Aug. 7, 2024

We Think It Needs To Be Said! Real Talk!!.....Just Sayin...

We Think It Needs To Be Said! Real Talk!!.....Just Sayin...

Someone had to talk about it. Cheating, Relationships, 3somes, it's all discussed. As well as some other stuff. Just Sayin!!!

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Someone had to talk about it. Cheating, Relationships, 3somes, it's all discussed. As well as some other stuff. Just Sayin!!!

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The Banker Banker and Bunner.

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And to.

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Bert, Hey, what's up everybody? This big cold young or

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this might her podcast come to you live from. I

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don't know where the fuck were live from, you know

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how it is, can't give you the location, but if

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you know, you know.

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So.

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Anyway, it's been a week since our last episode. Last

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week it was Dubs a down and Lady G we're live.

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We're still waiting on them to show up, you know

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what I'm saying, just waiting on them to to get here,

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so we can, you know, fully start what the fuck

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with li is? We're gonna start talking about whatnot? Well,

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I can start, I can start personally. I mean, I

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can start talking to my ship now. I don't need

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any of them to start talking about ship. But what

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I wanted to discuss today, my own personal topic was

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about It's about, you know what I'm saying, parenting mothers

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and fathers. You know what I'm saying. There are there

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are many women out there that you know, are single mothers.

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More power to you guys, you know what I'm say saying.

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And there are single fathers. More power to the bros

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out there that are taking care of their kids.

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You know.

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But the thing is is that there are a lot,

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and I say a lot of women doing this shit

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on their own, you know what I mean. Like, there

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are tons of women single mothers out there doing you know,

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pulling double duty, you know what I mean. And what

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sucks about that is that men aren't out there taking

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care of their kids. You know what I'm saying. Men

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aren't out there taking care of their kids. And what

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sucks about that shit is that me personally, I feel

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that every child, whether it be a girl or a boy,

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deserves to have that male role model in their lives.

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It's important, you know what I'm saying. It's very important.

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Hold on one second. My co host Doves aka Signing

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Phoenix is in the building. Hold on one second. Let

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me get them in here. You're yo, You're good. Okay,

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mister Phoenix, you're good. I don't hear you. If you're

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saying anything, Well, anyway, you fix that problem. I'm gonna

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get back to what I was talking about. So I

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feel personally that am i yo yo, Doves can hold

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on a minute. Man, anybody out there right now, can

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you hear me? Can you guys hear me? Or am

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i am i? Speaking into it or like nobody can

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hear me? Can somebody type in the chat box? All right?

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All right, thank you, Debbie. I appreciate it. Loud and clip,

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thank you, Heather, appreciate it. Thank you very much. I

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thought I was because I can't hear doubs right now,

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So I don't know what. I just wanted to make

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sure I could be heard. But but yeah, so that

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that that's that's what yo. Hold on, yo, I can't

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hear him. I'm not gonna. I can't. I can't hear you, bro,

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you're on he says. It says that your MIC is working,

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but I can't hear you. Yeah, they can't hear you.

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All right, he's gone. Anyway, Back to what I was saying,

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I feel personally that whether it be a girl boy,

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they need that male positive role model in their lives,

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you know. And it's it's I think more so for

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the for for the boys, because I think at some point,

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you know, mothers lose control of their sons. And what

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I mean by that is, you know, when a kid

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gets older and bigger, what is the mother possibly gonna

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do to scare him or or make him feel like

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he needs to listen or some tragic ship is going

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to happen to him because he could just look. He

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could be a big kid, look at mom and be like, Mom,

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smack me or you want it's not gonna bother me

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no more, you know what I'm saying. Or Mom, do

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whatever you gotta do to me. It's not it's not

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affecting me, you know what I'm saying. But when it happened,

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But when the kid has that male figure in his life,

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you know, he's able to come in and he's able

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to to teach that kid things that a woman can't.

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Women say they could do that ship and they talk

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about how they talk about how they talk about and

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I can repeating myself, but they talk about how they

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can do everything a father can do. No, you can't.

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You can't. You can't do everything a man can do

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for for for for a son. You know what I'm saying.

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I mean, there is there there are conversations that have

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to be had with with with with with a son

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that only a father can have, you know, And that's

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my opinion, to be honest, that's my opinion. You can

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go ahead and we can agree to disagree, and you

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can talk all the ship you want to talk, but

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I honestly feel and I honestly think, old on, yo, No,

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all right, can't he saw that I can't hear, so

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I personally think it can't be done. You can. You

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can talk all the ship you want about whatever the

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fuck I'm saying. But in all honesty, every child needs

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a male figure in his life or her life, because

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there's also things that a man can teach a little girl,

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because I personally think a father is a girl's first

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true love. You know what I mean, A girl, a

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little girl's father is her first true love. What conversations

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will look Oh, this is a good one, Heather, all right.

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What conversations will a guy have that a woman can?

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All right, well, hold on, this is kind of blurry.

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Let me just get the camera to look into my eyes.

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So all right. One conversation that definitely that definitely a woman,

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a kid, a son, a boy would take more seriously

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from a man is the birds and the bees and

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the conversation where you have to have, the conversation you

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have to have when it comes to sex and pregnancy

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and doing shit he shouldn't be doing with women at

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a young age. And you know, a son will take

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that conversation a lot more serious if it came from

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his pops or someone he looked up to, because you

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can have that conversation with everybody, but they're not always

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going to pay attention and listen. You know what I'm saying.

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You have to get them at the right time. You

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know what I'm saying. I mean, are you You're right?

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It's all about respect, But what if they don't respect you?

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That's the thing. It's about the It's about having the

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conversation at a point in their lives when you still

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have that that not control, but you still have that

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that meaning to them. You know what I'm saying, Like,

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you mean something to them. You're their mother, but you

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you once you lose what once you get a kid

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that that becomes a man, He's not gonna want to

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have that conversation with you. He's not gonna feel comfortable

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having that conversation with you. You know what I'm saying. Why? Why?

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Why is a teenage boy gonna want to talk about

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sex and fucking and and pregnancy and shit like that

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with his mom? You know what I mean? And and

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and it's true, it is about the respect you have

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for the child. The child has for the mother. But

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you know all I mean in my opinion, I mean,

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who I don't want I don't want to have that conversation.

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I didn't want to have that conversation with my mother. Yo,

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I can hear me now, Yes, I hear you now, sir. Yeah, man,

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I have to be started like it took me a minute.

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I had to restart the you know my stuff, Yeah, yeah,

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your stuff. So you're listening to the conversation.

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Right, no hear anything?

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Yeah? So anyway, what I was saying, you can just

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you can just cat you can just pick up where

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where where I'm at right now. So that's a conversation.

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That's a conversation I didn't want to have with my mother.

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Why would I want to have that kind of conversation

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with my mother? Why do I want to talk to

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her about sex and fucking and pregnancy and and what

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happens when when ship like that happens. You know what

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I mean. I don't want to have those kinds of

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conversations with my mother. I'd rather have them with my pops,

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because my pops is a man and he understands, you

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know what that kind of you know what all that

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ship entails. You know what I mean, I don't want

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to have that conversation with my mother, not me. I

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mean my mother was my mother was that was that woman.

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You know what I'm saying. I mean, you can talk

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to her about whatever, but there's just some things I

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would feel a little uncomfortable talking to her mother about,

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you know. So that's that's something that that I think

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a dude should handle with handle when it comes to

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teenage boys, you know. And and to be honest with you,

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I'll be honest with you. I had. I had the conversation.

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I had that conversation with all my kids. You know

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what I'm saying. I mean that was because I'm that dude,

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like I went ahead and I talked about I was.

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I had no I had no qualms talking about that

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that ship with any of the kids, and I have

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them with the grandkids if I have to. If my

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kids came to me and said, listen and this is

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a conversation I don't want to have and you have

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it for us, yeah, I fucking have the conversation. I can.

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I don't give a shit. They need to know the man.

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I told myself, I love bro, look at me. Look

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what I have to deal with with your mom. Look

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what I have to go through with your sister's mom.

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This is not the life the same the life you want.

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So wrap that ship up. Don't make don't make me

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a grandfather. You know what I'm saying. At this age

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right now, you know what I mean. Don't you know?

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Like you got too much? You know, we got way

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too much going on. Now, if you do happen on

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you know, score one for the home shoot up the club.

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Let's score for the home team. Then that's you know

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what I'm saying. Make sure it's gonna be so many

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you're gonna be with for you know now, not just

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for the night, but for like, you know, a very

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long time, because the last thing you want to do

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is go to court and they'll you know saying and

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deal with extra drama. And that's why I told him. Yeah,

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so I think I think it listened pretty well.

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Yeah, he's he's a good he's a good kid man.

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He's not he's not gonna give you no problems. But

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check it. You can see that. You can see the

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chat log right.

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Depends what we're talking about.

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The one, the one that that's on the screen, so

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have it disagrees if you only had your mother around,

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you have you have to have the conversation with her. Yeah,

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all of them, all right, So I don't know what

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that means, all of them, but I hear, I hear, but.

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I under understood what she's saying because like because like

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you know what I'm saying, Like mom, books is like

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more of the prevalent, you know what I'm saying, more

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of the a close parent. So that conversation, I'm that

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conversation came a lot more with your mom than deal

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with your dad, even though PA was like a phone

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call away and stuff. So all right, like like like me,

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you know what, I bypassed both my parents because you

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know what, the old school and ship. I went to

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my oldest brother, God rest the soul, you know what

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I'm saying. Like besides that, you know what I mean?

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I remember that was one time I got caught by

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my mom because my brother snissed on me, my older brother.

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He sniffed on me because I was, like, you know,

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using a room like my mom like you don't bust

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through the door whatever, you know, and the fall fall, Yeah, bro,

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she just saw like ash cheeks up in the air,

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you know what I mean? Like just pounding out taking

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you know what I'm saying, taking them. You know, the

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girl palm twn and stuff, and you know with the

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Jamaican accents. She's like, oh my god. I was like

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I turned around, like oh ship and started laughing because

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I caught it. That shows embarrassing.

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Yeah, I can imagine. I can I can imagine what

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she did after the fact. She she'd be wanting to

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smack the shadow you regardless.

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She can't do nothing though nothing. I think we need

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to have a talk.

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Yeah, all right, diet hydration water. But anyway, but back

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to what I was saying, Like I said, the conversation

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could be had with anybody, but it should be done

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with teenage boys. It should be done with their dads

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or anybody that they feel is a positive role model,

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like somebody can count on, somebody they can trust, because,

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like I said, like if a kid, if a teenage kid,

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you know, and it's disrespectful to his moms or doesn't

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doesn't listen, or is or is you know, a fucked

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up kid. His mom's his mom's going to be like

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his mom, all right, what the hell is going on here?

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His mom is going to be I don't know what's

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going on with your ship?

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Bro? Bro? You know not? You know what? I hit

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the wrong button. That's what happens.

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So his mom is going to try and discipline him.

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She's going to try and and do what she's gonna do,

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but it's gonna end up happening. He's gonna look at

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her and be like, you don't what am I? What

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are you supposed to be doing to me? You know

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you can't, you can't affect. You not gonna hurt me,

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you know what I'm saying. Apparently at some point he's

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gonna be able to man handle his mom if he's

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a bad kid. That's why they need male reinforcement. She

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needs an a team that's going to come in and

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handle the shit if the kid gets out of control.

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You know what I'm saying. The thing that's fucked up

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too is besides, besides the whole sexual talk bullshit, I

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think more men need to step up and take care

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of their kids because they have kids out there something

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they might not even know, even their kids, but they

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need to step up and handle what is they need

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to do with their kids. Man, there's too many kids

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out there, room in the streets, not knowing you know,

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who dad is, or or dad not being involved in

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their lives. You know what, You know how good it

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feels when you're a little kid little league, you hit

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a home run. You look at the stands and you

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got your pops and your mom's there cheering you on.

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You know what I'm saying. When you score that first

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touchdown as a football player, you see your dad and

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your mom's your dad, whoever the fuck whatever, whatever positive

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male role model you have in your life is sitting

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there cheering you on. You know what I'm saying. I mean,

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that'sh It's important.

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To you know what, even even you know like like

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you know, you as a kid getting in trouble and

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your father comes into school for you to like, you

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know what I'm saying, This settles a difference. You're muted, bro,

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Yeah I had to I sneezing. Oh what do you

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call it? You know, even that part like you know

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what I'm saying because I remember. I remember, like you know,

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getting into fights in school and stuff, and like my

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mom was always in school, you know what I'm saying,

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and like my dad was always at work. So I

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told my dad what was happening. You know, He's like,

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could you beat him up? And I'm like, that's why

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I'm in trouble. Okay, to school for you tomorrow. Like, Yo,

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do you know how good that ship felt? You know

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what I'm saying, Like, y, but but.

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Your moms wouldn't do your moms wouldn't do it like

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that though.

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That's not because not not because yo, because like yo,

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you know what like like all right, you know what

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you know back in the day when when you know

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what they did with child abuse now, it was like

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tough love, you know, like right, tough love was allowed

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in school, like you know, like whenever my mom came in,

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you know, whatever the teacher told her, I was getting

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slapped at the end of the day in front of

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the class, you know, like they're like, damn, your mom

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slapped the ship out of you. And then I guess

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she's did as a fucking adult man, Like like yo,

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you know, so like so like you know, like like like, yo,

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you know what, even even when my dad would come

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to school for me, you know, even stuff like that, Like, yo,

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you know what, I know what I'm saying. Like literally

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my dad was there football tryouts. He was there, you

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know it was football. He was there. Even when I

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was getting in trouble, he was there, you know, like right,

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like you know, like like you know what I'm saying.

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Like the reason why I the reason why I bring

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up the bad part is because you know what I'm saying,

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Like you know what I'm saying As a father, I'm

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dead for my son, good or bad, you know, like absolutely,

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Like yo, you know what, Like my son was in

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grammar school, was getting bullied and kept off and like

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you know, I can't want to tell me until he

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finally told me. And I'm like, yo, I looked around,

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you know, to make sure it wasn't His mom was around.

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I was like, come here. I'm like, next time you

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come telling me that you got bullied, I'm gonna fuck

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you up myself. But why that's because I don't want

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to hear that ship that you got bullied. I'm like,

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what you're gonna do is if the kid hits you tomorrow.

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You know what I'm saying, what his ask But but

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I'm gonna get in trouble I have, don't worry put

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it on my tab. I'll go to school for you.

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You know what I'm saying.

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I Yo. The following day, his mom calls me up,

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talking about I gotta go to school for it for

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your son because your son, you know, threw some kid

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over a table and this that and third. I'm like, okay,

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I mean, you know what, just go to work. I

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worked the afternoons. I'll go to school from you know

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all they're talking about, you know, pressing charges and this

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that and the third. I'm like, all right, that's not

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a problem, you know. Like his mom was like, you know,

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like going the rodic about it. Me. I was just like,

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not a problem, you know what I'm saying, Like like, yo,

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you know what, because at the end of the day,

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when it comes to my kids, if I have to

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go to school for them, it's gonna be you know

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what I'm saying, It's gonna be the find that war

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really went down, right. That's one. Secondly, if a kid

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deserved it, I'm gonna say it right to your fucking face,

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you know what. I'm saying, the kick out what he got.

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You know what I'm saying, he got with, he sucked around,

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he found out pabot. Now, you know, if the parents,

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you know what I'm saying, if the parent would have

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you know, got out of line or whatever, Like if

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the kid's father would have got on the line, you know,

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I would have put him back in this place after

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you know what I'm saying, after we walked out of school,

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I would have punt some right in his jaw right

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after right after that. Fuck it. Let him know, like

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father like son. You know what I'm saying, Apples don't

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fall far from the tree, right, you know, violence is

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the American way, you know. Now I'm just playing man.

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But yeah you don't, Yeah, don't don't. Yeah, but but

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but but.

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But but but yo, but yo, all jokes aside though,

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you know, like I had to, you know what I'm saying,

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like like, you know, like the mother and the dad

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was complaining. Look at the sides of him, and you know,

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look at I'm like, yell, I'm like, Josh, what happened?

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Because like because you know, like my son had had

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you know what I'm saying, he had a paper trail

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I was like, you know what, he went to the

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teacher said that, you know, this kid was bothering him.

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They start calling, listening and this stand and there he

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try to do it the way his mom taught him,

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just go to the teacher and bro, and I'm telling him,

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I'm like, Yo, that's not gonna fly out here. I'm like,

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we live in an urban area and you think this

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shit's gonna fly right? Oh, but he's doing to buy

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the rules. I'm like, Bro, I'm like, yo, those rules

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don't apply out here. They doing they don't like because

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I'm because guaranteed this teacher ain't gonna be protecting them

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at three o'clock in the afternoon, right, I'm like, I'm like,

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you know what, you know what. I told him to

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take a stand, and that that's why he did. Oh,

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but he's gonna get suspended, you won't. He had a

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paper trail, you know, Like I told him. I'm like, yo,

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you know what, if he bothers, you be prepared. You

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know what I'm saying, whoop his ass? Do what you

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gotta do? What happens if I heard him? Oh wow,

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you heard him? Me heard him? Right, you know? And

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then and I specifically remember looking at looking at my

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son and telling him this, if he dies, he dies. No,

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I'm dead serious. Like I remember, bro, I remember telling

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my son that, you know what I'm saying, because like,

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you know, you know, to break the ice a little bit,

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because like my son was mad, you know, like like

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you know what, Josh, if he dies, he dies, yeah,

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you know, so like the following day, you know, you know,

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like they were picked up my son to day, I

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was like, you know, because I told him, I said, Yo,

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you know what, the ring leader, make an example out

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of him. That's who that's who you target first, the

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ring leader. You make an example out of him, and

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then you work your way down. So my son just

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picked them, you know what I'm saying, Like they clicked

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his there, my son got up right, they started calling

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him names or whatever, so that my son just grabbed

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a cad by his shirt because you know, like you know,

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my son's a big kid and just we you know

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what I'm saying. If human tossing challenge like in the Olympics,

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you know what I'm saying, mhm, who shot put him?

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He shot put him over the desk. He hurt himself, right,

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all the time, like, oh my god, the teacher was

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right there. But to see the thing is he did

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in front of the teacher right which was which was

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you know, which was in a smart move? But then

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again that's my son because I used to do it

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in front of the future. But but you know what

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I'm saying, But no, not thinking about no type of

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consequences after that, absolutely, and I wasn't in the following day,

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you know, parents complaining or whatever. There was a rot

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you know what I'm saying, there's like a paper trail

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of my son, like, you know, trying to do the

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right thing. I'm like, you know, and I was like, yeah,

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I'm like, your son tried to believe my son. You know.

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It's like, oh, but you know, they could have been

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ways of talking now like they could have been. But

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but I think we're past that, you know, like like

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you know, that's the reason why we're here. We're past

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that pastor talking point.

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Well, the thing is nowadays, nowadays they want everybody to

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talk it out. It's not like it used to be

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where everything, you know, throw your hands and you know

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everybody's throwing hands and ship. But nowadays you gotta they

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gotta have a meeting. Parents gotta come in and kids

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gotta be like and you know, they gotta have a

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mediator and all this other stuff and everything. She's understandable

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because you know, nobody wants their kids.

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Nobody wants to nobody wants their kids on you know,

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on on Twitter getting they asked for me.

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Hold on one second.

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Because you know what now, like you know what, these

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fies to go on viral, right, and I'm like yelly,

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And there's been you know, there's been some stories that

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you know what I'm saying, like like these fights going

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viral and the person that got bullied, the person that

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got bullied and all that, they the kids in the

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commit suicide. Like I don't want that, no kid. I

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don't want that for no kid, right, you know I

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don't want that for my kid. I don't want that

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for you know what I'm saying for the next person's kid.

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I don't want that ship.

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All right? So have it said that I mentioned that

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a boy at some point might not respect his mother,

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but that could be said also for a girl and

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their dad's too.

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It's yo, it's not that you know what I'm saying,

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we don't respect our moms. Is that we can't connect

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to our moms, you know what I'm saying, because our

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moms can't teach us how to be money, you know

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what I mean? Like like, yo, you know what you

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imagine me? Imagine you know what I'm saying talking to

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my mom about me having a wet dream? How does

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that sound? Hey? Mom, I was dreaming something and milk

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came out of my peepee. Oh stop, I'm saying, like, Yo,

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how does that sound? Though?

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Bro?

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Like no, I'm serious, Like Yo, how does that sound?

468
00:30:47.319 --> 00:30:47.480
Yo?

469
00:30:47.599 --> 00:30:49.599
Like like Yo, I can't talk to my mom about

470
00:30:49.640 --> 00:30:50.880
you know what I'm saying. I couldn't never talk to

471
00:30:50.920 --> 00:30:56.000
my mom my wet dream ship. My dad would be like, whoa,

472
00:30:56.480 --> 00:30:58.799
you're a man now. You know what I'm saying. You know,

473
00:30:58.920 --> 00:31:02.240
like my dad would just give like those short explanations. Right,

474
00:31:03.519 --> 00:31:12.640
you're a man now, enjoy you know, like I had

475
00:31:12.680 --> 00:31:14.920
to tell my brother because you know what I'm saying,

476
00:31:14.920 --> 00:31:18.720
like my like my like if anything, like my brother

477
00:31:18.799 --> 00:31:20.480
was like the bridge and the gold, you know what

478
00:31:20.519 --> 00:31:20.839
I'm saying.

479
00:31:20.839 --> 00:31:23.839
The go between check out check out the comment on

480
00:31:23.880 --> 00:31:29.160
the screen, which is true.

481
00:31:32.480 --> 00:31:36.480
Stronger and anti building for court. Yeah it should be

482
00:31:38.720 --> 00:31:39.440
you know because like.

483
00:31:41.200 --> 00:31:44.440
Because because you know what, at first, at first I

484
00:31:44.519 --> 00:31:46.039
used to be like, yeah, you know what, these kids

485
00:31:46.039 --> 00:31:47.680
are soft. You're often you know what I'm saying, you're

486
00:31:47.720 --> 00:31:51.480
underliving yourself over you know what I'm saying over little comments.

487
00:31:51.640 --> 00:31:57.000
But then again, it's not that they're soft, because you

488
00:31:57.039 --> 00:31:59.519
know what, I have to think about it. I'm like,

489
00:31:59.519 --> 00:32:02.000
you know what, back you know what I'm saying, Like

490
00:32:02.119 --> 00:32:04.720
back when I went to school and stuff, if someone

491
00:32:04.839 --> 00:32:08.079
if someone was getting bullied, it was only until three

492
00:32:08.119 --> 00:32:12.720
o'clock and that's it. You know what I'm saying. You

493
00:32:12.319 --> 00:32:13.839
don't you know what I'm saying. You went home, there

494
00:32:13.920 --> 00:32:18.720
was a grace period until the following day. Then you

495
00:32:18.759 --> 00:32:21.400
know what I'm saying, Like like, that's what it was.

496
00:32:21.480 --> 00:32:26.720
That was it? Like nowadays, like these kids are getting

497
00:32:26.720 --> 00:32:31.720
bullied like you know, in school on social media. You

498
00:32:31.759 --> 00:32:34.759
know what I'm saying that, you know what I'm saying, Like,

499
00:32:35.319 --> 00:32:41.440
it's it's relentless. It's relentless. Yeah, it happened like like

500
00:32:41.440 --> 00:32:43.240
like you know what, even if you know, even if

501
00:32:43.279 --> 00:32:46.680
you block them on social media, right, there's always gonna

502
00:32:46.680 --> 00:32:48.960
be someone that's gonna be passing the pictures. Yo, Yo,

503
00:32:49.279 --> 00:32:52.400
there was this you this happened to you. You know

504
00:32:52.480 --> 00:32:54.599
it's gonna be there. Like the screen shops. You get

505
00:32:54.599 --> 00:32:59.640
to see the screen shops, it's like, ah, you know

506
00:32:59.680 --> 00:33:06.720
what I mean. Like it's bad, bro, it's bad, all right.

507
00:33:06.799 --> 00:33:09.960
So check this ship out. So check it so real quick.

508
00:33:12.480 --> 00:33:15.519
I think this comment right here was towards the wet

509
00:33:15.599 --> 00:33:25.200
dream statement you just right, and then then came and

510
00:33:25.359 --> 00:33:28.839
it was this one. So a single father can't raise

511
00:33:28.839 --> 00:33:35.720
his daughter alone. Look personally, I think once again whether

512
00:33:36.000 --> 00:33:38.680
whether it's it's a woman that would be.

513
00:33:38.559 --> 00:33:41.759
That you know what, you know what, you know what,

514
00:33:42.079 --> 00:33:45.359
any any you know, any single parent could raise the

515
00:33:45.400 --> 00:33:48.559
opposite you know what I'm saying, the opposite sex and gender,

516
00:33:48.559 --> 00:33:49.480
whatever you want to call it.

517
00:33:50.519 --> 00:33:54.200
But there's certain there's certain things, like you know what

518
00:33:54.200 --> 00:33:56.799
I'm saying, like a single father raising a daughter, there's

519
00:33:56.799 --> 00:34:01.160
certain things that my mother could instill, like that nurture

520
00:34:01.200 --> 00:34:03.400
that you know what I'm saying, That that motherly nurture

521
00:34:03.440 --> 00:34:08.119
that a father can't do, right and and and like

522
00:34:08.159 --> 00:34:11.159
you know what, and when it comes to like raising

523
00:34:11.159 --> 00:34:14.199
a son, a woman can't teach a son how to

524
00:34:14.239 --> 00:34:18.719
really be a man, you know what I'm saying, Like

525
00:34:18.719 --> 00:34:20.039
like you know what, like us, you know what I'm saying,

526
00:34:20.039 --> 00:34:21.280
like we need you know what I'm saying, Like we

527
00:34:21.320 --> 00:34:23.119
could we could hear about it, but we need prime

528
00:34:23.159 --> 00:34:28.480
examples in our faces exactly. So I think So what

529
00:34:28.559 --> 00:34:29.320
I like.

530
00:34:29.239 --> 00:34:33.079
I said, like I was trying to say, it could

531
00:34:33.119 --> 00:34:36.239
be whether it be with a father with a daughter,

532
00:34:36.280 --> 00:34:40.320
a mother with a son, at some point, the opposite

533
00:34:40.360 --> 00:34:43.920
sex is going to be needed in that relationship at

534
00:34:43.920 --> 00:34:46.840
some point to teach certain things to.

535
00:34:48.320 --> 00:34:53.760
Like all right, so all right, yah, can I say

536
00:34:53.760 --> 00:34:58.320
something real quick? Yeah, to add on to that, if

537
00:34:58.840 --> 00:35:04.199
I was you know, like when what you know what,

538
00:35:04.320 --> 00:35:08.639
like when when that man's daughter you know what I'm

539
00:35:08.679 --> 00:35:13.159
saying has a first period? You know what I mean.

540
00:35:13.280 --> 00:35:15.159
It's the same thing like a man having you know

541
00:35:15.159 --> 00:35:18.440
what I'm saying, the boy having a wet dream and

542
00:35:18.480 --> 00:35:25.719
ship it's embarrassing. Who are going to turn to? You

543
00:35:25.760 --> 00:35:31.000
know what? I pretty much doubt that. You know, she's

544
00:35:31.000 --> 00:35:33.599
gonna run to her dad and be like, Daddy, I'm bleeding,

545
00:35:35.280 --> 00:35:40.119
you know what I'm saying, And and get that and

546
00:35:40.280 --> 00:35:42.079
the father, you know what I'm saying, give like that

547
00:35:42.199 --> 00:35:48.079
motherly nerd saying that motherly explanation and ship you see

548
00:35:48.079 --> 00:35:48.639
what I mean? All right?

549
00:35:48.719 --> 00:35:50.920
So pete, so pete, game you know, check this shut out,

550
00:35:51.000 --> 00:35:53.880
check it out. This is for all the mothers out

551
00:35:53.880 --> 00:35:58.679
there that are listening right now that don't have daughters

552
00:35:59.360 --> 00:36:03.599
that have had at their period yet. This is gonna

553
00:36:03.599 --> 00:36:07.440
sound a little crazy, but just just listen to me.

554
00:36:10.159 --> 00:36:14.239
This is what I did for my daughters, all right.

555
00:36:15.840 --> 00:36:18.440
This is what I did. Maybe he left because you

556
00:36:18.440 --> 00:36:20.719
didn't want to hear what I had to say. I

557
00:36:20.800 --> 00:36:24.559
don't know, but this is what I did. Hold on

558
00:36:24.639 --> 00:36:28.599
he's back. So what I did was what.

559
00:36:30.159 --> 00:36:33.039
Man, My queen is so sensitive.

560
00:36:33.039 --> 00:36:36.000
Man, yeah, so hold up. So this is what I did.

561
00:36:36.079 --> 00:36:40.480
What I did was I created what is called a

562
00:36:40.679 --> 00:36:45.119
first time kid for my daughters. So if this is

563
00:36:45.199 --> 00:36:48.000
for your moms, your dads, whoever was listening to have

564
00:36:48.119 --> 00:36:54.599
daughters that are young, get a small pencil box, right

565
00:36:56.840 --> 00:37:03.199
and be creative with it, you know. But inside this

566
00:37:03.280 --> 00:37:10.360
pencil box, put a pad, some feminine wipes, and a

567
00:37:10.400 --> 00:37:15.960
pair of drawers and explain to them what each of

568
00:37:16.000 --> 00:37:23.559
them is for. Put it inside the pencil box, tape

569
00:37:23.599 --> 00:37:26.039
it up, rub a band it up, whatever it is

570
00:37:26.079 --> 00:37:29.239
to keep it sealed and closed, and give it to

571
00:37:29.320 --> 00:37:36.159
them to put in their backpack. Okay, Now, when the

572
00:37:36.199 --> 00:37:41.159
time comes for them and they get their period in school,

573
00:37:42.760 --> 00:37:45.199
you let them know that all they gotta do is

574
00:37:45.280 --> 00:37:49.559
raise their hand and say, listen, miss whatever or miss

575
00:37:49.639 --> 00:37:51.880
or whatever, I gotta go to the bathroom, go to

576
00:37:51.960 --> 00:37:57.480
the nurse's office. Let them go, explain what they gotta do.

577
00:38:00.760 --> 00:38:04.559
And they do it. And this is the first time kid,

578
00:38:05.159 --> 00:38:09.639
so they just have they have the pads, the feminine wipes,

579
00:38:09.679 --> 00:38:13.079
and a pair of drawers extra draws in there. Go

580
00:38:13.119 --> 00:38:16.119
to the school, do what you gotta do, ate your hand,

581
00:38:16.159 --> 00:38:18.239
don't make a stink out of it. You know what

582
00:38:18.280 --> 00:38:22.719
I'm saying. Be cool, be easy, and just go about

583
00:38:22.719 --> 00:38:25.840
your business. You don't need to get up and go

584
00:38:25.960 --> 00:38:30.039
crazy because sometimes kids, sometimes girls like they they are bleeding.

585
00:38:30.079 --> 00:38:31.679
They don't know why the hell they're bleeding. They're like,

586
00:38:31.719 --> 00:38:34.000
oh my god, Like what the hell? You explain it

587
00:38:34.039 --> 00:38:38.039
to them, This is what's up. Do what you gotta do,

588
00:38:39.679 --> 00:38:46.360
and go about your business. First time kid, every girl

589
00:38:46.400 --> 00:38:50.280
needs one, So make one. Be creative with that ship.

590
00:38:52.199 --> 00:38:54.920
Oh and and like you know what I'm saying for

591
00:38:55.360 --> 00:39:00.840
the dudes, but you know, yes, sons or whatever, give

592
00:39:00.880 --> 00:39:03.639
them condoms because you know what, as much as you

593
00:39:03.639 --> 00:39:06.480
don't want your you know, you know, like none of

594
00:39:06.599 --> 00:39:11.920
us want our kids to like grow grow up because

595
00:39:11.960 --> 00:39:14.960
like you know what, like my son is, like he's

596
00:39:15.079 --> 00:39:19.440
gonna be what twenty two this year, still my baby boy,

597
00:39:22.599 --> 00:39:23.039
all right.

598
00:39:23.039 --> 00:39:26.320
Not pnies, my bad pennies, my.

599
00:39:27.760 --> 00:39:30.639
My own what you call it. My oldest daughter's gonna

600
00:39:30.639 --> 00:39:35.679
be twenty this month, still my baby. And then I

601
00:39:35.760 --> 00:39:39.280
have a one year old that's my real baby, right.

602
00:39:39.800 --> 00:39:43.519
But I always look at them as as like as

603
00:39:43.599 --> 00:39:45.280
like you know, they're the size of my daughter the

604
00:39:45.360 --> 00:39:49.000
labor one right now, regardless of what you know, I

605
00:39:49.079 --> 00:39:50.519
look at them that way. But I don't treat them

606
00:39:50.519 --> 00:39:59.000
that way though. Yeah, all right, parent parenthood in the nutshell.

607
00:39:59.800 --> 00:40:05.079
Yeah yeah, well, I mean you know, it's it could

608
00:40:05.119 --> 00:40:09.159
be tough, it can it gets, It gets tough every

609
00:40:09.199 --> 00:40:10.440
once in a while being a parent.

610
00:40:10.519 --> 00:40:17.119
Man, I just think, yeah, it never ends. It never ends,

611
00:40:17.239 --> 00:40:23.679
like like like you know what, like like like the

612
00:40:24.639 --> 00:40:27.719
little baby she starts, she's starting to display like you know,

613
00:40:29.280 --> 00:40:32.280
like you know what I'm saying, like a temper and

614
00:40:32.360 --> 00:40:33.960
I'm like, oh Jesus Christ.

615
00:40:34.480 --> 00:40:36.840
Oh look you know what. Girls, girls already talking amongst

616
00:40:36.840 --> 00:40:40.400
themselves amongst one another, and sometimes they already know what

617
00:40:40.519 --> 00:40:44.239
to expect. Yeah, it's it's true. And that's the ship

618
00:40:44.320 --> 00:40:46.800
with kids these days. Man, with social media and everything,

619
00:40:47.480 --> 00:40:50.239
they're way they're way the hell yeah, they're way ahead

620
00:40:50.239 --> 00:40:53.159
of and all that stuff. Yeah, they're way ahead of ship.

621
00:40:54.039 --> 00:40:57.719
But you know what, like like you know what, like.

622
00:41:00.079 --> 00:41:04.880
With when you know, like with social media, right, it

623
00:41:04.960 --> 00:41:07.559
made these kids a lot more advanced, if you will,

624
00:41:08.360 --> 00:41:09.599
like you know what I'm saying, Like you know what

625
00:41:09.599 --> 00:41:14.440
I'm saying, intelligence wise, but it also exposes them to

626
00:41:14.559 --> 00:41:16.400
a lot you know what I'm saying, a lot of

627
00:41:16.480 --> 00:41:19.440
shit that you know that like you know what I'm saying,

628
00:41:19.480 --> 00:41:21.519
like like could have been you know what I'm saying,

629
00:41:21.559 --> 00:41:24.360
Like like all right, like with us, right, we started

630
00:41:24.440 --> 00:41:27.800
knowing how the world was like when we were teenagers

631
00:41:27.840 --> 00:41:29.679
because you know what, we started getting exposed to it.

632
00:41:29.760 --> 00:41:32.199
But it was like a gradual thing, you know what

633
00:41:32.199 --> 00:41:34.280
I'm saying. You know, it's like all right, all right,

634
00:41:34.320 --> 00:41:37.920
you know what. Imagine you at the beach, right all right,

635
00:41:38.760 --> 00:41:45.119
but yeah, seaside before Sandy hit, when you walked into

636
00:41:45.159 --> 00:41:50.639
the water, you gradually walked in and like like you

637
00:41:50.800 --> 00:41:53.920
gradually went you know, like deep, like you just kept

638
00:41:53.960 --> 00:41:58.400
on falling in, right, That's how you know, we got

639
00:41:58.480 --> 00:42:01.360
exposed to the world growing up. We were we were

640
00:42:01.440 --> 00:42:05.400
gradually walk into the water whatever. And like the first

641
00:42:05.480 --> 00:42:07.360
we walked like you know what I'm saying, It was

642
00:42:07.440 --> 00:42:09.679
like gradually coming up until we were like you know

643
00:42:09.719 --> 00:42:11.039
what I'm saying, up to the you know what I'm saying,

644
00:42:11.079 --> 00:42:14.760
up to our chest of water seaside. Now you walk

645
00:42:14.800 --> 00:42:18.440
into the water, you go from being ankle deep, take

646
00:42:18.440 --> 00:42:21.320
a few steps you need deep, take one step that

647
00:42:21.360 --> 00:42:24.320
you ankle deep, but then ankle deep again and you

648
00:42:24.440 --> 00:42:26.400
take a couple of steps and like it's like a

649
00:42:26.599 --> 00:42:31.119
fall off and that's what yeah, you know, and that's

650
00:42:31.199 --> 00:42:35.000
what these kids, you know what I'm saying. It's like

651
00:42:35.119 --> 00:42:40.119
right now, through social media, it's like you can control

652
00:42:40.119 --> 00:42:43.840
you you can parental control everything you want, but you

653
00:42:43.960 --> 00:42:47.800
don't really have control because they're gonna find a way

654
00:42:47.880 --> 00:42:50.360
to like back door that ship. Yeah you know what

655
00:42:50.360 --> 00:42:55.039
I'm saying. If if they're not doing it, they're friends,

656
00:42:55.039 --> 00:42:56.719
and their friends will find the way to the back door.

657
00:42:57.719 --> 00:42:57.880
You know.

658
00:42:58.039 --> 00:43:00.039
So it's like so it was like.

659
00:43:02.920 --> 00:43:05.559
So it's like these kids like around ten to eleven.

660
00:43:06.320 --> 00:43:10.639
I'm ten to eleven years old. You know, they they

661
00:43:10.719 --> 00:43:12.639
pretty much know how to pick a gun apart because

662
00:43:12.639 --> 00:43:14.320
you know what I'm saying, they saw that shit on YouTube.

663
00:43:17.079 --> 00:43:19.000
You know, I didn't learn how to pick a gun

664
00:43:19.039 --> 00:43:26.519
apart till I went to the army. Yeah, so so

665
00:43:26.679 --> 00:43:30.079
you know what, like like you know what I'm saying,

666
00:43:30.119 --> 00:43:33.360
Like with these kids, man, like, you know what, they

667
00:43:33.400 --> 00:43:35.199
were more you know what I'm saying, Like these kids

668
00:43:35.280 --> 00:43:38.159
like today, they're more advanced than what we were, you know,

669
00:43:38.320 --> 00:43:42.639
like kids like fourteen years old today or who we

670
00:43:42.800 --> 00:43:47.679
were when we were seventeen. You know what I'm saying,

671
00:43:47.920 --> 00:43:51.280
Like these kids are advanced, but yet they're not mature

672
00:43:51.400 --> 00:43:54.079
enough to, you know what I'm saying, to handle all that.

673
00:43:55.400 --> 00:43:58.960
That's the thing they think they are. They assume that

674
00:43:59.079 --> 00:44:02.199
they can handle whatever because they see whatever. You know

675
00:44:02.199 --> 00:44:05.320
what I'm saying, that they can handle what they see.

676
00:44:05.880 --> 00:44:08.880
But once that ship happens, once they're in a situation

677
00:44:09.000 --> 00:44:13.159
where they they're they're in a position that it's happening,

678
00:44:13.719 --> 00:44:16.079
they don't know how to deal with it and happen.

679
00:44:18.719 --> 00:44:22.559
Yo, Yo, Like they don't what end up happening is

680
00:44:22.639 --> 00:44:26.440
man Like, they fumble so bad, right, And it's like

681
00:44:28.039 --> 00:44:29.480
and it's like, yo, you know what. It's like, Yo,

682
00:44:29.559 --> 00:44:31.559
you know what, Like like you're watching these kids fumble,

683
00:44:31.599 --> 00:44:35.199
and like they don't you know what I'm saying. They

684
00:44:35.280 --> 00:44:39.719
think it's the right way because like, like what social

685
00:44:39.800 --> 00:44:41.840
media did, you know what I'm saying. Another thing too,

686
00:44:42.320 --> 00:44:44.519
what social media did, like you know, YouTube and all

687
00:44:44.559 --> 00:44:47.440
that stuff. What they did was like it really made

688
00:44:47.599 --> 00:44:50.239
these kids into zombies in a way because they're following,

689
00:44:50.440 --> 00:44:53.639
they following trends instead of like following their own conscience.

690
00:44:54.880 --> 00:45:00.239
You see what I mean. Yeah, So it's like so

691
00:45:00.320 --> 00:45:02.639
it's like you know what the social media was out

692
00:45:02.679 --> 00:45:04.400
when you and when you and I were like you know,

693
00:45:05.519 --> 00:45:11.159
fourteen fifteen years old, right, you know what I'm saying,

694
00:45:11.239 --> 00:45:13.480
Like we will be hooked on the biggest drug in

695
00:45:13.519 --> 00:45:21.760
the world called cloud because like we'll be recording every

696
00:45:21.840 --> 00:45:27.480
stupid shit that we did, incriminate in jail, incriminating, incriminating

697
00:45:27.559 --> 00:45:31.320
like a mother of the tube bro, Like be in jail, bro, exactly.

698
00:45:31.679 --> 00:45:33.280
You know what I'm saying. And like, Yo, you know what,

699
00:45:33.360 --> 00:45:35.239
that's what I'm saying, Like these kids don't know you

700
00:45:35.280 --> 00:45:36.760
know what I'm saying, Like it made them smart, but

701
00:45:36.840 --> 00:45:41.559
it made them more stupid if that even makes sense.

702
00:45:42.199 --> 00:45:46.480
Not what I'm saying, it does, it does, and you

703
00:45:46.559 --> 00:45:49.639
know what, and you know what though, like like you

704
00:45:49.719 --> 00:45:51.360
know what and all honestly, you know what I'm saying,

705
00:45:51.400 --> 00:45:54.400
Like it's easy to blame the parent, but you're going

706
00:45:54.440 --> 00:45:56.320
to blame the parents so far. You know what I'm saying.

707
00:45:56.519 --> 00:45:57.920
At some point, you know what I'm saying. You know

708
00:45:57.960 --> 00:45:59.599
what I'm saying, the first or first and foremost is

709
00:45:59.599 --> 00:46:01.920
the kids. You know what I'm saying, Oh, it was

710
00:46:01.960 --> 00:46:04.360
the parent, bro, Like, like yo, you know what, you

711
00:46:04.440 --> 00:46:06.199
could you could try to lock down your kids as

712
00:46:06.280 --> 00:46:07.639
much as you want and going to find a way

713
00:46:07.679 --> 00:46:13.400
to rebel. We've done it absolutely, you know, Like like yo,

714
00:46:13.480 --> 00:46:16.840
you know what. Like like I was like, like I

715
00:46:16.920 --> 00:46:19.119
read some ship a couple of weeks ago about some

716
00:46:19.239 --> 00:46:21.960
fourteen year old got killed at three in the morning.

717
00:46:22.239 --> 00:46:24.559
But there was like this was like around my nephew's

718
00:46:24.599 --> 00:46:28.480
way down in Texas, and like I'm like, damn, fourteen

719
00:46:28.480 --> 00:46:29.679
at three in the morning. What the hell are you

720
00:46:29.800 --> 00:46:31.760
doing out there at three in the morning. So everybody

721
00:46:31.800 --> 00:46:34.840
was blaming with their parents whatever. Yeah, yeah, you know

722
00:46:34.880 --> 00:46:37.239
what I'm saying, like, you know what, he got killed.

723
00:46:37.840 --> 00:46:43.039
He got killed right like around his house, like he

724
00:46:43.159 --> 00:46:45.280
was like whatever he was coming back from they shot

725
00:46:45.320 --> 00:46:46.000
and killed him.

726
00:46:47.519 --> 00:46:47.679
Right.

727
00:46:48.519 --> 00:46:51.519
And it's like, oh, you know, you could blame the

728
00:46:51.599 --> 00:46:54.000
parents and all you want or whatever. Come to find

729
00:46:54.039 --> 00:46:55.239
out that this kids. You know what I'm saying, The

730
00:46:55.320 --> 00:47:01.199
kids knuck out the house. You see what I mean? Yeah, man,

731
00:47:02.039 --> 00:47:04.599
he's the kids snuck out the house. You know what

732
00:47:04.599 --> 00:47:07.400
I'm saying, Like, you know what I mean, Like the

733
00:47:07.480 --> 00:47:10.440
mother didn't know, you know what I mean. So it's

734
00:47:10.480 --> 00:47:14.679
like it's like, yo, you know what, we could blame

735
00:47:14.719 --> 00:47:17.519
the parents all we want, but at the same time,

736
00:47:17.639 --> 00:47:19.039
at some point, you know what I'm saying, like that

737
00:47:19.119 --> 00:47:20.679
has to be a limited way you blame the parents

738
00:47:20.719 --> 00:47:25.239
are because the kids gonna do what the kid's gonna

739
00:47:25.239 --> 00:47:26.719
find a way to do what they want to do.

740
00:47:26.760 --> 00:47:34.079
Regardless, absolutely, And I think I think it has to

741
00:47:34.199 --> 00:47:38.440
do a lot with what they see, you know, online now,

742
00:47:38.880 --> 00:47:41.480
you know what I'm saying. They see kids out there

743
00:47:41.599 --> 00:47:43.679
running the streets doing whatever the fuck they want to do,

744
00:47:43.800 --> 00:47:47.000
and then when you know they go out there trying

745
00:47:47.039 --> 00:47:48.719
to do that, it's the same ship they end up

746
00:47:48.760 --> 00:47:51.199
getting fucked up and knowingly that.

747
00:47:51.320 --> 00:47:54.760
Bro. It's like so it's like, you know what, another

748
00:47:54.840 --> 00:47:56.639
thing too. You know what I'm saying, It comes down,

749
00:47:56.760 --> 00:47:58.880
you know what I'm saying to like the point where

750
00:47:58.920 --> 00:48:00.519
like these kids, you know what I'm sayings are scared

751
00:48:00.559 --> 00:48:03.519
to discipline the kids because they trying to catch the

752
00:48:03.599 --> 00:48:04.400
CPS charge.

753
00:48:04.920 --> 00:48:08.039
I tell you what, though, I hold up, Hold up,

754
00:48:08.639 --> 00:48:13.480
I'll tell you what if if if kids want to

755
00:48:13.480 --> 00:48:18.079
play that ship, be by all means play that ship.

756
00:48:18.679 --> 00:48:21.639
You want to play the CPS card. Let's see how

757
00:48:21.719 --> 00:48:25.199
much better your life is gonna be after you call CPS.

758
00:48:25.360 --> 00:48:30.920
Me trying to discipline you into learning a lesson. You

759
00:48:31.079 --> 00:48:33.119
call CPS, and you see how much better your life

760
00:48:33.239 --> 00:48:37.280
is gonna be? I double dog dare your ass? Play

761
00:48:37.480 --> 00:48:41.400
the fucking game and see what the fuck happens? Yeah,

762
00:48:41.559 --> 00:48:44.239
call them, call them, you want to call them, Call

763
00:48:44.320 --> 00:48:48.599
them because I tell you what. Let's see how fast

764
00:48:48.639 --> 00:48:51.639
you'll be begging to come home and how fast should

765
00:48:51.639 --> 00:48:54.960
be begging for me to forgive and forget?

766
00:48:56.960 --> 00:49:06.639
Absolutely absolutely, I mean yo, you know what, I really

767
00:49:06.679 --> 00:49:08.639
thought diapers was like a radio station.

768
00:49:09.159 --> 00:49:10.679
I didn't know what diapers was until you know what

769
00:49:10.679 --> 00:49:12.440
I'm saying like my freshman year.

770
00:49:18.320 --> 00:49:22.239
Yeah, it's true. It's true. And and you know what,

771
00:49:22.480 --> 00:49:27.480
just with any relationship, communication and understanding is key. You

772
00:49:27.599 --> 00:49:30.639
understand what I mean, whether it's it's it's it's it's

773
00:49:30.880 --> 00:49:34.679
with your kids, with your spouse, with your with your lady,

774
00:49:34.760 --> 00:49:40.039
with your dude, whoever it is, open communication and understanding

775
00:49:40.159 --> 00:49:41.159
is always important.

776
00:49:41.840 --> 00:49:44.199
Yes, I always communicate with my penis. I'm like, I'm

777
00:49:44.239 --> 00:49:46.280
gonna beat I'm gonna beat you today and you're gonna

778
00:49:46.360 --> 00:49:46.519
like it.

779
00:49:47.760 --> 00:49:48.199
Stupid.

780
00:49:48.880 --> 00:49:51.119
That's how you openly communicate with yourself as well.

781
00:49:52.400 --> 00:49:57.079
Stupid. But anyways, anyway, what I.

782
00:49:57.119 --> 00:49:59.199
Mean, you know, the picture of me beating myself is

783
00:49:59.280 --> 00:50:01.480
like just as close as black on black crime.

784
00:50:02.760 --> 00:50:03.239
Anyway.

785
00:50:06.360 --> 00:50:13.920
Oh yeah, yo, you know what you know what Yo? Like, Yeah,

786
00:50:14.440 --> 00:50:16.199
I'm just like you know what I'm saying to just

787
00:50:16.320 --> 00:50:17.559
have to like you know what I'm saying, joke about

788
00:50:17.559 --> 00:50:22.239
it because like because like yo, you know, like like

789
00:50:22.280 --> 00:50:23.400
you know what I'm saying, Like these you know what

790
00:50:23.400 --> 00:50:25.000
I'm saying, these kids are really you know what I'm

791
00:50:25.000 --> 00:50:26.639
saying that, you know That's the reason I like I'm

792
00:50:26.679 --> 00:50:29.880
headstrong about my baby girl going on going to MMA,

793
00:50:30.440 --> 00:50:32.840
because you know, what and she has to defend herself

794
00:50:32.880 --> 00:50:38.599
in school, right, and it's going to it's basically like

795
00:50:38.679 --> 00:50:41.679
a twenty V one. She's gonna hurt fifteen of them.

796
00:50:41.719 --> 00:50:44.320
I'd rather hurt her fifteen of them and get jumped

797
00:50:44.360 --> 00:50:45.880
or whatever. But like they'll be like, yo, you know what,

798
00:50:46.039 --> 00:50:48.199
Oh yo, this girl got jumping. Yo. She was rocking

799
00:50:48.239 --> 00:50:50.719
and this, that and the third instead of her getting jumped,

800
00:50:50.760 --> 00:50:52.440
and she's like, you know, I'm saying all up on

801
00:50:52.519 --> 00:50:56.000
the ground or whatever, and they circulating that all over

802
00:50:56.039 --> 00:51:00.440
the internet. You know what I'm saying NonStop, and you

803
00:51:00.519 --> 00:51:02.199
know what I'm saying, and like this you know what

804
00:51:02.199 --> 00:51:04.159
I'm saying, and then bullying her and all that ship

805
00:51:04.239 --> 00:51:08.400
you see what I mean. Yeah, So it's like so

806
00:51:08.480 --> 00:51:11.000
it's like, yo, you know what I'd rather, you know

807
00:51:11.000 --> 00:51:13.639
what I'm saying. I'd rather I'd rather my daughter get

808
00:51:13.679 --> 00:51:17.000
in trouble for defending herself, you know what I'm saying,

809
00:51:18.079 --> 00:51:24.199
then not defend herself and get you know what I'm saying,

810
00:51:24.400 --> 00:51:27.840
besides the physical attack of emotional and the mental ship,

811
00:51:28.639 --> 00:51:30.199
you know what I'm saying that comes behind that.

812
00:51:30.880 --> 00:51:34.599
So to close to close out this topic, I'm going

813
00:51:34.679 --> 00:51:39.079
to say this take care of your fucking kids. People,

814
00:51:40.519 --> 00:51:49.480
communicate with them, understand them, try to put yourself in

815
00:51:49.599 --> 00:51:55.519
their shoes because their generation and our generation are completely different.

816
00:51:57.280 --> 00:51:59.559
So it's kind of like having to dumb down a

817
00:51:59.599 --> 00:52:02.840
little bit it in order to understand what the fuck

818
00:52:02.960 --> 00:52:04.760
is going on with these kids these days.

819
00:52:05.559 --> 00:52:09.880
Actually, you know what it's like, in a way, we

820
00:52:09.960 --> 00:52:12.000
have to dumb down, but like you know what I'm saying,

821
00:52:12.000 --> 00:52:14.920
we have to dump down. It's it's a give or

822
00:52:14.920 --> 00:52:17.559
take with them, you know what I'm saying, Like, we

823
00:52:17.760 --> 00:52:21.519
have to dumb down to them, but we have to

824
00:52:21.599 --> 00:52:24.239
also level up to you know what I'm saying, to

825
00:52:24.320 --> 00:52:25.159
the new ship that they're on.

826
00:52:26.800 --> 00:52:30.280
I think our generation adapts pretty easily or pretty well

827
00:52:30.440 --> 00:52:33.440
compared to some other generations, you know what I'm saying.

828
00:52:33.519 --> 00:52:37.239
I mean, I think I think we've we've adapted somewhat

829
00:52:37.760 --> 00:52:40.559
to what's going on these days, you know what I'm saying.

830
00:52:40.960 --> 00:52:44.519
But still you still need an open line of communication.

831
00:52:44.880 --> 00:52:48.679
With Look, man, we're not called the lost generation for

832
00:52:48.800 --> 00:52:51.280
no reason. You know what I'm saying. We want to

833
00:52:51.440 --> 00:52:54.079
we want to stay lost, you know, don't wake us up.

834
00:52:54.400 --> 00:52:54.920
Don't do that.

835
00:52:55.519 --> 00:52:57.320
No, no, no, you don't want to wake up and.

836
00:52:58.880 --> 00:53:01.440
You know what, man, Like you're from a generation. You

837
00:53:01.440 --> 00:53:03.639
know what I'm saying, our generations the pitto me a

838
00:53:03.719 --> 00:53:06.559
fuck around and find out that's right, you know, like

839
00:53:07.119 --> 00:53:09.679
like you know, like like you know what our generations

840
00:53:09.719 --> 00:53:13.199
depitted me of. Oh you're talking ship right now? You

841
00:53:13.239 --> 00:53:15.440
know what I'm saying. I'll see you later on same

842
00:53:15.519 --> 00:53:20.960
day delivery ship like Amazon, you know, like bro on site.

843
00:53:21.519 --> 00:53:22.840
Thank you know what I'm saying. They didn't care who

844
00:53:22.920 --> 00:53:25.119
you was with. You could be walking with your mom.

845
00:53:25.760 --> 00:53:28.199
You're not getting that grace period. Man. I'm coming to

846
00:53:28.199 --> 00:53:32.199
see you. Spell my name right, I'm spell my. You

847
00:53:32.199 --> 00:53:33.760
know what I'm saying. If you're gonna call my name,

848
00:53:33.800 --> 00:53:36.159
spell my name right, I'm coming to dinner, you know,

849
00:53:36.360 --> 00:53:39.800
like hm, like, don't don't wake us up, man, You

850
00:53:39.880 --> 00:53:42.400
know we hurt faces and feelings at the same time.

851
00:53:44.000 --> 00:53:44.239
Yeah.

852
00:53:45.599 --> 00:53:50.079
No, And then and another thing too. Our Our roast

853
00:53:50.159 --> 00:53:55.400
game is impeccable, you know, like when you're getting roasted

854
00:53:55.440 --> 00:53:57.639
by you know, when you're like ten years old getting

855
00:53:57.719 --> 00:54:00.519
roasted body your twenty year old cousin and ship right,

856
00:54:02.320 --> 00:54:04.000
you know what I'm saying, Like, Yo, you learned, Yo,

857
00:54:04.079 --> 00:54:08.880
you you learn to have thick skin. Yeah, you know

858
00:54:08.920 --> 00:54:11.559
what I mean, Like, like, yo, you know what I think.

859
00:54:11.599 --> 00:54:13.960
You know what I'm saying. Like our generation, you know

860
00:54:13.960 --> 00:54:16.039
what I'm saying, our skin is just as tough as

861
00:54:16.559 --> 00:54:19.000
a skin of a honey badger and a freaking rhinoceros

862
00:54:19.039 --> 00:54:19.559
put together.

863
00:54:20.679 --> 00:54:26.039
Yeah, that is true. So I want to move on

864
00:54:26.199 --> 00:54:30.880
to the next the next topic real quick. We just

865
00:54:30.960 --> 00:54:33.880
talked about, you know, parents and the kids, taking care

866
00:54:33.880 --> 00:54:37.199
of your kids, making sure you understand your kids, making

867
00:54:37.320 --> 00:54:40.840
sure you communicate with your kids, making sure.

868
00:54:40.719 --> 00:54:44.039
You're hold on wait wait wait wait wait real quick. Wow,

869
00:54:44.519 --> 00:54:49.920
anybody listenings you know was a Florida, that there's a Florida,

870
00:54:50.079 --> 00:54:52.800
because if they do. You know what I'm saying, I'm

871
00:54:52.840 --> 00:54:55.360
glad you're listening right now because you went through that hurricane.

872
00:54:56.039 --> 00:54:59.199
Even though it was small. Hurricane is a hurricane. Period.

873
00:55:00.639 --> 00:55:02.079
Shout out to you guys for surviving that.

874
00:55:02.960 --> 00:55:04.800
Yeah, shout out to the floor of the peeps.

875
00:55:05.760 --> 00:55:07.760
Yeah, because we're about to wear that shit this weekend.

876
00:55:08.360 --> 00:55:16.480
Yeah. Yeah, it's crazy. So so, like I said, understanding

877
00:55:16.480 --> 00:55:22.880
your children, fucking appreciate well, you know that you got

878
00:55:22.960 --> 00:55:25.800
good kids. If you have good kids, you know, keep

879
00:55:25.840 --> 00:55:29.559
the open lines of communication flowing back and forth, and

880
00:55:29.800 --> 00:55:33.440
hopefully you know you don't strangle your kid.

881
00:55:33.840 --> 00:55:37.159
You no apparent reason, don't homelessips in your kid.

882
00:55:37.239 --> 00:55:39.639
Man, Yeah, you don't want an homeless You don't want

883
00:55:39.800 --> 00:55:40.920
homeless zips in your kid.

884
00:55:41.559 --> 00:55:45.199
He's been choking that child for thirty years. Yo. We's CPS. Yeah,

885
00:55:45.199 --> 00:55:47.960
I know at every entry he's choking his ship out

886
00:55:48.000 --> 00:55:49.480
that child. Where's CPS at bro?

887
00:55:50.679 --> 00:55:50.920
Yeah?

888
00:55:51.159 --> 00:55:53.119
So the next thing I wanted to talk about is

889
00:55:53.239 --> 00:55:58.920
dumb uh, some dumb parents. So we all know that

890
00:55:59.079 --> 00:56:01.719
Deadpool will drop last week?

891
00:56:01.880 --> 00:56:02.000
Right?

892
00:56:03.679 --> 00:56:04.960
Yeah, you know that.

893
00:56:06.400 --> 00:56:11.719
I hold hold on before I continue. Let's read this.

894
00:56:22.360 --> 00:56:26.920
That is true, very true, that is true. But see

895
00:56:27.559 --> 00:56:30.920
but but see, but see, like some parents, like they

896
00:56:31.000 --> 00:56:32.800
have a parent, they have a problem because they want

897
00:56:32.800 --> 00:56:35.639
to live by carriage and do their children's lives. I

898
00:56:35.840 --> 00:56:37.960
was one of them. But then I realized, I'm like,

899
00:56:38.039 --> 00:56:41.000
you know what, my son is not me. You know,

900
00:56:41.239 --> 00:56:44.159
he may be of me, but he's not me. Like

901
00:56:44.760 --> 00:56:47.519
I try to put him in football, right, and you

902
00:56:47.599 --> 00:56:49.719
know what, he was pretty good at it. I'm like,

903
00:56:49.800 --> 00:56:54.039
all right, that's what's up. That's what's up. But I

904
00:56:54.079 --> 00:56:56.400
remember I asked him one day I'm like, I'm like,

905
00:56:56.559 --> 00:56:58.199
you like playing football. He's like, yeah, I guess so

906
00:56:58.239 --> 00:57:00.320
I'm like, what do you mean you got so because

907
00:57:00.320 --> 00:57:04.360
you like it? And that's when I realized. I'm like,

908
00:57:04.400 --> 00:57:05.880
you know what, you ain't got to play. You ain't

909
00:57:05.880 --> 00:57:08.000
got to play. If you don't, then you get mad

910
00:57:08.039 --> 00:57:09.920
at me. I want you to don't want you to

911
00:57:10.000 --> 00:57:14.000
do you he caught the football team the following day.

912
00:57:14.960 --> 00:57:17.159
I was even mad, right.

913
00:57:18.840 --> 00:57:22.599
Yeah, I mean, you want to see your kids be better,

914
00:57:22.920 --> 00:57:24.719
You want to see your kids do better. You want

915
00:57:24.719 --> 00:57:27.880
to see your kids succeed. You know what I'm saying.

916
00:57:27.960 --> 00:57:30.920
I mean all all of my all of my kids

917
00:57:31.639 --> 00:57:37.239
are successful kids. They're successful adults. You know what I'm saying.

918
00:57:37.960 --> 00:57:42.519
They're all great at what they do, you know, and

919
00:57:43.000 --> 00:57:45.199
I'm proud of them all. You know, I'm proud of

920
00:57:45.239 --> 00:57:49.880
them all. But hold up really quick, so dumb parents,

921
00:57:51.880 --> 00:57:53.920
you know, we got I got. I saw a video

922
00:57:55.519 --> 00:58:00.239
about a mother complaining about the Deadpoolverreen film. She said

923
00:58:00.280 --> 00:58:02.480
she took her kids, she took her kids to go

924
00:58:02.679 --> 00:58:10.800
see it, and you know, she was horrified by what

925
00:58:12.039 --> 00:58:14.400
she saw, what she heard and what, you know, the

926
00:58:15.000 --> 00:58:18.239
tone of the film and everything. The first to hold

927
00:58:18.280 --> 00:58:25.880
the hold up, Hold up, So I say, first of all,

928
00:58:27.679 --> 00:58:29.840
have you ever even watched a Deadpool film before?

929
00:58:30.039 --> 00:58:32.400
That's what I was about to say. Br That's what

930
00:58:32.480 --> 00:58:35.079
I was about to say. Do you not look at

931
00:58:35.519 --> 00:58:36.840
do you not look at the ratings?

932
00:58:40.840 --> 00:58:44.239
You know what I'm saying, over what the fuck are

933
00:58:44.280 --> 00:58:47.519
you doing bringing your kids to go see a dead

934
00:58:47.559 --> 00:58:51.360
Pool movie? Not not not realizing what you were getting

935
00:58:51.400 --> 00:58:52.400
them motherfuckers into?

936
00:58:53.519 --> 00:58:56.119
You know what I'm saying, what like like you know what?

937
00:58:56.480 --> 00:59:01.119
First off, you know what I'm saying, that's not that's

938
00:59:01.159 --> 00:59:05.000
personally rated our movie in the Marvel universe. And it's

939
00:59:05.079 --> 00:59:08.280
like that for a reason, I mean, write his comic book,

940
00:59:08.519 --> 00:59:10.840
you know what I'm saying, Like comic book. His comic

941
00:59:10.880 --> 00:59:12.400
book is borderline rated. R.

942
00:59:14.440 --> 00:59:14.599
Now.

943
00:59:15.239 --> 00:59:18.400
Also, I don't like, you know, we don't talk religion,

944
00:59:19.199 --> 00:59:23.920
we don't talk politics. But this movie got some Christians

945
00:59:24.280 --> 00:59:28.039
out in uh uh in an uproar all because he

946
00:59:28.199 --> 00:59:36.199
said I'm the Messiah, I'm Marvel Jesus. Okay, he says

947
00:59:36.320 --> 00:59:39.440
that in the film. Now you got all the Christians

948
00:59:39.519 --> 00:59:41.480
and all the Catholics and all the real, the real

949
00:59:41.559 --> 00:59:45.440
religious people saying it's blasphemous don't go see the movie.

950
00:59:46.599 --> 00:59:49.599
First of all, if you went to go see the

951
00:59:49.719 --> 00:59:59.079
film not knowing that he says that he said in

952
00:59:59.199 --> 01:00:06.119
the trailer, he said it in almost every single it was,

953
01:00:06.199 --> 01:00:08.960
it was shown in every single clip, almost every single

954
01:00:09.000 --> 01:00:11.719
clip that you know, but spoke about the movie.

955
01:00:12.519 --> 01:00:14.960
But but but but look, you know what, these are

956
01:00:15.000 --> 01:00:16.280
the same people that you know what I'm saying, Oh,

957
01:00:16.280 --> 01:00:19.719
don't go see the movie, but we'll watch the super

958
01:00:19.760 --> 01:00:23.239
Bowl halftime show, which you know what I'm saying, that's

959
01:00:24.039 --> 01:00:29.440
that's that's all right. So I gotta say that that,

960
01:00:29.679 --> 01:00:32.519
you know what, they're not opened their mouths about that,

961
01:00:33.400 --> 01:00:34.880
but they want to open their mouth about you know

962
01:00:36.400 --> 01:00:40.559
about what that's who said, you know what I'm saying.

963
01:00:40.639 --> 01:00:47.599
I mean, it's it's like this, right if you you

964
01:00:47.639 --> 01:00:50.039
know what I'm saying, don't pick one thing when you

965
01:00:50.239 --> 01:00:53.599
when you're done saw other things and you're not opening

966
01:00:53.639 --> 01:00:55.239
your mouth about that thing, but you want to open

967
01:00:55.280 --> 01:00:57.199
your mouth about this thing. You see what I mean?

968
01:00:57.960 --> 01:01:00.599
Like like you know what, Like I get where they're

969
01:01:00.599 --> 01:01:03.079
coming from, you know what I'm saying, how like it

970
01:01:03.199 --> 01:01:08.079
is blasphemiths and all that stuff, But don't you can't

971
01:01:08.119 --> 01:01:10.440
pick and choose though, like you can't pick. You know,

972
01:01:13.480 --> 01:01:15.159
you can't pick. You know what I'm saying, like, all right,

973
01:01:15.199 --> 01:01:18.079
you know what, I'm gonna protest this today, but this

974
01:01:18.239 --> 01:01:21.440
happened yesterday. But I kind of enjoyed the show, you

975
01:01:21.480 --> 01:01:22.679
know what I'm saying, like, don't do that.

976
01:01:23.719 --> 01:01:30.800
Also, also, let's let's talk about that I think was

977
01:01:30.960 --> 01:01:36.480
the opening ceremonies of the Olympics something where they had

978
01:01:37.199 --> 01:01:39.280
the Last Supper? Did you did you hear about that?

979
01:01:39.960 --> 01:01:41.320
Yeah, I've seen it, you know what I'm saying. But

980
01:01:41.519 --> 01:01:43.760
but but but yo, you know what it wasn't It

981
01:01:43.920 --> 01:01:46.840
wasn't really that it was like some some Greek god

982
01:01:46.880 --> 01:01:49.239
because like Homeboy was a blue skin and I'm like,

983
01:01:49.360 --> 01:01:50.639
wait a minute. You know what I'm saying, that's not

984
01:01:50.760 --> 01:01:53.519
the last seppling by some Homeboy and blue Skin, like

985
01:01:54.199 --> 01:01:56.400
it's like some Norse god or something like Greek god

986
01:01:56.519 --> 01:01:59.480
or whatever. Right, I mean, I mean, you know what,

987
01:02:00.079 --> 01:02:02.360
I'll give it to the Greeks because you know what

988
01:02:02.400 --> 01:02:05.800
they got at the boydlevels on that side, right Socrates

989
01:02:05.880 --> 01:02:08.639
play though, you know, like you know what I'm saying,

990
01:02:08.679 --> 01:02:09.840
like I'll give it. You know what I'm saying. I

991
01:02:09.960 --> 01:02:13.159
believe it's more that, you know what I'm saying, of

992
01:02:13.280 --> 01:02:17.960
that mythology than anything else. But but like you know

993
01:02:17.960 --> 01:02:20.559
what I'm saying, like even yo, you know what, even

994
01:02:20.679 --> 01:02:23.199
that was kind of like, you know, kind of weird

995
01:02:23.239 --> 01:02:25.400
as fuck to me. All right, you know what I'm saying.

996
01:02:25.440 --> 01:02:33.079
So real quick, something positive flavor. Flave sponsored the women's

997
01:02:33.960 --> 01:02:37.800
polo team water polo team. Did you hear about that?

998
01:02:38.639 --> 01:02:39.800
Oh? Word, that's what's up.

999
01:02:40.360 --> 01:02:43.079
Yeah, they weren't going to be able to be in

1000
01:02:43.119 --> 01:02:47.400
the Olympics, but he sponsored the men's and women's water

1001
01:02:47.480 --> 01:02:49.920
polo teams so they can get into the Olympics and play.

1002
01:02:53.400 --> 01:02:58.039
So he's he's the he's the their official spokesman, so

1003
01:02:58.199 --> 01:02:58.599
to speak.

1004
01:02:59.199 --> 01:03:01.760
So and they're gonna give him a golden clock.

1005
01:03:04.559 --> 01:03:10.800
Word, a golden clock. That's funny. So now that we've

1006
01:03:10.880 --> 01:03:18.360
discussed a couple of things, I want to ask hold.

1007
01:03:18.199 --> 01:03:21.760
On real quick, I mean, are we doing? Are we

1008
01:03:21.840 --> 01:03:26.119
going to the game this Saturday? I'll swim over there.

1009
01:03:26.159 --> 01:03:28.000
I don't care, I will swim.

1010
01:03:28.360 --> 01:03:30.159
We'll have to. We'll have to see your weather man.

1011
01:03:30.320 --> 01:03:32.960
I would swim. You know what, Go go gadget car.

1012
01:03:33.079 --> 01:03:37.679
My car will turn into a boat. I'll swim over there. Demit,

1013
01:03:38.239 --> 01:03:40.599
you don't know me, you don't know.

1014
01:03:43.320 --> 01:03:44.199
Oh, what's to say here?

1015
01:03:44.400 --> 01:03:44.800
Some of them?

1016
01:03:44.880 --> 01:03:58.719
Morgan too word yeah see yeah, awesome, Bro, that's pretty

1017
01:03:58.760 --> 01:04:01.840
cool that daddy did that. And he's doing that all right.

1018
01:04:02.000 --> 01:04:09.360
So I want to pose a question to our listeners

1019
01:04:09.440 --> 01:04:12.679
right now. Not pose a question, but I want to know,

1020
01:04:16.639 --> 01:04:19.000
all right, I want to know.

1021
01:04:19.840 --> 01:04:25.440
Give all right.

1022
01:04:27.000 --> 01:04:30.320
From a topic out there, give us a give us

1023
01:04:30.360 --> 01:04:32.519
a question something you guys want to hear us talk

1024
01:04:32.559 --> 01:04:38.880
about something whatever, it doesn't matter what it is, and

1025
01:04:39.039 --> 01:04:46.159
we'll we'll go ahead. And and I think that, yeah,

1026
01:04:46.320 --> 01:04:47.199
that's somebody's got I.

1027
01:04:47.199 --> 01:04:50.679
Want to know something, you know, you know what. I

1028
01:04:50.800 --> 01:04:53.400
think it's gonna be a very like like you know what,

1029
01:04:53.480 --> 01:04:56.679
I got football on my mom right now, and I

1030
01:04:56.719 --> 01:04:59.800
think it's gonna be a very interesting season, you know,

1031
01:05:00.079 --> 01:05:07.320
like and all in all realness, like the Giants, like

1032
01:05:07.320 --> 01:05:09.760
you know what I'm saying, the front of it looks dangerous.

1033
01:05:11.960 --> 01:05:15.960
They got Brian Burns on one end and I can't

1034
01:05:15.960 --> 01:05:18.079
pronounce his name, Kevon Thibodeaux at the other end. Then

1035
01:05:18.119 --> 01:05:19.440
you got dust Lawrence in the middle.

1036
01:05:21.559 --> 01:05:23.280
I don't give a fuck about the Giants, bro.

1037
01:05:23.920 --> 01:05:25.880
Now, I'm just not not I'm just saying the defense,

1038
01:05:26.440 --> 01:05:27.840
the defense won't look you know what I'm saying. The

1039
01:05:27.840 --> 01:05:30.639
defense looked a little dangerous, you know what I'm saying, Like,

1040
01:05:30.880 --> 01:05:31.599
I'm not gonna lie.

1041
01:05:32.599 --> 01:05:33.599
Okay, you know, like.

1042
01:05:36.039 --> 01:05:38.719
I mean my boys, you know what I'm saying. My

1043
01:05:38.840 --> 01:05:44.000
boys look good on paper. But she's about getting it together.

1044
01:05:44.920 --> 01:05:47.239
I'm telling you, bro, if the Jets win the Super Bowl, Man,

1045
01:05:48.480 --> 01:05:50.480
and you're gonna hear about like two hundred and eighty

1046
01:05:50.559 --> 01:05:54.239
five pounds dudes streaking the ship down Kennedy Boulevard was arrested,

1047
01:05:56.400 --> 01:05:58.800
that would be me wearing the Jets jersey like yeah,

1048
01:05:58.880 --> 01:06:06.000
Rudy champions, mm hmmm. You know. But I'm also prepared

1049
01:06:06.079 --> 01:06:09.239
to like put in my last one in testament that

1050
01:06:09.360 --> 01:06:11.000
I want all the best places to be at my funeral,

1051
01:06:11.079 --> 01:06:16.000
so they could let me down one more time. Put around.

1052
01:06:16.079 --> 01:06:19.599
I'll tell you what, though, their window is closing, b

1053
01:06:20.199 --> 01:06:23.679
I mean, be real about it. I mean, how are

1054
01:06:23.679 --> 01:06:27.039
they gonna I think they can only go as far

1055
01:06:27.079 --> 01:06:29.800
as Rogers takes them, because then if it doesn't work

1056
01:06:29.880 --> 01:06:33.039
with him, they're gonna have to put it back and

1057
01:06:33.159 --> 01:06:34.239
that's going to be a problem.

1058
01:06:34.440 --> 01:06:38.679
Or or or you know what, it's either drop the

1059
01:06:38.760 --> 01:06:42.159
quarterback or sign a free agent because you know what

1060
01:06:43.079 --> 01:06:46.800
they got the piece. Yeah, you know what they got

1061
01:06:46.840 --> 01:06:51.440
pieced Yo, Garret Wilson. You know what I'm saying, saut

1062
01:06:51.559 --> 01:06:54.119
Guard that like the defense is there?

1063
01:06:59.039 --> 01:07:02.559
All right? I understand, I get what you're saying. So

1064
01:07:05.480 --> 01:07:06.800
all right, So I guess.

1065
01:07:08.199 --> 01:07:10.920
The defense is there, bros. Like it's like you know

1066
01:07:10.960 --> 01:07:13.639
what I mean, Like the just can go as far

1067
01:07:13.719 --> 01:07:18.239
as either Aaron Rodgers take them or Breist Hall's legs

1068
01:07:18.280 --> 01:07:23.920
take them, right, But then you know there's others like

1069
01:07:26.400 --> 01:07:27.360
we got Brother Hall of.

1070
01:07:27.360 --> 01:07:33.800
Them not for nothing. But I think I think I

1071
01:07:33.840 --> 01:07:37.840
don't know what happened to l A. G. You know

1072
01:07:37.840 --> 01:07:41.639
what I'm saying. She she ain't. She can't message nothing.

1073
01:07:42.239 --> 01:07:44.920
I know everything is good. I know TG is at

1074
01:07:44.960 --> 01:07:48.320
a conference, a diversity.

1075
01:07:48.920 --> 01:07:51.760
The ethnic cleansing conference, the end of that.

1076
01:07:52.440 --> 01:07:57.599
The Diversity Console Congress fucking Counsole some ship I don't know,

1077
01:07:58.639 --> 01:08:01.719
meeting or conference or some ship I don't.

1078
01:08:01.519 --> 01:08:04.800
Know somewhere Ladies is probably you know I'm saying, fell

1079
01:08:04.840 --> 01:08:10.199
out early today. Yeah, probably a long day of something.

1080
01:08:11.760 --> 01:08:14.639
I could have been, could have been that. Not the

1081
01:08:15.719 --> 01:08:20.560
lady gee yeah, that's yeah, probably that's probably what happened.

1082
01:08:21.560 --> 01:08:28.159
But you know, uh so, like I said, I I posed,

1083
01:08:28.199 --> 01:08:31.119
I posed. You know, if anybody want to talk about something,

1084
01:08:32.319 --> 01:08:34.239
you know, anybody got a topic they want us to

1085
01:08:34.319 --> 01:08:43.199
discuss right now, feel free, you know, because all right,

1086
01:08:43.560 --> 01:08:49.239
I guess not so good. Yeah, it's all right. I

1087
01:08:49.399 --> 01:08:52.359
understand we got shy people out there. I don't want

1088
01:08:52.399 --> 01:08:54.960
to but I'm blast. Don't want to be put on blast.

1089
01:08:55.079 --> 01:08:59.279
But I get it. I understand, you know, like so

1090
01:08:59.479 --> 01:09:01.279
good in the wow.

1091
01:09:01.479 --> 01:09:03.800
But but but but yo, you know what though, like

1092
01:09:06.199 --> 01:09:08.840
like you know what you reminds you that I'm getting old, bro,

1093
01:09:09.520 --> 01:09:12.680
it's one of my favorite rappers are dying. Oh no,

1094
01:09:14.760 --> 01:09:16.479
you know what I'm saying, like like you know, like

1095
01:09:16.680 --> 01:09:19.119
like rappers like you know that, you know. When I

1096
01:09:19.199 --> 01:09:20.920
was younger, I'm like, yo, you know what, I want

1097
01:09:20.960 --> 01:09:24.079
to spit bars like this dude right here, you know,

1098
01:09:24.239 --> 01:09:26.560
like and then all of a sudden, you know, like

1099
01:09:26.640 --> 01:09:31.399
for instance, Rappacino itself mm hmmm, like he passed away.

1100
01:09:31.399 --> 01:09:33.680
I was like, oh hell no, I was like, I

1101
01:09:33.800 --> 01:09:35.199
was just yo. I was listening to one of his

1102
01:09:35.279 --> 01:09:39.640
albums a couple of days ago, you know, was like

1103
01:09:40.600 --> 01:09:44.079
and it's like damn, you know what I'm saying, like, like, hell,

1104
01:09:44.119 --> 01:09:45.239
you know what, we're getting old? Bro?

1105
01:09:46.279 --> 01:09:47.119
Who's getting old?

1106
01:09:47.880 --> 01:09:48.159
You know?

1107
01:09:49.079 --> 01:09:51.279
I'm getting better? Yeah too?

1108
01:09:52.279 --> 01:09:54.840
Yeah, the older, the berried, the sweetest.

1109
01:09:54.479 --> 01:10:01.720
The juice, you know what I mean? I mean yeah,

1110
01:10:02.800 --> 01:10:08.840
So I think I think now, as far as relationships go,

1111
01:10:09.840 --> 01:10:16.560
does anybody have anybody out there have a relationship based

1112
01:10:16.720 --> 01:10:25.119
question something that let's see, like, uh, all right, so

1113
01:10:25.239 --> 01:10:28.640
we know we all know that communication and understanding are

1114
01:10:28.640 --> 01:10:33.399
important in relationships, right, we know this that it is paramount.

1115
01:10:34.079 --> 01:10:37.880
You know what I'm saying. And I honestly think that

1116
01:10:39.720 --> 01:10:48.119
if you have that, I think it should it should be. Oh,

1117
01:10:48.720 --> 01:10:55.319
we got one, h we got one Simon, mister Simon Phoenix.

1118
01:10:59.439 --> 01:11:00.159
If a do d.

1119
01:11:02.319 --> 01:11:05.079
I think it's great for the relationship. I think empathetically

1120
01:11:05.119 --> 01:11:09.399
sparks things up. Why do men cheat?

1121
01:11:10.439 --> 01:11:10.720
Why do.

1122
01:11:12.600 --> 01:11:14.359
All right, hold on, hold on, hold.

1123
01:11:14.199 --> 01:11:18.319
On, hold on, let me get let me get my hands.

1124
01:11:21.479 --> 01:11:25.479
Yeah, hold on? Why do men cheat? All right? First off,

1125
01:11:26.520 --> 01:11:34.239
what are you doing? That's wrong? You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo,

1126
01:11:34.359 --> 01:11:37.960
you know what, if you ain't cheating, you're not trying

1127
01:11:38.000 --> 01:11:39.600
I mean, ship, you know what I'm saying, us men

1128
01:11:39.680 --> 01:11:43.640
cheating football games, we cheat on taxes. What are you

1129
01:11:43.760 --> 01:11:45.920
talking about? Cheating is the American way?

1130
01:11:48.000 --> 01:11:50.880
I was playing. I know you're just playing.

1131
01:11:51.520 --> 01:11:53.720
Yeah, I'm just playing, just playing. But yo, you know

1132
01:11:53.800 --> 01:11:57.479
what I mean to to fully like put the blame

1133
01:11:57.560 --> 01:12:03.399
on them men in general, right exactly? You know, no,

1134
01:12:03.680 --> 01:12:06.720
not not not you know what, now, I ain't gonna

1135
01:12:06.720 --> 01:12:09.279
be that white women cheat because yo, women are women

1136
01:12:09.319 --> 01:12:10.239
are the best cheaters. Bro.

1137
01:12:13.640 --> 01:12:21.960
You see the comment on the screen, the question, h.

1138
01:12:29.239 --> 01:12:31.039
Yo, what's going on? Bro?

1139
01:12:31.199 --> 01:12:34.399
While you got I don't know. I don't know what's

1140
01:12:34.439 --> 01:12:37.800
going on here? All right, So anyway we got it,

1141
01:12:38.000 --> 01:12:42.000
all right, So this is this was a question. All right?

1142
01:12:42.319 --> 01:12:46.079
So why do men cheat? Are they cheating while there

1143
01:12:46.199 --> 01:12:50.520
is sex and intimacy at home? There are certain things

1144
01:12:50.560 --> 01:12:55.319
that both men and women need in the relationship. All right,

1145
01:12:55.960 --> 01:13:03.920
here we go. Now, first things. First First things first, Okay,

1146
01:13:07.800 --> 01:13:11.039
why do men cheat? All right?

1147
01:13:14.960 --> 01:13:15.600
Because we can?

1148
01:13:16.520 --> 01:13:18.479
No, it's no, don't don't don't don't see no.

1149
01:13:18.600 --> 01:13:20.680
Bro, bro, bro, you know what you know what I'm saying,

1150
01:13:20.760 --> 01:13:22.560
like like you know what, like like back in my

1151
01:13:22.760 --> 01:13:26.800
twenties and thirties, is because I couldn't. That's why.

1152
01:13:27.359 --> 01:13:31.039
Yeah, what I'm saying when when it was when yo?

1153
01:13:31.119 --> 01:13:33.199
You know what, back then it was about conquering as

1154
01:13:33.319 --> 01:13:36.680
much as you can, you know what I'm saying, like

1155
01:13:37.880 --> 01:13:40.319
like you know what, Like that's why I did what

1156
01:13:40.399 --> 01:13:45.920
I did. I just didn't care, you know what I'm saying. Well,

1157
01:13:46.039 --> 01:13:47.960
I mean, what was the whole point? You know?

1158
01:13:48.279 --> 01:13:48.800
Right now?

1159
01:13:49.199 --> 01:13:50.920
Now you know what I'm saying. Now it's different, you

1160
01:13:50.920 --> 01:13:53.000
know what I'm saying, Like now, like I ain't got

1161
01:13:53.039 --> 01:13:54.880
time for all that ship, you know what I'm saying,

1162
01:13:54.920 --> 01:13:56.520
Like I don't even want to be outside like that,

1163
01:13:57.840 --> 01:14:01.199
you know, like like yo, you know, like for what

1164
01:14:01.439 --> 01:14:02.000
you know what I'm saying.

1165
01:14:02.439 --> 01:14:04.840
Hold on, hold on, let me, let me, let me

1166
01:14:04.920 --> 01:14:07.079
speak on this because I got a lot of thoughts

1167
01:14:07.159 --> 01:14:16.159
going on right now. Ooh, that's a good one. I

1168
01:14:16.359 --> 01:14:21.000
like that one. Why is sex and necessity in order

1169
01:14:21.039 --> 01:14:25.560
to stay faithful? This is getting hold on? Wait a minute,

1170
01:14:25.600 --> 01:14:28.000
wait a minute. In a healthy live relationship, there is

1171
01:14:28.479 --> 01:14:32.600
open communication about what each party needs, wants, slice desires,

1172
01:14:33.000 --> 01:14:35.399
and no need for all right, So hold on, this

1173
01:14:35.560 --> 01:14:38.600
is getting good. This is getting good. So check this

1174
01:14:38.680 --> 01:14:44.319
ship out, all right. So the reason why people cheat,

1175
01:14:45.239 --> 01:14:49.960
all right, is because of this. I see that people

1176
01:14:50.600 --> 01:14:51.880
not just playing, But.

1177
01:14:53.479 --> 01:14:54.279
Why do you cheat?

1178
01:14:54.600 --> 01:14:55.000
Hold up?

1179
01:14:55.479 --> 01:14:57.560
Why did you think a Moss song came on in

1180
01:14:57.640 --> 01:14:59.479
my head right after? Listen?

1181
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:02.560
The reason why people cheat is because there's no communication.

1182
01:15:05.399 --> 01:15:08.520
When you when you can communicate, when you can communicate

1183
01:15:09.399 --> 01:15:12.560
what it is you're going through at that moment in time,

1184
01:15:13.960 --> 01:15:18.560
you know what I'm saying and and and you you're

1185
01:15:18.680 --> 01:15:22.279
in tune what your partner is telling you because you

1186
01:15:22.319 --> 01:15:27.800
do not have to understand some understanding. Understanding is important, okay,

1187
01:15:28.079 --> 01:15:32.119
because when you understand your partner, when you can understand

1188
01:15:32.199 --> 01:15:34.399
what they're going through on a day to day basis,

1189
01:15:34.640 --> 01:15:37.479
when you can understand what they're thinking, when you can

1190
01:15:37.640 --> 01:15:41.319
understand what they're needing, when you can understand what they're

1191
01:15:41.359 --> 01:15:46.560
wanting and why they want and need those things, there

1192
01:15:46.600 --> 01:15:49.439
shouldn't be no reason why cheating is in the picture.

1193
01:15:50.319 --> 01:15:53.000
When you can't now hold up, hold up, hold up.

1194
01:15:53.159 --> 01:15:56.159
When you can't understand, and as a matter of fact,

1195
01:15:56.159 --> 01:15:58.399
it's not when you can't understand, when you don't want

1196
01:15:58.520 --> 01:16:03.239
to understand, when you don't feel the need to take

1197
01:16:03.359 --> 01:16:09.359
that step towards making things better in your relationship, that's

1198
01:16:09.399 --> 01:16:12.399
when shit happens. You understand what I'm saying. I mean,

1199
01:16:12.439 --> 01:16:16.600
what you want to do is you want to communicate. No,

1200
01:16:17.720 --> 01:16:20.159
hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up. Listen, I'm

1201
01:16:20.199 --> 01:16:24.840
trying to get to everybody. You have to lack of

1202
01:16:24.920 --> 01:16:28.319
sex is not warrant cheating. First of all, that's my opinion.

1203
01:16:28.319 --> 01:16:32.079
That's my opinion, and I stick to that ship. You

1204
01:16:32.199 --> 01:16:35.239
don't have to have sex every fucking day, every fucking week.

1205
01:16:35.600 --> 01:16:38.439
Whatever it is, you shouldn't have it shouldn't cause the

1206
01:16:38.520 --> 01:16:42.479
fact it shouldn't. It shouldn't cheating, should not be involved

1207
01:16:42.479 --> 01:16:46.800
because there isn't enough sex in the relationship. That's bullshit.

1208
01:16:47.680 --> 01:16:49.359
Look, you know what if you're cheating is because you're

1209
01:16:49.359 --> 01:16:54.119
weak to temptation, period. All right, So now now we

1210
01:16:54.199 --> 01:16:56.720
got now, we got then and then then you know what,

1211
01:16:57.199 --> 01:16:59.119
and if you're weak to temptation, then you shouldn't even

1212
01:16:59.119 --> 01:17:02.079
be in a relationship to be in with it right off?

1213
01:17:02.119 --> 01:17:04.479
You know what? How about how about you be faithful

1214
01:17:04.520 --> 01:17:06.960
to yourself first before you can be faithful to somebody else.

1215
01:17:07.520 --> 01:17:11.000
Right, but people check out these two, check out these

1216
01:17:11.000 --> 01:17:15.119
two right here. So she says therees a lack of

1217
01:17:15.199 --> 01:17:19.760
sex warn't cheating, and then she says we all need

1218
01:17:20.039 --> 01:17:23.880
that sex and intimacy and closeness. It's in us.

1219
01:17:24.039 --> 01:17:27.880
It's natural, all right, Oh it will be in you,

1220
01:17:27.960 --> 01:17:28.319
trust me.

1221
01:17:29.960 --> 01:17:35.479
So people, so check it, man, so check it. Effort.

1222
01:17:36.119 --> 01:17:42.359
That's right, it's called effort. Okay, But effort doesn't mean sex.

1223
01:17:43.520 --> 01:17:46.279
It doesn't mean that sex has to be involved all

1224
01:17:46.319 --> 01:17:50.920
the time in order to be faithful. This, this is,

1225
01:17:51.079 --> 01:17:53.439
this is exactly where I wanted this to go. So

1226
01:17:54.479 --> 01:18:01.119
speaking speaking from all right, oh god, this speaking from experience, okay,

1227
01:18:02.239 --> 01:18:09.600
speaking from a place of experience. Sex for the man

1228
01:18:09.800 --> 01:18:12.800
and for the in terms of the male and female.

1229
01:18:13.720 --> 01:18:15.640
Of course, I don't want to fire I said that

1230
01:18:15.800 --> 01:18:25.199
for But sex in a relationship isn't always think cut,

1231
01:18:26.319 --> 01:18:30.840
meaning that it's not necessary for one or the other

1232
01:18:32.159 --> 01:18:36.800
or both. You have to be able to communicate your

1233
01:18:36.920 --> 01:18:42.600
wants and your needs with your partner. If your partner's

1234
01:18:42.720 --> 01:18:47.000
constantly coming at you with oh, we don't have sex enough,

1235
01:18:47.600 --> 01:18:52.960
Oh we're not intimate, Oh you're not you're not passionate,

1236
01:18:53.520 --> 01:18:57.720
or oh you're not communicative. Oh you're not this, you're

1237
01:18:57.760 --> 01:19:03.279
not that. You know what I'm saying. I think more

1238
01:19:03.399 --> 01:19:12.000
conversation needs. Uh okay, I think the conversation. The conversation is.

1239
01:19:12.159 --> 01:19:17.520
The conversation needs to be open and honest. If you're

1240
01:19:17.600 --> 01:19:21.760
having if you lack, if you feel you're lacking sexual relationship,

1241
01:19:22.439 --> 01:19:25.159
you need to tell your partner that you don't go

1242
01:19:25.359 --> 01:19:29.960
out and cheat. You communicate the fact that listen, we're

1243
01:19:30.039 --> 01:19:36.199
not having sex. We're not fulfilling you're not fulfilling my

1244
01:19:36.399 --> 01:19:40.119
needs as far as sex is concerned, as far as

1245
01:19:41.920 --> 01:19:46.560
intimacy is concerned, you're not. You're not taking care of that.

1246
01:19:47.399 --> 01:19:50.600
What can we do to remedy this? The you don't,

1247
01:19:50.760 --> 01:19:52.159
that doesn't, That doesn't mean you.

1248
01:19:54.319 --> 01:19:59.680
Dubs Listen, Yo, Threesomes help bro, Like, no, they don't.

1249
01:20:00.039 --> 01:20:07.279
When they don't, but three no, three don't. Three somes

1250
01:20:07.560 --> 01:20:12.720
only add to the conflict because now you're worried about

1251
01:20:13.479 --> 01:20:18.560
damn we just have whether. First of all, it's if

1252
01:20:18.600 --> 01:20:21.600
you're a dude and you're having the threesome with your lady,

1253
01:20:22.279 --> 01:20:29.600
you're inviting problems in you're inviting you're inviting a situation,

1254
01:20:29.840 --> 01:20:31.680
and I'm inviting a good time.

1255
01:20:33.760 --> 01:20:36.239
See it's like you know what, it's like two cheese

1256
01:20:36.279 --> 01:20:42.119
burgers for the press of one McDonald's. No.

1257
01:20:42.439 --> 01:20:44.439
But I think I think when you when you have

1258
01:20:44.520 --> 01:20:50.199
a threesome, you're inviting bad vibes and bad situations into

1259
01:20:50.239 --> 01:20:55.800
your relationship. I think the key to this, this cheating ship,

1260
01:20:58.520 --> 01:21:04.359
cheap back. I think this can only be fixed through

1261
01:21:04.399 --> 01:21:05.920
communication and understanding.

1262
01:21:06.039 --> 01:21:09.640
Bro, or Yo, you know what you could achieve back?

1263
01:21:10.039 --> 01:21:12.359
You know what I'm saying, And y'all both be hurt, right,

1264
01:21:12.479 --> 01:21:12.920
and then what.

1265
01:21:13.079 --> 01:21:16.279
Ends up happening is the relationship falls apart.

1266
01:21:17.640 --> 01:21:20.840
Bro, the relationships the relationship fell apart the minute. You

1267
01:21:20.840 --> 01:21:23.439
know what I'm saying. Homegirls, you know what I'm saying.

1268
01:21:24.399 --> 01:21:27.439
Homegirls slipped fellow and land on another dude's lick. Or

1269
01:21:28.000 --> 01:21:30.479
homeboys slipped the fellow and landed inside the girl. You

1270
01:21:30.520 --> 01:21:33.600
know what I'm saying already you know what I'm saying.

1271
01:21:35.000 --> 01:21:37.760
But with the question, the question was one of the

1272
01:21:37.880 --> 01:21:42.199
questions was does a lack of sex weren't cheating? No,

1273
01:21:42.319 --> 01:21:45.520
I don't know, it doesn't. That's when you got to

1274
01:21:45.560 --> 01:21:46.640
communicate your.

1275
01:21:48.560 --> 01:21:54.800
But that that's an excuse. You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo,

1276
01:21:54.880 --> 01:21:57.720
you know what I can be like Yo? You know what,

1277
01:22:00.159 --> 01:22:01.520
at the end of the day, you know what I'm saying,

1278
01:22:02.359 --> 01:22:05.199
just say this. I mean like I'm tired of I'm

1279
01:22:05.239 --> 01:22:07.920
tired of this of this fourth pentho. I want to

1280
01:22:07.960 --> 01:22:09.600
get me a Mercedes Benz.

1281
01:22:11.640 --> 01:22:14.000
Well, it costs a lot of money to fix foreign cards,

1282
01:22:14.039 --> 01:22:16.520
bro It just like it takes a lot to fix

1283
01:22:16.560 --> 01:22:19.199
a relationship, you know what I'm saying.

1284
01:22:19.600 --> 01:22:21.520
And and you know, you know what, people only think

1285
01:22:21.520 --> 01:22:30.439
about the the what's that word I'm looking for? The

1286
01:22:30.600 --> 01:22:33.359
only think All right, I got a question the way

1287
01:22:33.399 --> 01:22:35.119
we hold on real quick? You know what I'm saying.

1288
01:22:35.119 --> 01:22:37.199
They think about the vanity part. You know what I'm

1289
01:22:37.199 --> 01:22:39.199
saying of how like you know what I'm saying, it

1290
01:22:39.279 --> 01:22:42.760
looks good, accessorized or whatever. They never think about you

1291
01:22:42.800 --> 01:22:44.760
know what I'm saying, how much money you need to

1292
01:22:44.800 --> 01:22:47.479
put into that bitch about the car this?

1293
01:22:48.119 --> 01:22:50.039
Yeah, he's going the car bitch and not calling you

1294
01:22:50.119 --> 01:22:53.319
a bitch. Maybe you're you're not having sex with your

1295
01:22:53.399 --> 01:22:56.279
man because he's not living up to his commitments either.

1296
01:22:56.920 --> 01:23:04.159
My question to that comment is is what commitments? I mean,

1297
01:23:04.319 --> 01:23:12.680
what is it? All right? So you're not having sexual

1298
01:23:12.720 --> 01:23:15.000
memic because the living of this commitments either? All right?

1299
01:23:15.119 --> 01:23:21.319
So what what? What? What is it? Are you? What?

1300
01:23:21.439 --> 01:23:21.800
What is it?

1301
01:23:22.199 --> 01:23:28.920
What are you expecting from your man? YouTube user because

1302
01:23:28.920 --> 01:23:32.079
the YouTube user doesn't have a name. This as YouTube user.

1303
01:23:32.520 --> 01:23:37.920
But what is it you're expecting? You know what I'm saying?

1304
01:23:38.159 --> 01:23:40.880
And hold on, what does this say up here? I

1305
01:23:41.000 --> 01:23:44.520
agree that you have to communicate before you cheat. First

1306
01:23:44.560 --> 01:23:47.600
of all. First of all, you have to communicate before

1307
01:23:47.680 --> 01:23:56.399
you cheat. Cheating is isn't only physical sexual, but it

1308
01:23:56.439 --> 01:23:59.600
could also be mentally emotional. All right, So you gotta

1309
01:23:59.600 --> 01:24:02.119
community before you cheat. So I'm gonna go ahead and say, baby,

1310
01:24:02.159 --> 01:24:04.720
look I'm gonna go cheat, just.

1311
01:24:04.800 --> 01:24:07.800
So you know, yeah, you know what this is?

1312
01:24:07.840 --> 01:24:08.359
What's coming?

1313
01:24:10.479 --> 01:24:12.000
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, like like like like

1314
01:24:12.159 --> 01:24:15.039
like yo, you know what. Now I'll be like this. Listen,

1315
01:24:15.479 --> 01:24:18.600
I'm going out. Were hang up with some girl real quick.

1316
01:24:19.159 --> 01:24:20.760
I have my phone off. You know what I'm saying.

1317
01:24:20.840 --> 01:24:23.000
Airplane moves, so I could cheat in peace, Thank you

1318
01:24:23.119 --> 01:24:25.199
very much. I'll call it tomorrow morning when I'm done.

1319
01:24:25.600 --> 01:24:31.079
Thank you, my Starbucks. I'll bringed some Starbucks back cappuccino. Gotcha?

1320
01:24:32.880 --> 01:24:34.920
How does that sounds?

1321
01:24:35.159 --> 01:24:37.039
Listen? No, we just missed. Listen to what she was

1322
01:24:37.119 --> 01:24:41.439
trying to say. She said, Look, she pushed, she said, no, you.

1323
01:24:41.520 --> 01:24:46.880
Have to communicate before you cheat. I'm let you Yeah,

1324
01:24:47.199 --> 01:24:49.279
you know what I'm saying. That's just you know what

1325
01:24:49.279 --> 01:24:53.239
I'm saying. That kills you know what I'm saying, That

1326
01:24:53.399 --> 01:24:55.680
kills a cheating part. You know what I'm saying. And

1327
01:24:55.760 --> 01:24:57.520
you're trying to cheat, you're not trying to get caught.

1328
01:24:58.680 --> 01:25:03.600
So anyway, so real quick, real quick, let me so

1329
01:25:05.640 --> 01:25:08.000
all right, so let me let me put it. Let

1330
01:25:08.039 --> 01:25:11.119
me put it like this, a smart as so let

1331
01:25:11.159 --> 01:25:17.800
me put it like this. So communication is key, That's

1332
01:25:17.840 --> 01:25:20.840
the important thing. You know what I'm saying. It's important

1333
01:25:21.399 --> 01:25:23.520
for you to talk to your man or your woman

1334
01:25:24.079 --> 01:25:28.239
about your needs and your wants and and and make

1335
01:25:28.359 --> 01:25:33.079
sure they're heard, make sure they hear what it is

1336
01:25:33.159 --> 01:25:36.960
you're saying. Make sure they understand what it is you're

1337
01:25:37.039 --> 01:25:40.760
wanting and needing, because if you don't have that, it's

1338
01:25:40.840 --> 01:25:43.680
not gonna work. You know what I'm saying. It's not

1339
01:25:44.039 --> 01:25:47.319
it's it's somebody's gonna end up fucking around now. To

1340
01:25:47.439 --> 01:25:53.479
be honest, and and and and and straight up, sometimes

1341
01:25:53.760 --> 01:25:57.199
you know, it's it's it's hard to understand people. It's

1342
01:25:57.239 --> 01:26:00.760
hard to understand what someone is trying to say when

1343
01:26:00.800 --> 01:26:04.600
you're blinded by the fact that they could be out

1344
01:26:04.640 --> 01:26:08.760
there fucking around because you were lacking in something. So

1345
01:26:09.039 --> 01:26:11.560
before you go ahead and start thinking ship like that,

1346
01:26:13.000 --> 01:26:17.000
have the conversation, sit there and be like, baby, look,

1347
01:26:17.079 --> 01:26:20.920
this is what's up. Man. You know, don't don't go

1348
01:26:21.039 --> 01:26:23.720
out there fuck around and and bring someone into your

1349
01:26:23.760 --> 01:26:26.920
relationship with whether it be with a fucking threesome, whether

1350
01:26:27.000 --> 01:26:28.680
it be go out out there to cheat, whether it

1351
01:26:28.760 --> 01:26:30.600
be to go out there and do whatever it is

1352
01:26:30.680 --> 01:26:31.159
you're gonna do.

1353
01:26:33.399 --> 01:26:35.600
She would have married. She with someone who's married. I

1354
01:26:35.680 --> 01:26:37.479
want to walk because they ain't gonna have time for you,

1355
01:26:37.520 --> 01:26:38.640
and you're gonna have time for them.

1356
01:26:41.479 --> 01:26:43.960
When you know what you're doing. You know what you're

1357
01:26:44.000 --> 01:26:47.680
doing right now. It's it's like it's like you're somebody

1358
01:26:47.720 --> 01:26:51.520
who wants to commit a blueprint on how to do it.

1359
01:26:53.960 --> 01:26:57.039
I know, don't you don't want to don't do that?

1360
01:26:59.520 --> 01:27:03.239
Yeah? Yeah, cheat meat, who cares? You know what I'm saying?

1361
01:27:03.800 --> 01:27:05.960
What what you know what I'm saying, the person will

1362
01:27:06.000 --> 01:27:08.600
get The person listens right now is getting cheated on?

1363
01:27:08.760 --> 01:27:10.720
Right now? What's you supposed to do? You know what

1364
01:27:10.720 --> 01:27:12.279
I'm saying? Sit around? You know what I'm saying. Looking

1365
01:27:12.279 --> 01:27:13.720
at you know what I'm saying, looking at the YouTube

1366
01:27:13.720 --> 01:27:16.199
screen like a freaking no man, go on to do

1367
01:27:16.479 --> 01:27:20.920
you feel the pain? Let them burn. If they died,

1368
01:27:21.119 --> 01:27:21.560
they died.

1369
01:27:23.079 --> 01:27:27.399
Listen, all right, I'm just like I know you, I

1370
01:27:27.479 --> 01:27:29.159
know you, I know you are, I know you are,

1371
01:27:29.560 --> 01:27:32.159
I know you already, bro, I know. But the thing,

1372
01:27:32.279 --> 01:27:35.680
the thing is this, The thing is this to go

1373
01:27:35.880 --> 01:27:43.600
back to go back to, go back. What I what

1374
01:27:43.880 --> 01:27:48.720
I'm what I'm saying is is that you're with someone,

1375
01:27:48.920 --> 01:27:52.159
You're in a relationship. You know what I'm saying. And

1376
01:27:52.680 --> 01:27:56.079
when you first when the relationship first starts, it's it's

1377
01:27:56.159 --> 01:28:00.600
it's great, it's it's wonderful, it's it's it's good. You know,

1378
01:28:00.680 --> 01:28:04.039
you're doing great things together. And as you get older

1379
01:28:04.119 --> 01:28:09.439
and more into the relationship, things do change. Feelings shouldn't,

1380
01:28:09.880 --> 01:28:12.520
but things do change. So what you need to do

1381
01:28:12.840 --> 01:28:16.880
is you need to understand those changes. You need to

1382
01:28:17.079 --> 01:28:21.560
flow with those changes. What I mean by that is,

1383
01:28:22.239 --> 01:28:30.479
if there isn't as much sex in the relationship, if

1384
01:28:30.560 --> 01:28:33.359
there isn't as much sex in the relationship as there

1385
01:28:33.640 --> 01:28:40.319
was before, does it mean that the relationship is over

1386
01:28:40.399 --> 01:28:42.960
and you go out there and fuck around and make

1387
01:28:43.000 --> 01:28:44.279
shit better for yourself?

1388
01:28:45.720 --> 01:28:50.359
Yeah, but hold on, though, are we talking about cheating

1389
01:28:50.640 --> 01:28:52.760
like an our age bracket or cheating like.

1390
01:28:53.880 --> 01:28:56.680
Well, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna It looks like

1391
01:28:56.760 --> 01:28:58.840
we have a bunch of women in here, so I'm

1392
01:28:58.840 --> 01:28:59.960
not gonna start as.

1393
01:29:00.000 --> 01:29:02.680
You know what I'm saying, because because because yo, you

1394
01:29:02.760 --> 01:29:06.359
know what? You know what I'm saying, Like I could, Yo,

1395
01:29:06.479 --> 01:29:09.520
I could speak on twenty five year old me or

1396
01:29:09.600 --> 01:29:11.600
I speak on current me. You know what I'm saying

1397
01:29:12.039 --> 01:29:14.119
twenty five year old me? You know what I'm saying,

1398
01:29:14.199 --> 01:29:17.800
twenty five year old me cheated because he wanted to cheat.

1399
01:29:17.960 --> 01:29:19.640
You know what I'm saying, cheat it because he could

1400
01:29:19.760 --> 01:29:21.880
cheat it because you know what, I had access. I

1401
01:29:21.920 --> 01:29:23.920
had to looks for it. You know what I'm saying,

1402
01:29:24.039 --> 01:29:26.600
cheated because Yo, you know what it was fun to do.

1403
01:29:26.880 --> 01:29:30.600
Cheated because it was easy. You know, it was way down.

1404
01:29:30.840 --> 01:29:33.760
But now now but like but but like yo, you

1405
01:29:33.800 --> 01:29:36.840
know what, like why would I cheat now? Though? You

1406
01:29:36.880 --> 01:29:39.159
know what I'm saying, Like like, bro, you know what

1407
01:29:40.640 --> 01:29:43.319
it's like, I don't. I don't I don't have you know, yo?

1408
01:29:43.479 --> 01:29:46.520
And another thing too, I mean, twenty five year old

1409
01:29:46.600 --> 01:29:48.920
me only had a cell phone, so there was no

1410
01:29:49.079 --> 01:29:54.000
such thing as freaking social media. So it was easy

1411
01:29:54.119 --> 01:29:59.600
to cheat and not so easy to get caught, you know,

1412
01:29:59.800 --> 01:30:04.720
like it was easy to get away with things nowadays, no,

1413
01:30:05.439 --> 01:30:09.319
you know, with social media out here and everything. Social media,

1414
01:30:10.239 --> 01:30:12.279
let's let's keep it one hundred. Social media made it's

1415
01:30:12.319 --> 01:30:14.640
so easy. It's made it so much easier to cheap,

1416
01:30:14.840 --> 01:30:16.680
but it's made it so much easier to get caught.

1417
01:30:16.920 --> 01:30:20.640
So it's like, why would I want to jeopardize what

1418
01:30:20.760 --> 01:30:24.800
I have going on right now or something? You know

1419
01:30:24.840 --> 01:30:27.840
what I'm saying, Like like, yo, you know what, why

1420
01:30:27.920 --> 01:30:31.880
would I want to jeopardize that? I don't you know, like, no,

1421
01:30:32.000 --> 01:30:34.000
I'm good where I'm at. No, trust me, I'm trust

1422
01:30:34.039 --> 01:30:35.840
me when I say I'm good where I'm at. You

1423
01:30:35.880 --> 01:30:37.760
know what I'm saying, leave me be, leave me the

1424
01:30:37.920 --> 01:30:41.119
funck alone. You know, I don't want to be bothered,

1425
01:30:41.560 --> 01:30:43.920
you know, like, leave me alone period. You know. But

1426
01:30:45.159 --> 01:30:47.239
like I'm saying, you know what, but most men, like

1427
01:30:47.239 --> 01:30:48.800
you know what I'm saying, it depends on what their

1428
01:30:48.840 --> 01:30:53.720
age is, because it's a challenge. It's easy, you know,

1429
01:30:53.880 --> 01:30:56.800
like it it's something easy to do. Now.

1430
01:31:04.079 --> 01:31:05.000
Oh that's a good question.

1431
01:31:06.039 --> 01:31:07.560
No, it don't No, it don't.

1432
01:31:07.880 --> 01:31:09.520
No, it doesn't. No, it don't.

1433
01:31:09.560 --> 01:31:11.960
You want to know why, No, you want to know

1434
01:31:12.039 --> 01:31:16.079
why because when when I have my son with my

1435
01:31:16.159 --> 01:31:20.520
son's mother, I said to myself, can do I see

1436
01:31:20.560 --> 01:31:24.000
myself like, you know what this person? And for the

1437
01:31:24.039 --> 01:31:28.159
next eighteen twenty years and being around it, I realized

1438
01:31:28.479 --> 01:31:31.560
I couldn't be with her for one more second because

1439
01:31:31.920 --> 01:31:34.119
because you know what, you wasn't gonna make eighteen to

1440
01:31:34.159 --> 01:31:36.680
twenty years, because you know what, I would be in

1441
01:31:36.720 --> 01:31:39.279
the courtroom saying the glove, the glove fits, you must

1442
01:31:39.319 --> 01:31:43.680
have quit. You know, same thing with my daughter's mom.

1443
01:31:46.000 --> 01:31:48.439
So social media is the fucking devil when it comes

1444
01:31:48.479 --> 01:31:52.000
to cheating, yo. It really, it really is. It's like

1445
01:31:52.520 --> 01:31:55.079
helling a handbasket. I'll tell you that ship right now.

1446
01:31:55.760 --> 01:31:58.079
It's so shy, you know what?

1447
01:31:58.279 --> 01:32:01.479
Social media like you know what I'm saying, Like I said,

1448
01:32:01.520 --> 01:32:03.520
you know, like so like like, bro, you know what

1449
01:32:05.279 --> 01:32:09.520
when my Space came out, do you know how much

1450
01:32:10.560 --> 01:32:14.640
Oh my god, it was my Space, black Planet, the Ante,

1451
01:32:16.000 --> 01:32:16.439
you know what I mean?

1452
01:32:16.560 --> 01:32:20.840
Like me A wow, that's an old one, yo, Bro.

1453
01:32:21.800 --> 01:32:26.960
Do you know how easy it was for bro? Let

1454
01:32:27.000 --> 01:32:30.880
me tell you man, like like one week, I hadn't like,

1455
01:32:31.000 --> 01:32:33.119
I just had him lined up, and by the time

1456
01:32:33.159 --> 01:32:35.840
I got to Friday, I had one sprung cell left

1457
01:32:35.880 --> 01:32:40.279
and he was lonely. You know what I'm saying, Like yeah,

1458
01:32:40.640 --> 01:32:43.119
like like yo, you know what it's It was so

1459
01:32:43.399 --> 01:32:45.880
easy back then because I didn't care.

1460
01:32:46.359 --> 01:32:48.159
You see, the thing, the thing and the thing is too.

1461
01:32:48.399 --> 01:32:52.199
The thing is too is that most of us are

1462
01:32:52.239 --> 01:32:58.279
at that age where if you're not already in a

1463
01:32:58.319 --> 01:33:03.000
committed relationship. You know what I'm saying, it's hard to

1464
01:33:03.199 --> 01:33:09.199
find and it's hard to find someone to to to

1465
01:33:09.399 --> 01:33:16.640
want to, to emotionally attach yourself to because it's it's

1466
01:33:16.720 --> 01:33:23.720
it's just it's just hard. That's why you find your person, commit,

1467
01:33:24.640 --> 01:33:30.239
communicate and understand. Not everything is gonna be peaches and

1468
01:33:30.319 --> 01:33:32.520
fucking cream, yo. Not everything is gonna be a key

1469
01:33:32.600 --> 01:33:35.600
line fucking pie. Bro. You know what I'm saying. I'm

1470
01:33:35.640 --> 01:33:38.399
not running up fucking death Mountain with the fucking ring

1471
01:33:38.560 --> 01:33:40.520
to throw it into the fucking lava and save the

1472
01:33:40.600 --> 01:33:42.720
fucking world. You know what I'm saying.

1473
01:33:42.800 --> 01:33:45.840
But I want to not everything gonna be over cake

1474
01:33:46.119 --> 01:33:48.199
like like, keep on talking that patient talk, bro.

1475
01:33:48.279 --> 01:33:49.720
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm not I'm not

1476
01:33:49.800 --> 01:33:53.119
a I'm not climbing up a fucking mountain to fucking

1477
01:33:53.199 --> 01:33:56.000
drop a ring into the moment lava to save everybody.

1478
01:33:56.039 --> 01:33:58.800
I want to save myself. I want to save my

1479
01:33:59.039 --> 01:34:01.319
I want to save one to be with. I want

1480
01:34:01.359 --> 01:34:03.399
to be able to you know what I'm saying, Like,

1481
01:34:04.119 --> 01:34:09.199
it's it's it's it's hard. It's hard. Community. Communicating sometimes

1482
01:34:09.279 --> 01:34:15.399
can be tough. Sometimes communication is tough. Sometimes understanding is tough.

1483
01:34:15.920 --> 01:34:19.000
But you to do it to get it, to make

1484
01:34:19.039 --> 01:34:20.279
it work, you have to do it.

1485
01:34:21.159 --> 01:34:23.359
You know what they're communicating Really that hard for me

1486
01:34:23.439 --> 01:34:25.640
because I say what I feel and that's it. You

1487
01:34:25.680 --> 01:34:28.000
don't like what I said, Oh well, you know what

1488
01:34:28.000 --> 01:34:33.000
I'm saying, deal with it, you know, like sometimes you

1489
01:34:33.399 --> 01:34:36.119
like like like like like what makes communicating hard is

1490
01:34:36.199 --> 01:34:38.359
like it's like you know, I'm saying like you're all

1491
01:34:38.439 --> 01:34:41.960
trying to like tiptoe around and you know, say the

1492
01:34:42.199 --> 01:34:46.079
right thing quote unquote right instead of saying instead of

1493
01:34:46.159 --> 01:34:47.520
like you know, saying the ship straight up for what

1494
01:34:47.600 --> 01:34:48.479
it is. Right.

1495
01:34:48.560 --> 01:34:51.760
It's not about what you're tip tip toning around trying

1496
01:34:51.840 --> 01:34:54.800
to say. It's what you need to say and have

1497
01:34:55.000 --> 01:34:57.239
to say, and got to say to make it.

1498
01:34:57.399 --> 01:35:00.279
But see, you know what, people don't communicate because you

1499
01:35:00.319 --> 01:35:01.840
know what, people feel like they walking on e.

1500
01:35:03.600 --> 01:35:04.720
No, man, you can't walk on.

1501
01:35:06.079 --> 01:35:07.960
I'm going to say what I'm going.

1502
01:35:07.880 --> 01:35:11.920
To Okay, here, here's the question. Here's the question. Ready

1503
01:35:11.920 --> 01:35:12.359
for this one?

1504
01:35:12.960 --> 01:35:23.840
Yeah, God forgives, I don't. I won't get my payback though.

1505
01:35:25.319 --> 01:35:28.439
You know, you know, you know, like you know what

1506
01:35:28.840 --> 01:35:35.199
when I'm I'm saying, you know what I'm saying? When

1507
01:35:35.600 --> 01:35:37.479
when When when you're looking at you know, when you

1508
01:35:37.600 --> 01:35:40.079
look at your sister's brand new baby and it kind

1509
01:35:40.119 --> 01:35:41.840
of looks like me, it kind of looks like your son,

1510
01:35:42.199 --> 01:35:45.239
or you know, it's not because you know what I'm saying.

1511
01:35:45.479 --> 01:35:48.520
You guys are related, Trust me, it's not because of that.

1512
01:35:49.439 --> 01:35:53.239
You know, Hey, that's your brother, that's your brother, cousin.

1513
01:35:54.720 --> 01:36:03.479
Thank me later. I don't forgive you know what. I'll

1514
01:36:03.520 --> 01:36:04.960
be the type that like, oh, you cheated on me,

1515
01:36:05.000 --> 01:36:06.760
all right, fair enough? You know what, I'm gonna go

1516
01:36:06.840 --> 01:36:09.359
tee back your system, gonna make you record the record

1517
01:36:09.439 --> 01:36:21.880
the whole ship. God forgives. I don't let them get defensive.

1518
01:36:23.600 --> 01:36:25.439
If they get defensive, because you know what what you're

1519
01:36:25.439 --> 01:36:31.680
saying is what you're saying is true. See that's the problem.

1520
01:36:31.800 --> 01:36:34.319
You know what I'm saying walking on egg cells, say

1521
01:36:35.239 --> 01:36:40.600
say it with your chest out, you know, like for instance, right,

1522
01:36:41.039 --> 01:36:43.399
you know what, Robert, you ain't even you ain't even

1523
01:36:43.399 --> 01:36:45.840
a man. You ain't even have a man. You ain't

1524
01:36:45.840 --> 01:36:48.800
even have the man your mom is. Say with your

1525
01:36:48.880 --> 01:37:01.279
chest out. There is no grace. There is no yo,

1526
01:37:01.399 --> 01:37:03.520
Look you cheat it on me. There is no grace. However,

1527
01:37:04.239 --> 01:37:08.680
I'm gonna make you believe like there is grace because

1528
01:37:08.840 --> 01:37:11.439
because you know what, the minute you cheated, all mean

1529
01:37:12.760 --> 01:37:16.960
is the minute where this is no longer like, oh,

1530
01:37:17.079 --> 01:37:18.399
this is like my life. You know what I'm saying,

1531
01:37:18.600 --> 01:37:20.159
my life? You know what I'm saying. My heart stops

1532
01:37:20.159 --> 01:37:22.399
for you right then and there, this is where you

1533
01:37:22.479 --> 01:37:27.399
know what? Now ah now, I'm not to do you dirty,

1534
01:37:28.119 --> 01:37:29.680
but when I do you dirty, you're gonna feel it.

1535
01:37:30.399 --> 01:37:32.079
And I'm gonna make sure you feel it. I'm like,

1536
01:37:32.159 --> 01:37:34.199
you know what, I want you to hate me after that,

1537
01:37:34.319 --> 01:37:39.039
because you know what, that's that's how I am. You know, like,

1538
01:37:39.119 --> 01:37:40.960
I want you to hate me after all? Right?

1539
01:37:41.000 --> 01:37:43.760
All right, so so so so peep, so peep, all right.

1540
01:37:44.239 --> 01:37:48.199
So we all know, so we what's this saying?

1541
01:37:54.880 --> 01:37:58.199
Wow, No, that's not true.

1542
01:37:58.920 --> 01:38:01.880
No, because no, my opinion, I don't think that's true

1543
01:38:01.880 --> 01:38:03.880
in my opinion because.

1544
01:38:03.920 --> 01:38:06.520
I mean, I mean, you know what, it's a don't

1545
01:38:06.560 --> 01:38:08.960
get me wrong, it's a it's a beautiful gesture though,

1546
01:38:10.239 --> 01:38:12.600
you know what I'm saying. It's a beautiful thing. But

1547
01:38:12.720 --> 01:38:15.600
like you know what though, like no, like you know what,

1548
01:38:15.760 --> 01:38:20.640
like see, the thing is like sometimes like we get

1549
01:38:20.640 --> 01:38:23.800
tricked into believe in the person that we've been with

1550
01:38:24.600 --> 01:38:26.920
it's who they are, but right after that baby is born,

1551
01:38:26.920 --> 01:38:28.920
it's not who they are, you know what I'm saying,

1552
01:38:28.920 --> 01:38:33.119
because all along we fell in love with their representative,

1553
01:38:33.319 --> 01:38:37.039
not THEMB right, And you know what sucks the fucking

1554
01:38:37.119 --> 01:38:41.760
representative Yo, for real, that's that.

1555
01:38:42.000 --> 01:38:44.479
That's what it is, man, it's that fucking representative.

1556
01:38:46.199 --> 01:38:49.399
So another thing, it's like, it's like, yo, you know

1557
01:38:49.479 --> 01:38:52.239
what it's like? How how you know I'm saying you

1558
01:38:52.279 --> 01:38:54.279
wantn't be like, oh, you meant a gaslighting? You know

1559
01:38:54.319 --> 01:38:56.119
what I'm saying. Gas You know what I'm saying, you

1560
01:38:56.239 --> 01:38:58.560
gas light us for this stand of third, First off,

1561
01:38:58.760 --> 01:39:01.439
you will be stroking out ease, you know what I'm saying,

1562
01:39:01.840 --> 01:39:06.800
be being who who we you know what I'm saying,

1563
01:39:07.640 --> 01:39:13.319
They're trying to be our dream women as well. So

1564
01:39:13.439 --> 01:39:17.159
it's like it goes both ways. So back to that

1565
01:39:17.319 --> 01:39:20.319
very first question, why men cheat, women cheat too, It's

1566
01:39:20.359 --> 01:39:22.439
just that, Yo, you know what, men are horrible at

1567
01:39:22.520 --> 01:39:28.520
cheating you. Women y'all the best at cheating. That's the problem.

1568
01:39:31.680 --> 01:39:35.680
You know, like like you know what you got. You

1569
01:39:35.720 --> 01:39:37.199
know what I'm saying. Women are great at cheating you

1570
01:39:37.319 --> 01:39:39.720
on the why they like, yeah, I'm going to work. Yeah,

1571
01:39:39.760 --> 01:39:44.199
she's going to work all right, m and she's putting

1572
01:39:44.199 --> 01:39:47.239
that over time too. So it was like, you know

1573
01:39:47.279 --> 01:39:51.600
what I'm saying, it's like, women are the best cheatings.

1574
01:39:51.600 --> 01:39:53.720
I mean, i mean, yo, you know what, they came

1575
01:39:53.800 --> 01:39:56.760
to the world being the best liars. They wear high heels,

1576
01:39:56.920 --> 01:39:59.199
they wear six and stilettos, they're not that tall.

1577
01:40:00.079 --> 01:40:00.880
They ate the apple.

1578
01:40:01.760 --> 01:40:04.159
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Let's not go there,

1579
01:40:04.640 --> 01:40:07.760
you know, like they go you know what I'm saying,

1580
01:40:07.760 --> 01:40:09.319
They go down to d R you know what I'm saying,

1581
01:40:09.399 --> 01:40:10.600
and come back with you know what I'm saying, with

1582
01:40:10.640 --> 01:40:12.960
a fatter ass. But that's what I'm saying. Even though

1583
01:40:12.960 --> 01:40:16.800
you pay for it that's not yours. Y'all wear contacts

1584
01:40:17.000 --> 01:40:19.520
that's not your color. Eyes got the best liars?

1585
01:40:20.680 --> 01:40:21.079
Mm hmm.

1586
01:40:21.680 --> 01:40:23.479
You know what I'm saying, y'all wear wigs that's not

1587
01:40:23.640 --> 01:40:29.880
your hair. You know what I mean? Stop, yo, Like, like,

1588
01:40:29.920 --> 01:40:31.920
you know what I'm saying. So so so at the

1589
01:40:32.000 --> 01:40:33.239
end of the day, you know what I'm saying, Like,

1590
01:40:36.119 --> 01:40:40.960
why do people cheat? Would have been a better question men? Yo?

1591
01:40:41.439 --> 01:40:43.359
You know what I'm saying, men and female because they

1592
01:40:43.399 --> 01:40:52.479
are women cheat too. Yeah, yeah, you know, like and

1593
01:40:52.640 --> 01:40:54.560
and and the thing is, and the thing is, and

1594
01:40:55.039 --> 01:40:56.640
you know I give it to women, you know, because

1595
01:40:56.640 --> 01:41:01.279
they know how to cheat. Yeah, they oh, they know

1596
01:41:01.439 --> 01:41:04.279
how to cheat. You know what they could, Yo, They

1597
01:41:04.359 --> 01:41:05.880
could be messing with a dude for a year and

1598
01:41:06.000 --> 01:41:10.159
like some dudes is too stupid to see that. You

1599
01:41:10.199 --> 01:41:13.079
know what I'm saying, Like, they know how to cheat,

1600
01:41:13.760 --> 01:41:16.840
they know they know what to say to you, they know,

1601
01:41:16.960 --> 01:41:18.479
you know what I'm saying. And then and then they

1602
01:41:18.560 --> 01:41:20.640
get their friends involved and they backed you know what

1603
01:41:20.640 --> 01:41:24.960
I'm saying, Like, Yo, you know what you know what

1604
01:41:25.159 --> 01:41:26.039
it's like?

1605
01:41:26.119 --> 01:41:30.640
Yo, This is a great question, actually, yo, Yo.

1606
01:41:30.760 --> 01:41:32.800
The whole ship is elaborate you know what I'm saying,

1607
01:41:33.079 --> 01:41:35.000
because like, Yo, you know what with their friends. You

1608
01:41:35.000 --> 01:41:36.840
know what I'm saying, It's like a pipeline. You what

1609
01:41:36.840 --> 01:41:39.119
I'm saying. They've been planning it for weeks. You know

1610
01:41:39.199 --> 01:41:42.119
what I'm saying with us. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, Yo,

1611
01:41:42.520 --> 01:41:44.520
you know what I'm saying. Be spontaneous, like yo' I'm

1612
01:41:44.520 --> 01:41:46.680
about to go out real quick. I'm move rod with

1613
01:41:46.720 --> 01:41:49.600
this nigga. You know what I'm saying. Come to find out.

1614
01:41:49.600 --> 01:41:51.880
You know what I'm saying. Girl calling this nigga. Know

1615
01:41:51.880 --> 01:41:54.079
what I'm saying, Like, we don't plan that ship out

1616
01:41:54.119 --> 01:41:57.079
like that. We just say what we're gonna do, because

1617
01:41:57.119 --> 01:41:58.600
you know what, you know what I'm saying. We listened

1618
01:41:58.600 --> 01:42:04.840
to the top. How do you know when you can

1619
01:42:04.880 --> 01:42:07.319
truly trust your partner done? That's something you feel inside?

1620
01:42:07.800 --> 01:42:11.439
Yeah, that's what it is. That's why I think. That's

1621
01:42:11.479 --> 01:42:14.880
what I'm saying. Communication and understanding will fix all that ship.

1622
01:42:15.520 --> 01:42:18.000
Like like like like, look, you know what if you

1623
01:42:18.199 --> 01:42:19.239
you know you know what? If you you know what

1624
01:42:19.239 --> 01:42:21.560
I'm saying, if you met you know what I'm saying.

1625
01:42:21.600 --> 01:42:23.439
Let's say you meet a person, right and you vibbing

1626
01:42:23.520 --> 01:42:25.960
with them, like and the vibe is like you know

1627
01:42:25.960 --> 01:42:28.319
what I'm saying, Like you could talk for hours, Yeah,

1628
01:42:28.800 --> 01:42:31.439
I was on end, you know what I'm saying. And

1629
01:42:31.560 --> 01:42:35.239
then like you know what I'm saying, like you start

1630
01:42:35.279 --> 01:42:38.840
having like intellectual conversations or whatever with me. That's what

1631
01:42:38.960 --> 01:42:40.439
you know. What I'm saying breaks the ice right there,

1632
01:42:40.479 --> 01:42:42.600
because you know what, I really want to see where

1633
01:42:42.600 --> 01:42:45.439
your mind is at, you know, like if anything, I'm

1634
01:42:45.439 --> 01:42:47.319
a sappy or sexual first, like I learned to be

1635
01:42:47.319 --> 01:42:50.119
a sapi or sexual first before you know, you know,

1636
01:42:50.279 --> 01:42:53.439
like anything else. So I want to know where your

1637
01:42:53.520 --> 01:42:57.439
mind is at, you know, and I'll treat you accordingly

1638
01:42:57.479 --> 01:43:01.439
from there. If you're coming at me, you talking about yeah,

1639
01:43:01.560 --> 01:43:03.479
that's what you know what I'm saying, like like talking

1640
01:43:03.520 --> 01:43:05.239
about yeah, just come over my house, you know, like

1641
01:43:05.800 --> 01:43:07.439
on some same day ship and all you want to

1642
01:43:07.439 --> 01:43:09.159
do is fun, and I treat you like how you

1643
01:43:09.199 --> 01:43:12.960
want to be treated. You know what I'm saying, becausepress

1644
01:43:12.960 --> 01:43:16.600
impressions of everything, you know, Like if I could vibe now,

1645
01:43:18.039 --> 01:43:19.319
if I could vib you know what I'm saying that,

1646
01:43:19.680 --> 01:43:21.319
Let's just say, you know, you know what I'm saying.

1647
01:43:21.319 --> 01:43:23.439
I'm a better person, right, and I'm bobbing with them

1648
01:43:23.439 --> 01:43:25.359
all day and like you know everything, and then we

1649
01:43:25.439 --> 01:43:27.680
can up going back to my place and ship just happened.

1650
01:43:28.039 --> 01:43:29.159
You know what I'm saying. I'm not going to hold

1651
01:43:29.199 --> 01:43:35.319
that against against nobody because, first off, a second that secondly,

1652
01:43:35.600 --> 01:43:39.720
look at me. You know what I'm saying. Wowa what

1653
01:43:40.119 --> 01:43:44.039
yo yo? Look at me? Bro nobody looking at you're

1654
01:43:44.079 --> 01:43:48.520
looking at yeah, because I'm gonna understlose location right now,

1655
01:43:48.920 --> 01:43:50.479
you know what I mean. But other than that, I mean,

1656
01:43:50.560 --> 01:43:52.119
you know, just look at me me, you know what

1657
01:43:52.119 --> 01:44:03.399
I mean. Grandmother's get wet over me. Swish swish popcorn

1658
01:44:03.960 --> 01:44:10.960
popcorn player now. But like but like, but like seriously though,

1659
01:44:11.079 --> 01:44:13.079
like like you know what if I could vibe with

1660
01:44:13.199 --> 01:44:16.000
you on anything and we can have like deep intellectual

1661
01:44:16.039 --> 01:44:18.199
conversations because you know what, as much as that joke

1662
01:44:18.239 --> 01:44:20.800
around or whatever. Oh another thing too, you have to

1663
01:44:20.880 --> 01:44:23.800
understand my sense of humor, right, you know what I'm saying,

1664
01:44:24.239 --> 01:44:25.720
because you know what I'm saying, Like, if you don't

1665
01:44:25.720 --> 01:44:27.560
get myself to human, then I can't fuck with you

1666
01:44:28.000 --> 01:44:30.279
at all. You know what I'm saying. I can just

1667
01:44:30.399 --> 01:44:41.479
keep you as a friend, period, yeah, you know, like

1668
01:44:42.119 --> 01:44:46.720
like you know, like like you know what, I also

1669
01:44:46.800 --> 01:44:48.439
need to know like where your head is at as well,

1670
01:44:48.880 --> 01:44:50.279
you know what I'm saying. Like but like like you

1671
01:44:50.279 --> 01:44:52.880
know what I'm saying, where you see yourself going? Right?

1672
01:44:53.039 --> 01:44:57.279
Absolutely? I think I think that's important also having goals,

1673
01:44:58.000 --> 01:45:03.479
being able to the vibe with someone who has similar interest.

1674
01:45:03.479 --> 01:45:06.039
I think, no, the vibe, you know, the vibe is

1675
01:45:06.079 --> 01:45:08.760
the is the main one. And that's what I realized

1676
01:45:08.800 --> 01:45:11.600
because like because like you know what, there's you know,

1677
01:45:11.640 --> 01:45:13.760
there's a lot of women that have got with I

1678
01:45:13.800 --> 01:45:15.439
didn't a vibe with them, but they had a fat

1679
01:45:15.479 --> 01:45:17.279
ass and they look good. So I was like, yo,

1680
01:45:17.319 --> 01:45:20.560
you know what, cosmetically you look good around my arm.

1681
01:45:20.640 --> 01:45:23.479
So yeah, let's hook up. You see what I mean.

1682
01:45:23.680 --> 01:45:26.239
But I mean, where did that get you?

1683
01:45:31.279 --> 01:45:34.399
Well, I can say I hit it. You know what

1684
01:45:34.439 --> 01:45:38.039
I'm saying, like other than that, other than that, but

1685
01:45:38.560 --> 01:45:40.520
then again, you know what, but then again, you know

1686
01:45:40.560 --> 01:45:43.560
what I'm saying, like like you know, I'll look at

1687
01:45:43.600 --> 01:45:46.319
that like, yo, you know what, Yeah that was my girl.

1688
01:45:46.359 --> 01:45:47.199
It's just my turn.

1689
01:45:48.640 --> 01:45:49.359
Oh my god.

1690
01:45:50.439 --> 01:45:56.520
But it's the truth, bro, And every yo, you know what,

1691
01:45:56.640 --> 01:46:00.159
in every relationship, whether whether you're woman looking at the like,

1692
01:46:00.199 --> 01:46:02.039
yeah that's my ex. No, that's not your X. We

1693
01:46:02.119 --> 01:46:05.319
are that was just your turn. It applies both ways,

1694
01:46:06.239 --> 01:46:09.000
you know what I'm saying. It applies both ways. And

1695
01:46:09.079 --> 01:46:11.239
the thing is, you know what I'm saying, like like

1696
01:46:11.359 --> 01:46:13.000
with men, you know what I'm saying, like we're just

1697
01:46:13.800 --> 01:46:16.560
well fuck anything like Yo, you know what I'm saying.

1698
01:46:16.640 --> 01:46:18.880
You better, you better? You better correct that?

1699
01:46:19.760 --> 01:46:22.159
No, bro, I said men in general, Like you know

1700
01:46:22.199 --> 01:46:25.640
what I'm saying, Like us men, we will funk anything.

1701
01:46:25.720 --> 01:46:30.279
Like you've been on the boardwalk lately? No, I have you?

1702
01:46:30.760 --> 01:46:33.520
Have you seen the beast that's been walking the boardwalk? Bro?

1703
01:46:35.800 --> 01:46:36.680
All you know what I'm saying.

1704
01:46:37.239 --> 01:46:37.800
How you up?

1705
01:46:38.760 --> 01:46:44.800
You know what it's like. It's like, Yo, I heard

1706
01:46:44.840 --> 01:46:46.520
a rhino broke out the zoo, but I didn't think

1707
01:46:46.560 --> 01:46:51.000
it was walking the boardwalk, you know. I mean like

1708
01:46:51.359 --> 01:46:55.920
like yo, like it. It's That's what I'm saying. Your

1709
01:46:55.960 --> 01:47:02.840
niggas a fuck anything. I remember being a seaside a

1710
01:47:02.880 --> 01:47:07.359
couple of years ago with my son, and it was

1711
01:47:07.399 --> 01:47:12.439
a skinny dude right like from far and the cops

1712
01:47:12.520 --> 01:47:14.039
and you know, the cops caught him on the beach.

1713
01:47:15.560 --> 01:47:17.920
He was banging out like this eight hundred she must

1714
01:47:17.920 --> 01:47:21.039
have been eight hundred pounds or something. Bro, But like

1715
01:47:21.119 --> 01:47:22.920
he was like, you know what I'm saying, ramm and

1716
01:47:23.000 --> 01:47:28.239
pine and ship? What that? Duse? Are fun? Anything? That's

1717
01:47:28.239 --> 01:47:31.239
what I'm trying to tell you. You know what I'm saying,

1718
01:47:31.880 --> 01:47:34.720
like yo, anything. What I'm trying to say is this,

1719
01:47:34.840 --> 01:47:36.239
Like you know what I'm saying, Like that's what you

1720
01:47:36.279 --> 01:47:38.039
know what I'm saying. That's what makes you know what

1721
01:47:38.039 --> 01:47:40.039
I'm saying that. That's what made that question so easy?

1722
01:47:40.079 --> 01:47:44.439
Why men cheat? Like I understand the question now you

1723
01:47:44.479 --> 01:47:47.479
see what I mean because the person who wrote that

1724
01:47:48.399 --> 01:47:50.840
must have saw some ship and was like are you

1725
01:47:50.960 --> 01:47:59.399
kidding me? Yes? But that's why that's why, like men

1726
01:47:59.520 --> 01:48:12.760
practice the reality too, because that's what I witnessed. Yeah,

1727
01:48:12.880 --> 01:48:14.119
she's one of the will of a vibe.

1728
01:48:14.279 --> 01:48:22.199
I get it, move and all along you stupid son.

1729
01:48:23.399 --> 01:48:28.079
But but but nah, bro, like like yo, you know

1730
01:48:28.159 --> 01:48:32.640
what like yo? Like like dudes, wo, just say anything

1731
01:48:32.760 --> 01:48:34.880
just to smash Like that's what I'm trying to say.

1732
01:48:36.800 --> 01:48:38.760
I mean, you know what I'm saying, like like, well,

1733
01:48:38.840 --> 01:48:42.640
you know what I mean? Think about it all right?

1734
01:48:42.720 --> 01:48:49.439
Storytime real quick. So Seaside late nineties. I don't think

1735
01:48:49.439 --> 01:48:54.680
you were there though, were you keep going with the story,

1736
01:48:54.720 --> 01:48:57.720
y'ah it was a j George Meadow.

1737
01:48:58.720 --> 01:49:00.600
Noah, I wasn't all right.

1738
01:49:01.079 --> 01:49:06.239
So we need some chicks on the boardwalk. One of

1739
01:49:06.239 --> 01:49:07.720
the you know what I'm saying, one of the girls,

1740
01:49:07.800 --> 01:49:10.800
like you know, she had she looked good, but like

1741
01:49:11.640 --> 01:49:14.039
her face looked like one of those like Greek statues

1742
01:49:16.079 --> 01:49:19.520
because she had a big ada all right, Her face

1743
01:49:19.560 --> 01:49:20.960
looked you know what I'm saying, Her face looked like

1744
01:49:21.039 --> 01:49:27.319
her face looked strong, like it was on pds right, oh, steroids. Yeah,

1745
01:49:27.439 --> 01:49:29.920
like you know, like like you know, like she had

1746
01:49:29.960 --> 01:49:32.359
like one of those masculine jawlines, and that shit kind

1747
01:49:32.399 --> 01:49:33.000
of fucked me up.

1748
01:49:33.520 --> 01:49:33.840
Mm hm.

1749
01:49:36.039 --> 01:49:39.880
So you know Jay and Thember like yo, you know,

1750
01:49:40.000 --> 01:49:43.079
like you know, like they're doing it things and you know,

1751
01:49:43.199 --> 01:49:44.600
you know, like I fell back trying to see, like

1752
01:49:44.680 --> 01:49:47.000
you know, who was doing who's going to hook up with?

1753
01:49:47.279 --> 01:49:49.199
You know how I DoD spectator at first, and then

1754
01:49:49.239 --> 01:49:52.279
you know what I'm saying, like moving when I move in.

1755
01:49:53.800 --> 01:49:59.079
So the the person that you know wanted to hook

1756
01:49:59.159 --> 01:50:03.560
up with me, right, also was the one driver, right,

1757
01:50:04.399 --> 01:50:09.520
I didn't find her attractive at all. All of a

1758
01:50:09.560 --> 01:50:11.960
sudden team huddle.

1759
01:50:13.880 --> 01:50:15.479
Who's taking one for the team, right?

1760
01:50:15.960 --> 01:50:19.680
And you knew, no, it's not who's taking one for

1761
01:50:19.760 --> 01:50:21.239
the team? Yo, we need you to take one for

1762
01:50:21.319 --> 01:50:24.760
the team. I'm like, I'm like, fuck, you know, bro,

1763
01:50:24.880 --> 01:50:29.960
got standards be And then they bribe me with weed, ecstasy,

1764
01:50:30.079 --> 01:50:35.079
and a bottle hennessy. I couldn't say no, I took

1765
01:50:35.119 --> 01:50:40.640
one for the team, See what I mean? You know

1766
01:50:40.720 --> 01:50:42.880
what I'm saying, Like like, yo, you know what, but

1767
01:50:43.039 --> 01:50:47.239
like that's what I'm saying, Yo, dude, for anything, because

1768
01:50:47.279 --> 01:50:49.479
I'm one of them. You know what I'm saying. If

1769
01:50:49.880 --> 01:50:51.319
you know what I'm saying, I was one of them

1770
01:50:51.359 --> 01:50:56.720
if the price was right, you know what I'm saying.

1771
01:50:56.760 --> 01:50:59.359
So so basically I sound like a prostitute. And I

1772
01:50:59.399 --> 01:51:02.840
saw about that. I sold myself for for ecstasy, pills,

1773
01:51:03.279 --> 01:51:06.720
weed and a kindnessy just so just so we all

1774
01:51:06.760 --> 01:51:11.600
can like have fun. I'm such a whore. Oh my god, bro, yo,

1775
01:51:11.720 --> 01:51:23.520
I just realized a prostitute of myself. I'm scarred. Yeah no,

1776
01:51:23.640 --> 01:51:28.439
I'm saying that way, Hold up, bro, I'm serious, Like, yo,

1777
01:51:28.560 --> 01:51:33.399
I really sold myself for that. Damn you know what

1778
01:51:33.399 --> 01:51:35.079
I'm saying, I might as well just wrun now and

1779
01:51:35.199 --> 01:51:37.159
just you know what I'm saying, be like yo, Starbucks coffee,

1780
01:51:37.279 --> 01:51:42.800
coffee would have done great? The fuck damn y'all, I

1781
01:51:42.920 --> 01:51:46.000
know Yo, no type of dignity of the corner on

1782
01:51:46.079 --> 01:51:52.560
that part. Damn damn.

1783
01:51:52.880 --> 01:51:56.439
Yeah you damn you're right. But that happened.

1784
01:51:56.479 --> 01:51:58.479
But but yo, you know what, that was the past.

1785
01:51:58.560 --> 01:52:00.560
You know what I'm saying, I saw myself a little

1786
01:52:00.560 --> 01:52:08.560
bit more gas pump one, thank you, I'm yeah. But

1787
01:52:09.199 --> 01:52:19.119
but but but like yo, you know what, but Yo,

1788
01:52:19.239 --> 01:52:23.359
you're right, she probably did. You know what I'm saying,

1789
01:52:23.439 --> 01:52:30.000
She probably did. You know what I'm saying, Like, but

1790
01:52:30.119 --> 01:52:39.319
you know what, I'm a man, hear me. Row yeah yeah, yeah, shit, Yo,

1791
01:52:40.279 --> 01:52:43.760
the alpha the most alpha alpha ist graw.

1792
01:52:45.359 --> 01:52:48.880
It's crazy, it's crazy. So if so, the bottom line

1793
01:52:48.920 --> 01:52:52.520
of this is the moral of the story is, if

1794
01:52:52.600 --> 01:52:55.720
you don't want your man or woman to cheat, you

1795
01:52:55.880 --> 01:53:00.239
have to communicate and understand one another properly. You have

1796
01:53:00.359 --> 01:53:03.439
to understand the needs and the wants and the desires

1797
01:53:04.640 --> 01:53:07.560
of your your your your other. You have to be

1798
01:53:07.680 --> 01:53:13.520
able to tell each other everything and anything with transparency.

1799
01:53:14.680 --> 01:53:18.000
You know what, I'm saying, be real, be honest, you

1800
01:53:18.039 --> 01:53:18.880
know what I'm saying, And.

1801
01:53:19.079 --> 01:53:24.199
And and just first and foremost, be truth to yourself,

1802
01:53:24.560 --> 01:53:25.279
Like you know what I'm saying.

1803
01:53:25.279 --> 01:53:26.800
You gotta be. I mean, look, if there's no if

1804
01:53:26.800 --> 01:53:30.279
there's to you, then there's no truth period.

1805
01:53:31.000 --> 01:53:32.760
Like yo, you know what, you got to keep it

1806
01:53:32.840 --> 01:53:36.159
real and and stop keeping it barely realistic. You know

1807
01:53:36.199 --> 01:53:36.600
what I'm saying.

1808
01:53:37.760 --> 01:53:42.279
Absolutely so so so it's like, yo, you know what.

1809
01:53:45.119 --> 01:53:47.479
It's like. You know what, Well, my girl steps out,

1810
01:53:47.520 --> 01:53:51.199
I give her money, like please leave. What I'm saying,

1811
01:53:51.239 --> 01:53:53.560
it's not that I'm kicking her out, it's because, yo,

1812
01:53:53.680 --> 01:53:57.079
you know what, I'm kicking you the funk out. You

1813
01:53:57.119 --> 01:53:59.239
know what I'm saying. That's me communicating here, I love you.

1814
01:53:59.319 --> 01:54:01.199
Get the fun out my face, you know what I'm saying.

1815
01:54:01.279 --> 01:54:04.119
Like it goes both ways, like like you know what,

1816
01:54:04.239 --> 01:54:05.760
I can't wait to kick her out on the Sunday,

1817
01:54:06.199 --> 01:54:09.359
I'm going to my mom's house by football time.

1818
01:54:09.800 --> 01:54:14.520
Yes, yeah, now, I hope the weather holes man, I hope.

1819
01:54:14.800 --> 01:54:17.279
I really want to go to this game. I'm just

1820
01:54:18.199 --> 01:54:20.760
I'm just not beefing a fucking poncho or a light

1821
01:54:21.039 --> 01:54:24.000
hoodie or whatever. It's gonna be like eighty breeze that

1822
01:54:24.159 --> 01:54:26.079
man anyway.

1823
01:54:25.760 --> 01:54:29.840
Anywhere, no way, it's gonna be seventy three degrees. You know,

1824
01:54:30.640 --> 01:54:33.520
you know, you know ray you know, rain cools things down.

1825
01:54:34.800 --> 01:54:39.840
Yeah, I know, so, well, well we'll see you. But anyway, yo, communication.

1826
01:54:41.880 --> 01:54:44.239
Commune, they can shine.

1827
01:54:44.359 --> 01:54:50.000
Communication, understanding, talking, verbalizing, and.

1828
01:54:50.079 --> 01:54:55.399
Lower your expectations too. But that don't fully don't don't don't,

1829
01:54:55.399 --> 01:54:59.640
don't fully lower your expectations, but like, have realistic expectations, don't.

1830
01:55:00.680 --> 01:55:04.279
Yeah, don't over hype everything, yo, you know you know.

1831
01:55:04.279 --> 01:55:05.720
What I mean? Like, like, yo, look, you know what

1832
01:55:06.399 --> 01:55:09.720
if you're training it. If you're a mountain climber, right,

1833
01:55:10.479 --> 01:55:12.760
and the only mountains you ever climbed was that was

1834
01:55:12.840 --> 01:55:16.079
one of the Appalachian mountains and you did it one time.

1835
01:55:18.399 --> 01:55:21.520
Don't think for a minute that you can go conquer

1836
01:55:21.560 --> 01:55:24.159
Mount Everest. You know what I'm saying, You gotta work

1837
01:55:24.319 --> 01:55:25.880
You know what I'm saying, You gotta work on that.

1838
01:55:26.479 --> 01:55:29.800
You know what I'm saying, Fine, climb the climb the

1839
01:55:29.840 --> 01:55:32.239
appellations first, then you know what I'm saying, do it

1840
01:55:32.279 --> 01:55:34.079
for like you know what I'm saying, a year or two,

1841
01:55:34.760 --> 01:55:36.920
then go conquer you know what I'm saying. The rocky

1842
01:55:37.000 --> 01:55:40.640
mountains do that for a year or two and then

1843
01:55:41.840 --> 01:55:43.520
you can go try a mount ever, so you want

1844
01:55:44.720 --> 01:55:52.920
you see what I mean? Yo, I was watching I

1845
01:55:53.039 --> 01:55:55.760
was watching on what's you call it a documentary or

1846
01:55:55.760 --> 01:55:57.439
a mount ever, it's not that I thought about it, right,

1847
01:55:58.760 --> 01:56:02.199
And like, do you know how many dead bodies are

1848
01:56:02.239 --> 01:56:05.079
on the top of that summit? Yeah? Like you know what?

1849
01:56:05.199 --> 01:56:06.880
They like, you know what, they don't take them down?

1850
01:56:07.680 --> 01:56:08.760
No, they don't. They can't.

1851
01:56:08.880 --> 01:56:12.319
That's crazy, yo, know they could get to them? Is

1852
01:56:12.399 --> 01:56:14.720
that the dangerous parts is like you know what I'm saying,

1853
01:56:14.720 --> 01:56:17.600
there's so much crevices and ship like trying to take

1854
01:56:17.640 --> 01:56:20.800
them back down and like that, and like, yo, that's

1855
01:56:20.880 --> 01:56:21.920
like you know what I'm saying, Like I don't want

1856
01:56:21.920 --> 01:56:23.119
to do on top of you know what I'm saying

1857
01:56:23.159 --> 01:56:27.520
on top of that ship? Nah? Bro? Nah? But like yeah,

1858
01:56:27.600 --> 01:56:29.560
you know what, communication is always the key man, like

1859
01:56:30.680 --> 01:56:33.359
like you know, like you know what, like you know what,

1860
01:56:33.520 --> 01:56:35.159
you know, ship is real when you could just look

1861
01:56:35.199 --> 01:56:38.479
at someone and communicate with them with your eyes and

1862
01:56:38.720 --> 01:56:40.159
you know what I'm saying, they but like uh huh,

1863
01:56:40.319 --> 01:56:42.640
you know what I'm saying and then like you're doing that,

1864
01:56:42.760 --> 01:56:46.399
I think like uh huh uh huh got mm hmmm,

1865
01:56:47.159 --> 01:56:49.880
you know what I'm saying, Like that's like, that's how

1866
01:56:49.880 --> 01:56:52.119
you know that ship is real, Like when you communicate

1867
01:56:52.199 --> 01:56:53.000
with them with your.

1868
01:56:52.960 --> 01:56:55.479
Eyes and you can when you can exactly when you

1869
01:56:55.479 --> 01:56:57.039
ain't got to say ship like you look at your

1870
01:56:57.119 --> 01:57:00.079
lady like, yo, you know you got that look on

1871
01:57:00.159 --> 01:57:01.680
your face. She's like, I know what my man is

1872
01:57:01.720 --> 01:57:03.920
talking about. Hell yeah, you know what I mean.

1873
01:57:03.960 --> 01:57:05.800
Like, bitch, if your brother pot roast, you know what

1874
01:57:05.800 --> 01:57:07.640
I'm saying. I was smacking with the Infinity Gauntlet.

1875
01:57:08.319 --> 01:57:10.159
You know it's great. Look, look you know what's crazy

1876
01:57:10.279 --> 01:57:14.399
to that movie three hundred. Let's let's use that as

1877
01:57:14.399 --> 01:57:15.640
an example. Three hundred.

1878
01:57:15.720 --> 01:57:17.399
The communication, right, you know what I'm.

1879
01:57:17.239 --> 01:57:20.520
Saying, right right before he kicked that dude.

1880
01:57:20.680 --> 01:57:23.600
But if you notice, but if you notice how he

1881
01:57:23.760 --> 01:57:26.960
gave her the power for that, right like she like, yo,

1882
01:57:27.159 --> 01:57:28.600
a lot of people don't looked at her.

1883
01:57:28.680 --> 01:57:32.039
He looked at his lady and she gave him a nod,

1884
01:57:32.159 --> 01:57:35.439
and he knew that she was gonna ride withever whatever

1885
01:57:35.560 --> 01:57:38.159
decision he decided to run with. At that moment in time,

1886
01:57:38.840 --> 01:57:42.840
she she wasn't in control. She just for that moment.

1887
01:57:43.800 --> 01:57:46.560
But for that moment, But for that moment, she had

1888
01:57:46.600 --> 01:57:48.960
controlled because you know what, she could easily said, you

1889
01:57:49.000 --> 01:57:50.119
know what I'm saying, She could easily you know what

1890
01:57:50.119 --> 01:57:52.199
I'm saying, but like, no, don't do it. And he

1891
01:57:52.199 --> 01:57:54.039
would have let him, and he would have let him live.

1892
01:57:55.600 --> 01:57:56.159
Think about that.

1893
01:57:56.600 --> 01:57:58.680
It's not it's not. It wasn't about control. It was

1894
01:57:58.760 --> 01:58:04.000
about understanding what the kind of of of that decision situation,

1895
01:58:04.159 --> 01:58:07.039
whether or not whether or not he did or didn't

1896
01:58:07.079 --> 01:58:07.279
do it.

1897
01:58:08.079 --> 01:58:09.960
True, true, true, But yo, you know what the over

1898
01:58:10.079 --> 01:58:15.000
like like on a deeper spectrum though, like he relinquish

1899
01:58:15.039 --> 01:58:16.640
that control when he gave her a look like, yo,

1900
01:58:16.680 --> 01:58:18.760
you know what I'm gonna do it? You know what

1901
01:58:18.800 --> 01:58:20.319
I'm saying, Should I do it? You know what I'm saying,

1902
01:58:20.479 --> 01:58:24.000
Like like, you know what what I ain't gonna say,

1903
01:58:24.039 --> 01:58:28.199
relinquist the control. I would say that at a time where, like,

1904
01:58:28.199 --> 01:58:30.800
you know what I'm saying, women were just women and

1905
01:58:30.920 --> 01:58:34.920
they didn't have that even playing field. He gave her

1906
01:58:35.000 --> 01:58:37.520
that even playing field. You know what I'm saying.

1907
01:58:38.359 --> 01:58:43.399
That's that's when you know, That's when you know, bro,

1908
01:58:43.800 --> 01:58:47.680
your lady got you be. That's when, by the way,

1909
01:58:47.920 --> 01:58:51.439
she she's a row to die because you you look

1910
01:58:51.479 --> 01:58:53.640
at your lady, you know what I'm saying. And if

1911
01:58:55.399 --> 01:58:58.880
if you can look at her, you know what I'm saying,

1912
01:58:59.159 --> 01:59:02.279
and she can look at you and be like, I'm

1913
01:59:02.319 --> 01:59:04.399
a ride with you. Whatever it is you decide you're

1914
01:59:04.439 --> 01:59:06.960
gonna do, We're gonna do it together. You know what

1915
01:59:06.960 --> 01:59:10.199
I'm saying. That's the that's that's the ultimate ship right there.

1916
01:59:10.239 --> 01:59:12.199
Yeah, but you know what the ultimate ship is this

1917
01:59:12.399 --> 01:59:15.880
too when she says no and she gives you the

1918
01:59:15.920 --> 01:59:19.439
reasons why you don't understand from that moment because you

1919
01:59:19.439 --> 01:59:21.520
know what I'm saying, Like, like, let me give you

1920
01:59:21.520 --> 01:59:29.119
an example. So you know, some some niggles tell their

1921
01:59:29.119 --> 01:59:31.039
shit online, right, Some dudes tell their sh it online

1922
01:59:31.119 --> 01:59:33.279
or whatever. And I looked up his name and come

1923
01:59:33.319 --> 01:59:39.479
to find out he's a local dude, right, And I

1924
01:59:39.560 --> 01:59:41.479
was like, Yo, you know what, when I see you,

1925
01:59:41.840 --> 01:59:43.520
it's when I see you. You know what I'm saying.

1926
01:59:45.159 --> 01:59:47.000
You're talking all this ship to all these out of

1927
01:59:47.039 --> 01:59:50.680
state dudes, because you know what, nobody knows where you live.

1928
01:59:51.279 --> 01:59:53.800
I know where you live. I know people who know you.

1929
01:59:54.880 --> 01:59:56.920
So what I see is when I see you period

1930
01:59:59.520 --> 02:00:03.840
and m hm. You know my lady was like, you

1931
02:00:03.920 --> 02:00:05.960
didn't want to do that? You know what I'm saying, Like,

1932
02:00:07.079 --> 02:00:09.920
it's not that serious. I'm like, no, it's you know

1933
02:00:09.960 --> 02:00:14.560
what I'm saying. That's something she's like, see men in

1934
02:00:14.640 --> 02:00:16.600
your pride. When she said men in your pride, I

1935
02:00:16.640 --> 02:00:18.479
had to really think about that. Ship. I'm like, my

1936
02:00:18.640 --> 02:00:23.039
pride made me think I had Like, yo, I couldn't.

1937
02:00:23.119 --> 02:00:25.920
I had no answer for that because yo, it was

1938
02:00:26.039 --> 02:00:30.279
my pride. You know what I'm saying, Like, I really

1939
02:00:30.319 --> 02:00:33.720
didn't have an answer for that. So it's also go

1940
02:00:33.800 --> 02:00:35.239
when they say no too, because like you know what

1941
02:00:35.239 --> 02:00:37.880
I'm saying, they have Like that's that's when you know,

1942
02:00:38.560 --> 02:00:42.600
you know what I'm saying that the person actually knows

1943
02:00:42.640 --> 02:00:48.800
who you are, right absolutely, you know, because like because

1944
02:00:48.840 --> 02:00:51.840
like you know, what for her to for her to

1945
02:00:52.199 --> 02:00:54.359
come on her face and say, yo, your pride. I

1946
02:00:54.479 --> 02:00:57.039
was like, yeah, right, and then I then I shut

1947
02:00:57.119 --> 02:00:58.920
Then I shut the fuck up real quick, and I

1948
02:00:59.039 --> 02:01:02.800
was like, oh, ship is my priory? You know what

1949
02:01:02.840 --> 02:01:12.000
I'm saying, Like, yeah, she's right, right, So one of

1950
02:01:12.039 --> 02:01:14.399
the few one of the few times she's right because

1951
02:01:14.399 --> 02:01:17.000
you know what, the only time I've been wrong is

1952
02:01:17.039 --> 02:01:20.520
when I thought I was wrong. And the thought of that,

1953
02:01:21.399 --> 02:01:23.119
at the thought of that, it's just, you know what

1954
02:01:23.119 --> 02:01:31.760
I'm saying, horrifying. Oh man, you know see the problem

1955
02:01:31.880 --> 02:01:35.520
is with women, they talk about equal rights until they

1956
02:01:35.560 --> 02:01:38.439
get smacked through the equal lefts oooh yeah.

1957
02:01:38.520 --> 02:01:44.119
And I was playing, oh man, all right, all right,

1958
02:01:44.319 --> 02:01:47.319
well that's what's up?

1959
02:01:48.920 --> 02:01:51.680
You got a chest. The comments were busy is out today?

1960
02:01:51.760 --> 02:01:54.319
Huh oh yeah, that's how That's how I like it.

1961
02:01:55.520 --> 02:01:56.560
That's what's up. That's what's up.

1962
02:01:58.520 --> 02:02:00.640
And we had a lot a lot of the night.

1963
02:02:01.479 --> 02:02:06.680
Well two hours, two minutes, four seconds, five seconds. I

1964
02:02:06.760 --> 02:02:09.600
think that's that's a pretty damn good show. I say,

1965
02:02:10.479 --> 02:02:11.479
oh yeah, for the two of us.

1966
02:02:11.560 --> 02:02:18.239
Yeah, man, hey, look you know what football is coming.

1967
02:02:20.359 --> 02:02:23.800
I'm just I'm just so thankful football's here. Man. Yeah,

1968
02:02:26.319 --> 02:02:30.640
we can talk shit about fantasy football and I start

1969
02:02:30.680 --> 02:02:32.359
looking at my rosters. Bro, you know what I'm saying,

1970
02:02:32.359 --> 02:02:34.039
But like, yo, you know what, my daughter takes most

1971
02:02:34.079 --> 02:02:37.039
of my time. Like you know what, if you know

1972
02:02:37.079 --> 02:02:38.760
what I'm saying, like if people if people trying to

1973
02:02:38.760 --> 02:02:41.840
send me trades, I don't look, you know what I'm saying,

1974
02:02:41.840 --> 02:02:43.520
I don't. I barely you know what I'm saying, I'm

1975
02:02:43.560 --> 02:02:47.800
barely on my phone, bro, because now now this little

1976
02:02:47.840 --> 02:02:51.000
girl's moving and ship I'm catching up from falling, you

1977
02:02:51.039 --> 02:02:53.920
know what I'm saying, Like I'm cooking up, I'm doing

1978
02:02:53.960 --> 02:02:57.760
I'm always doing something, always all right.

1979
02:02:57.800 --> 02:02:59.520
So I'm gonna say a couple of things real quick.

1980
02:02:59.640 --> 02:03:01.359
You want to say anything before we go, But I

1981
02:03:01.439 --> 02:03:02.680
got a couple of things I want to say.

1982
02:03:04.119 --> 02:03:06.520
Man, drink towards State Hydrate. We live in Jersey. Man,

1983
02:03:07.239 --> 02:03:09.439
it's gonna be a wet weekend. But you know what

1984
02:03:09.439 --> 02:03:12.079
I'm saying, Yo, you know what that'd be, Miss Dallas

1985
02:03:12.199 --> 02:03:13.000
was won't get us wet?

1986
02:03:14.319 --> 02:03:20.279
Yep, So real quick. But everybody who's listening still here,

1987
02:03:21.119 --> 02:03:25.199
who's gonna be listening later at the upload to the

1988
02:03:25.319 --> 02:03:30.039
upload when it hits the other platforms. We're having a giveaway.

1989
02:03:31.239 --> 02:03:38.760
Gotta this might hurt podcast t shirt anybody wanted. All

1990
02:03:38.800 --> 02:03:43.840
you gotta do is shoot us a message.

1991
02:03:44.600 --> 02:03:46.760
Shoot a message. Don't shoot us when you see us

1992
02:03:46.760 --> 02:03:47.279
in the streets.

1993
02:03:47.319 --> 02:03:52.119
You know what I'm saying, Shoot a message, gunshot nothing

1994
02:03:52.199 --> 02:03:52.399
like that.

1995
02:03:52.600 --> 02:03:54.560
No, no, no, no, no, no.

1996
02:03:54.720 --> 02:03:57.319
You know so you know what I'm saying, hit us up.

1997
02:03:58.520 --> 02:04:00.840
You can hit us up on Facebook, hit us up

1998
02:04:00.880 --> 02:04:04.720
on YouTube, Twitter, Twitch, whatever it is. Wherever you're following us,

1999
02:04:05.359 --> 02:04:10.359
hit us up, and well we'll get it. We'll get

2000
02:04:10.399 --> 02:04:12.800
a shirt out to you. You know what I'm saying,

2001
02:04:13.199 --> 02:04:16.680
and you know what I'm saying. You can represent. We

2002
02:04:16.800 --> 02:04:18.199
want to, we want to help, want to when we

2003
02:04:18.279 --> 02:04:20.479
want to get back to our fans for being fans.

2004
02:04:20.560 --> 02:04:22.319
You know what I'm saying, and all that.

2005
02:04:22.399 --> 02:04:22.880
Good ship.

2006
02:04:23.720 --> 02:04:31.199
So thanks for being here tonight. Thank you everybody for

2007
02:04:31.800 --> 02:04:34.279
for being here chilling with us, talking with us, kind

2008
02:04:34.279 --> 02:04:35.640
of saying what is this is? How we like it?

2009
02:04:37.239 --> 02:04:44.000
Always yep, and always please always remember that at some point.

2010
02:04:44.720 --> 02:04:47.000
Yeah, that's my hurt. The truth is always gonna hurt.

2011
02:04:47.199 --> 02:04:48.439
The truth is, the truth is.

2012
02:04:48.439 --> 02:04:50.800
Always gonna hurt. That is actually true. It is true.

2013
02:04:51.359 --> 02:04:55.319
But at some point this might hurt. People. We'll see you,

2014
02:04:55.399 --> 02:05:03.800
We'll see you again real soon later Adios, I don't

2015
02:05:03.840 --> 02:05:09.199
want to go to work. Yong okio, drive my hand.

2016
02:05:11.880 --> 02:05:13.680
Good night people, later, good night