 --> 00:40:40.360
got to go on to the next
crazy thing just to get excited or just
455
00:40:40.440 --> 00:40:45.960
to you know, be entertained.
Yeah, true, at true, And
456
00:40:45.000 --> 00:40:49.039
you know what though, like that's
how people get sucked up. Yeah,
457
00:40:49.599 --> 00:40:52.360
you know what I'm saying, because
like because like since you're like, you
458
00:40:52.360 --> 00:40:54.559
know what I'm saying, chaotic shit. You know what I'm saying. When
459
00:40:54.559 --> 00:40:59.039
you get fucked up chaotically, you
don't say nothing right plain about it.
460
00:40:59.239 --> 00:41:00.599
You know. Like like I said, you know what, you open that
461
00:41:00.639 --> 00:41:04.800
door to that. So since you
want to open doors or whatever, you
462
00:41:04.840 --> 00:41:10.159
no, fine, be prepared for
us behind that door. Yeah, you
463
00:41:10.559 --> 00:41:15.039
gotta deal with that ship. You
gotta deal with it because if you don't,
464
00:41:15.079 --> 00:41:17.679
if you don't, if you open
the door, you brought it.
465
00:41:19.199 --> 00:41:22.119
You brought. You brought it on
yourself, and you're gonna exactly You're gonna
466
00:41:22.159 --> 00:41:23.360
have to find it. You're gonna
have to try and figure out a way
467
00:41:23.400 --> 00:41:29.559
to to deal with it. Hey, Yo, you know what, Like
468
00:41:29.639 --> 00:41:30.559
I'm like, I'm the one one
in the shower. I feel like I'm
469
00:41:30.599 --> 00:41:38.880
Batman. I'm Batman. I'm Batman, you know, like, like think
470
00:41:38.920 --> 00:41:42.199
about it. Bro, anyways,
you know what I'm just killing right now.
471
00:41:43.599 --> 00:41:46.599
That's good. That's good. So
all right, let's let's let's have
472
00:41:46.679 --> 00:41:55.320
a I got I gotta I'm trying
to figure out where the fuck my ship
473
00:41:55.440 --> 00:41:59.960
is that so I can tell y'all. What the fuck is dude? Say?
474
00:42:01.039 --> 00:42:07.760
But I can't find that ship?
TG, tell me a story,
475
00:42:07.840 --> 00:42:13.039
a story? What a plant of
time? There was blood everywhere? Yeah,
476
00:42:14.800 --> 00:42:21.000
exactly once upon time? You know
what happened? Well? And yo,
477
00:42:21.079 --> 00:42:22.480
hold on real quick. That's the
story with Tell my daughter, daddy,
478
00:42:22.480 --> 00:42:24.880
tell me bedtime story. Okay,
what's a ton of time? The
479
00:42:25.079 --> 00:42:28.719
prince and the princess. You know
what I'm saying. The princess got caught
480
00:42:28.760 --> 00:42:30.119
cheating, so the prince took got
a knife. It's let a throat.
481
00:42:30.159 --> 00:42:38.039
There was blood everywhere the end,
TG, what's up? No, I
482
00:42:38.119 --> 00:42:44.119
recently watched the movie last night.
We watched a movie, h The Impossible.
483
00:42:44.199 --> 00:42:47.679
Have you ever seen it? It's
from twenty eighteen, I think no,
484
00:42:47.800 --> 00:42:54.079
I've never even heard of it about
Naomi Watts, isn't it And Awyn
485
00:42:54.280 --> 00:43:00.679
McGregor I always say his name?
Are you win? And this Spider Man
486
00:43:00.760 --> 00:43:05.159
kid is in it too, but
like he's a kid in it, Like
487
00:43:05.199 --> 00:43:07.920
what's his name? I don't know? Holland the one going out with U
488
00:43:08.119 --> 00:43:15.760
Zendaya. Yeah, Tom Holland.
So so it's based on the true story
489
00:43:15.039 --> 00:43:23.480
of the tsunami that hit off at
the day after Christmas in Thailand. So
490
00:43:23.519 --> 00:43:28.440
the movie just they show you like
the day before and day of of what
491
00:43:28.599 --> 00:43:37.639
happens, and then somehow this family
of five survived. The mom got h
492
00:43:40.440 --> 00:43:44.679
But look at this really quick,
I'm sorry, but really quick, look
493
00:43:44.679 --> 00:43:46.719
at this. I'm sorry, look
at this, Look at this. Are
494
00:43:46.760 --> 00:44:01.159
we on CNN and now we're having
the most Oh Jesus, so yeah,
495
00:44:02.760 --> 00:44:07.199
hello, lady g in the house? Is that Doug? We got the
496
00:44:07.199 --> 00:44:13.559
whole set here? Yeah, interrupt. I had to download Google Chrome,
497
00:44:13.599 --> 00:44:15.000
man, because I'm like, I'm
old school man. This is all there's
498
00:44:15.039 --> 00:44:21.280
all high text stuff for me.
But oh my god, on Google Chrome.
499
00:44:21.960 --> 00:44:24.360
Oh know, is this for the
crib this laptop? I have computers
500
00:44:24.360 --> 00:44:28.559
at work. I'm dealing with this
just for the house. But I got
501
00:44:28.559 --> 00:44:34.599
it now. I downloaded it,
and I wouldn't be here. Thank you
502
00:44:34.639 --> 00:44:40.400
for everybody. Happy to do here. I didn't say that before. Yeah,
503
00:44:40.559 --> 00:44:45.880
t I'm sorry saying I was just
talking about the movie The Impossible,
504
00:44:45.280 --> 00:44:52.039
that is dealing with the tsunami that
hit Thailand and the story of this family.
505
00:44:52.440 --> 00:44:54.159
So we're like watching the whole movie, and they did a really good
506
00:44:54.199 --> 00:44:59.920
job actually, and the actors did
a very good job too. It's a
507
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:01.960
actually crazy. I think it's worth
watching just so you can see what the
508
00:45:02.079 --> 00:45:06.239
experience would be if you want to
see what the experience would be if a
509
00:45:06.239 --> 00:45:10.280
tsunami were to hit if you were
in Thailand, because you definitely don't want
510
00:45:10.280 --> 00:45:14.760
that ever, And I know Japan
recently had an earthquake, so I'm like
511
00:45:14.840 --> 00:45:20.119
waiting for tsunami to happen because like
that's when it happens, yo, you
512
00:45:20.119 --> 00:45:22.920
know what. But then it happened
though. Yeah, that movie sad as
513
00:45:22.920 --> 00:45:28.920
hell? Man, Why the but
I brought it up because what's crazy about
514
00:45:29.000 --> 00:45:32.719
it is that it's based on a
true story. The real people were from
515
00:45:32.719 --> 00:45:38.400
Spain. They got these white people
playing British like they were playing like they
516
00:45:38.400 --> 00:45:44.599
were British coming from Meanwhile, the
people when they show their names and everything,
517
00:45:44.639 --> 00:45:46.559
they all have accents. They're they're
Spanish. And I was like,
518
00:45:46.960 --> 00:45:50.599
isn't that some ship. I'm gonna
give you. I'm gonna give you two
519
00:45:50.639 --> 00:45:53.960
good movies coming up in the first
quarter of this year. The first one
520
00:45:54.079 --> 00:46:06.320
is called uh Now Society. It's
from forgive Me if if if I'm mistaken
521
00:46:06.360 --> 00:46:08.440
here. But I want to say
the Argentinian soccer team in the seventies that
522
00:46:08.519 --> 00:46:13.599
crashed in the andies. Yeah,
at yo, But but hold up,
523
00:46:13.599 --> 00:46:16.840
though they already made a movie called
Alive Flash. First of all, I'm
524
00:46:16.840 --> 00:46:19.960
gonna tell you let me get into
it, because I knew you were going
525
00:46:20.039 --> 00:46:22.079
to go with that. There's no
comparison, and I'm going to tell you
526
00:46:22.079 --> 00:46:29.599
what the differences This movie was done
with the permission and interaction and the families
527
00:46:29.679 --> 00:46:35.639
and surviving people from that crash.
That's number one. Number two, the
528
00:46:35.800 --> 00:46:42.039
cast is actually from their country,
most of them. Like, dude,
529
00:46:42.079 --> 00:46:45.119
you have like Ethan Hawke playing an
Argentinian dude in Alive, Like, you
530
00:46:45.119 --> 00:46:52.079
can't compare this movie and the fact
that the surviving, the surviving people that
531
00:46:52.199 --> 00:46:55.000
were involved, and really like it's
a huge difference. It's worth watching.
532
00:46:55.000 --> 00:46:59.320
This is subtitles, but if you
understand Spanish, then your golden or you
533
00:46:59.360 --> 00:47:05.719
speak Spanish. The second movie that's
a little bit more mainstream is the next
534
00:47:05.960 --> 00:47:10.440
part of Planet of the Apes.
Oh, I can't wait to see that.
535
00:47:10.440 --> 00:47:15.800
That movie right there. I'm over
the superhero ship man. I'm the
536
00:47:15.920 --> 00:47:19.880
last canful. I know those you
go see them religiously. I know it's
537
00:47:20.639 --> 00:47:24.360
you know, too many I know
you and your daughter. That's a tradition.
538
00:47:24.519 --> 00:47:28.719
I get it, but yo,
be between Marvel and DC, I
539
00:47:28.719 --> 00:47:30.519
can't take them anymore. But look
out for those two movies, amongst a
540
00:47:30.559 --> 00:47:34.559
few others, but those two,
those two right there. Yeah, I
541
00:47:34.599 --> 00:47:43.599
heard the supposed to after right?
Is now the timeline go coincides with when
542
00:47:43.639 --> 00:47:46.199
the show started. And the show
started, it was already Planet of the
543
00:47:46.199 --> 00:47:51.440
Apes. Yeah, it's caught up
and they have not. That's one franchise
544
00:47:51.880 --> 00:47:54.960
that they have not dropped the ball
with. Bro. They've done those movies
545
00:47:57.079 --> 00:48:01.280
to the They've done them so much
justice and they space them ount and and
546
00:48:01.320 --> 00:48:07.480
like yeah, I mean, yo, yo, you know what since like
547
00:48:07.480 --> 00:48:08.519
you guys a movie but you heard
that? You heard of that movie?
548
00:48:08.519 --> 00:48:14.320
What's his name? Mom? Wan? He's Mexican. He's a Mexican John
549
00:48:14.360 --> 00:48:20.679
Wick, but they call him wand
Wick. Right, you know what I'm
550
00:48:20.719 --> 00:48:23.719
saying, you know, like like
like like yo, all right, so
551
00:48:23.960 --> 00:48:27.400
the plot is right, you know
what I'm saying, Like Wan just walking
552
00:48:27.440 --> 00:48:30.360
to Mexico City, you know what
I'm saying. And like so I'm like,
553
00:48:30.400 --> 00:48:31.119
you know what I'm saying, Cartel
dude, you know what I'm saying,
554
00:48:31.119 --> 00:48:34.239
like, you know, here's you
know that taco stand? You know
555
00:48:34.239 --> 00:48:36.400
what I'm saying. You know how
you know how John Wick kills for his
556
00:48:36.440 --> 00:48:42.400
dog, Well, Wan Wick kills
because someone sucked up his taco. You
557
00:48:42.440 --> 00:48:52.280
know what I'm saying. They turned
his puppy into tacos. Wow. No,
558
00:48:52.199 --> 00:48:55.559
no, you know what that that
that's a that's an Asian version.
559
00:49:00.199 --> 00:49:04.519
I got a question. I'll try
to that. I'll try to buy my
560
00:49:04.599 --> 00:49:06.840
bug. But like, but like
my doctor says, I don't have people
561
00:49:07.599 --> 00:49:12.119
I got I got, I know, I don't know what you guys can
562
00:49:12.159 --> 00:49:15.880
give me your POV on it.
But how old? Like how old is
563
00:49:15.960 --> 00:49:21.320
too old for a parent to help
their child out? Like we're talking from
564
00:49:21.400 --> 00:49:27.920
adulthood up, I'm not talking about
like bro. Yeah, Like okay,
565
00:49:27.920 --> 00:49:31.480
so it's just that black and white. I mean, it depends your family
566
00:49:31.559 --> 00:49:36.599
and how your family dynamic is.
You can't just be like hey ma,
567
00:49:37.159 --> 00:49:44.760
but I mean I think you don't
think yeah, so here So here's here's
568
00:49:45.079 --> 00:49:51.440
so here's the question, like where
do you separate like trying to trying to
569
00:49:51.480 --> 00:49:53.920
teach them. I don't want to
say a lesson, but how do you
570
00:49:53.920 --> 00:49:58.840
set boundaries? Not to set boundaries
because there's no crossing the boundaries, just
571
00:49:58.880 --> 00:50:02.559
trying to trying to how do you
how do you like clip somebody's wings right
572
00:50:02.719 --> 00:50:08.559
or I mean let them fly right
without clipping their wings, and but yet
573
00:50:08.679 --> 00:50:14.000
like helping them? Mind, how
do you do enough? Too much without
574
00:50:14.119 --> 00:50:19.079
financial support? Is yo? You
know what? You don't know what you
575
00:50:19.159 --> 00:50:21.320
don't like? Like like yo,
you know what, sometimes you gotta let
576
00:50:21.360 --> 00:50:27.119
them fall, pick them up on
their face. Support you. I need
577
00:50:27.159 --> 00:50:30.079
to understand the situation. Yeah,
you know what, you know in particular
578
00:50:30.159 --> 00:50:34.960
situation. I'm just I'm just asking
in general. I think you know what
579
00:50:35.360 --> 00:50:38.039
your peacocks, you gotta let them
fly, even though peacocks don't fly right
580
00:50:38.119 --> 00:50:42.039
like so so right, that's the
that's the you know, there's no specific
581
00:50:42.159 --> 00:50:45.599
situation. It's just it's it could
be a tricky situation. You know.
582
00:50:45.679 --> 00:50:49.239
For those of us who have children
that are adults, you know you want
583
00:50:49.239 --> 00:50:51.239
to you want them to learn,
you want to help. I mean,
584
00:50:51.639 --> 00:50:55.199
there's a difference between supporting and enabling. No, I'm betting talking about supporting
585
00:50:55.239 --> 00:50:59.480
here or enabling because I don't I'm
not be for that ship. Like I'm
586
00:50:59.480 --> 00:51:04.239
not the one you ain't gonna get
that from me. Support comes into all
587
00:51:04.320 --> 00:51:07.960
kinds of forms. Support isn't just
financial support is you know, you just
588
00:51:08.000 --> 00:51:12.199
got to divorce, you have nowhere
to live. You can stay here until
589
00:51:12.199 --> 00:51:16.199
you get back on your feet.
Maybe you know stuff like that if somebody
590
00:51:16.320 --> 00:51:19.159
or you know what, you know
what support is. You know what I'm
591
00:51:19.159 --> 00:51:21.519
saying, like like like you know
what, let's just say you know your
592
00:51:21.519 --> 00:51:23.400
son's out on his own or whatever, and then you know what I'm saying,
593
00:51:23.679 --> 00:51:25.440
like, Yo, you know what, and you know what I'm saying.
594
00:51:25.480 --> 00:51:28.679
You know how like this, you
know what I'm saying. When the
595
00:51:28.719 --> 00:51:30.719
sun shine, it shine so bright. But yo, when it rains,
596
00:51:31.119 --> 00:51:35.760
it pours. And sometimes you know
what I'm saying, that's that little storm
597
00:51:35.760 --> 00:51:37.920
turns into a hurricane. So like
so sometimes you know what I'm saying.
598
00:51:38.000 --> 00:51:42.519
If your kid got to come home, we come home. You know,
599
00:51:43.280 --> 00:51:46.280
I love it. When I was
one week before my seventeenth birthday and I
600
00:51:46.280 --> 00:51:51.000
went back to my mom's crib ones
for like two days because I needed like
601
00:51:51.079 --> 00:51:54.159
a place to stay while I was
transitioning. So you know, from that
602
00:51:54.559 --> 00:52:00.960
point of view, I would say, like not that mom hasn't helped me
603
00:52:00.000 --> 00:52:05.039
out since I became an adult.
But it wasn't you know, it wasn't
604
00:52:05.039 --> 00:52:08.239
anything out of this world. I
mean, the moral support was there,
605
00:52:08.760 --> 00:52:12.599
you know. So I guess my
question comes down to, like, you
606
00:52:12.639 --> 00:52:14.920
know, as parents, do we
ever get to a point where we're like,
607
00:52:14.960 --> 00:52:16.360
yo, man, these people are
adults. Like you know, it
608
00:52:16.480 --> 00:52:20.599
is what it is. I did
what I had to do, and no
609
00:52:20.920 --> 00:52:25.920
I got no no. Hey,
look, you know what, I'm gonna
610
00:52:25.920 --> 00:52:28.960
be honest with you. You know
what I'm saying, like like let's just
611
00:52:28.960 --> 00:52:30.840
say, if I got to go
back to my parents' house like tonight right
612
00:52:30.840 --> 00:52:34.719
now, you know what I'm saying, there's always going to be an open
613
00:52:34.800 --> 00:52:37.159
door for me. Now, I
don't know, to make sure they ain't
614
00:52:37.239 --> 00:52:45.599
busy, bro, No folks,
yo, of course of course you know
615
00:52:45.559 --> 00:52:46.920
what I'm saying, Like of course
they're getting a call, but like you
616
00:52:46.960 --> 00:52:52.000
know what they passion the party and
ship man yeah, yo of course yo.
617
00:52:52.079 --> 00:52:53.880
But like yo, you know what
though, like like I know for
618
00:52:53.920 --> 00:52:55.679
a fact that you know what I'm
saying, like I always be there with
619
00:52:55.679 --> 00:53:00.280
open arms, you know, you
know what I'm saying, and like like
620
00:53:00.360 --> 00:53:01.320
yo, you know what, like
like the way, like the way how
621
00:53:01.320 --> 00:53:06.079
my parents treat me the way I'm
gonna treat my kids like slaves. Yeah,
622
00:53:06.320 --> 00:53:09.480
no, like slaves, not to
play. Look at him like he's
623
00:53:09.519 --> 00:53:13.599
my baby. That's you know,
that's that's just that's why I'm getting at
624
00:53:13.719 --> 00:53:17.039
Like if it wasn't a good person, I would's And there's no specific like
625
00:53:17.880 --> 00:53:21.840
it's just you know, thoughts across
my mind. Like he's in the dog,
626
00:53:21.960 --> 00:53:23.920
you know, he's figuring things out. He's growing. Of course,
627
00:53:23.960 --> 00:53:28.239
you know, my wife and I
help so forth and so on. But
628
00:53:28.280 --> 00:53:30.440
he's he's at that point in his
life where he's he's figuring things out and
629
00:53:30.480 --> 00:53:32.960
he's trying to get to the next
level. Hey look, you know what
630
00:53:34.000 --> 00:53:37.000
my son's want to be like just
where this hell like all the time?
631
00:53:37.039 --> 00:53:39.119
You know, yeah, yeah,
bro, I get it. I yo
632
00:53:39.199 --> 00:53:42.239
yo, you know what, Yo, We're on the same boat man because
633
00:53:42.280 --> 00:53:45.519
like because like you know what,
my little man is twenty one years old,
634
00:53:45.159 --> 00:53:49.239
you know what I'm saying, and
like he's figuring things out or whatever.
635
00:53:49.639 --> 00:53:52.119
You know what I'm saying, Like
I try not to get involved.
636
00:53:52.679 --> 00:53:54.039
I just try to be there,
like you know, like what I'm saying
637
00:53:54.039 --> 00:53:58.679
to talk so more like just be
that ear, you know, like I
638
00:53:58.760 --> 00:54:00.920
try not to get involved and like
trying not to put pressure like sometimes you
639
00:54:00.920 --> 00:54:02.559
know what I'm saying, but like, since he's twenty one years old,
640
00:54:02.559 --> 00:54:05.719
you know, he's out there in
the world, Like I'll be missing my
641
00:54:05.760 --> 00:54:07.519
son, bro. You know what
I'm saying, be calling him up with
642
00:54:07.559 --> 00:54:08.280
you know, saying, yelling at
him and ship. You know I'm saying,
643
00:54:08.280 --> 00:54:12.039
barking at him, like yo,
Dad with your trip, you know
644
00:54:12.079 --> 00:54:14.440
what, because I miss you.
Man. It's definitely what I'm saying.
645
00:54:14.440 --> 00:54:16.000
I get like, like, yo, you know what. It's an emotional
646
00:54:16.039 --> 00:54:17.760
thing. You know what I'm saying. But like, but like you know
647
00:54:17.800 --> 00:54:21.400
what, like I have to understand
that, you know, I too,
648
00:54:21.800 --> 00:54:22.440
I too. You know what I'm
saying. One time I was twenty one
649
00:54:22.519 --> 00:54:25.480
years old, and like, Bro, I was you know what I'm saying.
650
00:54:27.480 --> 00:54:29.920
We would hell. You know what, we was the streets. You
651
00:54:29.920 --> 00:54:30.800
know what I'm saying. It's not
that we were hitting the streets. We
652
00:54:30.840 --> 00:54:35.039
was the streets, you know.
Like, just I feel like I always
653
00:54:35.039 --> 00:54:37.079
have to be like not be the
one like I want to, Like I
654
00:54:37.079 --> 00:54:39.760
feel like I have to fix everything, Like I want to fix everything,
655
00:54:39.760 --> 00:54:43.760
not that I have to. Nobody's
putting pressure on me, right, don't
656
00:54:44.199 --> 00:54:46.360
Right? But I don't always feel
like if there's a problem, like I
657
00:54:46.440 --> 00:54:49.320
just want to fix it, right, And then I'm like, but am
658
00:54:49.360 --> 00:54:52.239
I getting in his way? And
like I'm lett him? Don't you know?
659
00:54:52.679 --> 00:54:55.519
Like I'm not talking about life emergencies
or anything like that, but yo,
660
00:54:55.639 --> 00:54:59.719
don't yo, you know what?
Don't you know what I'm saying because
661
00:54:59.760 --> 00:55:01.079
like because like, you know what, if you're trying to fix something,
662
00:55:01.559 --> 00:55:04.400
he's not you know what I'm saying, Like he's not gonna like the way
663
00:55:04.400 --> 00:55:06.039
you know what I'm saying. He
needs to do it his own way.
664
00:55:06.760 --> 00:55:08.320
And that's one thing I learned.
I think I'm still transitioning from that,
665
00:55:08.559 --> 00:55:16.440
like what one thing father figure to
like more of like a confident you know,
666
00:55:16.760 --> 00:55:22.000
like a friend to him, more
listening than always always gott to be
667
00:55:22.119 --> 00:55:25.159
his dad though. Bro. Yeah, but there comes a point where we
668
00:55:25.239 --> 00:55:29.800
almost have to be that silent bystander. Like I said, My oldest is
669
00:55:29.880 --> 00:55:34.000
thirty six, she's married, has
a little one year old baby and a
670
00:55:34.159 --> 00:55:37.079
husband. Everything's great. I worry
about her constantly and she lives in another
671
00:55:37.159 --> 00:55:42.360
state. So yeah, my son
too. Yeah, so so I worry
672
00:55:42.400 --> 00:55:46.639
about her constantly, But at that
same point, you know, she she's
673
00:55:46.760 --> 00:55:51.639
made these adult choices, so I
have to let those adult consequences happen.
674
00:55:52.039 --> 00:55:57.639
We still communicate, but I honestly
feel like I'm just a bystander in her
675
00:55:57.719 --> 00:56:00.920
life. But I'm always she knows
push comes to shove, I will.
676
00:56:01.199 --> 00:56:05.280
There will never be a day then
I won't help her pick up those pieces,
677
00:56:05.920 --> 00:56:07.440
you know, right right right,
So it's letting. Yeah, that
678
00:56:07.519 --> 00:56:12.719
goes what I'm saying. It's just
more like the in thirty six, I
679
00:56:12.760 --> 00:56:15.239
mean, your your daughters. She
got home in life for for real,
680
00:56:15.360 --> 00:56:17.440
for real, like you know,
she's with a kid. That's that's another
681
00:56:17.639 --> 00:56:22.039
dynamic. You know, this young
man is he's fingering it out and it's
682
00:56:22.079 --> 00:56:23.599
all it's all good, it's all
positive stuff. You know. It's just
683
00:56:24.320 --> 00:56:28.400
i'd be like, uh, you
know, don't worry so much, but
684
00:56:28.480 --> 00:56:32.400
then I do worry so much.
But whatever. With that said, yeah,
685
00:56:32.480 --> 00:56:36.599
man, that's pretty much it.
That's pretty much it for me as
686
00:56:36.679 --> 00:56:37.880
far as that, Yeah, I
was just curious to see what, you
687
00:56:37.960 --> 00:56:42.599
know, some other perspectives. I
forgot that both of y'all do have kids
688
00:56:42.679 --> 00:56:45.159
that are adults. I thought it
was just code O. But nah,
689
00:56:45.280 --> 00:56:47.639
bro, yo, you know what
I got two kids are adults bro,
690
00:56:49.719 --> 00:56:53.760
yo, t G you know I
mean children? Thank god, you're so
691
00:56:53.880 --> 00:56:58.519
happy all the time. Yeah.
Hey, I got a sixteen year old
692
00:56:58.599 --> 00:57:01.880
too, So it's like there was
an eight sorr eighteen year different. So
693
00:57:02.440 --> 00:57:06.920
I did it all over again.
Meanwhile, is going on? What was
694
00:57:06.960 --> 00:57:09.400
it? Grand baby number? What's
seven? Six? Six? Right?
695
00:57:09.559 --> 00:57:14.639
Six? Yo? You know what? You know what? I got a
696
00:57:14.679 --> 00:57:19.320
twenty one year rold my nineteen year
old and assumed to be summer month old?
697
00:57:20.199 --> 00:57:22.440
Wow, I know like that,
man, My younger children ain't that
698
00:57:22.519 --> 00:57:25.159
young? Bro. That's a big
guy. Bro, Yo, you know
699
00:57:25.239 --> 00:57:30.760
what it's It's an experience, bro. Like Bro, you're gonna be at
700
00:57:30.760 --> 00:57:36.119
your daughter's graduation when you're sixty.
Bro, it's all right, you know
701
00:57:36.119 --> 00:57:38.079
what I'm saying. I got a
babyface, I still look young. Get
702
00:57:38.199 --> 00:57:40.719
done. She's gonna she's gonna run
circles around you. Bro, You're not
703
00:57:40.760 --> 00:57:44.559
gonna have the energy to keep up. You're done, Bro, You're done.
704
00:57:44.639 --> 00:57:45.440
Yo, It's all right. You
know what I'm saying. Some steroid
705
00:57:45.519 --> 00:57:51.800
Joe Tromblone, I'll be outr T
bro t r T man. Couple of
706
00:57:53.159 --> 00:57:55.559
you know what I'm saying, trumb
Alone sandwiches, Joe, I'll be all
707
00:57:55.599 --> 00:57:59.880
right. Mhmm. She's gonna run
circles around you, bro. A couple
708
00:57:59.880 --> 00:58:09.920
of cycles will be good trouble,
you know, probably probably probably eight ball.
709
00:58:12.480 --> 00:58:16.159
Yeah. So the the first release
of the Epstein list really disappointed me
710
00:58:16.159 --> 00:58:21.159
because it was just all information that
we already knew. Like I'm waiting for
711
00:58:21.280 --> 00:58:23.559
like the meat and potatoes of this
stuff to drop. Man, it probably
712
00:58:23.599 --> 00:58:30.920
won't, the judge ordered. The
judge ordered it. Nobody a chance to
713
00:58:31.039 --> 00:58:36.360
appeal it if they didn't want their
name included. But I don't think anybody
714
00:58:36.519 --> 00:58:39.760
anybody appealed it. I mean,
you know, I'm not I'm not looking
715
00:58:39.840 --> 00:58:45.400
for for half of Hollywood to go
down. But I know there's some juicier
716
00:58:45.559 --> 00:58:50.719
names right now. The Clinton's in
there, Michael Jackson, Prince sad word.
717
00:58:51.199 --> 00:58:53.719
I mean, that's all that we
know already exactly. That's why I
718
00:58:53.840 --> 00:59:00.840
was like borring. We know Trump's
been there, we know has been Congressman
719
00:59:00.880 --> 00:59:05.960
there, we know the print that
one Prince has been there and done things.
720
00:59:06.159 --> 00:59:09.519
I read. I read that David
Blaine was there but not implicated with
721
00:59:09.599 --> 00:59:15.400
anything, and he actually he confronted
one of the girls back then and asked
722
00:59:15.440 --> 00:59:19.639
her if she was aware of what
was going on, you know, like,
723
00:59:19.840 --> 00:59:23.039
yeah, you're aware that you know
Epstein is like sex trafficking you know
724
00:59:23.239 --> 00:59:28.599
girls, And that was the conversation. But I was like, oh,
725
00:59:28.719 --> 00:59:31.599
David Blaine, and then I read
I was I don't think everyone who showed
726
00:59:31.719 --> 00:59:36.679
up did things, but I'm sure
many people were invited. And then it
727
00:59:36.840 --> 00:59:39.840
was like many people saw things,
right, but they didn't do about it.
728
00:59:39.840 --> 00:59:44.679
I didn't say anything. That's the
problem. Like you were there,
729
00:59:44.840 --> 00:59:51.880
you saw what they were doing with
very young children, and you just went
730
00:59:51.960 --> 00:59:59.519
along guilty by association exactly. They
know, you don't need like to have
731
00:59:59.800 --> 01:00:04.599
more oath or some kind of like
work oath as a doctor, as a
732
01:00:04.760 --> 01:00:09.400
person you like, would you be
okay? Like see, like there are
733
01:00:09.440 --> 01:00:15.199
people out there actually that even do
ship to like try to catch people who
734
01:00:15.280 --> 01:00:17.559
kidnap kids, you know, like
they'll be sitting on a bench with a
735
01:00:17.639 --> 01:00:22.480
kid and then a gentleman will come
and be like, oh, I know
736
01:00:22.679 --> 01:00:25.239
you, and he's like you don't
know her, like why are you trying
737
01:00:25.280 --> 01:00:30.000
to take her? Like? You
know, so people are out there,
738
01:00:31.440 --> 01:00:40.960
Wait until fifty cent drops this this
puff Daddy documentary. This guy fifties brutal
739
01:00:42.039 --> 01:00:46.719
yod. He's going to jail,
bro. Yeah, whenever he's going to
740
01:00:46.840 --> 01:00:53.159
jail, Bro, that guy you
can't. That's it. You'll forget it.
741
01:00:53.519 --> 01:00:57.960
You fifty. Have you heard the
yo yo doves? Did you hear
742
01:00:58.000 --> 01:01:01.199
the Uncle Murder? You're review dubs
is on mute. He stepped away,
743
01:01:01.400 --> 01:01:05.320
Yeah, he stepped away for a
second. Your Uncle Murder man. He's
744
01:01:05.360 --> 01:01:07.119
a rapper. He does a year
in review for like, yeah, every
745
01:01:07.199 --> 01:01:15.039
every year. Yeah, this year
is three parts, like part two is
746
01:01:15.119 --> 01:01:19.320
completely for Diddy. Yeah, I
mean he goes in but yeah, he
747
01:01:19.360 --> 01:01:22.519
said he said because because because Uncle
Murder. He was touring with fifty all
748
01:01:22.599 --> 01:01:25.920
year, so he's speaking facts.
He's like, yeah, you know,
749
01:01:27.559 --> 01:01:34.079
fifty about to drop this documentary on
Diddy, and you know fifty about his
750
01:01:34.400 --> 01:01:38.239
fifty about his production. Yo.
Yeah. Yeah. You see what he
751
01:01:38.320 --> 01:01:45.400
did the Jo Ruse concert. Yeah, it turns into go yeah yo.
752
01:01:45.519 --> 01:01:49.159
He put he bought Jo was having
a concert, and he bought like the
753
01:01:49.280 --> 01:01:52.840
first ten rows of tickets when he
came, when he came, when he
754
01:01:52.960 --> 01:01:57.679
came out, first ten rows was
empty. He was like, what the
755
01:01:57.800 --> 01:02:04.760
fuck uh, man, do you
have money? Carls on your on your
756
01:02:04.840 --> 01:02:08.599
name? Yeah, that's that's that's
my my my granddaughter's by name for me.
757
01:02:09.239 --> 01:02:16.039
Oh all right, can you hear
me? Yeah? All right?
758
01:02:16.480 --> 01:02:20.320
So like I have to come upstairs, man, Like it's brutally cold out
759
01:02:20.360 --> 01:02:23.519
there, so you know, thinking
that, you know, Yeah, it's
760
01:02:23.599 --> 01:02:29.599
cold down here too. It's like
fifty five sixty. I was just shut
761
01:02:29.719 --> 01:02:32.920
the fuck up out here too.
It's fifty five What is it over here
762
01:02:34.039 --> 01:02:37.400
right now? Twenty eight? It
is twenty eight degrees. There's snowstorm coming.
763
01:02:38.280 --> 01:02:45.159
That's not too bad. I mean
snor Easter coming gets hit and how
764
01:02:45.239 --> 01:02:50.679
much they're saying this is going to
be the biggest snowstorm in the past two
765
01:02:50.800 --> 01:02:54.519
years for Pa. Anyway, I
don't know, you know what, you
766
01:02:54.599 --> 01:02:57.760
know what though, like I believe
it in Pa, but like I don't
767
01:02:57.760 --> 01:03:00.519
believe in Jersey though, Like well
depends. I think it's only going to
768
01:03:00.639 --> 01:03:05.159
hit like the eastern part or whatever. So it's really going to be hit
769
01:03:05.199 --> 01:03:10.679
in Jersey New York, you know
what though, Like like but you I'm
770
01:03:10.679 --> 01:03:13.639
say when it comes to snowstorms,
you know what I'm saying, Like also
771
01:03:13.679 --> 01:03:16.199
depends like location you know what I'm
saying, like in Jersey or whatever,
772
01:03:16.320 --> 01:03:22.119
like if you're Huston County, you
know, like like like where I'm at,
773
01:03:22.599 --> 01:03:24.519
you know, like they say something
interest you know, I'm saying,
774
01:03:24.559 --> 01:03:29.480
we automatically subtracting two, you know, because like we're so close to the
775
01:03:29.559 --> 01:03:36.199
water. That's what you said,
Bro, It fits the bill, like
776
01:03:36.320 --> 01:03:39.440
honestly right, like if somebody says
seven inches in their mind, they're like,
777
01:03:39.480 --> 01:03:45.000
yeah, I'm subtracting to you.
You're over, You're over. You're
778
01:03:45.000 --> 01:03:47.239
definitely over, you're over there.
But but but like yo, you know
779
01:03:47.280 --> 01:03:51.320
what what is it? Like negative
three? Negative four? Like when when
780
01:03:51.400 --> 01:03:55.159
when they how much are we subtracting? Here? Are you? Good thing?
781
01:03:55.199 --> 01:03:59.239
The guys the benefit of the dot? But why do you think that
782
01:03:59.760 --> 01:04:02.599
every time there was snow in Jersey
from what I remember in Hudson County,
783
01:04:02.639 --> 01:04:09.000
it was a lot and South Jersey
would get nothing because of the ocean because
784
01:04:09.199 --> 01:04:12.079
because you know what, South Jersey
is a lot flattered. You got to
785
01:04:12.119 --> 01:04:16.199
understand that. But it's so close
to the salt water exactly you have to
786
01:04:16.280 --> 01:04:21.599
do with snow, bro, Bro, you know what what the flatlands have
787
01:04:21.679 --> 01:04:25.800
to do with snow? High elevation
full. You know what I'm saying,
788
01:04:25.880 --> 01:04:28.119
Like, Yo, you know what
if it snow is like something INSes over
789
01:04:28.199 --> 01:04:30.840
here in Morristown and Sparta, and
you know what I'm saying in Hamburg,
790
01:04:31.880 --> 01:04:35.280
it's gonna be snowing fifteen. Yo. There's no mountains of South Jersey.
791
01:04:35.440 --> 01:04:44.199
There's a huge that there's a huppancy
in the sea level between the shore and
792
01:04:44.880 --> 01:04:47.199
northern New Jersey. Is what you're
saying. We don't live in eighteen eighteen
793
01:04:48.280 --> 01:04:53.400
eighteen hundred feet is a good is
a good discrepancy, bro, that's the
794
01:04:53.480 --> 01:04:57.199
highest point, eighteen hundred feet,
that's the highest point. It's a it's
795
01:04:57.199 --> 01:05:00.559
a good discrepancy. You know what. I used to think differently, and
796
01:05:00.679 --> 01:05:04.719
then I remember me and I'm coldly
on right. We drove off to to
797
01:05:05.199 --> 01:05:10.079
Lake Ariels right like when we left
here, but we left here was forty
798
01:05:10.079 --> 01:05:12.800
five degrees when we got to like
you know what I'm saying, Like around
799
01:05:12.880 --> 01:05:15.559
Monty Hue and Port Jervis. You
know what I'm saying that the state line
800
01:05:16.840 --> 01:05:25.360
there was a ten degree difference that
north it's colder, So I don't think
801
01:05:25.400 --> 01:05:30.960
it makes a difference in it does
though it does snow. It does though,
802
01:05:30.039 --> 01:05:33.679
bro Wise, Yeah, that that's
for sure. All right, I'm
803
01:05:33.880 --> 01:05:38.199
all right, I'm all right.
You know what scientifically speaking, scientifically speaking,
804
01:05:38.280 --> 01:05:40.360
right, you know what I'm saying. If it's you know what I'm
805
01:05:40.360 --> 01:05:42.400
saying. If it's thirty two degrees
over here, you know what I'm saying
806
01:05:42.440 --> 01:05:45.159
with the snow and whatever, and
it's twenty seven over there where you think's
807
01:05:45.159 --> 01:05:47.199
gonna get the more snow. You
know what I'm saying, water for a
808
01:05:47.320 --> 01:05:50.440
thirty degrees because it needs to be
thirty two degrees for it to snow.
809
01:05:50.559 --> 01:05:55.719
All right, now it's twenty seven. You know it's twenty seven up there.
810
01:05:55.800 --> 01:05:57.400
You know what I'm saying. If
we get in the same system,
811
01:05:57.440 --> 01:06:03.159
we get them more snow. Twenty
seven snow and stuff like. That's not
812
01:06:03.440 --> 01:06:08.440
just like, yes, what are
you talking about? It's precipitation. That's
813
01:06:08.519 --> 01:06:12.679
what snow in fucking rain is exactly. You know what I'm saying. However,
814
01:06:12.800 --> 01:06:14.679
what i'm trying to say is this
though, you know what I'm saying.
815
01:06:15.239 --> 01:06:16.519
If the same system is coming through
you know what I'm saying, Like,
816
01:06:16.639 --> 01:06:18.760
let's just say all the Jersey and
whatever, right, you know what
817
01:06:18.800 --> 01:06:24.480
I'm saying over here in Hudson County. You know, since we're so close
818
01:06:24.480 --> 01:06:28.159
to water and down the shore where
it's all flat, you know, like
819
01:06:28.440 --> 01:06:30.320
we're going to get snow, but
not like how like you know, like
820
01:06:30.480 --> 01:06:35.639
Sparta and Hamburg is gonna get that
snow because it's higher elevation. It's not
821
01:06:35.760 --> 01:06:38.719
like you know what I'm saying,
like like how like you know I'm saying
822
01:06:38.920 --> 01:06:41.320
parts of West you know what I'm
saying, we're going seventy eight, it's
823
01:06:41.360 --> 01:06:43.280
going to get that snow because they're
going to get a lot more. I
824
01:06:43.480 --> 01:06:46.360
understand what you're saying. I don't
think there's that much of a separation in
825
01:06:46.480 --> 01:06:51.559
the elevation between Central Jersey or where
the shore is to northern Correct itself.
826
01:06:51.599 --> 01:06:58.639
There's no Central Jersey Central Jersey.
To me, there is Okay, there's
827
01:06:58.719 --> 01:07:04.280
no Central Jersey. Bro you know
what Central Jersey because I'm not letting Central
828
01:07:04.360 --> 01:07:10.199
Jersey be a part of North Jersey. Okay, anything south of Trenton is
829
01:07:10.320 --> 01:07:16.840
Philly. Okay, that's number one. Let's just get that clear right now.
830
01:07:16.960 --> 01:07:20.639
Anything said, all right, you
know what turn Poppy wise, anything
831
01:07:21.079 --> 01:07:28.840
anything past Exit nine is Philly.
No, all right? Exist nine is
832
01:07:29.119 --> 01:07:34.039
like yeah, that's Central Jersey.
No, there's no such thing as central
833
01:07:34.119 --> 01:07:38.480
Jersey. There is, but hold, hold, hold, hold the hold
834
01:07:38.559 --> 01:07:42.440
up. Because government Governor Burke said
So Governor Burkey was even born around here.
835
01:07:42.559 --> 01:07:45.119
You know what I'm saying, he
from Jersey where he was governor.
836
01:07:45.559 --> 01:07:50.880
There has been more than it's Jersey
there. You know what, there is
837
01:07:50.960 --> 01:07:54.320
north and South Jersey. That's it. You know what I'm saying, Jery
838
01:07:54.320 --> 01:07:59.039
doesn't exist. Jersey's like the Jersey
Double. It's just a myth. The
839
01:07:59.079 --> 01:08:04.199
whole boken monkey Man ends at exit
seven. That's it. Exit seven.
840
01:08:04.280 --> 01:08:08.920
That's that's the peak. That's the
Philadelphia exit. Yeah, pretty hot.
841
01:08:12.320 --> 01:08:15.880
You guys are fucking funny. So
I got I gotta I got a story
842
01:08:15.960 --> 01:08:18.760
to tell. I got a story
to tell. I'm gonna tell you a
843
01:08:18.840 --> 01:08:25.640
story about this dude. Right,
he had this fantasy football team. Right,
844
01:08:26.239 --> 01:08:31.039
Oh, oh my god. He
went on a five game news and
845
01:08:31.119 --> 01:08:38.039
streak. Right, So he ends
up making the playoffs. Anyway, he
846
01:08:38.199 --> 01:08:43.399
ran, he runs ramping in the
playoffs and wins the championship, right and
847
01:08:43.600 --> 01:08:45.840
all he's all he's thinking to himself
is like, Damn, I gotta play
848
01:08:45.880 --> 01:08:49.159
this motherfucking guy. This guy that's
one of the top scorers in the league.
849
01:08:51.319 --> 01:08:57.079
I end up winning by thirty thirty
five. I end up winning a
850
01:08:57.199 --> 01:09:04.560
chip. Congrats, congrats. Is
a champs, is a champ, Tolerance
851
01:09:04.680 --> 01:09:08.880
is a champ. I won't be
one of those the other league. I
852
01:09:09.039 --> 01:09:12.800
was saying, Bro, Yo,
you know what? You know what I'm
853
01:09:12.800 --> 01:09:18.880
saying, And what Doubs bro Today's
show instead of Dubs, because you know
854
01:09:19.000 --> 01:09:26.760
Dubbs represents wins. We should kind
of switch it up. I don't know,
855
01:09:27.720 --> 01:09:31.039
I don't know if you fit the
Dubs A first off, you know
856
01:09:31.079 --> 01:09:33.600
what I'm saying. This is coming
from someone you know what I mean,
857
01:09:34.319 --> 01:09:36.600
who like barely got in. You
know what I'm saying, Like, Yo,
858
01:09:36.640 --> 01:09:39.920
you know what I was with you
too? You know what? You
859
01:09:41.840 --> 01:09:44.119
know what ran Yo? You know
what, Yo? You were during the
860
01:09:44.159 --> 01:09:47.119
regular season. My team ran through
everybody's friend. I'm not going to disagree
861
01:09:47.159 --> 01:09:51.920
with season. Okay, that was
a regular season champ. Congratulates, but
862
01:09:51.960 --> 01:09:56.000
I don't matter though. That don't
matter because you know what you know?
863
01:09:56.119 --> 01:09:58.119
And I told Jim because I'm like, Yo, the Curse of Frank is
864
01:09:58.159 --> 01:10:00.239
a pomper, Yo. You know
what I'm saying, because the on my
865
01:10:00.319 --> 01:10:01.239
record, I'm like, yo,
I need to lose another game. Get
866
01:10:01.279 --> 01:10:04.359
it over with. You know what
I'm saying, Yo, Remember I said
867
01:10:04.359 --> 01:10:08.960
that ship, I need to lose
another game. Let me get No.
868
01:10:09.079 --> 01:10:14.520
It's not mad though. Minute you
might as well if you're drinking that crap
869
01:10:15.159 --> 01:10:19.720
minute sugar drinks in the middle of
the night like that a dangerous zero sugar.
870
01:10:19.840 --> 01:10:25.359
If you didn't see it has no
sugar, asked part of me,
871
01:10:25.640 --> 01:10:30.560
which is just as bad as first? So what does it have artificial sweetener?
872
01:10:30.960 --> 01:10:39.079
Yes? Probably you would take it
from to work. Okay, So
873
01:10:39.439 --> 01:10:47.039
then bro, water Agua, let's
not judge or shame anyone for on the
874
01:10:47.119 --> 01:10:57.800
show. Then what are we doing
here? Not that? Are we welcome?
875
01:11:00.039 --> 01:11:04.039
Want you want to result the whole
hands and and tell me what yah?
876
01:11:04.079 --> 01:11:09.039
Push up your should We should all
just roll up to Gregory and play
877
01:11:09.079 --> 01:11:13.560
a game. I would have played
basketball if you paid me right now,
878
01:11:13.640 --> 01:11:16.760
Bro, you know what my biggest
fear in life is blowing in achilles playing
879
01:11:16.840 --> 01:11:20.800
basketball. And you're talking to somebody
who goes and and and and and and
880
01:11:20.920 --> 01:11:26.560
engages in martial arts like five days
a week. I'd rather like go break
881
01:11:26.600 --> 01:11:29.960
a bone than pop an achilles,
right, Now there are people who have
882
01:11:30.119 --> 01:11:33.279
done that on those tramp that is, trampoline places. Hell, yeah,
883
01:11:34.159 --> 01:11:41.760
they've bad therapy. I was at
one of those places where my kids not
884
01:11:41.840 --> 01:11:44.840
that long ago, and I swear
I was wilding now and I and I
885
01:11:44.960 --> 01:11:45.560
came home the next thing, and
I was like, yo, no for
886
01:11:45.720 --> 01:11:48.159
nothing. But that was kind of
stupid of me, because some ship like
887
01:11:48.239 --> 01:11:51.239
that could happen. I tell I
tell people all the time, man,
888
01:11:51.359 --> 01:11:57.560
don't follow my footsteps that you might
tear achilles. Man. Yeah, that's
889
01:11:57.640 --> 01:12:03.600
strong. I like that. Write
that down. Some one goes in the
890
01:12:03.640 --> 01:12:09.039
books, Well I got one.
You know what I'm saying. I found
891
01:12:09.079 --> 01:12:11.920
out what my Kiden's foot was,
so put one put in the grade.
892
01:12:15.640 --> 01:12:18.560
You know what, I'm going to
go back to the fact that you actually
893
01:12:18.640 --> 01:12:24.560
are not like living up to dubs
today, I mean left right dude,
894
01:12:24.680 --> 01:12:31.000
like because because because yo, you
know what, it's okay, you know
895
01:12:31.000 --> 01:12:33.479
what I'm saying, Because that's it
over your head like Shandon is and bright
896
01:12:33.560 --> 01:12:39.199
ideas. It's all right, I
got you, I got you, you
897
01:12:39.279 --> 01:12:41.960
know, like, I don't expect
how to get that ship. You guys
898
01:12:42.039 --> 01:12:45.560
mentioned movies, but nobody mentioned that
Mean Girls is coming out, What the
899
01:12:45.680 --> 01:12:51.119
fuck? Oh yeah right, I
care. I care. That sounds pretty
900
01:12:51.279 --> 01:12:56.239
and purple too. You know her
purple is getting really good reviews. That's
901
01:12:56.239 --> 01:13:00.439
what remake Purple was a classic.
What do you mean color purple? Yeah,
902
01:13:00.880 --> 01:13:05.359
purple. I have her mixed reviews
about that one is purple whatever you
903
01:13:05.439 --> 01:13:12.439
want to call it. The weed
is purple that I would watch. I
904
01:13:12.600 --> 01:13:21.399
want to learn more about that purple. Yo, Lady gep quiet over there
905
01:13:21.560 --> 01:13:27.800
on the set. What's going on? Lady? I'm just listening. I'm
906
01:13:27.840 --> 01:13:30.359
listening. She's like, yeah,
yeah, she doesn't have anything to bring
907
01:13:30.439 --> 01:13:33.319
to the conversation. I need.
Neither of us do, because you guys
908
01:13:33.359 --> 01:13:36.640
are talking about dumb things. Were
keeping the light. What do you want
909
01:13:36.680 --> 01:13:44.199
to do? Sad fantasy football story? Nobody cares about what you win?
910
01:13:44.399 --> 01:13:45.760
Is a champion? You didn't even
like to like what do you get?
911
01:13:46.000 --> 01:13:53.880
Like? What what was your win? Okay, then you can talk about
912
01:13:53.920 --> 01:13:59.720
it now now you know what I
mean? I mean, you know what
913
01:14:00.359 --> 01:14:03.199
I mean to fix up your ladies
conversation and ship. And I said,
914
01:14:03.199 --> 01:14:05.560
what do you want to talk about? Like, like, what are they
915
01:14:05.600 --> 01:14:14.920
to talk about? Hyth Well,
uh, your face said that he was
916
01:14:15.000 --> 01:14:19.960
gonna bring up some questions. I
can't find my I can't find I wrote
917
01:14:19.960 --> 01:14:23.760
it, I wrote it all down
and ship, and I can't find my
918
01:14:23.880 --> 01:14:28.600
ship. I'm like where And I'm
the boring one of the group because I
919
01:14:28.680 --> 01:14:32.199
don't really watch the news. I
don't keep up on current events as far
920
01:14:32.319 --> 01:14:35.880
as the we don't need to talk
about that entertainment world, you know,
921
01:14:36.039 --> 01:14:41.600
So I don't have much to say
on those things. I mean, you
922
01:14:41.680 --> 01:14:44.720
know what, I'm on like a
few social sites and I'm saying ros some
923
01:14:44.800 --> 01:14:47.600
people, all I got, I
got, I got something, I got
924
01:14:47.680 --> 01:14:50.840
a question. I got a question, all right, So I'm gonna I'm
925
01:14:50.840 --> 01:14:58.199
gonna. I'm gonna pose this to
you guys. So it's serious. So
926
01:14:58.399 --> 01:15:04.800
take a deep breath, relax,
and excel. All right. So peep
927
01:15:04.840 --> 01:15:11.920
game. I'm trying to remember what
the question was. But it has to
928
01:15:12.039 --> 01:15:26.680
do with what if a parent loses
control of a teenage child and a child
929
01:15:26.800 --> 01:15:31.720
decides to go live with his dad
and the mother lets him go? Is
930
01:15:31.800 --> 01:15:38.439
that wrong? Depends let him go? Not enough info? No, like
931
01:15:39.279 --> 01:15:42.720
no. So I'm trying. I'm
trying to remember. I'm trying to remember
932
01:15:42.760 --> 01:15:45.640
the question. So it was kind
of like it was kind of like,
933
01:15:45.199 --> 01:15:50.640
so the mom was having a difficult
time with her child, right, and
934
01:15:53.880 --> 01:15:58.159
what happened and sent him to live
with the dad and sent him, well,
935
01:15:58.479 --> 01:16:02.800
the the she sent him to live
with the dad, and now like
936
01:16:04.199 --> 01:16:11.319
the kid is is being like disrespectful
and he's I think he's he's actually even
937
01:16:12.199 --> 01:16:15.199
like wild out on the moms and
the kids. Only I think she said
938
01:16:15.199 --> 01:16:19.359
he was like twelve thirteen years old, right, and he has he has
939
01:16:19.439 --> 01:16:27.279
a couple of like mental health things
going on. Okay, but what like
940
01:16:27.680 --> 01:16:33.920
ADHD and right, positional oppotunity,
hold on, hold on, dogs,
941
01:16:33.920 --> 01:16:39.319
hold up. So I think I'm
just trying to remember it. So it
942
01:16:39.439 --> 01:16:45.840
was kind of like she feels she
feels bad that she sent the kid with
943
01:16:45.000 --> 01:16:49.760
his dad, but but she couldn't
handle and control. She couldn't hand,
944
01:16:49.840 --> 01:16:56.560
she couldn't handle what was going on
with him. And I just I just
945
01:16:57.279 --> 01:16:59.920
I'm posing the question, what do
you what do you? What do you
946
01:17:00.079 --> 01:17:03.840
think about how she feels about the
situation, knowing that you know she feels
947
01:17:03.920 --> 01:17:11.119
bad about it, but I personally
think it needed to be done because I
948
01:17:11.199 --> 01:17:16.800
think he needs some kind of male
figure because at some point, especially a
949
01:17:16.920 --> 01:17:19.640
boy, is going to reach that
age where he's like, Mom, you
950
01:17:19.680 --> 01:17:23.520
can't do shit to me, Like, what are you gonna do? Hit
951
01:17:23.560 --> 01:17:26.680
me that she ain't gonna hurt What
are you gonna do? So she sent
952
01:17:26.760 --> 01:17:30.119
him with his dad, right?
And you know, so what do do
953
01:17:30.199 --> 01:17:32.880
you guys think? Yo? I
mean as you know what I'm saying,
954
01:17:32.960 --> 01:17:36.319
Like as a father, you know
what I mean, Like if I had
955
01:17:36.359 --> 01:17:40.800
a you know, if I was
in that situation, first off, you
956
01:17:40.840 --> 01:17:43.279
know what, I'll get him in
check real quick. What I'm saying,
957
01:17:43.279 --> 01:17:44.800
I'll ge him up to speed.
But like, yo, that's your mother.
958
01:17:44.840 --> 01:17:45.760
You know what I'm saying, Like, regardless of I like her or
959
01:17:45.800 --> 01:17:49.159
not, that is your mother.
You know what I'm saying, Like because
960
01:17:49.159 --> 01:17:53.279
you know what, if it wasn't
for her pushing you out, you would
961
01:17:53.319 --> 01:17:56.680
not be here. You know,
she did all the legboy, that's your
962
01:17:56.720 --> 01:18:00.199
mom. Man, like chill out, you know. And I as far
963
01:18:00.239 --> 01:18:01.600
as like the A D D.
You know what I'm saying. Whatever,
964
01:18:01.680 --> 01:18:04.560
you know what I'm saying that ain't
no ridling like what you know what I'm
965
01:18:04.560 --> 01:18:13.199
saying that put them in place?
No yo, capital punishment My nigga kids
966
01:18:13.680 --> 01:18:17.119
with a hammer. They don't mess. First of all, he mentioned that
967
01:18:17.199 --> 01:18:24.640
he has behavioral behaviors, and you
do not hit children. We already know
968
01:18:24.960 --> 01:18:30.319
the research shows that hitting doesn't.
Research involved. All of us are traumatized
969
01:18:30.600 --> 01:18:36.399
because of like traumatized. I can
tell already. Look, he looks,
970
01:18:36.920 --> 01:18:40.199
he look. You know what I'm
saying, Yo, Not only that,
971
01:18:40.239 --> 01:18:42.079
and what I'm saying, you put
him at a cross face. You're saying
972
01:18:42.199 --> 01:18:48.119
cross face crippling. Say to the
collect our child, then to not trust
973
01:18:48.239 --> 01:18:55.960
anyway, he is not really the
way to go. Sounds like that professional
974
01:18:56.159 --> 01:19:02.600
help And I'm wondering if she even
got any because like, if there is
975
01:19:02.640 --> 01:19:08.239
a kid with behavioral issues, obviously
the school should be involved and that child
976
01:19:08.319 --> 01:19:14.199
should have the resources available to them
to be able to make sure that they
977
01:19:14.279 --> 01:19:19.560
can help them with their behavioral issues. Uh. ODD is a very serious
978
01:19:19.760 --> 01:19:24.239
thing. Like I don't know if
any of y'all have ever worked with a
979
01:19:24.359 --> 01:19:30.520
child who has ODD. They're very
difficult. I've had a child makingitioning't like,
980
01:19:30.760 --> 01:19:38.479
but either way, curious why does
it have? Like I'm just curious
981
01:19:38.680 --> 01:19:45.680
what she went through in terms of
help and resources that she felt she can
982
01:19:45.840 --> 01:19:49.920
handle it. Or My question too
is why isn't there more co parenting going
983
01:19:50.000 --> 01:20:00.000
on, because I have a question
real quick odds opposition defiant disorder. No,
984
01:20:01.159 --> 01:20:06.079
it's not just problems with authority.
We're not talking about you, don't
985
01:20:06.119 --> 01:20:14.720
worry. We're talking about a child
whose brain functions differently. Let's just put
986
01:20:14.760 --> 01:20:18.039
it that way, okay. And
let's say this child has a short vieuse
987
01:20:18.159 --> 01:20:26.159
for everything, like everything, like
any little thing. They don't transition.
988
01:20:26.359 --> 01:20:36.439
While they usually have issues with certain
textures and things like that too, they
989
01:20:36.520 --> 01:20:49.039
get similated in that one. Yeah. So there's just there's resources out there
990
01:20:49.199 --> 01:20:54.199
for parents. Parents need to make
sure that they know this. Parents need
991
01:20:54.319 --> 01:21:00.399
to get their school system involved.
What you know, these are like paying
992
01:21:00.600 --> 01:21:03.279
we pay taxes. That's what this
ship is for. Use the resources that
993
01:21:03.359 --> 01:21:09.760
are available to you to help.
But parenting should be happening though, too,
994
01:21:10.359 --> 01:21:13.920
I mean to me, just like
Dub said before, like the dad
995
01:21:13.960 --> 01:21:17.960
should be encouraging his kid not to
be disrespectful to his mother. But it's
996
01:21:18.039 --> 01:21:24.079
going to take more than that.
Look what I found. I found the
997
01:21:24.079 --> 01:21:28.079
book all right. Let me say, let me say wait real quickly,
998
01:21:28.600 --> 01:21:30.079
yo, you always get the guillotine
thing right, put in the basement,
999
01:21:30.119 --> 01:21:32.560
put the kidden there back them every
time he acts up. You know what
1000
01:21:32.560 --> 01:21:36.560
I'm saying. It sounds like the
parents get medieval onto that get medivial,
1001
01:21:36.880 --> 01:21:43.279
and it sounds like the parents don't
have the support system to help the child
1002
01:21:44.359 --> 01:21:49.720
with his deficiency, because sending him
from one parent to the other isn't going
1003
01:21:49.800 --> 01:21:54.199
to change it. If it's a
behavioral thing, right, then we're talking
1004
01:21:54.239 --> 01:21:57.800
about something that the parents are Let
me tell you what, Let me tell
1005
01:21:57.800 --> 01:22:00.640
you what it says. Let me
tell you what I what I wrote,
1006
01:22:00.000 --> 01:22:03.800
all right, So what she said
was he was intent. He was an
1007
01:22:03.880 --> 01:22:11.199
intensive outpatient therapy for six weeks and
basically at the end of the six weeks
1008
01:22:12.159 --> 01:22:15.439
told so this year, this kid
is kind of wild and because he told
1009
01:22:15.479 --> 01:22:19.520
everybody that he just he just went
along with everything just to get out of
1010
01:22:19.600 --> 01:22:28.079
the impatient program. Furthermore, the
father has encouraged the kid to be disrespectful
1011
01:22:28.079 --> 01:22:30.840
and not listen to his mom.
That's a problem, and so sending him
1012
01:22:30.920 --> 01:22:34.239
to him is probably not the best
idea. No, not at all.
1013
01:22:34.479 --> 01:22:41.439
The kid doesn't have a behavioral issue. The kid comes from a dysfunctional home
1014
01:22:41.520 --> 01:22:44.479
and he's just crying out for help
and that's why he's acting. The way
1015
01:22:44.520 --> 01:22:47.560
that he is, because obviously you
can tell that the parents don't have it
1016
01:22:47.600 --> 01:22:51.000
all together. I'm not going to
point fingers here or take sides, because
1017
01:22:51.039 --> 01:22:55.239
if the dad is encouraged him to
be disrespectful to the mom, that's wrong.
1018
01:22:55.520 --> 01:22:58.119
And if the mom is just shooting
him away to the dad, then
1019
01:22:58.199 --> 01:23:02.239
she's wrong too, because he can't
tell herself. You can't tell me that
1020
01:23:02.439 --> 01:23:06.199
she she isn't aware of the fact
that the father has that kind of attitude.
1021
01:23:06.560 --> 01:23:10.399
That's not a surprise, that's not
something that happens like from one day
1022
01:23:10.439 --> 01:23:14.000
to the other like that. Obviously
she was she was aware of the fact
1023
01:23:14.039 --> 01:23:16.560
that the father was going to try
to influence the kid or persuade him to,
1024
01:23:17.000 --> 01:23:19.680
you know, side with him,
or make the mom look bad or
1025
01:23:19.840 --> 01:23:24.720
painter in a bad picture. So
she committed an error by doing that.
1026
01:23:24.920 --> 01:23:28.359
There is no co parent thing.
They don't care about the kids problems,
1027
01:23:28.359 --> 01:23:30.680
because if they did, they would
take advantage of the system and try to
1028
01:23:30.720 --> 01:23:34.359
get the kids some help. There's
help for children like that, maybe not
1029
01:23:34.479 --> 01:23:39.680
on a bigger scale, because I
mean, if he was doing outpatient,
1030
01:23:39.960 --> 01:23:46.079
then yes, he obviously is getting
certain things that he needs. But that's
1031
01:23:46.239 --> 01:23:53.880
just weird to me, Like,
I'm just curious why she Was it her
1032
01:23:54.119 --> 01:23:58.760
choice that the child went to the
father, or was it the child who
1033
01:23:58.920 --> 01:24:00.239
was like, I want to live
with my father. Is that what you
1034
01:24:00.399 --> 01:24:08.920
said? Yeah? Okay, that's
just what And now the kids all of
1035
01:24:08.960 --> 01:24:12.199
a sudden, it's going to end
up like not having any issues. He's
1036
01:24:12.199 --> 01:24:15.680
going to be resenting his mother and
hating his mother and blaming her for things
1037
01:24:15.800 --> 01:24:20.239
because he's young and doesn't understand.
But honestly, that's just bad parenting by
1038
01:24:20.279 --> 01:24:26.479
everybody, right there, Man,
I agree both sides. That kid just
1039
01:24:26.560 --> 01:24:30.000
sounds like a casualty of Warren.
That's what's causing, not because the kid
1040
01:24:30.319 --> 01:24:33.560
had any you know what I mean. I don't know is there a connection
1041
01:24:33.800 --> 01:24:41.520
between you know, you know it's
the father's name, Blue pas right,
1042
01:24:44.079 --> 01:24:51.479
Yeah, I mean you know,
is there a connection between between between you
1043
01:24:51.520 --> 01:24:56.079
know, behavioral issues and kids that
come from broken homes? You know,
1044
01:24:56.680 --> 01:24:59.560
I'm curious to see what the stat
is like, Let's say, you know,
1045
01:25:00.199 --> 01:25:02.039
kids that that that end up like
that and having that kind of an
1046
01:25:02.039 --> 01:25:06.760
attitude towards life or whatever they're they're
they're defining towards everything. Is it because
1047
01:25:06.760 --> 01:25:10.000
there's really something wrong with them or
is it? Are they just like,
1048
01:25:10.159 --> 01:25:15.479
uh, you know what you might
call it, just learn the environment that
1049
01:25:15.560 --> 01:25:18.119
they come from. You know,
I don't think it's that black and white.
1050
01:25:19.359 --> 01:25:25.560
It really depends on the disorders that
we're talking about. But that's that's
1051
01:25:25.600 --> 01:25:28.920
where all the gray area comes in. Why doesn't say this, Why can't
1052
01:25:28.960 --> 01:25:30.840
it be so black and white?
Why can't it be like, look,
1053
01:25:30.079 --> 01:25:33.399
that's not life, because nothing in
life is black and white? Now,
1054
01:25:33.560 --> 01:25:36.439
why does everything have to have a
gray area? Why can't we make something
1055
01:25:36.479 --> 01:25:43.000
white complex? Human beings? Can't
just some things in life be black and
1056
01:25:43.039 --> 01:25:46.920
white. Why does everything have to
happen salt and pepper and everything have to
1057
01:25:46.960 --> 01:25:49.760
have a gray area? Some things
are there and some things are that.
1058
01:25:50.319 --> 01:25:56.960
I'm not discussing anybody's opinions, but
there is no discussing that. You're either
1059
01:25:57.039 --> 01:26:04.279
born a heat or a sheep.
Getting right now talking about the gray areas
1060
01:26:04.479 --> 01:26:09.840
that exist, and they do even
there. I think people create gray areas
1061
01:26:09.920 --> 01:26:15.600
so they can have their own,
like, you know, interpretation of what's
1062
01:26:15.680 --> 01:26:17.319
going on, and oh well,
this is my point of view. And
1063
01:26:17.439 --> 01:26:23.319
sometimes things are that simple. I
think as humans we want to overcomplicate everything
1064
01:26:24.960 --> 01:26:30.039
to complicate just about everything too many. Great if life was black and white,
1065
01:26:30.239 --> 01:26:32.199
you know, there's some countries where
things are black and white. Yeah,
1066
01:26:32.239 --> 01:26:34.439
that's really working out well for all
of them. Listen, I'm not
1067
01:26:34.479 --> 01:26:40.319
saying we've got to be communists,
but you know, but these things don't
1068
01:26:40.359 --> 01:26:44.199
work. And that's why I think
I like that. Man. Look,
1069
01:26:44.239 --> 01:26:47.960
you know what way you touched on. It's just like a bunch of people
1070
01:26:48.000 --> 01:26:53.680
cockplaying other genders. All right,
we're not going to get into that.
1071
01:26:53.960 --> 01:26:56.479
We're not going to get into that. We're not going to get into that.
1072
01:26:56.920 --> 01:27:01.680
We are literally talking about the fact
that there are children And this is
1073
01:27:01.680 --> 01:27:06.359
what I was going to say before. I've worked in school systems okay,
1074
01:27:06.520 --> 01:27:12.840
and I've also worked in private schools. I've worked in private schools that are
1075
01:27:13.000 --> 01:27:21.640
for special education Okay. Those children
come from loving homes, white mostly okay,
1076
01:27:23.800 --> 01:27:28.880
and both parents are present in some
way a lot of them. So
1077
01:27:29.399 --> 01:27:33.840
we can't say that, you know, these behavioral issues and problems, there's
1078
01:27:33.880 --> 01:27:39.840
a difference between the hold of highest, hold of high finish. No,
1079
01:27:40.119 --> 01:27:43.920
you can just this is because I
don't want to confuse one thing for the
1080
01:27:44.039 --> 01:27:47.159
other. The children that you're that
you've worked with. Are those special needs
1081
01:27:47.319 --> 01:27:54.479
children? You know they were classified
special education because they either This is all
1082
01:27:54.520 --> 01:27:58.279
we're talking about all different kinds of
things. We're talking about cerebral palsy,
1083
01:27:58.439 --> 01:28:02.560
We're talking about down syndrome, We're
talking about odd, We're talking about ADS.
1084
01:28:02.600 --> 01:28:05.640
That's the thing. I don't want
to put everything into one pool because
1085
01:28:05.680 --> 01:28:11.079
I think it's different. Obviously,
if your child is autistic and they come
1086
01:28:11.119 --> 01:28:15.279
from a loving home or a statistic
is a neurodivergent thing. Yeah, we're
1087
01:28:15.359 --> 01:28:20.720
talking about brain stuff the same thing. It really is due to the circumstances,
1088
01:28:20.920 --> 01:28:26.199
like the difference between there's nurture and
nature. We know that things can
1089
01:28:26.279 --> 01:28:30.720
make it worse if you don't have
a supportive environment for your disorder. What's
1090
01:28:30.760 --> 01:28:39.760
going to happen if you suffer from
bipolar disorder? Okay, what's going to
1091
01:28:39.840 --> 01:28:45.359
happen if you do nothing to help
the bipolar disorder? Nothing? You're going
1092
01:28:45.439 --> 01:28:48.560
to be bipolar, right, and
there's a chance that you're going to be
1093
01:28:48.720 --> 01:28:53.840
manic and do crazy shit, or
you're going to go down and you could
1094
01:28:53.880 --> 01:28:57.960
hurt yourself. Right. It can
be that black and white with certain things,
1095
01:28:58.640 --> 01:29:02.560
but it isn't because there are therapies, there's groups, there's support,
1096
01:29:02.680 --> 01:29:10.880
there's medication. All these things are
come into place to help with helping the
1097
01:29:10.960 --> 01:29:15.000
brain function. Yes, I know
a lot of these drugs do like don't
1098
01:29:15.039 --> 01:29:20.079
make you feel like yourself. They
inhibit people in some ways and stuff like
1099
01:29:20.159 --> 01:29:27.640
that. That's why it's important ship
for you that they give these people mental
1100
01:29:27.720 --> 01:29:33.159
health patients. They're terrible, but
I'm very happy with my lexapro. I
1101
01:29:33.239 --> 01:29:39.159
wouldn't be here today if it wasn't
for my lexapro. So I don't agree.
1102
01:29:39.399 --> 01:29:44.920
I think that drugs I've seen I've
seen family members become zombies over that
1103
01:29:45.000 --> 01:29:48.439
stuff, not with what I take. It all depends. There are drugs
1104
01:29:48.479 --> 01:29:51.920
out there that will, like I
just said, inhibit you in many ways.
1105
01:29:53.399 --> 01:29:57.840
That's why it's important to find what
works for you where you're functioning adults.
1106
01:29:58.520 --> 01:30:02.640
But see what about what out As
far as medicating children, Yeah,
1107
01:30:03.640 --> 01:30:08.359
I mean it depends, really,
it really depends on how bad it is.
1108
01:30:08.399 --> 01:30:12.119
It does depend. It does depend. But I think that like in
1109
01:30:12.239 --> 01:30:16.720
this day and age, like people
are quick to diagnose and and with certain
1110
01:30:16.800 --> 01:30:20.239
things. Yes everywhere, Yeah,
the kid, the kid has a d
1111
01:30:20.319 --> 01:30:23.840
D. No, man, the
kid's eleven years old. He's full of
1112
01:30:23.960 --> 01:30:27.239
energy. But they have real test
now for that. You know, I
1113
01:30:27.279 --> 01:30:29.720
get it. He doesn't want to
sit in class for eight hours a day,
1114
01:30:29.800 --> 01:30:31.840
you know, reading and writing.
That doesn't mean that there's something wrong
1115
01:30:31.880 --> 01:30:34.239
with the kid. You know,
everybody's a little bit different. I'm not
1116
01:30:34.520 --> 01:30:39.800
I'm not downplaying at all. My
wife works at an autistic school. It's
1117
01:30:40.159 --> 01:30:44.119
extremely challenging. She tells me about
her days. And that's why I'm asking
1118
01:30:44.159 --> 01:30:46.439
you. I don't like. My
point is this is there is there not
1119
01:30:46.520 --> 01:30:51.000
a big possibility that this little kid
that that that coleon is talking about,
1120
01:30:51.239 --> 01:30:56.640
it's just acting up because of the
circumstances surrounding him. He could be acting
1121
01:30:56.720 --> 01:31:00.279
out more because of the circumstances.
But he was going to act out either
1122
01:31:00.359 --> 01:31:02.279
way. How do you know that? Because he has O, D D
1123
01:31:02.399 --> 01:31:15.039
and ADHD and he's actually he's actually, he's he's actually he has actually And
1124
01:31:15.159 --> 01:31:17.319
if he was impatient, that means
there is a lot more going on right
1125
01:31:17.520 --> 01:31:20.039
right, right, So hold on, let me, let me, let
1126
01:31:20.079 --> 01:31:24.119
me open the book again, because
I got a lot of notes on this
1127
01:31:24.279 --> 01:31:28.159
topic. This is why we speak
to the things we know. You understand
1128
01:31:28.760 --> 01:31:31.960
this is important to me, opinions
mean ship at the end of the day.
1129
01:31:32.039 --> 01:31:39.840
We all know that. But facts
matter, and opinions coming from facts
1130
01:31:39.960 --> 01:31:43.399
can matter to or experience. All
right, so checking people, I'm reading,
1131
01:31:43.479 --> 01:31:45.960
let me, let me finish reading
this, dus hold up? All
1132
01:31:45.039 --> 01:31:48.399
right? So the kid, the
kid was on med ocasion, that was
1133
01:31:48.399 --> 01:31:53.960
getting help from school. But the
missing piece was that his dad, his
1134
01:31:54.159 --> 01:32:00.640
dad's absence, and that his father
was telling him that he wasn't crazy and
1135
01:32:00.880 --> 01:32:06.279
it needs to take medication and and
that and and that other people. Wait,
1136
01:32:06.600 --> 01:32:14.239
so so he didn't need medication.
It sounds like the dad really just
1137
01:32:14.720 --> 01:32:17.079
is making the situation, all right, that the dad told the dad told
1138
01:32:17.199 --> 01:32:21.960
him that there's no kid. There's
no possibility that the father could be right,
1139
01:32:23.000 --> 01:32:25.479
and there's nothing wrong with the kid. And then he just got creating
1140
01:32:25.720 --> 01:32:30.239
child. He got quickly diagnosed just
to put something on him. How do
1141
01:32:30.319 --> 01:32:32.640
you know that? I don't know, bo, How do you how do
1142
01:32:32.760 --> 01:32:38.600
we really know if he is a
d he because given that he's a preteen
1143
01:32:38.720 --> 01:32:43.720
or tween or whatever he is the
fact that he was impatient okay for how
1144
01:32:43.800 --> 01:32:46.840
long? Six weeks? Six weeks? Okay, that's not a long that's
1145
01:32:46.920 --> 01:32:53.640
a long time. He's already it's
intensive and it was intensive outpatient. Okay,
1146
01:32:53.960 --> 01:33:00.600
intensive outpatient, and he's diagnosed with
these things. They don't just make
1147
01:33:00.720 --> 01:33:04.079
up ship. I mean, I
hate to break it to people like these
1148
01:33:04.159 --> 01:33:09.039
disorders, autism, all of that. This, There are test and that's
1149
01:33:09.159 --> 01:33:14.399
why it's important to get your child
tested at a young age. And the
1150
01:33:14.560 --> 01:33:18.239
only she's saying he was diagnosed,
he was diagnosed. He was diagnosed at
1151
01:33:18.399 --> 01:33:25.199
five. Yeah, okay, you're
also backing us into the story. Now
1152
01:33:25.279 --> 01:33:29.600
you're telling us you know, but
now he's adding more to what. No,
1153
01:33:29.720 --> 01:33:33.560
because I got my ADHDHD for a
d D. That's I don't know.
1154
01:33:33.640 --> 01:33:40.119
I'm asking hitting me. Okay,
I've talked kindergarten. Let me tell
1155
01:33:40.159 --> 01:33:45.439
you diagnosed. My handwriting is really
bad, so I'm just yeah, it's
1156
01:33:45.520 --> 01:33:49.880
terrible. So he was diagnosed at
five with ADHD. That's it. But
1157
01:33:49.960 --> 01:33:55.800
you said he had O d D. Yeah then the yeah he was.
1158
01:33:56.239 --> 01:33:59.760
Yah's have to have more than ADHD. There's no way this kid is just
1159
01:33:59.840 --> 01:34:04.159
go outpatient intensive therapy. Look,
you know what I think about medication,
1160
01:34:04.319 --> 01:34:08.439
how like like you're all for that's
you me? Nah? You know what,
1161
01:34:08.560 --> 01:34:11.880
I'll kick my pants out the mercy
of myself. You know That's one.
1162
01:34:12.199 --> 01:34:15.279
Secondly, I was diagnosed with ADHD
when in all reality, you know
1163
01:34:15.319 --> 01:34:18.039
what I'm saying, I just didn't
know how to like let go the fact
1164
01:34:18.079 --> 01:34:21.199
that my grandmother passed away out of
nowhere, and I carried that anger with
1165
01:34:21.319 --> 01:34:23.800
me. So like, yo,
you know what, I was just doing
1166
01:34:23.880 --> 01:34:27.880
reckless shit in high school, you
know what I'm saying. So you know
1167
01:34:27.920 --> 01:34:30.359
what I mean. Like, and
they try to diagnose through with ADHD and
1168
01:34:30.439 --> 01:34:33.000
SHIP when in all reality, I
didn't cry with my grandmother to passed away.
1169
01:34:33.760 --> 01:34:38.319
I just held that in and that
pain turned the anger. So you
1170
01:34:38.359 --> 01:34:40.600
know what I'm saying. Like every
so everything I did was with a chip
1171
01:34:40.640 --> 01:34:44.720
on my shoulder. Why would they
diagnose you with ADHD because you're angry?
1172
01:34:45.239 --> 01:34:47.600
That's not yo, because you know
what I did. I did what I
1173
01:34:47.680 --> 01:34:55.079
wanted to do. ADHD is you
can't focus literally cannot focus on I did.
1174
01:34:55.399 --> 01:34:57.960
But but but what the thing is
though, like in class, I
1175
01:34:58.039 --> 01:35:02.000
did what I want to do.
Pivot. So the old old the old
1176
01:35:02.079 --> 01:35:08.279
D, the old d D.
The old d D was was was based
1177
01:35:08.319 --> 01:35:14.560
on his behavior later on? Yeah, yeah, on a on a medical
1178
01:35:14.680 --> 01:35:18.039
level, and I know that mental
illness is not the same, but I
1179
01:35:18.199 --> 01:35:26.880
actually think that mental illness is like
something that is so hard to not only
1180
01:35:27.000 --> 01:35:31.119
diagnose, but understand because you can't
be in someone's mind. But from a
1181
01:35:31.199 --> 01:35:35.239
medical point of view, I was
miss I was misdiagnosed with a heart condition,
1182
01:35:36.079 --> 01:35:41.239
which then god knock on wood wasn't
the case. But I was told
1183
01:35:41.319 --> 01:35:44.199
this, that and the third and
then otherwise. What's not to say that
1184
01:35:45.119 --> 01:35:47.039
that that's that's not the same that's
happening with some of these kids that are
1185
01:35:47.079 --> 01:35:50.880
being you know, listen, I
took tests. I took tests just like
1186
01:35:51.399 --> 01:35:56.279
kids are tested for for for that, so I get it. It's two
1187
01:35:56.319 --> 01:35:59.760
completely different things. And that's why
you always get a second opinion, you
1188
01:35:59.840 --> 01:36:01.520
know that, right. This is
the thing with us as adults, as
1189
01:36:01.600 --> 01:36:04.880
doctors. Okay, And a lot
of people as adults don't know this.
1190
01:36:05.119 --> 01:36:11.000
You can advocate for yourself, right. People need to listen to their gut
1191
01:36:11.119 --> 01:36:15.000
more. If you feel like something
is wrong with you, your body in
1192
01:36:15.199 --> 01:36:20.880
any way, and your doctor dismisses
or tries to make excuses or throws drugs
1193
01:36:20.960 --> 01:36:26.880
at you, that's a problem,
okay. And and honestly, this is
1194
01:36:26.920 --> 01:36:31.520
the space I'm in right now because
doctors aren't listening to patients. They're just
1195
01:36:31.600 --> 01:36:39.720
making assumptions and judgments and moving on
and you can't do that. They get
1196
01:36:39.720 --> 01:36:42.439
paid for every pill they prescribe.
This I know. Okay, this is
1197
01:36:42.520 --> 01:36:45.560
a business. Pharmaceutical, pharmaceutical.
You know, Indus stream was going to
1198
01:36:45.600 --> 01:36:49.159
come. All of this. Healthcare
is a business. Between the fucking band
1199
01:36:49.199 --> 01:36:54.079
aid they put on you to whatever, it's a business. They all make
1200
01:36:54.199 --> 01:36:57.800
money from all of it. Okay, this is how it works. Insurance
1201
01:36:57.920 --> 01:37:01.199
is a big scam and it's a
business. It's what it is. And
1202
01:37:01.359 --> 01:37:05.399
unfortunately, this is a system that
you know, we're stuck with because you
1203
01:37:05.479 --> 01:37:10.640
know, people don't want universal health
care, so this is what you're going
1204
01:37:10.720 --> 01:37:15.680
to get. And the truth of
that is we're just going to get shitty
1205
01:37:16.119 --> 01:37:21.600
doctors every now and again and they're
just going to do whatever. But when
1206
01:37:21.640 --> 01:37:26.680
it comes to children, we are
so advanced at what we know right now
1207
01:37:27.239 --> 01:37:31.039
with research, with the medications with
whatever, it's very different. They don't
1208
01:37:31.079 --> 01:37:36.600
take that shit lightly when they're young. And yes, there has been a
1209
01:37:36.880 --> 01:37:45.079
bigger number of children with whatever mental
disorders or whatever you want to call it.
1210
01:37:45.199 --> 01:37:49.079
There's a lot more and autism too
has reached peak. I think it's
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01:37:49.119 --> 01:37:59.680
evolution. That's my opinion and theory. But this is what yes, I
1212
01:38:00.800 --> 01:38:08.479
just it's hard as a parent to
hear that your child can't function in a
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01:38:08.600 --> 01:38:14.720
classroom. I worked in kindergarten.
I just did one year. That was
1214
01:38:14.800 --> 01:38:18.880
all I could do, to be
honest, and I had a child to
1215
01:38:18.960 --> 01:38:25.479
come in. This was a child
that was in I forgot the name of
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01:38:25.520 --> 01:38:30.079
this school, and it's like a
known thing in Hudson count all these counties.
1217
01:38:30.079 --> 01:38:35.079
It's like why something. But this
kid was in that school and I
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01:38:35.119 --> 01:38:38.760
don't know what happened. Maybe he
moved, I don't know. But his
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01:38:38.880 --> 01:38:42.800
mom tried to bring him into the
public school like it was daycare, which
1220
01:38:42.880 --> 01:38:45.880
is crazy to me, and they
brought him into my class. Now,
1221
01:38:46.119 --> 01:38:54.399
this kid, five years old had
a lot of trouble sitting down. He
1222
01:38:54.600 --> 01:38:58.600
did for a while, but he
would just get up and do things.
1223
01:38:58.720 --> 01:39:00.680
Okay, something I let go.
You know, you pick and choose your
1224
01:39:00.720 --> 01:39:08.000
battles, especially when they're that little. So I go to lunch now,
1225
01:39:08.479 --> 01:39:11.199
given in my classroom. Every time
I went to lunch, there was always
1226
01:39:11.239 --> 01:39:15.439
a problem because I had the only
monolingual class, which means all my kids
1227
01:39:15.479 --> 01:39:18.840
spoke English and my aid only spoke
Spanish. Because that makes sense, right,
1228
01:39:19.479 --> 01:39:25.439
So big they go to they to
lunch, they have lunch in the
1229
01:39:25.520 --> 01:39:30.760
classroom. I leave and I'm getting
called back and I'm like, Okay,
1230
01:39:30.840 --> 01:39:35.680
what the hell is going on?
Well, this new child that showed up
1231
01:39:36.319 --> 01:39:41.960
tried to go out the window,
literally tried to go out the fucking window
1232
01:39:42.479 --> 01:39:45.560
at lunch, climbed up the table, open the window, tried to get
1233
01:39:45.600 --> 01:39:49.600
out. My aid had to like
rush grab him and pull him down.
1234
01:39:49.720 --> 01:39:56.039
Needless to say, that boy never
came back because he didn't belong there.
1235
01:39:56.560 --> 01:40:01.399
Okay, I had a child who
five. Now, five is usually when
1236
01:40:02.039 --> 01:40:09.520
we start paying attention to certain things, certain behaviors we look for. We
1237
01:40:09.640 --> 01:40:13.399
look for stuff because it's important because
at five you should be able to do
1238
01:40:13.520 --> 01:40:17.079
certain things. That's the way the
curriculum works, right. School systems like
1239
01:40:17.159 --> 01:40:20.640
by the age of five, you
should be able to do ABCD. And
1240
01:40:23.359 --> 01:40:30.560
we have kids that come in and
they are not yet diagnosed with autism.
1241
01:40:31.399 --> 01:40:34.800
But because of my experience, I
can tell, I can tell when a
1242
01:40:34.880 --> 01:40:40.960
kid is autistic. And I had
a student who definitely was, but his
1243
01:40:41.159 --> 01:40:44.920
mom was really good because she knew
something was up and she was like,
1244
01:40:45.039 --> 01:40:49.359
listen, I'm going to get him
tested because I'm pretty sure that something is
1245
01:40:49.479 --> 01:40:54.079
up and he might be autistic.
And I'm like, okay, we had
1246
01:40:54.159 --> 01:41:01.279
a excuse me. This was during
Halloween. We had a We have these
1247
01:41:01.359 --> 01:41:08.359
older teachers who would come in that
were like in Union City they have they
1248
01:41:08.439 --> 01:41:13.840
make jobs for people to just waste
school money really, and they had these
1249
01:41:14.079 --> 01:41:17.840
older teachers that were supposed to be
like expert teachers that come for new teachers
1250
01:41:17.880 --> 01:41:21.199
and check you out and help you
in the classroom and all this other stuff.
1251
01:41:21.960 --> 01:41:27.159
And she came in to read a
book to my classroom, like one
1252
01:41:27.199 --> 01:41:30.359
of those tape books where they play
the tape and follow along with the book.
1253
01:41:31.159 --> 01:41:33.680
And it was in Halloween book.
So it's supposed to be like spooky,
1254
01:41:33.760 --> 01:41:39.720
scary, but not really. Their
five now, a childhood's autistic has
1255
01:41:39.760 --> 01:41:45.840
a very hard time understanding reality from
not okay. They are very logical.
1256
01:41:46.760 --> 01:41:50.439
Things have to make sense, you
know, like one plus one is two
1257
01:41:50.479 --> 01:41:55.960
and that makes sense. That's logic, right, So ghosts and things like
1258
01:41:56.079 --> 01:42:00.119
that, that doesn't make any sense. And he takes things literally. So
1259
01:42:01.119 --> 01:42:04.000
he came to me in the middle. I was sitting in the back,
1260
01:42:04.880 --> 01:42:10.840
and he was just like, can
we can we go somewhere? I don't
1261
01:42:10.880 --> 01:42:13.439
want to I don't want to hear
the story. And I was like,
1262
01:42:13.640 --> 01:42:18.840
yes, So I took him out
of the classroom. And that was the
1263
01:42:18.920 --> 01:42:24.119
right thing to do in that case, because I already knew that this child
1264
01:42:24.159 --> 01:42:27.880
already has a hard time understanding things, and I knew that the best thing
1265
01:42:27.960 --> 01:42:30.279
for him so he doesn't have nightmares
tonight is to take him out of the
1266
01:42:30.319 --> 01:42:35.119
classroom. When I came back,
this expert teacher tried to tell me,
1267
01:42:35.479 --> 01:42:39.279
like, what was I doing?
Why did I think it was a good
1268
01:42:39.319 --> 01:42:41.960
idea to take this student out of
the classroom. And I was like,
1269
01:42:42.079 --> 01:42:46.600
well, if you're unaware he is
autistic, and if you don't know how
1270
01:42:46.680 --> 01:42:53.039
it works with children who have autism, they can't sit through something like that
1271
01:42:53.239 --> 01:42:58.800
and be okay, especially for this
child. And it bothered me that some
1272
01:42:59.119 --> 01:43:06.119
expert teacher didn't even understand children with
disabilities and what that looks like and how
1273
01:43:06.239 --> 01:43:13.039
you should be able to make changes
in your classroom like you're supposed to do
1274
01:43:13.520 --> 01:43:18.039
to benefit all your students. And
that for me was the moment where I
1275
01:43:18.159 --> 01:43:21.840
was just like, as I thought, public school isn't about the students.
1276
01:43:23.399 --> 01:43:27.159
It never is. It's all about
politics. And that's one of the reasons
1277
01:43:27.199 --> 01:43:33.439
why I left teaching. But I
just it bothered me so much to see
1278
01:43:33.640 --> 01:43:42.680
the lack of knowledge from expert teachers
when it came to students with mental disabilities.
1279
01:43:44.000 --> 01:43:48.840
And that is something that all teachers
should know, Like all anyone who
1280
01:43:48.920 --> 01:43:53.920
wants to be a teacher should truly
experience what it's like to be in a
1281
01:43:53.960 --> 01:43:59.640
special ed room, what it's like
to be in a special ed like school,
1282
01:43:59.800 --> 01:44:08.039
if if that's possible, because you
won't understand until you actually experience it.
1283
01:44:09.239 --> 01:44:15.319
And I've always been someone who like
when I would teach, I like
1284
01:44:15.439 --> 01:44:20.880
relating to my students, and I
like I like them to understand why they're
1285
01:44:20.960 --> 01:44:26.960
learning certain things right, Like I
always felt like, why am I learning
1286
01:44:27.039 --> 01:44:29.560
this shit? Am I really going
to use this when I grow up?
1287
01:44:30.079 --> 01:44:33.399
No, A lot of things we
learned at school we never use growing up,
1288
01:44:33.520 --> 01:44:39.720
Like why didn't they teach us about
checkbooks or check checking accounts and savings
1289
01:44:39.800 --> 01:44:45.119
and investments and mortgages and all that
other stuff. Our educational system is so
1290
01:44:45.439 --> 01:44:48.800
horrible. We didn't we didn't take
any of that shit. And that's what
1291
01:44:49.000 --> 01:44:54.039
Matt like, these things matter.
How do you live once you leave school?
1292
01:44:54.520 --> 01:44:58.079
How do you make a life for
yourself when you leave school and have
1293
01:44:58.239 --> 01:45:13.319
to be an adult? It's just
left I mean, I mean sadly nowadays
1294
01:45:14.399 --> 01:45:17.960
that is the inspiration for a lot
of young people because it's there and people
1295
01:45:18.039 --> 01:45:21.680
are making the money. I missed. I missed that window. No you
1296
01:45:21.800 --> 01:45:27.880
didn't. Ye honestly, anyone could
do it. You just really have to
1297
01:45:27.960 --> 01:45:31.640
be disciplined. You have to make
content and you have to make you got
1298
01:45:31.760 --> 01:45:35.520
to work. The people that are
making money put in the work. They're
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01:45:35.600 --> 01:45:41.600
not just like sitting there and whatever. I agree, and it's real,
1300
01:45:41.840 --> 01:45:45.880
just not my thing. I actually
wish social media. I wish I could
1301
01:45:45.920 --> 01:45:50.680
make the reels and stuff that some
people make, because last summer fascinated I
1302
01:45:50.760 --> 01:45:57.560
got off of Facebook and uh and
Instagram. I'll pick in like once in
1303
01:45:57.640 --> 01:46:01.239
a blue maybe, but I'm with
that. So for me and my business,
1304
01:46:01.319 --> 01:46:05.720
it's social media is rather important.
So yeah, no, Luckily,
1305
01:46:05.880 --> 01:46:09.800
for for for what I do,
I don't have to be involved, you
1306
01:46:09.880 --> 01:46:12.119
know. And when I do need
to go to social media, I just
1307
01:46:12.439 --> 01:46:15.000
I use LinkedIn, you know if
I need to post, and I'm hiring
1308
01:46:16.239 --> 01:46:21.560
things of that nature so really quick. So what do you what advice would
1309
01:46:21.560 --> 01:46:26.960
you give this this parent, this
lady that this poor woman sounds like a
1310
01:46:27.039 --> 01:46:30.239
hot mess. The first piece of
advice I give them is to not have
1311
01:46:30.319 --> 01:46:41.800
any more children. Really for the
condom one. Those aren't even so I
1312
01:46:42.199 --> 01:46:45.960
wish they would. I knew somebody, I know somebody who had a vasected
1313
01:46:45.039 --> 01:46:49.399
me and his wife not only did
she get pregnant, but they had twins.
1314
01:46:49.560 --> 01:46:56.800
Man is well, no, legitimately, there wasn't It wouldn't even be
1315
01:46:56.880 --> 01:47:00.800
a story. That's the story.
What it actually is his that's the that's
1316
01:47:00.880 --> 01:47:06.520
the that's a surprising crazy I just
have birst control and get pregnant. Yeah.
1317
01:47:06.720 --> 01:47:12.640
I just had a friend reverse his
his visectomy and and he's I'm like,
1318
01:47:12.840 --> 01:47:15.600
what, you want to have kids? And he's like yeah, his
1319
01:47:15.720 --> 01:47:17.520
girlfriend's a really good mom. So
he's like, you know what, he's
1320
01:47:17.600 --> 01:47:23.359
forty six. He just had a
grandchild as a matter of fact on Christmas
1321
01:47:23.439 --> 01:47:27.800
Eve, and oh yeah that's a
blessing. Yeah. And he and he
1322
01:47:28.079 --> 01:47:31.000
and he reversed his vasectomy. And
I'm like, yeah, you crazy,
1323
01:47:33.039 --> 01:47:38.840
crazy boy. Yeah, Hey,
then look, you know what I know.
1324
01:47:39.239 --> 01:47:42.520
I know when when my daughter graduates
high school will be like sixty five
1325
01:47:42.560 --> 01:47:46.760
in a wheelchair and whatever. My
wheelchair is going to have banging system in
1326
01:47:46.800 --> 01:47:49.039
the back. You know what I'm
saying. It's you know what I'm saying,
1327
01:47:49.039 --> 01:47:54.279
I'm gonna have a professor X wheelchair. All right, if I can
1328
01:47:54.359 --> 01:47:59.840
come in for a second about time, Lady J Well, because I'm not
1329
01:48:00.079 --> 01:48:02.760
want to compete for people's attention and
time, so I wait until there's a
1330
01:48:02.800 --> 01:48:08.760
moment and then I talk. I'm
not gonna fight the voice over voice.
1331
01:48:09.239 --> 01:48:13.800
But what I seem to be seeing
with all of these topics that we're talking
1332
01:48:13.840 --> 01:48:19.199
about is the same thing. Each
case is individual to individual beliefs, values,
1333
01:48:19.880 --> 01:48:26.359
and knowledge resources. I was a
family therapist for twenty years, so
1334
01:48:27.279 --> 01:48:32.119
the add the odd all of those
things are real things. But depending on
1335
01:48:32.279 --> 01:48:42.920
one person's beliefs, ideals upbringing,
that determines one whether they actually understand that
1336
01:48:43.039 --> 01:48:47.000
these are real issues too, if
they're willing to even deal with the issues.
1337
01:48:49.159 --> 01:48:54.279
And they are real things. But
we tend to get into our egos
1338
01:48:55.239 --> 01:48:58.359
about what we believe and what we
like and what we don't like. You
1339
01:48:58.439 --> 01:49:04.600
know, I'm on your book TG
me without medication is not a person that
1340
01:49:04.680 --> 01:49:10.560
would be here, so you know. And but I also I also take
1341
01:49:10.760 --> 01:49:15.479
my like the way I approach it
is, I am not gonna close my
1342
01:49:15.600 --> 01:49:19.119
mind to a potential solution or assistance. But I think people are looking for
1343
01:49:19.960 --> 01:49:24.720
the pill that solves the whole problem, and that's not the issue. The
1344
01:49:24.880 --> 01:49:29.840
issue is you're looking for the medication
or the therapy or whatever it is that's
1345
01:49:29.920 --> 01:49:34.039
gonna assist you in using the skills
that you are taught in like you were
1346
01:49:34.039 --> 01:49:41.920
saying in school at home. So
my advice for this mom is one any
1347
01:49:42.000 --> 01:49:45.359
good parent is going to worry.
They're gonna worry that they make the right
1348
01:49:45.479 --> 01:49:50.279
choice the wrong choice. I am
not one to say maybe you shouldn't be
1349
01:49:50.319 --> 01:49:54.039
having no more kids. I don't
know, because I don't know the people
1350
01:49:54.199 --> 01:50:00.119
like that. But it should be
a co parenting situation. You know,
1351
01:50:00.319 --> 01:50:04.840
both of them have to be participating
in the upbringing of the child. So
1352
01:50:05.479 --> 01:50:10.119
you know, everybody wants to blame
the other parent, Well, the mom's
1353
01:50:10.159 --> 01:50:13.000
too soft, or the dad's too
hard, or the dad's doing this,
1354
01:50:13.159 --> 01:50:15.720
the dad's doing that. Unfortunately,
we can't choose who our parents are.
1355
01:50:16.439 --> 01:50:21.560
We can choose who we associate with. We can choose if we want to
1356
01:50:21.840 --> 01:50:27.720
continue to live the chaotic life that
our parents live. However, this child
1357
01:50:27.840 --> 01:50:30.760
is in a place where they're just
looking for some love, affection, and
1358
01:50:30.840 --> 01:50:34.359
support. So these parents need to
get out of their own way and work
1359
01:50:34.399 --> 01:50:40.840
with each other, look for resources. You know, maybe family therapy,
1360
01:50:41.600 --> 01:50:46.720
yes, definitely family therapy, possibly
medication. Nobody's saying you need to start
1361
01:50:46.840 --> 01:50:51.319
off, you know, at the
very tippy top, you know, incrementally.
1362
01:50:51.439 --> 01:50:55.840
But everything, you know, because
I was listening to Tolerance talking about
1363
01:50:55.840 --> 01:50:59.560
why does everything have to have a
gray area? Well, because every situation
1364
01:50:59.680 --> 01:51:03.800
is different, every person is different, resources are different. The way you're
1365
01:51:03.800 --> 01:51:09.039
gonna treat an upper class, you
know, white family is not the same
1366
01:51:09.079 --> 01:51:15.159
way you're gonna treat the urban minority
family. You know. I just recently
1367
01:51:15.279 --> 01:51:17.920
found out, and this kind of
like feeds into that whole thing. I
1368
01:51:18.119 --> 01:51:25.159
just recently found out that I have
a d D inattentive add and I'm almost
1369
01:51:25.199 --> 01:51:30.800
fifty years old. So that that
was like an eye opening experience for me
1370
01:51:30.840 --> 01:51:33.439
because I did a lot of suffering
throughout my life, not because I had
1371
01:51:33.560 --> 01:51:39.520
parents who were straight off, not
even an island straight out of South America
1372
01:51:39.640 --> 01:51:42.880
talking about, oh, we don't
believe in that. You know, you're
1373
01:51:42.960 --> 01:51:46.159
just being lazy. You're doing this
or doing that. So, as we
1374
01:51:46.239 --> 01:51:50.000
say over here, I thugged it
out, you know, but I didn't
1375
01:51:50.039 --> 01:51:55.640
realize that I was actually suffering,
and it wasn't because it was only because
1376
01:51:55.880 --> 01:52:02.079
my sixteen year old actually was diagnosed
in the third grade with an attentive add
1377
01:52:02.479 --> 01:52:08.640
We didn't medically treat her because it
wasn't an issue for her life at the
1378
01:52:08.720 --> 01:52:13.800
moment. But as she got older, it started becoming an issue because it's
1379
01:52:13.840 --> 01:52:16.800
not the hyperactive kind, it's the
total opposite. It's more like a depressive
1380
01:52:16.880 --> 01:52:23.159
type. So it's only now that
she's growing into adulthood preparing to go to
1381
01:52:23.279 --> 01:52:28.960
college, that now it is becoming
an issue. And because getting her treated,
1382
01:52:29.079 --> 01:52:30.640
because I talked to her, she's
at an age where you know,
1383
01:52:30.800 --> 01:52:33.760
she can make that choice for herself. So I said, okay, mom,
1384
01:52:33.960 --> 01:52:36.359
these are the facts. And that's
the thing. People have to come
1385
01:52:36.439 --> 01:52:41.960
with the facts, not just your
opinions about what the government is doing and
1386
01:52:42.039 --> 01:52:45.000
all this other kind of stuff,
because yes, we know we live in
1387
01:52:45.079 --> 01:52:48.279
this corrupt society. People, people
are the ones that make the society the
1388
01:52:48.319 --> 01:52:51.640
way it is right, and so
that messes up the systems. But we
1389
01:52:51.760 --> 01:52:56.920
still have to navigate those systems,
and we have to do it with each
1390
01:52:57.079 --> 01:53:03.640
individual person's life in mind. So
I came to her at sixteen years old,
1391
01:53:03.720 --> 01:53:05.840
said, honey, do you want
to do this? This is the
1392
01:53:05.960 --> 01:53:11.600
potential risks, these are the potential
benefits. What do you think? So
1393
01:53:11.800 --> 01:53:15.239
she agreed to try, And sometimes
we have to try before we say no,
1394
01:53:15.439 --> 01:53:18.720
this is not gonna work. She's
doing well. Let me tell you,
1395
01:53:19.640 --> 01:53:24.279
after the forty six forty seven years
of my life of struggling, struggling,
1396
01:53:24.319 --> 01:53:29.560
struggling, I have never been more
productive. And I am taking medication.
1397
01:53:30.159 --> 01:53:32.920
You know, medication may not be
for everybody, But how about if
1398
01:53:33.000 --> 01:53:38.680
we check things out before we start
making these decisions. But unfortunately, that's
1399
01:53:38.720 --> 01:53:48.039
why there are great error because every
situation requires different you know, remedies.
1400
01:53:48.760 --> 01:53:55.039
You know. So as far as
this concern, I like what you're saying.
1401
01:53:55.399 --> 01:53:59.720
But what like I got? I
got prescribed to, I got prescribed,
1402
01:53:59.760 --> 01:54:01.760
Holy, I got diagnosed his own
biholder. I mean, can you
1403
01:54:01.840 --> 01:54:05.479
south right? Okay? I mean
another thing? Can you tell I don't
1404
01:54:05.479 --> 01:54:09.920
take medics? Because you know what, like like like like you know what,
1405
01:54:10.039 --> 01:54:13.800
the way I look at it,
it's like me on medication, Yeah,
1406
01:54:13.840 --> 01:54:15.840
you know what I was, you
know to people, I was safe.
1407
01:54:16.560 --> 01:54:19.199
You know what I'm saying. I
was a safe best you know me,
1408
01:54:19.520 --> 01:54:21.960
not on medication. What you see
is what you get, you know,
1409
01:54:23.079 --> 01:54:26.760
like you know, I don't know
whichever you know saying said my name?
1410
01:54:26.920 --> 01:54:28.800
Who cares? I don't know who? You know what I'm saying,
1411
01:54:28.960 --> 01:54:30.920
which Dub's gonna show? Right?
And I used to be worried about that.
1412
01:54:31.039 --> 01:54:33.439
Now I just don't care, you
know, Like I just don't care,
1413
01:54:33.880 --> 01:54:38.840
because you know what, I want
to experience, the full human experience,
1414
01:54:38.920 --> 01:54:42.920
whether it be manic or depressing,
I want to experience at all.
1415
01:54:43.640 --> 01:54:46.399
And that's that's how and and and
you know what, and that's how like
1416
01:54:46.479 --> 01:54:50.039
you know, like I've navigating through
it because you know what, them pills
1417
01:54:50.039 --> 01:54:53.960
don't make me feel like I'm human, you know, like I don't.
1418
01:54:54.000 --> 01:54:57.680
I don't feel like I'm alive.
I feel like I just barely exist.
1419
01:54:59.199 --> 01:55:02.840
And so choice, so that that
and that again, that's okay too,
1420
01:55:03.600 --> 01:55:08.800
that's okay to want that again,
but you're making that choice for yourself.
1421
01:55:09.319 --> 01:55:13.239
I can't make that choice for somebody
else. So that's what I'm saying.
1422
01:55:13.279 --> 01:55:17.479
Like it's different, you know,
like I totally respect you, you know,
1423
01:55:17.840 --> 01:55:23.800
your opinions, your thoughts and everything. Uh, sometimes I can't handle
1424
01:55:23.880 --> 01:55:28.880
it, but you know that.
But I I, uh, every show
1425
01:55:28.960 --> 01:55:34.760
needs a villain. And as you
can see by my arm and as you
1426
01:55:34.800 --> 01:55:39.000
can see by you know, saying
my picture, I am that guy.
1427
01:55:39.239 --> 01:55:43.319
You know, I'm all right so
so so so peep, so peep.
1428
01:55:43.960 --> 01:55:50.359
So you're talking about co parenting and
and making sure that the kid sees a
1429
01:55:50.479 --> 01:55:57.000
unified front. But what if,
like with this, with this this woman's
1430
01:55:57.000 --> 01:56:03.319
situation, what if you have a
parent, the father that that's completely filling
1431
01:56:03.359 --> 01:56:09.359
this kid's head up with. That's
why family therapy is important. Yeah,
1432
01:56:09.399 --> 01:56:13.800
And unfortunately you can't make people do
things that they don't want or willing to
1433
01:56:13.920 --> 01:56:16.119
do. Right, But what did
that woman do to that man? You
1434
01:56:16.159 --> 01:56:19.520
know what I'm saying that he has
like so much animosity. No, but
1435
01:56:19.640 --> 01:56:23.960
you know it doesn't matter what people
do to you. No, I No,
1436
01:56:24.359 --> 01:56:26.840
I get that, but like but
like you know what, like you
1437
01:56:26.840 --> 01:56:29.439
know what I'm saying, like you
like you gotta be one better? You
1438
01:56:29.439 --> 01:56:30.720
know what I'm saying, like like, I'm not attacking the female on this
1439
01:56:30.760 --> 01:56:35.680
one, I'm attacking the two.
Yeah, you gotta be you gotta be
1440
01:56:35.800 --> 01:56:41.000
so bitter, you know what I'm
saying, petty bitter whatever, you know,
1441
01:56:41.159 --> 01:56:43.399
like like you know what I'm saying, for you to hold the grudgs
1442
01:56:43.439 --> 01:56:45.720
like I mean for you to hold
the grudgs like that. Yeah, your
1443
01:56:45.760 --> 01:56:48.640
mom and ship you know what I'm
saying, But it's selfish just that and
1444
01:56:48.720 --> 01:56:51.399
the third like like yo, you
know what what like you know what?
1445
01:56:51.560 --> 01:56:55.640
Like like example, like I don't
get along with two of my you know
1446
01:56:55.640 --> 01:56:58.159
what I'm saying, baby mom,
Like really, I really don't. You
1447
01:56:58.199 --> 01:57:00.960
know what I'm saying. I don't
care for them. They don't care for
1448
01:57:00.079 --> 01:57:02.119
me. That's fine, you know
what I'm saying. But I never told
1449
01:57:02.439 --> 01:57:06.279
my kids this. Yeah whatever,
it's not about it's not about how the
1450
01:57:06.319 --> 01:57:12.560
adults feel. It's what's in the
best interest of this child, right absolutely,
1451
01:57:12.760 --> 01:57:17.199
like you know like that like that's
that's how that's how you know what
1452
01:57:17.199 --> 01:57:19.960
I'm saying experience wise, like like
you know that's how I took it,
1453
01:57:20.760 --> 01:57:23.960
however they took it. I mean, you know, they want to be
1454
01:57:24.000 --> 01:57:28.399
in their feelings fine, and I
can't think support them. I just don't
1455
01:57:28.399 --> 01:57:32.039
care about it, you know,
Like, but you can't stop being your
1456
01:57:32.159 --> 01:57:38.800
dad just because you have animosity towards
the parents. But job did, Like
1457
01:57:38.880 --> 01:57:42.000
you know what, one thing,
one thing I cannot do is like you
1458
01:57:42.039 --> 01:57:44.760
know what I'm saying, like you
know what I'm saying, try to turn
1459
01:57:44.880 --> 01:57:47.560
my kid against you know what I'm
saying his mom or her mom. I
1460
01:57:47.640 --> 01:57:50.840
can't do that, you know,
like, because you know what I'm saying
1461
01:57:50.880 --> 01:57:54.119
like that, just you know what
I'm saying that that just makes them you
1462
01:57:54.159 --> 01:57:55.920
know what I'm saying, catch another, you know, saying, catch another
1463
01:57:56.119 --> 01:57:58.600
w under their belt, you know, Like, no, I'm not going
1464
01:57:58.680 --> 01:58:00.920
to I'm not going to do this
satisfaction for you to see me bad.
1465
01:58:01.880 --> 01:58:05.760
I'm just gonna eat whatever you think, however you think, whatever, whatever
1466
01:58:05.880 --> 01:58:10.800
it is, and tell tell my
kid that's a story. That's all.
1467
01:58:11.720 --> 01:58:13.960
And you know what the truth is. We don't even have to tell him
1468
01:58:14.000 --> 01:58:17.279
anything. They will see it for
themselves. Oh yeah they will, they
1469
01:58:17.880 --> 01:58:21.399
go, oh yeah, they will. I mean, I was married sixty
1470
01:58:21.520 --> 01:58:26.640
years, I've been divorced for five. I don't have to say one thing
1471
01:58:26.800 --> 01:58:31.560
to my daughter, my youngest daughter
about her father. I'm so so very
1472
01:58:31.680 --> 01:58:35.680
blessed and lucky in some ways and
not so very blessed in others. But
1473
01:58:35.840 --> 01:58:41.640
I don't say anything to her one
way or the other except that he loves
1474
01:58:41.680 --> 01:58:45.640
her and that, you know,
anything that she has to say that about
1475
01:58:45.760 --> 01:58:47.800
him, that she needs to talk
to him about, especially because she's older.
1476
01:58:48.520 --> 01:58:51.239
You know, the truth of the
matter is, you know, whatever
1477
01:58:51.359 --> 01:58:54.720
kind of parent he's going to be, he's going to do on his own.
1478
01:58:55.079 --> 01:58:58.359
So he's either going to make or
break that relationship with her on his
1479
01:58:58.520 --> 01:59:00.920
own. And I don't have to
contribute anything. And I don't give other
1480
01:59:01.000 --> 01:59:05.800
people that kind of power over my
life to to make me bitter and angry,
1481
01:59:05.880 --> 01:59:10.000
because the truth is, at the
end of the day, I chose
1482
01:59:10.079 --> 01:59:13.760
them. I chose them to have
this family. I chose them to have
1483
01:59:13.920 --> 01:59:18.479
this kid. So it is what
it is. I'm a different person today
1484
01:59:18.520 --> 01:59:30.880
than I was yesterday. But I
have a real important question with up a
1485
01:59:30.000 --> 01:59:40.720
knee. Should we do bro?
You know what I'm saying, hold on,
1486
01:59:40.800 --> 01:59:43.720
hold on, guys, before you
answer, that's another part. I'm
1487
01:59:43.760 --> 01:59:45.720
glad you brought that up. For
that, I'm going to give you your
1488
01:59:45.800 --> 01:59:58.399
name back is it a roe or
a I got quoted on telling me that
1489
01:59:58.520 --> 02:00:10.399
they pronounced it were like like one
one because they also say yeah, he
1490
02:00:11.279 --> 02:00:15.479
look, take it easy. Don't
get it from them. So don't take
1491
02:00:17.079 --> 02:00:24.039
nobody's going with the white rice with
the black beans with That's how it is.
1492
02:00:24.199 --> 02:00:28.800
We don't do a We do white
rice and black beans. If you
1493
02:00:29.319 --> 02:00:31.760
my house for the holidays, y'all
get in both. Okay, so you
1494
02:00:31.880 --> 02:00:41.760
know that in my house that you
know? Another question? Chiplin or calleagreens
1495
02:00:43.960 --> 02:00:50.199
disgusting bro like pig feet. No, like the Piking testings. Oh,
1496
02:00:50.279 --> 02:00:59.520
the Tripes stuff. Chickens are different
from trip It's discussed. It's the stomach
1497
02:00:59.560 --> 02:01:05.439
lining. Right. But but but
but like, by the way, about
1498
02:01:05.439 --> 02:01:11.520
the gizzards. You guys like gizzards. You need the gizzards if it's fried.
1499
02:01:12.000 --> 02:01:13.800
You know what I'm saying with like
some fly on it. Yeah,
1500
02:01:13.960 --> 02:01:15.680
that's what it. Oh, it's
the same thing. Actually, chet Lands
1501
02:01:15.840 --> 02:01:20.039
is spawn tests as well. Yeah
but yeah, yeah, but you know
1502
02:01:20.119 --> 02:01:25.279
what though, like like it's different
coming from a pig at the postal cow.
1503
02:01:26.079 --> 02:01:38.039
Yeah, I need some senor rico. Oh my god, I missed
1504
02:01:38.079 --> 02:01:43.039
so many products. It's like yeah, but hold up though, like like
1505
02:01:43.199 --> 02:01:45.359
like first off, you know what
Lancaster is down there? Puerto rican so
1506
02:01:45.560 --> 02:01:47.960
is your you know what I'm saying, Like you can always go get them.
1507
02:01:48.159 --> 02:01:50.479
No, Lancaster is very white.
I don't know, I don't know
1508
02:01:50.680 --> 02:01:55.840
what you're talking about. Lancaster has
the Puerto Ricans for sure, and there
1509
02:01:55.920 --> 02:01:59.800
are nothing. But I'm not close
to Lancaster. I'm close to Harris b
1510
02:02:00.239 --> 02:02:08.720
Yes, Harris Hood they got but
but but but you know what, I've
1511
02:02:08.720 --> 02:02:12.079
been out tow York before, Like
like York has a lot of Puerto Ricans
1512
02:02:12.079 --> 02:02:15.079
out there, a lot of New
York has a lot of minorities. They
1513
02:02:15.119 --> 02:02:18.600
do a lot of them. Like
you know what, I was just confusing
1514
02:02:18.720 --> 02:02:23.399
York with New York. Forgive him. No, No, not York West
1515
02:02:23.479 --> 02:02:29.600
New York. They actually are.
It's more city like area. So basically
1516
02:02:29.680 --> 02:02:35.000
anything with Princester. I've been out
there before before, you know, I
1517
02:02:35.039 --> 02:02:40.199
mean so like New York so that
like there are towns just like there is
1518
02:02:40.279 --> 02:02:43.600
in Jersey that they're good parts and
bad parts. You know, I think
1519
02:02:43.680 --> 02:02:46.279
I thought York. I thought York
was was Amas. No, no,
1520
02:02:46.680 --> 02:02:53.159
no, Lancaster is that's Leancaster Lancaster
County is like they live in bird in
1521
02:02:53.319 --> 02:03:00.800
Hand and uh Marietta when like all
these freaking places. Well, my son
1522
02:03:00.880 --> 02:03:04.239
and I drove down to Maryland to
go see my daughter, right like we
1523
02:03:04.439 --> 02:03:08.600
actually passed up some buggies and whatever, and I'm like, holy ship,
1524
02:03:08.760 --> 02:03:11.720
look at this, you know what
I'm saying, and like and like you
1525
02:03:11.800 --> 02:03:14.520
know what, like you know what
I'm saying. Like I had a little
1526
02:03:14.560 --> 02:03:16.199
joke and I was like, yo, you know what, imagine living like
1527
02:03:16.319 --> 02:03:19.640
them. They ain't got they got
pay no property taxes. They ain't got
1528
02:03:19.760 --> 02:03:24.439
to pay nothing. They live off
the land. Are you talking about?
1529
02:03:24.439 --> 02:03:31.640
They don't have to pay property tax? Yes, they do. How Amish?
1530
02:03:31.920 --> 02:03:40.000
Okay, in the millions, millions. They make delicious pies, They
1531
02:03:40.039 --> 02:03:45.039
make delicious stuff. Everything has butter
in it. So the Amish go to
1532
02:03:45.159 --> 02:03:51.359
these auctions for these farms and they
bid in them to the millions for these
1533
02:03:51.399 --> 02:03:56.760
freaking farms. It's not even a
joke. People want to get farmland here,
1534
02:03:56.920 --> 02:04:00.239
and it's hard because the Amish are
like on it, on do it.
1535
02:04:01.359 --> 02:04:06.039
They just want to, you know, make sure that they take that
1536
02:04:06.279 --> 02:04:11.520
land and and use it for farming, because that's what they do. Okay,
1537
02:04:11.520 --> 02:04:14.039
I can tell you how much corn
we have here when it when it
1538
02:04:14.159 --> 02:04:20.479
grows, it's ridiculous. Like you
drive there's corn everywhere, there's cows everywhere.
1539
02:04:21.680 --> 02:04:26.399
It's smells so fucking bad. Like
that's the one thing I hate about
1540
02:04:26.439 --> 02:04:30.600
living in PA is like the nicest
days when you want to drive around with
1541
02:04:30.680 --> 02:04:34.560
your windows down, you can,
but it's gonna smell like fucking cowshit.
1542
02:04:34.840 --> 02:04:40.479
I think you're going to say your
governor. No, I I don't even
1543
02:04:40.560 --> 02:04:44.880
know who the governor is. So
there's that. So what's his name,
1544
02:04:45.159 --> 02:04:48.399
Big Sasquashian? Is he the governor? I thought he was a senator.
1545
02:04:51.920 --> 02:04:57.760
Yeah. He wears like sweatpants and
hoodies everywhere. It's disgusting, man,
1546
02:04:57.920 --> 02:05:02.760
he's just trend. I like that
fucking wear sweatpants and hoodies the fucking That's
1547
02:05:02.800 --> 02:05:06.840
how I think he met Joe Biden
that way, like he was wearing shorts.
1548
02:05:08.000 --> 02:05:11.239
And I'm a fucking champion, b
you know what I mean. Like,
1549
02:05:11.760 --> 02:05:15.800
let's get it right, I'm another
champion. You need to talk to
1550
02:05:15.920 --> 02:05:19.680
doves in that tone of voice,
not to yo, what yo? You
1551
02:05:19.720 --> 02:05:23.520
know what, y'all better watch your
tone because you know what I'm saying like
1552
02:05:23.640 --> 02:05:28.439
that does cappecate people? Man,
don't worry about that. Who stored?
1553
02:05:28.560 --> 02:05:30.479
Like, Yo, you know what? You know what I'm saying, Like,
1554
02:05:30.560 --> 02:05:30.840
Yo, you know what? Yeah, you know what? Where the
1555
02:05:30.920 --> 02:05:33.359
crime I snatched? I snatched a
crown with your head still attached to me?
1556
02:05:35.359 --> 02:05:39.640
I don't know. I was four
and ten and I knocked out at
1557
02:05:39.680 --> 02:05:42.479
thirteen and one. Team I don't
know, bro, because Yo, you
1558
02:05:42.520 --> 02:05:44.479
know what? Yo, you know
what? Because like you know what I'm
1559
02:05:44.479 --> 02:05:47.079
saying, freaking you know what I'm
saying, Tyreek h decided like set this
1560
02:05:47.199 --> 02:05:49.239
one out and all my players in
the show up. And I knew that
1561
02:05:49.279 --> 02:05:53.319
ship was going to happen. I
knew I knew it. I knew it.
1562
02:05:53.439 --> 02:05:57.560
Bro. So with all this but
all this being says, anybody got
1563
02:05:57.680 --> 02:06:00.880
last words for the night? He
Yo? Now man, Yeah, yeah,
1564
02:06:00.920 --> 02:06:05.279
you know what. Yeah, I'm
about to go. You're about to
1565
02:06:05.279 --> 02:06:08.359
do right now? My daughter you
know what I'm saying. My son is
1566
02:06:08.359 --> 02:06:11.520
sleeping, my son's sleeping over and
my daughter's sleeping right I'm about to wake
1567
02:06:11.560 --> 02:06:13.760
her up, right and like you
know what I'm saying, have my daughter
1568
02:06:13.880 --> 02:06:18.560
kicked my son in the face?
I like I I like to. I
1569
02:06:18.720 --> 02:06:21.239
like to be mischievous, especially when
it comes to my kids. I'm about
1570
02:06:21.239 --> 02:06:25.159
to give my son a wet willie. We're good, I'm like, shut
1571
02:06:25.239 --> 02:06:32.199
up, take it ill No,
all right, so we Yo, we've
1572
02:06:32.239 --> 02:06:36.600
been on two hours and six minutes
thirty four thirty five thirty six. That's
1573
02:06:36.600 --> 02:06:39.960
a long time. It's been a
while since we've been on this long.
1574
02:06:40.399 --> 02:06:41.960
Yeah. That's for really like,
like, yo, you know what,
1575
02:06:42.239 --> 02:06:44.359
quick story, right, I went
downstairs in my car because I'm like,
1576
02:06:44.399 --> 02:06:45.840
Yo, you know what I'm saying. I'm just gonna go to my car.
1577
02:06:46.000 --> 02:06:49.840
Whatever. Man, After forty five
minutes down there, man, I'm
1578
02:06:49.880 --> 02:06:55.159
like, nah, the same it. I'm just going I'm gonna I'm gonna
1579
02:06:55.159 --> 02:06:58.359
do this in the bathroom when we
say shit, I got you know what
1580
02:06:58.359 --> 02:07:01.119
I'm saying. At least I'm hot. You mean I'm gonna do it in
1581
02:07:01.199 --> 02:07:06.399
the bathroom. Like yeah, so
you know, like my daughter don't wake
1582
02:07:06.479 --> 02:07:11.520
up. I don't serve my girl, I don't my son, you know,
1583
02:07:11.680 --> 02:07:15.520
Like every now and then I have
to turn the micro off because okay,
1584
02:07:16.439 --> 02:07:19.159
I think for the next show,
we should do some battle rounds.
1585
02:07:19.319 --> 02:07:23.880
That's that's let's throw a couple of
topics in the hat, but then we
1586
02:07:24.159 --> 02:07:33.039
pick them on the spot, so
yeah, you don want to go yeah
1587
02:07:33.279 --> 02:07:35.880
yeah, got names like Lady G
and t G. And then we had
1588
02:07:35.920 --> 02:07:39.560
to go a battle round. Wrap
here. You couldn't you couldn't hold your
1589
02:07:39.600 --> 02:07:44.479
own I find that hard to believe. I'm sure you guys can a bar
1590
02:07:44.600 --> 02:07:47.840
or two together. We'll throw some
We'll throw some topics in the hat and
1591
02:07:47.920 --> 02:07:55.000
then pick them randomly. So nobody's
that's good, like the TG spend the
1592
02:07:55.039 --> 02:07:58.960
bar like my name is t G
and I'm here at the say you like
1593
02:08:05.560 --> 02:08:07.760
real quick. There's the rest of
my idea. Right, So two on
1594
02:08:07.880 --> 02:08:11.479
two battle rounds. That needs three
judges, right, so so there's always
1595
02:08:11.520 --> 02:08:16.800
gonna be h you know, it
could be it could be a unanimous decision.
1596
02:08:16.840 --> 02:08:22.760
It could be a split decision for
ignorance. Right then then always and
1597
02:08:22.840 --> 02:08:28.840
then the winner of that round,
maybe for a future show, becomes the
1598
02:08:28.159 --> 02:08:33.479
head host and we give big Coleon, you know what I'm saying, a
1599
02:08:33.520 --> 02:08:37.600
little bit break and then let that
person run the show the way they want,
1600
02:08:39.199 --> 02:08:41.600
all their topics whatever they want.
I don't know, just an idea,
1601
02:08:41.760 --> 02:08:46.000
I'm a competitive Well, Well we'll
look into all that that sounds pretty
1602
02:08:46.000 --> 02:08:50.399
good. I need to break can
I tell you that something? The truth
1603
02:08:50.520 --> 02:08:54.720
is is that fantasy is over and
I need something to be competitive at right,
1604
02:08:54.880 --> 02:09:00.640
So so use us, okay,
or like we're halfway to to a
1605
02:09:00.760 --> 02:09:03.640
league. Here we get five more
people on, we can start like a
1606
02:09:03.760 --> 02:09:07.960
podcast league, right and then and
that's that. Well, I'm going I'm
1607
02:09:07.960 --> 02:09:11.159
going once once the super Bowl,
once the super Bowl is over and done,
1608
02:09:11.159 --> 02:09:15.840
when I'm opening up the league again. So nice, yo, I
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want to start a new league,
broll. We'll discuss all that another time.
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Let's let's leave the ladies out of
the fantasy football. That's that's nothing.
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So so with that being said,
you know what I'm saying, this
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has been another episode of that this
might hear podcast. I'm big, Holy
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on, somebody say something. You
know you know who I am. I'm
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every he knows what you know?
How low? We had to say that
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right in the bathroom. In the
bathroom too, like did I hear the
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toilet in the background for like not
yet? Not yet, yo, because
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you know what I'm about to drop
a duce right it's won't be yeah,
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stop running the bath fom in the
background for cut it out? Ship.
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But I've been co that's up to
the dawn. Ladies, lady get me
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TG high. It's tolerance, so
yo, everybody, have a good night
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out. We're out. Be safe
and always remember that at some point what
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this my good night? Good bye,
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Bert Bert. They what's up?
Everybody? This is big cordon of that.
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This might hurt podcast coming to you
live. You know how we do?
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We bring in Lady G. She's
the first one to arrive. Always
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on time. Lady G was good
everything under the sun. And yes,
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that is me, always on time. Every waiting on I mean, everybody
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else is gonna be here. We're
just waiting on them. But while while
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we're waiting, you know what I'm
saying, how are you? I'm wonderful
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as always. I got a little
bit about it. Yeah, a little
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bit of the sniffles. Oh the
tg TG just popped in, But I
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don't I don't see her. Can
I just see her name? She was
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more on one second. I mean
no, it's still right. Oh,
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wait till it's fits, Wait till
she pops up. Anyway, So what's
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been good? Like? How's house? How did how did the new year
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start? For you? Everything was
great, you know, just I actually
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went to church so spent some time
with the Lord for the new year.
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Other than that, everything was smooth
sailing. It's the fourth day of the
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new year and still good. Hey, you can't, I mean, you
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know, whatever works? Yeah,
hold on a second, my chair.
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My computer chairs actings too. Yeah, it's not that it's rolling that keeps
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dropping. So if you know,
if you look on the screen and you
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notice that, like my hat is
showing it up my face, that's what's
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up. That's what's going on.
I think TG is having some technical difficulties.
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Let me see. Yeah, see
because it's still spinning. Let me
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see. Yeah, you don't have
to wait till she could figure that out.
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So anyway, yeah, and everything
and everything's cool, everything's good.
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There's a bunch of things we're probably
going to get into the night, one
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of them being, oh, look
who just popped in? Hold on you?
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What's up y'all? Like I'm high
ship right now? Bro? What
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you mean? Shrooms? Nigga shrooms? Bro? Just like you. I
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can hear myself. Can hear myself
too, No know what I'm saying.
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I can hear myself to your speakers. I don't even know what speakers is
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on? Bro? Damn this brand
new car bro? Hold on, yeah,
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I got to send a car on. Oh that's why. Hold on?
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Oh no, it's too too cold
to head be good now let me
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see. Nope, hear myself?
How about now? Hello? I think
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nope, I still hear myself.
Hold on, get it together, thot
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together? How about not let me? I still hear it. I don't
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know what to tell you, baby, I really don't. The only thing
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I know is that it is cold. I don't know what to do.
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Is if I talk, I'm gonna
hear everybody's gonna hear themselves. I don't
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hear nobody like like like, you
know what, I hear you, guys,
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and that's about it. Yeah,
but I hear an echo. I
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don't know why it's not coming from
from me or I got you on speakerphone.
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I mean, you know what,
I can change what it is?
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Yeah, do that change the head
phone? See what happens? Yeah,
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d G's trying to get in.
She said that she's having a problem with
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her WiFi. Mm hmmm yeah yeah, let's let's see. Yeah yo,
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how about no, no, no, I don't hear a thing. Good.
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Well, my headphones don't work on
this ship. But it sounds a
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lot better now. But now,
like you know what I'm saying, like
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like I hear you guys like minimum, but I hear you perfectly. How
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about now, no, I hear
you perfectly? Fine, al right,
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back all right, cool. So
TG is having some technical difficulties with her
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WiFi her man, I mean yeah
her, you know yeah, how is
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tolerance? Say, he's gonna be
a few minutes later, he said,
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he will be here, you know
what I mean. So that's what's up?
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So so dubbs. How is how
is your New Year? Yeah?
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How was how everything go? My? What your new year? Bro?
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Yo? First off, you know
what I'm saying, let's talk about New
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Year's It's just another day that the
ball drops. That's it. You know
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what I'm saying, Like it's the
dead of winter. Yo. You know
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what I'm saying that it's yo.
You know what I mean, Like what
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happened New Years is the same thing
that's going on today. Nothing changed,
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Okay, I mean so so so
so Yo. You know what, whenever
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someone comes out with that new Year, new me bullshit, I'll be like,
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man, shut the fuck up because
in the week, you know what
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I'm saying, in the week's show, you're going to be back to smoking
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math. So shut up. You
know what I mean. Shut up?
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You know nothing's gonna change. Way
to have club faith with people, bro,
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I worked report authority. You lose
all I used to work for port
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authority. I lost all fear for
humanity, right because like people see you
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do see some ship yo? You
know what, Yo, I've seen someone
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ship that. I'm like, I'm
like, yo, how the hell did
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you get hit by the train you
just got off of Explain that? And
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it was I see some interest in
my And it was right then and there
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where I was like, you know
what, Ultron was right, we are
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the virus human. You gotta go. Thanos was right, you know,
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like you know what I've been watching
like you know what I'm saying, Avenger
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Ship and like you know, like
you know, Batman or whatever lately,
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and I'm like, you know what
what happens if the hero is actually the
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villains, because you know what,
they want to keep the order of what
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it is, and the order of
what it is right now is not good.
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You know, you got your elite, you got your upper class,
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and then you got the middle class, and then you got the people scrammed,
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you know, scrambling for crumbs.
And that's so speaking speaking of E
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league, what's up with what's your
your take on that whole Jeffrey Epstein list
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release, Hm, Well, I
mean, you know, kind of new
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you know what, the fact that
Stephen Halkins was like, you don't say
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Stephen Hogan was the funniest one.
He just didn't care, you know,
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like my man was getting him off
on midgets, but yet he had a
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ls it couldn't even jerk off.
What was the whole point of going to
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seasand nothing on you works except for
your mind? Sometimes that's enough. Yeah,
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but you know what I'm saying,
Like, I don't know man was
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on that list? Do you don't
know what? Clinton? Oh not,
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that's not surprising. Trump clon,
that's not surprising either. What's Jackson?
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My Michael Jackson? Oh man?
You know what? All right? Checked
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this out? Right? Yo,
here's how I look at it. Right,
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If you went there one time without
knowing what was going on, and
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you never went back again because you
saw what was going on, Okay,
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right, but you've been there more
than once. No, you know what,
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You're just you're just fouled, absolutely, you know, because like because
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because you know what, like like
just because your name is on there.
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I mean you do have to give
the benefit of the doubt. Yeah,
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of course there's gonna be some names
on there that that you're gonna look at
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and say, you know, but
there's just there's just something like now,
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you know what, Yo, you
know what if you know what I'm saying,
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if a pope from the from the
Vatican was there, I mean,
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that would have surprised me. Oh
man, Yeah, I just I just
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think. I just think that not
everybody on the list, you know what
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I'm saying, is guilty of anything. But hold on, are we gonna
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find your name on that list?
Ship? Well? Because you you you're
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playing awfully hard to uh to defend
people. I ain't gonna find my name
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on ship. The only list you're
gonna find my name on is the list
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gonna get me a burger Friars online. Okay, that's it. That's the
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only list I'm gonna be on,
the the door dash list of people that
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are getting food. That's about it. I'm not on no fucking list.
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He ain't catch me on no list, especially your list like that. Yo,
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come out here, I'm gonna turn
bad boy. That's crazy. But
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I mean no, and all in
all seriousness though, I mean, you
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know you are guilty by association the
time. Who you're associated with is who
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you know what I'm saying? They
connected now now I heard. I heard.
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This is what I heard? It
started against? Uh how about now?
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Oh let me see, Nah,
you're still here. I still hear
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it. Ah, I got shut
this off. Damn new cars for real?
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Bro, Yeah, but I still
hear myself though. Hold on,
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man, can you hear yourself?
Now? Let me see yep, Ah,
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you just had it like what do
you do? Turn the car on
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cold? Oh? You turned the
car? How about now? Let me
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see now, I don't hear now. I came out here with gloves.
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Yeah, and I'm blanket and bro, I'll come out here again. I
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hear it. What I hear it
again? No? I don't what?
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Why is what the problem? What
is going on? Now? I hear
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you clearly, But I hear myself
sometimes not all the time, but a
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lot of the time I hear myself. I don't hear myself right now.
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I don't know what the fuck is
going on? You don't worry about it,
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You'll be honest. The voices in
my head right, you know,
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like, yeah, so how does
everybody's New Year? Didn't you just say
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it was any other day? So
it sounded like you didn't care, no,
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like like like yo, you know
what you know? You have you
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have bluetooth, dumb? Do I
have bluetooth on? Let me see no
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jo? Wait wait wait it's on. Hold on, I think I think
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that's what it is, the bluetooth. Was you good? Oh he was
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frozen? How about now, bro? Noah, I still hear that ship.
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It sounds crazy. Yeah, mm
hmm. You just get you just
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can't plug it into your phone and
and then and do it through your headset.
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Can you hear me? Now?
I hear you clearly. Hold on,
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hold up, wait not Yeah,
he's gonna have to do that ship
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again. This is ridiculous. Mm
hmm. Yeah. Anyway, t TG
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is having a difficult time. Oldo
here he is. Yeah, man,
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hit the wrong button? All right? All right? Back, so we
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get now right? Yeah? I
think I think so? Yeah. Yeah,
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yeah, I don't hear nothing at
all? Good? It is twain
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one degrees outside, is it really? Yeah? Well where I'm at,
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damn, I know that sounds like
a problem. Yeah, yeah, such
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as life? Yeah, so how
was how was how did everything? How
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did everything go with with with Christmas? I guess you know, like how
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that? How did that go?
Just end of the day? Right?
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So fuck it? I'm not I'm
not one for holidays, bro m right,
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you know what I mean, Like
I'm really not like like you know,
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like how like celebrating the holidays for
me is like having a straight faced
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orgasm. And why why why do
you feel that that is there's nothing to
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do about the holidays, like like
you know what it's like, you know
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what I'm saying, Like you're looking
at people, you know what I'm saying.
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From all right, it becomes a
Thanksgiving, right, you know,
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you got your whole family together being
okay, and then you know what I'm
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saying, Black Friday, you know
what I mean, Like you're you're there
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online, you know what I'm saying, spending money, you know what I'm
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saying to get shipped that you know
what I'm saying for people whatever, And
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it's like a pisson contest. I'm
gonna get there standing the third it's gonna
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be you know nah man, Right, I don't. I don't. I
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don't. I don't do holidays like
that. Yeah, but the way the
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way other people people celebrate their holiday
doesn't mean that that's how we have to
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do it. Like I don't participate
in any of the public grand standing and
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all that stuff. I celebrate me
and myself in the house and do what
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I find special because I'm not going
to let other people's actions, behaviors and
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thoughts impact you know what the holiday
is for me? Ooh, you from
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South Jersey? Aren't you actually South
America? But yes, I live in
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South Jersey. Yes, yeah,
because the way that impact you're like impact,
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I'm like, all right, yeah, I just want to let you
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know, right, it's not a
pork ro all right, tailor ham tailor
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ham. Okay, I don't eat
either one. So oh TG, what
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was good? How you feeling difficulties
there? Yeah? My computer won't work
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on one side of my room the
internet, like the Wi Fi for some
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reason. Like I set my desk
up over there in the corner and that's
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where I wanted to be doing things
because I don't want to be in the
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living room because my husband's in better
ready, and yeah, it wouldn't work.
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So I literally moved in front of
my television and the Wi Fi works.
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It's horrible. Mm hmm. It
must be a woman. What we're
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like stupid technical difficulty? Like how
stupid is the Wi Fi? The wall
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isn't made out of anything special,
trust me, I can't right, so
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like holdup though, like also the
press off you from like real civilization.
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I'm in civilization. I don't live
in the rural parts of p A.
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I live near Harrisburg. Harrisburg is
the capital of Pennsylvania, and it is
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I know, I've been there before, like but like some parts of Harrisburg
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the like Philly, and after that
it's like country. You know, there's
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a lot of parts of like Lancaster
County and many other county and then like
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you know, like like like driving
like towards Harrisburg, like you know,
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you pass the Lancaster and you see
like the Homage people mm hmm. You
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know, every time I see them, I think about where A. Yankovic.
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I don't know why weird? Okay, when you did that parody called
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Amage Paradise, you guys got mhmm
what who me? Yes, come on,
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bro, that's annoying me. You're
annoying. I don't starting. I
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won't be none, believe me.
Today's the day in the year, is
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the year, it's the whole new
year, you know, like it's like,
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you know what my mentality this year
is, I'm taking X because I'm
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shitting on everybody on the whole industry
taking egg flex gross like man, some
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colon blow and I'm ship on everybody. You don't move too much with your
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wife. No, it's okay,
No, it's dirty here, it's fine
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right in front of my bed.
Feedback is crazy, son, I'm all
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right, bro, there's nothing I
could do with me like, it's fine.
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We're gonna live. Yeah, we
so so TG. The quick question
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is what do you think about the
list? I haven't even looked at it.
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So names missing? How do you
How do you know whose names missing?
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Because you know what, like they're
like, oh, number thirty four
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redacted. That means like their names
are scratched out. Oh yeah, they're
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not going to show everybody. I'm
sure about Prince Charles got you know,
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a lot to say about that,
you know, like like like, yo,
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you know what on in a nutshell. There's a lot of fuck boys
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who we found out just like the
fuck boys, rich fuck boys. Who
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likes the fuck boys? That's what
it is. Yeah, you got a
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point, bro, there's a lot
of them too. Yeah. I wasn't
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surprised. Hey, hey here's a
shocker. Kevin Spacey's name was on it.
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Wow, what a shocker. Yeah, but but I heard he got
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a job with the Vatican. He's
trying to be a Catholic preict. He'll
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fit in. Well oh wow,
yasin, Yeah yeah he is. He
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was. What did you have to
bue tooth on again or something? Bro?
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Why the do I keep hearing it? Hold on, manue, man,
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you know what, but let you
put my headphones on. I thought
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you had him, Bro, you
know what I'm saying, because like my
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headphones wouldn't work. Pl you're gonna
have to send him head like you gotta
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look about I got I got great
pe So the watch now? Hello?
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Yeah, I'm not gonna go do
this ship Oh talk too? Bom mm
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hmmm. Still hear it? Hold
on, bro, Hey, I don't
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even gonna say he wants to ship
on everybody. We hear you. Sounds
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there we go. Yeah, now
now can you hear me? Now we
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hear you? Hello? Hello,
Hello, we hear you. Hear you.
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Oh, all technical difficulties today,
it'll work out two thousands all over.
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Yeah, all right, we hear
you. You just don't hear us.
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Right, he'll be back. He'll
be back. So many problems.
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Yeah, so anyway, so what's
up? No, I'm just fucking I
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got my eyes are bothering me.
It's but anyway, let's well all right,
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so I have to find I have
to find my book, man,
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I got I got a couple of
some people want some opinions on something.
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I just don't know how my book
is. You guys were talking about what
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the holidays. Yeah, yeah,
we're just we're just you know, just
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going over, just going over.
You know, he's back, yo,
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yo? Yeah what up? Man? All right? Yeah, all right,
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yeah but I heard a little bit. Doesn't sound too bad now stopped
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stop your whining crying. So anyway, you were just talking about the new
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year, and you know what we
did and you know like that. But
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I didn't even know it was midnight
yo, Like yo, like I said,
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man like, like you know,
like the only good thing was like
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you know, I spent time with
my daughter, I saw the ball drop
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of the same family stuff. That's
about it, you know what I'm saying.
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But it was just like a record
day though. Yeah, but it
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was just a regular day man,
like you know what I'm saying. Like
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it was like, like you know
what, I'm not a holiday person,
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man like, especially like you know, like like when it comes like around
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between November and in January. First, you know what I'm saying, Like
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when people start talking about holidays matters, look at you funny, man,
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like I'm like whatever, okay,
yeah, like with your daughter, you
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would think it would be now yo, you know what you know? Yo
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yo, you know what the thing
is? Man like? Like you know
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it's like it's like Christmas is like
I don't know, I don't know what
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it is about Christmas man like,
like you know, like I used to
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love Christmas and like I just grew
up to hate it. Maybe because you
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know what I'm saying, like like
like like you know what, like Thanksgiving,
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everything lost is meaning the family.
I'm sure your family dynamic has changed
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or like people the people being in
the family has changed. Like I get
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that, Like after my mom passed
and then my grandma passed, everything changed
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forget you're all right, you know
what y're here's the truth. Right.
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So like my oldest brother, like
that was the favorite house, Christmas was
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his favorite house, right, so
it was like he's not here no more.
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So it's like I look at Christmas
like a little funny like you know
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what I'm saying, Like I don't
want to tell your more. I get
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that, but this is what I
am going to say about that, because
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I think it's important. I've taken
a new look at life after my younger
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sister passed because I keep telling myself
she is not here to do the things
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that she could have wanted to do. I'm here, so I'm not gonna
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stop my life or go back or
you know, be sad. You're always
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going to be sad on holidays because
you're it's a reminder of the special people
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in your life who aren't there.
It's gonna be. It was nine years
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I lost my mom. Still feels
the same, I know. For Big
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C is the same thing. Like
we lost our mom around the same time.
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Years. It doesn't matter, like
it could be twenty five years that
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someone died now of course though,
like like like you know what, like
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like my brother passed away in twenty
eighteen, right, and like, yo,
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you know what, I'm not gonna
lie like you know, like my
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baby and sometimes like a wish like
like you know, like I tell her,
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I'm like, yo, you know
what, your uncle would have loved
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you. Then I'll just start crying
because like I missed that, you know,
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you know, what man anyway,
Anyways, you know what, I
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don't want to talk about my feelings
at a psychology class. Emotional dammage,
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you know, like you want to
talk about emotional damage. I'm a death
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fan. That's aenough emotional damage.
Definitely. Yeah, every season you do,
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I can't, yo, you know
what, I'm here thinking that this
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is going to be different. I
can't watch the football my daughter because I'm
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damned there spiked on the ground and
pissed off at the jump, like tell,
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you know what frustration like, like, yo, you know what?
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You know, you know what some
real ship, you know what I'm saying,
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like like you know, like after
the Raiders game, that was the
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last time I see, that's the
last time I even watched the Jets game.
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But then like you know, you
know, like my lady, you
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know, saying, got me dumb
Jets tickets for the twenty four So we
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went. Me and Big C went
right. I'm here and enjoying the game,
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and then they started sucking up as
always, and I'm like, I'm
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leaving a game mad as hell.
I'm like, what's the death on?
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I was like, yo, see
this, dudas want to watch these niggas
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Yo, I went, oh bro, I'm like, see there's the reason
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why don't watch these niggas. I'm
like, look at this bullshit. You
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know what I'm saying. Of course
you know what I mean. Game anyway,
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but you know, but yo,
you know what, it don't even
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matter, you know, because like
I just want you know what I'm saying,
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Like I don't know, I'm a
free agent now, I'm not a
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jaf fan no more, you know
what I'm saying, So they stop being
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childish. Show I'm not watching no
more games. That's it, yo,
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being a Jet fans, Like you
know what I'm saying, Like it's like
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being in a in a Stockholm syndrome. Abusive relationship, it is, you
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know because like you see, it
comes around right, like you know you're
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thinking, oh ring right, and
then only for them to like you don't
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smack your around or whatever because you've
burnt the pot roast. You know what
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I'm saying, It's abusive. Yo. I want a divorce, can't you?
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You were allowed, you were allowed
to divorce the Jets, and I
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think many people would understand I can't
do this it no more, you know,
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Like I don't care about that rod
of that ship. You know,
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I'm saying, I just want to
be happy to you know, because honestly,
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stress kills. So yeah, that
believe believe me? Man like like
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like watching the Jets man is like, you know, I'm surprised. I'm
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surprised. It's not a leader on
my arm with Pentonel in it. That's
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that's that's heavy. Are you going
to be a Giants fan? Now?
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I would never be of a Giants
fan? So all right, So so
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Peter has checked this out, so
I know, like Doves, doesn't I
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really feel like New Year's is a
he thinks it's just a regular day.
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But does anybody all right, but
does anybody look at it and say this
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year, I think I should work
on whatever? And you know that's got
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to be my stupid behind that feels
that way because I'm the one that controls
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how my days and years ago.
I don't care what everybody else is doing
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because it's not about them. It's
about me and mine. Man, I'm
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a perfect specimen, you know,
Like you know what I'm saying. When
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God made me, he broke the
mold. Though there's nothing nothing definitely broke
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on you like, yo, you
know what, I'm never wrong. The
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only time I've been wrong is when
I thought I was wrong, and even
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I thought is wrong. Period.
I stand on business and then I peel.
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I'm not into resolutions. I don't
believe in resolutions, but I do
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believe in you know, setting goals
every year, every week, every month,
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whatever it is, attainable things,
nothing crazy, like obviously I want
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to travel more, but you know
money needs to be there for that to
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happen. So it's like it's setting
a goal though, like we're hoping to
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go to Turkey this summer. Mm
hmmirky that gets to happen, so,
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oh my bad. He's talking about
the country I think of food, the
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actual country, yes, so you
know, yes, you know it's like
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what's that one part is like an
Asian other parts like in Africa or something
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like that. No, that's the
whole. That's a whole different region,
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right, yeah, your Turkey like
what like like like like I heard like
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one part like water the Mediterranean Sea
and that. Now you're making me look
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it up because I think, you
know, I don't know, you know
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what I'm saying, yo? You
know what it was one city that's like
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that's like what happened? What happened. The city lies on a different continent,
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and I think it was Istanbul or
Beauty Pest. I don't know,
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not Beauty Pest. There's one city
though, I mean it's close to Europe
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and Asia of them, yeah,
Asia, but the Middle East really like
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they have a lot of like Arab
immigrants now immigrants whatever they're called, and
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migrants, migrants, migrants. It's
changed a lot. Yeah, we we
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can't, we can't. We gotta
be careful with but you know what I'm
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saying, you can't see oriental anymore
either. We we've discussed that, okay,
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yeah, but but but but yo, you know what though, like
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that's funny that you said that,
because like I was looking at oriental flavor
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from rob and soup. How come
they're not saying it, Yes, oriental
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flavor, oriental rug, oriental nails, that's okay, But calling a human
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being oriental is not okay? About
oriental? How about yo? How about
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how about how about how about we
call this guy some dumb suck oriental express
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the oriental express that's right, they
have all the like no organal expresses like
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a train that goes from like to
me. Everybody first, Ah, maybe
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it's what happened. Maybe maybe it
happened to you, only everybody was fine.
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It was just me. Yeah yo
yo, no, don't even say
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that. The technical difficulties are going
all the way around. Yeah now,
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but for real, like those who's
on the Epstein list, they don't pay
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their illuminati monthly bill. That's that's
why their is. Actually it's not those
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that are redacted, you know what
I'm saying. They're like, your name
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is dead, but keep paying your
payment and you're good. They're probably congressmen.
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Yeah, absolutely, oh oh absolutely, like active congressmen. But that
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honestly should be public because you know, their constituents should know what they're doing.
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I agree, I agree. No
man, Look and then you know
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what, it's funny because like these
are the same people that's making up all
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these fucked up laws just to turn
around, you know what I'm saying,
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that break the law. Those crazy
Republicans, like the very to the right
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right people that have started to really
make their way into Congress. They are
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like they have the idea that the
Democrats have this whole pedophilia ring and the
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pizza gate that happened, and they
eat babies and all this other the crazy
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thing is, Yeah, the crazy
thing is is that a lot of these
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Republicans are actual predators. And so
it's like so funny to me, like
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they're talking shit about like other people. And I'm sure they're people that are
393
00:36:39.480 --> 00:36:43.840
Democrats too, Don't get me wrong. I think it's just people in general.
394
00:36:43.960 --> 00:36:47.199
It doesn't matter what you have.
It's always a lot as ones that
395
00:36:47.280 --> 00:36:55.480
you know, how do you babies? They stay looking young, That's what
396
00:36:55.519 --> 00:37:00.920
they say. Hollywood. Hollywood looks
young because it's not a plastic surgery that
397
00:37:00.960 --> 00:37:05.079
they pay thousands of dollars for.
No, it's the baby there eating.
398
00:37:05.239 --> 00:37:07.760
Yeah. But you know what though, like you know what what you're just
399
00:37:07.800 --> 00:37:12.039
saying is like you know what I'm
saying, like Satanic rituals though, right
400
00:37:12.239 --> 00:37:16.000
right, because that's like like I
work. But but you know what though,
401
00:37:16.039 --> 00:37:22.199
like DM yo, you know what, that's something that you know what
402
00:37:22.199 --> 00:37:24.280
I mean? Like that's either you
know what I'm saying here or they're like
403
00:37:24.320 --> 00:37:27.920
you know what I'm saying, like
like we got to be prepared to discuss
404
00:37:27.960 --> 00:37:30.679
that one, you know what I
mean. But like but like all those
405
00:37:30.760 --> 00:37:32.679
names that you see there, you
know what I'm saying, Like they're like
406
00:37:32.800 --> 00:37:37.360
speaking quote unquote elite you know what
I mean, Like they participate you know
407
00:37:37.360 --> 00:37:40.760
what I'm saying in these rituals.
You know what i mean. M So
408
00:37:40.800 --> 00:37:45.320
it's like so so it was like
what you expect, you know, like
409
00:37:47.760 --> 00:37:52.159
you know what come to think,
you know, into like swinger ship and
410
00:37:52.360 --> 00:37:57.159
like all though there see I don't, I don't. Look. Let me
411
00:37:57.159 --> 00:38:00.559
tell you something. That's that swing
of ship. That ship is not that.
412
00:38:00.559 --> 00:38:05.000
That shit is not definitely not for
a lot of people. Hey.
413
00:38:05.000 --> 00:38:07.480
The only thing, the only thing, the only think I'm swinging, yo,
414
00:38:07.519 --> 00:38:10.559
the only thing I'm swinging is my
back and my nuts. That's it,
415
00:38:10.719 --> 00:38:13.599
you know what I'm saying, Like
I'm not doing that swinging ship.
416
00:38:13.639 --> 00:38:16.320
Bro. Like yo, when you
invite that ship into your life, yo,
417
00:38:17.159 --> 00:38:23.480
a disaster coming man. Yeah.
From personal experience. No, no,
418
00:38:23.480 --> 00:38:29.239
no, I've no, no,
I've I've come across people that that
419
00:38:29.559 --> 00:38:34.000
have told me things like that.
They're like, yo, hey, look
420
00:38:34.039 --> 00:38:36.599
man, like it's true. You
know what I mean, Like like you
421
00:38:36.639 --> 00:38:38.039
know, like what you open?
You know what I'm saying. It's like
422
00:38:38.360 --> 00:38:40.920
it's like you know what you open? You know you're opening the door,
423
00:38:42.599 --> 00:38:45.320
right, you know what I'm saying. And like you think what you think
424
00:38:45.320 --> 00:38:49.639
you're walking into, it's not really
that, you know what I'm saying,
425
00:38:49.639 --> 00:38:53.400
it's other things, you know,
and like it just gets messy quick,
426
00:38:54.280 --> 00:38:58.679
you know. But like but like
the thing is that people that swing or
427
00:38:58.719 --> 00:39:00.000
whatever, like they wouldn't you know
what I'm saying, Like you know what
428
00:39:00.000 --> 00:39:02.559
I'm saying, They feel like they
got control whatever because they're getting the nut
429
00:39:02.639 --> 00:39:07.639
off or whatever with other other people
and whatever. But it comes back,
430
00:39:07.679 --> 00:39:12.480
you know what I'm saying, Like
there's a blowback to it, you know,
431
00:39:12.599 --> 00:39:15.039
Like especially like you know what I'm
saying. If you're like in public
432
00:39:15.079 --> 00:39:20.480
figures and you know, oh yeah, you know what I'm saying, someone's
433
00:39:20.519 --> 00:39:22.000
piping your wife or whatever. You
know what I'm saying. In this society,
434
00:39:22.000 --> 00:39:24.119
you know what I'm saying, Like
we're gonna look at the husband like
435
00:39:24.320 --> 00:39:28.519
you cook. You know what I'm
saying, You weak bitch. You know
436
00:39:28.559 --> 00:39:30.800
what I'm saying. You might as
well just weark gimsuit from pulp fiction or
437
00:39:30.800 --> 00:39:37.760
whatever. Freaking gimp. You know
what I'm saying, Like like like yo,
438
00:39:37.800 --> 00:39:40.320
you know what, Like like yo, you know what, Like imagine
439
00:39:40.360 --> 00:39:43.360
you know what I'm saying. Your
significant others you know what I mean,
440
00:39:43.440 --> 00:39:46.760
Like pipe is someone in front of
you, We're getting piped in front of
441
00:39:46.760 --> 00:39:50.599
you and you just sitting there and
watch. You know what I'm saying,
442
00:39:50.639 --> 00:39:53.679
Like no, man like, no, yeah, that's that's too much.
443
00:39:53.960 --> 00:39:58.679
That's too much. Not nah,
Yo, you know what now you know
444
00:39:58.719 --> 00:40:00.000
what I'm saying. Like if it's
a someone that you know what I'm saying,
445
00:40:00.039 --> 00:40:02.480
like you just met in the club
or whatever, and like you and
446
00:40:02.559 --> 00:40:07.559
your boy gonna you know, cho
cho, then that's one thing, you
447
00:40:07.599 --> 00:40:12.320
know what I'm saying. But like
you know, but not even but like
448
00:40:12.400 --> 00:40:15.519
yo, you know what man like, Like that's the person that you made
449
00:40:15.599 --> 00:40:17.719
vows to yo. Like like certain
things you know what I'm saying, Like
450
00:40:19.239 --> 00:40:23.519
certain things are like off limits period. Yeah. Unfortunately that's not for everybody
451
00:40:23.559 --> 00:40:28.079
though, you know, like some
people, like the people who can't live
452
00:40:28.119 --> 00:40:31.440
without chaos in their life. It's
the same thing. It's like they they've
453
00:40:31.519 --> 00:40:36.559
done so many crazy things that nothing, nothing phases them anymore, so they
454
00:40:36.639 --> 00:40:40.360
got to go on to the next
crazy thing just to get excited or just
455
00:40:40.440 --> 00:40:45.960
to you know, be entertained.
Yeah, true, at true, And
456
00:40:45.000 --> 00:40:49.039
you know what though, like that's
how people get sucked up. Yeah,
457
00:40:49.599 --> 00:40:52.360
you know what I'm saying, because
like because like since you're like, you
458
00:40:52.360 --> 00:40:54.559
know what I'm saying, chaotic shit. You know what I'm saying. When
459
00:40:54.559 --> 00:40:59.039
you get fucked up chaotically, you
don't say nothing right plain about it.
460
00:40:59.239 --> 00:41:00.599
You know. Like like I said, you know what, you open that
461
00:41:00.639 --> 00:41:04.800
door to that. So since you
want to open doors or whatever, you
462
00:41:04.840 --> 00:41:10.159
no, fine, be prepared for
us behind that door. Yeah, you
463
00:41:10.559 --> 00:41:15.039
gotta deal with that ship. You
gotta deal with it because if you don't,
464
00:41:15.079 --> 00:41:17.679
if you don't, if you open
the door, you brought it.
465
00:41:19.199 --> 00:41:22.119
You brought. You brought it on
yourself, and you're gonna exactly You're gonna
466
00:41:22.159 --> 00:41:23.360
have to find it. You're gonna
have to try and figure out a way
467
00:41:23.400 --> 00:41:29.559
to to deal with it. Hey, Yo, you know what, Like
468
00:41:29.639 --> 00:41:30.559
I'm like, I'm the one one
in the shower. I feel like I'm
469
00:41:30.599 --> 00:41:38.880
Batman. I'm Batman. I'm Batman, you know, like, like think
470
00:41:38.920 --> 00:41:42.199
about it. Bro, anyways,
you know what I'm just killing right now.
471
00:41:43.599 --> 00:41:46.599
That's good. That's good. So
all right, let's let's let's have
472
00:41:46.679 --> 00:41:55.320
a I got I gotta I'm trying
to figure out where the fuck my ship
473
00:41:55.440 --> 00:41:59.960
is that so I can tell y'all. What the fuck is dude? Say?
474
00:42:01.039 --> 00:42:07.760
But I can't find that ship?
TG, tell me a story,
475
00:42:07.840 --> 00:42:13.039
a story? What a plant of
time? There was blood everywhere? Yeah,
476
00:42:14.800 --> 00:42:21.000
exactly once upon time? You know
what happened? Well? And yo,
477
00:42:21.079 --> 00:42:22.480
hold on real quick. That's the
story with Tell my daughter, daddy,
478
00:42:22.480 --> 00:42:24.880
tell me bedtime story. Okay,
what's a ton of time? The
479
00:42:25.079 --> 00:42:28.719
prince and the princess. You know
what I'm saying. The princess got caught
480
00:42:28.760 --> 00:42:30.119
cheating, so the prince took got
a knife. It's let a throat.
481
00:42:30.159 --> 00:42:38.039
There was blood everywhere the end,
TG, what's up? No, I
482
00:42:38.119 --> 00:42:44.119
recently watched the movie last night.
We watched a movie, h The Impossible.
483
00:42:44.199 --> 00:42:47.679
Have you ever seen it? It's
from twenty eighteen, I think no,
484
00:42:47.800 --> 00:42:54.079
I've never even heard of it about
Naomi Watts, isn't it And Awyn
485
00:42:54.280 --> 00:43:00.679
McGregor I always say his name?
Are you win? And this Spider Man
486
00:43:00.760 --> 00:43:05.159
kid is in it too, but
like he's a kid in it, Like
487
00:43:05.199 --> 00:43:07.920
what's his name? I don't know? Holland the one going out with U
488
00:43:08.119 --> 00:43:15.760
Zendaya. Yeah, Tom Holland.
So so it's based on the true story
489
00:43:15.039 --> 00:43:23.480
of the tsunami that hit off at
the day after Christmas in Thailand. So
490
00:43:23.519 --> 00:43:28.440
the movie just they show you like
the day before and day of of what
491
00:43:28.599 --> 00:43:37.639
happens, and then somehow this family
of five survived. The mom got h
492
00:43:40.440 --> 00:43:44.679
But look at this really quick,
I'm sorry, but really quick, look
493
00:43:44.679 --> 00:43:46.719
at this. I'm sorry, look
at this, Look at this. Are
494
00:43:46.760 --> 00:44:01.159
we on CNN and now we're having
the most Oh Jesus, so yeah,
495
00:44:02.760 --> 00:44:07.199
hello, lady g in the house? Is that Doug? We got the
496
00:44:07.199 --> 00:44:13.559
whole set here? Yeah, interrupt. I had to download Google Chrome,
497
00:44:13.599 --> 00:44:15.000
man, because I'm like, I'm
old school man. This is all there's
498
00:44:15.039 --> 00:44:21.280
all high text stuff for me.
But oh my god, on Google Chrome.
499
00:44:21.960 --> 00:44:24.360
Oh know, is this for the
crib this laptop? I have computers
500
00:44:24.360 --> 00:44:28.559
at work. I'm dealing with this
just for the house. But I got
501
00:44:28.559 --> 00:44:34.599
it now. I downloaded it,
and I wouldn't be here. Thank you
502
00:44:34.639 --> 00:44:40.400
for everybody. Happy to do here. I didn't say that before. Yeah,
503
00:44:40.559 --> 00:44:45.880
t I'm sorry saying I was just
talking about the movie The Impossible,
504
00:44:45.280 --> 00:44:52.039
that is dealing with the tsunami that
hit Thailand and the story of this family.
505
00:44:52.440 --> 00:44:54.159
So we're like watching the whole movie, and they did a really good
506
00:44:54.199 --> 00:44:59.920
job actually, and the actors did
a very good job too. It's a
507
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:01.960
actually crazy. I think it's worth
watching just so you can see what the
508
00:45:02.079 --> 00:45:06.239
experience would be if you want to
see what the experience would be if a
509
00:45:06.239 --> 00:45:10.280
tsunami were to hit if you were
in Thailand, because you definitely don't want
510
00:45:10.280 --> 00:45:14.760
that ever, And I know Japan
recently had an earthquake, so I'm like
511
00:45:14.840 --> 00:45:20.119
waiting for tsunami to happen because like
that's when it happens, yo, you
512
00:45:20.119 --> 00:45:22.920
know what. But then it happened
though. Yeah, that movie sad as
513
00:45:22.920 --> 00:45:28.920
hell? Man, Why the but
I brought it up because what's crazy about
514
00:45:29.000 --> 00:45:32.719
it is that it's based on a
true story. The real people were from
515
00:45:32.719 --> 00:45:38.400
Spain. They got these white people
playing British like they were playing like they
516
00:45:38.400 --> 00:45:44.599
were British coming from Meanwhile, the
people when they show their names and everything,
517
00:45:44.639 --> 00:45:46.559
they all have accents. They're they're
Spanish. And I was like,
518
00:45:46.960 --> 00:45:50.599
isn't that some ship. I'm gonna
give you. I'm gonna give you two
519
00:45:50.639 --> 00:45:53.960
good movies coming up in the first
quarter of this year. The first one
520
00:45:54.079 --> 00:46:06.320
is called uh Now Society. It's
from forgive Me if if if I'm mistaken
521
00:46:06.360 --> 00:46:08.440
here. But I want to say
the Argentinian soccer team in the seventies that
522
00:46:08.519 --> 00:46:13.599
crashed in the andies. Yeah,
at yo, But but hold up,
523
00:46:13.599 --> 00:46:16.840
though they already made a movie called
Alive Flash. First of all, I'm
524
00:46:16.840 --> 00:46:19.960
gonna tell you let me get into
it, because I knew you were going
525
00:46:20.039 --> 00:46:22.079
to go with that. There's no
comparison, and I'm going to tell you
526
00:46:22.079 --> 00:46:29.599
what the differences This movie was done
with the permission and interaction and the families
527
00:46:29.679 --> 00:46:35.639
and surviving people from that crash.
That's number one. Number two, the
528
00:46:35.800 --> 00:46:42.039
cast is actually from their country,
most of them. Like, dude,
529
00:46:42.079 --> 00:46:45.119
you have like Ethan Hawke playing an
Argentinian dude in Alive, Like, you
530
00:46:45.119 --> 00:46:52.079
can't compare this movie and the fact
that the surviving, the surviving people that
531
00:46:52.199 --> 00:46:55.000
were involved, and really like it's
a huge difference. It's worth watching.
532
00:46:55.000 --> 00:46:59.320
This is subtitles, but if you
understand Spanish, then your golden or you
533
00:46:59.360 --> 00:47:05.719
speak Spanish. The second movie that's
a little bit more mainstream is the next
534
00:47:05.960 --> 00:47:10.440
part of Planet of the Apes.
Oh, I can't wait to see that.
535
00:47:10.440 --> 00:47:15.800
That movie right there. I'm over
the superhero ship man. I'm the
536
00:47:15.920 --> 00:47:19.880
last canful. I know those you
go see them religiously. I know it's
537
00:47:20.639 --> 00:47:24.360
you know, too many I know
you and your daughter. That's a tradition.
538
00:47:24.519 --> 00:47:28.719
I get it, but yo,
be between Marvel and DC, I
539
00:47:28.719 --> 00:47:30.519
can't take them anymore. But look
out for those two movies, amongst a
540
00:47:30.559 --> 00:47:34.559
few others, but those two,
those two right there. Yeah, I
541
00:47:34.599 --> 00:47:43.599
heard the supposed to after right?
Is now the timeline go coincides with when
542
00:47:43.639 --> 00:47:46.199
the show started. And the show
started, it was already Planet of the
543
00:47:46.199 --> 00:47:51.440
Apes. Yeah, it's caught up
and they have not. That's one franchise
544
00:47:51.880 --> 00:47:54.960
that they have not dropped the ball
with. Bro. They've done those movies
545
00:47:57.079 --> 00:48:01.280
to the They've done them so much
justice and they space them ount and and
546
00:48:01.320 --> 00:48:07.480
like yeah, I mean, yo, yo, you know what since like
547
00:48:07.480 --> 00:48:08.519
you guys a movie but you heard
that? You heard of that movie?
548
00:48:08.519 --> 00:48:14.320
What's his name? Mom? Wan? He's Mexican. He's a Mexican John
549
00:48:14.360 --> 00:48:20.679
Wick, but they call him wand
Wick. Right, you know what I'm
550
00:48:20.719 --> 00:48:23.719
saying, you know, like like
like like yo, all right, so
551
00:48:23.960 --> 00:48:27.400
the plot is right, you know
what I'm saying, Like Wan just walking
552
00:48:27.440 --> 00:48:30.360
to Mexico City, you know what
I'm saying. And like so I'm like,
553
00:48:30.400 --> 00:48:31.119
you know what I'm saying, Cartel
dude, you know what I'm saying,
554
00:48:31.119 --> 00:48:34.239
like, you know, here's you
know that taco stand? You know
555
00:48:34.239 --> 00:48:36.400
what I'm saying. You know how
you know how John Wick kills for his
556
00:48:36.440 --> 00:48:42.400
dog, Well, Wan Wick kills
because someone sucked up his taco. You
557
00:48:42.440 --> 00:48:52.280
know what I'm saying. They turned
his puppy into tacos. Wow. No,
558
00:48:52.199 --> 00:48:55.559
no, you know what that that
that's a that's an Asian version.
559
00:49:00.199 --> 00:49:04.519
I got a question. I'll try
to that. I'll try to buy my
560
00:49:04.599 --> 00:49:06.840
bug. But like, but like
my doctor says, I don't have people
561
00:49:07.599 --> 00:49:12.119
I got I got, I know, I don't know what you guys can
562
00:49:12.159 --> 00:49:15.880
give me your POV on it.
But how old? Like how old is
563
00:49:15.960 --> 00:49:21.320
too old for a parent to help
their child out? Like we're talking from
564
00:49:21.400 --> 00:49:27.920
adulthood up, I'm not talking about
like bro. Yeah, Like okay,
565
00:49:27.920 --> 00:49:31.480
so it's just that black and white. I mean, it depends your family
566
00:49:31.559 --> 00:49:36.599
and how your family dynamic is.
You can't just be like hey ma,
567
00:49:37.159 --> 00:49:44.760
but I mean I think you don't
think yeah, so here So here's here's
568
00:49:45.079 --> 00:49:51.440
so here's the question, like where
do you separate like trying to trying to
569
00:49:51.480 --> 00:49:53.920
teach them. I don't want to
say a lesson, but how do you
570
00:49:53.920 --> 00:49:58.840
set boundaries? Not to set boundaries
because there's no crossing the boundaries, just
571
00:49:58.880 --> 00:50:02.559
trying to trying to how do you
how do you like clip somebody's wings right
572
00:50:02.719 --> 00:50:08.559
or I mean let them fly right
without clipping their wings, and but yet
573
00:50:08.679 --> 00:50:14.000
like helping them? Mind, how
do you do enough? Too much without
574
00:50:14.119 --> 00:50:19.079
financial support? Is yo? You
know what? You don't know what you
575
00:50:19.159 --> 00:50:21.320
don't like? Like like yo,
you know what, sometimes you gotta let
576
00:50:21.360 --> 00:50:27.119
them fall, pick them up on
their face. Support you. I need
577
00:50:27.159 --> 00:50:30.079
to understand the situation. Yeah,
you know what, you know in particular
578
00:50:30.159 --> 00:50:34.960
situation. I'm just I'm just asking
in general. I think you know what
579
00:50:35.360 --> 00:50:38.039
your peacocks, you gotta let them
fly, even though peacocks don't fly right
580
00:50:38.119 --> 00:50:42.039
like so so right, that's the
that's the you know, there's no specific
581
00:50:42.159 --> 00:50:45.599
situation. It's just it's it could
be a tricky situation. You know.
582
00:50:45.679 --> 00:50:49.239
For those of us who have children
that are adults, you know you want
583
00:50:49.239 --> 00:50:51.239
to you want them to learn,
you want to help. I mean,
584
00:50:51.639 --> 00:50:55.199
there's a difference between supporting and enabling. No, I'm betting talking about supporting
585
00:50:55.239 --> 00:50:59.480
here or enabling because I don't I'm
not be for that ship. Like I'm
586
00:50:59.480 --> 00:51:04.239
not the one you ain't gonna get
that from me. Support comes into all
587
00:51:04.320 --> 00:51:07.960
kinds of forms. Support isn't just
financial support is you know, you just
588
00:51:08.000 --> 00:51:12.199
got to divorce, you have nowhere
to live. You can stay here until
589
00:51:12.199 --> 00:51:16.199
you get back on your feet.
Maybe you know stuff like that if somebody
590
00:51:16.320 --> 00:51:19.159
or you know what, you know
what support is. You know what I'm
591
00:51:19.159 --> 00:51:21.519
saying, like like like you know
what, let's just say you know your
592
00:51:21.519 --> 00:51:23.400
son's out on his own or whatever, and then you know what I'm saying,
593
00:51:23.679 --> 00:51:25.440
like, Yo, you know what, and you know what I'm saying.
594
00:51:25.480 --> 00:51:28.679
You know how like this, you
know what I'm saying. When the
595
00:51:28.719 --> 00:51:30.719
sun shine, it shine so bright. But yo, when it rains,
596
00:51:31.119 --> 00:51:35.760
it pours. And sometimes you know
what I'm saying, that's that little storm
597
00:51:35.760 --> 00:51:37.920
turns into a hurricane. So like
so sometimes you know what I'm saying.
598
00:51:38.000 --> 00:51:42.519
If your kid got to come home, we come home. You know,
599
00:51:43.280 --> 00:51:46.280
I love it. When I was
one week before my seventeenth birthday and I
600
00:51:46.280 --> 00:51:51.000
went back to my mom's crib ones
for like two days because I needed like
601
00:51:51.079 --> 00:51:54.159
a place to stay while I was
transitioning. So you know, from that
602
00:51:54.559 --> 00:52:00.960
point of view, I would say, like not that mom hasn't helped me
603
00:52:00.000 --> 00:52:05.039
out since I became an adult.
But it wasn't you know, it wasn't
604
00:52:05.039 --> 00:52:08.239
anything out of this world. I
mean, the moral support was there,
605
00:52:08.760 --> 00:52:12.599
you know. So I guess my
question comes down to, like, you
606
00:52:12.639 --> 00:52:14.920
know, as parents, do we
ever get to a point where we're like,
607
00:52:14.960 --> 00:52:16.360
yo, man, these people are
adults. Like you know, it
608
00:52:16.480 --> 00:52:20.599
is what it is. I did
what I had to do, and no
609
00:52:20.920 --> 00:52:25.920
I got no no. Hey,
look, you know what, I'm gonna
610
00:52:25.920 --> 00:52:28.960
be honest with you. You know
what I'm saying, like like let's just
611
00:52:28.960 --> 00:52:30.840
say, if I got to go
back to my parents' house like tonight right
612
00:52:30.840 --> 00:52:34.719
now, you know what I'm saying, there's always going to be an open
613
00:52:34.800 --> 00:52:37.159
door for me. Now, I
don't know, to make sure they ain't
614
00:52:37.239 --> 00:52:45.599
busy, bro, No folks,
yo, of course of course you know
615
00:52:45.559 --> 00:52:46.920
what I'm saying, Like of course
they're getting a call, but like you
616
00:52:46.960 --> 00:52:52.000
know what they passion the party and
ship man yeah, yo of course yo.
617
00:52:52.079 --> 00:52:53.880
But like yo, you know what
though, like like I know for
618
00:52:53.920 --> 00:52:55.679
a fact that you know what I'm
saying, like I always be there with
619
00:52:55.679 --> 00:53:00.280
open arms, you know, you
know what I'm saying, and like like
620
00:53:00.360 --> 00:53:01.320
yo, you know what, like
like the way, like the way how
621
00:53:01.320 --> 00:53:06.079
my parents treat me the way I'm
gonna treat my kids like slaves. Yeah,
622
00:53:06.320 --> 00:53:09.480
no, like slaves, not to
play. Look at him like he's
623
00:53:09.519 --> 00:53:13.599
my baby. That's you know,
that's that's just that's why I'm getting at
624
00:53:13.719 --> 00:53:17.039
Like if it wasn't a good person, I would's And there's no specific like
625
00:53:17.880 --> 00:53:21.840
it's just you know, thoughts across
my mind. Like he's in the dog,
626
00:53:21.960 --> 00:53:23.920
you know, he's figuring things out. He's growing. Of course,
627
00:53:23.960 --> 00:53:28.239
you know, my wife and I
help so forth and so on. But
628
00:53:28.280 --> 00:53:30.440
he's he's at that point in his
life where he's he's figuring things out and
629
00:53:30.480 --> 00:53:32.960
he's trying to get to the next
level. Hey look, you know what
630
00:53:34.000 --> 00:53:37.000
my son's want to be like just
where this hell like all the time?
631
00:53:37.039 --> 00:53:39.119
You know, yeah, yeah,
bro, I get it. I yo
632
00:53:39.199 --> 00:53:42.239
yo, you know what, Yo, We're on the same boat man because
633
00:53:42.280 --> 00:53:45.519
like because like you know what,
my little man is twenty one years old,
634
00:53:45.159 --> 00:53:49.239
you know what I'm saying, and
like he's figuring things out or whatever.
635
00:53:49.639 --> 00:53:52.119
You know what I'm saying, Like
I try not to get involved.
636
00:53:52.679 --> 00:53:54.039
I just try to be there,
like you know, like what I'm saying
637
00:53:54.039 --> 00:53:58.679
to talk so more like just be
that ear, you know, like I
638
00:53:58.760 --> 00:54:00.920
try not to get involved and like
trying not to put pressure like sometimes you
639
00:54:00.920 --> 00:54:02.559
know what I'm saying, but like, since he's twenty one years old,
640
00:54:02.559 --> 00:54:05.719
you know, he's out there in
the world, Like I'll be missing my
641
00:54:05.760 --> 00:54:07.519
son, bro. You know what
I'm saying, be calling him up with
642
00:54:07.559 --> 00:54:08.280
you know, saying, yelling at
him and ship. You know I'm saying,
643
00:54:08.280 --> 00:54:12.039
barking at him, like yo,
Dad with your trip, you know
644
00:54:12.079 --> 00:54:14.440
what, because I miss you.
Man. It's definitely what I'm saying.
645
00:54:14.440 --> 00:54:16.000
I get like, like, yo, you know what. It's an emotional
646
00:54:16.039 --> 00:54:17.760
thing. You know what I'm saying. But like, but like you know
647
00:54:17.800 --> 00:54:21.400
what, like I have to understand
that, you know, I too,
648
00:54:21.800 --> 00:54:22.440
I too. You know what I'm
saying. One time I was twenty one
649
00:54:22.519 --> 00:54:25.480
years old, and like, Bro, I was you know what I'm saying.
650
00:54:27.480 --> 00:54:29.920
We would hell. You know what, we was the streets. You
651
00:54:29.920 --> 00:54:30.800
know what I'm saying. It's not
that we were hitting the streets. We
652
00:54:30.840 --> 00:54:35.039
was the streets, you know.
Like, just I feel like I always
653
00:54:35.039 --> 00:54:37.079
have to be like not be the
one like I want to, Like I
654
00:54:37.079 --> 00:54:39.760
feel like I have to fix everything, Like I want to fix everything,
655
00:54:39.760 --> 00:54:43.760
not that I have to. Nobody's
putting pressure on me, right, don't
656
00:54:44.199 --> 00:54:46.360
Right? But I don't always feel
like if there's a problem, like I
657
00:54:46.440 --> 00:54:49.320
just want to fix it, right, And then I'm like, but am
658
00:54:49.360 --> 00:54:52.239
I getting in his way? And
like I'm lett him? Don't you know?
659
00:54:52.679 --> 00:54:55.519
Like I'm not talking about life emergencies
or anything like that, but yo,
660
00:54:55.639 --> 00:54:59.719
don't yo, you know what?
Don't you know what I'm saying because
661
00:54:59.760 --> 00:55:01.079
like because like, you know what, if you're trying to fix something,
662
00:55:01.559 --> 00:55:04.400
he's not you know what I'm saying, Like he's not gonna like the way
663
00:55:04.400 --> 00:55:06.039
you know what I'm saying. He
needs to do it his own way.
664
00:55:06.760 --> 00:55:08.320
And that's one thing I learned.
I think I'm still transitioning from that,
665
00:55:08.559 --> 00:55:16.440
like what one thing father figure to
like more of like a confident you know,
666
00:55:16.760 --> 00:55:22.000
like a friend to him, more
listening than always always gott to be
667
00:55:22.119 --> 00:55:25.159
his dad though. Bro. Yeah, but there comes a point where we
668
00:55:25.239 --> 00:55:29.800
almost have to be that silent bystander. Like I said, My oldest is
669
00:55:29.880 --> 00:55:34.000
thirty six, she's married, has
a little one year old baby and a
670
00:55:34.159 --> 00:55:37.079
husband. Everything's great. I worry
about her constantly and she lives in another
671
00:55:37.159 --> 00:55:42.360
state. So yeah, my son
too. Yeah, so so I worry
672
00:55:42.400 --> 00:55:46.639
about her constantly, But at that
same point, you know, she she's
673
00:55:46.760 --> 00:55:51.639
made these adult choices, so I
have to let those adult consequences happen.
674
00:55:52.039 --> 00:55:57.639
We still communicate, but I honestly
feel like I'm just a bystander in her
675
00:55:57.719 --> 00:56:00.920
life. But I'm always she knows
push comes to shove, I will.
676
00:56:01.199 --> 00:56:05.280
There will never be a day then
I won't help her pick up those pieces,
677
00:56:05.920 --> 00:56:07.440
you know, right right right,
So it's letting. Yeah, that
678
00:56:07.519 --> 00:56:12.719
goes what I'm saying. It's just
more like the in thirty six, I
679
00:56:12.760 --> 00:56:15.239
mean, your your daughters. She
got home in life for for real,
680
00:56:15.360 --> 00:56:17.440
for real, like you know,
she's with a kid. That's that's another
681
00:56:17.639 --> 00:56:22.039
dynamic. You know, this young
man is he's fingering it out and it's
682
00:56:22.079 --> 00:56:23.599
all it's all good, it's all
positive stuff. You know. It's just
683
00:56:24.320 --> 00:56:28.400
i'd be like, uh, you
know, don't worry so much, but
684
00:56:28.480 --> 00:56:32.400
then I do worry so much.
But whatever. With that said, yeah,
685
00:56:32.480 --> 00:56:36.599
man, that's pretty much it.
That's pretty much it for me as
686
00:56:36.679 --> 00:56:37.880
far as that, Yeah, I
was just curious to see what, you
687
00:56:37.960 --> 00:56:42.599
know, some other perspectives. I
forgot that both of y'all do have kids
688
00:56:42.679 --> 00:56:45.159
that are adults. I thought it
was just code O. But nah,
689
00:56:45.280 --> 00:56:47.639
bro, yo, you know what
I got two kids are adults bro,
690
00:56:49.719 --> 00:56:53.760
yo, t G you know I
mean children? Thank god, you're so
691
00:56:53.880 --> 00:56:58.519
happy all the time. Yeah.
Hey, I got a sixteen year old
692
00:56:58.599 --> 00:57:01.880
too, So it's like there was
an eight sorr eighteen year different. So
693
00:57:02.440 --> 00:57:06.920
I did it all over again.
Meanwhile, is going on? What was
694
00:57:06.960 --> 00:57:09.400
it? Grand baby number? What's
seven? Six? Six? Right?
695
00:57:09.559 --> 00:57:14.639
Six? Yo? You know what? You know what? I got a
696
00:57:14.679 --> 00:57:19.320
twenty one year rold my nineteen year
old and assumed to be summer month old?
697
00:57:20.199 --> 00:57:22.440
Wow, I know like that,
man, My younger children ain't that
698
00:57:22.519 --> 00:57:25.159
young? Bro. That's a big
guy. Bro, Yo, you know
699
00:57:25.239 --> 00:57:30.760
what it's It's an experience, bro. Like Bro, you're gonna be at
700
00:57:30.760 --> 00:57:36.119
your daughter's graduation when you're sixty.
Bro, it's all right, you know
701
00:57:36.119 --> 00:57:38.079
what I'm saying. I got a
babyface, I still look young. Get
702
00:57:38.199 --> 00:57:40.719
done. She's gonna she's gonna run
circles around you. Bro, You're not
703
00:57:40.760 --> 00:57:44.559
gonna have the energy to keep up. You're done, Bro, You're done.
704
00:57:44.639 --> 00:57:45.440
Yo, It's all right. You
know what I'm saying. Some steroid
705
00:57:45.519 --> 00:57:51.800
Joe Tromblone, I'll be outr T
bro t r T man. Couple of
706
00:57:53.159 --> 00:57:55.559
you know what I'm saying, trumb
Alone sandwiches, Joe, I'll be all
707
00:57:55.599 --> 00:57:59.880
right. Mhmm. She's gonna run
circles around you, bro. A couple
708
00:57:59.880 --> 00:58:09.920
of cycles will be good trouble,
you know, probably probably probably eight ball.
709
00:58:12.480 --> 00:58:16.159
Yeah. So the the first release
of the Epstein list really disappointed me
710
00:58:16.159 --> 00:58:21.159
because it was just all information that
we already knew. Like I'm waiting for
711
00:58:21.280 --> 00:58:23.559
like the meat and potatoes of this
stuff to drop. Man, it probably
712
00:58:23.599 --> 00:58:30.920
won't, the judge ordered. The
judge ordered it. Nobody a chance to
713
00:58:31.039 --> 00:58:36.360
appeal it if they didn't want their
name included. But I don't think anybody
714
00:58:36.519 --> 00:58:39.760
anybody appealed it. I mean,
you know, I'm not I'm not looking
715
00:58:39.840 --> 00:58:45.400
for for half of Hollywood to go
down. But I know there's some juicier
716
00:58:45.559 --> 00:58:50.719
names right now. The Clinton's in
there, Michael Jackson, Prince sad word.
717
00:58:51.199 --> 00:58:53.719
I mean, that's all that we
know already exactly. That's why I
718
00:58:53.840 --> 00:59:00.840
was like borring. We know Trump's
been there, we know has been Congressman
719
00:59:00.880 --> 00:59:05.960
there, we know the print that
one Prince has been there and done things.
720
00:59:06.159 --> 00:59:09.519
I read. I read that David
Blaine was there but not implicated with
721
00:59:09.599 --> 00:59:15.400
anything, and he actually he confronted
one of the girls back then and asked
722
00:59:15.440 --> 00:59:19.639
her if she was aware of what
was going on, you know, like,
723
00:59:19.840 --> 00:59:23.039
yeah, you're aware that you know
Epstein is like sex trafficking you know
724
00:59:23.239 --> 00:59:28.599
girls, And that was the conversation. But I was like, oh,
725
00:59:28.719 --> 00:59:31.599
David Blaine, and then I read
I was I don't think everyone who showed
726
00:59:31.719 --> 00:59:36.679
up did things, but I'm sure
many people were invited. And then it
727
00:59:36.840 --> 00:59:39.840
was like many people saw things,
right, but they didn't do about it.
728
00:59:39.840 --> 00:59:44.679
I didn't say anything. That's the
problem. Like you were there,
729
00:59:44.840 --> 00:59:51.880
you saw what they were doing with
very young children, and you just went
730
00:59:51.960 --> 00:59:59.519
along guilty by association exactly. They
know, you don't need like to have
731
00:59:59.800 --> 01:00:04.599
more oath or some kind of like
work oath as a doctor, as a
732
01:00:04.760 --> 01:00:09.400
person you like, would you be
okay? Like see, like there are
733
01:00:09.440 --> 01:00:15.199
people out there actually that even do
ship to like try to catch people who
734
01:00:15.280 --> 01:00:17.559
kidnap kids, you know, like
they'll be sitting on a bench with a
735
01:00:17.639 --> 01:00:22.480
kid and then a gentleman will come
and be like, oh, I know
736
01:00:22.679 --> 01:00:25.239
you, and he's like you don't
know her, like why are you trying
737
01:00:25.280 --> 01:00:30.000
to take her? Like? You
know, so people are out there,
738
01:00:31.440 --> 01:00:40.960
Wait until fifty cent drops this this
puff Daddy documentary. This guy fifties brutal
739
01:00:42.039 --> 01:00:46.719
yod. He's going to jail,
bro. Yeah, whenever he's going to
740
01:00:46.840 --> 01:00:53.159
jail, Bro, that guy you
can't. That's it. You'll forget it.
741
01:00:53.519 --> 01:00:57.960
You fifty. Have you heard the
yo yo doves? Did you hear
742
01:00:58.000 --> 01:01:01.199
the Uncle Murder? You're review dubs
is on mute. He stepped away,
743
01:01:01.400 --> 01:01:05.320
Yeah, he stepped away for a
second. Your Uncle Murder man. He's
744
01:01:05.360 --> 01:01:07.119
a rapper. He does a year
in review for like, yeah, every
745
01:01:07.199 --> 01:01:15.039
every year. Yeah, this year
is three parts, like part two is
746
01:01:15.119 --> 01:01:19.320
completely for Diddy. Yeah, I
mean he goes in but yeah, he
747
01:01:19.360 --> 01:01:22.519
said he said because because because Uncle
Murder. He was touring with fifty all
748
01:01:22.599 --> 01:01:25.920
year, so he's speaking facts.
He's like, yeah, you know,
749
01:01:27.559 --> 01:01:34.079
fifty about to drop this documentary on
Diddy, and you know fifty about his
750
01:01:34.400 --> 01:01:38.239
fifty about his production. Yo.
Yeah. Yeah. You see what he
751
01:01:38.320 --> 01:01:45.400
did the Jo Ruse concert. Yeah, it turns into go yeah yo.
752
01:01:45.519 --> 01:01:49.159
He put he bought Jo was having
a concert, and he bought like the
753
01:01:49.280 --> 01:01:52.840
first ten rows of tickets when he
came, when he came, when he
754
01:01:52.960 --> 01:01:57.679
came out, first ten rows was
empty. He was like, what the
755
01:01:57.800 --> 01:02:04.760
fuck uh, man, do you
have money? Carls on your on your
756
01:02:04.840 --> 01:02:08.599
name? Yeah, that's that's that's
my my my granddaughter's by name for me.
757
01:02:09.239 --> 01:02:16.039
Oh all right, can you hear
me? Yeah? All right?
758
01:02:16.480 --> 01:02:20.320
So like I have to come upstairs, man, Like it's brutally cold out
759
01:02:20.360 --> 01:02:23.519
there, so you know, thinking
that, you know, Yeah, it's
760
01:02:23.599 --> 01:02:29.599
cold down here too. It's like
fifty five sixty. I was just shut
761
01:02:29.719 --> 01:02:32.920
the fuck up out here too.
It's fifty five What is it over here
762
01:02:34.039 --> 01:02:37.400
right now? Twenty eight? It
is twenty eight degrees. There's snowstorm coming.
763
01:02:38.280 --> 01:02:45.159
That's not too bad. I mean
snor Easter coming gets hit and how
764
01:02:45.239 --> 01:02:50.679
much they're saying this is going to
be the biggest snowstorm in the past two
765
01:02:50.800 --> 01:02:54.519
years for Pa. Anyway, I
don't know, you know what, you
766
01:02:54.599 --> 01:02:57.760
know what though, like I believe
it in Pa, but like I don't
767
01:02:57.760 --> 01:03:00.519
believe in Jersey though, Like well
depends. I think it's only going to
768
01:03:00.639 --> 01:03:05.159
hit like the eastern part or whatever. So it's really going to be hit
769
01:03:05.199 --> 01:03:10.679
in Jersey New York, you know
what though, Like like but you I'm
770
01:03:10.679 --> 01:03:13.639
say when it comes to snowstorms,
you know what I'm saying, Like also
771
01:03:13.679 --> 01:03:16.199
depends like location you know what I'm
saying, like in Jersey or whatever,
772
01:03:16.320 --> 01:03:22.119
like if you're Huston County, you
know, like like like where I'm at,
773
01:03:22.599 --> 01:03:24.519
you know, like they say something
interest you know, I'm saying,
774
01:03:24.559 --> 01:03:29.480
we automatically subtracting two, you know, because like we're so close to the
775
01:03:29.559 --> 01:03:36.199
water. That's what you said,
Bro, It fits the bill, like
776
01:03:36.320 --> 01:03:39.440
honestly right, like if somebody says
seven inches in their mind, they're like,
777
01:03:39.480 --> 01:03:45.000
yeah, I'm subtracting to you.
You're over, You're over. You're
778
01:03:45.000 --> 01:03:47.239
definitely over, you're over there.
But but but like yo, you know
779
01:03:47.280 --> 01:03:51.320
what what is it? Like negative
three? Negative four? Like when when
780
01:03:51.400 --> 01:03:55.159
when they how much are we subtracting? Here? Are you? Good thing?
781
01:03:55.199 --> 01:03:59.239
The guys the benefit of the dot? But why do you think that
782
01:03:59.760 --> 01:04:02.599
every time there was snow in Jersey
from what I remember in Hudson County,
783
01:04:02.639 --> 01:04:09.000
it was a lot and South Jersey
would get nothing because of the ocean because
784
01:04:09.199 --> 01:04:12.079
because you know what, South Jersey
is a lot flattered. You got to
785
01:04:12.119 --> 01:04:16.199
understand that. But it's so close
to the salt water exactly you have to
786
01:04:16.280 --> 01:04:21.599
do with snow, bro, Bro, you know what what the flatlands have
787
01:04:21.679 --> 01:04:25.800
to do with snow? High elevation
full. You know what I'm saying,
788
01:04:25.880 --> 01:04:28.119
Like, Yo, you know what
if it snow is like something INSes over
789
01:04:28.199 --> 01:04:30.840
here in Morristown and Sparta, and
you know what I'm saying in Hamburg,
790
01:04:31.880 --> 01:04:35.280
it's gonna be snowing fifteen. Yo. There's no mountains of South Jersey.
791
01:04:35.440 --> 01:04:44.199
There's a huge that there's a huppancy
in the sea level between the shore and
792
01:04:44.880 --> 01:04:47.199
northern New Jersey. Is what you're
saying. We don't live in eighteen eighteen
793
01:04:48.280 --> 01:04:53.400
eighteen hundred feet is a good is
a good discrepancy, bro, that's the
794
01:04:53.480 --> 01:04:57.199
highest point, eighteen hundred feet,
that's the highest point. It's a it's
795
01:04:57.199 --> 01:05:00.559
a good discrepancy. You know what. I used to think differently, and
796
01:05:00.679 --> 01:05:04.719
then I remember me and I'm coldly
on right. We drove off to to
797
01:05:05.199 --> 01:05:10.079
Lake Ariels right like when we left
here, but we left here was forty
798
01:05:10.079 --> 01:05:12.800
five degrees when we got to like
you know what I'm saying, Like around
799
01:05:12.880 --> 01:05:15.559
Monty Hue and Port Jervis. You
know what I'm saying that the state line
800
01:05:16.840 --> 01:05:25.360
there was a ten degree difference that
north it's colder, So I don't think
801
01:05:25.400 --> 01:05:30.960
it makes a difference in it does
though it does snow. It does though,
802
01:05:30.039 --> 01:05:33.679
bro Wise, Yeah, that that's
for sure. All right, I'm
803
01:05:33.880 --> 01:05:38.199
all right, I'm all right.
You know what scientifically speaking, scientifically speaking,
804
01:05:38.280 --> 01:05:40.360
right, you know what I'm saying. If it's you know what I'm
805
01:05:40.360 --> 01:05:42.400
saying. If it's thirty two degrees
over here, you know what I'm saying
806
01:05:42.440 --> 01:05:45.159
with the snow and whatever, and
it's twenty seven over there where you think's
807
01:05:45.159 --> 01:05:47.199
gonna get the more snow. You
know what I'm saying, water for a
808
01:05:47.320 --> 01:05:50.440
thirty degrees because it needs to be
thirty two degrees for it to snow.
809
01:05:50.559 --> 01:05:55.719
All right, now it's twenty seven. You know it's twenty seven up there.
810
01:05:55.800 --> 01:05:57.400
You know what I'm saying. If
we get in the same system,
811
01:05:57.440 --> 01:06:03.159
we get them more snow. Twenty
seven snow and stuff like. That's not
812
01:06:03.440 --> 01:06:08.440
just like, yes, what are
you talking about? It's precipitation. That's
813
01:06:08.519 --> 01:06:12.679
what snow in fucking rain is exactly. You know what I'm saying. However,
814
01:06:12.800 --> 01:06:14.679
what i'm trying to say is this
though, you know what I'm saying.
815
01:06:15.239 --> 01:06:16.519
If the same system is coming through
you know what I'm saying, Like,
816
01:06:16.639 --> 01:06:18.760
let's just say all the Jersey and
whatever, right, you know what
817
01:06:18.800 --> 01:06:24.480
I'm saying over here in Hudson County. You know, since we're so close
818
01:06:24.480 --> 01:06:28.159
to water and down the shore where
it's all flat, you know, like
819
01:06:28.440 --> 01:06:30.320
we're going to get snow, but
not like how like you know, like
820
01:06:30.480 --> 01:06:35.639
Sparta and Hamburg is gonna get that
snow because it's higher elevation. It's not
821
01:06:35.760 --> 01:06:38.719
like you know what I'm saying,
like like how like you know I'm saying
822
01:06:38.920 --> 01:06:41.320
parts of West you know what I'm
saying, we're going seventy eight, it's
823
01:06:41.360 --> 01:06:43.280
going to get that snow because they're
going to get a lot more. I
824
01:06:43.480 --> 01:06:46.360
understand what you're saying. I don't
think there's that much of a separation in
825
01:06:46.480 --> 01:06:51.559
the elevation between Central Jersey or where
the shore is to northern Correct itself.
826
01:06:51.599 --> 01:06:58.639
There's no Central Jersey Central Jersey.
To me, there is Okay, there's
827
01:06:58.719 --> 01:07:04.280
no Central Jersey. Bro you know
what Central Jersey because I'm not letting Central
828
01:07:04.360 --> 01:07:10.199
Jersey be a part of North Jersey. Okay, anything south of Trenton is
829
01:07:10.320 --> 01:07:16.840
Philly. Okay, that's number one. Let's just get that clear right now.
830
01:07:16.960 --> 01:07:20.639
Anything said, all right, you
know what turn Poppy wise, anything
831
01:07:21.079 --> 01:07:28.840
anything past Exit nine is Philly.
No, all right? Exist nine is
832
01:07:29.119 --> 01:07:34.039
like yeah, that's Central Jersey.
No, there's no such thing as central
833
01:07:34.119 --> 01:07:38.480
Jersey. There is, but hold, hold, hold, hold the hold
834
01:07:38.559 --> 01:07:42.440
up. Because government Governor Burke said
So Governor Burkey was even born around here.
835
01:07:42.559 --> 01:07:45.119
You know what I'm saying, he
from Jersey where he was governor.
836
01:07:45.559 --> 01:07:50.880
There has been more than it's Jersey
there. You know what, there is
837
01:07:50.960 --> 01:07:54.320
north and South Jersey. That's it. You know what I'm saying, Jery
838
01:07:54.320 --> 01:07:59.039
doesn't exist. Jersey's like the Jersey
Double. It's just a myth. The
839
01:07:59.079 --> 01:08:04.199
whole boken monkey Man ends at exit
seven. That's it. Exit seven.
840
01:08:04.280 --> 01:08:08.920
That's that's the peak. That's the
Philadelphia exit. Yeah, pretty hot.
841
01:08:12.320 --> 01:08:15.880
You guys are fucking funny. So
I got I gotta I got a story
842
01:08:15.960 --> 01:08:18.760
to tell. I got a story
to tell. I'm gonna tell you a
843
01:08:18.840 --> 01:08:25.640
story about this dude. Right,
he had this fantasy football team. Right,
844
01:08:26.239 --> 01:08:31.039
Oh, oh my god. He
went on a five game news and
845
01:08:31.119 --> 01:08:38.039
streak. Right, So he ends
up making the playoffs. Anyway, he
846
01:08:38.199 --> 01:08:43.399
ran, he runs ramping in the
playoffs and wins the championship, right and
847
01:08:43.600 --> 01:08:45.840
all he's all he's thinking to himself
is like, Damn, I gotta play
848
01:08:45.880 --> 01:08:49.159
this motherfucking guy. This guy that's
one of the top scorers in the league.
849
01:08:51.319 --> 01:08:57.079
I end up winning by thirty thirty
five. I end up winning a
850
01:08:57.199 --> 01:09:04.560
chip. Congrats, congrats. Is
a champs, is a champ, Tolerance
851
01:09:04.680 --> 01:09:08.880
is a champ. I won't be
one of those the other league. I
852
01:09:09.039 --> 01:09:12.800
was saying, Bro, Yo,
you know what? You know what I'm
853
01:09:12.800 --> 01:09:18.880
saying, And what Doubs bro Today's
show instead of Dubs, because you know
854
01:09:19.000 --> 01:09:26.760
Dubbs represents wins. We should kind
of switch it up. I don't know,
855
01:09:27.720 --> 01:09:31.039
I don't know if you fit the
Dubs A first off, you know
856
01:09:31.079 --> 01:09:33.600
what I'm saying. This is coming
from someone you know what I mean,
857
01:09:34.319 --> 01:09:36.600
who like barely got in. You
know what I'm saying, Like, Yo,
858
01:09:36.640 --> 01:09:39.920
you know what I was with you
too? You know what? You
859
01:09:41.840 --> 01:09:44.119
know what ran Yo? You know
what, Yo? You were during the
860
01:09:44.159 --> 01:09:47.119
regular season. My team ran through
everybody's friend. I'm not going to disagree
861
01:09:47.159 --> 01:09:51.920
with season. Okay, that was
a regular season champ. Congratulates, but
862
01:09:51.960 --> 01:09:56.000
I don't matter though. That don't
matter because you know what you know?
863
01:09:56.119 --> 01:09:58.119
And I told Jim because I'm like, Yo, the Curse of Frank is
864
01:09:58.159 --> 01:10:00.239
a pomper, Yo. You know
what I'm saying, because the on my
865
01:10:00.319 --> 01:10:01.239
record, I'm like, yo,
I need to lose another game. Get
866
01:10:01.279 --> 01:10:04.359
it over with. You know what
I'm saying, Yo, Remember I said
867
01:10:04.359 --> 01:10:08.960
that ship, I need to lose
another game. Let me get No.
868
01:10:09.079 --> 01:10:14.520
It's not mad though. Minute you
might as well if you're drinking that crap
869
01:10:15.159 --> 01:10:19.720
minute sugar drinks in the middle of
the night like that a dangerous zero sugar.
870
01:10:19.840 --> 01:10:25.359
If you didn't see it has no
sugar, asked part of me,
871
01:10:25.640 --> 01:10:30.560
which is just as bad as first? So what does it have artificial sweetener?
872
01:10:30.960 --> 01:10:39.079
Yes? Probably you would take it
from to work. Okay, So
873
01:10:39.439 --> 01:10:47.039
then bro, water Agua, let's
not judge or shame anyone for on the
874
01:10:47.119 --> 01:10:57.800
show. Then what are we doing
here? Not that? Are we welcome?
875
01:11:00.039 --> 01:11:04.039
Want you want to result the whole
hands and and tell me what yah?
876
01:11:04.079 --> 01:11:09.039
Push up your should We should all
just roll up to Gregory and play
877
01:11:09.079 --> 01:11:13.560
a game. I would have played
basketball if you paid me right now,
878
01:11:13.640 --> 01:11:16.760
Bro, you know what my biggest
fear in life is blowing in achilles playing
879
01:11:16.840 --> 01:11:20.800
basketball. And you're talking to somebody
who goes and and and and and and
880
01:11:20.920 --> 01:11:26.560
engages in martial arts like five days
a week. I'd rather like go break
881
01:11:26.600 --> 01:11:29.960
a bone than pop an achilles,
right, Now there are people who have
882
01:11:30.119 --> 01:11:33.279
done that on those tramp that is, trampoline places. Hell, yeah,
883
01:11:34.159 --> 01:11:41.760
they've bad therapy. I was at
one of those places where my kids not
884
01:11:41.840 --> 01:11:44.840
that long ago, and I swear
I was wilding now and I and I
885
01:11:44.960 --> 01:11:45.560
came home the next thing, and
I was like, yo, no for
886
01:11:45.720 --> 01:11:48.159
nothing. But that was kind of
stupid of me, because some ship like
887
01:11:48.239 --> 01:11:51.239
that could happen. I tell I
tell people all the time, man,
888
01:11:51.359 --> 01:11:57.560
don't follow my footsteps that you might
tear achilles. Man. Yeah, that's
889
01:11:57.640 --> 01:12:03.600
strong. I like that. Write
that down. Some one goes in the
890
01:12:03.640 --> 01:12:09.039
books, Well I got one.
You know what I'm saying. I found
891
01:12:09.079 --> 01:12:11.920
out what my Kiden's foot was,
so put one put in the grade.
892
01:12:15.640 --> 01:12:18.560
You know what, I'm going to
go back to the fact that you actually
893
01:12:18.640 --> 01:12:24.560
are not like living up to dubs
today, I mean left right dude,
894
01:12:24.680 --> 01:12:31.000
like because because because yo, you
know what, it's okay, you know
895
01:12:31.000 --> 01:12:33.479
what I'm saying, Because that's it
over your head like Shandon is and bright
896
01:12:33.560 --> 01:12:39.199
ideas. It's all right, I
got you, I got you, you
897
01:12:39.279 --> 01:12:41.960
know, like, I don't expect
how to get that ship. You guys
898
01:12:42.039 --> 01:12:45.560
mentioned movies, but nobody mentioned that
Mean Girls is coming out, What the
899
01:12:45.680 --> 01:12:51.119
fuck? Oh yeah right, I
care. I care. That sounds pretty
900
01:12:51.279 --> 01:12:56.239
and purple too. You know her
purple is getting really good reviews. That's
901
01:12:56.239 --> 01:13:00.439
what remake Purple was a classic.
What do you mean color purple? Yeah,
902
01:13:00.880 --> 01:13:05.359
purple. I have her mixed reviews
about that one is purple whatever you
903
01:13:05.439 --> 01:13:12.439
want to call it. The weed
is purple that I would watch. I
904
01:13:12.600 --> 01:13:21.399
want to learn more about that purple. Yo, Lady gep quiet over there
905
01:13:21.560 --> 01:13:27.800
on the set. What's going on? Lady? I'm just listening. I'm
906
01:13:27.840 --> 01:13:30.359
listening. She's like, yeah,
yeah, she doesn't have anything to bring
907
01:13:30.439 --> 01:13:33.319
to the conversation. I need.
Neither of us do, because you guys
908
01:13:33.359 --> 01:13:36.640
are talking about dumb things. Were
keeping the light. What do you want
909
01:13:36.680 --> 01:13:44.199
to do? Sad fantasy football story? Nobody cares about what you win?
910
01:13:44.399 --> 01:13:45.760
Is a champion? You didn't even
like to like what do you get?
911
01:13:46.000 --> 01:13:53.880
Like? What what was your win? Okay, then you can talk about
912
01:13:53.920 --> 01:13:59.720
it now now you know what I
mean? I mean, you know what
913
01:14:00.359 --> 01:14:03.199
I mean to fix up your ladies
conversation and ship. And I said,
914
01:14:03.199 --> 01:14:05.560
what do you want to talk about? Like, like, what are they
915
01:14:05.600 --> 01:14:14.920
to talk about? Hyth Well,
uh, your face said that he was
916
01:14:15.000 --> 01:14:19.960
gonna bring up some questions. I
can't find my I can't find I wrote
917
01:14:19.960 --> 01:14:23.760
it, I wrote it all down
and ship, and I can't find my
918
01:14:23.880 --> 01:14:28.600
ship. I'm like where And I'm
the boring one of the group because I
919
01:14:28.680 --> 01:14:32.199
don't really watch the news. I
don't keep up on current events as far
920
01:14:32.319 --> 01:14:35.880
as the we don't need to talk
about that entertainment world, you know,
921
01:14:36.039 --> 01:14:41.600
So I don't have much to say
on those things. I mean, you
922
01:14:41.680 --> 01:14:44.720
know what, I'm on like a
few social sites and I'm saying ros some
923
01:14:44.800 --> 01:14:47.600
people, all I got, I
got, I got something, I got
924
01:14:47.680 --> 01:14:50.840
a question. I got a question, all right, So I'm gonna I'm
925
01:14:50.840 --> 01:14:58.199
gonna. I'm gonna pose this to
you guys. So it's serious. So
926
01:14:58.399 --> 01:15:04.800
take a deep breath, relax,
and excel. All right. So peep
927
01:15:04.840 --> 01:15:11.920
game. I'm trying to remember what
the question was. But it has to
928
01:15:12.039 --> 01:15:26.680
do with what if a parent loses
control of a teenage child and a child
929
01:15:26.800 --> 01:15:31.720
decides to go live with his dad
and the mother lets him go? Is
930
01:15:31.800 --> 01:15:38.439
that wrong? Depends let him go? Not enough info? No, like
931
01:15:39.279 --> 01:15:42.720
no. So I'm trying. I'm
trying to remember. I'm trying to remember
932
01:15:42.760 --> 01:15:45.640
the question. So it was kind
of like it was kind of like,
933
01:15:45.199 --> 01:15:50.640
so the mom was having a difficult
time with her child, right, and
934
01:15:53.880 --> 01:15:58.159
what happened and sent him to live
with the dad and sent him, well,
935
01:15:58.479 --> 01:16:02.800
the the she sent him to live
with the dad, and now like
936
01:16:04.199 --> 01:16:11.319
the kid is is being like disrespectful
and he's I think he's he's actually even
937
01:16:12.199 --> 01:16:15.199
like wild out on the moms and
the kids. Only I think she said
938
01:16:15.199 --> 01:16:19.359
he was like twelve thirteen years old, right, and he has he has
939
01:16:19.439 --> 01:16:27.279
a couple of like mental health things
going on. Okay, but what like
940
01:16:27.680 --> 01:16:33.920
ADHD and right, positional oppotunity,
hold on, hold on, dogs,
941
01:16:33.920 --> 01:16:39.319
hold up. So I think I'm
just trying to remember it. So it
942
01:16:39.439 --> 01:16:45.840
was kind of like she feels she
feels bad that she sent the kid with
943
01:16:45.000 --> 01:16:49.760
his dad, but but she couldn't
handle and control. She couldn't hand,
944
01:16:49.840 --> 01:16:56.560
she couldn't handle what was going on
with him. And I just I just
945
01:16:57.279 --> 01:16:59.920
I'm posing the question, what do
you what do you? What do you
946
01:17:00.079 --> 01:17:03.840
think about how she feels about the
situation, knowing that you know she feels
947
01:17:03.920 --> 01:17:11.119
bad about it, but I personally
think it needed to be done because I
948
01:17:11.199 --> 01:17:16.800
think he needs some kind of male
figure because at some point, especially a
949
01:17:16.920 --> 01:17:19.640
boy, is going to reach that
age where he's like, Mom, you
950
01:17:19.680 --> 01:17:23.520
can't do shit to me, Like, what are you gonna do? Hit
951
01:17:23.560 --> 01:17:26.680
me that she ain't gonna hurt What
are you gonna do? So she sent
952
01:17:26.760 --> 01:17:30.119
him with his dad, right?
And you know, so what do do
953
01:17:30.199 --> 01:17:32.880
you guys think? Yo? I
mean as you know what I'm saying,
954
01:17:32.960 --> 01:17:36.319
Like as a father, you know
what I mean, Like if I had
955
01:17:36.359 --> 01:17:40.800
a you know, if I was
in that situation, first off, you
956
01:17:40.840 --> 01:17:43.279
know what, I'll get him in
check real quick. What I'm saying,
957
01:17:43.279 --> 01:17:44.800
I'll ge him up to speed.
But like, yo, that's your mother.
958
01:17:44.840 --> 01:17:45.760
You know what I'm saying, Like, regardless of I like her or
959
01:17:45.800 --> 01:17:49.159
not, that is your mother.
You know what I'm saying, Like because
960
01:17:49.159 --> 01:17:53.279
you know what, if it wasn't
for her pushing you out, you would
961
01:17:53.319 --> 01:17:56.680
not be here. You know,
she did all the legboy, that's your
962
01:17:56.720 --> 01:18:00.199
mom. Man, like chill out, you know. And I as far
963
01:18:00.239 --> 01:18:01.600
as like the A D D.
You know what I'm saying. Whatever,
964
01:18:01.680 --> 01:18:04.560
you know what I'm saying that ain't
no ridling like what you know what I'm
965
01:18:04.560 --> 01:18:13.199
saying that put them in place?
No yo, capital punishment My nigga kids
966
01:18:13.680 --> 01:18:17.119
with a hammer. They don't mess. First of all, he mentioned that
967
01:18:17.199 --> 01:18:24.640
he has behavioral behaviors, and you
do not hit children. We already know
968
01:18:24.960 --> 01:18:30.319
the research shows that hitting doesn't.
Research involved. All of us are traumatized
969
01:18:30.600 --> 01:18:36.399
because of like traumatized. I can
tell already. Look, he looks,
970
01:18:36.920 --> 01:18:40.199
he look. You know what I'm
saying, Yo, Not only that,
971
01:18:40.239 --> 01:18:42.079
and what I'm saying, you put
him at a cross face. You're saying
972
01:18:42.199 --> 01:18:48.119
cross face crippling. Say to the
collect our child, then to not trust
973
01:18:48.239 --> 01:18:55.960
anyway, he is not really the
way to go. Sounds like that professional
974
01:18:56.159 --> 01:19:02.600
help And I'm wondering if she even
got any because like, if there is
975
01:19:02.640 --> 01:19:08.239
a kid with behavioral issues, obviously
the school should be involved and that child
976
01:19:08.319 --> 01:19:14.199
should have the resources available to them
to be able to make sure that they
977
01:19:14.279 --> 01:19:19.560
can help them with their behavioral issues. Uh. ODD is a very serious
978
01:19:19.760 --> 01:19:24.239
thing. Like I don't know if
any of y'all have ever worked with a
979
01:19:24.359 --> 01:19:30.520
child who has ODD. They're very
difficult. I've had a child makingitioning't like,
980
01:19:30.760 --> 01:19:38.479
but either way, curious why does
it have? Like I'm just curious
981
01:19:38.680 --> 01:19:45.680
what she went through in terms of
help and resources that she felt she can
982
01:19:45.840 --> 01:19:49.920
handle it. Or My question too
is why isn't there more co parenting going
983
01:19:50.000 --> 01:20:00.000
on, because I have a question
real quick odds opposition defiant disorder. No,
984
01:20:01.159 --> 01:20:06.079
it's not just problems with authority.
We're not talking about you, don't
985
01:20:06.119 --> 01:20:14.720
worry. We're talking about a child
whose brain functions differently. Let's just put
986
01:20:14.760 --> 01:20:18.039
it that way, okay. And
let's say this child has a short vieuse
987
01:20:18.159 --> 01:20:26.159
for everything, like everything, like
any little thing. They don't transition.
988
01:20:26.359 --> 01:20:36.439
While they usually have issues with certain
textures and things like that too, they
989
01:20:36.520 --> 01:20:49.039
get similated in that one. Yeah. So there's just there's resources out there
990
01:20:49.199 --> 01:20:54.199
for parents. Parents need to make
sure that they know this. Parents need
991
01:20:54.319 --> 01:21:00.399
to get their school system involved.
What you know, these are like paying
992
01:21:00.600 --> 01:21:03.279
we pay taxes. That's what this
ship is for. Use the resources that
993
01:21:03.359 --> 01:21:09.760
are available to you to help.
But parenting should be happening though, too,
994
01:21:10.359 --> 01:21:13.920
I mean to me, just like
Dub said before, like the dad
995
01:21:13.960 --> 01:21:17.960
should be encouraging his kid not to
be disrespectful to his mother. But it's
996
01:21:18.039 --> 01:21:24.079
going to take more than that.
Look what I found. I found the
997
01:21:24.079 --> 01:21:28.079
book all right. Let me say, let me say wait real quickly,
998
01:21:28.600 --> 01:21:30.079
yo, you always get the guillotine
thing right, put in the basement,
999
01:21:30.119 --> 01:21:32.560
put the kidden there back them every
time he acts up. You know what
1000
01:21:32.560 --> 01:21:36.560
I'm saying. It sounds like the
parents get medieval onto that get medivial,
1001
01:21:36.880 --> 01:21:43.279
and it sounds like the parents don't
have the support system to help the child
1002
01:21:44.359 --> 01:21:49.720
with his deficiency, because sending him
from one parent to the other isn't going
1003
01:21:49.800 --> 01:21:54.199
to change it. If it's a
behavioral thing, right, then we're talking
1004
01:21:54.239 --> 01:21:57.800
about something that the parents are Let
me tell you what, Let me tell
1005
01:21:57.800 --> 01:22:00.640
you what it says. Let me
tell you what I what I wrote,
1006
01:22:00.000 --> 01:22:03.800
all right, So what she said
was he was intent. He was an
1007
01:22:03.880 --> 01:22:11.199
intensive outpatient therapy for six weeks and
basically at the end of the six weeks
1008
01:22:12.159 --> 01:22:15.439
told so this year, this kid
is kind of wild and because he told
1009
01:22:15.479 --> 01:22:19.520
everybody that he just he just went
along with everything just to get out of
1010
01:22:19.600 --> 01:22:28.079
the impatient program. Furthermore, the
father has encouraged the kid to be disrespectful
1011
01:22:28.079 --> 01:22:30.840
and not listen to his mom.
That's a problem, and so sending him
1012
01:22:30.920 --> 01:22:34.239
to him is probably not the best
idea. No, not at all.
1013
01:22:34.479 --> 01:22:41.439
The kid doesn't have a behavioral issue. The kid comes from a dysfunctional home
1014
01:22:41.520 --> 01:22:44.479
and he's just crying out for help
and that's why he's acting. The way
1015
01:22:44.520 --> 01:22:47.560
that he is, because obviously you
can tell that the parents don't have it
1016
01:22:47.600 --> 01:22:51.000
all together. I'm not going to
point fingers here or take sides, because
1017
01:22:51.039 --> 01:22:55.239
if the dad is encouraged him to
be disrespectful to the mom, that's wrong.
1018
01:22:55.520 --> 01:22:58.119
And if the mom is just shooting
him away to the dad, then
1019
01:22:58.199 --> 01:23:02.239
she's wrong too, because he can't
tell herself. You can't tell me that
1020
01:23:02.439 --> 01:23:06.199
she she isn't aware of the fact
that the father has that kind of attitude.
1021
01:23:06.560 --> 01:23:10.399
That's not a surprise, that's not
something that happens like from one day
1022
01:23:10.439 --> 01:23:14.000
to the other like that. Obviously
she was she was aware of the fact
1023
01:23:14.039 --> 01:23:16.560
that the father was going to try
to influence the kid or persuade him to,
1024
01:23:17.000 --> 01:23:19.680
you know, side with him,
or make the mom look bad or
1025
01:23:19.840 --> 01:23:24.720
painter in a bad picture. So
she committed an error by doing that.
1026
01:23:24.920 --> 01:23:28.359
There is no co parent thing.
They don't care about the kids problems,
1027
01:23:28.359 --> 01:23:30.680
because if they did, they would
take advantage of the system and try to
1028
01:23:30.720 --> 01:23:34.359
get the kids some help. There's
help for children like that, maybe not
1029
01:23:34.479 --> 01:23:39.680
on a bigger scale, because I
mean, if he was doing outpatient,
1030
01:23:39.960 --> 01:23:46.079
then yes, he obviously is getting
certain things that he needs. But that's
1031
01:23:46.239 --> 01:23:53.880
just weird to me, Like,
I'm just curious why she Was it her
1032
01:23:54.119 --> 01:23:58.760
choice that the child went to the
father, or was it the child who
1033
01:23:58.920 --> 01:24:00.239
was like, I want to live
with my father. Is that what you
1034
01:24:00.399 --> 01:24:08.920
said? Yeah? Okay, that's
just what And now the kids all of
1035
01:24:08.960 --> 01:24:12.199
a sudden, it's going to end
up like not having any issues. He's
1036
01:24:12.199 --> 01:24:15.680
going to be resenting his mother and
hating his mother and blaming her for things
1037
01:24:15.800 --> 01:24:20.239
because he's young and doesn't understand.
But honestly, that's just bad parenting by
1038
01:24:20.279 --> 01:24:26.479
everybody, right there, Man,
I agree both sides. That kid just
1039
01:24:26.560 --> 01:24:30.000
sounds like a casualty of Warren.
That's what's causing, not because the kid
1040
01:24:30.319 --> 01:24:33.560
had any you know what I mean. I don't know is there a connection
1041
01:24:33.800 --> 01:24:41.520
between you know, you know it's
the father's name, Blue pas right,
1042
01:24:44.079 --> 01:24:51.479
Yeah, I mean you know,
is there a connection between between between you
1043
01:24:51.520 --> 01:24:56.079
know, behavioral issues and kids that
come from broken homes? You know,
1044
01:24:56.680 --> 01:24:59.560
I'm curious to see what the stat
is like, Let's say, you know,
1045
01:25:00.199 --> 01:25:02.039
kids that that that end up like
that and having that kind of an
1046
01:25:02.039 --> 01:25:06.760
attitude towards life or whatever they're they're
they're defining towards everything. Is it because
1047
01:25:06.760 --> 01:25:10.000
there's really something wrong with them or
is it? Are they just like,
1048
01:25:10.159 --> 01:25:15.479
uh, you know what you might
call it, just learn the environment that
1049
01:25:15.560 --> 01:25:18.119
they come from. You know,
I don't think it's that black and white.
1050
01:25:19.359 --> 01:25:25.560
It really depends on the disorders that
we're talking about. But that's that's
1051
01:25:25.600 --> 01:25:28.920
where all the gray area comes in. Why doesn't say this, Why can't
1052
01:25:28.960 --> 01:25:30.840
it be so black and white?
Why can't it be like, look,
1053
01:25:30.079 --> 01:25:33.399
that's not life, because nothing in
life is black and white? Now,
1054
01:25:33.560 --> 01:25:36.439
why does everything have to have a
gray area? Why can't we make something
1055
01:25:36.479 --> 01:25:43.000
white complex? Human beings? Can't
just some things in life be black and
1056
01:25:43.039 --> 01:25:46.920
white. Why does everything have to
happen salt and pepper and everything have to
1057
01:25:46.960 --> 01:25:49.760
have a gray area? Some things
are there and some things are that.
1058
01:25:50.319 --> 01:25:56.960
I'm not discussing anybody's opinions, but
there is no discussing that. You're either
1059
01:25:57.039 --> 01:26:04.279
born a heat or a sheep.
Getting right now talking about the gray areas
1060
01:26:04.479 --> 01:26:09.840
that exist, and they do even
there. I think people create gray areas
1061
01:26:09.920 --> 01:26:15.600
so they can have their own,
like, you know, interpretation of what's
1062
01:26:15.680 --> 01:26:17.319
going on, and oh well,
this is my point of view. And
1063
01:26:17.439 --> 01:26:23.319
sometimes things are that simple. I
think as humans we want to overcomplicate everything
1064
01:26:24.960 --> 01:26:30.039
to complicate just about everything too many. Great if life was black and white,
1065
01:26:30.239 --> 01:26:32.199
you know, there's some countries where
things are black and white. Yeah,
1066
01:26:32.239 --> 01:26:34.439
that's really working out well for all
of them. Listen, I'm not
1067
01:26:34.479 --> 01:26:40.319
saying we've got to be communists,
but you know, but these things don't
1068
01:26:40.359 --> 01:26:44.199
work. And that's why I think
I like that. Man. Look,
1069
01:26:44.239 --> 01:26:47.960
you know what way you touched on. It's just like a bunch of people
1070
01:26:48.000 --> 01:26:53.680
cockplaying other genders. All right,
we're not going to get into that.
1071
01:26:53.960 --> 01:26:56.479
We're not going to get into that. We're not going to get into that.
1072
01:26:56.920 --> 01:27:01.680
We are literally talking about the fact
that there are children And this is
1073
01:27:01.680 --> 01:27:06.359
what I was going to say before. I've worked in school systems okay,
1074
01:27:06.520 --> 01:27:12.840
and I've also worked in private schools. I've worked in private schools that are
1075
01:27:13.000 --> 01:27:21.640
for special education Okay. Those children
come from loving homes, white mostly okay,
1076
01:27:23.800 --> 01:27:28.880
and both parents are present in some
way a lot of them. So
1077
01:27:29.399 --> 01:27:33.840
we can't say that, you know, these behavioral issues and problems, there's
1078
01:27:33.880 --> 01:27:39.840
a difference between the hold of highest, hold of high finish. No,
1079
01:27:40.119 --> 01:27:43.920
you can just this is because I
don't want to confuse one thing for the
1080
01:27:44.039 --> 01:27:47.159
other. The children that you're that
you've worked with. Are those special needs
1081
01:27:47.319 --> 01:27:54.479
children? You know they were classified
special education because they either This is all
1082
01:27:54.520 --> 01:27:58.279
we're talking about all different kinds of
things. We're talking about cerebral palsy,
1083
01:27:58.439 --> 01:28:02.560
We're talking about down syndrome, We're
talking about odd, We're talking about ADS.
1084
01:28:02.600 --> 01:28:05.640
That's the thing. I don't want
to put everything into one pool because
1085
01:28:05.680 --> 01:28:11.079
I think it's different. Obviously,
if your child is autistic and they come
1086
01:28:11.119 --> 01:28:15.279
from a loving home or a statistic
is a neurodivergent thing. Yeah, we're
1087
01:28:15.359 --> 01:28:20.720
talking about brain stuff the same thing. It really is due to the circumstances,
1088
01:28:20.920 --> 01:28:26.199
like the difference between there's nurture and
nature. We know that things can
1089
01:28:26.279 --> 01:28:30.720
make it worse if you don't have
a supportive environment for your disorder. What's
1090
01:28:30.760 --> 01:28:39.760
going to happen if you suffer from
bipolar disorder? Okay, what's going to
1091
01:28:39.840 --> 01:28:45.359
happen if you do nothing to help
the bipolar disorder? Nothing? You're going
1092
01:28:45.439 --> 01:28:48.560
to be bipolar, right, and
there's a chance that you're going to be
1093
01:28:48.720 --> 01:28:53.840
manic and do crazy shit, or
you're going to go down and you could
1094
01:28:53.880 --> 01:28:57.960
hurt yourself. Right. It can
be that black and white with certain things,
1095
01:28:58.640 --> 01:29:02.560
but it isn't because there are therapies, there's groups, there's support,
1096
01:29:02.680 --> 01:29:10.880
there's medication. All these things are
come into place to help with helping the
1097
01:29:10.960 --> 01:29:15.000
brain function. Yes, I know
a lot of these drugs do like don't
1098
01:29:15.039 --> 01:29:20.079
make you feel like yourself. They
inhibit people in some ways and stuff like
1099
01:29:20.159 --> 01:29:27.640
that. That's why it's important ship
for you that they give these people mental
1100
01:29:27.720 --> 01:29:33.159
health patients. They're terrible, but
I'm very happy with my lexapro. I
1101
01:29:33.239 --> 01:29:39.159
wouldn't be here today if it wasn't
for my lexapro. So I don't agree.
1102
01:29:39.399 --> 01:29:44.920
I think that drugs I've seen I've
seen family members become zombies over that
1103
01:29:45.000 --> 01:29:48.439
stuff, not with what I take. It all depends. There are drugs
1104
01:29:48.479 --> 01:29:51.920
out there that will, like I
just said, inhibit you in many ways.
1105
01:29:53.399 --> 01:29:57.840
That's why it's important to find what
works for you where you're functioning adults.
1106
01:29:58.520 --> 01:30:02.640
But see what about what out As
far as medicating children, Yeah,
1107
01:30:03.640 --> 01:30:08.359
I mean it depends, really,
it really depends on how bad it is.
1108
01:30:08.399 --> 01:30:12.119
It does depend. It does depend. But I think that like in
1109
01:30:12.239 --> 01:30:16.720
this day and age, like people
are quick to diagnose and and with certain
1110
01:30:16.800 --> 01:30:20.239
things. Yes everywhere, Yeah,
the kid, the kid has a d
1111
01:30:20.319 --> 01:30:23.840
D. No, man, the
kid's eleven years old. He's full of
1112
01:30:23.960 --> 01:30:27.239
energy. But they have real test
now for that. You know, I
1113
01:30:27.279 --> 01:30:29.720
get it. He doesn't want to
sit in class for eight hours a day,
1114
01:30:29.800 --> 01:30:31.840
you know, reading and writing.
That doesn't mean that there's something wrong
1115
01:30:31.880 --> 01:30:34.239
with the kid. You know,
everybody's a little bit different. I'm not
1116
01:30:34.520 --> 01:30:39.800
I'm not downplaying at all. My
wife works at an autistic school. It's
1117
01:30:40.159 --> 01:30:44.119
extremely challenging. She tells me about
her days. And that's why I'm asking
1118
01:30:44.159 --> 01:30:46.439
you. I don't like. My
point is this is there is there not
1119
01:30:46.520 --> 01:30:51.000
a big possibility that this little kid
that that that coleon is talking about,
1120
01:30:51.239 --> 01:30:56.640
it's just acting up because of the
circumstances surrounding him. He could be acting
1121
01:30:56.720 --> 01:31:00.279
out more because of the circumstances.
But he was going to act out either
1122
01:31:00.359 --> 01:31:02.279
way. How do you know that? Because he has O, D D
1123
01:31:02.399 --> 01:31:15.039
and ADHD and he's actually he's actually, he's he's actually he has actually And
1124
01:31:15.159 --> 01:31:17.319
if he was impatient, that means
there is a lot more going on right
1125
01:31:17.520 --> 01:31:20.039
right, right, So hold on, let me, let me, let
1126
01:31:20.079 --> 01:31:24.119
me open the book again, because
I got a lot of notes on this
1127
01:31:24.279 --> 01:31:28.159
topic. This is why we speak
to the things we know. You understand
1128
01:31:28.760 --> 01:31:31.960
this is important to me, opinions
mean ship at the end of the day.
1129
01:31:32.039 --> 01:31:39.840
We all know that. But facts
matter, and opinions coming from facts
1130
01:31:39.960 --> 01:31:43.399
can matter to or experience. All
right, so checking people, I'm reading,
1131
01:31:43.479 --> 01:31:45.960
let me, let me finish reading
this, dus hold up? All
1132
01:31:45.039 --> 01:31:48.399
right? So the kid, the
kid was on med ocasion, that was
1133
01:31:48.399 --> 01:31:53.960
getting help from school. But the
missing piece was that his dad, his
1134
01:31:54.159 --> 01:32:00.640
dad's absence, and that his father
was telling him that he wasn't crazy and
1135
01:32:00.880 --> 01:32:06.279
it needs to take medication and and
that and and that other people. Wait,
1136
01:32:06.600 --> 01:32:14.239
so so he didn't need medication.
It sounds like the dad really just
1137
01:32:14.720 --> 01:32:17.079
is making the situation, all right, that the dad told the dad told
1138
01:32:17.199 --> 01:32:21.960
him that there's no kid. There's
no possibility that the father could be right,
1139
01:32:23.000 --> 01:32:25.479
and there's nothing wrong with the kid. And then he just got creating
1140
01:32:25.720 --> 01:32:30.239
child. He got quickly diagnosed just
to put something on him. How do
1141
01:32:30.319 --> 01:32:32.640
you know that? I don't know, bo, How do you how do
1142
01:32:32.760 --> 01:32:38.600
we really know if he is a
d he because given that he's a preteen
1143
01:32:38.720 --> 01:32:43.720
or tween or whatever he is the
fact that he was impatient okay for how
1144
01:32:43.800 --> 01:32:46.840
long? Six weeks? Six weeks? Okay, that's not a long that's
1145
01:32:46.920 --> 01:32:53.640
a long time. He's already it's
intensive and it was intensive outpatient. Okay,
1146
01:32:53.960 --> 01:33:00.600
intensive outpatient, and he's diagnosed with
these things. They don't just make
1147
01:33:00.720 --> 01:33:04.079
up ship. I mean, I
hate to break it to people like these
1148
01:33:04.159 --> 01:33:09.039
disorders, autism, all of that. This, There are test and that's
1149
01:33:09.159 --> 01:33:14.399
why it's important to get your child
tested at a young age. And the
1150
01:33:14.560 --> 01:33:18.239
only she's saying he was diagnosed,
he was diagnosed. He was diagnosed at
1151
01:33:18.399 --> 01:33:25.199
five. Yeah, okay, you're
also backing us into the story. Now
1152
01:33:25.279 --> 01:33:29.600
you're telling us you know, but
now he's adding more to what. No,
1153
01:33:29.720 --> 01:33:33.560
because I got my ADHDHD for a
d D. That's I don't know.
1154
01:33:33.640 --> 01:33:40.119
I'm asking hitting me. Okay,
I've talked kindergarten. Let me tell
1155
01:33:40.159 --> 01:33:45.439
you diagnosed. My handwriting is really
bad, so I'm just yeah, it's
1156
01:33:45.520 --> 01:33:49.880
terrible. So he was diagnosed at
five with ADHD. That's it. But
1157
01:33:49.960 --> 01:33:55.800
you said he had O d D. Yeah then the yeah he was.
1158
01:33:56.239 --> 01:33:59.760
Yah's have to have more than ADHD. There's no way this kid is just
1159
01:33:59.840 --> 01:34:04.159
go outpatient intensive therapy. Look,
you know what I think about medication,
1160
01:34:04.319 --> 01:34:08.439
how like like you're all for that's
you me? Nah? You know what,
1161
01:34:08.560 --> 01:34:11.880
I'll kick my pants out the mercy
of myself. You know That's one.
1162
01:34:12.199 --> 01:34:15.279
Secondly, I was diagnosed with ADHD
when in all reality, you know
1163
01:34:15.319 --> 01:34:18.039
what I'm saying, I just didn't
know how to like let go the fact
1164
01:34:18.079 --> 01:34:21.199
that my grandmother passed away out of
nowhere, and I carried that anger with
1165
01:34:21.319 --> 01:34:23.800
me. So like, yo,
you know what, I was just doing
1166
01:34:23.880 --> 01:34:27.880
reckless shit in high school, you
know what I'm saying. So you know
1167
01:34:27.920 --> 01:34:30.359
what I mean. Like, and
they try to diagnose through with ADHD and
1168
01:34:30.439 --> 01:34:33.000
SHIP when in all reality, I
didn't cry with my grandmother to passed away.
1169
01:34:33.760 --> 01:34:38.319
I just held that in and that
pain turned the anger. So you
1170
01:34:38.359 --> 01:34:40.600
know what I'm saying. Like every
so everything I did was with a chip
1171
01:34:40.640 --> 01:34:44.720
on my shoulder. Why would they
diagnose you with ADHD because you're angry?
1172
01:34:45.239 --> 01:34:47.600
That's not yo, because you know
what I did. I did what I
1173
01:34:47.680 --> 01:34:55.079
wanted to do. ADHD is you
can't focus literally cannot focus on I did.
1174
01:34:55.399 --> 01:34:57.960
But but but what the thing is
though, like in class, I
1175
01:34:58.039 --> 01:35:02.000
did what I want to do.
Pivot. So the old old the old
1176
01:35:02.079 --> 01:35:08.279
D, the old d D.
The old d D was was was based
1177
01:35:08.319 --> 01:35:14.560
on his behavior later on? Yeah, yeah, on a on a medical
1178
01:35:14.680 --> 01:35:18.039
level, and I know that mental
illness is not the same, but I
1179
01:35:18.199 --> 01:35:26.880
actually think that mental illness is like
something that is so hard to not only
1180
01:35:27.000 --> 01:35:31.119
diagnose, but understand because you can't
be in someone's mind. But from a
1181
01:35:31.199 --> 01:35:35.239
medical point of view, I was
miss I was misdiagnosed with a heart condition,
1182
01:35:36.079 --> 01:35:41.239
which then god knock on wood wasn't
the case. But I was told
1183
01:35:41.319 --> 01:35:44.199
this, that and the third and
then otherwise. What's not to say that
1184
01:35:45.119 --> 01:35:47.039
that that's that's not the same that's
happening with some of these kids that are
1185
01:35:47.079 --> 01:35:50.880
being you know, listen, I
took tests. I took tests just like
1186
01:35:51.399 --> 01:35:56.279
kids are tested for for for that, so I get it. It's two
1187
01:35:56.319 --> 01:35:59.760
completely different things. And that's why
you always get a second opinion, you
1188
01:35:59.840 --> 01:36:01.520
know that, right. This is
the thing with us as adults, as
1189
01:36:01.600 --> 01:36:04.880
doctors. Okay, And a lot
of people as adults don't know this.
1190
01:36:05.119 --> 01:36:11.000
You can advocate for yourself, right. People need to listen to their gut
1191
01:36:11.119 --> 01:36:15.000
more. If you feel like something
is wrong with you, your body in
1192
01:36:15.199 --> 01:36:20.880
any way, and your doctor dismisses
or tries to make excuses or throws drugs
1193
01:36:20.960 --> 01:36:26.880
at you, that's a problem,
okay. And and honestly, this is
1194
01:36:26.920 --> 01:36:31.520
the space I'm in right now because
doctors aren't listening to patients. They're just
1195
01:36:31.600 --> 01:36:39.720
making assumptions and judgments and moving on
and you can't do that. They get
1196
01:36:39.720 --> 01:36:42.439
paid for every pill they prescribe.
This I know. Okay, this is
1197
01:36:42.520 --> 01:36:45.560
a business. Pharmaceutical, pharmaceutical.
You know, Indus stream was going to
1198
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come. All of this. Healthcare
is a business. Between the fucking band
1199
01:36:49.199 --> 01:36:54.079
aid they put on you to whatever, it's a business. They all make
1200
01:36:54.199 --> 01:36:57.800
money from all of it. Okay, this is how it works. Insurance
1201
01:36:57.920 --> 01:37:01.199
is a big scam and it's a
business. It's what it is. And
1202
01:37:01.359 --> 01:37:05.399
unfortunately, this is a system that
you know, we're stuck with because you
1203
01:37:05.479 --> 01:37:10.640
know, people don't want universal health
care, so this is what you're going
1204
01:37:10.720 --> 01:37:15.680
to get. And the truth of
that is we're just going to get shitty
1205
01:37:16.119 --> 01:37:21.600
doctors every now and again and they're
just going to do whatever. But when
1206
01:37:21.640 --> 01:37:26.680
it comes to children, we are
so advanced at what we know right now
1207
01:37:27.239 --> 01:37:31.039
with research, with the medications with
whatever, it's very different. They don't
1208
01:37:31.079 --> 01:37:36.600
take that shit lightly when they're young. And yes, there has been a
1209
01:37:36.880 --> 01:37:45.079
bigger number of children with whatever mental
disorders or whatever you want to call it.
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01:37:45.199 --> 01:37:49.079
There's a lot more and autism too
has reached peak. I think it's
1211
01:37:49.119 --> 01:37:59.680
evolution. That's my opinion and theory. But this is what yes, I
1212
01:38:00.800 --> 01:38:08.479
just it's hard as a parent to
hear that your child can't function in a
1213
01:38:08.600 --> 01:38:14.720
classroom. I worked in kindergarten.
I just did one year. That was
1214
01:38:14.800 --> 01:38:18.880
all I could do, to be
honest, and I had a child to
1215
01:38:18.960 --> 01:38:25.479
come in. This was a child
that was in I forgot the name of
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01:38:25.520 --> 01:38:30.079
this school, and it's like a
known thing in Hudson count all these counties.
1217
01:38:30.079 --> 01:38:35.079
It's like why something. But this
kid was in that school and I
1218
01:38:35.119 --> 01:38:38.760
don't know what happened. Maybe he
moved, I don't know. But his
1219
01:38:38.880 --> 01:38:42.800
mom tried to bring him into the
public school like it was daycare, which
1220
01:38:42.880 --> 01:38:45.880
is crazy to me, and they
brought him into my class. Now,
1221
01:38:46.119 --> 01:38:54.399
this kid, five years old had
a lot of trouble sitting down. He
1222
01:38:54.600 --> 01:38:58.600
did for a while, but he
would just get up and do things.
1223
01:38:58.720 --> 01:39:00.680
Okay, something I let go.
You know, you pick and choose your
1224
01:39:00.720 --> 01:39:08.000
battles, especially when they're that little. So I go to lunch now,
1225
01:39:08.479 --> 01:39:11.199
given in my classroom. Every time
I went to lunch, there was always
1226
01:39:11.239 --> 01:39:15.439
a problem because I had the only
monolingual class, which means all my kids
1227
01:39:15.479 --> 01:39:18.840
spoke English and my aid only spoke
Spanish. Because that makes sense, right,
1228
01:39:19.479 --> 01:39:25.439
So big they go to they to
lunch, they have lunch in the
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01:39:25.520 --> 01:39:30.760
classroom. I leave and I'm getting
called back and I'm like, Okay,
1230
01:39:30.840 --> 01:39:35.680
what the hell is going on?
Well, this new child that showed up
1231
01:39:36.319 --> 01:39:41.960
tried to go out the window,
literally tried to go out the fucking window
1232
01:39:42.479 --> 01:39:45.560
at lunch, climbed up the table, open the window, tried to get
1233
01:39:45.600 --> 01:39:49.600
out. My aid had to like
rush grab him and pull him down.
1234
01:39:49.720 --> 01:39:56.039
Needless to say, that boy never
came back because he didn't belong there.
1235
01:39:56.560 --> 01:40:01.399
Okay, I had a child who
five. Now, five is usually when
1236
01:40:02.039 --> 01:40:09.520
we start paying attention to certain things, certain behaviors we look for. We
1237
01:40:09.640 --> 01:40:13.399
look for stuff because it's important because
at five you should be able to do
1238
01:40:13.520 --> 01:40:17.079
certain things. That's the way the
curriculum works, right. School systems like
1239
01:40:17.159 --> 01:40:20.640
by the age of five, you
should be able to do ABCD. And
1240
01:40:23.359 --> 01:40:30.560
we have kids that come in and
they are not yet diagnosed with autism.
1241
01:40:31.399 --> 01:40:34.800
But because of my experience, I
can tell, I can tell when a
1242
01:40:34.880 --> 01:40:40.960
kid is autistic. And I had
a student who definitely was, but his
1243
01:40:41.159 --> 01:40:44.920
mom was really good because she knew
something was up and she was like,
1244
01:40:45.039 --> 01:40:49.359
listen, I'm going to get him
tested because I'm pretty sure that something is
1245
01:40:49.479 --> 01:40:54.079
up and he might be autistic.
And I'm like, okay, we had
1246
01:40:54.159 --> 01:41:01.279
a excuse me. This was during
Halloween. We had a We have these
1247
01:41:01.359 --> 01:41:08.359
older teachers who would come in that
were like in Union City they have they
1248
01:41:08.439 --> 01:41:13.840
make jobs for people to just waste
school money really, and they had these
1249
01:41:14.079 --> 01:41:17.840
older teachers that were supposed to be
like expert teachers that come for new teachers
1250
01:41:17.880 --> 01:41:21.199
and check you out and help you
in the classroom and all this other stuff.
1251
01:41:21.960 --> 01:41:27.159
And she came in to read a
book to my classroom, like one
1252
01:41:27.199 --> 01:41:30.359
of those tape books where they play
the tape and follow along with the book.
1253
01:41:31.159 --> 01:41:33.680
And it was in Halloween book.
So it's supposed to be like spooky,
1254
01:41:33.760 --> 01:41:39.720
scary, but not really. Their
five now, a childhood's autistic has
1255
01:41:39.760 --> 01:41:45.840
a very hard time understanding reality from
not okay. They are very logical.
1256
01:41:46.760 --> 01:41:50.439
Things have to make sense, you
know, like one plus one is two
1257
01:41:50.479 --> 01:41:55.960
and that makes sense. That's logic, right, So ghosts and things like
1258
01:41:56.079 --> 01:42:00.119
that, that doesn't make any sense. And he takes things literally. So
1259
01:42:01.119 --> 01:42:04.000
he came to me in the middle. I was sitting in the back,
1260
01:42:04.880 --> 01:42:10.840
and he was just like, can
we can we go somewhere? I don't
1261
01:42:10.880 --> 01:42:13.439
want to I don't want to hear
the story. And I was like,
1262
01:42:13.640 --> 01:42:18.840
yes, So I took him out
of the classroom. And that was the
1263
01:42:18.920 --> 01:42:24.119
right thing to do in that case, because I already knew that this child
1264
01:42:24.159 --> 01:42:27.880
already has a hard time understanding things, and I knew that the best thing
1265
01:42:27.960 --> 01:42:30.279
for him so he doesn't have nightmares
tonight is to take him out of the
1266
01:42:30.319 --> 01:42:35.119
classroom. When I came back,
this expert teacher tried to tell me,
1267
01:42:35.479 --> 01:42:39.279
like, what was I doing?
Why did I think it was a good
1268
01:42:39.319 --> 01:42:41.960
idea to take this student out of
the classroom. And I was like,
1269
01:42:42.079 --> 01:42:46.600
well, if you're unaware he is
autistic, and if you don't know how
1270
01:42:46.680 --> 01:42:53.039
it works with children who have autism, they can't sit through something like that
1271
01:42:53.239 --> 01:42:58.800
and be okay, especially for this
child. And it bothered me that some
1272
01:42:59.119 --> 01:43:06.119
expert teacher didn't even understand children with
disabilities and what that looks like and how
1273
01:43:06.239 --> 01:43:13.039
you should be able to make changes
in your classroom like you're supposed to do
1274
01:43:13.520 --> 01:43:18.039
to benefit all your students. And
that for me was the moment where I
1275
01:43:18.159 --> 01:43:21.840
was just like, as I thought, public school isn't about the students.
1276
01:43:23.399 --> 01:43:27.159
It never is. It's all about
politics. And that's one of the reasons
1277
01:43:27.199 --> 01:43:33.439
why I left teaching. But I
just it bothered me so much to see
1278
01:43:33.640 --> 01:43:42.680
the lack of knowledge from expert teachers
when it came to students with mental disabilities.
1279
01:43:44.000 --> 01:43:48.840
And that is something that all teachers
should know, Like all anyone who
1280
01:43:48.920 --> 01:43:53.920
wants to be a teacher should truly
experience what it's like to be in a
1281
01:43:53.960 --> 01:43:59.640
special ed room, what it's like
to be in a special ed like school,
1282
01:43:59.800 --> 01:44:08.039
if if that's possible, because you
won't understand until you actually experience it.
1283
01:44:09.239 --> 01:44:15.319
And I've always been someone who like
when I would teach, I like
1284
01:44:15.439 --> 01:44:20.880
relating to my students, and I
like I like them to understand why they're
1285
01:44:20.960 --> 01:44:26.960
learning certain things right, Like I
always felt like, why am I learning
1286
01:44:27.039 --> 01:44:29.560
this shit? Am I really going
to use this when I grow up?
1287
01:44:30.079 --> 01:44:33.399
No, A lot of things we
learned at school we never use growing up,
1288
01:44:33.520 --> 01:44:39.720
Like why didn't they teach us about
checkbooks or check checking accounts and savings
1289
01:44:39.800 --> 01:44:45.119
and investments and mortgages and all that
other stuff. Our educational system is so
1290
01:44:45.439 --> 01:44:48.800
horrible. We didn't we didn't take
any of that shit. And that's what
1291
01:44:49.000 --> 01:44:54.039
Matt like, these things matter.
How do you live once you leave school?
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01:44:54.520 --> 01:44:58.079
How do you make a life for
yourself when you leave school and have
1293
01:44:58.239 --> 01:45:13.319
to be an adult? It's just
left I mean, I mean sadly nowadays
1294
01:45:14.399 --> 01:45:17.960
that is the inspiration for a lot
of young people because it's there and people
1295
01:45:18.039 --> 01:45:21.680
are making the money. I missed. I missed that window. No you
1296
01:45:21.800 --> 01:45:27.880
didn't. Ye honestly, anyone could
do it. You just really have to
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01:45:27.960 --> 01:45:31.640
be disciplined. You have to make
content and you have to make you got
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01:45:31.760 --> 01:45:35.520
to work. The people that are
making money put in the work. They're
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01:45:35.600 --> 01:45:41.600
not just like sitting there and whatever. I agree, and it's real,
1300
01:45:41.840 --> 01:45:45.880
just not my thing. I actually
wish social media. I wish I could
1301
01:45:45.920 --> 01:45:50.680
make the reels and stuff that some
people make, because last summer fascinated I
1302
01:45:50.760 --> 01:45:57.560
got off of Facebook and uh and
Instagram. I'll pick in like once in
1303
01:45:57.640 --> 01:46:01.239
a blue maybe, but I'm with
that. So for me and my business,
1304
01:46:01.319 --> 01:46:05.720
it's social media is rather important.
So yeah, no, Luckily,
1305
01:46:05.880 --> 01:46:09.800
for for for what I do,
I don't have to be involved, you
1306
01:46:09.880 --> 01:46:12.119
know. And when I do need
to go to social media, I just
1307
01:46:12.439 --> 01:46:15.000
I use LinkedIn, you know if
I need to post, and I'm hiring
1308
01:46:16.239 --> 01:46:21.560
things of that nature so really quick. So what do you what advice would
1309
01:46:21.560 --> 01:46:26.960
you give this this parent, this
lady that this poor woman sounds like a
1310
01:46:27.039 --> 01:46:30.239
hot mess. The first piece of
advice I give them is to not have
1311
01:46:30.319 --> 01:46:41.800
any more children. Really for the
condom one. Those aren't even so I
1312
01:46:42.199 --> 01:46:45.960
wish they would. I knew somebody, I know somebody who had a vasected
1313
01:46:45.039 --> 01:46:49.399
me and his wife not only did
she get pregnant, but they had twins.
1314
01:46:49.560 --> 01:46:56.800
Man is well, no, legitimately, there wasn't It wouldn't even be
1315
01:46:56.880 --> 01:47:00.800
a story. That's the story.
What it actually is his that's the that's
1316
01:47:00.880 --> 01:47:06.520
the that's a surprising crazy I just
have birst control and get pregnant. Yeah.
1317
01:47:06.720 --> 01:47:12.640
I just had a friend reverse his
his visectomy and and he's I'm like,
1318
01:47:12.840 --> 01:47:15.600
what, you want to have kids? And he's like yeah, his
1319
01:47:15.720 --> 01:47:17.520
girlfriend's a really good mom. So
he's like, you know what, he's
1320
01:47:17.600 --> 01:47:23.359
forty six. He just had a
grandchild as a matter of fact on Christmas
1321
01:47:23.439 --> 01:47:27.800
Eve, and oh yeah that's a
blessing. Yeah. And he and he
1322
01:47:28.079 --> 01:47:31.000
and he reversed his vasectomy. And
I'm like, yeah, you crazy,
1323
01:47:33.039 --> 01:47:38.840
crazy boy. Yeah, Hey,
then look, you know what I know.
1324
01:47:39.239 --> 01:47:42.520
I know when when my daughter graduates
high school will be like sixty five
1325
01:47:42.560 --> 01:47:46.760
in a wheelchair and whatever. My
wheelchair is going to have banging system in
1326
01:47:46.800 --> 01:47:49.039
the back. You know what I'm
saying. It's you know what I'm saying,
1327
01:47:49.039 --> 01:47:54.279
I'm gonna have a professor X wheelchair. All right, if I can
1328
01:47:54.359 --> 01:47:59.840
come in for a second about time, Lady J Well, because I'm not
1329
01:48:00.079 --> 01:48:02.760
want to compete for people's attention and
time, so I wait until there's a
1330
01:48:02.800 --> 01:48:08.760
moment and then I talk. I'm
not gonna fight the voice over voice.
1331
01:48:09.239 --> 01:48:13.800
But what I seem to be seeing
with all of these topics that we're talking
1332
01:48:13.840 --> 01:48:19.199
about is the same thing. Each
case is individual to individual beliefs, values,
1333
01:48:19.880 --> 01:48:26.359
and knowledge resources. I was a
family therapist for twenty years, so
1334
01:48:27.279 --> 01:48:32.119
the add the odd all of those
things are real things. But depending on
1335
01:48:32.279 --> 01:48:42.920
one person's beliefs, ideals upbringing,
that determines one whether they actually understand that
1336
01:48:43.039 --> 01:48:47.000
these are real issues too, if
they're willing to even deal with the issues.
1337
01:48:49.159 --> 01:48:54.279
And they are real things. But
we tend to get into our egos
1338
01:48:55.239 --> 01:48:58.359
about what we believe and what we
like and what we don't like. You
1339
01:48:58.439 --> 01:49:04.600
know, I'm on your book TG
me without medication is not a person that
1340
01:49:04.680 --> 01:49:10.560
would be here, so you know. And but I also I also take
1341
01:49:10.760 --> 01:49:15.479
my like the way I approach it
is, I am not gonna close my
1342
01:49:15.600 --> 01:49:19.119
mind to a potential solution or assistance. But I think people are looking for
1343
01:49:19.960 --> 01:49:24.720
the pill that solves the whole problem, and that's not the issue. The
1344
01:49:24.880 --> 01:49:29.840
issue is you're looking for the medication
or the therapy or whatever it is that's
1345
01:49:29.920 --> 01:49:34.039
gonna assist you in using the skills
that you are taught in like you were
1346
01:49:34.039 --> 01:49:41.920
saying in school at home. So
my advice for this mom is one any
1347
01:49:42.000 --> 01:49:45.359
good parent is going to worry.
They're gonna worry that they make the right
1348
01:49:45.479 --> 01:49:50.279
choice the wrong choice. I am
not one to say maybe you shouldn't be
1349
01:49:50.319 --> 01:49:54.039
having no more kids. I don't
know, because I don't know the people
1350
01:49:54.199 --> 01:50:00.119
like that. But it should be
a co parenting situation. You know,
1351
01:50:00.319 --> 01:50:04.840
both of them have to be participating
in the upbringing of the child. So
1352
01:50:05.479 --> 01:50:10.119
you know, everybody wants to blame
the other parent, Well, the mom's
1353
01:50:10.159 --> 01:50:13.000
too soft, or the dad's too
hard, or the dad's doing this,
1354
01:50:13.159 --> 01:50:15.720
the dad's doing that. Unfortunately,
we can't choose who our parents are.
1355
01:50:16.439 --> 01:50:21.560
We can choose who we associate with. We can choose if we want to
1356
01:50:21.840 --> 01:50:27.720
continue to live the chaotic life that
our parents live. However, this child
1357
01:50:27.840 --> 01:50:30.760
is in a place where they're just
looking for some love, affection, and
1358
01:50:30.840 --> 01:50:34.359
support. So these parents need to
get out of their own way and work
1359
01:50:34.399 --> 01:50:40.840
with each other, look for resources. You know, maybe family therapy,
1360
01:50:41.600 --> 01:50:46.720
yes, definitely family therapy, possibly
medication. Nobody's saying you need to start
1361
01:50:46.840 --> 01:50:51.319
off, you know, at the
very tippy top, you know, incrementally.
1362
01:50:51.439 --> 01:50:55.840
But everything, you know, because
I was listening to Tolerance talking about
1363
01:50:55.840 --> 01:50:59.560
why does everything have to have a
gray area? Well, because every situation
1364
01:50:59.680 --> 01:51:03.800
is different, every person is different, resources are different. The way you're
1365
01:51:03.800 --> 01:51:09.039
gonna treat an upper class, you
know, white family is not the same
1366
01:51:09.079 --> 01:51:15.159
way you're gonna treat the urban minority
family. You know. I just recently
1367
01:51:15.279 --> 01:51:17.920
found out, and this kind of
like feeds into that whole thing. I
1368
01:51:18.119 --> 01:51:25.159
just recently found out that I have
a d D inattentive add and I'm almost
1369
01:51:25.199 --> 01:51:30.800
fifty years old. So that that
was like an eye opening experience for me
1370
01:51:30.840 --> 01:51:33.439
because I did a lot of suffering
throughout my life, not because I had
1371
01:51:33.560 --> 01:51:39.520
parents who were straight off, not
even an island straight out of South America
1372
01:51:39.640 --> 01:51:42.880
talking about, oh, we don't
believe in that. You know, you're
1373
01:51:42.960 --> 01:51:46.159
just being lazy. You're doing this
or doing that. So, as we
1374
01:51:46.239 --> 01:51:50.000
say over here, I thugged it
out, you know, but I didn't
1375
01:51:50.039 --> 01:51:55.640
realize that I was actually suffering,
and it wasn't because it was only because
1376
01:51:55.880 --> 01:52:02.079
my sixteen year old actually was diagnosed
in the third grade with an attentive add
1377
01:52:02.479 --> 01:52:08.640
We didn't medically treat her because it
wasn't an issue for her life at the
1378
01:52:08.720 --> 01:52:13.800
moment. But as she got older, it started becoming an issue because it's
1379
01:52:13.840 --> 01:52:16.800
not the hyperactive kind, it's the
total opposite. It's more like a depressive
1380
01:52:16.880 --> 01:52:23.159
type. So it's only now that
she's growing into adulthood preparing to go to
1381
01:52:23.279 --> 01:52:28.960
college, that now it is becoming
an issue. And because getting her treated,
1382
01:52:29.079 --> 01:52:30.640
because I talked to her, she's
at an age where you know,
1383
01:52:30.800 --> 01:52:33.760
she can make that choice for herself. So I said, okay, mom,
1384
01:52:33.960 --> 01:52:36.359
these are the facts. And that's
the thing. People have to come
1385
01:52:36.439 --> 01:52:41.960
with the facts, not just your
opinions about what the government is doing and
1386
01:52:42.039 --> 01:52:45.000
all this other kind of stuff,
because yes, we know we live in
1387
01:52:45.079 --> 01:52:48.279
this corrupt society. People, people
are the ones that make the society the
1388
01:52:48.319 --> 01:52:51.640
way it is right, and so
that messes up the systems. But we
1389
01:52:51.760 --> 01:52:56.920
still have to navigate those systems,
and we have to do it with each
1390
01:52:57.079 --> 01:53:03.640
individual person's life in mind. So
I came to her at sixteen years old,
1391
01:53:03.720 --> 01:53:05.840
said, honey, do you want
to do this? This is the
1392
01:53:05.960 --> 01:53:11.600
potential risks, these are the potential
benefits. What do you think? So
1393
01:53:11.800 --> 01:53:15.239
she agreed to try, And sometimes
we have to try before we say no,
1394
01:53:15.439 --> 01:53:18.720
this is not gonna work. She's
doing well. Let me tell you,
1395
01:53:19.640 --> 01:53:24.279
after the forty six forty seven years
of my life of struggling, struggling,
1396
01:53:24.319 --> 01:53:29.560
struggling, I have never been more
productive. And I am taking medication.
1397
01:53:30.159 --> 01:53:32.920
You know, medication may not be
for everybody, But how about if
1398
01:53:33.000 --> 01:53:38.680
we check things out before we start
making these decisions. But unfortunately, that's
1399
01:53:38.720 --> 01:53:48.039
why there are great error because every
situation requires different you know, remedies.
1400
01:53:48.760 --> 01:53:55.039
You know. So as far as
this concern, I like what you're saying.
1401
01:53:55.399 --> 01:53:59.720
But what like I got? I
got prescribed to, I got prescribed,
1402
01:53:59.760 --> 01:54:01.760
Holy, I got diagnosed his own
biholder. I mean, can you
1403
01:54:01.840 --> 01:54:05.479
south right? Okay? I mean
another thing? Can you tell I don't
1404
01:54:05.479 --> 01:54:09.920
take medics? Because you know what, like like like like you know what,
1405
01:54:10.039 --> 01:54:13.800
the way I look at it,
it's like me on medication, Yeah,
1406
01:54:13.840 --> 01:54:15.840
you know what I was, you
know to people, I was safe.
1407
01:54:16.560 --> 01:54:19.199
You know what I'm saying. I
was a safe best you know me,
1408
01:54:19.520 --> 01:54:21.960
not on medication. What you see
is what you get, you know,
1409
01:54:23.079 --> 01:54:26.760
like you know, I don't know
whichever you know saying said my name?
1410
01:54:26.920 --> 01:54:28.800
Who cares? I don't know who? You know what I'm saying,
1411
01:54:28.960 --> 01:54:30.920
which Dub's gonna show? Right?
And I used to be worried about that.
1412
01:54:31.039 --> 01:54:33.439
Now I just don't care, you
know, Like I just don't care,
1413
01:54:33.880 --> 01:54:38.840
because you know what, I want
to experience, the full human experience,
1414
01:54:38.920 --> 01:54:42.920
whether it be manic or depressing,
I want to experience at all.
1415
01:54:43.640 --> 01:54:46.399
And that's that's how and and and
you know what, and that's how like
1416
01:54:46.479 --> 01:54:50.039
you know, like I've navigating through
it because you know what, them pills
1417
01:54:50.039 --> 01:54:53.960
don't make me feel like I'm human, you know, like I don't.
1418
01:54:54.000 --> 01:54:57.680
I don't feel like I'm alive.
I feel like I just barely exist.
1419
01:54:59.199 --> 01:55:02.840
And so choice, so that that
and that again, that's okay too,
1420
01:55:03.600 --> 01:55:08.800
that's okay to want that again,
but you're making that choice for yourself.
1421
01:55:09.319 --> 01:55:13.239
I can't make that choice for somebody
else. So that's what I'm saying.
1422
01:55:13.279 --> 01:55:17.479
Like it's different, you know,
like I totally respect you, you know,
1423
01:55:17.840 --> 01:55:23.800
your opinions, your thoughts and everything. Uh, sometimes I can't handle
1424
01:55:23.880 --> 01:55:28.880
it, but you know that.
But I I, uh, every show
1425
01:55:28.960 --> 01:55:34.760
needs a villain. And as you
can see by my arm and as you
1426
01:55:34.800 --> 01:55:39.000
can see by you know, saying
my picture, I am that guy.
1427
01:55:39.239 --> 01:55:43.319
You know, I'm all right so
so so so peep, so peep.
1428
01:55:43.960 --> 01:55:50.359
So you're talking about co parenting and
and making sure that the kid sees a
1429
01:55:50.479 --> 01:55:57.000
unified front. But what if,
like with this, with this this woman's
1430
01:55:57.000 --> 01:56:03.319
situation, what if you have a
parent, the father that that's completely filling
1431
01:56:03.359 --> 01:56:09.359
this kid's head up with. That's
why family therapy is important. Yeah,
1432
01:56:09.399 --> 01:56:13.800
And unfortunately you can't make people do
things that they don't want or willing to
1433
01:56:13.920 --> 01:56:16.119
do. Right, But what did
that woman do to that man? You
1434
01:56:16.159 --> 01:56:19.520
know what I'm saying that he has
like so much animosity. No, but
1435
01:56:19.640 --> 01:56:23.960
you know it doesn't matter what people
do to you. No, I No,
1436
01:56:24.359 --> 01:56:26.840
I get that, but like but
like you know what, like you
1437
01:56:26.840 --> 01:56:29.439
know what I'm saying, like you
like you gotta be one better? You
1438
01:56:29.439 --> 01:56:30.720
know what I'm saying, like like, I'm not attacking the female on this
1439
01:56:30.760 --> 01:56:35.680
one, I'm attacking the two.
Yeah, you gotta be you gotta be
1440
01:56:35.800 --> 01:56:41.000
so bitter, you know what I'm
saying, petty bitter whatever, you know,
1441
01:56:41.159 --> 01:56:43.399
like like you know what I'm saying, for you to hold the grudgs
1442
01:56:43.439 --> 01:56:45.720
like I mean for you to hold
the grudgs like that. Yeah, your
1443
01:56:45.760 --> 01:56:48.640
mom and ship you know what I'm
saying, But it's selfish just that and
1444
01:56:48.720 --> 01:56:51.399
the third like like yo, you
know what what like you know what?
1445
01:56:51.560 --> 01:56:55.640
Like like example, like I don't
get along with two of my you know
1446
01:56:55.640 --> 01:56:58.159
what I'm saying, baby mom,
Like really, I really don't. You
1447
01:56:58.199 --> 01:57:00.960
know what I'm saying. I don't
care for them. They don't care for
1448
01:57:00.079 --> 01:57:02.119
me. That's fine, you know
what I'm saying. But I never told
1449
01:57:02.439 --> 01:57:06.279
my kids this. Yeah whatever,
it's not about it's not about how the
1450
01:57:06.319 --> 01:57:12.560
adults feel. It's what's in the
best interest of this child, right absolutely,
1451
01:57:12.760 --> 01:57:17.199
like you know like that like that's
that's how that's how you know what
1452
01:57:17.199 --> 01:57:19.960
I'm saying experience wise, like like
you know that's how I took it,
1453
01:57:20.760 --> 01:57:23.960
however they took it. I mean, you know, they want to be
1454
01:57:24.000 --> 01:57:28.399
in their feelings fine, and I
can't think support them. I just don't
1455
01:57:28.399 --> 01:57:32.039
care about it, you know,
Like, but you can't stop being your
1456
01:57:32.159 --> 01:57:38.800
dad just because you have animosity towards
the parents. But job did, Like
1457
01:57:38.880 --> 01:57:42.000
you know what, one thing,
one thing I cannot do is like you
1458
01:57:42.039 --> 01:57:44.760
know what I'm saying, like you
know what I'm saying, try to turn
1459
01:57:44.880 --> 01:57:47.560
my kid against you know what I'm
saying his mom or her mom. I
1460
01:57:47.640 --> 01:57:50.840
can't do that, you know,
like, because you know what I'm saying
1461
01:57:50.880 --> 01:57:54.119
like that, just you know what
I'm saying that that just makes them you
1462
01:57:54.159 --> 01:57:55.920
know what I'm saying, catch another, you know, saying, catch another
1463
01:57:56.119 --> 01:57:58.600
w under their belt, you know, Like, no, I'm not going
1464
01:57:58.680 --> 01:58:00.920
to I'm not going to do this
satisfaction for you to see me bad.
1465
01:58:01.880 --> 01:58:05.760
I'm just gonna eat whatever you think, however you think, whatever, whatever
1466
01:58:05.880 --> 01:58:10.800
it is, and tell tell my
kid that's a story. That's all.
1467
01:58:11.720 --> 01:58:13.960
And you know what the truth is. We don't even have to tell him
1468
01:58:14.000 --> 01:58:17.279
anything. They will see it for
themselves. Oh yeah they will, they
1469
01:58:17.880 --> 01:58:21.399
go, oh yeah, they will. I mean, I was married sixty
1470
01:58:21.520 --> 01:58:26.640
years, I've been divorced for five. I don't have to say one thing
1471
01:58:26.800 --> 01:58:31.560
to my daughter, my youngest daughter
about her father. I'm so so very
1472
01:58:31.680 --> 01:58:35.680
blessed and lucky in some ways and
not so very blessed in others. But
1473
01:58:35.840 --> 01:58:41.640
I don't say anything to her one
way or the other except that he loves
1474
01:58:41.680 --> 01:58:45.640
her and that, you know,
anything that she has to say that about
1475
01:58:45.760 --> 01:58:47.800
him, that she needs to talk
to him about, especially because she's older.
1476
01:58:48.520 --> 01:58:51.239
You know, the truth of the
matter is, you know, whatever
1477
01:58:51.359 --> 01:58:54.720
kind of parent he's going to be, he's going to do on his own.
1478
01:58:55.079 --> 01:58:58.359
So he's either going to make or
break that relationship with her on his
1479
01:58:58.520 --> 01:59:00.920
own. And I don't have to
contribute anything. And I don't give other
1480
01:59:01.000 --> 01:59:05.800
people that kind of power over my
life to to make me bitter and angry,
1481
01:59:05.880 --> 01:59:10.000
because the truth is, at the
end of the day, I chose
1482
01:59:10.079 --> 01:59:13.760
them. I chose them to have
this family. I chose them to have
1483
01:59:13.920 --> 01:59:18.479
this kid. So it is what
it is. I'm a different person today
1484
01:59:18.520 --> 01:59:30.880
than I was yesterday. But I
have a real important question with up a
1485
01:59:30.000 --> 01:59:40.720
knee. Should we do bro?
You know what I'm saying, hold on,
1486
01:59:40.800 --> 01:59:43.720
hold on, guys, before you
answer, that's another part. I'm
1487
01:59:43.760 --> 01:59:45.720
glad you brought that up. For
that, I'm going to give you your
1488
01:59:45.800 --> 01:59:58.399
name back is it a roe or
a I got quoted on telling me that
1489
01:59:58.520 --> 02:00:10.399
they pronounced it were like like one
one because they also say yeah, he
1490
02:00:11.279 --> 02:00:15.479
look, take it easy. Don't
get it from them. So don't take
1491
02:00:17.079 --> 02:00:24.039
nobody's going with the white rice with
the black beans with That's how it is.
1492
02:00:24.199 --> 02:00:28.800
We don't do a We do white
rice and black beans. If you
1493
02:00:29.319 --> 02:00:31.760
my house for the holidays, y'all
get in both. Okay, so you
1494
02:00:31.880 --> 02:00:41.760
know that in my house that you
know? Another question? Chiplin or calleagreens
1495
02:00:43.960 --> 02:00:50.199
disgusting bro like pig feet. No, like the Piking testings. Oh,
1496
02:00:50.279 --> 02:00:59.520
the Tripes stuff. Chickens are different
from trip It's discussed. It's the stomach
1497
02:00:59.560 --> 02:01:05.439
lining. Right. But but but
but like, by the way, about
1498
02:01:05.439 --> 02:01:11.520
the gizzards. You guys like gizzards. You need the gizzards if it's fried.
1499
02:01:12.000 --> 02:01:13.800
You know what I'm saying with like
some fly on it. Yeah,
1500
02:01:13.960 --> 02:01:15.680
that's what it. Oh, it's
the same thing. Actually, chet Lands
1501
02:01:15.840 --> 02:01:20.039
is spawn tests as well. Yeah
but yeah, yeah, but you know
1502
02:01:20.119 --> 02:01:25.279
what though, like like it's different
coming from a pig at the postal cow.
1503
02:01:26.079 --> 02:01:38.039
Yeah, I need some senor rico. Oh my god, I missed
1504
02:01:38.079 --> 02:01:43.039
so many products. It's like yeah, but hold up though, like like
1505
02:01:43.199 --> 02:01:45.359
like first off, you know what
Lancaster is down there? Puerto rican so
1506
02:01:45.560 --> 02:01:47.960
is your you know what I'm saying, Like you can always go get them.
1507
02:01:48.159 --> 02:01:50.479
No, Lancaster is very white.
I don't know, I don't know
1508
02:01:50.680 --> 02:01:55.840
what you're talking about. Lancaster has
the Puerto Ricans for sure, and there
1509
02:01:55.920 --> 02:01:59.800
are nothing. But I'm not close
to Lancaster. I'm close to Harris b
1510
02:02:00.239 --> 02:02:08.720
Yes, Harris Hood they got but
but but but you know what, I've
1511
02:02:08.720 --> 02:02:12.079
been out tow York before, Like
like York has a lot of Puerto Ricans
1512
02:02:12.079 --> 02:02:15.079
out there, a lot of New
York has a lot of minorities. They
1513
02:02:15.119 --> 02:02:18.600
do a lot of them. Like
you know what, I was just confusing
1514
02:02:18.720 --> 02:02:23.399
York with New York. Forgive him. No, No, not York West
1515
02:02:23.479 --> 02:02:29.600
New York. They actually are.
It's more city like area. So basically
1516
02:02:29.680 --> 02:02:35.000
anything with Princester. I've been out
there before before, you know, I
1517
02:02:35.039 --> 02:02:40.199
mean so like New York so that
like there are towns just like there is
1518
02:02:40.279 --> 02:02:43.600
in Jersey that they're good parts and
bad parts. You know, I think
1519
02:02:43.680 --> 02:02:46.279
I thought York. I thought York
was was Amas. No, no,
1520
02:02:46.680 --> 02:02:53.159
no, Lancaster is that's Leancaster Lancaster
County is like they live in bird in
1521
02:02:53.319 --> 02:03:00.800
Hand and uh Marietta when like all
these freaking places. Well, my son
1522
02:03:00.880 --> 02:03:04.239
and I drove down to Maryland to
go see my daughter, right like we
1523
02:03:04.439 --> 02:03:08.600
actually passed up some buggies and whatever, and I'm like, holy ship,
1524
02:03:08.760 --> 02:03:11.720
look at this, you know what
I'm saying, and like and like you
1525
02:03:11.800 --> 02:03:14.520
know what, like you know what
I'm saying. Like I had a little
1526
02:03:14.560 --> 02:03:16.199
joke and I was like, yo, you know what, imagine living like
1527
02:03:16.319 --> 02:03:19.640
them. They ain't got they got
pay no property taxes. They ain't got
1528
02:03:19.760 --> 02:03:24.439
to pay nothing. They live off
the land. Are you talking about?
1529
02:03:24.439 --> 02:03:31.640
They don't have to pay property tax? Yes, they do. How Amish?
1530
02:03:31.920 --> 02:03:40.000
Okay, in the millions, millions. They make delicious pies, They
1531
02:03:40.039 --> 02:03:45.039
make delicious stuff. Everything has butter
in it. So the Amish go to
1532
02:03:45.159 --> 02:03:51.359
these auctions for these farms and they
bid in them to the millions for these
1533
02:03:51.399 --> 02:03:56.760
freaking farms. It's not even a
joke. People want to get farmland here,
1534
02:03:56.920 --> 02:04:00.239
and it's hard because the Amish are
like on it, on do it.
1535
02:04:01.359 --> 02:04:06.039
They just want to, you know, make sure that they take that
1536
02:04:06.279 --> 02:04:11.520
land and and use it for farming, because that's what they do. Okay,
1537
02:04:11.520 --> 02:04:14.039
I can tell you how much corn
we have here when it when it
1538
02:04:14.159 --> 02:04:20.479
grows, it's ridiculous. Like you
drive there's corn everywhere, there's cows everywhere.
1539
02:04:21.680 --> 02:04:26.399
It's smells so fucking bad. Like
that's the one thing I hate about
1540
02:04:26.439 --> 02:04:30.600
living in PA is like the nicest
days when you want to drive around with
1541
02:04:30.680 --> 02:04:34.560
your windows down, you can,
but it's gonna smell like fucking cowshit.
1542
02:04:34.840 --> 02:04:40.479
I think you're going to say your
governor. No, I I don't even
1543
02:04:40.560 --> 02:04:44.880
know who the governor is. So
there's that. So what's his name,
1544
02:04:45.159 --> 02:04:48.399
Big Sasquashian? Is he the governor? I thought he was a senator.
1545
02:04:51.920 --> 02:04:57.760
Yeah. He wears like sweatpants and
hoodies everywhere. It's disgusting, man,
1546
02:04:57.920 --> 02:05:02.760
he's just trend. I like that
fucking wear sweatpants and hoodies the fucking That's
1547
02:05:02.800 --> 02:05:06.840
how I think he met Joe Biden
that way, like he was wearing shorts.
1548
02:05:08.000 --> 02:05:11.239
And I'm a fucking champion, b
you know what I mean. Like,
1549
02:05:11.760 --> 02:05:15.800
let's get it right, I'm another
champion. You need to talk to
1550
02:05:15.920 --> 02:05:19.680
doves in that tone of voice,
not to yo, what yo? You
1551
02:05:19.720 --> 02:05:23.520
know what, y'all better watch your
tone because you know what I'm saying like
1552
02:05:23.640 --> 02:05:28.439
that does cappecate people? Man,
don't worry about that. Who stored?
1553
02:05:28.560 --> 02:05:30.479
Like, Yo, you know what? You know what I'm saying, Like,
1554
02:05:30.560 --> 02:05:30.840
Yo, you know what? Yeah, you know what? Where the
1555
02:05:30.920 --> 02:05:33.359
crime I snatched? I snatched a
crown with your head still attached to me?
1556
02:05:35.359 --> 02:05:39.640
I don't know. I was four
and ten and I knocked out at
1557
02:05:39.680 --> 02:05:42.479
thirteen and one. Team I don't
know, bro, because Yo, you
1558
02:05:42.520 --> 02:05:44.479
know what? Yo, you know
what? Because like you know what I'm
1559
02:05:44.479 --> 02:05:47.079
saying, freaking you know what I'm
saying, Tyreek h decided like set this
1560
02:05:47.199 --> 02:05:49.239
one out and all my players in
the show up. And I knew that
1561
02:05:49.279 --> 02:05:53.319
ship was going to happen. I
knew I knew it. I knew it.
1562
02:05:53.439 --> 02:05:57.560
Bro. So with all this but
all this being says, anybody got
1563
02:05:57.680 --> 02:06:00.880
last words for the night? He
Yo? Now man, Yeah, yeah,
1564
02:06:00.920 --> 02:06:05.279
you know what. Yeah, I'm
about to go. You're about to
1565
02:06:05.279 --> 02:06:08.359
do right now? My daughter you
know what I'm saying. My son is
1566
02:06:08.359 --> 02:06:11.520
sleeping, my son's sleeping over and
my daughter's sleeping right I'm about to wake
1567
02:06:11.560 --> 02:06:13.760
her up, right and like you
know what I'm saying, have my daughter
1568
02:06:13.880 --> 02:06:18.560
kicked my son in the face?
I like I I like to. I
1569
02:06:18.720 --> 02:06:21.239
like to be mischievous, especially when
it comes to my kids. I'm about
1570
02:06:21.239 --> 02:06:25.159
to give my son a wet willie. We're good, I'm like, shut
1571
02:06:25.239 --> 02:06:32.199
up, take it ill No,
all right, so we Yo, we've
1572
02:06:32.239 --> 02:06:36.600
been on two hours and six minutes
thirty four thirty five thirty six. That's
1573
02:06:36.600 --> 02:06:39.960
a long time. It's been a
while since we've been on this long.
1574
02:06:40.399 --> 02:06:41.960
Yeah. That's for really like,
like, yo, you know what,
1575
02:06:42.239 --> 02:06:44.359
quick story, right, I went
downstairs in my car because I'm like,
1576
02:06:44.399 --> 02:06:45.840
Yo, you know what I'm saying. I'm just gonna go to my car.
1577
02:06:46.000 --> 02:06:49.840
Whatever. Man, After forty five
minutes down there, man, I'm
1578
02:06:49.880 --> 02:06:55.159
like, nah, the same it. I'm just going I'm gonna I'm gonna
1579
02:06:55.159 --> 02:06:58.359
do this in the bathroom when we
say shit, I got you know what
1580
02:06:58.359 --> 02:07:01.119
I'm saying. At least I'm hot. You mean I'm gonna do it in
1581
02:07:01.199 --> 02:07:06.399
the bathroom. Like yeah, so
you know, like my daughter don't wake
1582
02:07:06.479 --> 02:07:11.520
up. I don't serve my girl, I don't my son, you know,
1583
02:07:11.680 --> 02:07:15.520
Like every now and then I have
to turn the micro off because okay,
1584
02:07:16.439 --> 02:07:19.159
I think for the next show,
we should do some battle rounds.
1585
02:07:19.319 --> 02:07:23.880
That's that's let's throw a couple of
topics in the hat, but then we
1586
02:07:24.159 --> 02:07:33.039
pick them on the spot, so
yeah, you don want to go yeah
1587
02:07:33.279 --> 02:07:35.880
yeah, got names like Lady G
and t G. And then we had
1588
02:07:35.920 --> 02:07:39.560
to go a battle round. Wrap
here. You couldn't you couldn't hold your
1589
02:07:39.600 --> 02:07:44.479
own I find that hard to believe. I'm sure you guys can a bar
1590
02:07:44.600 --> 02:07:47.840
or two together. We'll throw some
We'll throw some topics in the hat and
1591
02:07:47.920 --> 02:07:55.000
then pick them randomly. So nobody's
that's good, like the TG spend the
1592
02:07:55.039 --> 02:07:58.960
bar like my name is t G
and I'm here at the say you like
1593
02:08:05.560 --> 02:08:07.760
real quick. There's the rest of
my idea. Right, So two on
1594
02:08:07.880 --> 02:08:11.479
two battle rounds. That needs three
judges, right, so so there's always
1595
02:08:11.520 --> 02:08:16.800
gonna be h you know, it
could be it could be a unanimous decision.
1596
02:08:16.840 --> 02:08:22.760
It could be a split decision for
ignorance. Right then then always and
1597
02:08:22.840 --> 02:08:28.840
then the winner of that round,
maybe for a future show, becomes the
1598
02:08:28.159 --> 02:08:33.479
head host and we give big Coleon, you know what I'm saying, a
1599
02:08:33.520 --> 02:08:37.600
little bit break and then let that
person run the show the way they want,
1600
02:08:39.199 --> 02:08:41.600
all their topics whatever they want.
I don't know, just an idea,
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I'm a competitive Well, Well we'll
look into all that that sounds pretty
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02:08:46.000 --> 02:08:50.399
good. I need to break can
I tell you that something? The truth
1603
02:08:50.520 --> 02:08:54.720
is is that fantasy is over and
I need something to be competitive at right,
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02:08:54.880 --> 02:09:00.640
So so use us, okay,
or like we're halfway to to a
1605
02:09:00.760 --> 02:09:03.640
league. Here we get five more
people on, we can start like a
1606
02:09:03.760 --> 02:09:07.960
podcast league, right and then and
that's that. Well, I'm going I'm
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02:09:07.960 --> 02:09:11.159
going once once the super Bowl,
once the super Bowl is over and done,
1608
02:09:11.159 --> 02:09:15.840
when I'm opening up the league again. So nice, yo, I
1609
02:09:15.920 --> 02:09:18.960
want to start a new league,
broll. We'll discuss all that another time.
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02:09:20.720 --> 02:09:24.199
Let's let's leave the ladies out of
the fantasy football. That's that's nothing.
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02:09:24.560 --> 02:09:28.800
So so with that being said,
you know what I'm saying, this
1612
02:09:28.920 --> 02:09:33.079
has been another episode of that this
might hear podcast. I'm big, Holy
1613
02:09:33.199 --> 02:09:37.439
on, somebody say something. You
know you know who I am. I'm
1614
02:09:37.560 --> 02:09:41.720
every he knows what you know?
How low? We had to say that
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02:09:41.920 --> 02:09:48.960
right in the bathroom. In the
bathroom too, like did I hear the
1616
02:09:50.119 --> 02:09:54.239
toilet in the background for like not
yet? Not yet, yo, because
1617
02:09:54.520 --> 02:09:58.760
you know what I'm about to drop
a duce right it's won't be yeah,
1618
02:09:58.800 --> 02:10:05.159
stop running the bath fom in the
background for cut it out? Ship.
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02:10:05.640 --> 02:10:09.920
But I've been co that's up to
the dawn. Ladies, lady get me
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TG high. It's tolerance, so
yo, everybody, have a good night
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02:10:18.199 --> 02:10:20.399
out. We're out. Be safe
and always remember that at some point what
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this my good night? Good bye,


















