Sept. 12, 2024

Tactical Tuesday (Recorded LIVE on 9-10-24)

Tactical Tuesday (Recorded LIVE on 9-10-24)

We discuss things you might or might not care about. Things that might or might not upset you but Hey you already know that at some point THIS MIGHT HURT!!!

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We discuss things you might or might not care about. Things that might or might not upset you but Hey you already know that at some point THIS MIGHT HURT!!!

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One years.

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Has Has Has has Has said, Yo, it's good everybody.

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This is big, coldly owned this my heard podcast come

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to you live from wherever the fuck. You know what

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I'm saying. You know how it is from where We're

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live from here exactly, bringing my co host Lady G.

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Lady G was good, Hey, hey, hey, hey, how you doing.

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I'm wonderful.

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That's good, that's good.

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How are you me?

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I'm ships and giggles man, you know, I'm good. I'm

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all right, glad, Yes, i am. I am all right.

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So so I'm here. We're competing tonight with the debate.

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Yeah, actually we are. We are competing with the debate,

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which is which is fine. I mean, I'm went into

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watching ship shows, so you know, I didn't. I didn't

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even know there was a debate tonight. Till till t

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g oh you know the baits tonight, I'm like, oh, okay,

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you know, trying one night.

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We decide to do it early, right, And.

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That's what's crazy, right, It's the first time we decided

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to do early and fucking debates on it.

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Well.

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Well, I'm sorry, I'm just an old lady. I can't

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be up till five o'clock in the morning.

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Word, it's all right though, So it is what it is,

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what it is. Doesn't be here soon. He just he

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just hit me up and said he'll be he'll be

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here soon. So how is your How is your week?

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Tuesday to Tuesday?

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It's always wonderful every day I wake up.

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All right, that's that's a great way to look at it,

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you know what I mean? Absolutely, football season. I know

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we don't talk sports much, but football season started Thursday.

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Guys doing your fantasy stuff.

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Yeah, absolutely, yeah, we we started that. And I actually

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I'm in five leagues. I run four and I lost

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in four only one in one league.

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Wow.

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Yeah, I really crap the fucking bed this week.

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Man. Uh m hm yo, yeah, it's nine o'clock. It's

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nine o'clock. Things a little better because you know why,

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I'm not even find my sleep old stuff.

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Oh, we're live, Yeah, we're live.

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Bro.

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Uh oh oh hey, what's up? Man?

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We're already five We're already five minutes in bro.

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Oh yeah, my bad, my bad.

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Freezing.

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So you're it looks like your WiFi, your WiFi, your

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WiFi is trash to night bro.

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Yep, look who else is messing the bed.

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Yeah word mh but that.

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You know how that goes.

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You might have to to start up again. It sound

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good you keep freezing yep hm hmmm. Yeah, he's he's frozen.

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I don't have to figure he'll have to figure that

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out anyway. So yeah, my my week, as far as

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my week goes, it's who's a good week? Went too bad?

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You know what I'm saying. I had a couple of

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all right, he's back, let's see. Yeah, man, was that

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missus softy that just passed by?

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Yeah?

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Man, oh man, See he made up that he was

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freezing because he wanted to stop the softy trick. I

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saw him wiping his mouth.

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Yeah. Yeah. First off, first off, you know what, I'm

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not paying nine dollars for ice cream cone, Like that's crazy.

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It's literally like like seven eight dollars just for ice

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cream cone.

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Bro. You know what I was thinking about stuff like

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that on my way home from work today, Like, how

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in the world did everything get so freaking expensive? Like

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when I think back just a couple of years, how

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how not that it was cheap, but how much cheaper

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things were just in the last three four.

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Years, you know, because corporate greed. Man like like you

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know what, every you know what I'm saying, Like the

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one percent makes the rules, they charge everything, Like for instance, McDonald's,

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Why am I going to spend twelve dollars on an

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unhealthy big mac when I could just go to the

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buffet eat unhealthy but limited? You know what I'm saying,

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Like unlimited? You see what I mean. It's like you

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know it's like bro like like like yo, you know

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what if you come think of it? Every you know

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what I'm saying, Like we're in a recession right now.

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A lot of people you know what I'm saying, Like

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some people acknowledge it, some people don't. M you know

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what I'm saying because like what do you call it?

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What was that increase of minimum weight?

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Yeah? Like like like yo, you know what's funny, man?

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The funny thing about it is that it's that you

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know what I'm saying, Like see d CEOs don't need

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You know what I'm saying, could increase minimum ways to

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still get paid, but it's greed. You know what I'm saying,

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Like you know, like like you know what for instance, exactly,

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then give you a perfect example, how like Netflix? You

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know what I'm saying basically kill TV.

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Mhm.

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But you know what I'm saying, Like, so that so

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that's the reason why, like Cable and Verizon Files and

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all them, it's so much you know what I'm saying,

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so much money nowadays just to have it, you know,

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because like because like because you know what what else

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Satellite files and you know what I'm saying, And I mean,

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it's Comcast for you, but it's optimate for us. Right

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when it was just like those three competitors, you know

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what I'm saying, Like Cable was like like you know

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what I'm saying, TV itself was it was doable. It

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was like what like one twenty for like a full package,

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you know, like and plus they you're doing the Wi Fi.

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Once Netflix came in, you know what I'm saying, Netflix

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killed a whole game. And now every and now every

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now and now everybody else is modeling after that. So

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you know what I'm saying, Like it's it's always someone

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with a bright idea that comes in with the whole

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purpose to take what I'm saying, monopolize and then doing

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so cause of recession, like you know what I'm saying,

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entertainment wise, right and like now you know, like like

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you know, like the way the way the economy is

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right now, you know, like you see like really like

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you know what I'm saying, inflated prices. You know, like

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like I studied real estate even though like I ain't

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go back to classroom yet, but you know, like on

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my downtime, I'm looking at real estate and stuff, right

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and I'm looking at houses where I used to live

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at in Florida. Now, mind you these houses, you know

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what I'm saying. Like if you look at it, you

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know what I'm saying. In your mind, You're like, I'll

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pay two hundred and three hundred grand easy on that house. Bro.

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They selling these houses. They're trying to sell these houses

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right now for like a million and change. Yep, you know,

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just because you know, like it's yo, the economy is bad, bro,

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Like you know, and and you know what, you could

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point fingers at what political party you want to be

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point fingers to b At the end of the day,

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they're both at fault. That's my opinion, you know, like

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like you know, like to actually believe that one political

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parties is for the people and the other one is

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for corporate It's totally stupid when at the end of

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the day, like in my opinion, these people be you

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know what I'm saying, be having the same you know

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what I'm saying donors basically.

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Because when Midnight says these kids of McDonald's getting paid

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more than sixteen thousand hours there for big max of twelve,

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someone has to pay their salaries.

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Yeah, And I was reading something today talking about, you know,

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the kids to pay twenty dollars an hour with a

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hold three dollars an hour work ethic.

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But but but but see now, but see now here's

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the thing though, right, you know, like yeah, they yeah,

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they rose been with wage when you know what they did,

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they made everything computer rize, so it took them out.

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You know what I'm saying, like like yo, you know

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what what Like Yo, you know what, I ain't gotta

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go to you know what I'm saying, Like, you know,

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like I go to McDonald's like half the times, I

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ain't even gotta go to the front line. I could

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just go right to the key oscar order my stuff.

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You know. So it's like all right, you're gonna all right, yeah,

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we're gonna raise women with wage, but we're gonna eliminate

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some workers. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So it's

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a win win for them, regardless of win. And yeah,

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you know what, and let's raise the prices on these

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grade E beefs, you know what I'm saying, not even

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a starve animal. But we're gonna serve it to the

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public because you know why not, bro like McDonald m

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McDonald's food does not decay, you know, like, and if

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it does, it takes a real long time for it

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fast and furious. I'm telling you, man, someone gets into

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an accident in front of me, right, you know what

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I'm saying, I moving like it ain't gonna make its

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a fast and furious twenty one.

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Yeah, yeah, so yeah, that that minimum wage ship. You know,

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it's it's true what they're saying, like they're they're like

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they're computerizing everything and making everything digital and and hands on.

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So the people who people lose their jobs anyway, So

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will minimize minimum will minimize the staff computerized, digitize everything,

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and we ain't gotta pay many people.

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And and you know what, it costs less the filth

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of chiosk one time than it does to pay an

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employee every week. It's a win win.

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Mm hmm.

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You know like like like another thing too, Like if

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you notice that there's like a lot of work from

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home jobs now, so like a lot of a lot

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of you know what I'm saying, like a lot of

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like like a lot of them like downtown buildings or whatever.

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They're starting to become vacant because you know what, people

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used to travel into the city. Now people ain't gonta

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travel to the city. You could just work from home.

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Like bro, you know what if I if I go

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to New York and apply for a job and I

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get that and it's a work from home job, I

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can move to Pennsylvania and be at EA's just be

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at the office twice a week. Yeah, you know, all

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I gotta do is just drive in. You know what

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I'm saying, part of carne to my parents' house. And

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you know what I'm saying, how on the passages go

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in the city, show my face like twice a week

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or twice a month for that matter, you know, like

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like yo, you know what, it's it's amazing, But see

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like half of these, like you know what I'm saying,

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office buildings and something become empty, like like they're really

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trying to like look at you know what I'm saying,

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look to see, like if they could turn if they

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could transform the office buildings of what they used to

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be into apartments, because you know what, you know what,

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the owner of that building got to get paid somehow, right,

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So like so like, yeah, man, every everything's collapsing a

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little by lettle.

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Yeah, that's what sucks. That's what sucks because it's like

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you you you build something and it's just it's successful.

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But then over time, due to the way society chooses

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to run their ship, it collapses anyway.

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You know what, Like a lot of people that moved

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to Florida to retire, Oh, that's crazy. They they're the

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ones that are selling their homes.

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You know, I heard. I heard there's there's insurance problems

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in Florida too. Nobody wants to bro as.

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First off, you know what I'm saying, That hl way

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is a freaking joke. You know what I'm saying, Like

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you have to pay them too, yep. Plus you know

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what I'm saying, Like you gotta pay for don man Like,

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like you know what that Homeowner's Association man like if

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like it's it's a scam opinion, because you know what,

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you're paying them and they could dictate you know what,

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I'm saying, what you.

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Can and can't do and you own your own freaking home.

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That's ridiculous, exactly what I'm saying, like paying them.

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Like six seven hundred dollars a month just so that

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they can tell you what you can't do.

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That that that home. That home own association is basically like, yeah,

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you bought the house because you're still paying rent? Yeah,

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you know, like it's it's a scam, bro.

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You know, I know, I know a president of a

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homeowners association and it's it's not it's it's it's it's something.

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I mean, they do, they do. They tell you how

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how you you know, how you set up the front

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of your house. They want everybody to make sure the

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house looks good and ship. But I don't think it's

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like seven eight hundred dollars a month. So that's not

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what it is.

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My father, bro, lives in a way, yo, you know what.

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You know what, Like let me tell you also depends

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on where you live at like down in Miami. Well,

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she's saying in Florida in general, since Florida, since Florida

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is such a hot destination that everybody goes to go retire,

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you know, move and start a new life and retire

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and stuff. They could, you know what I'm saying, they

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jack up the prices for the for the hoas and

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everybody's okay with that, you know what I'm saying, because

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like because like you know what, there's no there's basically

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no hoay up here. So like they're they're like kind

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of new to that ship down there, you know. They

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they're new to that whole, to that whole. Oh holdown association.

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Oh yeah, that's not bad. You know. Like my like

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my brother in Texas, like he's on the it's away.

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I was like, Yo, why don't you build a pool

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in the back. It was like, oh the home it's

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a way, I said, what they won't let you do anything,

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so like no, you know, you have to get permission

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from them, and just that that's what that's reason why

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there's a community pool. It's like they want it's like

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you know what, it's like a bunch of houses that

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you buy, but it's still being owned by the person

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who purchases that land. That's what it is. So it's

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like it's like you basically live on a compound with

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a bunch of strangers. You see what I mean. It's

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just like a little village, a little compound or whatever

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with a bunch of strangers and stuff, and they want

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everything to be in uniform. Mm hmm, you know like

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it's it's it's it's like, you know, like what like

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what like what Lady G was saying? You know what

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I mean, like they tell you what to do. It's

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just that. That's why I said it's a scam. It's

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like it's like yo, you know what it's like. It's

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like yo, you know what I present you and leady

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Lady gmpie right, I'll tell you guys to eat. You

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know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying, tastes,

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but don't chew. Chew, but don't choose too much. Chew

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a little bit more, but don't swallow. Pause. But that's

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what it is. That's what they do.

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But like my father, he he you know, is looking

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to buy a condo. You know, he already lives in Florida,

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but he's looking to get a condo and h away

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fees are seven hundred dollars a month. So I want

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to do it so that he can purchase the condo.

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Outright to to help him with his limited fixed income.

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But for him to pay that seven hundred dollars a

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month for h away fees, like that's pretty much taking

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most of his social security.

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For what for what?

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Because it's not gonna it's not gonna benefit him in

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any way.

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Oh no. And then like you know, and and then

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like you know what you know, and then like he's

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responsible for all the repairs, so like a lot.

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Of so a lot of he owns the property so.

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Exactly, and a lot of condos and a lot of buildings,

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a lot of condos, you know what I'm saying, Like

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like you know what they're like like two thirds of them,

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I think, like from what I understand, seventy five seve

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of them are deemed functionally obsolete. So they got to

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pour like one hundred thousands of dollars to get it

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up to par, you know. And and plus like you

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know what I'm saying, you're paying hoay fees too, and

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plus like you're pumping like let's just say, you know,

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like three hundred grand for a condo to get it

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functionally up to par because most of those condos like

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thirty years old, okay, so it so so so it

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was like it's like yo, like like everything everything you

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know what I'm saying, Like everything is like it's like

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you know what I'm saying, like inflated. So you know, yeah,

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I would you know what's just well on the topic, right,

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I about to go buy some beef the other day, right,

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you know, like the actual ground beef that's in the pack,

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because because I usually get the one that's like you know,

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tied up and whatever. You know what I'm saying, the

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little like yeah, so I actually wanted to get you

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know what I'm saying, a you know, fresh ground beef

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and stuff. Right, and I'm here looking at the price

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and I'm like I looked at the shop right worker,

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I'm like, yo, excuse me. It's like again, I was like,

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what's up, man, Cow's going extinct to something? He's like

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what I was like, a cow is going extinct? Because

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it ain't no way beef is this expensive? Bro?

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You know, like eggs are five dollars carton.

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Now yeah, man, look you know milk milk and CBS

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costs like six ninety nine seven dollars. H you know

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what's crazy? Yeah? You know, like like you know, like

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if I'm we spending that type of money. Man like it, yo,

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it better be the type of milk that gives me powers,

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like move a rain into something.

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I'll buy a share of a cow.

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The only no, yo, yo, The only thing, the only

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thing that I know that still has stayed cheap. Gas

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what well, and this well and and you up here?

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Gas is like two eighty nine.

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Now, oh wow gas, So I saw too, I saw

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two ninety like like.

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The gas it is down here.

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But then but but see the only reason why it's

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cheap in Jersey is because we got the all you

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know what I'm saying, the gas reserves around here, and

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like you know, the transportation is not that much. Had

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it been like Pennsylvania or something like that, you got

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to cross state lines. You're paying those taxes.

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Yeah yeah, and they're up in the the toll another dollar?

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What to again?

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Yeah it's going to six dollars? Is the Philadelphia Breeze?

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Yeah? Yeah, complaining about six dollars? Yeah, first off, the

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GWB is like twenty damn near twenty dollars.

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But they're near New York. We're not in New York.

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Say, if there was a Lincoln tonnel on the Holland tunnel.

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Yeah, it's like seventeen dollars. Eighteen dollars.

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Yeah, but this is not New York City, guys.

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This is but going into Phillies that are going into

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the city, right.

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Well it is, but still I mean okay, so yes,

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New York is like fifteen to twenty dollars. But the

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thing is when you're used to something and then the

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price keeps going up so soon, because it wasn't even

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that long ago we started paying five dollars, right.

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Hey, look you know what like like you know what,

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like there's like one thing I noticed that when I

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was working with Port Authority over here is that the

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rule of thumb is this, Right when the MTA in

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New York decides to raise their you know what I'm saying,

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raise their prices, port Authority in Jersey Transit in't too

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far behind, like, you know what, they're doing the same

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thing too, Like like I think the MTA is like

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two ninety five portoo, the pattern should be two ninety

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five right about now too, like three dollars, you know,

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And it's like it's like, you know, like like everything's

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like so inflated, man like like even to by like

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a twenty thirteen car. You're paying like ten grand a

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twenty thirteen car car that's eleven years old, like at

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least ten grants for it, depending on the mouths.

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Yeah, all right, so yeah, h so we got a

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question from a fan of the show, pease are not

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compare and see the Philly Okay, your.

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Front year in the NYC area midnight.

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So I got a question from somebody I'm a fan

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of the show. Stupid. I don't know, I'm I don't

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want to call any questions stupid, but it was actually

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aimed towards towards It was like, for Simon Phoenix, a KA.

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Is a stupid question because because I'm be saying a lot,

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super Shi probably the question.

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Let me let me, let me get the question exact.

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I wrote it down.

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Hold on, so he can't even let you ask the question.

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Yeah, I'm excited someone asked me a question.

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Yay, So for now but for now on, I'm gonna

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put I'm gonna put this up. Hold on for now on.

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All questions are to be email to the co host

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host directly. No more that, just just to let the

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emails are on the bottom of the page, the bottom

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of the screen. You want to write to the co host.

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That's the email address. But anyway, what's your take on

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pegging during b DSM encounters?

402
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Whoa whoa whoa?

403
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Yo?

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First off, first off, you know what, there is no

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pegging allowed. You know what I'm saying, Like like, yo, ya,

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what you think this is? You know what I'm saying,

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pope fiction. You know what I'm saying, I'm not. I'm

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not Marcellous Wildace Man Like, nah, bro, you know like that,

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that's just weird. That's just weird, bro, Like I'm insulted, bro, yo,

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and yo, And to think that, you know what I'm saying,

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there's men out here that actually like that.

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Hey, don't not get unless you tried it.

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I ain't trying, trust me, So.

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Then you can't talk trash about the people who like

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it because they tried it.

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Yeah. No, you know what, you know what I'm saying

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like that, that's a that's a huge you know what

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I'm saying, that's a huge for me.

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Yeah, you guys expect women to be okay with that?

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Bro, Like You're like, like, yo, first off, you know

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what woman to do with what the hell she wants

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to do?

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Just god, I'm not a fan. I am definitely not

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a fan.

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I'm sorry. Our holes are just the same size as yours.

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So whatever, I'm not a fucking fan and I'm not nah,

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you know, like so so what do you think?

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All right? So fuck forget about the fucking Peggan bullshit

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to forget. But what aspects of bds M do you

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think you'd enjoy? Anybody that the floor is open?

431
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Trash talking to me about no BDSM, I got.

432
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Trash talking talking to somebody in football?

433
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Yeah, you know what I'm saying, like like like yo,

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you know what? You know what I'm saying, Like you know,

435
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like you donkey punching them and stuff. You know what

436
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I'm saying, Like that was great. I'm just playing. I'm joking.

437
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I'm joking. I'm joking. Oh I don't know, man, like

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like yo, you know, like I mean, I can go

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on the women, but like, you know what, I just

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want a midget and dominatrix suit. You know what I'm saying?

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With steel toe boots kicking me in the nuts for

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eight hours is better than you know what I'm saying.

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Listening to Taylor Swift's.

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Album Boom God BDS and Domination, Oh my god, bro, you.

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Know Meanwhile, you know like I wear throngs that's just

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Doug Life in the front and Rome stones with my

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Timberland boots on. Yeah, b d S.

448
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Whoa that that's that's a that's a big thing, man,

449
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especially especially in in certain circles. Bro, I mean.

450
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Yeah, you know what, you know what you'd be surprised,

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like you know, like you know, like what's the politics

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into that ship? You know what I'm saying, Like what

453
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what public figures like, you know, into that little freak

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stuff like that. You'd be surprised, you know, because like

455
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I mean, whatever fetish that is. I mean, you know

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that's your fetish, you know what I'm saying, Like I'm

457
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not you know, first off, you're not gonna First off,

458
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I don't like to be dominated pervot you know what

459
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I'm saying, Like no, you know, like like yo, imagine

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you know what I'm saying, Like, imagine you know, having

461
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a woman dominate you or she's sucking on your nipples

462
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when it's suposed to be the other way around. Like Bro, but.

463
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Again that's so one sided.

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Duve, Like like, yo, you know what I'm saying, Like there.

465
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Are so many different people in this world. You have

466
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no idea why certain people like certain things.

467
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Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

468
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About the foot fetish man like, yeah, no, man like,

469
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it's just it's so funny.

470
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How you know what, it's not so.

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Funny, duves how guys I don't like the same things

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that they're taking. And it's not all guys, but some

473
00:30:12.640 --> 00:30:15.440
guys don't like the things that they be trying to

474
00:30:15.440 --> 00:30:18.279
talk the ladies into. So what makes it good for

475
00:30:18.400 --> 00:30:19.799
you but not for us?

476
00:30:21.720 --> 00:30:22.559
Oh?

477
00:30:22.680 --> 00:30:26.720
Good question, because let me tell you something. If you

478
00:30:26.759 --> 00:30:29.039
could dish it, you need to be able to take it.

479
00:30:29.839 --> 00:30:33.119
I don't take ship. I ain't taking ship, trust me.

480
00:30:33.559 --> 00:30:34.920
You know what I'm saying. I mean, I take this ship.

481
00:30:34.960 --> 00:30:36.279
You know what I'm saying with my stomach curts, but

482
00:30:36.319 --> 00:30:42.279
I ain't taking ship never, you know, like like like

483
00:30:42.319 --> 00:30:43.759
you know what, all right, if that's the kids, let

484
00:30:43.759 --> 00:30:45.160
me grow my hair out, and you know what I'm saying,

485
00:30:45.160 --> 00:30:46.960
to have my girl pull my hair. You know what

486
00:30:46.960 --> 00:30:48.599
I'm saying. And you know what I'm saying, to smack

487
00:30:48.680 --> 00:30:50.559
me around and call me Susan. I will love that ship.

488
00:30:53.599 --> 00:30:55.880
It's just you know what I'm saying, like like you know,

489
00:30:57.480 --> 00:30:59.079
like I'm.

490
00:30:58.960 --> 00:31:00.759
I'm not into anything I can get charge of a

491
00:31:00.799 --> 00:31:01.880
felony with bro.

492
00:31:02.599 --> 00:31:06.640
Yo, I'm not you know what I'm saying. Yo, Yo,

493
00:31:06.680 --> 00:31:09.440
you know what? Yo? Know what like like you know what,

494
00:31:09.480 --> 00:31:11.880
I'm not into anything that. You know what I'm saying.

495
00:31:12.400 --> 00:31:14.839
It's gonna have me. You know what I'm saying, It's

496
00:31:14.880 --> 00:31:16.559
gonna you know what I'm saying, it's gonna have me.

497
00:31:17.039 --> 00:31:19.799
Like yo, if I if if a girl's got something

498
00:31:19.839 --> 00:31:21.599
like you know what I'm saying, Oh, choke me, spank me,

499
00:31:21.640 --> 00:31:22.240
pull my hair?

500
00:31:23.119 --> 00:31:24.799
Right, that's a felony.

501
00:31:26.519 --> 00:31:30.079
Yo. Hello, you know what I'm saying.

502
00:31:30.839 --> 00:31:34.880
Get that in writing, Broet.

503
00:31:34.880 --> 00:31:37.400
You know what I'm saying.

504
00:31:37.839 --> 00:31:39.720
I'm gonna have to film that.

505
00:31:39.880 --> 00:31:41.039
Oh my gosh, you.

506
00:31:41.039 --> 00:31:43.680
Know like because yo, you know what like like whoenmen

507
00:31:43.720 --> 00:31:46.759
get carried away. It's like, oh yeah, I said, choke me,

508
00:31:46.839 --> 00:31:48.759
not freaking break my trick. You know I'm like, well,

509
00:31:48.839 --> 00:31:52.759
I mean, you know what I'm saying, like make up

510
00:31:52.759 --> 00:31:55.119
your mind, you're not doing harder.

511
00:31:55.400 --> 00:31:57.240
This is when I can't stand you, dub.

512
00:31:57.759 --> 00:31:59.759
You know what I'm saying, You're not doing harder though,

513
00:32:00.119 --> 00:32:01.480
nest thing, you know it? You know what I'm saying.

514
00:32:01.640 --> 00:32:04.440
And went from Live action to you pumping up. You

515
00:32:04.480 --> 00:32:06.599
know what I'm saying a corpse and that's necrophilia.

516
00:32:09.079 --> 00:32:13.480
Like no, man, like I said, you gotta get that

517
00:32:13.559 --> 00:32:14.680
ship in writing.

518
00:32:16.799 --> 00:32:21.599
Kobe, Yeah, yeah, that's that's the peous man. But like

519
00:32:22.240 --> 00:32:27.079
like nah man, like it's just mm hmm yeah.

520
00:32:28.640 --> 00:32:33.440
Yeah. I mean you know because it's it's tricky. It's

521
00:32:33.480 --> 00:32:36.039
tricky that the life style. It is tricky, bro.

522
00:32:37.240 --> 00:32:40.240
You know like like like you know what, like maybe yo,

523
00:32:40.319 --> 00:32:42.599
you know what, maybe on some like you know, on

524
00:32:42.680 --> 00:32:47.559
a drunken stupord. You know what I'm saying that I'm not.

525
00:32:48.279 --> 00:32:50.160
I'm not getting pegged, you know what I'm saying, but

526
00:32:50.279 --> 00:32:55.240
on a drunk and stupid. But it's like you no better,

527
00:32:55.640 --> 00:32:58.599
I'm sober enough. You know what I'm saying because like yo,

528
00:32:59.119 --> 00:33:01.839
because like yo, you know what to what you're saying. Bro, No, no, no,

529
00:33:01.920 --> 00:33:08.400
listen you mic oh gosh, I know what I'm saying.

530
00:33:08.480 --> 00:33:10.240
Like like like yo, you know what.

531
00:33:10.160 --> 00:33:12.400
You said made like during a drunken stupor.

532
00:33:13.200 --> 00:33:13.920
But I don't drink.

533
00:33:14.559 --> 00:33:16.759
No, But I'm just I'm just telling you rephrased what

534
00:33:16.799 --> 00:33:20.079
you're saying because you know that it doesn't Bro.

535
00:33:20.200 --> 00:33:23.079
You know what I'm like, Yo, you know what I'm trying.

536
00:33:23.240 --> 00:33:25.079
I'm trying to die into a person's mind, Like you

537
00:33:25.119 --> 00:33:26.519
know what I'm saying, Like, how could one do that?

538
00:33:26.680 --> 00:33:28.480
Do you know what I'm saying? Do anything like that?

539
00:33:28.640 --> 00:33:31.240
Soaper you know what I'm saying.

540
00:33:31.759 --> 00:33:33.799
But like you know what I mean, Like you don't

541
00:33:33.920 --> 00:33:37.960
know the reason why people do that. Okay, So childhood

542
00:33:38.000 --> 00:33:41.000
trauma has a lot to do with the way people

543
00:33:41.039 --> 00:33:46.240
react to certain sexual behaviors. Okay, so if you have, like,

544
00:33:46.400 --> 00:33:49.640
let's use a woman for instance, right, because I'm a woman,

545
00:33:50.119 --> 00:33:53.839
you know, I guess it's better that way. But so

546
00:33:55.200 --> 00:33:57.759
when a woman might have had some kind of a

547
00:33:57.799 --> 00:34:02.319
sexual abusive experience or something like that, it could be

548
00:34:02.359 --> 00:34:05.839
one of two ways. Either they kind of shy away

549
00:34:05.880 --> 00:34:10.440
from the act and are a little bit more conservative,

550
00:34:11.000 --> 00:34:13.719
or they just go full blown. You know what, I

551
00:34:13.880 --> 00:34:17.320
just lost my mind. Everything I've ever valued is gone,

552
00:34:17.880 --> 00:34:21.800
and then they just go crazy. Right. Then there are guys,

553
00:34:21.880 --> 00:34:24.599
for instance, a lot of the guys that like to

554
00:34:24.760 --> 00:34:29.079
be dominated. It's because they have high power positions where

555
00:34:29.079 --> 00:34:31.960
they're the ones who are in charge all the time,

556
00:34:32.760 --> 00:34:36.000
and so for some reason emotionally it turns them on.

557
00:34:36.719 --> 00:34:40.440
For them to be dominated because they spend ninety percent

558
00:34:40.480 --> 00:34:44.400
of their life dominating. And the truth is they want

559
00:34:44.440 --> 00:34:47.039
a moment where they don't have to and they can

560
00:34:47.199 --> 00:34:48.320
just be the submissive.

561
00:34:48.840 --> 00:34:49.039
Right.

562
00:34:49.320 --> 00:34:53.280
People have different reasons for enjoying different things.

563
00:34:54.280 --> 00:34:56.320
That's like the equivalent of like cocold and you know

564
00:34:56.360 --> 00:34:57.400
what I'm saying, being a cup.

565
00:34:58.960 --> 00:35:01.960
Hey, but some people people that turns them on. For

566
00:35:02.079 --> 00:35:02.960
some people.

567
00:35:02.719 --> 00:35:06.039
They yeah, oh yeah, I'm you know what I'm saying.

568
00:35:06.079 --> 00:35:07.679
It turns me on the goal. You know what I'm saying,

569
00:35:07.880 --> 00:35:09.519
see my wife. You know what I'm saying, get banged

570
00:35:09.519 --> 00:35:10.880
from here to timbu to know.

571
00:35:10.920 --> 00:35:13.400
That that's you, dubs, that's.

572
00:35:14.679 --> 00:35:16.280
You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo.

573
00:35:16.199 --> 00:35:18.679
You expect you from everyone else.

574
00:35:19.880 --> 00:35:22.599
That's something you know what I'm saying, Like, that's some

575
00:35:22.719 --> 00:35:25.079
weird That's that's weird to me.

576
00:35:25.559 --> 00:35:28.000
That's why. That's why you have the women and men

577
00:35:28.519 --> 00:35:32.039
who are a part of the swinging lifestyle, who are

578
00:35:32.079 --> 00:35:35.239
a part of the switching lifestyle. You know, like again,

579
00:35:36.239 --> 00:35:42.840
each people, each person's experiences, each person's fetishes turn ones.

580
00:35:43.639 --> 00:35:49.480
You know. That's how we have sociopaths, psychopaths, dominature, you

581
00:35:49.599 --> 00:35:52.360
name it. That's why That's one of the good things

582
00:35:52.360 --> 00:35:57.199
about the I guess the US is the diversity of people, right.

583
00:35:57.639 --> 00:36:01.599
But when you have the diversity of people, that also

584
00:36:01.679 --> 00:36:06.760
comes with the differences of lifestyles, likes, dislikes, and all

585
00:36:06.800 --> 00:36:09.760
of that. So you can't we can't as a whole.

586
00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:11.920
We can't sit and judge other people.

587
00:36:12.000 --> 00:36:14.280
But but see, now here's the thing, right, you know

588
00:36:14.320 --> 00:36:16.639
what I'm saying, like, like, you know what I like?

589
00:36:16.719 --> 00:36:18.119
I ain't never you know what I'm saying, I ain't

590
00:36:18.119 --> 00:36:21.400
never been married or nothing. Right, So when I do

591
00:36:21.400 --> 00:36:24.400
get married, I'm gonna get that serious. You think that

592
00:36:24.960 --> 00:36:26.840
I'm gonna poll you know what I'm saying, my all

593
00:36:26.960 --> 00:36:29.480
into someone to just be like, yeah, I want to

594
00:36:29.480 --> 00:36:30.920
be a cook down. You know what I'm saying. Hey,

595
00:36:31.000 --> 00:36:34.000
you you know what I'm saying, mister Schlang king Schlong.

596
00:36:34.360 --> 00:36:40.159
You know what I'm saying, real, arrange my girls guts.

597
00:36:39.639 --> 00:36:41.519
That's fucking weird, bro.

598
00:36:41.800 --> 00:36:44.199
For you, it's weird, But no, it is.

599
00:36:44.159 --> 00:36:47.199
Because because because you know what marriage is a union?

600
00:36:47.199 --> 00:36:49.960
You know what I'm saying, Like, no, no, you know

601
00:36:49.960 --> 00:36:51.760
what I'm saying, like, I can't y you know what,

602
00:36:52.280 --> 00:36:55.519
I will not watch the woman I love you know

603
00:36:55.559 --> 00:36:58.039
what I'm saying. Get you know what I'm saying, gang

604
00:36:58.079 --> 00:37:00.119
Bank like she's like like she lives in Chicago, go

605
00:37:00.159 --> 00:37:05.239
in l a No man, nah, like that's not me.

606
00:37:06.079 --> 00:37:09.000
And and that isn't you. That isn't you, dubs, and

607
00:37:09.159 --> 00:37:10.559
more power to you.

608
00:37:11.320 --> 00:37:12.880
I can't do it. You know what I'm saying. I

609
00:37:12.920 --> 00:37:13.440
won't do it.

610
00:37:14.400 --> 00:37:17.079
Well I wouldn't either. I mean to me, marriage is

611
00:37:17.079 --> 00:37:17.840
sacred as well.

612
00:37:17.920 --> 00:37:20.559
How well exactly see, we can't play.

613
00:37:20.440 --> 00:37:22.000
We cannot judge.

614
00:37:22.679 --> 00:37:26.239
I'm not I'm saying by me. You know what I'm saying,

615
00:37:26.239 --> 00:37:28.800
like I don't understand, like you know how like you

616
00:37:28.800 --> 00:37:30.280
know what I'm saying, like like you know what I'm saying,

617
00:37:30.320 --> 00:37:33.599
I could like like see here's the thing, right, you

618
00:37:33.679 --> 00:37:34.840
know what I'm saying, like I can't you know what

619
00:37:34.840 --> 00:37:36.159
I'm saying, Like if you could do it, that's more

620
00:37:36.159 --> 00:37:38.679
power to you. You know what I'm saying, like like Yo,

621
00:37:38.719 --> 00:37:41.360
you know what, but I've got some dignity man, Like

622
00:37:41.400 --> 00:37:42.800
you know what I'm saying, Like like Yo, you know

623
00:37:42.840 --> 00:37:43.960
what I got. You know what I'm saying, I gotta

624
00:37:44.000 --> 00:37:45.239
kiss your mouth the next morning?

625
00:37:46.079 --> 00:37:49.400
Yeah, hey, honey, Well I mean couples that are what.

626
00:37:49.320 --> 00:37:52.920
They say, like like, yo, you know what you know

627
00:37:52.960 --> 00:37:54.760
what I'm saying, Like like like like, Yo, I gotta

628
00:37:54.800 --> 00:37:58.480
kiss you in the morning. You know what I'm saying, like, oh, hey, honey,

629
00:37:59.559 --> 00:38:02.000
tyrone kids on your top top lips. You might want

630
00:38:02.000 --> 00:38:04.000
to you know what I'm saying, wipe it off before

631
00:38:04.039 --> 00:38:04.519
I kiss you.

632
00:38:06.119 --> 00:38:10.320
But what she don't realize, Dubbs, is any woman in

633
00:38:10.360 --> 00:38:14.239
your words with whether it's why you were together or not,

634
00:38:14.480 --> 00:38:17.039
you're still sleeping with all the people she's ever slept with.

635
00:38:18.039 --> 00:38:20.199
All right, I understand that. But you know what, though,

636
00:38:20.280 --> 00:38:22.039
you know what I'm saying, I don't know who the

637
00:38:22.079 --> 00:38:24.360
hell they are. You know what I'm saying, I'm not watching.

638
00:38:25.320 --> 00:38:27.960
You know what I'm saying, I'm not you know what

639
00:38:27.960 --> 00:38:30.599
I'm saying. I'm not I'm not there in a hotel room,

640
00:38:30.880 --> 00:38:33.360
you know, sitting down like, oh, you know what I'm saying. Coaching,

641
00:38:33.519 --> 00:38:35.119
You know, coaching is dude, Like, oh, yeah, you know

642
00:38:35.119 --> 00:38:37.000
what I'm saying. Bang her away, you know what I mean,

643
00:38:37.480 --> 00:38:39.239
don't stop till you reach the back of her teeth.

644
00:38:39.920 --> 00:38:43.840
You know, Like, I'm not doing that. Sorry, you know

645
00:38:43.920 --> 00:38:45.559
like I said, Yo, you know what more? Yo? You

646
00:38:45.559 --> 00:38:48.039
know what to those who swing. You know what I'm saying, Like,

647
00:38:48.760 --> 00:38:52.800
you guys must have like a real deep understanding because

648
00:38:52.880 --> 00:38:57.679
I couldn't do it. I can't believe me.

649
00:38:57.760 --> 00:39:01.239
Does I'm totally I understand and I agree with you

650
00:39:01.960 --> 00:39:06.199
because I'm not that way. You know what, because I've

651
00:39:06.320 --> 00:39:11.239
done therapy, marriage therapy with a lot of different people.

652
00:39:12.039 --> 00:39:15.079
It exists, you know, like the people, the people who

653
00:39:15.119 --> 00:39:19.960
are in those marriages or relationships. The ethical nominogamy, you know,

654
00:39:20.119 --> 00:39:23.000
like I don't. I can't say that I understand it

655
00:39:23.119 --> 00:39:26.119
or I agree with it, but it exists and some

656
00:39:26.159 --> 00:39:29.719
people really are successful with it.

657
00:39:30.039 --> 00:39:32.760
Yeah, I mean, yo, you know what I mean. That's

658
00:39:32.800 --> 00:39:36.000
that's pretty that's pretty amazing. How like how like one

659
00:39:36.039 --> 00:39:37.960
person you know I'm saying, how like two people okay

660
00:39:38.599 --> 00:39:42.920
watching their partners, you know what I'm saying, Just like, okay,

661
00:39:42.920 --> 00:39:46.920
you know what switch you know, and they're probably high

662
00:39:46.960 --> 00:39:50.119
fiving each other and all that. Yo. It's it's it's

663
00:39:50.159 --> 00:39:52.239
it's a weird space for me personally, you know what

664
00:39:52.239 --> 00:39:55.400
I'm saying, Like it's actually.

665
00:39:54.639 --> 00:40:00.400
Bring a third party into their marriage or fourth Yeah,

666
00:40:01.039 --> 00:40:05.719
usually the three for I forgot what they call them.

667
00:40:05.840 --> 00:40:09.559
But the try factor playing the triple play.

668
00:40:09.840 --> 00:40:14.440
I don't know, yeah, but I mean like that yeah

669
00:40:14.639 --> 00:40:16.440
yeah that's yeah.

670
00:40:16.440 --> 00:40:20.559
But but but but see you but but but but

671
00:40:20.639 --> 00:40:22.679
see you know what the thing is though, like like

672
00:40:22.719 --> 00:40:27.440
you know what like name name one, Name one Politicans

673
00:40:27.559 --> 00:40:30.599
relationship that like lasted more than like twenty years.

674
00:40:31.440 --> 00:40:33.639
Twenty is still a long time though.

675
00:40:34.199 --> 00:40:36.719
Yeah, but still though you know what I'm saying, Like, oh, yeah,

676
00:40:36.760 --> 00:40:39.599
you're right, You're right, you know what I'm saying, because people,

677
00:40:39.599 --> 00:40:41.400
babe the last two years with each other. You're right.

678
00:40:41.559 --> 00:40:46.320
But like, but still though, it's like I just can't

679
00:40:46.360 --> 00:40:48.440
you know what I'm saying, Like me on a personal level,

680
00:40:48.880 --> 00:40:52.679
right and understandable, I'm not you know what I'm saying,

681
00:40:52.800 --> 00:40:56.639
knocking nobody that's like into you know what I'm saying,

682
00:40:56.639 --> 00:40:59.440
into that world or whatever. It's a different world for me,

683
00:40:59.559 --> 00:41:00.880
you know what I'm saying. It's a world that I

684
00:41:00.960 --> 00:41:03.440
won't travel to. You know what I'm saying because like

685
00:41:04.280 --> 00:41:07.559
because like that world right there is you know, like

686
00:41:07.639 --> 00:41:10.960
it's it's like.

687
00:41:10.079 --> 00:41:15.960
It gets into values, and yeah, it's about people's values more.

688
00:41:16.199 --> 00:41:19.280
We need we need to get we need to get

689
00:41:18.159 --> 00:41:24.599
a professional massacres or some ship on board. So we

690
00:41:24.679 --> 00:41:26.960
can like question them and find out what the fuck

691
00:41:27.119 --> 00:41:27.639
is going on.

692
00:41:29.079 --> 00:41:29.480
Just get that.

693
00:41:31.880 --> 00:41:34.119
It's the thrill, it's the adrenaline.

694
00:41:34.679 --> 00:41:35.679
Let's just get us a gimp.

695
00:41:38.480 --> 00:41:43.039
And for some people it's the it's the excitement of

696
00:41:43.480 --> 00:41:44.239
the taboo.

697
00:41:46.199 --> 00:41:46.440
You know.

698
00:41:46.559 --> 00:41:50.119
It's the excitement of going against the grain, of doing

699
00:41:50.599 --> 00:41:55.920
what other people won't do, of experiencing something that you

700
00:41:55.960 --> 00:41:58.880
wouldn't normally want to be a part of.

701
00:41:59.760 --> 00:42:01.679
Right, you know what I'm saying, If you want to

702
00:42:01.679 --> 00:42:05.360
do that, you know what I'm saying, Like co go

703
00:42:05.400 --> 00:42:07.119
to one night stand, you know what I'm saying, hopefully

704
00:42:07.119 --> 00:42:08.199
you know what I mean, Like you might just get

705
00:42:08.239 --> 00:42:09.719
to get threesome going. You know what i mean, Like

706
00:42:10.800 --> 00:42:14.039
do something like that, because threesomes aren't planned. It just happened,

707
00:42:15.599 --> 00:42:19.599
you know, stuff like that. You know, like like like

708
00:42:19.599 --> 00:42:24.280
like you know, what if if if I would ever.

709
00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:28.039
You do realize that that's that's exactly what you were

710
00:42:28.079 --> 00:42:29.519
just talking about.

711
00:42:29.719 --> 00:42:31.719
If yo, you know what I'm saying, Like if I know,

712
00:42:31.800 --> 00:42:33.440
if I was ever, you know what I'm saying, if

713
00:42:33.440 --> 00:42:35.880
I was single and I was ever, like delve into

714
00:42:35.880 --> 00:42:38.199
that world. You know what I'm saying, Like my you

715
00:42:38.199 --> 00:42:41.480
know what I'm saying idealistically, it would be that way.

716
00:42:42.760 --> 00:42:45.519
You know it would be that way. But that's because

717
00:42:48.199 --> 00:42:52.920
wait a minute, hold hold wait, wait, hold up real quick,

718
00:42:53.159 --> 00:42:56.400
I'll explaining why it's not because you know what I

719
00:42:56.480 --> 00:42:57.840
You know what I'm saying, Like I have feelings for

720
00:42:57.920 --> 00:43:00.880
my wife, I'm not gonna let her do that. You

721
00:43:00.880 --> 00:43:02.280
know what I'm saying. Like it's different. You know what

722
00:43:02.280 --> 00:43:03.719
I'm saying, like a one night sting. You know what

723
00:43:03.719 --> 00:43:05.400
I'm saying, The only feelings you have is to bust

724
00:43:05.440 --> 00:43:07.400
of une. You know what I'm saying this one. You

725
00:43:07.440 --> 00:43:10.079
know what I'm saying, Like I'm in love with you.

726
00:43:10.079 --> 00:43:12.519
You know what I mean, Like there's a union involved,

727
00:43:12.519 --> 00:43:15.519
like things. You know what I'm saying. No, you know

728
00:43:15.519 --> 00:43:16.880
what I'm saying with no you know what I'm saying,

729
00:43:16.880 --> 00:43:19.199
No string, no motions at tax is probably one thing,

730
00:43:19.480 --> 00:43:26.320
probably my best probably besides that, you know what I'm saying,

731
00:43:26.320 --> 00:43:28.280
Like by the time I'm done, I'll have one sper

732
00:43:28.280 --> 00:43:32.480
I'm self left and he'll be lonely. Damn.

733
00:43:33.159 --> 00:43:34.199
That's a sad story.

734
00:43:37.280 --> 00:43:38.000
Conversations.

735
00:43:39.199 --> 00:43:42.559
It's just a little bit over too much now. But

736
00:43:42.639 --> 00:43:46.320
like all jokes aside, though, it's like it's it's like, yo,

737
00:43:46.360 --> 00:43:48.000
you know what what I'm trying to say is this right?

738
00:43:48.039 --> 00:43:51.559
You know what I'm saying is that my you know

739
00:43:51.599 --> 00:43:53.440
what I'm saying, my heart and my emotions would not

740
00:43:53.519 --> 00:43:55.800
allow me to be a cup. I can't do it.

741
00:43:57.199 --> 00:43:57.599
I won't.

742
00:43:57.599 --> 00:43:59.960
But what I want, what I wanted, what I wanted

743
00:43:59.920 --> 00:44:05.440
to say, was this, all right, I have I have

744
00:44:05.519 --> 00:44:09.480
a couple of friends that I know, I have a

745
00:44:10.719 --> 00:44:16.039
one of a friend of mine. They they they they

746
00:44:16.119 --> 00:44:17.960
they're swinging. They were swinging. I don't know if this

747
00:44:18.039 --> 00:44:21.639
swing is now. But the problem with that, the problem

748
00:44:21.679 --> 00:44:25.039
I have with that is that when you bring in

749
00:44:25.199 --> 00:44:32.159
and allow that ship in your relationship, I mean, it's

750
00:44:32.840 --> 00:44:38.400
it's bad, man. It's bad because you're allowing, you're you're

751
00:44:38.440 --> 00:44:39.719
allowing i mean.

752
00:44:39.599 --> 00:44:44.920
You know, right, bringing opportunity to step out and stay

753
00:44:45.000 --> 00:44:47.639
out of a relationship and a marriage.

754
00:44:48.000 --> 00:44:49.639
It's basically supervised cheating.

755
00:44:50.360 --> 00:44:55.840
Yeah, And it's attemption, temptation to to actually switch permanently.

756
00:44:56.119 --> 00:45:01.639
What ended up happening was the as far as I know,

757
00:45:01.880 --> 00:45:05.639
his his wife went off and stepped with the dude

758
00:45:05.880 --> 00:45:08.360
that was with that that was married to the other chick,

759
00:45:09.320 --> 00:45:13.480
and behind the behind their backs like and fucked around,

760
00:45:14.039 --> 00:45:17.280
and they wanted to go ahead and and and fight.

761
00:45:17.320 --> 00:45:18.639
He wanted to fight, and he was like, what the

762
00:45:18.639 --> 00:45:21.280
fuck that's my wife this and never you invited that ship?

763
00:45:21.880 --> 00:45:27.079
Yep, you open like like like, yo, you know what. See,

764
00:45:27.519 --> 00:45:31.320
that's the reason. That's the reason. That's the main reason,

765
00:45:31.960 --> 00:45:34.360
you know what I'm saying. Besides you know, besides the love,

766
00:45:34.960 --> 00:45:37.199
the love I would have for my wife. That's about

767
00:45:37.199 --> 00:45:39.679
be another reason, you know what I'm saying, because.

768
00:45:39.440 --> 00:45:46.039
Like, yeah, you can't you can't invite you can't invite

769
00:45:46.039 --> 00:45:48.960
other people into your relationship, you know what I'm saying,

770
00:45:49.000 --> 00:45:50.320
and expected.

771
00:45:49.880 --> 00:45:52.880
To you can't invite people to other people to your

772
00:45:52.880 --> 00:45:55.719
bedroom what I'm saying, and and and still you know

773
00:45:55.719 --> 00:45:58.119
what I'm saying, because because yo, you know what, a

774
00:45:58.119 --> 00:46:00.280
lot of lines get crossed, you know. I mean, like

775
00:46:00.719 --> 00:46:02.360
just like just because you know what I'm saying, you

776
00:46:02.400 --> 00:46:05.119
guys broken the deal. Oh yeah, you know what, we

777
00:46:05.159 --> 00:46:08.320
could do this together, you know what I'm saying. And

778
00:46:08.320 --> 00:46:10.599
it's like you've done it so many times, like you

779
00:46:10.639 --> 00:46:13.280
know what it's usually you know what I'm saying, Like

780
00:46:13.320 --> 00:46:16.400
in one one or the other's minds, like well, I

781
00:46:16.440 --> 00:46:19.239
mean you say I fuck this person where she's there.

782
00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:20.559
You know what I'm saying, as well, just do it

783
00:46:20.559 --> 00:46:23.480
one they're not there, you know what I'm saying, unsupervised.

784
00:46:24.960 --> 00:46:25.800
What's the difference?

785
00:46:25.920 --> 00:46:26.119
Right?

786
00:46:27.760 --> 00:46:31.360
That's crazy, Yo, it is bro Like now I'm good,

787
00:46:32.960 --> 00:46:35.320
you know, Like, yo, you know what, I got too

788
00:46:35.360 --> 00:46:39.880
much dignity in the corn for that one, you know

789
00:46:39.920 --> 00:46:41.400
what I mean? Like like, yo, you know what, my

790
00:46:42.039 --> 00:46:44.360
pride will allow me to allow that ship.

791
00:46:48.000 --> 00:46:52.559
And sometimes it's hard enough working on a relationship one

792
00:46:52.599 --> 00:46:54.519
on one. Just imagine having all that.

793
00:46:56.599 --> 00:46:59.800
Yoh exactly man like like like yo, like I said,

794
00:46:59.800 --> 00:47:01.639
you know, saying, like the keyword with me is my

795
00:47:01.679 --> 00:47:05.000
pride and my dignity would not you know what I'm saying.

796
00:47:05.159 --> 00:47:09.199
Besides my heart, my pride and my dignity would not

797
00:47:09.199 --> 00:47:14.079
not allowed that to happen that way. I can't do it,

798
00:47:16.440 --> 00:47:19.880
you know. But however, more power to the people that

799
00:47:20.000 --> 00:47:22.559
actually do it. And still, you know what I'm saying,

800
00:47:22.559 --> 00:47:23.719
It still happen to be happy.

801
00:47:24.559 --> 00:47:29.199
I don't know how, but that's like that's their thing though,

802
00:47:29.280 --> 00:47:30.559
That's that's what it is.

803
00:47:31.239 --> 00:47:33.440
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, like like, you know

804
00:47:33.440 --> 00:47:36.199
what I mean, Like I mean, hey, you know what

805
00:47:36.199 --> 00:47:40.239
I'm saying, more power to you. But nah, you know

806
00:47:40.280 --> 00:47:43.440
what I'm saying. Besides that, you know what I'm saying,

807
00:47:43.440 --> 00:47:45.000
I got back problems. Imagine me. You know what I'm saying,

808
00:47:45.039 --> 00:47:47.119
trying to care to the two women I'm having one time,

809
00:47:47.360 --> 00:47:49.079
I'm having a hard time trying to cater to one.

810
00:47:49.920 --> 00:47:52.480
You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying,

811
00:47:52.559 --> 00:47:55.000
like like, yo, you know what, I got her need

812
00:47:55.000 --> 00:47:56.440
of this. You know what I'm saying, I gotta go

813
00:47:56.480 --> 00:47:59.239
to the next room and finish this one off. Yeah yeah,

814
00:47:59.280 --> 00:48:01.280
by that time, you know saying, I'm gonna be crippled.

815
00:48:02.400 --> 00:48:04.840
You know what I'm saying, be in a wheelchair with viagra.

816
00:48:05.719 --> 00:48:07.639
The fuck damn.

817
00:48:08.480 --> 00:48:10.480
The crazy. The crazy thing about it too, is that

818
00:48:10.559 --> 00:48:13.880
it's it's not always when you're thinking with threesome. It's

819
00:48:13.880 --> 00:48:17.159
not always two women and a dude, you know what

820
00:48:17.159 --> 00:48:17.639
I'm saying.

821
00:48:17.679 --> 00:48:22.079
Sometimes, but if if a woman were to want to

822
00:48:22.119 --> 00:48:28.719
introduce another dude, the guys go so freaking ham it's ridiculous.

823
00:48:28.760 --> 00:48:30.880
So it's okay for two women, but it's not okay

824
00:48:30.920 --> 00:48:31.440
for two men.

825
00:48:32.199 --> 00:48:34.800
Now, you know what with the two men and one girl.

826
00:48:34.840 --> 00:48:45.440
You know what I mean like it's all right. See no, no, no, no,

827
00:48:45.599 --> 00:48:47.280
you know what this is words complicated, It's not you

828
00:48:47.280 --> 00:48:50.000
know what I'm saying because like like you know what,

829
00:48:50.159 --> 00:48:53.519
like with men out here, you know, I'm pretty sure

830
00:48:54.880 --> 00:48:57.000
you know what I'm saying. They don't want their girl

831
00:48:57.480 --> 00:48:59.880
to be messing with another dude. But if they're with

832
00:49:00.039 --> 00:49:01.639
their boy and they me the girl at the club,

833
00:49:02.119 --> 00:49:03.880
you know what I'm saying, And then you know what

834
00:49:03.920 --> 00:49:05.920
I'm saying, like it's like you know, oh yeah, you

835
00:49:05.920 --> 00:49:09.119
know we're gonna toss her up. Okay, you know what

836
00:49:09.119 --> 00:49:12.599
I'm saying, Like it's you're right, it is double standards.

837
00:49:13.159 --> 00:49:14.599
I'm gonna agree with you on that part. You know

838
00:49:14.599 --> 00:49:16.079
what I'm saying. I can't you know what I mean,

839
00:49:16.880 --> 00:49:19.000
I can't you know what I'm saying, like like sit

840
00:49:19.079 --> 00:49:21.440
here literally and lie like it's not a double standard.

841
00:49:21.719 --> 00:49:25.000
It is a double standard, like like you know, like

842
00:49:25.000 --> 00:49:28.079
like but that's but that's how these dudes think, you

843
00:49:28.119 --> 00:49:30.000
know that they rather I don't.

844
00:49:29.880 --> 00:49:32.039
Want to be messing around with another.

845
00:49:31.800 --> 00:49:35.960
Woman, you know, like you know what, Like but see,

846
00:49:36.000 --> 00:49:38.480
you know what the thing is though, most dudes out here,

847
00:49:39.079 --> 00:49:41.679
if they don't care about that woman, they're not gonna

848
00:49:41.719 --> 00:49:43.719
want to have another dude come involved. You know what

849
00:49:43.760 --> 00:49:46.199
I'm saying. Period. You know what I'm saying, like for

850
00:49:46.239 --> 00:49:48.159
some reason, you know what I mean, Like having a

851
00:49:48.239 --> 00:49:51.480
dude there. You know what I'm saying, it's just weird.

852
00:49:51.920 --> 00:49:53.840
You know what I'm saying with you with your girl,

853
00:49:53.920 --> 00:49:55.960
with your girl or your wife, you know what I'm saying,

854
00:49:56.519 --> 00:50:01.360
or your wife or whatever. But the double standards this though,

855
00:50:01.800 --> 00:50:03.960
and this is where I agree with you with if

856
00:50:03.960 --> 00:50:05.599
it's a total stranger that you meet out in the

857
00:50:05.599 --> 00:50:07.960
club or bar in the street or whatever, or even

858
00:50:08.000 --> 00:50:10.360
if you're paying for it, you know what I'm saying,

859
00:50:10.599 --> 00:50:15.400
it's like it doesn't matter, you know, because there's no

860
00:50:15.639 --> 00:50:20.800
like there's there's no attachment evolved. That's no, that's an

861
00:50:20.800 --> 00:50:21.920
emotional attachment of all.

862
00:50:22.039 --> 00:50:26.760
That's why I would never ever go that route, because

863
00:50:27.559 --> 00:50:31.000
there's always at the end of a situation like that,

864
00:50:31.519 --> 00:50:36.079
there's some emotional ship going on in your head, in

865
00:50:36.119 --> 00:50:40.239
your heart, in your soul that it's gonna fuck with you, bro.

866
00:50:41.159 --> 00:50:44.880
You know what I'm saying, Like, it's it's something something

867
00:50:44.920 --> 00:50:48.119
is gonna make you, something's gonna make you go nuts

868
00:50:48.159 --> 00:50:48.760
over that ship.

869
00:50:49.039 --> 00:50:52.559
Well, actually, actually you know what though, like I said,

870
00:50:52.559 --> 00:50:55.920
you know what, like let's just say, you know, let's

871
00:50:55.920 --> 00:50:58.679
just say, you know, like for instance, you and I,

872
00:50:58.760 --> 00:51:01.079
you know, like you mean some god the bar or whatever, right,

873
00:51:01.679 --> 00:51:03.960
and she's like, you know whatever, We're just hanging out

874
00:51:03.960 --> 00:51:06.400
with her, and like, you know, all of a sudden

875
00:51:06.440 --> 00:51:08.400
she wants to come home with us.

876
00:51:09.320 --> 00:51:10.159
I'm not doing it.

877
00:51:11.039 --> 00:51:14.159
I'm not, you know, like and all of a sudden,

878
00:51:14.199 --> 00:51:17.440
you know what I mean, like like shit just starts happening.

879
00:51:18.400 --> 00:51:21.599
She just I'm just gonna start happening because I wouldn't

880
00:51:21.599 --> 00:51:23.800
allow that ship say, I wouldn't get involved with something

881
00:51:23.880 --> 00:51:28.960
like that. I mean, I guess he's listening to the conversation.

882
00:51:29.119 --> 00:51:31.159
He's like, Yo, what the fuck you guys talking about.

883
00:51:31.239 --> 00:51:34.199
I don't know. The guy just honked his fucking horn

884
00:51:34.320 --> 00:51:34.519
like that.

885
00:51:36.519 --> 00:51:38.800
Nah man, it's Ne's to Kennedy, Bro, you know how

886
00:51:38.880 --> 00:51:39.119
it is.

887
00:51:39.840 --> 00:51:42.280
Yeah, But what I'm saying is, I'm not I'm not

888
00:51:42.440 --> 00:51:45.159
one to put myself in a situation that that that's

889
00:51:45.199 --> 00:51:47.519
gonna end up happening. I'm not the.

890
00:51:47.519 --> 00:51:50.599
One because we're in we're in charge of our own

891
00:51:50.679 --> 00:51:52.119
decisions and choices.

892
00:51:53.400 --> 00:51:56.320
You guys, you guys are not understanding what I'm saying.

893
00:51:56.760 --> 00:51:59.440
Yes, I do understand what you're saying. But any man

894
00:52:00.159 --> 00:52:03.599
or woman who allows themselves to be in those types

895
00:52:03.639 --> 00:52:08.679
of situations, that's their issue. Like that's something they need

896
00:52:08.719 --> 00:52:09.960
to get taken care of.

897
00:52:10.440 --> 00:52:14.880
Now. You know what, All in all, illness lickor plays

898
00:52:14.920 --> 00:52:16.480
a huge part of that because.

899
00:52:16.480 --> 00:52:17.639
You know why, I don't want to hear it. I

900
00:52:17.639 --> 00:52:22.079
don't want to hear it inhibited. It makes you uninhibited. However,

901
00:52:22.599 --> 00:52:24.119
you can still make choices.

902
00:52:25.920 --> 00:52:27.920
Yeah, but you know what, it's always that prim or urge.

903
00:52:27.960 --> 00:52:30.159
Always that always plays the part though, you know what

904
00:52:30.159 --> 00:52:32.280
I'm saying, The primal urge becomes a choice.

905
00:52:34.079 --> 00:52:40.840
Yeah, and we all have control over our choices. We

906
00:52:41.000 --> 00:52:42.599
choose not to have control.

907
00:52:45.559 --> 00:52:49.920
No, that's not true. Mm hm no, it's not.

908
00:52:50.480 --> 00:52:54.519
When we allow ourselves to be in situations that have

909
00:52:54.679 --> 00:52:59.440
potential to turn out negatively, we are making a choice

910
00:53:00.400 --> 00:53:00.960
what yeo?

911
00:53:01.880 --> 00:53:03.800
Yoh? But but but hold on though, you know what

912
00:53:03.800 --> 00:53:06.119
I'm saying before, like you know what I'm saying, Like

913
00:53:06.119 --> 00:53:08.320
I see what this conversation is going. I'm saying though,

914
00:53:08.320 --> 00:53:10.519
like that's you know what I'm saying, Like I'm just

915
00:53:10.519 --> 00:53:13.079
saying like you know, like that's that's this double standard

916
00:53:13.679 --> 00:53:17.480
where most dudes might probably take it, you know, as

917
00:53:17.480 --> 00:53:20.559
opposed to like letting your girlfriend or letting your wife.

918
00:53:20.599 --> 00:53:22.559
You know what I'm saying, hook up with some random

919
00:53:22.599 --> 00:53:24.840
dude to me while you're there. You know what I'm saying,

920
00:53:24.840 --> 00:53:26.840
hooking up with her at the same time, you see

921
00:53:26.880 --> 00:53:29.559
what I mean? Like, like I said, you know what

922
00:53:29.719 --> 00:53:32.199
I'm saying again who you know what I'm saying, whoever

923
00:53:32.280 --> 00:53:34.679
is like involved in that lifestyle more? You know what

924
00:53:34.679 --> 00:53:37.119
I'm saying. And you guys are still going strong, More

925
00:53:37.159 --> 00:53:42.000
power to you. But nah, you know what I already

926
00:53:42.039 --> 00:53:46.480
You know I already got problems as already. I already

927
00:53:46.480 --> 00:53:48.360
got enough problems in my hand. You know what I'm saying, Like,

928
00:53:48.400 --> 00:53:52.920
I don't need an actually, especially one that's gonna, like

929
00:53:52.920 --> 00:53:55.320
like emotionally and mentally bring me down.

930
00:53:56.000 --> 00:53:56.440
Mhmm.

931
00:53:56.960 --> 00:53:59.920
You know I may sound like a sympate. I don't care.

932
00:54:00.159 --> 00:54:02.599
You know what I'm saying. I do not care, you

933
00:54:02.639 --> 00:54:04.519
know because at the end of the day, you know

934
00:54:05.280 --> 00:54:08.440
people could like you know, tell to well she does

935
00:54:08.679 --> 00:54:10.480
she doesn't? You know she does that she does. I

936
00:54:10.519 --> 00:54:13.440
don't care, bro, Yes, you do. Shut up? You know

937
00:54:13.480 --> 00:54:18.760
what I'm saying you you do care? Yeah, you know,

938
00:54:19.480 --> 00:54:19.840
shut up.

939
00:54:19.960 --> 00:54:22.960
If you don't care, you got a problem exactly.

940
00:54:23.159 --> 00:54:27.840
So then explain this to me. And it's not about

941
00:54:27.840 --> 00:54:32.639
the sharing and all that kind of stuff. How how

942
00:54:32.679 --> 00:54:36.519
can people or guys I can only speak, you know,

943
00:54:36.679 --> 00:54:40.679
from the girl's point of view? Then how do guys

944
00:54:42.119 --> 00:54:46.920
have friends with benefits and not want to be in

945
00:54:46.960 --> 00:54:50.400
a relationship with that woman, like have intimacy with her,

946
00:54:50.840 --> 00:54:53.840
So she's good enough to be intimate with, but she's

947
00:54:53.880 --> 00:54:57.000
not good enough to actually have a relationship with.

948
00:55:00.119 --> 00:55:01.119
That's one of them.

949
00:55:01.320 --> 00:55:02.239
Fear of what.

950
00:55:04.440 --> 00:55:10.920
Fear of like like see you know what, it's like

951
00:55:10.960 --> 00:55:15.960
this right like us, like you know what, I can't

952
00:55:16.000 --> 00:55:19.320
speak for every man every man out here, and I

953
00:55:19.679 --> 00:55:22.960
pretty sure, but I'm pretty sure most men out here,

954
00:55:23.800 --> 00:55:26.719
you know what I'm saying, they let their dick dictate

955
00:55:27.079 --> 00:55:29.480
their heart instead of like you know what I'm saying,

956
00:55:29.519 --> 00:55:32.760
and bypassed like the clear red flags that's like right

957
00:55:32.800 --> 00:55:35.840
in front of them. You know that's not she's not

958
00:55:35.840 --> 00:55:39.079
saying anything about no, no, no, no, you know what.

959
00:55:40.159 --> 00:55:44.320
I'm gonna get to that all right, right, so getting

960
00:55:44.360 --> 00:55:46.119
you know what I'm saying, getting like you know, what

961
00:55:46.119 --> 00:55:48.119
I'm saying, what you what you want to do? Gets

962
00:55:48.159 --> 00:55:49.800
like the short end of that stick, you know what

963
00:55:49.800 --> 00:55:52.199
I'm saying, And it's like constant you know what I'm saying,

964
00:55:52.320 --> 00:55:55.679
like like everybody like everybody moving crosses right, you know

965
00:55:55.719 --> 00:55:58.079
what I'm saying, So like sex, you know what I'm saying,

966
00:55:58.119 --> 00:56:00.559
becomes like oh well it is what this? I like

967
00:56:00.599 --> 00:56:03.280
spend the time with you. I like being in your guts, right,

968
00:56:03.639 --> 00:56:06.320
But you know what, I don't think I want to

969
00:56:06.360 --> 00:56:08.719
see you every day because you know what, you know

970
00:56:08.719 --> 00:56:10.679
what I'm saying. Like we can make thousands of excuses

971
00:56:10.679 --> 00:56:12.480
by the end of the day. One of them, one

972
00:56:12.519 --> 00:56:14.719
of them is I don't want to go all through

973
00:56:14.760 --> 00:56:18.440
all this shit again and end up replaying what happened

974
00:56:18.480 --> 00:56:21.599
the last time. I don't want to deal with a

975
00:56:21.639 --> 00:56:25.039
different person, the different person, a different a different face,

976
00:56:25.599 --> 00:56:30.320
and still the same results. You know.

977
00:56:30.440 --> 00:56:32.360
Like to be honest with you, bro, I don't know

978
00:56:32.400 --> 00:56:33.280
where the fuck you're going.

979
00:56:33.440 --> 00:56:35.079
Yeah, I'm like, what is he saying?

980
00:56:35.880 --> 00:56:41.239
Bro? Pay attention all right? You know, like like yo,

981
00:56:41.280 --> 00:56:43.480
you know what it is? The fear you know what

982
00:56:43.480 --> 00:56:45.719
I'm saying, fear of Like you know what I'm saying replaying,

983
00:56:45.840 --> 00:56:47.840
you know what I'm saying, replaying like, yo, you know what,

984
00:56:48.119 --> 00:56:49.840
fear of a man getting heartbroken again?

985
00:56:50.880 --> 00:56:53.159
But isn't that kind of sort of what you're doing

986
00:56:53.199 --> 00:56:56.719
when you have a friend and then you cross the

987
00:56:56.760 --> 00:57:00.239
line into friends with benefits? So you have to care

988
00:57:00.239 --> 00:57:03.119
about this person because they are your friend, so you

989
00:57:03.199 --> 00:57:06.159
do care about them, but then you cross the line

990
00:57:06.239 --> 00:57:10.159
into the intimacy. So they're good enough to give part

991
00:57:10.199 --> 00:57:14.840
of your most intimate you know, secretive body parts and

992
00:57:15.159 --> 00:57:18.519
piece of your soul essentially, but you're not willing to

993
00:57:18.559 --> 00:57:22.159
be in a relationship with them. So it's like, these

994
00:57:22.199 --> 00:57:27.440
are not total strangers. I mean, if it started out

995
00:57:27.519 --> 00:57:31.519
that way, that's one thing. But when you're friends with somebody,

996
00:57:31.559 --> 00:57:36.840
you guys cross that line and then it just it's like,

997
00:57:37.400 --> 00:57:40.800
I just don't understand how you can cross that line

998
00:57:42.000 --> 00:57:44.599
to be intimate with that person, but then you don't

999
00:57:44.639 --> 00:57:48.840
want a relationship with them. So essentially you potentially ruin

1000
00:57:48.960 --> 00:57:54.280
your friendship to be intimate and you do care about

1001
00:57:54.280 --> 00:57:55.559
the person, but you don't want to be in a

1002
00:57:55.639 --> 00:57:59.280
relationship with them.

1003
00:57:58.320 --> 00:58:03.920
You don't, you know, all right, I'm I'm I'm gonna

1004
00:58:03.920 --> 00:58:12.360
speak on this. I'm gonna speak on this, so let

1005
00:58:12.400 --> 00:58:13.960
me let me, let me, let me, let me get

1006
00:58:13.960 --> 00:58:17.440
my thoughts and check here, because all right, so.

1007
00:58:18.639 --> 00:58:19.440
Look at your notes.

1008
00:58:20.920 --> 00:58:24.000
No I don't. I don't have notes for this one.

1009
00:58:26.159 --> 00:58:33.480
Look at the telepropet I'm put your glasses off watching

1010
00:58:33.519 --> 00:58:36.559
black see Man of Men. And relationships are like Jupiter

1011
00:58:36.639 --> 00:58:40.960
and Saturday and old ship and comments about that reading

1012
00:58:41.000 --> 00:58:44.480
for the Teleprompeter, get the book, Get the book.

1013
00:58:45.400 --> 00:58:51.960
Get the goddamn book. Nah, but some all right, So

1014
00:58:53.159 --> 00:58:55.400
what I think happens is this, What I think happens

1015
00:58:55.480 --> 00:59:04.039
is the thought of being intimate with someone is always,

1016
00:59:04.960 --> 00:59:06.880
you know, it's a good thing. When you think about

1017
00:59:06.880 --> 00:59:09.800
being intimate with someone, you know you you you're sharing something,

1018
00:59:09.840 --> 00:59:13.039
you're sharing a moment, you're sharing time, you're sharing your bodies,

1019
00:59:13.400 --> 00:59:17.039
you're sharing your souls. You know, whatever it is, what

1020
00:59:17.280 --> 00:59:23.840
it is and and what ends up happening is sometimes

1021
00:59:23.880 --> 00:59:29.840
depending on the moment in time when this happens. Sometimes

1022
00:59:29.840 --> 00:59:32.760
people can be ready. Sometimes people aren't ready.

1023
00:59:34.920 --> 00:59:36.000
Sometimes people are scared.

1024
00:59:36.519 --> 00:59:40.239
And not that that that that that it's about being scared.

1025
00:59:40.280 --> 00:59:40.719
It's just that.

1026
00:59:42.199 --> 00:59:45.760
Fear is a factor and a lot of different things.

1027
00:59:45.800 --> 00:59:47.920
But what I think, what I think is going on

1028
00:59:48.960 --> 00:59:58.039
is that the the unknown is is what what gets

1029
00:59:58.239 --> 01:00:00.559
what gets me a lot of a lot of of times,

1030
01:00:01.400 --> 01:00:05.960
Like you know, if you're intimate with someone and you share,

1031
01:00:06.280 --> 01:00:12.239
you share that passion, you share that that good, that

1032
01:00:12.480 --> 01:00:14.599
that good good, you know what I mean?

1033
01:00:14.880 --> 01:00:22.199
And yo, you just have to flash back on somebody

1034
01:00:22.320 --> 01:00:31.320
else three weeks, three weeks earlier.

1035
01:00:34.840 --> 01:00:37.760
But I'm just you got to throw it up, bro. No,

1036
01:00:38.000 --> 01:00:41.079
but I'm saying you three and.

1037
01:00:43.639 --> 01:00:45.880
Says so so educating. You know what I'm saying so

1038
01:00:45.920 --> 01:00:49.480
professionally three weeks earlier. Let me pregnant your throat?

1039
01:00:52.719 --> 01:00:53.920
Oh my goodness.

1040
01:00:54.800 --> 01:00:56.719
No, but I'm saying you.

1041
01:00:56.719 --> 01:00:59.440
You you share, you share moments and ship, you share

1042
01:00:59.519 --> 01:01:02.840
things like that, and the thought of being with someone

1043
01:01:04.079 --> 01:01:09.599
on that level after such an encounter, you know, sometimes

1044
01:01:09.920 --> 01:01:12.639
they think to themselves or they say to themselves or

1045
01:01:12.679 --> 01:01:16.719
it would be like that, you know, what if what

1046
01:01:16.840 --> 01:01:21.760
if we did get together after this? Is it going

1047
01:01:21.840 --> 01:01:26.360
to be based on this action? Or are we going

1048
01:01:26.440 --> 01:01:29.840
to take the time to build something beyond that action?

1049
01:01:31.599 --> 01:01:34.119
You know what I mean? Like if if you have

1050
01:01:35.280 --> 01:01:39.119
a friend and you're having sex with your friend, which

1051
01:01:39.159 --> 01:01:42.719
is a friendly benefits situation, you know, is there enough

1052
01:01:42.760 --> 01:01:49.440
information there to to be able to say we can

1053
01:01:49.519 --> 01:01:54.039
build on this, this, we can build a relationship off

1054
01:01:54.079 --> 01:01:59.199
of this. Sometimes after a friends of benefit situation, you know,

1055
01:02:00.039 --> 01:02:04.159
if a relationship is wanted, or if a relationship is

1056
01:02:04.360 --> 01:02:08.519
something that is being sought out, I think that you

1057
01:02:08.559 --> 01:02:13.880
should be able to communicate that and determine whether or

1058
01:02:13.960 --> 01:02:16.800
not it can move forward beyond the friends with benefits thing.

1059
01:02:17.960 --> 01:02:20.280
You know, in other words, play play it how it goes.

1060
01:02:21.159 --> 01:02:22.920
It's not it's not it's not even just play how

1061
01:02:22.920 --> 01:02:25.760
it goes. But you want to You want to be able.

1062
01:02:25.840 --> 01:02:28.039
You want to be able to build something with someone

1063
01:02:28.599 --> 01:02:30.599
you know, but you don't want it to be based

1064
01:02:30.679 --> 01:02:34.239
on that encounter. You want to be able to build

1065
01:02:34.320 --> 01:02:35.079
outside of.

1066
01:02:35.039 --> 01:02:39.039
That, something deeper than that, right deeper, which I think

1067
01:02:39.079 --> 01:02:42.079
that if you were friends, the fact that you cross

1068
01:02:42.159 --> 01:02:47.920
the line into that something more would be the thinking

1069
01:02:47.960 --> 01:02:51.360
that you could build something deeper. But in the same token,

1070
01:02:51.559 --> 01:02:54.519
it's like, so if you think about the relationship thing

1071
01:02:54.599 --> 01:02:58.559
and it's not what you want, then why continue to

1072
01:02:58.639 --> 01:02:59.679
have the benefits with.

1073
01:02:59.679 --> 01:03:07.599
The because everyone has needs. I guess, I mean it

1074
01:03:07.679 --> 01:03:09.519
sounds my stuff, but it's true.

1075
01:03:10.119 --> 01:03:12.960
Yeah, But there's also that like what if the woman

1076
01:03:13.079 --> 01:03:16.079
what if the woman catches feelings though right you know

1077
01:03:16.239 --> 01:03:20.519
she has feelings for you, you apparently don't like those

1078
01:03:20.559 --> 01:03:24.719
feelings or don't want to entertain those feelings. And you

1079
01:03:24.880 --> 01:03:27.400
know that that's who the woman is, and you know

1080
01:03:27.880 --> 01:03:31.039
to continue is going to hurt her, but you still

1081
01:03:31.079 --> 01:03:35.480
continue to do it knowing that it's going to hurt her.

1082
01:03:36.079 --> 01:03:38.000
You See, It's it's either two things, you know what

1083
01:03:38.000 --> 01:03:41.840
I'm saying, Like, either you know, like the sex is

1084
01:03:41.840 --> 01:03:44.039
good enough, but you know what I'm saying, like so

1085
01:03:44.880 --> 01:03:49.000
you're unfortunately gaslighting her, or you really, you know what

1086
01:03:49.000 --> 01:03:52.719
I'm saying, you really feel bad about the line being crossed,

1087
01:03:52.920 --> 01:03:55.400
Like you don't want to hurt this person's feelings. Yeah,

1088
01:03:55.840 --> 01:03:59.320
like you're trying to like you knows line, Yeah, yeah,

1089
01:03:59.360 --> 01:04:03.360
you know what it's Yeah, you know what, It's just complicated,

1090
01:04:03.440 --> 01:04:06.440
you know, like it really is. I mean like like

1091
01:04:06.440 --> 01:04:11.159
like you know what, it's something, it's something something we

1092
01:04:11.239 --> 01:04:13.599
hold on. We hold on though it's something so simple

1093
01:04:13.679 --> 01:04:16.559
to do, and yet it's so complicated to do it

1094
01:04:17.599 --> 01:04:19.159
because you know what I'm saying, Like, at the end

1095
01:04:19.199 --> 01:04:21.199
of the day, you know what I mean, Like nobody

1096
01:04:21.199 --> 01:04:22.719
wants to be the bad guy. You know what I'm saying.

1097
01:04:22.719 --> 01:04:26.639
Nobody wants to be the villain in anybody's story, you know,

1098
01:04:26.639 --> 01:04:28.400
trust me, I'm a villain and a lot of people's

1099
01:04:28.440 --> 01:04:34.880
story a lot of people admitted, Yeah, of course of course,

1100
01:04:35.000 --> 01:04:37.039
but but like you know what, you know, you know

1101
01:04:37.039 --> 01:04:41.559
what the things I've done stuff like this before, you know,

1102
01:04:42.159 --> 01:04:44.159
and it's like in my experience, you know what I'm

1103
01:04:44.159 --> 01:04:46.440
saying when I was being the villain of someone's story

1104
01:04:47.400 --> 01:04:50.840
is that it's just you know what I'm saying, it

1105
01:04:50.920 --> 01:04:52.320
was just you know what I'm saying, like another you

1106
01:04:52.320 --> 01:04:54.559
know what I'm saying, another notch on the belt. But

1107
01:04:54.840 --> 01:04:56.559
I wasn't trying to be the bad guy. So it's

1108
01:04:56.599 --> 01:05:01.599
like it was like a catch yo, yo, you know what, No,

1109
01:05:01.800 --> 01:05:04.079
check this out. It was a catch twenty two, you

1110
01:05:04.079 --> 01:05:05.639
know what I'm saying, Like like, yo, you know what,

1111
01:05:06.079 --> 01:05:08.280
I got myself stuck between a rock and a hard place,

1112
01:05:08.599 --> 01:05:10.960
which I always did, you know what I'm saying, Like

1113
01:05:11.360 --> 01:05:14.360
no matter what, you know, like there was like you know,

1114
01:05:14.480 --> 01:05:18.920
like there was no winning in that situation, you know,

1115
01:05:19.000 --> 01:05:23.159
like because you know what, even when things were fall

1116
01:05:23.239 --> 01:05:25.519
you know what I'm saying, Even when things fell apart.

1117
01:05:25.519 --> 01:05:26.480
You know what I'm saying, I was a feeling to

1118
01:05:26.480 --> 01:05:28.079
someone's story and at the end of the day, I

1119
01:05:28.119 --> 01:05:31.559
end the feeling bad for it. But I never said that,

1120
01:05:31.599 --> 01:05:34.639
and I just kept it moving. But yeah, you know

1121
01:05:34.679 --> 01:05:41.360
what regrets.

1122
01:05:39.079 --> 01:05:44.679
Yeah, so yeah, you have a lot of people have

1123
01:05:44.760 --> 01:05:46.960
a lot of regrets in certain situations.

1124
01:05:47.119 --> 01:05:47.599
Yeah.

1125
01:05:47.639 --> 01:05:52.199
But like, but like I was saying, you know, I

1126
01:05:52.199 --> 01:05:56.679
I just think that if your friends and you cross

1127
01:05:56.719 --> 01:06:01.880
the line and that something is there, something, yes, you

1128
01:06:01.960 --> 01:06:03.639
have you have to Yeah, you would, you would think,

1129
01:06:03.800 --> 01:06:04.519
you would think.

1130
01:06:04.360 --> 01:06:07.079
Because something has to be there, you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah,

1131
01:06:07.119 --> 01:06:10.760
like like yo, you know what, and and and and yo,

1132
01:06:10.760 --> 01:06:13.400
you know what? And whether the woman or the man

1133
01:06:13.480 --> 01:06:14.599
saying oh yeah, you know what I'm saying. I just

1134
01:06:14.639 --> 01:06:16.639
felt comfortable with you. You felt comfortable with them for

1135
01:06:16.679 --> 01:06:20.599
a reason, right, you know it's just that, yo, you

1136
01:06:20.599 --> 01:06:23.880
know what, It's just that, It's just that, you know

1137
01:06:23.880 --> 01:06:25.239
what I'm saying. When it comes to like, you know,

1138
01:06:25.840 --> 01:06:27.920
a getting with your actual homegirl, like you know what

1139
01:06:27.920 --> 01:06:33.519
I'm saying, or a homeboy or whatever, is that you

1140
01:06:33.519 --> 01:06:36.199
you know what I'm saying, No matter how much you

1141
01:06:36.239 --> 01:06:39.400
guys talk. The following morning about how you guys are

1142
01:06:39.400 --> 01:06:42.679
gonna play things out. It's not gonna happen again. That

1143
01:06:42.760 --> 01:06:44.360
happens again. There's like, you know what I'm saying, the

1144
01:06:44.400 --> 01:06:47.119
stand of third. No matter how much you guys coach

1145
01:06:47.199 --> 01:06:48.719
each other, like Yo, you know what, You're still going

1146
01:06:48.800 --> 01:06:52.360
to be normal the standard third. It's never normal after that.

1147
01:06:52.840 --> 01:06:56.199
It's never it's never normal after that, you know, Like

1148
01:06:56.480 --> 01:06:58.519
it's always you know what I'm saying, Like like, yo,

1149
01:06:58.559 --> 01:07:00.719
you know what, Like you can't be around that person

1150
01:07:00.840 --> 01:07:03.039
and like your phone rings and there's actually somebody else

1151
01:07:03.599 --> 01:07:08.800
and that person. Don't you know what I'm saying exactly,

1152
01:07:09.199 --> 01:07:13.760
vice versa, back and forth, you know, like either either

1153
01:07:13.840 --> 01:07:15.400
you guys, you know what I'm saying. You know what

1154
01:07:15.400 --> 01:07:18.000
I'm saying. Work, you know what I'm saying, Work to

1155
01:07:18.119 --> 01:07:22.599
where your heart is at. And stop what I'm saying

1156
01:07:23.239 --> 01:07:25.079
stop like you know what I'm saying suddenly and short,

1157
01:07:25.320 --> 01:07:28.119
you know what I'm saying, stop selling each other short

1158
01:07:28.960 --> 01:07:34.360
or let it go mhm, you know, like because like

1159
01:07:34.960 --> 01:07:40.519
nobody wins in that situation. Everybody loses. You know, there's

1160
01:07:40.519 --> 01:07:48.519
no there's no winners in that It's it's like it's

1161
01:07:48.559 --> 01:07:51.119
like John Wick pointing pointing a gun to child, young

1162
01:07:51.159 --> 01:07:55.119
fat and the killers too, who's gonna shoot first? I'm

1163
01:07:55.119 --> 01:07:56.119
saying there's no winners in that.

1164
01:08:00.320 --> 01:08:06.079
Yeah, you know, there's there's somebody out there for everybody.

1165
01:08:06.719 --> 01:08:09.440
Yeah, you know what I mean, and whether.

1166
01:08:09.199 --> 01:08:09.920
It's your friend.

1167
01:08:10.639 --> 01:08:16.279
My message to any man who ever wants me, do

1168
01:08:16.479 --> 01:08:21.640
not light a fire for my love if you have

1169
01:08:21.720 --> 01:08:24.600
no intention of keeping it alive.

1170
01:08:27.359 --> 01:08:29.479
In other words, poor, another words.

1171
01:08:30.760 --> 01:08:36.000
My future husband, if you have no intention of loving me,

1172
01:08:36.439 --> 01:08:37.920
don't look at me for the.

1173
01:08:37.800 --> 01:08:38.560
Good good.

1174
01:08:43.600 --> 01:08:45.560
To my future x wife. Now let me stop, Let

1175
01:08:45.560 --> 01:08:47.399
me stop playing. You know what I'm saying, because.

1176
01:08:48.960 --> 01:08:51.279
You start off on the negative future ex.

1177
01:08:51.720 --> 01:08:54.319
To my future ex wife, and I'm just playing like

1178
01:08:54.319 --> 01:08:57.119
like you know what the person I wish she already

1179
01:08:57.119 --> 01:09:00.279
knows what the dealers she breast the pot roast me fighting.

1180
01:09:00.920 --> 01:09:03.640
Oh god, period, I don't want another ex.

1181
01:09:05.199 --> 01:09:07.600
How I feel about my pot roast is how I

1182
01:09:07.640 --> 01:09:09.840
feel about my pot roast feels me.

1183
01:09:12.279 --> 01:09:12.960
Oh my god.

1184
01:09:13.640 --> 01:09:19.279
Yeah, you always have teeth degree not like not like yo,

1185
01:09:19.319 --> 01:09:22.640
you know what I mean. You know, like nobody wants

1186
01:09:22.640 --> 01:09:28.079
to be an ex wife or ex husband, nobody unless

1187
01:09:28.760 --> 01:09:30.840
your partner did. You're wrong, But like like at the

1188
01:09:30.960 --> 01:09:33.119
end of the day, you know, like I imagine people

1189
01:09:33.119 --> 01:09:36.359
don't get married just to be like yeah, you know, like, yeah,

1190
01:09:36.399 --> 01:09:38.560
I'm gonna get married, but i know it's not gonna work,

1191
01:09:38.560 --> 01:09:40.600
but I'm still gonna do it anyways, just for the experience.

1192
01:09:40.640 --> 01:09:43.399
Nobody wants to. I'm going to get married for the experience,

1193
01:09:44.079 --> 01:09:46.600
you know what I'm saying, like or not, like what

1194
01:09:46.680 --> 01:09:48.159
you know what I'm saying, like like like what you're

1195
01:09:48.159 --> 01:09:50.640
gonna put that shirt on the job description married for

1196
01:09:50.680 --> 01:09:57.079
five years? Divorced? No, yo, Like Likeliseabith.

1197
01:09:56.159 --> 01:09:58.520
Taylor, she did that bad Boy eight times.

1198
01:09:59.000 --> 01:10:02.159
She got more rings and Tom Brady same thing with

1199
01:10:02.239 --> 01:10:03.039
j Loo got more.

1200
01:10:06.319 --> 01:10:09.600
No, she just keeps going back to the old leftovers.

1201
01:10:10.600 --> 01:10:14.359
Yeah she's checking out a Rod again.

1202
01:10:15.079 --> 01:10:17.279
Yeah. They got pictures of them together recently.

1203
01:10:17.960 --> 01:10:18.640
Yeah.

1204
01:10:20.159 --> 01:10:22.399
So I guess everybody gets second chances.

1205
01:10:23.880 --> 01:10:27.199
I guess so, right, Yeah, but like you know, like

1206
01:10:27.720 --> 01:10:32.680
when you passed around like a basketball, I mean, yeah,

1207
01:10:33.279 --> 01:10:36.880
that's not my consign, that's my belie because you know what,

1208
01:10:38.439 --> 01:10:39.800
because you know what, at the end of the day,

1209
01:10:40.039 --> 01:10:42.880
you know what I'm saying, everybody's recycled, you know what

1210
01:10:42.880 --> 01:10:47.239
I'm saying, Like at our age. Everybody's everybody's recycled goods.

1211
01:10:47.600 --> 01:10:49.720
You know what I'm saying that, Yo, you know what

1212
01:10:50.479 --> 01:10:51.720
we may you know what I'm saying. We may be

1213
01:10:51.800 --> 01:10:55.039
for raries, but we got mileage on us, so we're

1214
01:10:55.079 --> 01:10:57.119
not top tip. You know what I'm saying, We're used.

1215
01:10:59.319 --> 01:11:01.880
I'm sorry, I'm may be used, but I'm still a ten.

1216
01:11:02.039 --> 01:11:02.560
I don't care.

1217
01:11:03.680 --> 01:11:05.560
It may be messed up, but like it's the truth though,

1218
01:11:05.640 --> 01:11:10.479
like like you know, like but you know what the

1219
01:11:10.520 --> 01:11:18.079
thing is though, if we if we go, if you're

1220
01:11:18.079 --> 01:11:22.119
gonna put it level, if you know what, if you're

1221
01:11:22.119 --> 01:11:25.239
gonna put it, if you're gonna put it in automobile analogy.

1222
01:11:25.319 --> 01:11:28.119
You know what I'm saying, Like like I may be used,

1223
01:11:28.159 --> 01:11:31.880
I'm a classic, limited edition vintage. You know what I'm saying,

1224
01:11:31.920 --> 01:11:36.079
Like a like a sixty six of Polor. Hell yeah, no,

1225
01:11:36.119 --> 01:11:38.199
I'm not limited, but I'm limited right now. You know

1226
01:11:38.239 --> 01:11:41.000
what I'm saying, Like sixty six of Polor. You know,

1227
01:11:41.159 --> 01:11:43.640
like like one of those were like twenty thousand miles.

1228
01:11:43.359 --> 01:11:46.560
On twenty thousand better.

1229
01:11:48.560 --> 01:11:49.039
That back?

1230
01:11:49.760 --> 01:11:52.520
No, no, no, all right, twenty five. But you know

1231
01:11:52.560 --> 01:11:55.800
what though, like like think about it, do you know

1232
01:11:55.840 --> 01:11:57.359
how hard it is to get a sixty six of

1233
01:11:57.399 --> 01:12:03.119
Polor with twenty thousand miles on it, vintage everything. It's

1234
01:12:03.159 --> 01:12:08.399
damn there impossible. It's damn there impossible. You know most

1235
01:12:08.399 --> 01:12:09.840
people out here, they're just refurbished.

1236
01:12:13.000 --> 01:12:18.680
Let me tell you something. Mm hmm, I know, I know.

1237
01:12:18.760 --> 01:12:21.560
It's it's it's hard for a lot of people to

1238
01:12:21.560 --> 01:12:34.600
to to deal with you know, friends and and relationships,

1239
01:12:34.640 --> 01:12:40.520
and it's just it's just it's just that. It's it's

1240
01:12:40.520 --> 01:12:43.319
it's it's it's not it's not complicated, bro. You just

1241
01:12:43.439 --> 01:12:45.920
you just gotta know what you want. You know what

1242
01:12:45.920 --> 01:12:48.760
I'm saying. You just gotta know what it is. You know,

1243
01:12:48.880 --> 01:12:54.439
you're striving for your your your goals, your wants and

1244
01:12:54.479 --> 01:12:57.800
your needs need to align, you know what I'm saying.

1245
01:12:57.920 --> 01:13:00.840
And there has to be communication understanding, bro.

1246
01:13:01.880 --> 01:13:06.000
I mean you know what though, sometimes yon instead of

1247
01:13:06.039 --> 01:13:08.960
like you know what I mean, Like sometimes it's like

1248
01:13:10.279 --> 01:13:11.720
see a lot of people, you know what I'm saying.

1249
01:13:11.800 --> 01:13:14.239
Like one thing, one thing that actually works for me

1250
01:13:14.600 --> 01:13:18.560
is that I played it like it's like a lot

1251
01:13:18.680 --> 01:13:20.199
like a lot of women do not want to hear it,

1252
01:13:20.239 --> 01:13:23.399
but I'm gonna say it. You're playing how it goes.

1253
01:13:23.439 --> 01:13:25.000
In other words, you what I'm saying, go with the flow.

1254
01:13:25.119 --> 01:13:26.399
That's what it means at the end of the day.

1255
01:13:27.079 --> 01:13:28.800
You know what I'm saying, Like like, yo, you know what,

1256
01:13:29.800 --> 01:13:31.479
there's like a ten foot wave and you know how

1257
01:13:31.479 --> 01:13:33.159
to surf. What you're gonna do? Go guess the way

1258
01:13:33.159 --> 01:13:35.079
where you're gonna surf that way you're gonna ride that wave.

1259
01:13:35.520 --> 01:13:41.680
Yeah, everybody doesn't come with a well intentioned wave. You

1260
01:13:41.720 --> 01:13:43.920
want to go with the flow, but the other person

1261
01:13:44.000 --> 01:13:44.439
has noing.

1262
01:13:44.720 --> 01:13:47.239
Be cautious though, but see you know what, how do

1263
01:13:47.239 --> 01:13:47.520
you go.

1264
01:13:47.479 --> 01:13:49.199
With the flow and be caught at the same time.

1265
01:13:49.439 --> 01:13:51.079
That's that's a oxymoon.

1266
01:13:51.520 --> 01:13:56.239
Not not really, not really, not not really, not not really.

1267
01:13:56.239 --> 01:13:58.520
You want to know why, because you know what, you

1268
01:13:58.640 --> 01:14:00.800
always listen to what the person the same and how

1269
01:14:00.840 --> 01:14:03.920
they're saying tones, you know what, Like.

1270
01:14:03.880 --> 01:14:06.319
You know, I mean, like go with the flow, doves. Remember,

1271
01:14:07.159 --> 01:14:07.640
But you.

1272
01:14:07.640 --> 01:14:09.840
Know what I'm saying. It's called acting. Sometimes you got yo,

1273
01:14:10.239 --> 01:14:11.960
Y'll see, you know what the problem is? You know

1274
01:14:12.000 --> 01:14:13.960
what I'm saying, Like most these people out here, they're

1275
01:14:13.960 --> 01:14:15.720
showing you you're representative, and you want to show the

1276
01:14:15.760 --> 01:14:17.800
real youth. Sometimes you got to show your representative to

1277
01:14:17.840 --> 01:14:20.720
see who that person really is. And that's slowly you

1278
01:14:20.760 --> 01:14:21.960
know what I'm saying, Master, I.

1279
01:14:21.880 --> 01:14:25.319
Have no energy to show a representative. I am what

1280
01:14:25.439 --> 01:14:28.359
I am at all times. I don't need to be

1281
01:14:28.399 --> 01:14:29.439
faking around nobody.

1282
01:14:30.359 --> 01:14:35.199
Well it's Halloween, Solleen in October.

1283
01:14:36.560 --> 01:14:38.880
But I guess that's why I'm probably single for the

1284
01:14:38.920 --> 01:14:43.760
rest of my life. I ain't trying to be nobody's representative.

1285
01:14:46.520 --> 01:14:47.960
I don't know, you know what I'm saying, because because

1286
01:14:48.000 --> 01:14:51.640
because like yo, you know what I mean. But then again,

1287
01:14:51.720 --> 01:14:53.439
i mean, like in all honesty, you know what I'm saying.

1288
01:14:55.600 --> 01:14:58.279
You know what I'm saying, Like like everyone always has that,

1289
01:14:58.319 --> 01:15:00.920
you know what I'm saying, Like you meet someone, you know, like, yeah,

1290
01:15:00.960 --> 01:15:02.399
you know what I'm saying, you're into them, whatever, But

1291
01:15:02.439 --> 01:15:04.920
like if you have like a little like we're feeling

1292
01:15:04.920 --> 01:15:09.239
in your stomach, you treat them a caution, you know

1293
01:15:09.279 --> 01:15:14.319
what I'm saying, intuition. Everybody has that. Then if they're not,

1294
01:15:14.359 --> 01:15:17.800
you know what I'm saying, Like, if if they're not,

1295
01:15:17.840 --> 01:15:19.359
you know what I'm saying, if you're around them and

1296
01:15:19.399 --> 01:15:21.640
like you're you know what I'm saying, you're just like

1297
01:15:21.640 --> 01:15:25.680
fifty percent easy around them. You know, then guess what,

1298
01:15:25.920 --> 01:15:32.840
you know what I'm saying, you cut that shit off, period. No,

1299
01:15:33.000 --> 01:15:35.159
you know, you gotta listen to your intuition. Sometimes see

1300
01:15:35.159 --> 01:15:37.039
a lot of people don't listen to their intuition.

1301
01:15:38.279 --> 01:15:39.399
Cutting both of y'all off.

1302
01:15:40.560 --> 01:15:47.720
Oh yeah, you know what I'm saying business literally you know,

1303
01:15:47.800 --> 01:15:50.279
but like it's but like you know what, man, like

1304
01:15:50.359 --> 01:15:51.800
you gotta listen to the you know what I'm saying

1305
01:15:51.920 --> 01:15:57.159
the putt of your stomach sometimes, you know, like that

1306
01:15:57.319 --> 01:16:02.520
feeling where you know it's like, oh, you know, yeah, man,

1307
01:16:02.560 --> 01:16:03.880
this person, you know what I'm saying, Like every time

1308
01:16:03.920 --> 01:16:06.600
around this person, this person makes to feel this way

1309
01:16:06.680 --> 01:16:09.000
or whatever. Now I'm about to close this person off,

1310
01:16:11.319 --> 01:16:11.760
you know, like.

1311
01:16:12.479 --> 01:16:17.199
Yeah, everybody has that one person. You know what I'm saying,

1312
01:16:17.760 --> 01:16:19.520
And this is this is what this is what makes

1313
01:16:19.520 --> 01:16:29.880
me feel like immune, not not immune. But everybody has

1314
01:16:29.920 --> 01:16:37.359
this one person. Whether it's someone that they care about,

1315
01:16:37.640 --> 01:16:41.760
or someone that you know they're friends with, or someone

1316
01:16:41.840 --> 01:16:45.359
that they've been involved with, whatever the case may be,

1317
01:16:45.399 --> 01:16:53.159
there's always one person that makes you feel a lot

1318
01:16:53.239 --> 01:16:58.720
better about who you are, about where you are in life,

1319
01:16:59.520 --> 01:17:06.479
about just everything. They just make you feel good all around,

1320
01:17:07.119 --> 01:17:14.439
and that person could be it could be anybody, somebody

1321
01:17:16.000 --> 01:17:18.279
that you know, you're cool with, your friend, whatever. But

1322
01:17:20.199 --> 01:17:22.920
you you you look at this person and you know

1323
01:17:24.319 --> 01:17:32.079
that you know something, something should be going on, but.

1324
01:17:35.279 --> 01:17:35.720
You just.

1325
01:17:37.199 --> 01:17:43.399
You're just stuck, you know what I'm saying. Like, it's

1326
01:17:43.520 --> 01:17:45.439
it's it's it's it's a it's a bad it's a

1327
01:17:45.439 --> 01:17:48.279
bad feeling, you know what I mean. When when you

1328
01:17:48.359 --> 01:17:53.600
know there's someone there, and you know that there's someone

1329
01:17:53.880 --> 01:17:58.119
that you want to be with, you want to make

1330
01:17:58.159 --> 01:17:59.640
things work with, you want to be you know what

1331
01:17:59.680 --> 01:18:03.479
I'm saying, And and and there's just like a fucking

1332
01:18:03.560 --> 01:18:07.279
mental block, bro, like a fucking brick wall that you're

1333
01:18:07.319 --> 01:18:09.880
trying to get through to get to this person. And

1334
01:18:11.319 --> 01:18:19.199
you know, and the ups and downs and and the

1335
01:18:19.319 --> 01:18:22.840
constant confusion and thoughts.

1336
01:18:22.439 --> 01:18:26.640
And all that, that's when you concentrate on yourself and

1337
01:18:26.640 --> 01:18:27.840
everything else play its part.

1338
01:18:28.560 --> 01:18:31.319
Yeah, But I mean, it's it's it's not it has

1339
01:18:31.439 --> 01:18:36.319
it's not that it has to do with It doesn't

1340
01:18:36.359 --> 01:18:42.680
have to do with you know, you not knowing you know,

1341
01:18:43.880 --> 01:18:47.279
you know what it is. You're trying to get there,

1342
01:18:48.439 --> 01:18:50.119
you know what I'm saying. But this, it's just a

1343
01:18:50.159 --> 01:18:55.600
couple of obstacles that just have you you know, no no.

1344
01:18:58.239 --> 01:19:01.960
People in that spend so much time looking for the

1345
01:19:02.000 --> 01:19:04.680
perfect moment to do something, and the truth is there's

1346
01:19:04.720 --> 01:19:07.199
never a perfect moment. Sometimes you just have to jump.

1347
01:19:10.960 --> 01:19:13.840
Hey man, you know what you either you're either gonna

1348
01:19:13.880 --> 01:19:16.079
land on that trampoline or you're gonna land on the ground.

1349
01:19:16.119 --> 01:19:19.239
But like you wouldn't known because you ain't jumping.

1350
01:19:20.319 --> 01:19:27.119
Yeah, worst case scenario and you're no worse off than

1351
01:19:27.159 --> 01:19:29.279
you are before it happens.

1352
01:19:29.520 --> 01:19:32.720
But that's the ship though. You you you wanted you

1353
01:19:32.840 --> 01:19:35.680
wanted to work out, you know what I'm saying, And

1354
01:19:35.720 --> 01:19:38.880
you wanted you wanted to to to be what you

1355
01:19:38.920 --> 01:19:42.560
wanted to be. And then you get to the point

1356
01:19:42.560 --> 01:19:45.199
where it's like all right, you know, let's you know,

1357
01:19:45.279 --> 01:19:46.840
and then all of a sudden it's like, nah, I'm good.

1358
01:19:48.000 --> 01:19:52.319
What you do the scooby dooe, you know what I mean?

1359
01:19:52.439 --> 01:19:55.079
Like you like, well, you also can't be you also

1360
01:19:55.199 --> 01:19:59.000
can't be leaving people hanging out there for so long

1361
01:19:59.119 --> 01:20:02.880
that they just move on, you know, because people have

1362
01:20:03.039 --> 01:20:06.600
done that, Like they it's like they keep you at

1363
01:20:06.720 --> 01:20:10.279
arm's length for so long and you hold on, and

1364
01:20:10.319 --> 01:20:13.359
you hold on and you hold on, and then all

1365
01:20:13.399 --> 01:20:17.800
of a sudden they become ready. And at that point

1366
01:20:17.840 --> 01:20:21.079
you're like, dude, you left me out there so long.

1367
01:20:21.319 --> 01:20:25.920
I'm wrinkled like a prune, you know. Like, so it's like,

1368
01:20:26.960 --> 01:20:28.560
what what do you do with that?

1369
01:20:29.520 --> 01:20:34.720
Yeah, you're right, what do you do with that? Every

1370
01:20:34.840 --> 01:20:38.520
I guess I guess it's you can't do much right.

1371
01:20:38.520 --> 01:20:41.239
No, because it's like you left them out there dangling

1372
01:20:41.359 --> 01:20:42.359
for so long.

1373
01:20:43.840 --> 01:20:47.840
And at the end of the day, it's your fault there, hm,

1374
01:20:49.479 --> 01:20:51.079
you know, like you know what at the end of

1375
01:20:51.079 --> 01:20:53.840
the day. See this is where they.

1376
01:20:53.800 --> 01:20:56.560
Say you missed the moon looking at the stars.

1377
01:20:58.600 --> 01:21:00.319
You miss you're looking at the moon.

1378
01:21:00.680 --> 01:21:05.199
I think, whatever, whatever it is, And it sounded like that, m.

1379
01:21:07.359 --> 01:21:10.000
Hey, you know what I mean at the end of

1380
01:21:10.039 --> 01:21:11.600
the day. I mean, at least it's pouring up in

1381
01:21:11.640 --> 01:21:13.920
your hand. You ain't got to worry about your hand

1382
01:21:14.000 --> 01:21:18.479
cheating on you, you know what I mean. Like you're

1383
01:21:18.479 --> 01:21:21.199
handing your hand, they're gonna step out on you. You're hand,

1384
01:21:21.239 --> 01:21:23.760
They're gonna ask you for a plan B. You think, no,

1385
01:21:25.039 --> 01:21:36.439
you can't get your hand pregnant. M hm mm hmm. Anyway, nah,

1386
01:21:36.560 --> 01:21:39.239
but but but like yo for real though, like look,

1387
01:21:39.279 --> 01:21:42.600
you know what see at the end of the day, man,

1388
01:21:42.640 --> 01:21:44.920
like sometimes you know saying when I say that, play

1389
01:21:45.039 --> 01:21:47.159
how it goes? It's like so all.

1390
01:21:47.119 --> 01:21:52.439
Right, so so you let's let's yeah, so let's look

1391
01:21:52.479 --> 01:21:54.600
at it. Let's let's let's try this. Let's look at

1392
01:21:54.640 --> 01:22:03.199
it like this. You you meet someone, you have a

1393
01:22:03.199 --> 01:22:08.279
good time. You know, things are cool things. You know,

1394
01:22:08.359 --> 01:22:13.159
conversations are flowing and things are all right, and you know,

1395
01:22:13.239 --> 01:22:20.640
you start to develop these things, and you know, over

1396
01:22:20.760 --> 01:22:28.479
time you start to realize that damn, you know, I

1397
01:22:28.560 --> 01:22:31.760
do I do? You know, I do want to be

1398
01:22:31.840 --> 01:22:33.239
with this chick. You know what I'm saying. I do

1399
01:22:33.279 --> 01:22:34.640
want to be with this dude. You know what I'm saying.

1400
01:22:34.680 --> 01:22:36.239
I do want to be with whoever the fuck you

1401
01:22:36.239 --> 01:22:41.560
want to be with. And you know, how do you know?

1402
01:22:41.920 --> 01:22:46.199
How do you know that your feelings will be reciprocated

1403
01:22:46.960 --> 01:22:50.800
if you stepped forward and said, listen, this is what's something,

1404
01:22:50.880 --> 01:22:52.159
is how I feel, this is what I think we

1405
01:22:52.159 --> 01:22:56.840
should do, this is what I think should happen. How

1406
01:22:56.840 --> 01:22:58.159
do you how do you know.

1407
01:22:58.319 --> 01:23:00.520
That You're not supposed to know? You just go you

1408
01:23:00.560 --> 01:23:04.359
know what I'm saying, like you just bro, I mean,

1409
01:23:04.399 --> 01:23:05.600
you know what I'm saying. The most.

1410
01:23:07.520 --> 01:23:11.039
That's that, that's my problem. My problem is I will,

1411
01:23:11.119 --> 01:23:11.760
I will.

1412
01:23:11.520 --> 01:23:14.600
You you you wanna bro? Then yo? Yo, you know

1413
01:23:14.680 --> 01:23:17.279
what certain things? You know what I'm saying, like like, see,

1414
01:23:17.319 --> 01:23:18.000
here's the thing.

1415
01:23:17.920 --> 01:23:21.000
Right if you've risked nothing only nothing.

1416
01:23:21.520 --> 01:23:24.680
Like Yo, you're not supposed to know. Just take You

1417
01:23:24.720 --> 01:23:26.399
know what I'm saying. Take. You know what I'm saying,

1418
01:23:26.399 --> 01:23:29.359
Like like, Yo, you do what if we're down by

1419
01:23:29.439 --> 01:23:30.960
three and I'll give you the ball to take the

1420
01:23:30.960 --> 01:23:34.800
half course shot? What you're gonna do? Pass it the meat? No, man,

1421
01:23:34.880 --> 01:23:37.439
take the half court shot. Bro, it's a fifty to

1422
01:23:37.439 --> 01:23:42.079
fifty chance. You're gonna make it. A note, you know

1423
01:23:43.159 --> 01:23:45.560
the game's on the line. Take the half court shot.

1424
01:23:45.800 --> 01:23:47.880
You know what I'm saying. If you lose, If Yo,

1425
01:23:47.960 --> 01:23:50.680
we lose, yeah, we're gonna ridicue you. You're a dork.

1426
01:23:51.039 --> 01:23:52.960
You know what I'm saying. At the end of the day.

1427
01:23:53.319 --> 01:23:56.319
You know what I'm saying. You took the chance. You

1428
01:23:56.359 --> 01:23:58.439
know what you're gonna do. Just stand there. You know

1429
01:23:58.439 --> 01:24:01.119
what I'm saying. Be stuck on stupid nobody. You know

1430
01:24:01.119 --> 01:24:05.319
what I'm saying, like, go for it, bro, you know,

1431
01:24:05.479 --> 01:24:10.439
like another example, we have to go on it and

1432
01:24:10.479 --> 01:24:12.119
I'm giving you know what I'm saying, And I'm giving

1433
01:24:12.159 --> 01:24:14.880
you the ball, whe the plate, whether where the plant?

1434
01:24:14.920 --> 01:24:16.760
You know what I'm saying. The play wasn't designed for it.

1435
01:24:17.439 --> 01:24:18.800
Are you just going to stand there and be like,

1436
01:24:18.920 --> 01:24:21.680
h you know what I'm saying, get tackled behind a

1437
01:24:21.680 --> 01:24:23.359
line of scrimmage? Are you're just going to run in?

1438
01:24:24.560 --> 01:24:28.560
But here's another point of view. If you're having such

1439
01:24:28.680 --> 01:24:36.880
difficulty with that, do you think that that that's what

1440
01:24:37.039 --> 01:24:41.119
that woman or that man wants in their life. Someone

1441
01:24:41.199 --> 01:24:44.359
that they're not sure they can count on to tell

1442
01:24:44.399 --> 01:24:49.239
them how they feel, or to do what's necessary when

1443
01:24:49.279 --> 01:24:53.760
it's necessary. Uh, somebody who is not going to keep

1444
01:24:53.800 --> 01:24:58.159
getting stuck when there's things they need to do, you know.

1445
01:24:58.319 --> 01:25:03.439
Like again, like like Doves was saying about that self awareness,

1446
01:25:03.479 --> 01:25:10.479
like talking to yourself, being with yourself and working on yourself.

1447
01:25:11.319 --> 01:25:16.239
It's like there are so many factors that are that

1448
01:25:16.279 --> 01:25:19.680
are playing into it. So it's like, does anybody want

1449
01:25:19.720 --> 01:25:22.680
to be with someone who's afraid to take a chance?

1450
01:25:23.640 --> 01:25:27.319
Because then because like me as a woman, if there's

1451
01:25:27.359 --> 01:25:30.520
a if there's some dude out there who has feelings

1452
01:25:30.520 --> 01:25:35.159
for me and it's taken him forever in a day

1453
01:25:35.279 --> 01:25:38.600
to actually approach me about it. What if I need

1454
01:25:38.640 --> 01:25:42.000
to count on him for something because he's not sure?

1455
01:25:42.479 --> 01:25:44.239
Is it going to take him forever and a day

1456
01:25:44.279 --> 01:25:47.319
to come through? Can I depend on that person? Can

1457
01:25:47.359 --> 01:25:49.960
I count on that person? You know?

1458
01:25:50.600 --> 01:25:54.560
Like it just it just sounds want to compare rejections?

1459
01:25:56.079 --> 01:25:58.039
Yeah, and so does somebody want to be with somebody

1460
01:25:58.039 --> 01:26:00.760
who's always afraid to be rejected? Or do they want

1461
01:26:00.800 --> 01:26:04.960
somebody who's gonna take things as they come and process

1462
01:26:05.039 --> 01:26:06.000
them as they go.

1463
01:26:06.680 --> 01:26:08.560
And make it work and your make it work in

1464
01:26:08.600 --> 01:26:11.000
your way either even though it's not supposed to work

1465
01:26:11.000 --> 01:26:13.039
in your way, you still find an angle to make

1466
01:26:13.079 --> 01:26:13.520
it more.

1467
01:26:13.600 --> 01:26:17.279
Find your way, finding the compromise.

1468
01:26:18.319 --> 01:26:21.840
You know, like like like yo, you know what it's like.

1469
01:26:21.920 --> 01:26:23.840
It's like working the room's cube or something. You know

1470
01:26:23.840 --> 01:26:25.520
what I'm saying, Like sometimes you know what I'm saying,

1471
01:26:25.520 --> 01:26:27.600
Like like you know, like you have to twist you

1472
01:26:27.600 --> 01:26:30.039
know what I'm saying certain angles or whatever. You know,

1473
01:26:30.640 --> 01:26:34.840
you're still gonna make it work your way, you know,

1474
01:26:34.960 --> 01:26:37.239
Like like yo, you know what anything could be worked

1475
01:26:37.239 --> 01:26:39.840
your way. Man. It's just that you know, you gotta

1476
01:26:39.840 --> 01:26:41.119
find you know what I'm saying, Like I ain't gonna

1477
01:26:41.119 --> 01:26:42.720
say like, you know what I'm saying, fine back doors

1478
01:26:42.760 --> 01:26:45.439
or whatever. You just gotta look at the puzzle very clearly.

1479
01:26:46.560 --> 01:26:50.760
That's you know what I'm saying, ship bro.

1480
01:26:49.920 --> 01:26:55.399
Not Yeah, yeah, sure does, this sure does. But like

1481
01:26:55.720 --> 01:26:57.159
but like, yo, you know what you just gotta you

1482
01:26:57.199 --> 01:27:00.760
know what I'm saying, Like Yo, you know what? All right?

1483
01:27:02.239 --> 01:27:03.800
You know what I'm saying. Like some people look at

1484
01:27:04.279 --> 01:27:06.520
like a Picasso drawing and be like, what the hell

1485
01:27:06.600 --> 01:27:09.239
kind of ship is this? Others look at it like,

1486
01:27:09.279 --> 01:27:11.279
you know what I'm saying, it's art because they see the

1487
01:27:11.359 --> 01:27:13.319
art in it. You got to see the art in

1488
01:27:13.359 --> 01:27:19.279
your problem, you know what I'm saying. And then painted,

1489
01:27:20.680 --> 01:27:22.000
you know what i mean, Like, you gotta master you

1490
01:27:22.039 --> 01:27:25.840
know what I'm saying. You gotta master that situation either

1491
01:27:25.840 --> 01:27:29.119
which way, whether something small or something huge. You know

1492
01:27:29.159 --> 01:27:31.319
what i mean, master that problem. You know what I'm saying,

1493
01:27:31.399 --> 01:27:37.399
take that risk. You know what I'm saying. You know

1494
01:27:37.439 --> 01:27:40.520
what I'm saying. Billionaires. You know what I'm saying, billionaires

1495
01:27:41.039 --> 01:27:42.920
didn't start. You know what I'm saying they didn't come

1496
01:27:42.920 --> 01:27:45.600
a billionaire overnight. They took some heavy losses before the

1497
01:27:45.640 --> 01:27:47.399
even responsors that I actually work.

1498
01:27:48.800 --> 01:27:51.520
Right, Well, that's what they say. You can't you can't

1499
01:27:51.560 --> 01:27:52.720
grow if you never fail.

1500
01:27:53.960 --> 01:27:59.880
Hell yeah, and I'm a failure. But yet, you know,

1501
01:28:00.000 --> 01:28:01.279
I'm saying, I'm still here.

1502
01:28:02.520 --> 01:28:04.520
Failure is a part of the process, not a part

1503
01:28:04.560 --> 01:28:08.520
of the problem. You gotta fail for things to succeed.

1504
01:28:09.800 --> 01:28:12.760
Because jo you know what, if you succeeded the first time,

1505
01:28:12.880 --> 01:28:14.920
and you know what I'm saying, and you keep succeeding,

1506
01:28:15.319 --> 01:28:16.960
and guess what, it was way too easy.

1507
01:28:16.960 --> 01:28:20.279
It is nothing challenging and it's not worth it.

1508
01:28:20.800 --> 01:28:23.600
Exactly because if it's easy for you, because it's easy

1509
01:28:23.640 --> 01:28:24.279
for somebody else.

1510
01:28:27.560 --> 01:28:31.239
Mhmm. So a lot of a lot a lot of

1511
01:28:31.319 --> 01:28:33.039
viewers have to think about these days.

1512
01:28:34.039 --> 01:28:36.880
Yeah, you know, you know what, I'm pretty sure they know.

1513
01:28:36.920 --> 01:28:38.279
It's just that they want us to say it.

1514
01:28:39.279 --> 01:28:40.880
Yeah, they want us to say it. That's the thing.

1515
01:28:42.079 --> 01:28:45.560
They want the host of the This My Heir podcast

1516
01:28:45.600 --> 01:28:47.159
and give them their relationship advice.

1517
01:28:48.520 --> 01:28:50.039
Well that's what I did.

1518
01:28:54.800 --> 01:29:01.000
Yeah, so but so yeah, I mean, you gotta I

1519
01:29:01.000 --> 01:29:02.720
guess you know, you gotta take that leap of face

1520
01:29:02.760 --> 01:29:03.520
and see what happens.

1521
01:29:03.560 --> 01:29:06.680
Right, Yeah, Yo, you know what, let me give you

1522
01:29:06.680 --> 01:29:09.239
a perfect example of a leap of faith. A couple

1523
01:29:09.199 --> 01:29:12.840
of years ago in Jones Square, somebody jumped off the

1524
01:29:12.840 --> 01:29:17.520
tenth floor, the ninth floor, tenth floor window and no lie,

1525
01:29:17.600 --> 01:29:22.159
he can landed on top of a car a BMW

1526
01:29:22.359 --> 01:29:24.520
happened to be illegally parked. You land on top of

1527
01:29:24.520 --> 01:29:27.560
that hood, you know, Yeah, he was messed up, but

1528
01:29:27.720 --> 01:29:32.159
he lived. You know, he took a leap of faith.

1529
01:29:34.159 --> 01:29:36.760
You know what I'm saying, You're either gonna hit the

1530
01:29:36.760 --> 01:29:39.560
ground or you're gonna hit the car and live. You know,

1531
01:29:39.640 --> 01:29:42.560
it's it's messed up to use that, to use that

1532
01:29:42.640 --> 01:29:46.239
analogy in whatever. But I'm just saying, though, you know,

1533
01:29:46.359 --> 01:29:53.279
like you know, he lived, you know, and mind you

1534
01:29:53.279 --> 01:29:58.439
we're talking like like ninety feet onto a car a

1535
01:29:58.439 --> 01:30:02.880
BMW at that. You know, was he messed up?

1536
01:30:02.960 --> 01:30:03.119
Yeah?

1537
01:30:03.119 --> 01:30:05.600
He probably Know what I'm saying, he probably got all

1538
01:30:05.640 --> 01:30:09.920
physical disabilities to this point, you know, till this day, right,

1539
01:30:10.880 --> 01:30:15.840
but end of the end of the day, he survived.

1540
01:30:18.479 --> 01:30:22.239
So I mean, I guess I know what you're talking about.

1541
01:30:23.880 --> 01:30:26.880
Yeah, I know. I'm saying, though you know what I'm saying,

1542
01:30:26.920 --> 01:30:29.680
Like I'm saying like like you know, like I mean,

1543
01:30:31.279 --> 01:30:33.439
obviously obviously this man want you know what I'm saying,

1544
01:30:33.560 --> 01:30:37.000
this man thought that that day was his last day, right,

1545
01:30:38.159 --> 01:30:42.720
you know, God, God in the universe said otherwise, I

1546
01:30:42.760 --> 01:30:43.479
got a good note.

1547
01:30:44.199 --> 01:30:45.159
I ain't know they had.

1548
01:30:46.760 --> 01:30:49.239
Four maybe five years ago. I took a leap of

1549
01:30:49.239 --> 01:30:52.800
faith and I took a two hour drive to meet

1550
01:30:52.880 --> 01:30:57.720
somebody I never met before. Things went well, feelings were had.

1551
01:30:59.399 --> 01:31:03.800
I took the leap of faith, and I thought that

1552
01:31:04.800 --> 01:31:10.880
he was into me too. We're still friends, but to

1553
01:31:10.920 --> 01:31:16.000
this day, he's never done anything. He's never made a move,

1554
01:31:16.840 --> 01:31:22.119
he's never changed, he's never changed the scenario.

1555
01:31:24.199 --> 01:31:27.640
He's gay. So I lost. He could be.

1556
01:31:29.279 --> 01:31:30.520
You never know.

1557
01:31:31.600 --> 01:31:32.239
I'm just joking.

1558
01:31:32.279 --> 01:31:35.880
I'm I'm I'm no worse for whear you know, Like

1559
01:31:36.600 --> 01:31:41.079
I took that leap and it didn't turn out the

1560
01:31:41.079 --> 01:31:41.800
way I hoped.

1561
01:31:42.319 --> 01:31:46.199
Mhm, But get another friend. Yeah, so now I have

1562
01:31:47.479 --> 01:31:50.359
exactly so so so so you know what, so even

1563
01:31:50.359 --> 01:31:53.760
when you think you're losing, you're actually winning. You know

1564
01:31:53.760 --> 01:31:56.600
what I'm saying, Like you lost that what you lost

1565
01:31:56.600 --> 01:32:02.119
at the expectations, but to gain some of the tal Yeah,

1566
01:32:02.199 --> 01:32:05.279
you know so, so it's it's kind of like a

1567
01:32:05.319 --> 01:32:08.000
win win in a way, just not what you expected,

1568
01:32:08.000 --> 01:32:08.680
but it's a win win.

1569
01:32:11.199 --> 01:32:12.600
Yeah.

1570
01:32:14.920 --> 01:32:21.199
Yeah, but I wasn't. I would never have gotten to

1571
01:32:21.359 --> 01:32:25.439
be such good friends with that guy if I hadn't

1572
01:32:25.439 --> 01:32:32.279
had taken that leap, you know. And there's always there's

1573
01:32:32.319 --> 01:32:37.239
always a chance of rejection, But if you can't be afraid.

1574
01:32:36.840 --> 01:32:40.560
Of rejections, rejection is a part of the game. Injections

1575
01:32:40.560 --> 01:32:42.640
a part of is a part of the game, you

1576
01:32:42.640 --> 01:32:45.520
know what I mean, Like, like, you know how many

1577
01:32:45.520 --> 01:32:46.520
times I've been rejected.

1578
01:32:47.119 --> 01:32:49.319
But I don would think if you know yourself, like

1579
01:32:49.399 --> 01:32:52.920
if you love yourself, if you are sure of yourself,

1580
01:32:54.000 --> 01:32:59.279
I think the rejection doesn't hurt as much because you

1581
01:32:59.319 --> 01:33:03.399
know your value you and so regardless of whether other

1582
01:33:03.479 --> 01:33:07.359
people see it or not, you your value is still

1583
01:33:07.359 --> 01:33:11.000
the same, whether other people can see it or not.

1584
01:33:16.119 --> 01:33:18.279
I got something. I got something to say.

1585
01:33:18.760 --> 01:33:21.279
It's getting a little too hot of there, Yeah.

1586
01:33:21.199 --> 01:33:26.840
I got something to say. I make a banging banana pudding.

1587
01:33:27.239 --> 01:33:27.880
Yo, you do.

1588
01:33:29.760 --> 01:33:34.000
Okay, it's banging. I made some more.

1589
01:33:34.800 --> 01:33:36.680
You're not supposed to be eating banana pudding.

1590
01:33:38.800 --> 01:33:42.239
Yeah, my daughter loves it. Sorry, I make it for

1591
01:33:42.520 --> 01:33:44.319
and I also make sense for myself.

1592
01:33:45.000 --> 01:33:47.680
Yeah, and to make yourself sick and not.

1593
01:33:47.600 --> 01:33:50.319
Saying it's not called. It's not called I need.

1594
01:33:53.199 --> 01:34:00.439
No, it's not. Well. Any final thought us for this

1595
01:34:00.520 --> 01:34:03.720
evening does? I'm gonna start with you. I'm gonna start

1596
01:34:03.720 --> 01:34:05.239
with you for your final thought before we go.

1597
01:34:05.279 --> 01:34:06.720
Almost got hit by a car. That's nice.

1598
01:34:07.159 --> 01:34:07.560
Mm hmm.

1599
01:34:10.600 --> 01:34:13.039
That really would have been my final thought.

1600
01:34:15.039 --> 01:34:17.680
Yeah, real quick, real quick, before you're going.

1601
01:34:17.560 --> 01:34:21.840
To man, just keep pushing it. You know what I'm saying,

1602
01:34:22.279 --> 01:34:24.720
Take that leap of faith. Man, what I'm saying, take

1603
01:34:24.720 --> 01:34:27.479
a leap you know, like if you you know what

1604
01:34:27.479 --> 01:34:28.960
I'm saying. If you miss, you miss, if you you

1605
01:34:29.000 --> 01:34:31.039
know what I'm saying. But sometimes the unexpected miss is

1606
01:34:31.079 --> 01:34:35.560
that it's a very expected game. That's all.

1607
01:34:35.880 --> 01:34:42.000
Hold on, all right, lady g what's your final thought

1608
01:34:42.039 --> 01:34:42.600
for the evening?

1609
01:34:43.319 --> 01:34:51.479
My final thought for the evening, I would say, live

1610
01:34:51.479 --> 01:34:56.039
each day to the fullest, and if it's meant to be,

1611
01:34:56.119 --> 01:34:58.680
it'll be, and if not, I won't.

1612
01:35:00.039 --> 01:35:03.560
Okay, that's a good one.

1613
01:35:04.159 --> 01:35:04.520
Mm hmm.

1614
01:35:06.920 --> 01:35:08.439
Alright, I'm sorry, go ahead, Yeah.

1615
01:35:08.800 --> 01:35:12.520
No, no, no, you just you know, just remembering that

1616
01:35:12.560 --> 01:35:16.560
the people that that you're still valuable whether we win

1617
01:35:16.680 --> 01:35:20.079
or lose. You know, it's it's that we just keep

1618
01:35:20.119 --> 01:35:23.359
getting up. That's all right.

1619
01:35:23.520 --> 01:35:27.560
Sometimes a loss is not really a loss, you know what.

1620
01:35:27.720 --> 01:35:33.560
Keep your little uh not making sense rhymes and riddles

1621
01:35:33.600 --> 01:35:34.359
to yourself.

1622
01:35:35.960 --> 01:35:38.399
No, actually does make sense though. A loss is not

1623
01:35:38.439 --> 01:35:44.119
really lost because in your head, no, it ain't, you

1624
01:35:44.159 --> 01:35:47.159
know what I'm saying, because like because like yo, you

1625
01:35:47.199 --> 01:35:49.039
know what, what you think you're losing is not You're

1626
01:35:49.039 --> 01:35:52.960
not really losing much, all right.

1627
01:35:53.720 --> 01:35:57.359
So my final thought for the evening is I make

1628
01:35:57.399 --> 01:36:01.800
a banging banana pudding. If anybody wants a banana putting,

1629
01:36:01.880 --> 01:36:04.279
hit me up. I'll make something for you, no doubt

1630
01:36:04.319 --> 01:36:10.119
about it. I think. I think that there's sometimes in

1631
01:36:10.159 --> 01:36:16.399
your life, some things you go through that open your

1632
01:36:16.399 --> 01:36:24.479
eyes and help you to understand better. And don't don't

1633
01:36:24.560 --> 01:36:29.760
let those things scare you. Follow your heart, follow your gut,

1634
01:36:30.239 --> 01:36:31.399
follow the banana pudding.

1635
01:36:35.079 --> 01:36:37.520
Yeah, notice you said follow your gut and follow the

1636
01:36:37.560 --> 01:36:43.319
banana pudding. It should be follow the banana pudding, follow

1637
01:36:43.319 --> 01:36:46.760
your gut, follow that bathroom that smell.

1638
01:36:49.760 --> 01:36:51.840
Anyway, each a bana pudding, I'll be.

1639
01:36:51.800 --> 01:36:59.520
In the gym anyway, always remember people that at some point.

1640
01:36:58.840 --> 01:37:02.119
This my like, Hey, I'm not outside by the way, man,

1641
01:37:02.159 --> 01:37:05.479
it's beautiful out here. This September weather is beautiful. Man.

1642
01:37:07.079 --> 01:37:10.399
Wow, everybody, have a good night. Have a good night.

1643
01:37:11.119 --> 01:37:13.000
That's enough for the weather report. I ain't the Weather channel.

1644
01:37:13.439 --> 01:37:16.600
Yeah, have a good night, be safe. We love and

1645
01:37:16.640 --> 01:37:20.840
we'll see you guys next week. Episodes