Aug. 29, 2024

Tee Off Tuesday!! (Recorded LIVE on 8-27-24)

Tee Off Tuesday!! (Recorded LIVE on 8-27-24)

We'll be talking about some of the Topic's that really piss us off!! The topics that you want to hear about but Piss you off!! Always REMEMBER that at some point "This Might Hurt"

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We'll be talking about some of the Topic's that really piss us off!! The topics that you want to hear about but Piss you off!! Always REMEMBER that at some point "This Might Hurt"

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Years.

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Has happens?

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Lady Je was good, Hey, how you doing.

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I'm all.

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Yeah, I actually had the mic off. I was talking,

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the mic was off. Should leave it to me to

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do some shit like that?

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Yep, talking to yourself.

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Yeah, I was like, why why doesn't she hear me?

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And I heard you breathing and I'm like, oh my god,

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if she fall asleep. But you couldn't hear me, that

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was the problem. So how you been. I'm all right,

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that's good, that's good. That's good. We're expecting dubs come

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in shortly. But until he gets here, so I don't

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know if TG's in the pop in she said she'd

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be late, but we'll see how that goes. So with

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that being said, how is your week?

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It was a rough one.

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I had vacation Bible school, but got through it and

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now it's.

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A new week.

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Yeah, it's always going to start off the week, you

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know good. I don't know how how you feel, but

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about you know, Mondays and after a weekend and ship

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like that. But you know, I'm looking I'm looking at

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myself as I can see myself. I got a lot

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of gray fucking hair man. Look at that.

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Well, you're old. What do you want.

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Damn, that's that's wisdom. That's not old age old.

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Yeah, old no wisdom?

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Yeah, oh shit, yeah, but yeah, next week is already September.

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Time is just flying by. Do you notice that time

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flies a lot fast as you get older or is

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it just me?

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It's probably just you. I think it fluctuates ebbs and flows.

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Oh yeah, you think so?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Some weeks go by so slow, another one just so quickly.

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Mm hmm.

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Yeah.

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That depends on what you got to do.

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Yeah. I got a lot of shit to do, so

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it just it just seems like there's not enough time

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in the day, you know what I mean? Mm hmmm, yeah,

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that's that's that's what I think. All Right, So I

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got some video clips you're gonna play the day we're

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gonna talk about those video clips. It's t off Tuesday.

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So te off Tuesday pretty much means what pissed you off?

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What has you pissed off this week? If you're not

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pissed off, is there something going on anywhere that has

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you thinking to yourself, what the fuck?

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Well?

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I'm not usually just off person, but and when I

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do feel you know, frustrated or upset, I tend to

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sleep on it, see what's going on, and straighten it out,

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you know, usually the next day. But things I think

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that have bothered me, ah, you know, I guess knowing

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myself is I have like little pet peeve type things.

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So it's like one of the things is when I

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have a job, like when someone gives me a job

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to do or an assignment, right, it really bothers me

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if you give me the assignment and then you go

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behind me and you start doing it. You know, uh, well,

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not even that you give me a job to do,

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but because I guess I'm not doing it as quickly

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or the way you want it, the way you want

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it done, you just come behind me and do it anyway,

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or you send somebody else to do it. And that

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really ticks me off because, like, especially at my job now,

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there are a lot of times where you know, we

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have to process something or do something and I take

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the time out of my day to do it or

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to do research for it, or you know, to put

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my hands on it somehow, and then by the time

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I'm done, somebody comes by and says that you know,

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you're that somebody already provided something for them, right, So

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I'm like so I just spent half a day doing

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what I needed to do to complete this task, and

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somebody else, just out of nowhere decided to willy nilly

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do the task, circumvent the system, do it the way

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they want to do it, get it done, you know,

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just by happenstance. And now we both have the same object,

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the same thing, but two different ways, because people wouldn't

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let me do my own job, you know, just kind

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of like sticking your nose where it don't belong. There's

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one time when I had foot surgery a couple of

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months ago, we have like a group chap at work,

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and I was working remotely for.

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Like two weeks, two to three weeks.

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I was working remotely from home, and in the group chat,

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they were writing about how a particular mailbox that I

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oversee was overflowing. But I already knew what was in

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the mailbox, and it was just paperwork of stuff that

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I'd already been doing.

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It was just the hard copies. So there was really

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nothing in that.

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In that box that was gonna make a big deal,

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you know, because everything that was in there I could

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do online, like, you know, electronically. But somebody at the

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job who wasn't it isn't even a part of my unit,

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Like she don't have nothing to do with the job

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that I do. Was writing in the you know, in

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the chat about how this box was overflowing with mail

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or whatever it was, and did we want her to

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empty it and do all that? And I just kept saying,

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I'm going to be there on Tuesday. I'm fully aware

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of what is in you know, the boxes, uh, and

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what needs to be done. And in the chat they

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just kept going on and on to the point where

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they're making phone calls to other offices about some of

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the paperwork that's in the bin. And it really, really,

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it really burned me, and I said, and I just

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busted out. I said, do me a favor and leave

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my mailbox alone. I will be there tomorrow to take

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care of it, you know, so kindly leave my mailbox alone.

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Now.

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Mind you.

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One thing that my job does stress to us is

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about you know, private information. You know, with my job,

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we have private information. So you know, they're always reminding

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you don't leave copies on the copy machines, don't, you know,

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leave scans on the scanners, you know, because of the information.

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So I've been going three weeks, and when I got back, like,

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and I had printed some stuff out while I was

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out right, So I was kind of like, hold on,

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hold on, you are stressing me and throwing me under

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a bus in a group chat at work about a

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box that is only my responsibility, has nothing to do

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with your job, nothing to do with what you do.

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So you're worrying about my work, but you're not worried

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about the stack of papers that has been sitting on

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the copy machine for three weeks with private information on it,

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that is that is actually your responsibility.

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Like that that killed me.

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I'm like, you're worried about stuff that's not yours, but

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you're not worried about the stuff that you're supposed to

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be worried about that you're actually told to worry about. Right,

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So I guess in that way, I could be a

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little I don't know, I guess it's territorial or.

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You know, just a little bothered one.

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Because I recognize, you know, I was diagnosed with ADHD

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as a as a grown up. But now that I

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know the issue, and now that I know what needs

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to be done and you know, seeking treatment and all

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that stuff, you know, I've got things pretty much on

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the on the up and up and worked out. So

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it's like I have this, this, this plan or this

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design every day. And so when people when people jack

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up my flow or throw a wrench in my system

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or try to, yeah, or try to because people can

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only do to you what you let them, you know,

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So when people try to jack up my system that

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I have in place, I have to put my foot

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down and say, oh no, I'm sorry.

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In order for me to do.

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My job as well as I do it, I need

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you to move. I need you to get away from

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my stuff and let me do what I do.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, Well, anybody tried to get in your way, you

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gotta definitely gotta push you that ship. Yeah yeah, so

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you see we got that little thing on the bottom

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of the screen now, which is cool. I found out

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how to do that ship. It was a lot of ship.

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There was a lot of ship I didn't know we

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could do. But hold on, dubbs this yeah, m you

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what up? What's the matter? You don't look happy?

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Man?

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I broke my favorite ice cube tray.

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Ah yeah, that's that's a problem. Fortunate mhm, gone, damn,

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that's terrible.

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Bro. Have a moment of silence.

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Yes we can, Oh, ice cube tray, you're so good today.

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You give me lighted a lot of good ice cube balls,

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no diddy for my drinks. May you go onto the

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garbage and that nice place in the landfill up in

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the sky.

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Amen?

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Amen? Yeah mm hmmm, So.

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All right, I can't play with me and ice, so

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I'm mad respect for you.

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Yeah, yo, yo, especially when I have like that cup

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that like retains ice for like damn there twelve hours.

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Yeah, oh man, let me tell you. Let me tell you, bro,

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like ice awarter my best friends nowadays. See, so let

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me tell you the ice machine. Oh gosh, yeah.

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Because I have a thermost sixty four hours every day

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filling that bad boy up.

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Go ahead, go ahead, and do you.

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So? So peep so peep. Game today is off Tuesday?

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What has you besides the ice tray? What is it

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going on that's got you pissed off? Whether it be

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something on whatever, what's got you teed off? This week?

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We even get through the weekend?

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No, but I mean from Tuesday to Tuesday.

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Bro oh, from Tuesday to Tuesday. Yo. Let's talk about

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these foreign ass drivers, man, Let's talk about them foreign drivers, bro,

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Like I don't even care. Man, Like, look, you know what,

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if you're from another state and you're driving here in Jersey,

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just know that the left side is to speed from

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sixty to one hundred.

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I don't know if it's one hundred.

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Sixty two, one hundred. You know it doesn't mean to

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do sixty five, you fucking you fucking in colpool. They

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don't mean, dude, sixty five. They don't mean to do

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it speeding it. You know what I'm saying, get out

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the way, you know, Like, like Bro, I right, you

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know what I'm saying, Like I'd rather go nowhere fast

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to be stuck behind you know what I'm saying. Some

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idiot who want you know what I'm saying, who wants

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to clog up the lane or whatever. They gets mad

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at me when I stare them down, Like Bro, you

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know what, that's just that's the Jersey of me, period.

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You know what I'm saying, Man, I want to stay

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down like like nigga, like you stupid or something. I

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don't care if like you know, your li likes to place,

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especially New York drivers. Man, New York drivers, you guys

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know better, you know, Like Bro, I used to work

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in the Bronx. These dudes drove on sidewalks, you know

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what I'm saying, Tokyo drifting and the minute you know

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what I'm saying, they hit the George Washington Bridge, all

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of a sudden they went from fast and furious and

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driving him his daisy. I'm like, nah, don't do that now.

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A little too late for that. I already seen you

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know what I'm saying, your little antics like you're pulling

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out there right, you know, like, don't do that. Get

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out the way. That's what really grinds my gears.

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That really grinds your gears. Yeah, a lot of those.

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Right as grinds my gears.

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Yeah. I have a some videos, yeah that I want

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to play, So I guess in order to hear them,

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you have to click a button that says listen or

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some ship. Oh there's a button. No, it's gonna play

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on the screen. The microphones are gonna meete because we

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can't talk during the video. But to hear the video

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you have to, I guess press listen to listen to

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what it says. So the first video, let's see we

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what you guys think of this one. Okay, so just

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listen to this and just let me know. After I

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Well, guess wasn't fifty to fifty, The dishes wasn't fifty

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to fifty, the laundry wasn't fifty fifty, the cleaning wasn't

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fifty fifty. And that's an every day motherfucking job. I

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come home and then got food on the table, got

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calls on the bed, got shit everywhere. Every day, I'm exhausted.

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I'm coming home, I'm cleaning my house, and yes, I

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do that anyways, But.

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When it's just you, it's just you.

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When you are cleaning up for man and his children and.

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Other people, it is a whole full time job and

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you don't get time for yourself.

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Then that's why women get burnt out and you're no.

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Longer having your relationship because you're coming home and a

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man are sitting on the couch because he's hired for

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work and you're making sure you're.

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Catering to him.

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So what so what so what?

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I don't understand where is the value in that?

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Do not choose a woman don't want to be a woman.

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The mindern day women right there, I'm gonna go to

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work like you.

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Then you want me to cook clean?

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So what, Yes, you're gonna cook, clean, do this, and

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do that. And guess what.

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He takes them to trash out, He fixed in the house.

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He making sure this is.

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But we have different duties, functions and responsibilities.

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My wife don't want.

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My duties just because I can see you cook the

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food and you can't see me clean the gutters. You

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don't even care about that stuff, but it still need

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to be done. Men have different responsibilities. So all this,

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oh I cooked and I clean and like, yeah, that's

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part of your function. But when your tire is flat,

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my function is to make sure you have a new.

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Tire needle allil change. Is my job to make sure

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these people ain't ripping you off. We have different duties

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and functions and responsibilities.

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And if you don't love your duty, your function, and

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your responsibility, you're not fit to be a white period.

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Did you hear the whole thing?

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Nah?

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Then nope?

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Oh no, all right, I heard the whole thing, So God,

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all yeah, you know what she is there yapping away about?

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You know, complaining about you know what I'm saying, how

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like when she comes on from work, she gotta cook.

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You're saying clean and stuff. But dude, you know what

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I'm saying. I was like, I feel that I ain't

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gonna lie. But then the homeboy like countered. It was like, yo,

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you know what, like when it's stuff. You know what

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I'm saying. The duties are different. You know what I'm saying.

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You got the inside duties. I got the outside duties,

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like making sure you you know what I'm saying, you're

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trying to rip you off your tire, or like cleaning

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out the gutters so like nothing messes up, or you

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know what I'm saying. I could add on to it.

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But do you agree? Do you agree? Do you agree

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to an extent? Do you not agree?

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I agree to an extent because like, you know what

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I'm saying. Yeah, but see you what I'm saying to

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an extender, it's like this, right, you can what you

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call it?

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M hm.

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You could want all you know what I'm saying. You

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could want all those things, but you also have to

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go with the times too, because times are changing, you

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know what I'm saying. It's not the sixties. You know

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what I'm saying the same, you know what I'm saying,

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how my parents had their relationship. You know what I mean,

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Like times are changing, but I think I think that

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you know what I'm saying, things will work of like

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you can bind it too. Stop complaining everybouty Absolutely, I'm saying, like, yo,

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you know what, you know what that woman should be

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really complaining if like she made like you know what

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I'm saying. You know what I'm saying, some pot roaster

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to burn that she got slapped upside the head over

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that shit, that she should be complaining, you know, like, yeah,

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you know what, you burnt out? I'm like, yeo, you

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know what I'm saying. You wouldn't get burnt out. You

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know what I'm saying. You guys are able to express that.

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We get burnt out. We don't say nothing because you

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know what you women will look at it as a sign

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of weakness. So it's different, you know, like it's real different.

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Like I can't tell my girl right now I'm burnt out.

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How does that look? How does that look? You know?

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I can't tell that that that yell I'm with the baby.

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You know what I'm saying all day and every day,

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you know what I'm saying, I'm burnt out. I can't

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tell her that, right, you know what I'm saying, like,

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and the only reason I'm you know what I'm saying, like,

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the only reason why me you know what I'm saying

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even here is because of my injury. I can't tell

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that I'm burnt out because then what you know what

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I'm saying? Like, No, you know what I'm saying is

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it's different. It's real different because I.

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Think I think as far as as far as fifty

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to fifty is concerned, I mean, I get it.

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Some but but but what THO like the fifty that

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she wants is like I want you to help you

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know what I'm saying with the end door stuff basically no,

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But I mean when when like like like like like

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like you know what.

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Behold up a second? When when when you talk about

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fifty to fifty right and splitting the duties down the middle.

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But what if what if I can't come in at fifty,

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I come in at thirty or forty? Can can you

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pick up the sixty or seventy percent that that that

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that that I need you to come in at if

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I'm at thirty or forty.

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You know what I'm saying, Like most model, what we're

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going to tell you to go fuck yourself?

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You know what right or word you think?

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So most model, yeah, they will, Oh wow, we'll tell

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you to go fuck yourself. You know, like like it's

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not like you know what I'm saying, because they'll end

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of the day. I mean, shit is so expensive out here.

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Personality doesn't pay bills. Wow, unless you get unless you're

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getting paid for it, you know what I'm saying. Unless

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like you're you know, like like you'll find it some

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way and whatever, like unless like you know what I'm saying,

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you're big holy on by day, but by but by night.

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You know what I'm saying. You're Saint Charles. You know

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what I'm saying. The stripper and ship going with the

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thug life and Timberland boots on a stripper pole. You

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know what I'm saying, jiggling it, you know, like this

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woman don't care my woman today that is you know

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what I mean, Like you have you have to have something.

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So a dude I can't a dude. A dude has

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to has to be fifty to fifty or or or

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it's not going to work out, that's what you're saying.

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My well, how like you know what I'm saying, Like

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what i've seen from my woman today, Yeah, it's fifty

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or more. You know what I'm saying, Like what makes

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it worse? What makes it worse is like, let's just

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say you make a forty grand, she making sixty grand.

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You know what I'm saying, Like you're quiet you as

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a man, quietly going to feel and masculated as is

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right because you know we're brought up to be like

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you know what I'm saying, the head of the house,

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so quietly. You know what I'm saying. You know what

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I'm saying, discreetly, You're gonna feel emasculated as is God forbid.

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You know what I'm saying. That woman starts throwing that

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shit in your face. You know what I'm saying, like,

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well shit, you know what I'm saying, here's my balls.

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If you want to keep it in your person, keep

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it on the dressing kind of get my balls back.

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You know what I'm saying. Do I have a detachable penis?

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You know what I'm saying, Like, it's it's you know

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what I'm saying, Like it's it's like my like today,

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that's what it is. I know, you know what I mean.

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The economy is something somewhat to blame for that ship. Yeah,

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like real shit, you know what I'm saying, Like like

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like you know what if if for one bedroom apartment,

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then of course like two grand right, that thirty you're

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talking about will be feasible if a car not, if

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a car not nowadays and it's like five hundred, that

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thirty you speak of will be feasible. But yo, you

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know what though, they're gonna they're gonna be like I

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love you, but love don't pay bills.

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Wow. Yeah, I know, yeah, that's that. That's it's crazy

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to think like that though, you know what I'm saying, like,

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it's crazy. It's crazy. It's crazy to think that that

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that find financially if you're not you know there, you

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know you're going to be pushed out.

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Bro. Whit? I think vampires are walking into the sun. Bro.

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They found out they're broke to They're like, yo, fuck it,

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I'm gonna offer myself. I'm just gonna walk into the

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sun man, pires Bro, They're walking into the sun at

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an alarming rates. How are we supposed to kill vampires.

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They killed themselves, you know what I'm saying. They're like, yo,

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you know what I'm saying, that they win, and they're like, huh,

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eggs twelve dollars, I'd rather killed myself, bro crazy, No,

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but all jokes aside. Man, a car and eggs cost

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something forty nine. I want to go get some eggs, right,

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And I was like wait what? I was like, yo,

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I might as well still a chicken, Like like yo,

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you know what, like beef, like beef costs, like you

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know what I'm saying, Like like, do rather go get

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a pack of ground beef? It was like thirteen dollars?

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So I So I asked to the butcher. I said,

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excuse me, I said, cow's going extinct to something. He

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was like what. I was like, the fuck is up

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at these prices? Cows are going extinct? He was like, hey, man,

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I was like, let me find out. Cows are going extinct?

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Word right, you know, like like they're like like, you know,

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even pork chops, you know what I'm saying. And and

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like there's a lot of Muslin people that, you know

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what I'm saying, Jewish people don't that don't eat pork Okay, right,

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religious reasons, But there's no damn reason why pork should

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be expensive too, right when when two thirds of the

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population don't eat that meaning you know what I'm saying,

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for religious reasons, right, bro, Like that's what I'm trying

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to say, though you know what I'm saying, Like stuff

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like this, You know what I'm saying, makes makes the

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thirty percent you're talking about? You know what I'm saying,

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what's track the supplier? Where is that place? An anyways?

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You know what that thirty percent? You know what I'm saying. Like,

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like when there's stuff like that, you know what I'm saying,

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everything the factors into the equation, even gas, bro, Well,

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where I'm at like three or nine, And that's that's

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a deal, you know what I'm saying, Like that's some bargain,

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you know. But like, but like you know what, man

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like the economy, you know what I'm saying, The economy

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made you know what I'm saying, the modern woman the

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way she is now, because you know what, if it

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wasn't for the economy being just like fucked up, modern

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women wouldn't have such like you know, high the man

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expectations if you will and in all honesty is not

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really their fault either, you know, like it's ment it's

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our fault in a way because like, well yeah it

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is because but actually there it's a fifty to fifty thing, right.

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Yeah, so so real quick, So like I was like

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I was saying, let's say easy, what do.

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You think it takes you fell asleep?

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Yeah? I think she felt as if she's on air sleeping.

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Oh stop.

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You you are sleeping? You were asleep?

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Yeah? Your snore? Yeah, yeah, we heard that little snow.

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You're like, believe me?

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Did you? Lady?

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G not for real? Did you? What do you think

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about about how you know, the relationships are these days

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as far as the fifty to fifty thing is.

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Concerned, Well, I think every relationship is different.

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I think that.

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Where one relationship might be fifty to fifty with bills,

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another relationship wouldn't work that way, you know, so maybe

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it would be.

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Chores.

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I think I just think it has to do personally

476
00:30:05.119 --> 00:30:10.519
with the two people, you know, what type of people

477
00:30:10.559 --> 00:30:14.240
they are and what works for their relationship. Because the

478
00:30:14.279 --> 00:30:16.440
thing is, it's not always going to be fifty to fifty.

479
00:30:16.720 --> 00:30:20.200
Sometimes I'm gonna have to pick up eighty you might

480
00:30:20.240 --> 00:30:22.680
have to pick up twenty, you know, like that's that's

481
00:30:22.680 --> 00:30:24.160
the purpose of a relationship.

482
00:30:24.559 --> 00:30:26.400
And you don't have a problem with that, right.

483
00:30:27.240 --> 00:30:29.519
No, Because if you're in a relationship, you're supposed to

484
00:30:29.559 --> 00:30:32.519
be in the relationship for both of you to do

485
00:30:32.640 --> 00:30:39.640
equal work, not necessarily equal, like balanced equal, but picking

486
00:30:39.720 --> 00:30:42.960
up where the other one can't always put down, you know.

487
00:30:43.039 --> 00:30:45.680
And sometimes that'll be a fifty to fifty, sometimes a

488
00:30:45.839 --> 00:30:50.839
sixty forty. You know, it's a constantly ever changing thing.

489
00:30:50.880 --> 00:30:54.079
And I think that's part of what people are having

490
00:30:54.079 --> 00:31:00.039
difficulty with nowadays, is that they want to say that

491
00:31:00.079 --> 00:31:03.680
they want something, but then when that shows up, they

492
00:31:03.720 --> 00:31:05.160
don't know how to deal with it.

493
00:31:05.200 --> 00:31:05.880
They don't know.

494
00:31:05.799 --> 00:31:09.079
How to handle it, and they're not really ready for

495
00:31:09.279 --> 00:31:12.400
the things that they say they're ready for. Because when

496
00:31:12.400 --> 00:31:15.559
we when we want something, we also have to prepare,

497
00:31:15.799 --> 00:31:18.480
be prepared for what comes with it, you know that

498
00:31:19.039 --> 00:31:24.440
great responsibility, you know, great power, you know has great responsibility,

499
00:31:24.480 --> 00:31:30.519
and so yeah, so sometimes sometimes we want we want

500
00:31:30.559 --> 00:31:34.039
something in particular, but we are not prepared to deal

501
00:31:34.240 --> 00:31:38.519
with the things that come with that particular prize, you know,

502
00:31:38.599 --> 00:31:39.680
whatever that may be.

503
00:31:42.640 --> 00:31:50.960
You know, true, right for the men used to believe

504
00:31:50.960 --> 00:31:54.319
in old school gender roles, meaning there are women duties

505
00:31:54.359 --> 00:31:55.440
and there are men duties.

506
00:31:56.119 --> 00:31:57.839
Not a kitchen now.

507
00:32:04.039 --> 00:32:05.119
Ahead where you go?

508
00:32:06.200 --> 00:32:14.920
Well, I mean I believe that sometimes, like you know

509
00:32:14.960 --> 00:32:18.799
what I'm saying sometimes like it's a good thing, you know,

510
00:32:18.920 --> 00:32:21.519
like like like like look, you know what you know,

511
00:32:21.640 --> 00:32:26.759
Like I don't know what to call it. I don't

512
00:32:27.319 --> 00:32:32.400
I don't control no narrative. I don't like the control shit,

513
00:32:32.559 --> 00:32:36.359
you know. I just want the person to be them right.

514
00:32:37.119 --> 00:32:40.400
But like there's also boundaries in that part, you know,

515
00:32:40.519 --> 00:32:45.160
Like the first is today I cooked today, Yesterday she

516
00:32:45.319 --> 00:32:49.079
cooked Monday. We were just like fuck it, We're gonna

517
00:32:49.160 --> 00:32:54.759
orderr out, you know. Like like I'm like like like

518
00:32:54.799 --> 00:32:57.400
I'm okay with you know what I'm saying with with

519
00:32:57.880 --> 00:33:01.920
you know what I'm saying. But how things are? You know?

520
00:33:02.480 --> 00:33:05.480
But one thing's for sure, you know, like how women's

521
00:33:05.480 --> 00:33:09.759
supposed you know, women's supposed to be relegated to laundry. Yeah,

522
00:33:09.759 --> 00:33:13.960
my girl don't touch my laundry ever. Ever. She touched

523
00:33:13.960 --> 00:33:16.880
my lawyer one time and I was and I was like, yoh,

524
00:33:16.880 --> 00:33:19.839
what the fuck is this? Everything was folded, But I

525
00:33:19.880 --> 00:33:22.960
have OCD because of my laundry. You know what I'm saying,

526
00:33:23.039 --> 00:33:27.240
like certain things have to be certain ways, right, And

527
00:33:27.279 --> 00:33:29.119
then like I seen the shirt and I pulled out

528
00:33:29.119 --> 00:33:30.799
a shirt and whatever, and the ship shrunk. I was like,

529
00:33:31.559 --> 00:33:33.359
you know what, you're suspect. I'm like, yo, you're not

530
00:33:33.400 --> 00:33:37.799
touching my lawnder every again, she felt bad. I'm like, Noah, no,

531
00:33:39.440 --> 00:33:42.640
you know no, I'll do the laundry dudes from here

532
00:33:42.799 --> 00:33:45.559
on out, But what about your back? Fuck my back.

533
00:33:46.319 --> 00:33:49.000
I'm gonna do it hair on out. As much as

534
00:33:49.039 --> 00:33:52.279
it hurts my back, I'm just gonna do it and

535
00:33:52.480 --> 00:33:57.039
be like Nike and just do it. It's painful, but

536
00:33:57.160 --> 00:33:58.880
you know what, though, like you know, realness, it makes

537
00:33:58.880 --> 00:34:00.960
me feel like I'm actually doing something conductive.

538
00:34:02.519 --> 00:34:05.440
Yeah, but I also like when you want something a

539
00:34:05.440 --> 00:34:09.480
certain way, sometimes it is better that you just take

540
00:34:09.559 --> 00:34:10.679
that responsibility.

541
00:34:12.119 --> 00:34:14.599
Not true, you know what. It's the point where like

542
00:34:14.639 --> 00:34:19.079
you know, like like all right, here's how I do laundry, right,

543
00:34:19.880 --> 00:34:22.079
like all the umps, like all our dirty closes in

544
00:34:22.159 --> 00:34:25.320
one bag. But I take three bags down with me.

545
00:34:26.360 --> 00:34:28.920
But I mean two bags. I'm saying the baby's court shot.

546
00:34:28.920 --> 00:34:32.199
I do own ship. I take two bags. I take

547
00:34:32.239 --> 00:34:35.079
three bags with me because one backs for me, one

548
00:34:35.119 --> 00:34:38.199
backs for her, and one back to the baby. How

549
00:34:38.239 --> 00:34:39.880
I fold my clothes is how I do you know

550
00:34:39.880 --> 00:34:42.360
what I'm saying. Her clothes as well, except for her

551
00:34:42.360 --> 00:34:44.760
work uniforms, I leave them on time. You know, I

552
00:34:44.760 --> 00:34:47.719
can tell you what it is with her shit work uniforms,

553
00:34:47.719 --> 00:34:52.039
work shirt, pinty socks and miscellaneous ship that she works

554
00:34:52.039 --> 00:35:00.920
for over there. Me it's my shorts, basketball shorts, my

555
00:35:00.920 --> 00:35:04.079
my sub life songs or rhymestones. They will be on top.

556
00:35:04.119 --> 00:35:04.519
Of course.

557
00:35:08.360 --> 00:35:10.239
Yeah, I know you were waiting for a laugh on them.

558
00:35:12.559 --> 00:35:15.199
I was just like just like not like like you know,

559
00:35:15.239 --> 00:35:19.239
it'll be like short stepping my shirt with my boxes,

560
00:35:19.559 --> 00:35:21.559
with my socks, because it'll be easy for me to

561
00:35:21.599 --> 00:35:24.519
like throw them in jaws, you know, like shut someone

562
00:35:24.519 --> 00:35:27.239
to hang up and be at the bottom. You know,

563
00:35:27.360 --> 00:35:31.239
like it's that's how, that's how, that's how it's structure

564
00:35:31.239 --> 00:35:36.400
for me. But but yeah, like like you know, like

565
00:35:36.480 --> 00:35:38.079
I'll do the launder. I don't let her do ship

566
00:35:39.280 --> 00:35:42.400
when it comes to the lawn. Now, as far as

567
00:35:42.400 --> 00:35:46.800
cleaning the bathroom, I let her hands like I cleaned

568
00:35:46.840 --> 00:35:53.239
the kitchen because you know it's to me like to

569
00:35:53.320 --> 00:35:56.280
be in honesty, Like like the bathroom hurts my back,

570
00:35:56.360 --> 00:35:59.480
so because I'm on my knees O Diddy and my

571
00:35:59.559 --> 00:36:03.400
back be no Dady. But like you know, so she

572
00:36:03.480 --> 00:36:06.960
has so she cleans the bathroom. I clean the the kitchen,

573
00:36:07.079 --> 00:36:08.719
like you know, we both sweep a mob and stuff.

574
00:36:11.079 --> 00:36:15.239
Oh and dusting too, you know, like it's fifty to

575
00:36:15.239 --> 00:36:15.960
fifty shit.

576
00:36:17.280 --> 00:36:17.760
Mm hmm.

577
00:36:18.800 --> 00:36:22.199
You know, but like there's just times where I'm bored.

578
00:36:22.199 --> 00:36:23.679
I want to do things by my damn self and

579
00:36:23.760 --> 00:36:26.079
not the part of my back, and I'm like, you know,

580
00:36:28.239 --> 00:36:31.599
some of it be incomplete, and I'll be feeling bad

581
00:36:31.639 --> 00:36:34.280
because you know what I'm saying, Like personally, you know

582
00:36:34.280 --> 00:36:36.559
what I'm saying, I think I think I emaculate myself

583
00:36:36.599 --> 00:36:41.519
perfectly from personally because of my back injury. You know,

584
00:36:41.599 --> 00:36:43.519
like if if you know, like my jury has like

585
00:36:43.559 --> 00:36:50.760
a road, it has like a like a little mental

586
00:36:50.760 --> 00:36:53.800
hole on m hm. You know, like you're dealing with

587
00:36:53.840 --> 00:36:58.880
the shift like you know, like three years and pain

588
00:36:59.000 --> 00:37:01.559
that it never goes away. You know, Like there's times

589
00:37:01.559 --> 00:37:04.679
where I just want to jump out the window right

590
00:37:05.280 --> 00:37:07.639
and just break my back completely. So I wanted to

591
00:37:07.679 --> 00:37:09.599
be you know what I'm saying something so I could

592
00:37:09.599 --> 00:37:13.920
be like paralyzed and I feel nothing. That's how bad

593
00:37:13.960 --> 00:37:27.239
it gets. Sometimes, you know that question for you, that's yours?

594
00:37:28.239 --> 00:37:30.639
What that question on the screen?

595
00:37:32.199 --> 00:37:32.880
I can't read.

596
00:37:32.960 --> 00:37:36.920
I'm owned. Would you get serious with a man?

597
00:37:39.079 --> 00:37:41.639
Would you get serious with a man who believes in

598
00:37:41.760 --> 00:37:44.039
specific gender roles?

599
00:37:44.400 --> 00:37:44.840
I guess that.

600
00:37:44.840 --> 00:37:48.199
Would depend on what those gender roles are, and what's

601
00:37:48.239 --> 00:37:51.440
the reason he believes in those gender roles, you know, Like,

602
00:37:52.400 --> 00:37:55.360
is it because he feels like that's just the way

603
00:37:55.360 --> 00:38:00.000
it should be. Uh? Like I said, I take every

604
00:37:59.800 --> 00:38:06.880
situation as it comes, because honestly, I'm at a time

605
00:38:06.920 --> 00:38:09.679
in my life where I know exactly what I want,

606
00:38:09.760 --> 00:38:16.679
what I need, what I'm looking for. So if I

607
00:38:16.719 --> 00:38:20.239
can receive that in the way that I need to

608
00:38:20.320 --> 00:38:27.360
receive it, I don't find anything wrong with you know, compromises,

609
00:38:27.920 --> 00:38:31.400
you know. So it depends on what those those things are,

610
00:38:31.440 --> 00:38:35.920
those those regular gender roles. Like definitely, if a guy

611
00:38:36.280 --> 00:38:40.559
is going to tell me, you know what, I promise

612
00:38:40.800 --> 00:38:45.360
I have everything on the outside, Like I will make

613
00:38:45.400 --> 00:38:47.599
sure the grass is cut, I will make sure that

614
00:38:47.639 --> 00:38:50.440
your flowers are planet. You know, I will make sure

615
00:38:50.480 --> 00:38:55.760
that everything is fixed outside. I just need you to

616
00:38:56.079 --> 00:39:00.440
maybe cook every day, right or do them alority of

617
00:39:00.480 --> 00:39:03.880
the cooking stuff. Hey, as long as you're open to

618
00:39:05.880 --> 00:39:07.920
you know, there may be a day or two, like

619
00:39:07.960 --> 00:39:10.960
if I get a migraine or something like that, which

620
00:39:11.159 --> 00:39:15.320
you know what happen that you're either going to fend

621
00:39:15.320 --> 00:39:20.760
for yourself or be willing to take that over, you know,

622
00:39:21.000 --> 00:39:24.519
for for that night or that day or whatever. You know, again,

623
00:39:24.559 --> 00:39:30.360
we have to learn to be flexible, you know. So yeah,

624
00:39:30.360 --> 00:39:34.519
I mean I can't say never or no because you know,

625
00:39:34.559 --> 00:39:37.000
it depends on what what he's bringing to the table.

626
00:39:37.039 --> 00:39:40.360
Because sometimes you know, people people bring things to the

627
00:39:40.400 --> 00:39:43.360
table that it's all that they know how to do.

628
00:39:43.480 --> 00:39:46.000
So you know, I have to come. I have to

629
00:39:46.039 --> 00:39:47.800
come halfway. I got to meet them halfway.

630
00:39:49.239 --> 00:39:56.800
So yeah, huh, good answer, good answer.

631
00:39:58.599 --> 00:39:58.960
All right.

632
00:40:00.559 --> 00:40:07.239
So I got another video that I want to play.

633
00:40:10.119 --> 00:40:15.280
Let's see if I can get into play. Hold on,

634
00:40:15.639 --> 00:40:20.599
I think something. Oh this one into a big c

635
00:40:20.840 --> 00:40:31.480
hold up? All right, let's what's the question? Mm hmmm,

636
00:40:33.440 --> 00:40:34.400
clock is taken here?

637
00:40:34.679 --> 00:40:35.119
Midnight?

638
00:40:35.400 --> 00:40:41.239
Doom doom doom, doom doom doom.

639
00:40:41.719 --> 00:41:00.360
Do Okay, let's let's let's say I do what's the question.

640
00:41:07.039 --> 00:41:11.599
M TikTok TikTok. See things supposed to be popping up.

641
00:41:11.719 --> 00:41:12.079
It's up.

642
00:41:15.000 --> 00:41:16.159
You're so impatient.

643
00:41:16.840 --> 00:41:17.119
I know.

644
00:41:19.079 --> 00:41:33.760
Midnight's probably typing away here. Okay, let's just say that's

645
00:41:33.800 --> 00:41:39.000
a good question. Actually, if she came to you for

646
00:41:39.079 --> 00:41:42.360
advice regarding household genders, how would you respond?

647
00:41:45.800 --> 00:41:47.119
Mhm weep.

648
00:41:50.480 --> 00:41:56.079
Honestly, I think in the household there as far as

649
00:41:58.599 --> 00:42:00.880
what each is supposed to do, don't think there should

650
00:42:00.920 --> 00:42:04.559
be gender roles as far as a household is concerned,

651
00:42:05.440 --> 00:42:08.440
because any man can cook, any man can do long

652
00:42:08.519 --> 00:42:12.000
g any man can do dishes. Any man can, you know,

653
00:42:14.840 --> 00:42:16.920
do what he's supposed to do, like like to do

654
00:42:17.079 --> 00:42:18.960
taking the trash out and doing all that other ship.

655
00:42:20.039 --> 00:42:27.039
But I think in some in some households, you know,

656
00:42:27.679 --> 00:42:30.599
women take on certain duties, men take on certain duties.

657
00:42:30.639 --> 00:42:34.519
But I think these nowadays it goes it goes both

658
00:42:34.599 --> 00:42:36.599
It goes both ways, you know what I'm saying. Like,

659
00:42:38.639 --> 00:42:41.519
women are capable of doing a lot of things because

660
00:42:41.519 --> 00:42:43.440
they were they were. There was you know years ago

661
00:42:43.559 --> 00:42:47.360
when they said, you know, women couldn't do this or

662
00:42:47.480 --> 00:42:50.079
they couldn't do that, and they couldn't they they weren't

663
00:42:50.400 --> 00:42:53.159
you know, strong enough to do certain things, or they

664
00:42:53.239 --> 00:42:57.199
weren't capable enough to do certain things. But now it's

665
00:42:57.320 --> 00:43:04.760
it's it's so it's it's so fluent it that either

666
00:43:05.000 --> 00:43:07.760
either person in the household can do whatever the fuck

667
00:43:07.800 --> 00:43:10.559
they want to do. I would to throw that. I'm

668
00:43:10.559 --> 00:43:12.599
gonna throw this out there. I know I know someone

669
00:43:14.079 --> 00:43:19.599
very dear friend of mine. His wife. She's a dyya

670
00:43:20.119 --> 00:43:22.239
you know what I'm saying, or d I y.

671
00:43:22.519 --> 00:43:24.239
Yeah, so am I.

672
00:43:24.800 --> 00:43:29.079
My whole sixteen year marriage was me doing all of

673
00:43:29.199 --> 00:43:32.440
the fixing of everything because he was not handy whatsoever.

674
00:43:32.920 --> 00:43:37.320
But I actually enjoy those things, you know, Like even

675
00:43:37.400 --> 00:43:40.320
though I thought it was a shame how I bought

676
00:43:40.360 --> 00:43:44.239
my daughter a swing set and he refused to help

677
00:43:44.320 --> 00:43:46.199
me put it together. It took me three summers to

678
00:43:46.239 --> 00:43:47.679
put that bad boy together.

679
00:43:47.519 --> 00:43:50.400
By myself, three summers.

680
00:43:50.440 --> 00:43:54.519
Three summers because when I asked for his help, he's like, no,

681
00:43:54.679 --> 00:43:57.079
you wanted to buy it, so you bought it, you

682
00:43:57.199 --> 00:43:58.000
can put it together.

683
00:43:58.880 --> 00:43:59.880
So that's that.

684
00:44:00.000 --> 00:44:03.440
That's a prime example of the gender role thing, you know,

685
00:44:03.679 --> 00:44:06.119
except it had nothing to do with the gender roles.

686
00:44:06.239 --> 00:44:08.960
It just had to do with his pride, you know,

687
00:44:09.199 --> 00:44:12.599
like you bought it, you put it together. Well, that's

688
00:44:13.039 --> 00:44:15.199
you know, this is our child. That's not much of

689
00:44:15.440 --> 00:44:19.159
a compromise or whatnot. And because of that, because I

690
00:44:19.239 --> 00:44:22.320
could have used the help, it took me three summers

691
00:44:22.480 --> 00:44:24.760
for my daughter to be able to completely play on

692
00:44:24.840 --> 00:44:29.719
her playset, for me to get it all built and whatnot.

693
00:44:29.760 --> 00:44:33.519
But I do enjoy doing those things, putting things together.

694
00:44:33.679 --> 00:44:42.760
And I'm sorry, go ahead when story about this, so.

695
00:44:44.320 --> 00:44:46.440
You know it again.

696
00:44:47.760 --> 00:44:51.159
I don't think I have a brother that thinks the

697
00:44:51.239 --> 00:44:56.079
way that Midnight is asking questions. You know, he truly believes,

698
00:44:56.440 --> 00:44:58.719
and he's younger than me, so I don't know, I

699
00:44:58.840 --> 00:45:02.239
don't know where he's gotten from, but he definitely is

700
00:45:02.360 --> 00:45:08.880
still stuck in that structured, concrete gender roles, like it

701
00:45:09.039 --> 00:45:12.400
is a woman's responsibility, to the point where there were

702
00:45:12.440 --> 00:45:16.440
shows back on Maury Povich days where he'd have people

703
00:45:16.559 --> 00:45:19.159
on before he did the You're Not the Father thing,

704
00:45:20.480 --> 00:45:25.400
where they had people on, where these couples were married

705
00:45:25.519 --> 00:45:28.519
and in these relationships where the man was like this

706
00:45:28.719 --> 00:45:32.280
total dominant, you know, to the point where you know,

707
00:45:32.679 --> 00:45:36.480
my brother had his ex wife like washing him and

708
00:45:37.639 --> 00:45:43.280
doing everything for him, like literally he had this thought

709
00:45:43.400 --> 00:45:49.000
like she had to be barefoot and pregnancy, she cannot work. Yes,

710
00:45:49.239 --> 00:45:53.440
One time I came home, Wow, and this boy and

711
00:45:53.559 --> 00:45:57.519
they were young, they were teenagers having kids. This boy

712
00:45:57.800 --> 00:46:02.599
had this girl and her nightgown washing his dirty behind

713
00:46:03.239 --> 00:46:06.719
in the bathroom, and I'm like, what.

714
00:46:07.039 --> 00:46:08.920
The heck you know?

715
00:46:09.000 --> 00:46:12.000
And he still has that chauvinus thinking. You know that

716
00:46:13.199 --> 00:46:16.239
women are supposed to do certain things and then it's

717
00:46:16.320 --> 00:46:18.079
his job to do certain things.

718
00:46:18.360 --> 00:46:21.719
And you know, like he said.

719
00:46:22.159 --> 00:46:25.360
Both my brothers actually said that they're glad my my

720
00:46:25.480 --> 00:46:28.760
ex husband left and I got divorced and whatnot, because

721
00:46:29.000 --> 00:46:34.360
I refuse, I refuse to conform to their idea of

722
00:46:34.559 --> 00:46:38.000
what a good wife, you know, is supposed to be.

723
00:46:38.119 --> 00:46:40.159
And I'm like, I don't know where you guys got

724
00:46:40.239 --> 00:46:44.639
these thoughts from. But I told my little brother, I said,

725
00:46:44.679 --> 00:46:48.039
you ain't never been to Peru, but that's where we're from.

726
00:46:49.039 --> 00:46:51.039
I said, you've never been to Peru, but you you

727
00:46:51.280 --> 00:46:54.440
seem to need a hi wadia from from our country

728
00:46:55.199 --> 00:46:55.760
to get.

729
00:46:55.639 --> 00:46:56.440
What you're looking for.

730
00:46:56.639 --> 00:47:07.719
Because one of the last last last, yeah, speaking of

731
00:47:07.840 --> 00:47:12.960
the the d I wis right, when I was like

732
00:47:13.119 --> 00:47:15.480
thirty one, I got with someone else like ten.

733
00:47:15.440 --> 00:47:18.119
Years older than me. Right, it was just she was

734
00:47:18.159 --> 00:47:21.360
like in the middle of divorce, well, one of the

735
00:47:21.400 --> 00:47:23.159
last things of my marriage. I kind of like, you know,

736
00:47:23.559 --> 00:47:27.519
healthy to get that divorce. Right, she was like one

737
00:47:27.559 --> 00:47:34.079
of those they people, right, yeah, like like especially with cars, right,

738
00:47:34.360 --> 00:47:36.920
She's like she was like, so you know nothing about cars.

739
00:47:36.920 --> 00:47:38.880
I was like, I know how to steal them that,

740
00:47:38.920 --> 00:47:43.159
so I don't know how to do steal right. So

741
00:47:44.280 --> 00:47:47.719
so one day, right, she needs the car keys and

742
00:47:48.159 --> 00:47:57.119
the in a car, right, and We're trying to like

743
00:47:57.199 --> 00:48:02.079
you know what I'm saying, like me out right, and

744
00:48:02.159 --> 00:48:03.760
then I thought about something. I was like, Yo, you

745
00:48:03.840 --> 00:48:08.039
know what, I'm just gonna do what I'm saying, like like,

746
00:48:08.159 --> 00:48:10.800
you know, she has a Pulley, but I'm just gonna

747
00:48:10.880 --> 00:48:13.519
use that because that's what that's how I used to

748
00:48:13.599 --> 00:48:17.239
know this ship Pully. So that's what I did. I

749
00:48:17.320 --> 00:48:21.119
did the Pulley trip, popped open the door, messed up

750
00:48:21.159 --> 00:48:23.559
a lot, but I have money and so I was like, Yo, here,

751
00:48:24.000 --> 00:48:27.519
we're gonna pay for it right now, here take my money,

752
00:48:28.559 --> 00:48:30.440
you know. But like she was like a very dy

753
00:48:31.039 --> 00:48:34.760
type that you know, like literally will go under a

754
00:48:34.920 --> 00:48:40.199
car to check what it is, right, And I'm like,

755
00:48:40.800 --> 00:48:44.440
so I got with a mechanic, holy fucking ship, you know,

756
00:48:44.599 --> 00:48:47.800
like yeah, but but but but at the same time,

757
00:48:47.840 --> 00:48:50.440
it's like it made me feel some type of way

758
00:48:50.519 --> 00:48:56.639
because I know some things about cars or whatever. I

759
00:48:56.719 --> 00:48:58.800
don't you know what I'm saying, like like you know

760
00:48:58.880 --> 00:49:01.440
what about my arm My car now is not all

761
00:49:01.519 --> 00:49:05.039
that great, but you know then you know then deal

762
00:49:05.320 --> 00:49:08.719
my cars is up there now right, it's not all

763
00:49:08.840 --> 00:49:12.719
that great, but you know, like I was like kind

764
00:49:12.719 --> 00:49:17.880
of a bass on that part. And then like you know,

765
00:49:20.199 --> 00:49:22.840
there was one time like I want to you know

766
00:49:22.880 --> 00:49:25.239
what I'm saying, Like I'm surprised I went half of

767
00:49:25.320 --> 00:49:27.199
the the way I you know what I'm saying, Yeah,

768
00:49:27.199 --> 00:49:30.239
I want to have. I bought like a freaking backyard set.

769
00:49:31.079 --> 00:49:34.079
And now the ship looks simple. You know what I'm saying,

770
00:49:34.159 --> 00:49:35.920
that ship really they look simple.

771
00:49:35.960 --> 00:49:38.559
I'm not gonna baby can build it.

772
00:49:39.519 --> 00:49:42.559
Yeah, baby a baby genius.

773
00:49:43.159 --> 00:49:43.280
Bro.

774
00:49:43.519 --> 00:49:44.920
First off, you know what I'm saying, I have piece

775
00:49:45.000 --> 00:49:49.679
upon piece upon piece upon piece. Right. It was.

776
00:49:51.199 --> 00:49:53.079
Wing sets, right bro?

777
00:49:54.400 --> 00:49:55.320
Is that what you're talking about?

778
00:49:55.960 --> 00:49:56.079
Yo?

779
00:49:56.880 --> 00:50:01.239
Now? Like yeah, in a way, it it was like

780
00:50:01.320 --> 00:50:02.760
one of those adults swing stuffs.

781
00:50:03.440 --> 00:50:04.960
Yeah, That's what I'm talking about.

782
00:50:05.000 --> 00:50:05.440
I bought one.

783
00:50:05.559 --> 00:50:07.360
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You know now.

784
00:50:07.320 --> 00:50:10.880
Imagine picking up those theedar pieces by yourself.

785
00:50:11.480 --> 00:50:14.760
Oh yo, yo, you know what, that's what you know

786
00:50:14.800 --> 00:50:16.719
what when you when you said that swing set, that's

787
00:50:16.760 --> 00:50:19.639
what like it reminded me of because at some point,

788
00:50:19.719 --> 00:50:21.159
you know what I'm saying, and.

789
00:50:21.239 --> 00:50:23.960
This bad boy had three swings on it. Imagine trying

790
00:50:23.960 --> 00:50:25.920
to get on my own.

791
00:50:26.159 --> 00:50:28.679
Yes. Yeah, I was getting flustered with it. Man. I

792
00:50:28.800 --> 00:50:31.639
was like, Yo, this ship is crazy, bro, Like like

793
00:50:31.760 --> 00:50:33.960
you know what, I'm like, you know what next time?

794
00:50:35.000 --> 00:50:36.840
You know what I'm saying, like like like you know what,

795
00:50:37.000 --> 00:50:38.840
I'm not gonna be coming to that point where I

796
00:50:38.920 --> 00:50:41.480
have to like put together a swing step for my

797
00:50:41.559 --> 00:50:44.320
baby girl. I'm just gonna hire people to do it that,

798
00:50:44.840 --> 00:50:47.800
you know what I'm saying, Like you know what I'm saying,

799
00:50:48.760 --> 00:50:51.480
or or I'm just gonna have I'm just gonna have

800
00:50:51.599 --> 00:50:55.119
cool young come over my boy jay, you know, like

801
00:50:57.079 --> 00:51:02.519
get some pizzas or whatever. And you know, I guess

802
00:51:02.559 --> 00:51:04.800
I'm like Heinekens, I don't drink. Well.

803
00:51:04.880 --> 00:51:07.679
See that's that's the working smarter and not harder stuff.

804
00:51:08.880 --> 00:51:12.480
It's yeah, but when you don't have that support system,

805
00:51:13.679 --> 00:51:15.119
it's hard to do stuff.

806
00:51:14.880 --> 00:51:17.000
Like that and see and I know for a fact

807
00:51:17.039 --> 00:51:19.400
that that you know, my lady, will you will end

808
00:51:19.480 --> 00:51:20.199
up cooking something.

809
00:51:21.079 --> 00:51:26.440
Oh yeah, nobody, not even my brothers. Yeah, not even

810
00:51:26.519 --> 00:51:30.199
my brothers. I once upon a time, my brothers used

811
00:51:30.239 --> 00:51:31.880
to come over here and help me out once in

812
00:51:31.920 --> 00:51:33.320
a while by cutting my grass.

813
00:51:33.440 --> 00:51:33.599
Right.

814
00:51:34.280 --> 00:51:37.079
There is something and it's not all women, but like

815
00:51:37.239 --> 00:51:40.840
in me anyway, there is something in me that when

816
00:51:40.920 --> 00:51:44.800
there is a dude working outside in my house, I've

817
00:51:44.840 --> 00:51:48.440
got to take water, I've got to take food, you know,

818
00:51:48.719 --> 00:51:50.000
like I've got to do something.

819
00:51:50.000 --> 00:51:55.119
What was that lemonade? For some reason, for some reason,

820
00:51:55.239 --> 00:51:58.559
it's either lemonade or ice tea, like water lemonade or

821
00:51:58.559 --> 00:51:59.880
ice teas, like to go to things.

822
00:52:00.519 --> 00:52:05.360
Yeah, I had somebody I paid somebody to He works

823
00:52:05.400 --> 00:52:08.599
with youth, and I paid him and wanted his students

824
00:52:08.679 --> 00:52:11.559
to come cut my grass. Not because I needed them

825
00:52:11.599 --> 00:52:14.639
to because I cut my own grass, but because things

826
00:52:14.719 --> 00:52:17.000
were getting behind, and you know, he was doing a

827
00:52:17.039 --> 00:52:20.920
good thing for the community. So I was like, yeah, sure,

828
00:52:21.079 --> 00:52:23.840
bring your students, you know, and I'll give you money.

829
00:52:23.960 --> 00:52:26.280
And you know, if you guys could just do my yard.

830
00:52:26.960 --> 00:52:29.760
Even then, I was at work and I called my

831
00:52:30.039 --> 00:52:33.800
daughter to make sure that she took ice water out

832
00:52:33.880 --> 00:52:36.480
to them, made sure that she asked them if there

833
00:52:36.559 --> 00:52:40.440
was anything they needed, you know, Like that's you know,

834
00:52:40.599 --> 00:52:42.039
but that also has.

835
00:52:41.960 --> 00:52:45.239
To do with example upbringing.

836
00:52:45.559 --> 00:52:48.119
You know, how people are raised, Like Midnight was talking

837
00:52:48.119 --> 00:52:52.639
about just the way you're raised, you know. But the problem, Yeah,

838
00:52:52.719 --> 00:52:56.119
but I also think the issue with that is everybody

839
00:52:56.239 --> 00:52:58.400
is not raised the same, and I think we tend

840
00:52:58.920 --> 00:53:04.440
to expect our upbringing from everybody else, and then that

841
00:53:04.599 --> 00:53:08.599
becomes an issue, you know, because not everybody you.

842
00:53:08.679 --> 00:53:10.440
Know what you know, what the thing is is like

843
00:53:10.599 --> 00:53:13.440
it's like all right, you know what I mean, we

844
00:53:13.519 --> 00:53:18.760
can speak on you know how it's nature us nature,

845
00:53:19.480 --> 00:53:22.639
But I'm gonna I'm gonna totally thought, you know, saying

846
00:53:22.679 --> 00:53:25.280
thought I went out the window because it's basically like

847
00:53:25.400 --> 00:53:29.079
you know, like like like like like the morals that

848
00:53:29.199 --> 00:53:31.639
you built with that was like put like you know

849
00:53:31.679 --> 00:53:34.840
what I'm saying, it's a it's a moral thing. Like look,

850
00:53:34.880 --> 00:53:40.239
you know what, like if it's me, let's let's just say,

851
00:53:40.280 --> 00:53:41.920
you know, I had you know what I'm saying, I

852
00:53:42.039 --> 00:53:44.000
hired some people to cut my grass or whatever, right,

853
00:53:45.440 --> 00:53:49.159
you know, like I'm gonna telling me. Y'all, listen, you

854
00:53:49.159 --> 00:53:50.760
know what I'm saying, like like I'm gonna run to

855
00:53:50.800 --> 00:53:52.960
the store real quick, I'm gonna come back with you

856
00:53:53.000 --> 00:53:54.199
know what I'm saying with you know what I'm saying,

857
00:53:54.199 --> 00:53:58.079
with some pizza, some soda or even some beer. You

858
00:53:58.119 --> 00:53:59.559
know what I'm saying, Because you're doing me a favor.

859
00:53:59.599 --> 00:54:02.400
I'm showing gratitude. Yeah, I'm paying you. I'm sure your

860
00:54:02.440 --> 00:54:06.880
gratitude anyways, you see what I mean, just because you know,

861
00:54:07.039 --> 00:54:09.800
just on the strength that you know what that that

862
00:54:09.840 --> 00:54:11.519
you know what I'm saying, like you're that you're doing

863
00:54:11.639 --> 00:54:14.320
all this, you know, like you know what I'm saying,

864
00:54:14.360 --> 00:54:16.440
like I don't, I don't, I don't. I don't ever

865
00:54:16.519 --> 00:54:20.320
want to be someone that that just like looks down

866
00:54:20.400 --> 00:54:23.320
on you, just because you know what I'm saying, like

867
00:54:23.400 --> 00:54:23.880
that's not me.

868
00:54:25.079 --> 00:54:27.559
Well, I also know, like I mean, even though I

869
00:54:27.599 --> 00:54:29.239
want to do it, like if it's a business, like

870
00:54:29.280 --> 00:54:31.920
if I actually hired somebody like a company to do it,

871
00:54:33.119 --> 00:54:37.119
I more than likely would not take that stuff out

872
00:54:37.119 --> 00:54:42.199
there to them, only because there are a lot of policies, procedures,

873
00:54:42.320 --> 00:54:44.679
liabilities like all that kind.

874
00:54:44.559 --> 00:54:46.159
Of stuff, and.

875
00:54:48.039 --> 00:54:51.199
More than likely they are prepared, you know, like they

876
00:54:51.360 --> 00:54:55.079
have their their big thermos of water they have you know,

877
00:54:55.840 --> 00:54:58.920
so like business wise, I wouldn't. But if it was

878
00:54:59.039 --> 00:55:01.639
somebody like I said it was, it was an old

879
00:55:01.719 --> 00:55:03.800
friend that I went to college with, one of my

880
00:55:03.960 --> 00:55:07.519
fraternity like not my fraternity brothers, but a fraternity brother,

881
00:55:08.679 --> 00:55:10.480
you know, and I wanted to help him out. But

882
00:55:10.599 --> 00:55:13.480
that was more of a personal thing, so it wasn't

883
00:55:13.559 --> 00:55:16.199
like he was a business doing this and that. But

884
00:55:16.320 --> 00:55:19.119
like if I hired a landscaping company, I I really

885
00:55:19.199 --> 00:55:23.000
couldn't be out there. I might ask them, I might

886
00:55:23.119 --> 00:55:25.679
ask them if they would like some water or something,

887
00:55:25.760 --> 00:55:28.480
but I wouldn't be automatically doing that because again there's

888
00:55:28.480 --> 00:55:31.320
a lot of liabilities and you know, and and and

889
00:55:31.559 --> 00:55:34.119
they they that's what they do. Yeah, they do that

890
00:55:34.239 --> 00:55:36.239
for a living. So it's like they know how to

891
00:55:36.360 --> 00:55:39.559
be prepared, how the weather go ahead.

892
00:55:39.800 --> 00:55:42.480
However, you know what, you know what says you brought

893
00:55:42.599 --> 00:55:44.159
the weather. And I also speak on the weather, right,

894
00:55:44.840 --> 00:55:48.599
but let's just say, you know, you know what I'm saying,

895
00:55:48.679 --> 00:55:51.440
this is what my morals would tick in, right if

896
00:55:51.480 --> 00:55:52.800
I hired a land you know what I'm saying, Like

897
00:55:54.039 --> 00:55:55.760
like look, you know what I would say, how it

898
00:55:55.920 --> 00:55:59.519
is ten times if people come up coming to cut

899
00:55:59.599 --> 00:56:02.559
with grass, are people from you know what I'm saying,

900
00:56:03.159 --> 00:56:08.039
Central South America? Oh yeah, you know, like and you know,

901
00:56:08.719 --> 00:56:12.119
and they're busting their ass to some money back home. Right,

902
00:56:13.079 --> 00:56:14.760
that's why like you know, yeah, you know what. You

903
00:56:14.840 --> 00:56:17.960
may have the policies, but you know what, I'm gonna

904
00:56:17.960 --> 00:56:21.039
give you an example. My mom was half Nicaraguay, so

905
00:56:21.280 --> 00:56:25.360
like I always had like you know, like you know,

906
00:56:25.480 --> 00:56:30.760
like empathy towards like people from South to you know

907
00:56:30.760 --> 00:56:33.719
what I'm saying, Yeah, all the way now, you know

908
00:56:33.960 --> 00:56:37.760
because like like my mom told me, you know what

909
00:56:37.760 --> 00:56:40.360
I'm saying, Like my mom told me stories of how

910
00:56:40.480 --> 00:56:43.599
she came up here and how like you know, it

911
00:56:43.760 --> 00:56:45.880
was like hard. You know what I'm saying.

912
00:56:46.599 --> 00:56:50.840
Let me tell you nobody, nobody in the US realizes that.

913
00:56:51.960 --> 00:56:56.599
So so you know, like my mom was from being

914
00:56:56.639 --> 00:56:58.519
a home you know what I'm saying, like being like

915
00:56:58.599 --> 00:57:04.119
a housekeeper and to meeting my dad, marrying him, being

916
00:57:04.159 --> 00:57:06.920
a mother to being a teacher. You know what I'm saying,

917
00:57:07.000 --> 00:57:10.519
Like I love my mom for that, you know. So

918
00:57:10.679 --> 00:57:13.760
like even even when it came to like you know,

919
00:57:14.079 --> 00:57:16.639
hanging outside like yo, yo, we're gonna rob some emmies.

920
00:57:16.639 --> 00:57:20.119
And I'm like, nah, bro, i'd rather rob you know,

921
00:57:20.760 --> 00:57:22.400
I'd rather rob a person that you know what I'm saying,

922
00:57:22.440 --> 00:57:24.719
that has actual money. Oh but they got money, they're drunk.

923
00:57:25.159 --> 00:57:27.760
I don't matter. Let them send it home. You know

924
00:57:27.800 --> 00:57:29.440
what I'm saying. I get mad as hell, like like

925
00:57:29.519 --> 00:57:32.119
you know, look at people's sideways or whatever, like what's

926
00:57:32.159 --> 00:57:34.480
your problem? I was like, Yo, my mom's half narabin fool.

927
00:57:35.320 --> 00:57:37.239
You know what I'm saying, Like like I'm half Garabu. Bro,

928
00:57:37.320 --> 00:57:40.000
I'm not doing that ship, you know what I'm saying,

929
00:57:40.079 --> 00:57:43.719
Like like like they know it's funny even you know,

930
00:57:43.800 --> 00:57:45.719
even when I was committing crimes, I had a little

931
00:57:45.960 --> 00:57:48.920
I had a lay, spent walms, you know what I'm saying,

932
00:57:49.000 --> 00:57:53.760
Like no, you know what, Like for instance, like I'm

933
00:57:53.760 --> 00:57:56.000
not gonna I'm not gonna rob that elderly lady or whatever,

934
00:57:56.159 --> 00:57:58.760
or that elderly dude or whatever. I'm not you know whatever,

935
00:58:00.039 --> 00:58:03.079
but I'm gonna rob someone who's twenty years old because

936
00:58:03.119 --> 00:58:07.159
you know what, you can fight back, right, see what

937
00:58:07.199 --> 00:58:12.320
I mean, Like I'm not gonna you know, like I don't. Yeah,

938
00:58:13.199 --> 00:58:15.400
but I'm saying, like you know, like it like like

939
00:58:15.960 --> 00:58:20.199
back to this is where, you know, like my hospital

940
00:58:20.360 --> 00:58:24.679
I will extend my hospitality, especially to these people because

941
00:58:25.960 --> 00:58:28.440
my mom was in that situation once upon time or another,

942
00:58:30.079 --> 00:58:36.840
you know, send the money back home. So like if

943
00:58:36.880 --> 00:58:42.440
it's a hundred degree day, right, I will ask them,

944
00:58:43.239 --> 00:58:46.119
you know what I'm saying, it's just your last job,

945
00:58:46.599 --> 00:58:48.440
and they'll be like, yes, my last job. Like yo,

946
00:58:49.840 --> 00:58:51.639
take your time. I'm gonna get you guys. I'm gonna

947
00:58:51.639 --> 00:58:55.400
get you guys, you know, some gatorade or whatever. I'm

948
00:58:55.400 --> 00:58:56.840
gonna look you know, you know what I'm saying, I'm

949
00:58:56.840 --> 00:59:01.840
gonna look them out because just because and if I

950
00:59:01.920 --> 00:59:03.079
have you know what, I'm saying, the extra you know

951
00:59:03.079 --> 00:59:05.920
what I'm saying, extra twenty dollars for each person, though

952
00:59:06.000 --> 00:59:10.480
they get that because because you know what, I don't

953
00:59:10.599 --> 00:59:16.400
know what it is to you know, migrate to another country.

954
00:59:17.559 --> 00:59:19.079
You know what I'm saying. Because I'm born in Brooklyn,

955
00:59:19.119 --> 00:59:24.360
New York. Yeah, tell to Brooklyn and I'm just faing,

956
00:59:24.559 --> 00:59:26.440
but but you know what, I'm born in Brooklyn. So

957
00:59:26.639 --> 00:59:29.400
like I'm you know what I'm saying, I' naturally from

958
00:59:29.440 --> 00:59:34.079
here right, you know, but but like you know, hearing

959
00:59:34.159 --> 00:59:36.039
my mom's stories or whatever, like that's the reason why,

960
00:59:36.159 --> 00:59:38.320
like I can never you know what I'm saying. Like

961
00:59:38.360 --> 00:59:40.239
I was like, yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying.

962
00:59:40.239 --> 00:59:42.800
I make a joke or whatever, but I don't really

963
00:59:42.880 --> 00:59:47.880
make hard jokes on them because they're hardship to ridiculous.

964
00:59:48.960 --> 00:59:52.199
Like example, we was, I took my mom to you

965
00:59:52.199 --> 00:59:53.880
know what I'm saying, Like, I took my mom somewhere,

966
00:59:54.239 --> 00:59:56.559
and we start by McDonald's up around here in New

967
00:59:56.639 --> 01:00:01.000
the City, right it's to all those and stuff, and

968
01:00:03.119 --> 01:00:07.480
it was like December, you know, north face sweathering, so

969
01:00:09.320 --> 01:00:13.159
like this like this one dude, this lady and his

970
01:00:13.320 --> 01:00:18.880
baby walks in and they only weren't sweaters. Though right now,

971
01:00:18.920 --> 01:00:22.079
I'm like, yo, they're either homeless or the migrants, you

972
01:00:22.119 --> 01:00:26.039
know what I'm saying, one of the two. And then no,

973
01:00:26.239 --> 01:00:28.199
check this out. Then they started telling Spanish. I already

974
01:00:28.239 --> 01:00:30.199
knew they were migrants, like what I'm saying that, but

975
01:00:30.440 --> 01:00:34.199
it was like that South American Spanish m hm. You know.

976
01:00:35.480 --> 01:00:39.119
So like there's just Sam McDonalds and they're like, you know,

977
01:00:39.199 --> 01:00:41.559
with their bag of clothes and stuff. They had nothing like, bro,

978
01:00:41.719 --> 01:00:46.039
they had no sweater is nothing like y'all felt bad.

979
01:00:46.159 --> 01:00:48.480
So I walked over to the dude. I just gave

980
01:00:48.519 --> 01:00:50.480
him twenty dollars and the yoga. I'm saying, we'll get

981
01:00:50.519 --> 01:00:52.760
something to eat, you know, for you you know, and

982
01:00:53.159 --> 01:00:54.719
he was like, oh, thank you, thank you, thank you,

983
01:00:54.760 --> 01:00:57.239
thank you so much. So my mom was like, why

984
01:00:57.239 --> 01:01:05.480
did you do that. I'm like, because, you know, I'm like, yeo,

985
01:01:06.039 --> 01:01:09.760
because because of like because of like you know, the

986
01:01:09.840 --> 01:01:13.400
stories you told me. You know, like they gotta eat.

987
01:01:14.519 --> 01:01:21.880
So that's the reason why, like, you know, like I said, right,

988
01:01:21.960 --> 01:01:24.840
like I would, I would go with that extra mile,

989
01:01:25.880 --> 01:01:28.719
you know what I'm saying, or you know, like what

990
01:01:28.920 --> 01:01:31.800
was cutting my grass? Because I know, like I pretty

991
01:01:31.880 --> 01:01:34.039
much know their origins and I know the reason why

992
01:01:34.039 --> 01:01:37.440
they're doing the shitty ass job and getting paid so little.

993
01:01:40.320 --> 01:01:44.119
Right, Hello, TG, what's up? TG?

994
01:01:46.760 --> 01:01:47.159
You're late?

995
01:01:48.280 --> 01:01:49.000
No you think?

996
01:01:49.920 --> 01:01:51.639
Are you done with your ethnic cleansing classes?

997
01:01:54.599 --> 01:01:55.519
Yep? Fresh out?

998
01:01:56.320 --> 01:01:57.880
Slow down? Melisten visuals the teacher?

999
01:02:00.719 --> 01:02:01.440
What did you say?

1000
01:02:01.519 --> 01:02:01.679
Who?

1001
01:02:02.840 --> 01:02:05.599
But I'm listen look him up. You just love me.

1002
01:02:05.679 --> 01:02:10.480
Back in the nineties, Oh, that dude was like that

1003
01:02:10.840 --> 01:02:11.800
was a war criminal. Bro.

1004
01:02:12.159 --> 01:02:17.719
All right, so check it. So there's one more, one

1005
01:02:17.800 --> 01:02:22.920
more video I'm gonna post. No, it's not gonna be

1006
01:02:22.960 --> 01:02:23.559
a porn.

1007
01:02:23.840 --> 01:02:25.239
With the tea bag in the incident.

1008
01:02:30.159 --> 01:02:33.760
Yeah, we're gonna watch one more video, so TG, in

1009
01:02:33.880 --> 01:02:36.239
order to hear it, I think you have to press

1010
01:02:37.000 --> 01:02:37.920
dumbs How did you do it?

1011
01:02:38.760 --> 01:02:39.679
Bro? I got headphone?

1012
01:02:39.679 --> 01:02:42.480
Long all you got headphone? Just just tap the screen

1013
01:02:42.519 --> 01:02:44.880
and you'll be able to hear the video. Okay, So

1014
01:02:45.000 --> 01:02:47.039
we're gonna we're gonna watch this video and then we're

1015
01:02:47.039 --> 01:02:50.960
gonna discuss it. Okay, let mean, let me get it

1016
01:02:52.159 --> 01:02:57.000
all right, So here we go. If you missed, you

1017
01:02:57.079 --> 01:03:02.079
missed the first video, TG, it was fucking hilarious, because.

1018
01:03:02.079 --> 01:03:05.320
Yeah, TG, you missed the first video. I see that

1019
01:03:05.519 --> 01:03:09.480
leadship you lady again again? When the married?

1020
01:03:11.800 --> 01:03:13.880
All right, all right, we'll listen to this one.

1021
01:03:14.800 --> 01:03:18.000
Boys are boys from the beginning. If you were born

1022
01:03:18.039 --> 01:03:20.960
a boy, you stay a boy. Girls are girls right

1023
01:03:21.039 --> 01:03:23.599
from the start. If you were born a girl, you

1024
01:03:23.719 --> 01:03:25.559
stay a girl and grow up to be a lady.

1025
01:03:26.039 --> 01:03:30.559
Only girls can be the mommies. Only boys can be

1026
01:03:30.719 --> 01:03:38.719
the daddies. Yes, sir, everybody's fancy. Everybody's fine, all right, So.

1027
01:03:41.360 --> 01:03:43.159
Oh, you just wanted this controversy. Huh.

1028
01:03:43.880 --> 01:03:46.199
Yeah, I'm not even getting into that one.

1029
01:03:47.199 --> 01:03:50.119
When did that video come out?

1030
01:03:52.079 --> 01:03:53.639
I just found it actually today.

1031
01:03:54.639 --> 01:03:56.880
But but but but yo, you know what, there is

1032
01:03:56.920 --> 01:03:58.400
some type of truth in it, because you know what,

1033
01:03:58.440 --> 01:04:00.320
there's no type of woman to have a teach a man,

1034
01:04:00.679 --> 01:04:01.840
you know what I'm saying, teach a boy how to

1035
01:04:01.880 --> 01:04:09.039
be a man. There's some there's there's some truth in that.

1036
01:04:10.719 --> 01:04:12.880
And yo, and yo, yo, yo, look, you know what,

1037
01:04:14.360 --> 01:04:20.639
all right, I almost say something like this, right if

1038
01:04:21.280 --> 01:04:25.199
my daughter was gonna make like the Olympic team and

1039
01:04:25.320 --> 01:04:30.519
some transgender peter my daughter out. You know what I'm saying,

1040
01:04:30.519 --> 01:04:32.119
I will feel you know, I will feel some way

1041
01:04:32.119 --> 01:04:34.719
about that, you see what I mean?

1042
01:04:36.280 --> 01:04:38.519
But what what you go straight to sports?

1043
01:04:41.280 --> 01:04:43.840
Yo? You know what though, like that's just an example,

1044
01:04:44.199 --> 01:04:45.519
you know what I'm saying. Like it's like that in

1045
01:04:45.639 --> 01:04:51.159
modeling too nowadays. Model you know what I'm saying. Yes, Yo,

1046
01:04:52.079 --> 01:04:58.280
I think Miss America was a heat no no or

1047
01:04:59.119 --> 01:05:01.960
or or Nevada or something like that.

1048
01:05:04.800 --> 01:05:08.679
I don't know, we must check or I don't like

1049
01:05:08.920 --> 01:05:10.320
putting false news out there.

1050
01:05:11.360 --> 01:05:13.639
Well you know what it is one of those two

1051
01:05:13.760 --> 01:05:16.280
like look you know what I mean. But moderling that

1052
01:05:16.440 --> 01:05:19.880
moderling don't really you know what I'm saying, doesn't help nobody,

1053
01:05:19.960 --> 01:05:25.760
like sports wise, from from a sports standpoint. Sports wise,

1054
01:05:26.559 --> 01:05:29.960
if a transgender male beats out my daughter for a

1055
01:05:30.039 --> 01:05:32.239
last spot, let's just say to go to and liquors

1056
01:05:32.280 --> 01:05:36.199
for something. You know she trained all her life. You

1057
01:05:36.239 --> 01:05:37.960
know what I'm saying, I would feel some type of way.

1058
01:05:38.639 --> 01:05:39.639
It really depends.

1059
01:05:40.800 --> 01:05:45.000
It depends on like have they transitioned from when they

1060
01:05:45.039 --> 01:05:51.679
were teenager? Did they transition later in life? It does matter.

1061
01:05:51.960 --> 01:05:57.079
It does matter because hormones matter. Actually so when they

1062
01:05:57.519 --> 01:06:01.159
when no listen, it matters because is when trans people

1063
01:06:01.760 --> 01:06:06.519
start to transition when they're in puberty and they start

1064
01:06:06.599 --> 01:06:11.480
taking the hormones for the representation that they want or

1065
01:06:11.599 --> 01:06:16.039
gender that they want to represent. Uh, that changes the

1066
01:06:16.159 --> 01:06:22.239
body completely. That is why it doesn't matter your bone structure.

1067
01:06:23.000 --> 01:06:23.639
No, it doesn't.

1068
01:06:23.679 --> 01:06:26.320
Because if you watch the Olympics.

1069
01:06:27.000 --> 01:06:29.679
Did you watch the Olympics because there were some very

1070
01:06:29.880 --> 01:06:33.599
manly women that people got all up and rage about

1071
01:06:34.039 --> 01:06:36.679
when they literally were women women.

1072
01:06:36.599 --> 01:06:37.480
Do look manly.

1073
01:06:37.719 --> 01:06:42.840
There are manly women out okay, and there are there

1074
01:06:42.920 --> 01:06:46.400
are womenly kind of men there are feminine men. That

1075
01:06:46.519 --> 01:06:50.880
doesn't mean anything like this is the thing that bothers

1076
01:06:51.000 --> 01:06:57.039
me is that people don't recognize that women look all

1077
01:06:57.199 --> 01:07:01.159
kinds of different, all different types of the body types.

1078
01:07:02.039 --> 01:07:08.199
The sports. Yes, with sports everything, you know what everything else.

1079
01:07:09.320 --> 01:07:10.880
I'm going If your.

1080
01:07:10.960 --> 01:07:15.920
Daughter started taking testosterone at the age of thirteen, she's

1081
01:07:16.039 --> 01:07:21.159
gonna start growing hair, she will start getting mostular there.

1082
01:07:21.599 --> 01:07:26.519
That's what testosterone does. Ask I'm not talking about you specifically.

1083
01:07:26.679 --> 01:07:30.960
I am just saying in general, understand yes, because you

1084
01:07:31.039 --> 01:07:32.920
need to understand the biological things.

1085
01:07:34.480 --> 01:07:37.440
You understand, well, then you're going to keep being ignorant.

1086
01:07:38.000 --> 01:07:41.039
They keep being an ignorant ass. Go at the yourself.

1087
01:07:41.719 --> 01:07:47.639
You'll do That's right, that's why you're paying you. You're

1088
01:07:47.719 --> 01:07:48.480
so stupid.

1089
01:07:49.360 --> 01:07:50.599
You know I did that on purpose? Right?

1090
01:07:50.840 --> 01:07:52.000
I doubt I hate you?

1091
01:07:52.480 --> 01:08:00.760
Miss all right, I don't.

1092
01:08:00.880 --> 01:08:03.440
I'm not gonna give an opinion when it comes to

1093
01:08:03.519 --> 01:08:05.079
sports because I don't know enough.

1094
01:08:06.239 --> 01:08:08.039
Not that I got that. You know what I'm saying.

1095
01:08:09.800 --> 01:08:12.400
Hold up, Hold hold up now that I got TG

1096
01:08:12.559 --> 01:08:13.920
you know what I'm saying. Round up for a minute.

1097
01:08:14.679 --> 01:08:18.479
My job is accomplished, not in reality, in reality, you

1098
01:08:18.560 --> 01:08:22.560
know what I mean? When mister Rogers said that that

1099
01:08:22.680 --> 01:08:23.520
was back in the seventies.

1100
01:08:25.399 --> 01:08:28.279
Yeah, maybe early eighties.

1101
01:08:27.800 --> 01:08:30.199
You see, you see, you know what though, but there

1102
01:08:30.319 --> 01:08:34.199
is some truth to it, but like it could I'm

1103
01:08:34.199 --> 01:08:37.079
saying it could apply, and it don't apply. Like it's

1104
01:08:37.199 --> 01:08:38.880
like we're stuck at a time where everything's like, you

1105
01:08:38.920 --> 01:08:41.479
know what I'm saying, it's just so fluid that it applies,

1106
01:08:41.560 --> 01:08:42.960
but it don't apply. Right.

1107
01:08:43.279 --> 01:08:46.920
Tender is fluid, and that's a concept that a lot

1108
01:08:46.960 --> 01:08:50.319
of people have a hard time understanding. But we're also

1109
01:08:50.399 --> 01:08:53.520
in a day and age where two moms can have

1110
01:08:53.680 --> 01:08:57.199
a family or two dads can. I don't personally agree

1111
01:08:57.279 --> 01:09:04.520
that that, uh oh, a woman, a mom couldn't teach

1112
01:09:04.600 --> 01:09:07.079
her son how to be a man, because she could

1113
01:09:07.399 --> 01:09:12.159
by teaching him how to respect women or respecting people

1114
01:09:12.399 --> 01:09:16.960
you don't necessarily need because then to say that is like,

1115
01:09:18.319 --> 01:09:25.680
for instance, in my family, like, uh, my brother's dad

1116
01:09:25.880 --> 01:09:26.640
wasn't really there.

1117
01:09:26.680 --> 01:09:28.199
He was actually the worst influence.

1118
01:09:28.720 --> 01:09:31.000
If that was going to be the male that he

1119
01:09:31.199 --> 01:09:33.399
was going to look up to, it definitely was not him,

1120
01:09:33.720 --> 01:09:38.279
you know what I'm saying. And my brother learned from

1121
01:09:38.439 --> 01:09:43.079
seeing my mom's struggle and stuff and through life and experiences.

1122
01:09:43.199 --> 01:09:46.119
He got to learn what No, my uncle is a dick.

1123
01:09:46.800 --> 01:09:54.680
Uh And I'm sorry that just came.

1124
01:09:57.880 --> 01:09:58.800
We got the gloves off.

1125
01:10:00.680 --> 01:10:03.039
I mean, he had male figures in his life.

1126
01:10:03.079 --> 01:10:06.399
But more so it was like I guess other we

1127
01:10:06.560 --> 01:10:10.640
saw other people's parents have loving relationships or whatever, but

1128
01:10:10.720 --> 01:10:14.199
there weren't many. We came from a place where it

1129
01:10:14.359 --> 01:10:18.439
was one single parent homes or people were divorced, like

1130
01:10:18.600 --> 01:10:23.479
that was the norm in the nineties, honestly, Like so, yeah.

1131
01:10:23.520 --> 01:10:25.159
The funny thing, The funny thing, you know what I'm

1132
01:10:25.159 --> 01:10:28.119
saying is like I never understood how like you know

1133
01:10:28.119 --> 01:10:30.479
what I'm saying, Like like people used to be like, yo, man,

1134
01:10:30.520 --> 01:10:32.119
you're looking at your mom and dad still together. I

1135
01:10:32.159 --> 01:10:33.800
was like, nigga, no, I'm not like what you mean

1136
01:10:33.840 --> 01:10:36.760
you're doing grateful? I'm like, bro, I fuck up all

1137
01:10:36.800 --> 01:10:39.279
the time. So when I get home, not only am

1138
01:10:39.279 --> 01:10:41.199
I getting to ask but from my mom at four o'clock,

1139
01:10:41.199 --> 01:10:43.479
I'm getting asked for my dad at six o'clock. So

1140
01:10:43.560 --> 01:10:46.720
I got two hour recipuvy you know what I'm saying. Yeah,

1141
01:10:46.920 --> 01:10:50.800
So so I'm like I'm getting jumped, okay, if you

1142
01:10:50.840 --> 01:10:52.840
want to put it that way. I'm getting jumped in

1143
01:10:52.920 --> 01:10:57.000
my house. You know what I'm saying. I'm here laughing

1144
01:10:57.000 --> 01:10:59.239
at it now, but like, you know, like it was

1145
01:10:59.319 --> 01:11:03.000
no fun. You know, like like it was no fun

1146
01:11:03.079 --> 01:11:06.760
at all. But but yo, my dad yo, like like

1147
01:11:06.880 --> 01:11:09.920
you know, like but at the end of the day though,

1148
01:11:10.000 --> 01:11:13.079
like my dad was like he was like, you know

1149
01:11:13.079 --> 01:11:15.239
what I'm saying, like like you know how people had

1150
01:11:15.319 --> 01:11:17.199
idols like I want to be like Jordan and you

1151
01:11:17.239 --> 01:11:19.520
know what I'm saying, I want to be like you know,

1152
01:11:20.399 --> 01:11:22.439
like you know, damn they're worshiping their idols and stuff

1153
01:11:23.760 --> 01:11:26.880
like or my dad. I remember my dad told me.

1154
01:11:26.960 --> 01:11:29.720
He was like you know he you know, like I

1155
01:11:29.840 --> 01:11:31.439
was young, and he was like, Yeng, you know, like

1156
01:11:31.880 --> 01:11:33.680
why like b Jackson's so much, I said, I want

1157
01:11:33.680 --> 01:11:35.159
to be just like him. He placed two sports in

1158
01:11:35.199 --> 01:11:37.560
this stand of third. He was like, never worship him, man,

1159
01:11:37.600 --> 01:11:41.760
because you know what, they're just like you. And that

1160
01:11:41.960 --> 01:11:44.039
dawn on me and that's when I looked at my dad.

1161
01:11:44.079 --> 01:11:46.880
I'm like, you know what, this guy's fucking cool. You

1162
01:11:46.920 --> 01:11:50.760
know what I'm saying. I love this guy, right, So,

1163
01:11:50.960 --> 01:11:54.399
like you know, like my like he's like my idol.

1164
01:11:55.439 --> 01:11:56.880
I don't worship him. You know what I'm saying. I

1165
01:11:56.960 --> 01:11:58.000
love him, you know what I'm saying.

1166
01:11:58.000 --> 01:12:01.720
That's no, my Dad's not mine.

1167
01:12:03.720 --> 01:12:08.520
Like type of man I'm afraid of.

1168
01:12:09.760 --> 01:12:12.720
Mm hmmm, he's the type of man I'm afraid to

1169
01:12:12.800 --> 01:12:13.560
meet in my life.

1170
01:12:14.479 --> 01:12:15.399
Sucks.

1171
01:12:16.359 --> 01:12:20.760
Yeah, yeah, colde on. You know, you know my dad,

1172
01:12:20.880 --> 01:12:25.039
you know, like like you know, he'll be him and

1173
01:12:25.119 --> 01:12:26.359
my mom is like, you know what I'm saying, Like

1174
01:12:26.520 --> 01:12:29.479
my mom is like the mouthpiece. My dad's like you know,

1175
01:12:30.439 --> 01:12:32.359
he was like you know, you know what, like my

1176
01:12:32.439 --> 01:12:34.640
mom is a mouthpiece, like my dad just be there

1177
01:12:34.680 --> 01:12:38.000
and whatever. But once you get my dad, you know,

1178
01:12:38.239 --> 01:12:43.479
active and start talking, bro, he starts roasting. Every time

1179
01:12:43.640 --> 01:12:46.000
Cordel used to come to the house, he's like, what

1180
01:12:46.119 --> 01:12:49.439
do you want? Like, Hey, how you doing? Hey? You

1181
01:12:49.560 --> 01:12:54.119
want I want some food? With an attitude? Kid of course,

1182
01:12:54.239 --> 01:13:02.760
like yo, yo, b you know my dad, Yeah, my

1183
01:13:02.880 --> 01:13:06.520
dady talking with an attitude, right, And and you know

1184
01:13:06.560 --> 01:13:08.560
when and when Jay comes through the house, he'd be

1185
01:13:08.640 --> 01:13:12.640
slapping the ship out of Jake. He'd be like, yeah,

1186
01:13:12.680 --> 01:13:19.159
what you know, Like that's my dad though. But it

1187
01:13:19.279 --> 01:13:25.760
goes back to this though, right, like like yeah, you

1188
01:13:25.840 --> 01:13:30.479
know what what you're saying is right, but like I know,

1189
01:13:30.640 --> 01:13:33.880
like I know like a lot of them, you know,

1190
01:13:34.039 --> 01:13:39.720
like like a lot of dudes that I know, some

1191
01:13:39.880 --> 01:13:42.520
of them like their father's passed away early, so like

1192
01:13:43.279 --> 01:13:48.199
their uncles took up that mantle, you know, and like

1193
01:13:48.319 --> 01:13:50.880
try to get them straight, like like especially in Florida,

1194
01:13:50.960 --> 01:13:58.560
like like my boy, excuse me, my boy Jose, like

1195
01:13:59.159 --> 01:14:00.920
his father passed way, like you know, he kind of

1196
01:14:00.920 --> 01:14:07.840
went crazy and ship and his uncle like he left

1197
01:14:07.880 --> 01:14:13.319
the army and came down to you know, you know,

1198
01:14:13.439 --> 01:14:16.039
for the funeral or whatever, and he put in his

1199
01:14:16.159 --> 01:14:19.399
transfer papers to you know what I'm saying, like to

1200
01:14:19.479 --> 01:14:22.399
try to come down to Florida or whatever. He couldn't

1201
01:14:22.399 --> 01:14:28.359
get it. So he ends up he ends up talking

1202
01:14:28.359 --> 01:14:30.680
to his mom because like you know, like like this

1203
01:14:30.840 --> 01:14:32.079
dude was like going, you know what I'm saying, like

1204
01:14:32.760 --> 01:14:36.319
he was getting arrested left them right after his dad

1205
01:14:36.319 --> 01:14:38.199
passed away. So he ended up convincing his mom to

1206
01:14:38.319 --> 01:14:45.960
like it' sign over what to call it guardianship, And

1207
01:14:46.560 --> 01:14:51.319
he took him back with him to Alaska and he

1208
01:14:51.439 --> 01:14:55.920
excelled over there, you know. So it was like so

1209
01:14:56.000 --> 01:14:58.560
it's like sometimes you know, also depends you know what

1210
01:14:58.600 --> 01:15:01.159
I'm saying, like on whether.

1211
01:15:01.000 --> 01:15:05.600
People or not, right, I had support, not everyone has that.

1212
01:15:08.279 --> 01:15:12.720
I mean, that's huge, yo, It is absolutely, absolutely it.

1213
01:15:12.840 --> 01:15:14.359
Is because when I was living in Florida, like my

1214
01:15:14.720 --> 01:15:17.840
like my oldest brother was like, you know, like they

1215
01:15:18.319 --> 01:15:22.159
transfer guardianship because I was getting in too much trouble

1216
01:15:22.239 --> 01:15:27.399
up here. So I ended up going down there and

1217
01:15:27.520 --> 01:15:30.640
it was just me and my brother. And I looked

1218
01:15:30.640 --> 01:15:32.439
at my brother a lot different after that, you know,

1219
01:15:32.560 --> 01:15:34.039
like he tried to me slack, but I was sneaking

1220
01:15:34.039 --> 01:15:37.760
out the window. You know, I don't think I shouldn't

1221
01:15:37.760 --> 01:15:40.239
be doing. I was just rebelling against my brother, but

1222
01:15:40.319 --> 01:15:46.520
against my parents, right, you know. And no, and I

1223
01:15:46.560 --> 01:15:49.079
ain't gonna lie at one minute. You know what I'm saying,

1224
01:15:49.159 --> 01:15:52.199
Like I hated my parents because like I felt abandoned.

1225
01:15:53.000 --> 01:15:53.399
Mm hmm.

1226
01:15:53.840 --> 01:15:57.199
But you know what, I was a teenager though, you

1227
01:15:57.239 --> 01:15:58.800
know what I'm saying, Like I was a teenager. I

1228
01:15:58.880 --> 01:16:01.760
didn't know that I got sent down there. You know

1229
01:16:01.760 --> 01:16:03.439
what I'm saying, like they're trying to like save me

1230
01:16:03.600 --> 01:16:10.880
from me. But but you know, like your spirit, you

1231
01:16:10.920 --> 01:16:14.000
know what I'm saying. Spirit is a real thing because

1232
01:16:14.840 --> 01:16:19.239
you are who you attract if you're a hole, you're

1233
01:16:19.239 --> 01:16:23.720
gonna attract Hodes. See what I mean, you are who

1234
01:16:23.760 --> 01:16:29.640
you attract, so so you know what you attract. You

1235
01:16:29.640 --> 01:16:32.800
know what I'm saying, what you throw out there basically,

1236
01:16:33.479 --> 01:16:36.039
m No, it's true.

1237
01:16:36.199 --> 01:16:38.479
And I'm not disagreeing with that.

1238
01:16:39.880 --> 01:16:42.159
Because you know what, because you know what, like down

1239
01:16:42.359 --> 01:16:44.359
like down of Florida, I met someone just like cole On,

1240
01:16:45.159 --> 01:16:48.520
just a different face. You know what I'm saying, it's energy,

1241
01:16:50.800 --> 01:16:52.840
you know, like you meet you know what I'm saying,

1242
01:16:52.880 --> 01:16:55.079
like every like everyone that my parents try to have

1243
01:16:55.199 --> 01:16:56.960
me escape from up pair, I met them down there.

1244
01:16:58.680 --> 01:17:01.279
Now, not that they were trying to at him to escape.

1245
01:17:01.039 --> 01:17:05.439
Me, right, because you were the real issue. Let's be real.

1246
01:17:05.600 --> 01:17:08.520
They really sent them. He was sent away because of you.

1247
01:17:08.800 --> 01:17:10.199
You probably got having a lot of trouble.

1248
01:17:10.279 --> 01:17:17.159
I believe it. No, like no good, I can feel it.

1249
01:17:18.520 --> 01:17:24.800
No, you know what, No, like you know like like

1250
01:17:24.880 --> 01:17:28.239
you know it was you know what, like it's that

1251
01:17:28.359 --> 01:17:29.439
you know saying like they tried.

1252
01:17:29.520 --> 01:17:32.199
That's that's Boo in the background. I saw Boo in

1253
01:17:32.239 --> 01:17:32.800
the background.

1254
01:17:34.199 --> 01:17:37.760
Come on, why are you spots? Yeah, my cat, thank you.

1255
01:17:39.319 --> 01:17:43.319
I didn't see a cat. That was a cat that

1256
01:17:43.479 --> 01:17:52.960
was a cat like Cliff Cliff yeps.

1257
01:17:53.079 --> 01:18:00.680
Just I wanted to just say, because you like, you

1258
01:18:02.840 --> 01:18:03.880
get what you attract.

1259
01:18:03.960 --> 01:18:09.119
But I think also like if all you saw modeled

1260
01:18:09.199 --> 01:18:12.880
in front of you was an abusive and bad relationship,

1261
01:18:13.640 --> 01:18:18.119
then you kind of like take that in as well,

1262
01:18:18.199 --> 01:18:21.479
that's how it's supposed to be. So I think a

1263
01:18:21.520 --> 01:18:25.720
lot of people get in really bad relationships stay in

1264
01:18:25.840 --> 01:18:27.720
bad relationships because.

1265
01:18:27.399 --> 01:18:31.359
That's what they saw, so they think that that's what

1266
01:18:31.520 --> 01:18:32.520
they deserve too.

1267
01:18:33.439 --> 01:18:36.319
And you know, it takes a lot of work and

1268
01:18:36.399 --> 01:18:38.279
self awareness to get to a place where you could

1269
01:18:38.319 --> 01:18:41.199
be like, no, I deserve better than this shit, and

1270
01:18:42.479 --> 01:18:47.199
you know, seek what you need to get to where

1271
01:18:47.199 --> 01:18:47.760
you need to be.

1272
01:18:49.079 --> 01:18:51.880
But I think because there.

1273
01:18:51.840 --> 01:18:54.119
Are a lot of people out there that aren't good people,

1274
01:18:54.319 --> 01:18:57.520
and they take advantage of people like you know, I've

1275
01:18:57.560 --> 01:19:00.319
been in that position where I've been vulnerable and put

1276
01:19:00.399 --> 01:19:03.520
myself out there and I've been hurt very badly.

1277
01:19:04.039 --> 01:19:06.520
You know, people took advantage of me, and you probably

1278
01:19:06.520 --> 01:19:10.560
have been in the position where your toxic too. It

1279
01:19:10.640 --> 01:19:14.159
goes both ways. Yep, you know what I would say.

1280
01:19:14.199 --> 01:19:19.840
My first relationship, yeah, so it was my twenties, Yes,

1281
01:19:20.079 --> 01:19:22.640
in my twenties. As I was growing up, I was

1282
01:19:22.760 --> 01:19:27.359
in a relationship. It's all I do, and and yeah,

1283
01:19:27.399 --> 01:19:29.800
I made a lot of mistakes. I didn't know shit,

1284
01:19:30.680 --> 01:19:31.800
to be honest, I didn't.

1285
01:19:31.840 --> 01:19:34.239
I was in my twenties with the Buck, and I

1286
01:19:34.359 --> 01:19:38.840
came from like such a dysfunctional family that, like I

1287
01:19:39.159 --> 01:19:41.439
was comfortable with dysfunction around me.

1288
01:19:42.239 --> 01:19:47.000
And so what sash it is, right, the sash it

1289
01:19:47.159 --> 01:19:49.239
is like, you know, I'm here telling about my family life,

1290
01:19:49.439 --> 01:19:54.239
and yet I became such a toxic person, right, And

1291
01:19:54.600 --> 01:19:56.479
the real and the real reason why I became such

1292
01:19:56.479 --> 01:19:59.239
a toxic person is because all it took was one

1293
01:19:59.359 --> 01:20:01.399
time for me to fuck it, you know what I'm saying,

1294
01:20:01.439 --> 01:20:04.800
for a girl to fuck me up, Like to the

1295
01:20:04.880 --> 01:20:05.479
point where.

1296
01:20:05.319 --> 01:20:08.600
It's like, I don't think it was just that. I

1297
01:20:08.680 --> 01:20:13.479
think that might have been the the thing that really

1298
01:20:13.800 --> 01:20:14.840
hit you the hardest.

1299
01:20:14.960 --> 01:20:19.640
But you keep sharing things about your past, and there's

1300
01:20:19.680 --> 01:20:23.279
a lot of times where you've felt that you know,

1301
01:20:23.680 --> 01:20:27.640
you've given trust where it's been lost or taken or

1302
01:20:28.560 --> 01:20:31.840
even said before you felt abandoned by your parents. You

1303
01:20:32.039 --> 01:20:36.079
cannot help what you felt then knowing what you did right,

1304
01:20:36.600 --> 01:20:39.279
So yes, of course I would have felt abandoned by

1305
01:20:39.359 --> 01:20:40.760
my parents too, would be like what the fuck?

1306
01:20:40.760 --> 01:20:42.279
Why did you send me all the way to Florida?

1307
01:20:42.439 --> 01:20:43.520
Like what is that shit? Like?

1308
01:20:43.800 --> 01:20:45.520
But you know what though, I get why it is

1309
01:20:45.640 --> 01:20:46.159
it though.

1310
01:20:46.279 --> 01:20:49.720
Well now because you're in a position where you can

1311
01:20:49.920 --> 01:20:52.399
understand and reflect back and be like, oh shit, yeah

1312
01:20:52.560 --> 01:20:53.880
that makes sense now.

1313
01:20:54.880 --> 01:20:57.000
Because you know what another thing too, like I'm not

1314
01:20:57.159 --> 01:20:58.840
gonna give the excuse, but it's a no offense that

1315
01:20:58.880 --> 01:21:01.640
your brain don't really compute things to your like twenty five,

1316
01:21:02.800 --> 01:21:05.199
Like it's not fully developed to your twenty five. So

1317
01:21:05.279 --> 01:21:09.760
it's like, for instance, like sex, right, sex for instance, right,

1318
01:21:10.960 --> 01:21:13.640
I'll use sex, you know what I'm saying before as

1319
01:21:13.720 --> 01:21:15.560
something like oh, I'm just gonna get my another off

1320
01:21:15.600 --> 01:21:18.840
and that's it, right, not knowing that you know what

1321
01:21:18.840 --> 01:21:21.560
I mean? Like like you know, like never mind the

1322
01:21:22.000 --> 01:21:25.079
sexual transmit the diseases when you get spiritual transmitted disease

1323
01:21:25.239 --> 01:21:28.279
diseases as well, like you contract the other person's energy

1324
01:21:28.319 --> 01:21:31.680
and stuff, which brings me to an example like how

1325
01:21:31.920 --> 01:21:34.760
women would know when a man is cheating on them

1326
01:21:35.239 --> 01:21:36.640
because they feel it. You want to know why they

1327
01:21:36.720 --> 01:21:38.840
feel it because of how many times they've been with them,

1328
01:21:39.239 --> 01:21:41.239
Like you know what, like the exchange of energies here,

1329
01:21:42.600 --> 01:21:45.279
you know what I'm saying, so like that's how you

1330
01:21:45.319 --> 01:21:48.239
know what I'm saying? Women would actually know. But anyways,

1331
01:21:48.640 --> 01:21:51.439
you know what all over the place. Yeah, I know,

1332
01:21:51.560 --> 01:21:56.199
I am right, And.

1333
01:21:58.920 --> 01:22:01.159
I was like, where is he going with this?

1334
01:22:01.520 --> 01:22:03.079
Like what is he talking about?

1335
01:22:04.199 --> 01:22:09.079
I'm trolling. I'm trolling everybody. I'm trolling everybody today. You

1336
01:22:09.159 --> 01:22:09.319
know what?

1337
01:22:10.560 --> 01:22:10.840
You know what?

1338
01:22:11.720 --> 01:22:14.159
You know what? You know what? Touches out and touches

1339
01:22:14.199 --> 01:22:16.960
out right. I can't I can't see ladies G's face right,

1340
01:22:17.000 --> 01:22:18.880
but I'm pretty sure I hyeballs, you know, saying once

1341
01:22:19.000 --> 01:22:22.159
so far up that she actually saw her thoughts in

1342
01:22:22.239 --> 01:22:25.880
her brains this one. Colllen was like, what the hell

1343
01:22:25.960 --> 01:22:31.399
are you talking about? You know what? His facial expression

1344
01:22:31.479 --> 01:22:31.800
right there.

1345
01:22:31.880 --> 01:22:33.000
I was like, this got him.

1346
01:22:34.159 --> 01:22:38.279
God, I'm gonna you know what, I'm gonna joke. I'm

1347
01:22:38.319 --> 01:22:42.000
gonna I'm a very good joking movie, you know, like

1348
01:22:42.079 --> 01:22:42.560
it's good.

1349
01:22:42.439 --> 01:22:47.439
You know, like, yeah, because I'm seeing here, I'm saying

1350
01:22:47.439 --> 01:22:51.000
to myself, what the fuck is going did switch.

1351
01:22:50.880 --> 01:22:51.239
Up to this?

1352
01:22:51.720 --> 01:22:51.840
Yo?

1353
01:22:52.399 --> 01:22:55.920
Yo? Yo? When when we were talking, right, I'm like, yo,

1354
01:22:56.000 --> 01:22:59.079
you know what, I'm a pull of and a living

1355
01:22:59.119 --> 01:23:02.439
color like yo, you know what because of the proclamation

1356
01:23:02.520 --> 01:23:05.439
of the amantic patient needs kind of masturbation, of the

1357
01:23:05.520 --> 01:23:17.199
ejaculation of a bad situation. That black dude. Yeah, okay, yeah, man,

1358
01:23:17.319 --> 01:23:20.079
like like you know, like that's one of the meshe

1359
01:23:20.119 --> 01:23:21.279
people are never mind.

1360
01:23:21.640 --> 01:23:24.600
You're good, you're good. You went, you went to a

1361
01:23:24.680 --> 01:23:30.960
weird place all over the place. But that's fine. I'm

1362
01:23:31.000 --> 01:23:32.279
glad you're enjoying your evening.

1363
01:23:33.600 --> 01:23:42.800
Yeah all right, Well I don't know, so I guess

1364
01:23:42.920 --> 01:23:46.119
I guess we t g you rolled. You rolled in

1365
01:23:46.199 --> 01:23:46.720
a little late.

1366
01:23:47.359 --> 01:23:49.359
I'm sorry, but that's sometimes that's how I do.

1367
01:23:50.039 --> 01:23:51.520
Yeah, that's how you do. You just roll up a

1368
01:23:51.520 --> 01:24:04.399
little late, literally roll up a little late, exactly. Uh yeah,

1369
01:24:05.039 --> 01:24:07.000
I'm tempted to show you the first video, but I

1370
01:24:07.039 --> 01:24:08.680
don't want to get into that conversation again.

1371
01:24:09.000 --> 01:24:13.720
That's not sure what the presentation because you know what,

1372
01:24:14.560 --> 01:24:18.000
because you know what, like you know what I'm saying,

1373
01:24:18.039 --> 01:24:20.720
like like we all had her opinions. We all had

1374
01:24:21.520 --> 01:24:23.520
an opinion. I think she deserves one.

1375
01:24:23.880 --> 01:24:25.880
All right, So watch this video and let me know

1376
01:24:25.960 --> 01:24:26.399
what you think.

1377
01:24:26.399 --> 01:24:27.239
All right, I'm scared.

1378
01:24:27.319 --> 01:24:31.279
Yes, THEO the mike mutes when the video comes on,

1379
01:24:32.000 --> 01:24:34.279
so it'll it'll unnut when I turn it off. So

1380
01:24:34.439 --> 01:24:36.880
just heay, just listen, all right, got it?

1381
01:24:36.960 --> 01:24:38.239
But yes, wasn't fifty to fifty.

1382
01:24:38.359 --> 01:24:40.560
The dishes wasn't fifty fifty, the laundry wasn't fifty fifty,

1383
01:24:40.560 --> 01:24:41.640
the cleaning wasn't fifty fifty.

1384
01:24:41.760 --> 01:24:43.479
And that's an every day motherfucking job.

1385
01:24:43.720 --> 01:24:45.680
I come home and then got food on the table,

1386
01:24:45.840 --> 01:24:48.000
got clothes on the bed, got ship everywhere.

1387
01:24:48.119 --> 01:24:49.840
Every day I'm exhausted.

1388
01:24:49.600 --> 01:24:51.760
I'm coming home, I'm cleaning my house, and yes, I

1389
01:24:51.880 --> 01:24:52.760
do that anyways.

1390
01:24:52.920 --> 01:24:54.479
But when it's just you, it's just you.

1391
01:24:54.680 --> 01:24:56.800
When you are cleaning up for man and his children

1392
01:24:56.960 --> 01:24:59.159
and other people, get is a whole full time job,

1393
01:24:59.199 --> 01:25:01.039
and you don't get time for yourself. Then that's why

1394
01:25:01.119 --> 01:25:03.319
women get burnt out and you're no longer having.

1395
01:25:03.159 --> 01:25:05.039
Your relationship because you're coming.

1396
01:25:04.920 --> 01:25:06.800
Home and a man is sitting on the couch because

1397
01:25:06.840 --> 01:25:08.960
he's sorry for working, and you're making sure your.

1398
01:25:09.199 --> 01:25:11.960
Catering in So what so what so what?

1399
01:25:12.159 --> 01:25:13.840
I don't understand where is the value in that.

1400
01:25:14.079 --> 01:25:15.079
Gulls do not.

1401
01:25:15.319 --> 01:25:17.479
Choose a woman who don't want to be a woman,

1402
01:25:19.039 --> 01:25:21.079
the modern day women Right there, I'm gonna go to

1403
01:25:21.159 --> 01:25:23.079
work like you do. You want me to cook, clean,

1404
01:25:23.239 --> 01:25:25.640
so what Yes, you're gonna cook, clean, do this, and

1405
01:25:25.720 --> 01:25:25.920
do that.

1406
01:25:26.159 --> 01:25:28.680
And guess what he taking the trash out, he fixed

1407
01:25:28.720 --> 01:25:30.079
in the house. He making sure it is.

1408
01:25:30.159 --> 01:25:34.159
But we have different duties, functions, and responsibilities. My wife

1409
01:25:34.239 --> 01:25:36.279
don't want my duties just because I can see you

1410
01:25:36.560 --> 01:25:39.279
cook the food and you can't see me clean the guters.

1411
01:25:39.439 --> 01:25:41.119
You don't even care about that stuff, but it still

1412
01:25:41.159 --> 01:25:43.800
need to be done. Men have different responsibilities.

1413
01:25:44.079 --> 01:25:46.359
So all this, oh, I cook and I clean and like.

1414
01:25:46.439 --> 01:25:49.199
Yet, that's part of your function. But when your tire

1415
01:25:49.319 --> 01:25:51.319
is flat, my function is to make sure you have

1416
01:25:51.439 --> 01:25:54.600
a new tire at needle oil change is my job

1417
01:25:54.640 --> 01:25:56.680
to make sure these people ain't ripping you off. We

1418
01:25:56.800 --> 01:25:59.640
have different duties and functions and responsibilities. And if you

1419
01:25:59.720 --> 01:26:03.359
don't your duty, your function, your responsibility, you're not fit

1420
01:26:03.600 --> 01:26:05.680
to a white period.

1421
01:26:08.439 --> 01:26:20.479
Oh no, no, no, hey, before you start, I'm just

1422
01:26:20.520 --> 01:26:24.479
gonna say this, right, I saw you went from doctor

1423
01:26:24.560 --> 01:26:27.920
Bruce Bander to right now the great hole, right now,

1424
01:26:29.640 --> 01:26:33.079
all right now, go ahead, lash out.

1425
01:26:34.079 --> 01:26:36.560
Wow. I mean I felt for her when she was

1426
01:26:36.640 --> 01:26:40.600
saying all of that. The brunt of the responsibilities on

1427
01:26:40.680 --> 01:26:42.800
a woman, especially a mother.

1428
01:26:43.840 --> 01:26:46.159
Uh, it's a lot, and.

1429
01:26:47.760 --> 01:26:52.239
Father should be coming in or a husband should be

1430
01:26:52.399 --> 01:26:56.279
coming in and doing the same shit, because there is

1431
01:26:56.399 --> 01:26:59.720
no womanly duty unless I have a baby.

1432
01:26:59.479 --> 01:27:02.039
And that baby stuck it on my tit. That's the

1433
01:27:02.159 --> 01:27:05.359
only thing that you can't do. Period.

1434
01:27:05.840 --> 01:27:08.960
But above all of that, what she's talking about are daily,

1435
01:27:09.800 --> 01:27:13.039
daily routines that have to be done several times a day.

1436
01:27:13.560 --> 01:27:16.239
What the heck he's talking about is something you have

1437
01:27:16.319 --> 01:27:17.479
to do once a season.

1438
01:27:18.319 --> 01:27:18.960
Oh yeah, don't.

1439
01:27:19.439 --> 01:27:21.600
But he pissed me off with a whole Well, you

1440
01:27:21.720 --> 01:27:24.319
need to get an oil check, motherfucker. I could get

1441
01:27:24.319 --> 01:27:26.840
ail check on my own. I'm not gonna let anybody

1442
01:27:26.960 --> 01:27:30.960
play me. Okay, I probably know more about my car

1443
01:27:31.119 --> 01:27:34.159
than most other people driving in their own damn cars.

1444
01:27:34.520 --> 01:27:35.399
I don't want to hear that.

1445
01:27:36.039 --> 01:27:38.119
But he said a lot of sexist shit, and that's

1446
01:27:38.760 --> 01:27:41.479
that's what it is. There is a there's still men

1447
01:27:41.560 --> 01:27:43.600
out there that feel that woman should be doing that.

1448
01:27:43.800 --> 01:27:46.920
I'm sorry. I find me men that cook for me

1449
01:27:47.520 --> 01:27:55.960
and game changer clean as well, because people, human beings

1450
01:27:56.000 --> 01:27:58.640
should know how to fucking cook and clean for themselves,

1451
01:27:59.239 --> 01:28:02.880
regardless for anyone else. You should know how to take

1452
01:28:02.960 --> 01:28:05.239
care of yourself and be able to live on your

1453
01:28:05.359 --> 01:28:07.439
own if you need it to.

1454
01:28:08.760 --> 01:28:09.159
Period.

1455
01:28:11.319 --> 01:28:14.039
I think T is the person she gonna give them

1456
01:28:14.079 --> 01:28:15.159
the stone coast.

1457
01:28:17.439 --> 01:28:20.520
Or the people's elbow, because that was my favorite.

1458
01:28:20.199 --> 01:28:24.000
Move was the people's you're gonna hit a glass, break

1459
01:28:25.720 --> 01:28:26.399
a chair.

1460
01:28:28.000 --> 01:28:32.119
To seriously, I'd be like, what word you?

1461
01:28:33.680 --> 01:28:38.119
Yeah, that's just this male chauvinistic ideal that some men

1462
01:28:38.199 --> 01:28:41.119
still have, that like, well, I'll clean the listen, I

1463
01:28:41.159 --> 01:28:45.119
could take out the garbage. I could take out the garbage.

1464
01:28:45.479 --> 01:28:50.079
I can, I could clean things. But if my husband

1465
01:28:50.239 --> 01:28:54.319
is saying, hey, i'll do that, okay, cool, Like I'm

1466
01:28:54.319 --> 01:28:56.399
not going to stop you. But we share our duties.

1467
01:28:56.479 --> 01:29:00.319
We don't fucking stop lying no. And that's how it

1468
01:29:00.399 --> 01:29:05.000
should be a partnership. A partnership should be ego and

1469
01:29:05.199 --> 01:29:08.800
say it ways except late at night in the bedroom.

1470
01:29:08.880 --> 01:29:10.159
That's when he gets to.

1471
01:29:12.439 --> 01:29:15.399
No, no, you know what kitchen now?

1472
01:29:16.439 --> 01:29:19.680
You always say that though it was like gonna make

1473
01:29:19.720 --> 01:29:20.680
me a sandwich?

1474
01:29:21.560 --> 01:29:23.279
Yeah I know, I know, I know, but I say

1475
01:29:23.319 --> 01:29:26.119
that joking around real quick now.

1476
01:29:26.359 --> 01:29:29.399
Yeah I have to say that, joking around. Yeah you

1477
01:29:29.479 --> 01:29:29.640
know what?

1478
01:29:32.159 --> 01:29:38.560
Right, yeah, real quick now, Ladies, TG right today. I

1479
01:29:38.600 --> 01:29:40.960
told my woman, now you know what I'm saying. I

1480
01:29:41.119 --> 01:29:44.680
was like, and we gotta talk. She was like, what

1481
01:29:44.880 --> 01:29:53.720
about what I'm like? Sit down. I'm like Saturday, Sunday, Monday,

1482
01:29:53.800 --> 01:29:59.039
and Thursdays from Saturday from twelve to ten, Sunday from

1483
01:29:59.079 --> 01:30:05.840
twelve to time eleven, Monday from eight to twelve, and

1484
01:30:05.960 --> 01:30:09.039
Thursday from eight to twelve, I will be on I

1485
01:30:09.119 --> 01:30:15.600
will be emotionally unavailable for you mm And she was

1486
01:30:15.680 --> 01:30:19.399
like the fuck. I'm like college football season begins and

1487
01:30:19.439 --> 01:30:23.119
plus the NFL, like you know how it is. Yeah,

1488
01:30:24.319 --> 01:30:28.720
you know, I'm like football, I should I don't. I'm like, yo,

1489
01:30:28.840 --> 01:30:29.079
you know what.

1490
01:30:33.319 --> 01:30:35.159
I'm like this, that's understandable.

1491
01:30:35.800 --> 01:30:39.560
I'm like, listen, we need something done. On Saturdays. I

1492
01:30:39.640 --> 01:30:42.560
want to go to Walmart. You better be up at

1493
01:30:42.560 --> 01:30:46.640
eight thirty in the morning to go because anything after

1494
01:30:46.720 --> 01:30:51.920
that time don't bother me, right period? You know what

1495
01:30:52.039 --> 01:30:55.600
about parties? Call it uber, I'll pick you up after

1496
01:30:55.600 --> 01:30:55.920
the game.

1497
01:30:56.239 --> 01:31:00.560
Oh my god, No, you can't do shit like that that.

1498
01:31:00.760 --> 01:31:04.039
I can't stand actually, like I have a problem.

1499
01:31:04.960 --> 01:31:06.439
My ex did that to me.

1500
01:31:06.680 --> 01:31:09.560
Where Like we were supposed to go somewhere and the

1501
01:31:09.680 --> 01:31:12.319
Yankees were playing, and I was just like, you're kidding

1502
01:31:12.399 --> 01:31:13.319
right now, right, like.

1503
01:31:13.640 --> 01:31:16.720
We're going somewhere because you need to watch a game, Like,

1504
01:31:17.600 --> 01:31:21.079
oh no, that's not cool. I'm like, you know, should

1505
01:31:21.159 --> 01:31:27.039
not be that important. Listen. I am a football fan

1506
01:31:27.199 --> 01:31:30.920
as well, so I get it. Okay, go pack. Oh

1507
01:31:31.720 --> 01:31:35.000
but seriously, no, no, if.

1508
01:31:35.399 --> 01:31:36.560
Did you say go backle?

1509
01:31:37.199 --> 01:31:46.720
No, I said go Pack, go bull backle because the

1510
01:31:46.880 --> 01:31:52.199
chests are ship. We all know this. Anyway. I know

1511
01:31:52.760 --> 01:31:55.399
another Jets fan yo.

1512
01:31:55.640 --> 01:32:00.880
Who said that Eagles fan? Right?

1513
01:32:02.760 --> 01:32:03.760
He's a fan?

1514
01:32:06.319 --> 01:32:09.439
Wa wait wait wait, lady G is an Eagles fan.

1515
01:32:10.000 --> 01:32:12.079
Yes, I am, okay, and.

1516
01:32:14.119 --> 01:32:17.000
I like Philadelphia the city and what.

1517
01:32:18.520 --> 01:32:19.680
You said. The Jets are ship right?

1518
01:32:20.159 --> 01:32:22.640
Yes, yes they are interesting.

1519
01:32:22.880 --> 01:32:26.439
You know, like seeing how like you know just you know,

1520
01:32:26.640 --> 01:32:29.199
saying jail hurts our relates. But hey, what do I know?

1521
01:32:29.720 --> 01:32:33.640
I don't know anything, but I do know this got

1522
01:32:34.079 --> 01:32:36.800
you know what? Feel bad for you? I feel bad

1523
01:32:36.840 --> 01:32:39.760
for their fans every year. That's all I could say.

1524
01:32:40.640 --> 01:32:44.560
It's all good. Maybe once you guys will know, like

1525
01:32:44.760 --> 01:32:48.720
to win something. I'm getting middle fingers.

1526
01:32:53.560 --> 01:32:55.680
The Jets want The Jets want a Super Bowl?

1527
01:32:56.239 --> 01:32:57.840
When did the Jets want a Super Bowl?

1528
01:32:57.920 --> 01:33:00.600
It don't matter. It don't matter what ended.

1529
01:33:03.319 --> 01:33:06.279
Questions the question were you alive when they won the

1530
01:33:06.359 --> 01:33:06.880
Super Bowl?

1531
01:33:08.079 --> 01:33:11.279
I don't ask The question is are you alive ESPN?

1532
01:33:11.760 --> 01:33:13.600
I get to watch the ESPN, so that therefore I

1533
01:33:13.680 --> 01:33:13.960
was there.

1534
01:33:14.640 --> 01:33:16.199
Listens good.

1535
01:33:16.399 --> 01:33:19.920
Now now now you know what, you know what the

1536
01:33:20.039 --> 01:33:21.840
Jets went and the Super was a big idea because

1537
01:33:22.039 --> 01:33:24.640
because right after that, the air from the NFL merged.

1538
01:33:25.960 --> 01:33:30.239
That's why there's so much teams now. So that's what significant.

1539
01:33:29.920 --> 01:33:32.720
Everyone is already, you know, like looking to see what

1540
01:33:33.000 --> 01:33:33.880
Kansas City do.

1541
01:33:35.359 --> 01:33:42.880
So like Kansas City well, I mean Kansas City Swifts

1542
01:33:43.119 --> 01:33:45.319
because you know what, I guarantee Taylor Swift will get

1543
01:33:45.520 --> 01:33:49.479
more Oh I love that. H Taylor Swift will get

1544
01:33:49.520 --> 01:33:49.760
more air.

1545
01:33:49.840 --> 01:33:52.640
I don't even like her, but I like the the

1546
01:33:52.760 --> 01:33:54.159
Kansas City Swifts.

1547
01:33:55.239 --> 01:33:56.039
That's what it is now.

1548
01:33:56.279 --> 01:33:56.720
They're sure.

1549
01:34:00.039 --> 01:34:01.840
Yo, you know what if the NFL is going to

1550
01:34:01.880 --> 01:34:02.520
script it right.

1551
01:34:02.960 --> 01:34:05.880
Go trademark that that's what people are doing these days.

1552
01:34:06.520 --> 01:34:11.680
Yo, can'c is gonna win the Super Bowl? Telsey is

1553
01:34:11.680 --> 01:34:15.199
gonna retire and get on his knees to propose to

1554
01:34:15.319 --> 01:34:18.239
this Teylor Swift.

1555
01:34:18.800 --> 01:34:23.039
Yeah yeah, okay, we all heard it here first in

1556
01:34:23.239 --> 01:34:24.159
August at the.

1557
01:34:24.239 --> 01:34:26.920
NFL at the NFL scripture right less, like you know

1558
01:34:26.920 --> 01:34:28.319
what I'm saying, he blows out of a c L

1559
01:34:28.439 --> 01:34:29.119
or something, then they have.

1560
01:34:29.159 --> 01:34:34.319
To go, oh you like it's go big or go

1561
01:34:34.520 --> 01:34:36.199
home basically.

1562
01:34:35.920 --> 01:34:38.439
Yeah, you know like like like yo, no, honestly, like

1563
01:34:38.640 --> 01:34:40.640
I really I really don't hope, like you know, I

1564
01:34:40.720 --> 01:34:43.960
don't wish no injuries nobody. Let's unless we play it

1565
01:34:44.039 --> 01:34:46.640
for the Dolphins. I'd love to see injuries on that team.

1566
01:34:48.359 --> 01:34:48.560
Yeah.

1567
01:34:49.560 --> 01:34:49.760
Yeah.

1568
01:34:50.239 --> 01:34:54.479
So with that, with all that football talk being said, yeah,

1569
01:34:54.800 --> 01:34:59.960
football seasons, yeah, yes, yeah, one more draft on Sunday.

1570
01:34:59.680 --> 01:35:01.319
You know, fall weather's coming.

1571
01:35:02.800 --> 01:35:10.000
You know what, like football is the only sport. You know,

1572
01:35:10.079 --> 01:35:13.199
football is the only sport where like and really make

1573
01:35:13.279 --> 01:35:17.000
you know I'm saying or maybe being a judgement, really

1574
01:35:17.680 --> 01:35:22.520
it's like an abusive relationship, oh very much. Yeah, I'll

1575
01:35:22.520 --> 01:35:23.239
be honest about that.

1576
01:35:23.760 --> 01:35:25.560
I mean, and if you're a basketball fan, if you're

1577
01:35:25.560 --> 01:35:27.399
a Knicks fan, that's also painful.

1578
01:35:27.880 --> 01:35:31.119
So what if you're a Dallas Dallas is even worse.

1579
01:35:32.399 --> 01:35:35.159
I want I'll go first off, I want Jerry Jones

1580
01:35:35.199 --> 01:35:37.479
to live forever, you know what, like like you know what,

1581
01:35:37.680 --> 01:35:39.439
I'm pretty sure, all of us that's on this panel

1582
01:35:39.520 --> 01:35:42.760
right now, I could agree that when Dallas Cowboys lose,

1583
01:35:42.760 --> 01:35:43.479
America wins.

1584
01:35:44.079 --> 01:35:47.479
Absolutely I agree with that as well, because we are

1585
01:35:47.600 --> 01:35:52.960
all on board that the Dallas Cowgirls are just by

1586
01:35:53.079 --> 01:35:53.720
far the worst.

1587
01:35:54.920 --> 01:35:57.039
No man like like like they're fans, you know, oh,

1588
01:35:57.119 --> 01:36:03.039
we know everything, the team, the owner, you know, like like.

1589
01:36:03.279 --> 01:36:06.239
Like tomorrow, Tomorrow's gonna pick it. Tomorrow's gonna pick the

1590
01:36:06.319 --> 01:36:07.960
You know what I'm saying, Tomorrow is gonna be the temperature,

1591
01:36:08.600 --> 01:36:10.720
and it's the dast Cowboys last one in the Super Bowl.

1592
01:36:14.039 --> 01:36:17.800
It's gonna be ninety sixteen trees from no way, ninety five,

1593
01:36:18.760 --> 01:36:20.439
ninety hot.

1594
01:36:20.439 --> 01:36:21.239
It's to be hot.

1595
01:36:22.039 --> 01:36:22.800
Yeah, it's gonna be.

1596
01:36:23.399 --> 01:36:27.199
But that was that was sooner than when the Jets

1597
01:36:27.520 --> 01:36:28.840
won our Super Balls.

1598
01:36:29.199 --> 01:36:31.319
So yeah, but yo, sixty nine, I mean, you know

1599
01:36:31.359 --> 01:36:33.319
what I'm saying, like, like, see, the important thing about

1600
01:36:33.319 --> 01:36:35.640
sixty nine is this, you do it in the bedroom

1601
01:36:35.880 --> 01:36:41.239
so much? All right, all right, right, whatever, exactly right,

1602
01:36:41.479 --> 01:36:43.560
well exactly are.

1603
01:36:43.520 --> 01:36:44.479
You trying to kick us off?

1604
01:36:44.560 --> 01:36:46.960
Okay, I'm not trying to kick anybody else.

1605
01:36:50.399 --> 01:36:53.800
Hold on real quick. That was really a good one though,

1606
01:36:54.640 --> 01:36:57.840
But hold on though, being a Yankee fan, though, I

1607
01:36:57.880 --> 01:36:59.720
mean the only reason why I got to brook See

1608
01:36:59.760 --> 01:37:02.560
this not Boston's Brooklyn, by the way, But I'm a

1609
01:37:02.640 --> 01:37:04.600
Yankee fan. So it's like my saving grace in a way,

1610
01:37:05.119 --> 01:37:07.760
even though it's disappointed come in October, but it's still

1611
01:37:07.760 --> 01:37:08.760
a saving grace, you know what I mean.

1612
01:37:08.920 --> 01:37:11.039
You got that one team. You're not a Mets fan,

1613
01:37:11.720 --> 01:37:14.159
You're a Yankees fan. You got that at least that's

1614
01:37:14.640 --> 01:37:14.840
you know.

1615
01:37:14.880 --> 01:37:17.479
What, And all in all realness, if the Dodgers are

1616
01:37:17.560 --> 01:37:19.640
still playing in Brooklyn, I'll be a Brooklyn Dodger fan

1617
01:37:19.720 --> 01:37:21.800
because I was born in Brooklyn, you know what I mean.

1618
01:37:22.880 --> 01:37:27.520
Like you know, like like you know, like it's like imagine,

1619
01:37:27.840 --> 01:37:30.520
imagine real quick, right, and the Dodgers and the Giants

1620
01:37:30.600 --> 01:37:34.880
never left New York. First off, there will be no Mets,

1621
01:37:35.000 --> 01:37:38.039
to be honest, you know what I'm saying. Mm hmm, suckly.

1622
01:37:40.199 --> 01:37:43.159
Baseball would be crazy in this everyone, you know what

1623
01:37:43.159 --> 01:37:46.000
I mean. Fights will break out just by wearing different hats,

1624
01:37:47.000 --> 01:37:47.760
you know what I'm saying.

1625
01:37:47.640 --> 01:37:53.640
Like, oh gosh, you know, like the Bronx versus Brooklyn.

1626
01:37:55.359 --> 01:37:57.079
Yeah, the Bronx versus Uptown New York.

1627
01:37:57.840 --> 01:37:59.560
Would it still be a subway series.

1628
01:37:59.680 --> 01:38:03.520
I guess yeah, yeah, yeah, it'll still be a subway service.

1629
01:38:03.960 --> 01:38:16.560
Yeah yeah, right, you get the dad sometimes, you know, wait.

1630
01:38:14.439 --> 01:38:19.359
See is the dad? He's like the dad Poppy. Yeah,

1631
01:38:19.479 --> 01:38:20.079
he's poppy.

1632
01:38:21.920 --> 01:38:27.199
He's like eighty years old, poppy ce Oh real quick.

1633
01:38:27.840 --> 01:38:29.279
I want to shout out to I want to give

1634
01:38:29.279 --> 01:38:31.479
a shout out to my own daughter's desire. Happy birthday,

1635
01:38:31.520 --> 01:38:32.000
she's twenty.

1636
01:38:32.600 --> 01:38:37.359
Happy birthday, birthday at least, you know, she.

1637
01:38:38.640 --> 01:38:41.920
Just turned twenty. So like I have a twenty one

1638
01:38:41.960 --> 01:38:43.760
year old and a twenty year old, well twenty one

1639
01:38:43.840 --> 01:38:47.279
year old for now, and then I have a fourteen

1640
01:38:47.319 --> 01:38:52.399
months old who you know, Like it's a Stockholm syndrome situation.

1641
01:38:53.000 --> 01:38:56.880
I'm kind of liking my kidnapper. It's the hottest situation.

1642
01:38:57.319 --> 01:38:57.840
Mm hmm.

1643
01:38:59.079 --> 01:39:12.359
You know, like and if I don't know, wow, nah man,

1644
01:39:12.399 --> 01:39:14.640
But like, look, man, you know what I just talked ship.

1645
01:39:15.920 --> 01:39:20.199
But you know what, no, honestly like that dude in

1646
01:39:20.279 --> 01:39:26.560
the panel though, right if my daughter brought him home,

1647
01:39:28.680 --> 01:39:29.199
he's leaving.

1648
01:39:30.079 --> 01:39:30.359
Mhm.

1649
01:39:31.399 --> 01:39:33.399
I can't tell you how he's leaving, if he's gonna

1650
01:39:33.399 --> 01:39:35.359
be getting health or not, but he's leaving somehow.

1651
01:39:35.520 --> 01:39:37.840
Let me tell you something in my house, he ain't leaving.

1652
01:39:38.000 --> 01:39:39.800
He walk in and he won't walk out.

1653
01:39:40.640 --> 01:39:45.760
You know what I'm saying, Like like you know, like oh,

1654
01:39:45.840 --> 01:39:50.239
another thing too, And this keeps me up at night too,

1655
01:39:50.359 --> 01:40:00.840
because like the bullying thing, right, the stories why I'm

1656
01:40:00.840 --> 01:40:08.399
put my daughter self defense classes pavod because mhm, like

1657
01:40:08.520 --> 01:40:11.640
it's sad man, like all these kids, you know what

1658
01:40:11.640 --> 01:40:14.359
I'm saying, these kids growing up now because like because

1659
01:40:14.359 --> 01:40:17.520
I remember kids, we just kept buy back. Then they

1660
01:40:17.600 --> 01:40:21.239
had a grace period over the weekend at least, you know,

1661
01:40:21.319 --> 01:40:23.279
they had a grace period in summertime at least.

1662
01:40:23.800 --> 01:40:26.479
Yeah, but now it's online exactly.

1663
01:40:27.000 --> 01:40:31.880
It's so it's very hard to control that even with

1664
01:40:32.039 --> 01:40:37.880
self defense. It's like fighting isn't gonna win anymore at

1665
01:40:37.920 --> 01:40:41.079
this point. Like and it's sad to me that schools

1666
01:40:41.800 --> 01:40:42.840
aren't doing more.

1667
01:40:43.640 --> 01:40:45.039
It's not that.

1668
01:40:46.560 --> 01:40:49.680
Everywhere in the world where the internet already has been

1669
01:40:49.720 --> 01:40:52.800
around for what like thirty years or something.

1670
01:40:53.600 --> 01:40:58.479
Yeah, oh god, but like but you but you know what,

1671
01:40:59.119 --> 01:41:02.359
it's not the self defense against the girls because these

1672
01:41:02.439 --> 01:41:09.560
dudes be going and like like you know, mma stuff

1673
01:41:09.640 --> 01:41:11.640
like like you know what, like I've seen a video

1674
01:41:11.680 --> 01:41:14.039
of some you know what I'm saying, some girls like

1675
01:41:14.159 --> 01:41:17.640
beating up some freshman Asian girl right for no reason,

1676
01:41:17.720 --> 01:41:20.920
just to bully her. They were laughing, right, the Asian

1677
01:41:20.960 --> 01:41:24.479
girl was crying, and that shit broke my heart. I'm like, yo,

1678
01:41:25.199 --> 01:41:30.239
But then how Carma would have it, the same girl

1679
01:41:30.279 --> 01:41:32.520
got a cross by a black girl, right, and that

1680
01:41:32.640 --> 01:41:36.119
black girl whipped her ass like along her around like

1681
01:41:36.319 --> 01:41:38.319
like like was like shoe coming out. You know what

1682
01:41:38.319 --> 01:41:41.039
I'm saying. Her air forces flew off her feet, smacking

1683
01:41:41.079 --> 01:41:44.399
and slamming and dragging her just for bullying that girl.

1684
01:41:45.399 --> 01:41:47.119
And then she posted a picture of her or whatever

1685
01:41:47.479 --> 01:41:50.479
grace and like her location at the hospital. I was like,

1686
01:41:51.159 --> 01:41:55.439
you deserve that. But my thing is that I don't

1687
01:41:55.479 --> 01:41:57.119
ever want to go online and see a video of

1688
01:41:57.159 --> 01:42:01.239
my daughter in that position either which way being the

1689
01:42:01.319 --> 01:42:04.920
bully nor being you know what I'm saying, nor fighting,

1690
01:42:05.279 --> 01:42:09.920
But also depends though, you know, like and it's sad

1691
01:42:10.000 --> 01:42:13.680
because like because like yo, you know, like a lot

1692
01:42:13.720 --> 01:42:16.640
of kids, yell, if you look up how many kids

1693
01:42:16.680 --> 01:42:19.159
committed suicide because they got jumped and that ship got played.

1694
01:42:19.239 --> 01:42:22.279
You know what I'm saying Online, you know what I'm saying.

1695
01:42:22.319 --> 01:42:25.279
It's heartbreaking and I say that. You know what I'm saying,

1696
01:42:25.359 --> 01:42:27.079
like because like I'm a father, you know what I'm saying,

1697
01:42:27.319 --> 01:42:30.000
I'm a father again, I can't you know what I'm saying,

1698
01:42:30.039 --> 01:42:32.239
Like my thought is going to bury me. You know

1699
01:42:32.239 --> 01:42:34.039
what I'm saying, My kid's going to bury me. I

1700
01:42:34.119 --> 01:42:40.800
don't need to be burying my kids, right, and it

1701
01:42:40.920 --> 01:42:42.560
bothers me, you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, Yo,

1702
01:42:42.640 --> 01:42:44.319
you know what that's like, I'm getting emotional. I don't

1703
01:42:44.479 --> 01:42:46.720
even care. You know what I'm saying. I don't care.

1704
01:42:49.399 --> 01:42:52.760
You want to protect her every way? You can.

1705
01:42:54.840 --> 01:42:56.800
Never mind protecting her, man, I'm talking about the kids

1706
01:42:56.880 --> 01:43:00.079
in general, man like that, Like, yo, you know what

1707
01:43:00.159 --> 01:43:02.399
that got to stop? Man Like, Like you know what

1708
01:43:02.439 --> 01:43:06.640
I'm saying, like like like, never mind the emotional damage

1709
01:43:06.680 --> 01:43:08.279
and the mental damage doing to the child. You know

1710
01:43:08.279 --> 01:43:10.760
what I'm saying, the kids do to another kid or whatever,

1711
01:43:10.840 --> 01:43:13.800
because like this kid offs themselves in that one.

1712
01:43:14.520 --> 01:43:15.319
That's what I was gonna say.

1713
01:43:15.319 --> 01:43:18.640
I mean that the sad news is and the reality

1714
01:43:18.800 --> 01:43:23.079
is is that suicide rates have gone up and younger kids.

1715
01:43:24.239 --> 01:43:28.000
And it is to this more less girls too, more

1716
01:43:28.079 --> 01:43:29.640
less girls too because of this ship.

1717
01:43:30.720 --> 01:43:33.319
Yeah, you know like it's it's sad. I mean, they

1718
01:43:33.399 --> 01:43:37.880
have documentaries that on freaking streaming services. Literally, I'm sure

1719
01:43:37.920 --> 01:43:42.840
on every single one there is a story about somebody

1720
01:43:42.920 --> 01:43:47.560
being cyber bullied or bullied and wound up taking their

1721
01:43:47.600 --> 01:43:48.720
life so.

1722
01:43:49.920 --> 01:43:54.119
Or they become the school shooting too. Yeah, you know,

1723
01:43:54.600 --> 01:43:56.479
you know, and and it's like, yo, you know what,

1724
01:43:56.600 --> 01:43:58.279
all this shit could have been prevented.

1725
01:43:58.279 --> 01:44:01.760
If they don't want to prevent it.

1726
01:44:04.600 --> 01:44:06.399
All that you know, all that ship, you know, you're right,

1727
01:44:06.439 --> 01:44:08.319
you know what I'm saying for you know reasons, but

1728
01:44:08.439 --> 01:44:12.720
like all that ship could be prevented, of course, you know.

1729
01:44:13.279 --> 01:44:17.760
It all goes to mental health and resources and support

1730
01:44:18.000 --> 01:44:23.159
and having mental health crisis officers versus police officers taking

1731
01:44:23.279 --> 01:44:26.000
care of this ship is very serious.

1732
01:44:26.039 --> 01:44:28.520
One person, but the one person, you know what I'm saying,

1733
01:44:29.239 --> 01:44:30.560
we're just like, you know what I'm saying, step down

1734
01:44:30.600 --> 01:44:32.079
from a little hot horse, you know what I'm saying,

1735
01:44:32.279 --> 01:44:35.279
Just like like go to the person that's being booked, Like, yo,

1736
01:44:35.319 --> 01:44:37.479
you know what, man shut out with this ship, let

1737
01:44:37.560 --> 01:44:41.079
him be, leave him alone, you know, Like I.

1738
01:44:41.159 --> 01:44:46.079
Mean, there's no one answer, but education is important. I

1739
01:44:46.239 --> 01:44:46.680
think that.

1740
01:44:48.279 --> 01:44:52.199
Most we know that they're saying hurt people hurt people,

1741
01:44:53.079 --> 01:44:58.560
So it's obvious that the person bullying is hurt. That's

1742
01:44:58.600 --> 01:45:02.079
what needs to be like fixed, Like why do you

1743
01:45:02.119 --> 01:45:05.359
think it's okay to be like that and mean? And

1744
01:45:05.560 --> 01:45:10.039
obviously they're learning this okay, So sit could be happening

1745
01:45:10.079 --> 01:45:10.520
at home.

1746
01:45:10.800 --> 01:45:14.600
So this is why community matters.

1747
01:45:14.720 --> 01:45:16.920
And it's sad to me that we don't have community

1748
01:45:16.960 --> 01:45:21.039
anymore because because of that, because you had support systems,

1749
01:45:21.119 --> 01:45:24.319
because your parents could call the neighbor or some of

1750
01:45:24.479 --> 01:45:27.800
your friend's parents and be like, hey, can you watch

1751
01:45:27.840 --> 01:45:29.880
them for a little bit, I have to take whatever,

1752
01:45:30.760 --> 01:45:34.039
like and we don't really have that, So like, I

1753
01:45:34.079 --> 01:45:36.960
don't feel like people are getting checked on the way

1754
01:45:37.000 --> 01:45:40.560
they should be. And shit is happening in these homes

1755
01:45:40.680 --> 01:45:45.079
and twenty twenty, like, imagine all the kids that were

1756
01:45:45.119 --> 01:45:49.359
stuck at home with their abusers and what that was

1757
01:45:49.520 --> 01:45:51.880
like they had no escape?

1758
01:45:52.039 --> 01:45:53.279
What did that do to them?

1759
01:45:53.920 --> 01:45:58.439
You know, are we even touching and hitting like the

1760
01:45:58.560 --> 01:46:02.039
mental health that these chill dren need from twenty twenty

1761
01:46:02.119 --> 01:46:05.920
and what they had to experience And no, they're not

1762
01:46:06.119 --> 01:46:08.560
doing that. It's up to the parent. But if the

1763
01:46:08.760 --> 01:46:10.920
parent is the abuser, how is the kid getting this

1764
01:46:10.960 --> 01:46:12.319
sport and help that they need.

1765
01:46:12.560 --> 01:46:14.680
So this is a horrible cycle.

1766
01:46:16.159 --> 01:46:19.119
Yeah, I ain't know a lot. That quarantine ship was

1767
01:46:19.159 --> 01:46:21.000
Like that shit took a.

1768
01:46:21.039 --> 01:46:23.399
Toll on me, everybody. It was depressing.

1769
01:46:24.079 --> 01:46:26.000
Yeah, you know what, it turned me into an It

1770
01:46:26.079 --> 01:46:28.000
turned me toward raising alcohol. Looks like I had to

1771
01:46:28.039 --> 01:46:33.680
drink every day. Literally literally I was drinking every day

1772
01:46:33.960 --> 01:46:36.319
every day, like like you know what I'm starting. I

1773
01:46:36.399 --> 01:46:40.840
was starting at twelve drinking. Yeah, running back to the

1774
01:46:40.880 --> 01:46:43.600
look like how to fuck was the liquor store open.

1775
01:46:44.680 --> 01:46:50.279
Because people needed to Yeah, you know like like like

1776
01:46:50.560 --> 01:46:52.760
people at eleven am, Bro, what are you talking about?

1777
01:46:52.840 --> 01:46:54.640
Like that's always been and I.

1778
01:46:56.479 --> 01:46:57.920
And I was at the liquor store at twelve.

1779
01:46:58.880 --> 01:46:59.720
Yeah you relate?

1780
01:47:01.000 --> 01:47:06.439
Yoh you know what, Hey I still got my titos though.

1781
01:47:07.159 --> 01:47:10.079
Yeah, oh I remember you at Tito's.

1782
01:47:11.039 --> 01:47:13.800
Yeah I w wasn't got my Tito's. Drink Go back

1783
01:47:13.840 --> 01:47:16.199
again for a second one. Drink again, go back again

1784
01:47:16.279 --> 01:47:17.680
for a third one. Just you know what I'm saying,

1785
01:47:17.760 --> 01:47:21.239
Just to put it down, like right like that. You

1786
01:47:21.319 --> 01:47:23.279
know what, if I was depressed, I know these kids were.

1787
01:47:23.359 --> 01:47:24.800
You know what I'm saying, it was just as bad.

1788
01:47:24.840 --> 01:47:25.520
It's not worse.

1789
01:47:28.479 --> 01:47:34.439
Well, I recently went to a conference and they actually

1790
01:47:34.479 --> 01:47:39.399
talked about like, no, it was the cultural diversity, but

1791
01:47:40.640 --> 01:47:44.159
they did talk about burnout. But they in the dissertation

1792
01:47:44.399 --> 01:47:50.600
basically said that like this, since twenty eighteen, the number

1793
01:47:50.840 --> 01:47:57.880
of death by suicide or just depression, people getting burnout

1794
01:47:57.920 --> 01:48:02.039
at work has gone up since twenty eighteen. Then twenty

1795
01:48:02.159 --> 01:48:06.399
twenty came along and made it go up even worse.

1796
01:48:06.800 --> 01:48:12.279
So I mean we're talking like people, healthcare workers, doctor

1797
01:48:12.560 --> 01:48:18.479
surgeons using alcohol and drugs to cope, and many of

1798
01:48:18.640 --> 01:48:22.199
them also had a death by suicide.

1799
01:48:22.439 --> 01:48:23.640
Like this is.

1800
01:48:25.159 --> 01:48:29.680
A serious health, mental health crisis that we're having in

1801
01:48:29.800 --> 01:48:33.000
this whole country. I mean, I don't even want to

1802
01:48:33.039 --> 01:48:35.600
get into it. But it goes into politics too, Like

1803
01:48:36.159 --> 01:48:41.880
you see who candidates are talking to, what they're triggering,

1804
01:48:42.000 --> 01:48:45.680
what they're saying, like fears of people, because that's what

1805
01:48:45.840 --> 01:48:48.560
politics is, like you hit it to the fears of

1806
01:48:48.640 --> 01:48:54.199
people to keep them, you know, And it's just it's scary,

1807
01:48:54.760 --> 01:48:56.760
and I get it. I wouldn't want to be a parent.

1808
01:48:56.800 --> 01:48:58.640
It's one of the reasons why I didn't have children

1809
01:48:59.279 --> 01:49:03.439
is because I didn't like the world that we lived in.

1810
01:49:03.880 --> 01:49:06.399
And I didn't want to subject a child to that,

1811
01:49:06.560 --> 01:49:10.680
but that was my choice. That's how I feel. But

1812
01:49:10.800 --> 01:49:13.800
I'm grateful for people who do have children because you know,

1813
01:49:13.920 --> 01:49:17.279
they are beautiful, and that's hope and and hope that

1814
01:49:17.760 --> 01:49:19.680
another generation can do better.

1815
01:49:20.680 --> 01:49:25.560
So well, it's sad. That just made it all depressing

1816
01:49:25.600 --> 01:49:27.319
and it's going to be one in the morning.

1817
01:49:28.039 --> 01:49:30.239
Is that Is that your final thought of the evening?

1818
01:49:30.520 --> 01:49:32.680
I think so, because it's it's just a sad one.

1819
01:49:35.199 --> 01:49:36.520
You know what's to live in?

1820
01:49:36.600 --> 01:49:36.840
It up?

1821
01:49:37.399 --> 01:49:40.039
You know what I'm saying, to hell with the package

1822
01:49:40.520 --> 01:49:46.319
to help the commanders Redskins, oh and the Eagles built

1823
01:49:46.359 --> 01:49:49.119
of built up, built up squad. You know what I'm saying,

1824
01:49:49.720 --> 01:49:52.680
Are they still the commanders? That's what I die. The

1825
01:49:52.760 --> 01:49:56.439
General Warren Moon, you know what I'm saying, That team

1826
01:49:56.479 --> 01:49:59.960
will ask for warm Moon they gave me Jalen Hurts.

1827
01:50:00.680 --> 01:50:04.439
You know I'm saying, he's gonna He's gonna suck up

1828
01:50:04.479 --> 01:50:05.000
the whole team.

1829
01:50:07.239 --> 01:50:11.439
That ye, lady yours.

1830
01:50:13.319 --> 01:50:19.039
My final thought is, uh, we're gonna where's gonna get

1831
01:50:19.119 --> 01:50:24.159
through it? Whatever it is, whatever get better.

1832
01:50:24.720 --> 01:50:29.800
She's the politician of the group. No, bring us hope, girl,

1833
01:50:30.359 --> 01:50:31.560
get out there. It stop running.

1834
01:50:34.119 --> 01:50:35.399
Yeah, I'll vote you in a heartbeat.

1835
01:50:38.600 --> 01:50:38.720
Yo.

1836
01:50:38.880 --> 01:50:41.600
But ye yo, but hold on real quick. Has anyone

1837
01:50:41.640 --> 01:50:45.039
ever seen the episode with the family guy, like Peter

1838
01:50:45.119 --> 01:50:48.479
Griffin's wife is like running for office against Brian and

1839
01:50:48.600 --> 01:50:50.640
she kept on like using fear factor. She was like,

1840
01:50:50.920 --> 01:50:55.720
you know what, nine, everybody was like eleven, everybody's again,

1841
01:50:55.760 --> 01:50:58.880
she's getting my vote, She's getting my vote. Like you're right,

1842
01:50:59.079 --> 01:51:01.760
that's how it is, like like you know, like it's

1843
01:51:01.800 --> 01:51:04.319
a fair factive part about it. Hm, you know, but

1844
01:51:04.439 --> 01:51:06.760
like that, I mean I just thought about that, you

1845
01:51:06.800 --> 01:51:08.600
know what I'm saying, that little cartoon and you know what,

1846
01:51:09.079 --> 01:51:09.840
I'll touch your guys.

1847
01:51:11.960 --> 01:51:15.880
Yeah, all right. So my final thought is, are very

1848
01:51:15.960 --> 01:51:18.079
happy tomorrow to you? Good night.

1849
01:51:19.399 --> 01:51:20.800
I don't want to go to work.

1850
01:51:21.560 --> 01:51:22.359
I don't want to know.

1851
01:51:26.199 --> 01:51:27.720
I don't want to go to work.

1852
01:51:27.840 --> 01:51:36.560
I don't want to work tomorrow. Oh god, yes, all right.

1853
01:51:36.760 --> 01:51:39.359
So with that being said, I'm calling.

1854
01:51:41.079 --> 01:51:45.199
Whoever does a don a k A. There's so many

1855
01:51:45.239 --> 01:51:50.800
a k as. You know, my new my new a

1856
01:51:50.880 --> 01:51:55.079
KS fentanyl Sanel just taking the world.

1857
01:52:00.079 --> 01:52:05.039
M hm yeah, good night, all right, good night, good night,

1858
01:52:05.760 --> 01:52:08.159
good night. I always remember, always remember that at some

1859
01:52:08.279 --> 01:52:15.199
point this might hurt, good night everybody. Later, h